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James Geyer Obituary
James G. Geyer worked as a bond broker at Cantor Fitzgerald and for a catering company on weekends. But his true calling was as a friend, a father and a coach in Rockville Centre, on Long Island, where he and his wife, Cathy, grew up and settled.
A natural athlete — he played baseball and basketball as a child and lacrosse and football in college — Mr. Geyer, 41, took up soccer so he could coach the teams of his three children: Michelle, 13, Matthew, 11, and Laura, 7.
He had a knack for calming over-excited parents and made a point to include all children in the game, not just the most talented players. "There were always soccer books in his car," said his mother, Jo Ann Geyer. "He studied up on the game and learned to love it."
A few months ago, Mr. Geyer's best friend, Charles Rollins, happened upon an old home video. "Jimmy's holding my son Charlie like a football and playing soccer with my two girls," Mr. Rollins said. "That's Jimmy in a nutshell. He just was really into not only the athletic part of playing games, but the joy of being part of a team."
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Alice Geyer
September 11, 2024
Remembering James Geyer and all the other souls lost on 9/11/2001. We will never forget.
Alice Geyer
September 11, 2023
Every year, I listen to the reading of the names of those who perished on 9/11. I did not lose anyone on 9/11, but hearing Paul's name always brings tears to my eyes because we share the same, not so common last name. I cannot begin to imagine his family's loss. Rest in peace James Geyer. You are remembered, even by those who didn't have the opportunity to meet you.
John W. Galligan
June 15, 2023
Driving along the meadow rook parkway Dow to the ocean parkway in Ed´s station wagon. With Billy and Paul and Lisa. Stopping at the bridge on the loop parkway and going swimming. I remember all the fun we had as a group the last few weeks of high school. We lost so many friends and relatives that sad day in September. My prayers are still with you and your family. I miss you Jimmy.
Your friend,
John Galligan
Joseph Malizia
September 5, 2021
Days don’t go bye when I look at your children and I see their faces in you. I knew you Jimmy when you used to run around on Sundays along with Kathy to pay the referees in the Rockville center soccer club. It’s was always great to see you drop by the games and encourage the children to play and have fun. You were a trey father, husband and athlete and you were a model for all of us to follow. I can’t believe we lost you 20 years ago. It breaks my heart but I know you looking down upon us. I just saw Cathy and Theresa at the beach yesterday. We both were talking together and I greeted both of them and I know you’re looking down on them right now along with Jim. Give him a big hello for me. I miss both of you guys but your family is here and we love all of them.
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Joe Brunetta
September 11, 2016
Dear Cathy and family,
You will always be in my thoughts and prayers on this day every year. 15 years later I am still sorry for your loss. God must have needed his help and called him home. I believe you will see him again someday. God bless, Joey B
Jen Smolin
September 9, 2016
Remembering you again Jimmy, and always remembering your help keeping brother Rob in the dark as we threw him a surprise birthday party, on a gorgeous day in May. Thanks for the memories and so sorry you and others were taken all too soon. Lost but not forgotten.
Tamina
September 9, 2016
This is for the family of James G. Geyer, my deepest sympathies go out out to all of you. I never met James and I have never met any of you. On September 11th, 2002 I attended a memorial at a local baseball stadium where thousands of people from our community came to remember the lives lost on that tragic day. As we all walked in, volunteers handed each person a card with a name of someone who had died on 9/11. My card said James Gerard Geyer. I just want to let you know that I have had the card for 15 years in my wallet and I think of him often and the family that was left behind. I haven't, until now, researched how to reach out to anyone mourning losing this man, but I wanted to today. I also had never seen a picture of him until today. I guess I just want to say that I'm sorry this happened to your family and I'm sorry you lost such an amazing person in your lives. I live on the other side of the country, in Tacoma Washington, so just know, that there are people all over the country who's hearts are with you, not only around the anniversary of this awful day, but throughout the entire year. I hope remembering him and the great things he did, brings some comfort and peace to you.
March 21, 2013
Through doing some research on the Internet I just stumbled upon the fact that this old friend, from many yrs ago in college, was lost in the Twin Towers. Although he & I were not "personally close", we did hang around in the same crowd for yrs & I was close w/close friends of his. I remember "Jimmy" w/much fondness & can still see his usually smiling face in my mind's eye like it was yesterday. As I have now researched how his life turned out post WNEC, I am compelled to say that is a beautiful testimony to both he & Cathy to see how their children grew up to become such positive attributes to the world. It is uplifting to see the kind of man Jimmy continued to mature to become & it's obvious that God's hands have been upon you all through his loss. I want to thank you for the inspirational message of all of your lives. Prov 3:5-6.
Feeling melancholy in VA,
AnnMarie (Zboray) Rhyne
Jeff Stewart
March 13, 2012
Sheila Graves
October 30, 2011
Your legacy will live on forever
September 11, 2011
Our Daughter Emily went to nursery school and was a friend of Matthew Geyer, we fondly remember Jim, he was always so sweet and concerned about our life. We moved from RVC in 1996 and Jim was one of those people in life that you are blessed to have known. Our thoughts and prayers go our to the GEYER Family and will always remember them with fondness. The Steffen Family
Michele Amowitz (Shor)
September 11, 2011
Dear Geyer Family--I think about you every year. Jimmy was such a fun person. I loved running into him when we lived in Rockville Centre. My love and hugs, along with my heart, are with you.
Paul Bearce
September 10, 2011
I met Jimmy at Western New England College and was in a couple of classes with him during our years there. As a lost freshman living in Hampden Hall, Jimmy, a year ahead of me, with his caring and kindness went out of his way a time or two to make me feel at ease and welcomed. I dropped my youngest son off at college this week and I pray that he meets a person like Jimmy.
Scott & Cathy Wheeler
September 10, 2011
Jimmy,I never had the pleasure of meeting you,I only know you through your brother Phil, I have to say being friends with Phil all these years,that I know you are a remarkable person,I know that Phill and the entire Geyer Family miss you greatly. Our Prayers are with your Family on this day and always,God Bless you along with all our American Brothers and Sister's
Kathy Pappas
September 10, 2011
Dear Geyer Family, I went to WNEC with Jimmy. He was the nicest and sweetest guy. And so unny! Knew him from the football crowd,he was a friend to all.My thoughts and prayers go out to you all as well as Jimmy. No doubt..he is in heaven for sure. Peace
Julie Ann Carr
September 6, 2011
Puckbar my friend I miss you. Reading the profile in the Long Island newsday, is exactly the things I remember. His love of family, coaching soccer, cookouts at his house on the weekend. Playing games online was secondary to our discussions of food and family! I love to cook and he encouraged me to go to culinary school. I haven't done that, but when I do it will be in his honor. Grace and Peace
marilyn rosenfeld
September 4, 2011
jimmy geyer was 0ur son-in-law. Their isent a day that goes by we do not think of him and my daughter cathy and the children, It very lonely without him on holidays . We have many picture sof him and family displayed all around our house. lynne and Bob Rosenfeld
Mindy Thompson DelDuca
September 1, 2011
Jimmy was a classmate at Western New College many years ago. Always happy with a smile on his face. How the years pass and memories live on. Thinking of his family.
May 2, 2011
Jimmy I bet you're smiling big today- amen! We have NEVER forgotten and we NEVER will. Everyone misses you.
September 16, 2010
We went to SouthSide together and ran track going back to junior high school. You were a great guy back then, I have no doubts you continued down that path of being a great man. I think of you and Kathy often. Peace and love to you and your family. - John Murphy
Jim Thatcher
September 1, 2010
Jimmy was a classmate, teammate and friend of mine while attending Western New England College some 30 years ago. He was a wonderful, funny, and loving guy and a great friend. He was truly one of a kind and I will always remember his smile and laugh. I love the man and think of him often.
September 11, 2009
We miss you Jimmy.
Jen Weitz-Clancy (Smolin)
September 11, 2009
You live on in our memories Jimmy. Today and always. I hope that those who read this support the most peaceful means possible in doing service to those memories and our respective futures. My best to Kathy and the rest of your family.
Eric Tellefsen
July 10, 2009
I had the pleasure to grow up with Jim in RVC.We shared common Football and Baseball teams as well as friends. Every fall during Football season you are in my thoughts and prays. God bless you and your family.
Telly
laura geyer
February 25, 2009
I didnt even know this website existed, i was just researching and found this. Thank you for all your thoughts and comments and i know its been a long time since his death but it makes me so happy to see how many lives my dad touched. Thank you for all your comments and i appreciate it greatly. Rest in peace daddy, i will always love you.
Kristine
October 30, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
October 20, 2006
In memory....
Frank and Lisa Palumbo
September 17, 2006
Deepest condolensces to the Geyer family. Frank is good friends with Jim's brother John Geyer and remembers Jim at South Side High School - Jim was a great athelete and Frank recalls him competing in pole-vault competition in track and field.
kyle gale
September 11, 2006
I knew Jimmy in college, he was a great athlete, and a nice guy. I remember him breaking up a fight at a party. Always a peacemaker, he was a good man.
Brianne Passariello
September 11, 2006
Another year passes and we still haven't forgotten, and will never. I wear my bracelet which holds James' name. While I did not know James, he will always hold a place in my heart. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Michael Berner
December 4, 2004
I am a former resident of Rockville Center, South Side HS grad, Class of 79 and a former neighbor of Jimmy. My thoughts and good wishes go to your family.
Mike Berner
Laurie Anderson
September 11, 2003
I did not know James personally, but I do wear my mercy band that bares his name. I reasearched his bio after receiving the band and felt so deeply moved. He was my age and had many similiar qualities as myself. I am honored to wear the band that bares his name. James, may you rest in peace. We will never forget. My heart goes out to your family.
Rich Longworth
September 8, 2003
Jim was my neighbor for only 4 years but the way he lived his life and loved his family are inspirations that will stay with me always. Before my children were born my wife and I would marvel at how much Jim loved his children and longed to be with them. His energy was amazing and I have many memories of Jim that revolve around him running off to coach soccer or having a catch or taking the family to the beach or showing Matt how to swing a golf club or teaching Laura how to ride a bike. He was very proud of Michelle, Matt and Laura and very in love with his wife. My family misses Jim every single day and will never forget him.
Rich
Susan Weren-Maccia
November 12, 2002
Jim and I were friends in college and lost touch after I transferred. Jim had a great sense of humour and was always around for a talk and hug. I remember Jim, Charlie, Dave, Terry and John - a group of great friends. I'm sorry I lost touch with Jim but am glad to have such lasting memories of him. To his family - I am sorry for your loss but hope that such simple words let you know how many lives he touched in such a wonderful way.....
jimmy copas
September 23, 2002
my name is james, too. i learned about you when my class studied 9/11. i'm sorry for your family...
Elizabeth Reilly
September 13, 2002
I did not know Mr. Geyer but wish I did. I am a student at St. Agnes Academy in Houston, TX. On Sept. 11, 2002, we held a prayer service in rememberance for all those heros who lost their lives and their families. Bracelets were distributed to everyone with the names of people who passed away. My bracelet read the name of James Gerard Geyer. I researched his name online and found out as much about him as I could. He was a hero not only to his children but to everyone and will always be remembered. I just wanted to let his family know that I keep them in my prayers.
Suzie
September 11, 2002
However a person knew him, Jim James or Puckbar, he was a real person and he touched your life and made it better. He was true to those he like and loved. Every time I look to the North Star, I will always think of him. I miss you my friend and know that you watch over all those you loved.
Cindy Muller
September 11, 2002
I knew Jim as Puckbar. He was a great guy who always had time to help a friend with a problem. He loved his family dearly and I know how much they must miss him. I still miss him and think of him and his family often. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. He will always be remembered. . .
Pat Gallagher
September 11, 2002
I never met Jim. However a couple of weeks ago I had the pleasure of meeting his son, Matt. He came to my home with my nephew,Craig. He fit right in with my son and played in my house. like he had been there a hundred times before. He stayed for dinner and ate enough for two. Don't worry Jim, you're in a better place and your family will be fine. May God Bless you.
Geyer Gerard
September 11, 2002
dear friends,
I am an unknown person far away from the place of sadness. But I feel very close to what happened last year. We people over here are with you and will light a candle for Mr. Gerard Geyer
sincere Gerard Geyer
September 8, 2002
To the geyers,
Jimmy geyer was one of the nicest guys i have ever met he was kind funny and nice to be around he was a great father to michelle matt and laura and they are soo much like him he has always been there for his family and will continue to be tehre for them becuase they were his love, We will miss jimmy with all our hearts because he would do the same for us,no he would with 2 hearts because he was that kind of guy we love you jimmy may god bless you allways and for ever and may god bless cathy and kids
Jen Weitz-Clancy (Smolin)
August 30, 2002
Its hard to write how I feel except to say that the entire tragedy has manifested for me in the memory of Jimmy. The best example I can give from our experience as neighbors and a friend of the family is of Jimmy's ready, and humrous, willingness, and ultimately - success, in helping me plan a suprise party for my brother Rob when we were all 15. Jimmy was the most natural person to turn to in finding someone to keep Rob in the dark until the moment of surprise. And his playful nature made the day all the more fun. I remember stories about horse-radish sandwiches and a few other pranks among the guys that I should not repeat. . . but I cannot, for the life of me, think of a time when Jimmy was mean or nasty. In this sense, I think back on September 11th and am reminded of the innocense of those who fell victim to terror. To Jimmy, Kathy, your kids, Phil Sr. and Jr., John, Gigi and parents - You're in my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss. And I am reminded to never take for granted the friends and associates who quietly enrich my life. Our best to you - Jen and extended family
Joanne Davis
July 11, 2002
I used to talk to Jim on the internet,he was known to all as Puckbar. Being a native of Long Island he would fill me in on all the changes since I moved from there years ago. He always had a kind word for everyone and his love of life was apparent with everything he said. I know he is with the Lord and looking down on all of us. I will never forget you Jim, you touched everyone's life with a special friendship.
Karla (RC) Roger
July 10, 2002
Jim was a wonderful internet friend whom we called Puckbar. He will be terribly missed by all friends he had made. He often chatted about how much he loved his wife and children. We all looked up to him. Jim I know your our shining star. God Bless your soul.
Tanya Harrison
July 10, 2002
I never knew this man as James or Jim... knew him as Puckbar... a kind and gentle man. A man I was proud to call internet pal. I know he sits among the angels at the foot of the throne of our lord... I will never forget...
Darlene Dagilis
July 8, 2002
Just wish to add my thoughts to a long lost friend. Never knew Jim in real life, but was a person I met at a site on the computer. He was a true and honest friend to me. I know how much his family and friends meant to him. He is truly missed by one and all that knew him.
Angie Campbell
April 26, 2002
May God Bless and keep you.
Francene Weatherby
March 12, 2002
Our family is thinking and praying for you and your family in this time of sadness.
Kristen Merritt - Lynch
March 11, 2002
His smile will never be forgotten.
January 23, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL YOUNG MAN JAMES GERARD GEYER AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD
BLESS HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN ..FAMILY
AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY ST.
JAMES AND ST.GERARD MEET YOU AT THE
GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Teresa Jahn
December 30, 2001
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
December 7, 2001
" ... Beware of sadness. It can hit you. It can hurt you, take your soul and what is more. It is not what you are here for..."
George Harrison, " Beware of Darkness : (All Things Must Pass), 1971.
Richard LePetri
December 5, 2001
I enjoyed coaching the Father's Day Tournament with Jim. He made a tremendous positive impact on my daughter Nicole. He taught her how to play defense. She will never forget him. I shook hands with him after our intramural game against him on September 9. He was a true model pf sportsmanship and he always put the girls' welfare first. We are there for Cathy and the kids always. I feel blessed to have known him
Robert Williams
November 26, 2001
I played football in high school with him and remember him as a great classmate and all around fun guy to be with.
We will miss you!!!!!
Our prayers are with the family and please know that he died a hero and that is something to be truly proud of.
I know nothing that can be said can assuage the feelings of great loss and am truly sorry and my thoughts and prayers will be with his family always.
thanks
RLWIII
CLASSMATE SOUTH SIDE CLASS OF 1978
Susan Antoniou
October 24, 2001
Jim Geyer was a gentleman, devoted father and husband and just a delight to be around. I had the pleasure of knowing him while he worked at Cantor and there was no heartier laugh and no nicer guy. My prayers and thoughts to Cathy and the children. He was a superstar.
God Bless.
Melee Barnes
October 16, 2001
Phil,Leanna, Jim's wife and the Geyer family, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers, always.
Jerry Byrne
October 12, 2001
I worked w/ Jim @ Cantor, he was a really good guy, who loved his children. He was a good friend.
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