Ming-Hao Liu

Ming-Hao Liu

Ming-Hao Liu Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 1, 2001.
A Teacher at Heart

If he had not been an engineer for the Washington Group International in the World Trade Center, Ming-Hao Liu would probably have been content teaching children or planning parties. After all, that is precisely what he did during most weekends as the principal of the Livingston Chinese School, near his home in Livingston, N.J.

Last year, Mr. Liu, 41, persuaded four busloads of parents and students to go to Tennessee for a field trip, after emphasizing that the journey, not the destination, mattered most. Seizing the microphone, he encouraged students to get up in the front of the bus and talk in Mandarin about these questions: "Why do you love your parents? What do you want to do for your parents?" recalled his wife, Jiun-Min.

Another time, during a trip back to his native Taiwan, he was planning to return with some gifts for his two young sons. But when he stumbled upon new textbooks for his Chinese school, he stuffed all 150 books into his suitcase. His sons' gifts did not fit. He left them with his mother-in-law. His wife understood. His sons are still learning. "They didn't know why Daddy spent so much time for other people and for the school," Mrs. Liu said. "I tell them: `It's not for himself; it's for other people. He always wants to make things good.' "

Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on October 10, 2001.


Jiun Liu can still picture her husband, Ming-Hao, in every room of their Livingston, N.J., home.

He smiles at her from family photographs and dreams with her as she looks out a window at their half-finished back-yard patio.

"I can still see him all over the house," she said.

Jiun last heard from Ming-Hao, 41, when she called him at his 91st-floor office in the World Trade Center's south tower after the building next to his was attacked. "Then the line just went blank," she said.

Ming-Hao Liu was warm but tough. His wife said he had two passions growing up in Taiwan: first it was rugby, then later, civil engineering.

After his undergraduate study at Cheng-Kung University in Taiwan, he came to the United States in 1985 to pursue a master's in civil engineering at Rutgers University. Except for one year, he worked from his 1987 graduation until Sept. 11 for what is now Washington Group International.

While at the firm, he helped design the monorail at Newark International Airport, as well as bridges around the New York City area and a new airport transportation system for JFK Airport.

His latest project was less sweeping but no less a point of pride for him, said his wife: He had drawn up plans to extend their driveway and enlarge their back-yard deck. For two weeks before the attack, he had hurried home to talk to contractors carrying out his plans.
Profile courtesy of THE CHICAGO TRIBUNE.


Ming-Hao Liu, 41, proud of his own backyard

An experienced engineer, Ming- Hao Liu worked on many big jobs after he came to the United States from Taiwan in 1985, including reconstruction of the Brooklyn- Queens Expressway and planning for the Hudson-Bergen Light Rail line.

But redesigning the backyard of his home in Livingston was a project that brought him an equal amount of pride and joy. A new driveway, a patio and deck were all part of the just-completed project.

"It was his last dream," said Sunil Rajani, a resident of North Brunswick and co-worker of Mr. Liu's in New York. "Every day, he talked about the yard. He'd just started thinking about the next phase -- new trees and planters."

Mr. Liu, 41, a senior staff engineer for the Washington International Group, was working on the 91st floor of Two World Trade Center when the building was struck by a hijacked jet Sept. 11. Although other employees of the firm were able to make it to safety, Mr. Liu did not. The family was informed last week by New York City police that his body had been identified.

Mr. Liu's wife, Jiun-Min, said the two were speaking on the phone seconds before the crash abruptly ended their conversation.

Jiun-Min Liu remembered her husband as a caring man, one with an inquisitive mind and leadership qualities. His pursuit of knowledge sometimes led him to stop his car and approach strangers with questions about the landscaping of their property.

"I would warn him about speaking with strangers, but he was warmhearted and made friends very easily," she said.

Natives of China who knew each other on Taiwan, the Lius earned master's degrees at the New Brunswick campus of Rutgers University. They married here in 1987. Mr. Liu's degree was in civil engineering; Mrs. Liu's is in statistics.

Mr. Liu was active in both his profession and community. He was treasurer of the Chinese Institute of Engineers in this country and a member of the International Chinese Transportation Professionals Association. He was also chairman and principal of the Livingston Chinese School, organizing trips for pupils and parents alike.

In addition to his wife, Mr. Liu is survived by his parents, Lo-Yao and Jung-Lan Kao Liu of Oakland, Calif.; four sisters, Lucille Pak of Livingston, Betty Chi of Lexington, Mass., and Shirley Fu and Jenny Yao, both of Oakland, Calif.; a brother, Ming-Cheng Liu of Chester; two sons, Allen, 12, and Austin, 7; and 14 nieces and nephews.

A funeral service will be held Saturday at 10 a.m. at the Trinity Covenant Church on Cedar Street in Livingston. The family has decided it will bury Mr. Liu with photos of his reconstructed backyard.

Donations may be sent to the Livingston Chinese School, P.O. Box 179, Livingston, N.J. 07039. They should be sent to the attention of Shianjong Liu or York Tsuo.

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In Memory
With Honor & Respect.

Tao Chen

September 12, 2011

I'm so sorry to know Ming-Hao has passed away in this attack. We were classmates in Fu-Shing Junior High in Taipei from 1972-1975 and then in Chien-Kuo High School from 1975-1978. We were not that close, but I knew him to be a good person, always doing the right things.

Brenda Serrano

September 11, 2011

In honor and remembrance of you. Daniel, Arnaldo and Brenda a Puerto Rico family, here praying for your soul. God bless your family and you are not forgotten. We pick a flag with your name at Orlando, Florida activity today.

Dane Widney

September 11, 2011

In honor and remembrance of you and your family.

Dawn Widney

September 11, 2011

Today our small community held a National Day of Honor and remembrance for 9-11. I received Ming-Hao's name on a rosette. My family has said a prayer for his family. As long as someone remembers, he is not forgotten.

Tzu-Chung Chang

September 11, 2011

Ming-Hao
I can hardly imagine that it was 10 years ago since the 9/11 tragedy, but you will always live in our hearts and prayers.

9/11/2011
David

P Tabbernor

December 11, 2006

In remembrance....

Kristine

October 31, 2006

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

Annie Sung

September 8, 2006

My father was good friends with Ming-Hao during high school in Taiwan, and they were on the rugby team together. It's been years since the loss, but I would like to represent my family and let the Liu family know that we all miss him and we will never forget him. A year before the tragedy, my family and I visited the New York/New Jersey area during the summer, and I never got to express my gratitude to Uncle Liu for providing a brief living space for us during our stay. I was only 10 at that time, but I will never forget that year in my life. Ming-Hao will always live in my father's heart, in all of our hearts, forever.

ben

March 16, 2004

i am a very good freind of ming hao's son, Allen. He is one of the strongest kids ive ever met. I dont know how he does it, it just puts me in shock and awe. Allen, your a good kid, and you have a lot going for you in life. Keep it like that. you and your family get well soon, please.

Joe Balint

September 12, 2003

After Sept 11th 2001, I was reading the New York Times profiles that someone had left out in the lab when I was working at GE Medical Systems in Milwaukee as a Development Engineer. I read all the profiles and Ming-Hao's struck a personal cord with me. I cut it out of the paper and hung it at my desk to remind me of our country's loss. I found alot of similarities between Ming-Hao's life and my own. I'm 1st-generation American and I have a good deal of memories of the time I spent in Hungarian school as a child in Cleveland. Ming-Hao was doing a great thing by leading his Chinese school. I've recently started and led High School robotics teams in Ohio and Wisconsin. I also lead Middle school teams of the same type. I know how much work and dedication goes into projects like this, however I never really think of it as work... it's just the right thing to do, so I do it. From reading the brief profile, I could sense that Ming-Hao felt the same way about his volunteer activities. I'll never be able to understand why someone would attack us just for being Americans and for being good people. But I don't have to understand, I just have to remember and keep educating our country's youth to solve problems and be productive to offset that kind of evil. Ming-Hao's story makes sure I never forget just how deep our enemies can hurt us. I'm sorry for your loss and I hope that Ming-Hao's family is recovering. -Joe/Jozsi

Joseph Jao

October 17, 2002

It has been over a year that I lived in pain as I witnessed the tragedy from the West Side Highway. I worked with Ming in the same office on 91 floor south tower in 1991. That was a room with breathtaking view and warm memories. There were four of us in the room but usually dozens of visitors (enjoying the view) everyday. I was under the impression that he left the Washington Group and was heartbroken in learning that he returned there shortly before this tragedy. I have spoken to many former Ebasco engineers and we are always in tears talking about Ming. I want to say to Ming: I missed the days with you forever.

Lexie D'Adamo

September 16, 2002

Although I never met Ming-Hao, his son Allen is one of my best friends and is the most wonderful caring kid you could ever imagine and i'm sure he takes after his father. God bless Ming-Hao and his family.

Karen Lambert

September 12, 2002

After a memorial service at our church last evening, we were given the opportunity to take pins that had the names of those who perished on 9 - 11. The purpose was to pray for the families of the one you selected. The pin I picked had Ming-Hao's name. I found this page by doing an internet search and was pleased to find this tribute. I now can pray for his wife, children, and parents and siblings by name.

May God bless and comfort each of you.

Karen

9-12-2002

Angie Campbell

May 4, 2002

Rest in peace forever more.

February 24, 2002

DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON MING-HAO LIU AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY GOD AND HIS ANGELS GREET THIS WONDERFUL HUMAN BEING AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN..AMEN

Teresa Jahn

December 25, 2001

Ming-Hao must have had a very warm and caring heart to have shared so much of it with others, especially the children. We are very sorry for your loss of Ming-Hao. Our hearts cry with you.

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

Greg Toft and Family

November 12, 2001

My family and I want to tell you what an honor it has been to get to know you. Your strength and grace are a tribute to Ming-Hao and I know his memory will be well cared for in your continued peace.

Romana Naroznik

October 5, 2001

To Ming-Hao Liu's Family,

It was a pleasure to work with Ming-Hao. I am so sorry for your loss. My preyers will be with you in these days of immense sandness.

God Bless

Clara Evans

October 5, 2001

To Ming-Hao Liu's family, friends and colleagues -



I did not know him. My heart goes out to all of you. We have lost so much and so many.



I pray for strength for all of us.

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