James "Jimmy" Martello

James "Jimmy" Martello

James Martello Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 1, 2001.
Big Man With a Big Heart
Jimmy Martello wrote a lot of checks he did not have to. This foundation, that foundation, this friend in need, that stranger with the brain tumor and three children. He had grown up solidly middle class, a hefty Jersey guy -- 6 feet 3, 240 pounds -- who became a varsity linebacker at Rutgers and an impressively successful trader at Cantor Fitzgerald. Feeling blessed, he was always thinking of ways to give back.

His credo, said his wife, Sheila, was, "If it needs to be loved, love it; if it needs to be given, give it; if it needs to be done, do it."

In late August, the Martellos moved to Rumson, N.J., to be 10 minutes from an office that the company was readying. Mr. Martello, 41, hoped to scale back in a few years to attend more of his two sons' activities. He had already been coaching the 7- year-old's football and roller hockey teams.

The boys were robbed of that dream. They will keep the images of Mr. Martello tossing them in the air in the backyard pool, and playing King of the Basement, scooping them up and whirling toward the couch.

Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on October 12, 2001.


James Martello, 41, linebacker, trader

James Martello moved into his dream home a month ago.

He was attracted to the Rumson property because of its proximity to the water, a perfect spot for him to indulge his love of jet skiing.

Next summer he planned to teach his boys -- James Jr., 7, and Thomas, 5 -- to fish and water ski. The family would go boating.

Those dreams vanished Sept. 11 when a hijacked plane dove into One World Trade Center, where Mr. Martello worked as a partner and equity sales trader for Cantor Fitzgerald Securities. He worked on the 104th floor.

"The boys don't understand," said his wife, Sheila Martello. "They want to know why he had to go to work that day; why there are bad people."

She said she is still trying to cope with the loss of her 41-year-old husband of nine years, a man who would give money or his labor to any cause.

Mr. Martello took on whatever he could: installing cabinets, fixing broken windows, landscaping the front yard. He coached football and roller hockey.

During the week, he focused on trading stocks.

"That's what he loved," his wife said. "He was very good at it, and he was honest and he loved going to work."

Mr. Martello, who was born in Brooklyn, grew up in Kinnelon and lived in Montville for 15 years. He moved to Rumson a month ago.

Before joining Cantor Fitzgerald 21/2 years ago, Mr. Martello worked as a senior managing director for Bear Stearns in New York for 16 years.

Before embarking on his professional career, Mr. Martello earned a degree in economics and finance at Rutgers University in 1982.

He also played middle linebacker for the Scarlet Knights. Though his team during his senior year struggled through a 5-6 season, family members recalled Mr. Martello played his best game in a 47-3 loss against the University of Pittsburgh and their All-American quarterback, Dan Marino.

A one-time letterman, Mr. Martello earned the Scarlet Knights' Upstream Award for earning the team's highest grade point average. His wife said he got A's and B's.

In addition to his wife and two sons, Mr. Martello is survived by his parents, Alexander and Michele of Montville, and two brothers, Alex of Towaco and Paul of Parsippany.

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September 11, 2019

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March 23, 2017

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March 19, 2017

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Michael Aromando

September 11, 2019

I still think about Jimmy every September 11th. He was a generous decent man. I'm sure, missed by many.

Cathy Harris

March 23, 2017

Found a golf ball with Jimmys name and scholarship foundation along with the Twin Towers and 9/11.
Touching testimony to a wonderful father, husband and man. In my heart and prayers always, Cathy Harris

Warren Cressey

March 19, 2017

Gone but not forgotten. Thank you for your time with us. God Bless.

sj. Friscia III

August 15, 2014

In Memory
With Honor & Respect.

Charlotte

September 11, 2013

I personally never got the chance to meet James. I went to New York in April and we went to see the 9/11 memorial. It just so happened that I saw James' name. From the things I have read on this site he was a truly amazing person. Today especially I have thought about him and his family and friends. I can't imagine how horrible that day 12 years ago would have been for all of you. All of you have been in my prayers since the day I saw his name. All I could think was that he was somebody's son, somebody's husband, somebody's dad, somebody's everything. I never got the chance to meet this wonderful person, but his name will forever be written on my heart. May his soul forever rest in peace. God bless and sleep warm.

Billy and Melissa Connolly

September 11, 2013

We will never forget.

The Meluso Family

September 11, 2012

On this day 9/11/2011 we remember the tragic passing of our next door neighbor for many years Jimmy Martello Glen Rock Drive Kinnelon Jimmys desire to help was always his way to help.One day our VW bug decided to release the parking brake,and down went the car parked on an incline right toward the pond we called Tonys,the car rolled down towards the pond but just before going in the lake it landed on a large boulder teetering out comes Jimmy with a large cast on an injured foot he lifts the VW off the rock and puts it back on the road This was jimmy always helping his neighbor when their was a problem,football injury or not he was their always.We love you Jimmy and miss you on this tragic 11th anniversary.The Meluso Family

September 9, 2011

Jimmy - you will Never be forgotten ! Even as the 10th year approaches - your presence here will always shine so bright !
Rest in peace......

Kent and Lia Paschal

September 11, 2009

We remember, "Fight the good fight".
Peace to you, dear friend.

September 1, 2009

To the Martello Family,

My thoughts and prayers are always with you. When I think of Jimmy I always think of the fun we had growing up in Kinnelon. Jimmy will always be in our hearts.

With Love,

Sue Meluso-Sedlazek

Kent and Lia Paschal

September 11, 2008

Another year passes - you are in our thoughts ; peace to you and yours.
God Bless.

John Wickens

September 10, 2008

Jimmy was a senior at kinnelon when I was a freshman. I looked up to him in so many ways. We both palyed football and when Jimmy gradutaed I switch number to his old #35 because I wanted to be just like him on and off the field. God bless

Kent & Lia Paschal

September 11, 2007

Your humor and kindness graced our souls. Rest in peace dear friend.

P Tabbernor

December 24, 2006

In memory....

Kristine

November 15, 2006

As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

eric lockovitch

September 6, 2006

I will be reading Jimmy's name this year on 9/11. I want to understand the story behind each name I read. I know how it feels to hear their name read that day. Ann Nelson, my girlfriend, was also at Cantor.

Michael Aromando

September 20, 2005

Sheila and boys;

I never forget about Jimmy. I am inspired today because I saw a man wearing a shirt at last nights Giants game that said Jimmie Martello Foundation. I introduced myself to the man from Montville and we shared our memories of Jim. I believe his memory will carry on for many generations. My best to you all.



Michael Aromando

Juliet C.

June 2, 2004

Uncle Jimmy.. i dont even know where to start.. i guess i should start by saying i love you. you were always here for me for everything.. not a day goes by where i dont think about you and how much you touched everyones lives while you were here with us. i know your right here next to me and youll help me throught this.. i have so many great memories with you.. and even though your not here to experience more with us, i know your in our hearts. you were the greatest uncle and never will be forgotten. i miss you more than anything and would give anyhting to be with you. i love you <3*

your

February 18, 2003

Uncle Jimmy- I know that we only saw each other about every other month, but i still have many memories with you. Applepicking, Ticonderoga, you even taught me what my "sweet spot" was. I want to let you know that I miss you more than anything and can't wait to see you in heaven. I love you now and forever~ "your neice"

regina corbett(sorrentino)

October 12, 2002

Dear jimmy,

You have inspired many, you left behind your kids and wife, and a family who adored you. You're life was taken so tragically, I guess God had other plans. Only the good die young. You are in our thoughts. Love your cousins " The sorrentino's"

The Chierici Family

September 13, 2002

To our dearest friends Alex, Maryann, Marissa & Alex...We have watched you suffer over the last year. Your pain and sadness overwhelming for us to take away. No one will ever make peace for what has torn your family apart. Our peace is in our memories of the beautiful person Jimmy was. His caring and love for mankind should be an inspiration to us all. With every sunrise your hearts will lighten and with every sunset your smiles will return. Remember God was calling his angels home that day(9/11/01). Our love for you as well as Poppy, Michele, Paul, Sheila, James and Thomas overflows any cup. May God bless you and bring his peace again.

Ted Archer

September 11, 2002

Our high school made bracelets with victims' names on them to remember those who had fallen on 9/11/01. James's name was on my bracelet, and I read about him from this website. Your family will be in my prayers along with the prayers of my school. Have happy times and good luck in the future.

~Ted

Dan Hoffman

September 10, 2002

Dear Sheila, James and Thomas, just want you to know that you continue to be in our prayers and if you are ever in the Saginaw area, please stop in. Sarah is great! God Bless You!

Mike Danisewicz

September 10, 2002

To the Martello Family.



I just wanted to express my sincere condolences to you on the loss of Jimmy last year. I knew Jimmy as just another kid growing up in Kinnelon, with his two best friends always at his side, Kurt Nelson and Greg Carafello. I hadn't seen him since we played against each other in high school football. When I heard of Jim's passing, all the childhood memories of him came rushing back: memories I hadn't thought of in over 25 years.



Living in Wisconsin as I do now, not one of my friends or collegues knew anyone who died last 9-11. I did and that person was Jimmy. I now think of him often and wish his family only the best.



Sincerely,

Mike Danisewicz

Marisa Martello

July 31, 2002

Uncle Jimmy: I know you can't read this but I'm going to tell you anyway. I love you and I miss you alot. I wish you were here, things haven't been the same since you've been gone. I hope your somewhere in heaven watching over us and I hope you know how much you meant to me. I'll love you forever.

Mark Di Dolci

July 16, 2002

Shelia, I just had a chance to see this site..after tragically losing my wife after 11 years of marriage..just a few years ago in a auto accident and leaving me with my 2 boys (5 and 7 at the time)..I feel we have a common bond..Jimmy and I went thru middle and high school together..I helped open up a few holes for him as he ran the football thru a successful football career. Life is funny ..one day your going down a road that is full of joy ,happiness and dreams..then in a twinkling of an eye..that road comes to a abrupt stop..Where we go from there shows our character as human beings..I know you and your family will move on to new roads and visions based on the character of you and Jimmy..I will never forget Jimmy and pray you and your boys reach happiness,love and joy as you once new..God Bless and may the Lord's light shine upon you and your boys. Mark DiDolci -K.H.S. Class of 78'

Joe Mauro

April 9, 2002

Hi Sheila,

I grew up in Kinnelon, NJ and played PAL football with Jimmy. Even as a boy, that guy had the heart of a lion. He was absolutely the product of a wonderful, caring, and loving family.



I have not seen Jimmy for many years, but when I heard the news, all I could think about were his parents, two brothers, and his family. My heart goes out to you all. I am now a Commander in the US Navy Reserve, and I have to say, every month when I report to my command in Newport, RI, I now think of Jimmy and the price he paid. I'll never forget him.

Sincerely,

Joe Mauro

Mary D'Alessandro

March 11, 2002

Sheila....my heart is with you every day.....I only met Jimmy once at the christening but I feel like I've known him forever....stand proud, be strong and remember he is watching over you and the boys....

My love to you all...

Mary........

March 1, 2002

DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS GIANT OF A MAN...JAMES (JIMMY) MARTELLO AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY JESUS AND ST.JAMES GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN

Jacqui Chait

January 13, 2002

I live in Maine, yet we are not so far away from everything that has happened. My sister Jodi and brother in-law Rick knew Jimmy--I may have met him at one of Jodi and Rick's parties over the years on Long Island. I have a daughter, Emma who is 3 and I often think about her growing up without me or my husband Mike. It feels so painful to think about it...I am so deeply sorry for your loss and I wish you well during this unbelievably difficult time.

fran gennarelli

January 11, 2002

i played football with jim at rutgers. we were 2 years apart and not close friends, but i would like to offer my condolences to the family. i only found out about jim;s passing after another teammate attended the last rutgers football game. please feel free to contact me at this e-mail address if there is anything i can do. i have 3 young children and my heart bleeds for you all.

god bless

JOE ALONZO

January 4, 2002

ALTHOUGH WE NEVER MET OUR SONS SIT SIDE BY SIDE IN THE SECOND GRADE.HOW PROUD YOUR LITTLE BOY IS OF YOU......I WISH WE COULD HAVE MET , I KNOW YOU ARE ALWAYS WATCHING OVER HIM GOD BLESS YOU.

Tom Kelly

December 29, 2001

With much rememberance and sorrow, from the class of KHS 1979.



From the love and caring of Jimmy, his Family and others....came a BIG... beautiful... wonderful family playground in Montville, NJ.

Visit it if you can.

From those of us who never knew you....Thanks.

From those of us you touched..even briefly, Thank you and God bless.

Teresa Jahn

December 23, 2001

What a wonderful credo to live by as that which Jimmy did. His generosity towards his fellow man is a testamony of his heart. We thank him for all he did for others. May his credo, his life and love live on through those who love him and in all the lives who have been touched by him. He has touched my life through the words I have read and in honor of Jimmy, I will try to live his credo also. May you always feel the warmth of his love penetrate your hearts to help lighten your pain. We are deeply sorry for your loss of Jimmy. Our hearts cry with you.

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

Gene Martello

December 23, 2001

Jimmy: I've read some great things about you and wish we could have met.I know we would have a lot in common. I coached my three boys too. My heart goes out to your family and we'll remember you and them in our prayers especially at Christmas.



The Gene Martello Family of Seneca Falls

Martina Coppenrath

October 19, 2001

Jimmy was a year behind me in high school and I remember him fondly as a big guy with a really big heart. He was nice to everyone, one of those guys you just couldn't help but like. He was a terrific athlete and I knew he would succeed at whatever he had his mind set on.

Padraic (Pat) Carlin

October 18, 2001

Jimmy lived in the dorm room next to mine at Rutgers during Spring semester 1980. At the time, my Lothario roommate had a habit of locking me out of our room, and Jimmy and his roommate Dennis let me hang out in their room whenever I wanted. He was always kind to me, and I remember him with fondness. My deepest sympathies to his entire family.

Ted Woerner

October 12, 2001

To the Martello Family,



Jimmy was a good kid. What do I say to ease such a tough loss? I can't help but to reflect on Jimmy growing up and then think of my own brothers. The hurt is tremendous. If thoughts and prayers are a help, you have mine.



With love and sympathy,



Ted Woerner

Debra Martello

October 5, 2001

Although I did not know James, my deepest sympathy goes out to all of you. Ironically, my last name is also Martello....maybe somehow, somewhere there is a blood line. My heart breaks for your loss and will keep you and James in my prayers. God Bless you!

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