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Kevin Crotty Obituary
The ladies behind the counter at a bakery in Summit, N.J. used to look forward to Saturday mornings when Kevin R. Crotty would show up with his three children. With wild candy-store looks in their eyes, Megan, 7, Kyle, 5, and Sean, 2, would load up on cookies and chocolate and glazed doughnuts and doughnut holes.
But it has been more than a month since Mr. Crotty took his children to the bakery. Mr. Crotty, 43, worked as a bond trader at Sandler O'Neill & Partners on the 104th floor of 2 World Trade Center. Besides the bakery, he could be seen taking the children to soccer practice and dance lessons.
"I've been very open with them about it," said his widow, Lori Crotty. "The more I talk about it, the more comfortable they are. Sean is having a hard time, but it's going to take time."
Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on October 16, 2001.
Kevin Crotty, 43, accomplished athlete
Kevin R. Crotty could never keep still. From his job as a bond trader at the World Trade Center to his home in Summit, where he resided with his wife, Lori, and three children, Mr. Crotty's life was a swirl of activity, and his list of accomplishments long.
An all-city star in basketball and baseball at St. Ignatius Loyola High School in Manhattan, Mr. Crotty was a cum laude graduate of Dartmouth College, where he majored in economics. At the age of 23, he became one of the youngest traders for Lehman Brothers on the floor of the New York Stock Exchange. But his life in recent years was very much focused on home.
"I used to kid him because he wasn't a handyman," said his wife. "But he did everything else -- the dishes, the laundry. He was a real family man. He worked his schedule so that he didn't have a lot of business dinners to go to."
One occasional indulgence was the theater. "When he saw something he liked," said Mr. Crotty's mother, Mary, "he would take us and go back and see it again."
Mr. Crotty, 43, worked on the 104th floor of Two World Trade Center as a managing director of the investment firm Sandler O'Neill & Partners.
Mr. Crotty, who grew up in Jackson Heights, Queens, was also a catcher on a semi-pro baseball team in New York for several years. After college, he considered playing professional basketball in Europe. He was especially excited about his son Kyle beginning to play soccer.
"Kyle scored his first goal on Sunday (before the attack)," said Lori Crotty, "and Kevin had the biggest smile on his face. I'm so happy that he got to see that."
In addition to his wife, Mr. Crotty is survived by his children Megan, 7; Kyle, 5, and Sean, 2, as well as his parents, Raymond and Mary Crotty of Frederick, Md., and two brothers, Brian of Gaithersburg, Md., and David of Ijamsville, Md.
A memorial service will be held 2 p.m. Oct. 6 at the Presbyterian Church of New Providence. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to the Kevin R. Crotty Trust for Megan, Kyle and Sean, P.O. Box 1258, Summit, N.J. 07901, or the Kevin Crotty Memorial Fund at the Presbyterian Church of New Providence, 1307 Springfield Ave., New Providence, N.J. 07974.
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John Farrar
June 15, 2024
Kevin...You were among my very best friends in Jackson Heights growing up as a child. Thank you for inspiring me to be a decent human being. May God bless your soul forever
John Farrar
December 23, 2023
God bless you, Kevin...my childhood best friend in Jackson Heights. We were both "flaming red heads" and it kind of made us stand out amongst the rest! Rest in peace forever, buddy
Del Newberry
January 13, 2022
Lori and children, I am lifting you up in prayer today and letting you know that we will never forget that horrible day when you lost your husband and Dad. I will strive to be as great a husband and Dad as he was, and will always cherish the time we have with each other. Much love from Texas
Never forget
Lori Ward Jackson
September 11, 2021
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Terry Lally
September 10, 2021
I can't believe 20 years have gone by I still think of Kevin very often. He was such a great part of my life.
Lori keeps me up on the news about the children and I feel so bad that Kevin isn't around to see how great they are, and how well they did in school. He would be so very proud. I am sure though that he is looking down on his beautiful family. My Love and prayers to Lori and all the children.
Love
Terry Lally
Cindy Roe
September 5, 2021
Remembering Kevin on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....
MARIE PIZZOLO
July 28, 2016
Dear Crotty Family,
How I found this is too long to explain. I went to school with Kevin and not until reading through the guest book and recognizing names from St. Joan of Arc did I realize that your Husband/Dad was Kevin Crotty I went to school with. Please accept my deepest sympathy to you all. So many years later and to find this is so shocking. I can only say that as a second grader with Kevin you knew he was going to be successful. It was Kevin and Jean Clancy that were top students. Funny what comes back to you.
He was kind and a very sweet kid. Always remember him tall, thin and red hair.
Again, I am so very sorry for your loss and am sure so many have written what a special person he was.
Warmest regards,
Mari P
Trina Firey
November 21, 2015
Dear Ray, Mary, Kevin, Brian & David-Thinking of everyone today with fondness. There is no family on earth more charming, endearing and idiosyncratic than the Crotty's. Through them, I experienced the wonder of New York City. I received such an awe inspiring, intelligent and grand tour! Kevin's genuine personality, friendliness and generosity were unquestionably appreciated by employees in establishments we frequented with him. He treated everyone with consideration, respect and dignity. Thank you, sweet Kevin. I enjoy recalling the excitement, fun and laughter we shared. I will not forget.
Terry Lally
September 11, 2015
Hi Lori, Megan, Kyle & Sean
It dosen't seem like 14 years ago. I still think of him & and tell friends what a great person he was and how successful he became. He spent a lot of time with us when he was young and I felt like he was one of ours. He would stay with us on week days and go home on the weekend. My heart goes out to all of you, and may God Bless you
His Cousin, Terry
Kitty
September 11, 2015
Will never forget the loss of Kevin Crotty, a distance cousin of the Crotty family. I am from the West Virginia Crotty family.
September 11, 2015
I remember you, Kevin, from Jackson Heights. I remember you as a red-haired kid in high school, growing up on 82nd street. I pray for you & your family every year. God be with you & your family.
Rayna James
September 11, 2013
- Im in a class room At the Rutherford Opportunity Center And i did research on Kevin Crotty . I think he was a wonderful person , I love the fact that he took his 3 children to the bakery ever Saturday morning . i think thats really nice . If i had a father like him i would be very grateful person . My heart and prayers goes out the the Crotty Family God bless you * Love Rayna James
Eric Grant
April 2, 2013
Watching the basketball tournament and just thought about my b-ball teammate and Dartmouth classmate Kevin C. I miss the trash talking and jump shooting. I know you are listening my man!
Eric (E-Man)
Lexi Crotty
December 1, 2012
I went to the Macy's Thanksgiving day parade with my family.We also visited Ground Zero and said prayers for those we lost on 9/11.My Brother,Brandon and Dad,Sean found Kevin Crotty on the memorial wall.We were surprised we share the same last name.We pray for you and your family.Love the Crotty's from Boston,NY
September 11, 2012
I was thinking of Kevin today. When we went to the memorial we stencilled a piece of cloth over your name. We are planning on framing it. Thinking of Lori, Megan, Kyle and Sean today. Also of Brian, David, Julie and Christin. God Bless.
September 12, 2011
Thinking of Kevin and praying for his family-
God Bless
Lori Jackson
Kathy Branchflower
September 11, 2011
On this day of remembrance, you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Carol Lippincott
September 9, 2011
I placed a flag here today in memory of Kevin Raymond Crotty. I will keep him and you, his family, in my prayers.
http://www.patriotdayremembrance.com/
May 19, 2011
HI Lori,
Just wanted to let you know that I wear a silver bracelet with your husbands name on it- we made a donation to 9/11 fund efforts and we received 2 bracelets- your husband was one of them. I pray for him often. I am a mother of 4 living in Orange County California and wish you well.
God be with you and your family,
Lori Jackson
[email protected]
CA
Jeffrey Crotty
September 14, 2010
To the Crotty Family,
We think of you and Kevin everyday and hold you in our hearts.
Jeffrey W. Crotty and Family
Michelle Lee
September 11, 2010
Dear Lori,
I think of you often and pray the years are helping manage the huge loss. Time doesn't take away our hurts, but it does help so that the wound is not quite so tender. God's Peace be with you today and always.
Your Cousin,
Michelle
September 12, 2009
I was Kevin's youngest brothers best friend, while living in Jackson Heights. He was everything we looked up to. His age difference, his height and all his acolades made him an icon to us all. Now this is how a man should be, I thought. I wouldn't see him too often, but when he came back to Jackson Heights, he would look at his little brother's friends and just smile at us. He was huge, had red hair and had this great smile. You could just tell how happy and proud Dave was when he was around. I still live in Jackson Heights, and there is not a time when I drive down 82st and pass 33-33 and pass that window, that I dont't think of Dave and Kevin and Brian and his Parents and Enius and Narky. Its been 8 years today. I am deeply sorry to all his family. Please find comfort with happy memories he shared with us all.
Joseph Blewitt
June 17, 2009
My sympathies are with your family. I knew of Kevin - I was one grade ahead of him at St. Joan of Arc. I just now learned of his passing when I googled his name. I knew he would "be somebody" one day and I googled his name to find out "whatever became of . . .?" I'm glad to hear that although his life was cut short he was living a full life and had the enjoyment of having a wife and family. I visited ground zero with my family, not knowing that Kevin was one of the victims. Next time I visit there I will remember him and say a prayer for him and his family.
Doug Abraham
March 19, 2009
You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
Jeffrey W. Crotty
March 8, 2008
Dear Crotty Family,
While we have never met nor had the pleasure of knowing you, my family and I think of you often. I lost my brother, Kevin John Crotty at birth, but I like to think that he would have grown up to be as honorable and kind a man as Kevin Raymond Crotty. My brother Kevin has always guided me - my guardian angel - and I know that your Kevin is there for you in the same way. He is a hero to us all - thank you. The Indiana Crotty Clan
Kathy Hanley-Little
September 6, 2007
Very year since 9/11,I remember my old classmate at St.Joan of Arc in my prayers. Yes, he was one of the "good guys". My prayers are with his family,too.
Kristine
October 24, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
September 17, 2006
In remembrance....
Annette Ousley
September 11, 2006
Lori and family. We here in Linn, MO and St. Charles, MO are thinking of you all today. All the Potts family have you in their prayers. So do the Beers. I hope you are finding peace and going with God. He will always take care of you and the children and Kevin will always let you know he's there too. Take care of you, cousin! Love, Annette
Alyce Lee
September 11, 2005
You are still missed by us, friends whom you touched, made us laugh. take care,Lori, Megan, Kyle and Sean.
Kristin Moody-Minchey
October 9, 2004
To the Crotty family:
I am a distant cousin with my mother's family residing in Lynn, MO. I have never met you, but feel a great stab of pain that you were hurt. My Aunt Annette Ousley sent me the link to this site, and I have since shared it with my children.
May God bless and keep you! I wish only for peace to be felt in your hearts, and the mind of you, Lori.
With heart felt sympathy and American pride,
Kristin
josh cuadra
September 7, 2004
May he go with God, and may he rest his soul.
Eileen Angelo
September 11, 2003
Dear Crotty Family,
Today, on the second anniversary of 9/11, I think of the many friends and aquaintances that my family lost; including my roommate, Melissa Vincent. I know that my mother, Betty, has know your family for many years and spoke so highly of Kevin. Please know that our family is thinking of you today and hope that everyone is healthy and strong.
Love,
Eileen Angelo
Kathy Cottier
September 25, 2002
I was in the New Providence Presbyterian Church on Friday September 14 for the noon prayer services, along with several of my colleagues and many of the local parishoners. President Bush had designated that day a Day of Prayer. The minister invited those in the congregation to speak out and offer prayers for their loved ones. One young woman, sitting up in the balcony, tearfully prayed for a "Kevin" - that he somehow be found safe and returned to the family who loved him. I will never forget that moment, nor any of the moments from those succeeding days and weeks. And I've often thought of that young woman, of Kevin, and his family, as it became evident that his fate was sealed with all the others. I doubt that it helps, but please know there are probably many others like myself who keep you in our prayers and our thoughts and for whom our tears will flow for a very long, long time.
Teresa Marler
September 12, 2002
I am also from Jackson Heights and while I didn't really know Kevin I did know Brian and David from Loyola. I have thought about Kevin and his family many times in the last year. For all of the Crotty family I am sorry for the loss of Kevin. I hope that the happy memories you have will give you peace and comfort in the future.
Judy Alto (Benson)
September 11, 2002
It is now 9/11/2002. I have been out of NYC for nearly 20 years and Kevin was the only one I knew that fell victum to the WDC atttacks. I like many others knew Kevin while growing up on 82nd Street in Jackson Heights. He WAS one of the good guys, one that was going to go far in life for he had site of the bigger picture. I have son who has red hair like Kevin's, if he grows up to be anything like what Kevin represented I would be very proud. My prayers are with his family today. God Bless Judy Benson Alto. 9/11/02.
henry
September 11, 2002
my heart and thoughts go out to kevin's family.
Michelle Lee
September 5, 2002
I knew Kevin through my cousin Delia. Although I was young I remember him to be fun, warm,loving and he had a wonderful smile. One of the last times I saw him was when he attended my college graduation. He was very supportive and kind. I am not suprised that he became a wonderful father. My heart goes out to you, his family.
Brett Smith
August 8, 2002
May You rest in peace Kevin.
Lori, our thought and prayers are with you forever. I met with you at the ME's office in Manhatten and will always remember your inner strength and courage. Stay strong and continue to give the children the strength and guidence they need. I know you will, and remember we are all praying for you.
May God bless you
J.P. GREEN
May 27, 2002
I am proud and privileged to wear Kevin's B.A.N.D. (Bear Another's Name Daily) bracelet. I hope and pray someday with God's help the Crotty family and friends that shared in Kevin's life will find peace,serenity and tranquility.
In peace, always ...
J.P.
Angie Campbell
April 23, 2002
May God Bless you and the ones that you left behind on 9/11/01. May you rest in peace.
John Masterson
March 23, 2002
To the Crotty Family,
I knew Kevin as a kid, on 82nd St. in Jackson Heights. He was one of the good guys, always pleasant, but would protect another kid from a bully if he had to. I haven't seen him in 30 years, but I'm 100% sure that he turned out to be a wonderful husband and father. You have my sympathy.
Rest in peace Kevin.
Terry Lally
March 11, 2002
A perfect little boy grown into a fine man. I am so thankful for all the time Kevin spent with us as a little boy. He was such a joy to have around. We would have so much fun just sitting around playing word games. Even then, I knew he would be a success in life. We are so lucky to have had him in our lives.
I will always love and remember him. This is such a great loss. My prayers and thoughts are with his family.
James McDonald
March 7, 2002
I was a classmate of Kevin's at Loyola. I am sorry for your loss and I was deeply saddened when I heard. I wish you and your family well and I will keep you in my prayers. Godspeed.
Teresa Jahn
January 5, 2002
May Kevin's life and love (as well as memories of the bakery) live on in those who love him. We are very sorry for your loss of Kevin. May the sorrow in your hearts be lightened by warm memories of times shared with him. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
January 3, 2002
MAY THE LORD BLESS KEVIN RAYMOND
CROTTY AND MAY HE REST IN PEACE WITH
GOD AND HIS ANGLES..GOD BLESS HIS
WIFE AND THREE CHILDREN..GOD BLESS
HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS
AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01
Don Daily
October 25, 2001
Kevin had a sparkle in his eyes and a natural sincerity of manner. I was lucky to have known him in the bond business from when he started at Lehman and after. He was an upright person who will be sorely missed. My prayers are with your family, Kevin.
leslie miller
October 23, 2001
Please find comfort in happy memories. Remember that you gave Kevin joy, too. My heart goes out to you.
Dianne Purdy
October 11, 2001
I extend my heart to the family and friends of Kevin at this time of great loss. My prayers will continue.
Jim O'Halloran
October 11, 2001
You will be missed, you were and still are one of the nice guys!
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