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Any evening, Steve Pollicino, 48, might call his home in Long Island to say: "Get ready! I've got tickets to the Knicks!"
Or "The Producers." Or 'N Sync. In August, he announced that he was taking his wife, Jane, and his 12-year-old, Celeste, to the Bahamas -- in a couple of days. "Can you imagine planning a vacation a year in advance?" he once said incredulously.
A trader at Cantor Fitzgerald, he did not head for his easy chair after work. He might take Celeste to get an ice cream after her religion class or shoot pool with his 19-year- old son, Steven, during college holidays. He could turn a humdrum gathering into a party just by showing up. Once, on a summer morning, he headed for his usual 6:10 a.m. train, turned around at the last minute and spent the day at the beach with his wife and sister-in-law.
His big worry was Celeste. He could not bear to think of her leaving childhood, home and him. Four days before he died, he picked her up at a friend's and she emerged in giggles. "Promise me," he said, catching her mood, "that you'll never stop giggling."
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Rosalia Mendolia
September 7, 2021
I was a good friend of Steve's in Hicksville High Class 1971. He was such a great guy. Gentle heart and kindness poured out of him. I pray for his lovely family for their great loss of a Dad and loving Husband. I keep you all in my heart forever. Many prayers to you all. May God keep you strong and filled with blessings for your life with Steve.
Patricia Malmed
September 13, 2019
We will never forget Steve Pollicino our next door neighbor in Hicksville N.Y.
September 12, 2019
I think of this wonderful man and his family every day
Linda Stack
October 23, 2018
Steven was a student in my Spanish class at POBJFKHS. I think of him and remember your family every 9-11 anniversary .
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S.J. Friscia III
June 10, 2018
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Kevin Smith
September 22, 2015
I went to HHS with Steve. We were in a band together and boy did we have fun. I just found out about Steve today and I am shocked and saddened. I also saw Steve again at the place he owned in St. James. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Steve was such a great guy, he will be missed by us all.
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peter macdonald
June 1, 2015
patrice scalise
September 11, 2012
The scalises send our love & 0prayers
Lorraine Davis
September 14, 2011
Dear Jane & Family,
How do I begin to express my deepest sympathy on the loss of Steve, such a wonderful,handsome guy who made such a great husband to a beautiful, loving girl, twenty-something years ago when I was a guest at your wedding.
We worked together at NYIT in Old Westbury. I can remember a bunch of us getting together at Sgt. Pepper's Pub, in Hicksville & then another night to Flagger's to continue the fun. It seemed like such a long drive out there at the time.
I lost touch after the first few years, except for the annual NYIT Christmas Party in the Dairy Barn, when I went to work for CBS-TV in NYC.
I was blown away when I heard Steve's name read aloud & saw it printed in Newsday-then saw the video of you & knew for sure, it was tragically your Steve.
We will never forget 911 & all those who died & the families who long for their loved ones every second. Life is so precious & we only get one ride on what I call, the "roller coaster of life".
I know you two had a great ride, but it ended way too soon!
I will keep you in my heart & in my prayers, always.
Lorraine Battaglia-Davis
Westbury,NY
Patricia Malmed
September 12, 2011
Steve will always be in our hearts, forever smiling.
Tracey Sinclair
September 10, 2011
I just dedicated my FB page to Steve in rememberance of the 10th anniversary of 9/11. In doing so, I thought I should Google his name and find out a bit to reflect.
Aedan (Oliva) Haworth
May 3, 2011
I went to school with Steve- from Burns Ave. in 5th grade- through Hicksville High- as well as many years of Confraternity classes in our neighborhood. What I recall most was his kindness. If he passed you in the hall, he said hello to you by name...at an age when many kids found it easier to just ignore the opposite sex. He had a maturity about him and a groundedness that, in retrospect, seemed way beyond his years. And that wonderful smile. Steve's is the face I put on the 911 tragedy- and the news yesterday brought it sharply back into focus. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and to all who loved him.
Lenore Desimone
March 3, 2011
I viewed entries new and old and I was glad to see I made an entry years ago. My sentiments are the same Steve will remain a a smiling face and Loving man in my memory always. His children I am sure have inherited his wonderful mannerisms and charm. Such a loss but he lives on in this world as we remember him as years the years go forward.
Tracey Delio
September 11, 2010
Steve was a neighbor of mine in Hicksville. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.
Maria Fialkov
September 11, 2010
Steve, I know you and Tony are at it in Heaven...My thoughts and prayers are always with your parents, children, wife, and Doug, who always looked up to you.
Derry Winer
August 18, 2010
Went to Hicksville High with Steve. He came to visit when we moved to Fl. His smile lit up a room...
Denise Taddonio
September 18, 2009
The Pollicino Family - Thinking of you with fond memories of your family. Hope you are doing "o.k."
Love, Denise Taddonio
Patricia Guerra Malmed
September 14, 2009
Steve was in my wedding party in 1973. He was about 13 years old when we moved in next door.
He had the most beautiful smile and fantastic eyes. He made us laugh with all his playful tricks.
One time he climbed onto the roof of our house with a garbage can and the garden hose. He filled up the can with water and lay in wait for my brother Tony. It was fantastic. All of us, including Tony, got a great laugh.
Tony passed away Aug. 9, 2007. I'm sure they are together. Heaven will never be the same.
Steve will always live in our hearts.
Our love to his wife Jane, their children, his wonderful parents Anne and Nick, and his baby brother Douglas.
Steve is to th far left. Patricia's wedding 1973
Robert Guerra
September 12, 2009
I have fond childhood memories of growing up living next door to Steve. He was always ready with a joke or antic and was a caring individual. I remember Steve going skiing with my brother Tony and my dad out by Roosevelt beach. He also was an usher in my sister Patricia’s wedding (picture attached). He loved just having a great time! I think about him and his family around Easter, Christmas and now September 11th. My thoughts and love go out to his family!
Safely Home
Michael Iezzi
February 2, 2009
Steve,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Dorothy Higgins-O'Connor
September 12, 2008
Dear Jane,
You may not remember me Jane, but we worked together at NYIT in Glen Cove in the late 70's. Sean and I went out with you and Steve a few times. We went to the restaurant/bar in St. James??
(not sure if I got that town right) Steve was a great guy with a beautiful big smile.
I read about Steve back in 2001 and my heart broke for you. Not a September 11th goes by without me thinking of you and Steve. I remember meeting you just before you were getting married and we all enjoyed your honeymoon pictures from Hawaii when you returned.
God bless you and your two children.
Jimmy Saridis
July 12, 2008
Dear Jane & Family...
I don't know if you remember me Jane, but we were friends at Nasssau CC back in '71, and your twin sister Vicki went out with my friend John Careccia. We double dated a few times. I've often thought about you and your family over the years. I actually spoke to your mom, I guess around 1985-86. I was working as a LIRR Police Officer, and drove down the block I remember you lived in. She was doing some gardening on the front lawn. We spoke a few minutes. She told me you were married. She remembered me and my friend John. I asked her to give you and Vicki my regards, and was on my way. I wondered if she ever told you. Tonight I googled your name and came across this heart-wrenching story about the loss of your husband Steve on 9/11. I am so very sorry Jane. My most sincere condolences to you and the kids. I never expected to read something like this. I have 4 daughters of my own, and can only imagine what you've been through. Please feel free to e-mail me. You were one of the sweetest girls back in the day! I hope you read this..........Jimmy Saridis
Rest In Peace
Michael iezzi
March 3, 2008
Lord,
Grant that we may hold dear the memory of your servant, never bitter for what we have lost nor in regret of the past, but always in hope of the eternal kingdom where you will bring us together again. We ask this in the name of Jesus the Lord. Amen.
Elaine Proud
February 10, 2008
Hello, my maiden name was Pollcino, I was told my grandpa dropped the first i in our name when he came from Italy. I was also told that we had family that ended up in NY and CA. I am originally from Ohio and my grandpa's name was Benny Pollicino (Benito) I can ask my grandma what his dad's name was. I have a feeling we are related and that is pretty neat! Contact if you would like, thanks.
P Tabbernor
February 3, 2007
In memory....
jorge pollicino
January 15, 2007
juntos a jane pollicino en estos dolorosos momentos, acompañamos en silencio y espirutalmente porque lo sentimos parte de nuestra familia y nuestra sangre.Nos duele esta perdida y ademas estamos convencidos que su corazon sigue latiendo entre nosotros...
Kristine
January 4, 2007
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
stephen knudsen
December 31, 2005
I went to burns ave school and hicksville jr. and sr. high schools with Steve. I always found him to be a friendly, kind and very funny person. While surfing the web I just found out that he was killed on September 11th. What a terrible waste for the world and nightmare for his family. I am so sorry for your loss.
Steve Lentz
September 11, 2003
Dear Jane & Family,
You don't know me but I went to Hicksville High School with Steve. We used to drive around in his '68 Chevelle. He totalled the first one and got an identical one as soon as his insurance paid. He would eat lunch at my house. My mother made us lunch at least 3 times a week. Boy could he eat! I last saw him at the 20th H.S. reunion. Although we didn't stay in touch he is always in my heart and he was one of the funniest people I ever knew. God bless you on this terrible "anniversary". Steve Lentz
Calabasas California
Del Newberry
September 12, 2002
Jane, Stephen, Celeste,
America grieves with you. I am the father of two girls and Celeste, it breaks my heart to think of you without your Dad here anymore. It is so unfair that you have been thrust into this 'fame' - your picture in Time magazine etc. There are tens of thousands of us Americans who have shed gallons of tears for all of you. We feel helpless, we want to reach out and hug you or something! Please know that we do our best to honor the memory of your husband and Dad. We pray for you to have strength. Hang in there, you have been through more than anyone should ever have to go through. With much, much love,
Del
Lisa Polichino
September 12, 2002
I did not know Steve, but his last name sounds a lot like mine. I wonder if we were related somehow. From what I have learned about him, he was a wonderful husband, father, and friend to many. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.
Leigh Johnston
September 11, 2002
I pray that God grant's you the strength to recover from your tragic loss. I also pray that you keep forever the memories that you have of your loved one.
Jessica Scheuring
September 11, 2002
On behalf of Santaluces High School our regards are sent to the family of Steve Pollicino. We held a project in memorial and remembrance to the victims of September 11th at our school where we would each get a name of a brave victim and wear them to show how much we care. I got Steve Pollicino and I wanted to learn more about him, the least I can do is show consideration. So at 10 am at our school we are having a 'Moment of Silence' where we will recognize everyone affected by this tragedy. Thank you and God Bless America.
Anne & Eugene Dussich
September 4, 2002
Dear Jane:
The very thought of the tragedy & events of 9/11/01, breaks my heart. I admire your courage & strength. I saw the picture of Celeste in Time magazine; she is beautiful.
Our prayers are with you & yours.
Love
Anne Elefante Dussich
Angie Campbell
May 9, 2002
May God Bless you and watch over the family and friends that you left behind in September. Rest in peace forever more.
Mary Anne Sheffield
May 2, 2002
It is my honor to make a quilt square for Steve for the United In Memory quilt. We would have been the same age and way to young to have life taken away. I'm sure he will be sadly missed by his family. He sounded like a wonderful man. Thoughts and prayers are wwith you and he will never be forgotten.
Teresa Gulino
April 21, 2002
I've known Steven and the rest of his family for as long as I can remember...Anne, Nick and yes even Douglas (Buttercup)... Our parents were friends, our dads grew up together...50 some odd years of friendship...words can never express the sadness we share with you. You are always in our thoughts and prayers.
The Gulino Family
March 26, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL MAN...STEVE POLLICINO AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS WIFE AND DAUGHTER...FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..STAY CLOSE..PRAY..AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK FOREVER..MAY JESUS AND ST.STEVEN GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Carlos (Charlie) Guerra
February 22, 2002
Steve was my older next door neighbor who I always looked up to when I was growing up in Hicksville. I remember that he always had a cool car like a sporty camaro or Chevelle. He always gave me motivating words of encouragement in everything I did, whether it was delivering newspapers in the morning when I was twelve, or applying to different colleges when I was in High School. I remember when I was a child in 1969, after we had landed a man on the moon, Steve told me that they had discovered lunatics on the surface. My thoughts are with Ann, Nick, Douglas, Jane, Steve Jr. and Celeste.
MARIA GUERRA-FIALKOV
February 17, 2002
WE MOVED NEXT DOOR TO THE POLLICINO'S WHEN I WAS 12. I'LL ALWAYS REMEMBER STEVE'S CONTAGIOUS LAUGHTER. HE LOVED TO MAKE PEOPLE LAUGH. MY BROTHER TONY HAD A LITTLE (1970?) HONDA. THIS ONE WAS REAL LIGHT. STEVE, MIKE, JIMMY AND BOBBY PICKED UP THE CAR FROM THE CURB AND PLACED IT IN THE MIDDLE OF MY PARENT'S LAWN. THEY THEN WAITED FOR TONY TO COME OUT. I'LL NEVER FORGET HOW HYSTERICAL WITH LAUGHTER WE ALL WERE. OF COURSE YOU KNOW WHOSE IDEA IT WAS.
HOW STEVE LOVED HIS CAMARO. I REMEMBER THE ACCIDENT HE HAD ON A LONELY ROAD BEHIND SEARS. HIS CAMARO WAS DEMOLISHED, STEVE WAS NOT HURT. GOD WAS SITTING RIGHT BESIDE HIM. I GUESS HE WANTED TO SAVE STEVE SO HE COULD MARRY JANE AND HAVE TWO WONDERFUL CHILDREN.
MY HEART AND PRAYERS ARE WITH JANE, STEVE JR., CELESTE, ANN, NICK AND DOUG. STEVE IS WATCHING FROM ABOVE.
MARIA
TONY GUERRA
February 9, 2002
Steve was my friend, next-door neighbor, and high school classmate. We both graduated from Hicksville High in 1970. He was one of the most charismatic people I've ever met. Over the years, I have told countless people, countless anecdotes involving Steven. Here's one of them: Steve and I were in our mid teens when my family moved to Hicksville, Long Island, next door to the Pollicinos, from an apartment in The City. Steve invited me into his house and offered me a glass of orange juice. Pulling a tall plastic orange cup from the kitchen cabinet, he looked deep into it, grimaced, turned the cup upside down and slapped the bottom a couple of times. Then he made an exasperated gesture and said "the hell with it." He proceeded to pour orange juice into the cup and then handed it to me. Of course, I was afraid to drink it, until I realized he was pulling my leg.
My heart goes out to his wonderful parents and to his wife and children.
LENORE DESIMONE
January 21, 2002
Steve and I were friends. My Husband called him "Dukie" we had many memories from the Green Machine Days of playing ball for Pathmark and party at the park. A wonderful man and person, I will remember him always. His forever SMILE....
Teresa Jahn
December 16, 2001
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Bill Kochen
October 2, 2001
Jane & family: Kim & I are deeply sorry for the loss of Steve. It was just 3 weeks ago that we saw you guys at Singletons in Jericho. Kim and I talked about what a great couple you guys were and are! Being parents as well, and understanding the concerns there, is the toughest thing to realize. We are confident you and your family will overcome this tragety. All our love and thoughts are with you, Bill & Kim Kochen.
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