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Gerard Nevins Obituary
Gerard T. Nevins lived a life of sweet contradictions. His primary job was fighting fires. But when he was not pulling people from burning buildings, he was tending to his small farm in the backyard of his house in Campbell Hall, N.Y.
"It was a way he could totally disconnect from all the madness of Manhattan," his brother Stephen Nevins said. "He would just make his way through the community every day as if he was just a farmer."
In his neighborhood, people recognized Firefighter Nevins, 46, as the man who raised pigs, goats and chickens and sold fresh eggs. He was also known as a doting father to Daniel, 7, and Andrew, 5.
Among the men at Rescue 1 in Midtown Manhattan, Firefighter Nevins was a keeper of traditional values. He was an 18-year veteran of the department who vehemently opposed ordering take-out food because he thought that cooking together helped to cement the brothers' bond.
To his wife Marie, Firefighter Nevins was simply a devoted husband, whom she fell in love with at first sight in 1979. "It was just one of those things where he looked at me, and I melted and that was it," she said. "It was that way for the next 20 years."
Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on January 13, 2002.
Gerard T. Nevins, 46, of Campbell Hall, New York, a New York City fireman since 1983, who was named firefighter of the year in 2001, died while trying to rescue others at the World Trade Center on Tuesday, September 11, 2001. Memorial services are scheduled for Saturday, October 6, 2001, 1 p.m., at St. Mary's Church, Route 208, Washingtonville, New York. Memorial donations are appreciated to Daniel and Andrew Nevins Educational Fund, c/o Hudson United Bank, 21 East Main, Washingtonville, NY 10992. Arrangements entrusted to David T. Ferguson Funeral Home Inc., Washingtonville, New York.
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Kathleen Nevins/ Melillo
July 1, 2025
Even thou I think I never met you as my dad's first cousin ,,,, you did a great service fkr us in Sept 12 2011,,, thank you...God ess you on heaven muss meeting g you...may God n angels ways keep you safe always to ...miss meeting you fkr the first time always t[iok. Your my dad's first cousin too...miss live yoy always...Sept q2 a sad day always a sad day always fir ne always always??? Always ist Mt dad n husband best friend that died this day to head of se unity if Dean Witter where Mt Dad worked ti very dad unfortunate day...God Bless all we lost...n you too n your our family too ....
Max Halleen
June 13, 2025
He´s my role model I hope to become a firefighter one day because of him
Judy Russell
September 11, 2024
I am so sorry for your loss. We will never forget.
Gene and MaryEllen Cannizzaro
September 11, 2024
Steve and Carol,
Keeping you in our thoughts today and always.
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Gene & MaryEllen Cannizzaro and family
September 11, 2023
Our remembrance of Gerry Nevins and his family.
Gene,MaryEllen& family
September 10, 2022
Steve,Carol & family,
Thinking of you and remembering your brother Gerard.
Susie Leuthold
November 6, 2021
I ran today in honor of Firefighter Gerard Nevins at the Tunnel to Towers 5k in clearwater, FL. I was a true honor to wear a badge bearing his name and photo. Rest in peace dear hero. Your sacrifice will not be forgotten.
Gene & MaryEllen Cannizzaro
September 11, 2021
Always remembered. Our thoughts are with the Nevins family on this 20th anniversary.
Robert Raniolo
September 11, 2021
A true American hero - may he rest in peace. 9/11 - never forget.
Gene & MaryEllen Cannizzaro
September 11, 2020
Remembering the Nevins family today.
Gene & MaryEllen Cannizzaro
September 11, 2019
To Steve,Carol & family,
Thinking of you today with heavy hearts.
Maureen Coffey
September 11, 2019
Dear Marie,
I think of the four of you so often and just say a prayer. 18 years!! Daniel and Andrew must be fine young men! You are all much loved and admired.
Michael Coiro
September 10, 2019
Gerry,
My son visited the 9/11 memorial last month. I told him about your service and incredible bravery in the face of such danger and peril. God bless your family and you for the ultimate sacrifice. The bravest.
September 11, 2017
Remembered. May God bless your family with peace. Comforted by the memories of love shared. Memories of the mind fade with time. But memories of the heart never die. Thank you for your service.
Brian Nevin
September 11, 2017
may god be with you and all who fell that day
Kathleen Melillo
September 9, 2017
Remembering another painful anniversary of this tragic day..althou I never think I met Gerard nevins I was told he was a man of great character..my dad's cousin..one man I wished I would have met I know he saved others and his life was taken on Sept eleventh when my first child was only five months old..watching cartoons that day with my son one minute then received a phone call of bad news..waiting here from my father Francis nevins who worked on upper floors in world trade center frantic hoping hear some news about family and father..I was told years later father helped trapped people get out he also got out escaped harm..but Gerard was one hero that didnt make it out saving our country..wished I would have met him..both my Dad and Gerard are hero's in my eyes along with all my fire dept to they did all they could save ones in need God bless America and the fire dept and their families lost on Sept 11 years ago watching this tonight I'm on tv is tearful for me and makes me cry. Try not be to sad..Dad passed away years later kidney failure cardiac arrest miss him eveyday...i miss getting chance meet Gerard Nevins to my Dads cousin to ... bless My dad today Gerard n all NYPD to for all yr efforts and help to Sept 11 16 years ago... thank y Gerard My father to for all yr efforts help people trapped in building to on that day...wishing Gerards family many prayers on the upcoming painful anniversary to my prayers with y to.
Kathleen Melillo
September 11, 2016
To my Father's Cousin Gerard..Peace and wished I could have gotten chance meet you when I grew up ...You were a Great man and Hero...God bless you and Yr loves ones on another painful anniversery to without you still here with us miss my father alot to that was in that building that day to..Francis Nevins he made ot out that day but does teo years ago other causes..Pray for Gerard n my father and all the Hero's that day as well..
Kathleen Melillo
September 11, 2016
I pray alot on this day for my dad's cousin Gerard Nevins.. I'm not sure if I ever met Gerard I was to small when my dad Francis talked about him...my Dad also was in the building that day working when this terrible event happened ..I was told My Dad worked hard as well get some people out of a room by kicking in the door...he kept that inside all these years..To me both my Dad's cousin Gerard and Francis are hero's in my eyes .My father made it out thay day alive but he past over two years ago from a Cardiac Arrest and a stroke. Both Gerard and Francis Nevins are hero's on the anniversery that just passed. All the NY Firefighters are remembered and in my thoughts n prayers...I Pray for Gerard and his family...Our loves ones are in heaven looking down on us. May our world remain safe with peace to
God Bless Gerald T. Nevins, Red Rocks Amphitheatre, Colorado
Christine Nikont
September 11, 2016
Our daughter, Sara, had the privilege of wearing Gerald Nevins' honorary badge at the Red Rocks Amphitheatre climb in Colorado on September 11, 2016. Our family is praying for your family today.
Sarah
May 4, 2016
Hi I am Sarah. I am in middle school in Hampstead, Maryland. I am researching Gerard Nevins to create a tribute for him. Any information you can give me would be extremely helpful. Thank you. You can contact me at [email protected]
FELIPE BELMAREZ
December 29, 2015
ON 12/24/2015 MY FAMILY AND I WENT TO 911 MEMORIAL TO PAY RESPECT FOR FALLEN FIREFIGHTER GERARD TERENCE NEVINS. BEING A HOUSTON POLICE OFFICER-EXPLOSIVE DETECTION CANINE HANDLER I"VE HAD THE HONOR OF BEING THE HANDLER FOR K-9 NEVINS. K-9 NEVINS WAS NAMED AFTER FALLEN FIREFIGHTER. K-9 NEVINS IS PART OF THE TSA CANINE PROGRAM IN SAN ANTONIO TEXAS. K-9 NEVINS PROTECTED THE CITY OF HOUSTON FOR APPROX.10 YEARS. NOW HE IS RETIRED AND ENJOYING RETIREMENT. MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO THE NEVINS FAMILY.
Melissa Kyser-VanHoutte
September 11, 2015
Always will remember your family, Steve, on this day. I heard great things about your brother, Gerry, and know that if he was anything like you he was a wonderful person. His sacrifice will never be forgotten. Nor will the sacrifices of so many on that day. God Bless the USA today and everyday, and all of it's heroes that continue to take care of our great nation.
S J. Friscia III
May 30, 2015
In Memory
With Honor & Respect.
April 15, 2015
Hello my name is Daniela, I am doing a research project for my school and I would like to know if I could have some more information about gerard I would love to learn more about gerard.
Andrew Nevins
December 31, 2014
My name is Andrew Nevins and I'm a Firefighter in Belfast, Northern Ireland. I've always been aware of Gerard and the heroism he displayed on that fateful day and continue to think about him over the years. There is a brotherhood amongst Firefighters throughout the world that is unbreakable and the loss of any is felt by all. I wish you all a great 2015.
Eoin Nevins
September 11, 2014
At this time we especially remember Gerard Nevins and all his family.
We are so proud of this brave hero.
From all the Nevins family in Waterford and all of Ireland.
'Ar dheis Dé go raigh a anam'
(his soul be at the side of the Lord)
Eoin Nevins
Kevin Molloy
September 11, 2014
I stop to hear you name read every year in honor of you and your service and for my friends and former neighbors Steve and Carol. Marie, and all the kids who are now grown up we will never forget. Never.
Andrew Nevins
April 6, 2014
Dad I miss you every single day. I am eighteen now, a long way from that little beach blonde blue eye kid that you would remember. I know you are always guiding me, through thick and thin. I'd give anything to have had you be a real part of my life, but the sacrifice that you made has made a stronger person and now finally a man. Just wanted you to know I love you Dad.
G Bryan
December 11, 2013
Tank you for lending me your courage and strength today.
Cathy Yohai
September 10, 2013
My husband is the son of Florence and Iz Yohai. Florence is Josephine Dolan's sister. We have Gerard's photograph displayed in our front hall. We think of him often and wanted to let you know. Members of our families and many of our friends have stopped to admire your handsome and brave husband. Our thoughts are with you tomorrow and always. Ron, Cathy and Olivia Yohai.
Tracey Farrell
September 11, 2012
Marie,
I am thinking about you and your family today. I found out a few years ago that you lost your husband on 9/11. I was so sad to hear that because I know he was your best friend. So sorry to hear that you now have two boys and that they will have to grow up without the love of Gerry. You are in my prayers.
Tracey Farrell, Kentucky (formerly NY BOCES)
Taylor Nadler
September 11, 2012
I would not be able to imagine how heart pounding and breath taking it would have been to bed in Mr. Nevins shoes. I think it is honorable to be one of the many that did not turn from the explosions,but one to dive into the building to help others in need. My father was a volunteer firefighter and I know how seriously he took his job and he was just filling in. I'm most positive that Mr. Nevins loved his job dearly and would lend a hand to anyone who needed it and for that I pray for him and his family on the anniversary of 9/11 and pray for the families that he saved in the fight. Mr. Nevins I take my hat off to you, thank you.
Melissa Martinelli
September 11, 2012
Another year has gone by and never once do I let it go by without thinking of you, Steve and your family. God bless and thank you for your sacrifice.
Lloyd Stansbury
September 13, 2011
It hard to believe that 10 years has gone by since that day when New York came to a hault. My prayers are with his wife Marie and two sons Daniel and Andrew. I will alway remember Gerry from Tappan Zee High School football team, as I cheered many time at those games, as Tappan Zee first male cheerleader. May God bless and keep his hands on his family. As Gerry rest and wait for the resurrection when we all shall be with the Lord.
Buford Duke
September 12, 2011
I work for Hendersonville Fire Dapartment in Hendersonville, TN. Yesterday marking the 10th year since the attack, 28 of my fellow brothers from Hendersonville along with 315 other brothers and sisters climbed 110 stories in honor of those who lost their lives protecting others. I was giving the name Gerard Nevins. So I went off to the side to say a prayer for the Nevins' family. Never having met Mr. Nevins but being a FF/Paramedic for 5 years his picture and name helped me make those 110 stories. I am not sure on how to get or request more information about Mr. Nevins but if someone could give some insight on how to do so I would appreciate it.
David Nevins
September 12, 2011
The Nevins family from Wexford and Waterford in Ireland would like to extend our deepest sympathy to all of the family and friends of Gerard on this the very sad occasion of his tenth anniversary
He was obviously a very brave and heroic person who made the ultimate sacrifice.
We will remember Gerard and his family in our prayers
Jay Lucas
September 11, 2011
Gerard, I saw your name on the memorial today and enjoyed reading about your life and values. On this 10th anniversary I will say a special prayer for you and your family. God bless.
In Memorial of Our Fallen
Jerry Beaulieu
September 11, 2011
Today I marched down the streets of Portland Maine as a firefighter in memory of our fallen bothers and sisters. Before the march began our family members were handed cards with names of FDNY & NYPD personnel who were lost on 9/11, My wife was handed Jerry's name, she marched along with me to honor him for what he did on this day in 2001. As we marched, all Firefighters and family members carried every lost person close to their heart to remind everyone that they will never be forgotten, as people came out into the city street to watch I could see the response was not that, people do remember. As our ceremony ended I wanted to know who was Gerard Terence Nevins and I have learned he was an amazing man. You are missed and never will be forgotten.
Andrew Nevins
September 11, 2011
From the Nevins in Australia, thankyou and god bless
DEREK NEVIN
September 11, 2011
This Morning on the 10th anniversary I saw your name on the Memorial and later heard your name in the role call of honour. From the Nevin family in England we honour your bravery and extend our heart felt best wishes to your family.
Melissa Martinelli
September 11, 2011
Still think of you and Steve and the family every year on this date, even though my ex-husband, Trooper Rick Kyser and I are not together anymore you are always first in my mind when this horrible tragedy is mentioned. God bless you today, 10 years later and always.
September 10, 2011
Another year Gerry and the world still misses you!!!!
Carol Dutoi
September 9, 2011
Today at our church I chose at random a name of one of the 9-11 victims, I chose Gerard. I am honored to remember you and keep you in prayer on the 10th anniversary of the greatest gift you have ever given. God Bless your family
Barbara Bell
September 7, 2011
It is hard to believe it has been ten years. I will be climbing 110 stories this Sunday in your honor. Thank you for your service and sacrifice. God bless your family.
Kathy
June 21, 2011
Thank you
JORDAN H
January 28, 2011
GERALD- IM SO INSPIRED BY YOUR HEROISM ON 9/11. I WILL NEVER FORGET YOUR BRAVERY ON 9/11. I PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY EVERY NIGHT. GOD BLESS YOU HERO. THANK YOU FOR WHAT YOU GAVE ON SEPT 11TH.
Ray Fornario
September 13, 2010
Gerry,
I still think about the old days growing up in Orangeburg, now so many years and miles away.
My thoughts and prayers are always with your family.
Jamie Novak
September 11, 2010
Gerry, you are missed but not forgotten. Thank you,and the men and women fire fighters, who sacrifice for the benefit of others.Our Hearts and Prayers go to the Nevins Family.
Tom Gallagher
December 7, 2009
I never knew you but I know your brother and nephew, God Bless you. We will never forget.
derrik martin
September 8, 2009
i miss you and love you so much uncle gerry, you'll always be my hero
rose
May 12, 2009
to this day... i still get teary-eyed from either veiwing or listening to the events of sept 11, 2001 and it still saddens me to know that such things go on in this great country that we live in. sometimes it makes me wonder... what next? how do u go on... knowing that so many people lost loved ones and the only time u will get to see them are in ur dreams or photos or in Heaven when-ever u go? i too lost a dear friend on that day... im still seeking closure but everyday is the same... my friend chance is still missing? i pray for every1 that has lost some1 and hope someday that they too can find closure and peace in their hearts. GBU...
Richard Gano
May 11, 2009
I was inspired tonight after listening to Brian Willams cover your story on the NBC Nightly News and by what you are doing in your husband's memory. I would like to contribute to your organization. Please email me information on with how I can contribute. My sympathy to you and your family for your loss!
MARK V PAUL
May 11, 2009
MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOUR FAMILY FOR THEIR LOSS, MAY ALMIGHTY GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU! I WILL KEEP ALL IN MY PRAYERS, MARK V. PAUL, A HURRICANE KATRINA "SURVIVOR", NEW ORLEANS, LA
Dan
January 3, 2009
While I never knew Gerry, I had several extended family members that have served with the FDNY. I have worn a bracelet with his name on it everyday since November 2001.
I wish his family and friends the best, and want them to know that he gave the ultimate sacrifice and will always be remembered.
Jim Barbera
November 18, 2008
How many steps must one man climb to reach the height of one good man? We are all still climbing to reach you, Gerry.
May 10, 2008
i never knew Mr. Nevins , but i know Mrs. Nevins, Danny and Andrew, they are great people and i pray for you ,
Jeramie Collins
April 24, 2008
Others before self, God Bless Gerald T. Nevins.
paul davey
October 11, 2007
to the family of gerard nevins the lord said greater love has no one than this, that he firefighter nevins lay down his life for another in memory of gerard terence nevis god bless u and ur family .
Gerry at a Manhattan All Hands Fire.
September 5, 2007
James Mislang
May 27, 2007
Thank you Mr Nevins for being you. Thank you for giving your life for others. You will always be remembered. RIP Friend!!!
nancy nevins
February 11, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are also with you Marie. I will also have in my mind the summers we spent with Jerry and his family playing on the farm. God bless all of you.
Nancy Nevins Flushing
Jesse
February 3, 2007
To Gerry and his family:
I have never got the chance to meet you all, but through the praising words of my grandfather (Popeye), and my mother (Lynn), I realize that he will live on forever in the hearts of all in the family, including myself.
God bless and my heart goes out to all of you!
LYNN NEVINS
February 3, 2007
GERRY, AS KIDS WE PLAYED IN THE HILLS, ALWAYS LOOKED UP TO YOU! NOW THE ANGELS ARE LOOKING AFTER YOU ,AND OUR FAMILY IS 1 HERO SHORT.
P Tabbernor
January 15, 2007
In memory....
Tom and Kathy Murphy
December 6, 2006
We still miss you and think of you Gerry!
Kristine
November 17, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
carla
September 19, 2006
my deepest sympathy to your family for their loss.
god bless you,
James Leahy
September 17, 2006
I bought some t shirts of Gerry on March 18th 1999. We had just marched in the parade the day before,I just met Rescue 1 by mistake. Out walking that morning, Rescue 1 had a box on 8th ave. I was told to walk to their quarters so I could buy some t shirts that I wanted to buy for myself and a friend.When we got there, I met Gerry.He showed myself, my father who is also a piper with the band, and my mother who came down for the ride, around the firehouse and also offered coffee to us.He was very sincere,and very proud of his firehouse and of his crew. I am very sorry for your loss. I thought you might like to hear this story about your loved one.
Judy Russell
September 11, 2006
I received a slip of paper from our local girl scout troop with the name Gerard T. Nevins pinned with red, white, and blue ribbons shortly after Sept. 11, 2001. I've kept it and continue to pray for your family. I want you to know, especially today, that we remember. May God grant you faith for today, hope for tomorrow, and the peace and love that surpasses all understanding in Christ Jesus.
Michael Coiro
July 20, 2004
God rest your soul. God bless your family. Never forgotten.
ANGIE LUMBATIS
September 11, 2003
TO HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS, I PRAY THAT YOU ALL KEEP FOND MEMORIES CLOSE AT HAND, AND THE LORD JESUS IN YOUR HEART. BECAUSE THROUGH HIM ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE.
Frederic Nevins
August 8, 2003
We are truely sorry about your recent loss. It was a terrible ordeal Gerard and all those people at the Trade Center had to bear.
Regards,
Fred, Barb & Stephen Nevins
Mark Landrith
October 31, 2002
Hi Gerry, its been awhile.. I grew up down the street from you in Orangeburg and delivered newspapers to you and your Uncles house next door in Bell Ans.. I recall that your Mom and Aunt would invite me in from time to time to get warmed up and talk in the winter months as your house was the last on my route before my bike ride home, and I thought what a nice family you have. I recall the last time I saw you was at a party in High School, now a long time ago.
I had heard that you had become a fireman in New York and thought that a noble and challenging job. I was saddened to hear that you were there that day in the Trade Center out helping others lives.
-It is great to read of the tributes to your life, and of the family you loved, and your small farm.. My best and most sincere condolences to your family and friends who love you and miss you.
Your in my prayers and I know your in the place of Light.. -someday we'll talk again.. Mark
Nicholas Marinaro
September 15, 2002
Gerry's Grandmother lives nextdoor to me. While I didn't know him that much, my parents were friends with him. When I did meet him, I thought he was a great person. I also went to his memorial service. I hope that all remember Gerry.
Joe Resendez
September 11, 2002
To the Family of Gerard:
I have no words to describe your loss. May God Bless you all and protect you forever. Be strong and I know time will heal your pain. Gerry will make sure of that. My son, Phillip goes to St. Pius X High School and that is where I picked up Gerard's name placed on a bracelet. I wore today, 9-11-02. I had a wonderful day; Gerard was with me and his positive outlook brightened my day. Love to you all.
Jesse
September 11, 2002
I will never forget the Washingtonville FIVE. Your Husbands, Your Fathers, Your Sons, Your Friends, Your Firemen, Our Heroes....
Kristen Mramor
September 11, 2002
Mrs. Nevins,
I originally added an entry on 12/11/01 and since then have had the honor of corresponding back and forth with your family friend Jeanne. I just wanted to let you know on this one year anniversary of 9/11/01, that I continue to keep you, Daniel, Andrew and your family and friends in my daily thoughts and prayers. God Bless Gerry for being such a wonderful husband, father, friend and hero. He will always be remembered.
Love & Prayers,
Kris Mramor
anonymous
September 11, 2002
To God we belong, and to Him we return. - Holy Qur'an
Danielle Roberts
September 8, 2002
I planted a tree in honor of Gerald Terence Nevins today. There was a person on the internet who purchased about 4,000 trees and placed a memorial tag on each one. I was fortunate to receive one with Gerald's name attached. From all that I have read, he was a remarkable person. My deepest sympathies for your loss. Your husband, and father, died a hero and will forever be remembered. God Bless!!
N. Kreeft
September 8, 2002
you died being a hero, and you'll live on being a hero. Not only in the minds of the American nation,but in the minds of people all over the world.
Yvonne Hulbert
August 28, 2002
Marie -
I can't easily explain why, but I was thinking of you guys today. Whenever I think of September 11, I always think of Gerry and send a silent prayer your way.
I hope the 1 year anniversary of Gerry's sacrifice brings you more peace than sadness.
I'll bet Kay Hulbert and Gerry are hanging out in that special room in heaven reserved for saints!
God Bless- Yvonne (& Mark & Josie)
Naureen
August 23, 2002
Hello, I am a student at Clements High School in Sugar Land, Tx and I would like to pay my repects to Mr. Nevin's family. God is with you. I found out of your loss because I am doing a history project on the September 11th tragedy and my teacher Mr. Madden put out a list of names (people who lost their lives) and all students in his class have to make a poster board project identifying people who risked their lives for our country. Then, he will get them all together and make a 'Wall of Rememberance'. Well, I have to go now but I just wanted to say that I am deeply sorry for your loss. Thank you for your time.
-Naureen
LGMM
August 15, 2002
I went to school with a Nancy Nevins, you bare a remarkable resemblance. Although I did not know Gerry personally,my love and prayers go out to his family. Reading his bio about his courage, his life and all the people he has touched-we will never forget that horrible day almost a year ago. America still grieves for the loss of such a dedicated hero, a dad, a husband, and neighbor. May he rest in peace with God and His angels.
David Bostick
July 25, 2002
Dear Mrs. Nevins,
I just recived a 9.11 Bracelet today in the mail with you Husbands name on it. I am also a full time firefighter and father of one son. I can not imagine what you and your famliy have gone through and hope that my famly never has to but with this in mind. I will be praying for you and your famliy and will were this braclet always in memory of a fallen brother and of a person who gave all without hesitation just like all of us do everyday. I hope and pray that god and you husband will watch over you alway.
Angie Campbell
May 7, 2002
**********GOD BLESS YOU**********
John and Carol Ravert
May 2, 2002
Dear Marie,
We just received this site from a friend and wanted to take the opportunity of saying a few words to you. You have been in our thoughts these many months since your loss, but have found it difficult to correspond with you. We are so sorry for you and your family, but also know of your strong faith knowing that you are all in God's hands and He will sustain you with everlasting memories of a wonderful man, husband, father and friend. Please know that all will remember the tragic event. It changed all of our lives and made our life so precious. Gerry was a hero and a person never to be forgotten. Our love and prayers go out to you. John and Carol
Rick and Missy Kyser
March 27, 2002
Thinking of you every day. May your memories keep you going and your faith in God help you to heal. Know friends are with you every step of the way. God Bless You Always!
Chuck Guess
March 17, 2002
God Bless
March 14, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS HERO FIREMAN...GERARD TERENCE NEVINS AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS WIFE..CHILDREN..FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..STAY CLOSE AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY JESUS AND ST.GERARD GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Rick Mapperson
January 16, 2002
Sitting here in Sydney Australia this afternoon I could not help but feel grief for the terrible loss of a man who died trying to help others. I could never imagine the pain you must feel but I will be praying that God will being His healing and mercy into your lives! Rick
Norman Baxter
January 16, 2002
May God's mercy heal your grief and renew your life.
Mark Harvison
January 16, 2002
My family sends its deepest sympathies. We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you.
Mark Harvison
Joan Fleischmann
January 13, 2002
Dear Marie,
I just found this on an internet site. I think of you and Danny and Andrew almost every day. I was so sorry we could not attend the service because we were out of town, and I am sorry I missed you when you came in to the office (I was next door making copies). I admired the devotion you had to one other you another and the devotion you both had to the boys. I know how heartbroken you are but I also know the kind of person you are and you will get through each day through your strength and because of your beautiful sons. You will always have the memories of a devoted husband who adored you, the devoted father who loved Danny and Andrew, the caring neighbor and friend to many, and the heroic man you were married to. Keep these thoughts and memories close to your heart and let them comfort you when the days get tough. God bless you and your family! Love, Joan Fleischmann
Teresa Jahn
December 17, 2001
We thank Gerard for his devotion at helping others as a firefighter. Such a profession comes with a warm and caring heart. We thank Gerard for sharing his heart with so many others. We are deeply sorry for your loss. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Kristen Mramor
December 11, 2001
Mrs. Nevins and family:
Yesterday I purchased a "Mercy Band" with your husbands name on it. I did not have the honor of personally knowing Gerard. But, the tributes I have read brought me to tears. Tears of sadness for his death and tears of joy for the amount of people's lives he touched. It made me realize what a remarkable, caring and brave person your husband was. I am honored to be able to wear a braclet bearing his name. I am the mother of a 6 year old and can't imagine the pain and sadness you and your children have experienced. I didn't know anyone personally from the 9/11 tragedy, but wearing this braclet with Gerard's name on it is my way of never forgetting one of those people and also their family. May knowing that he is at peace with our Heavenly Father bring you comfort. God Bless all of you.
Kristen Mramor
Columbus, OH
Paul T. Devine
November 12, 2001
God is good and God is great.We are sure that Gerard now has found that out for himself.From one fireman's family to another, God bless and be strong.
Tom Nevin
October 25, 2001
Dear Mrs. Nevins and family:
I noticed your husband's name on the list of fire fighters. I do not know if we may be distantly related or not but I am sending this to you to extend from my family to yours our deepest sympathy in your loss of a truly great American.
You and your family must have been proud of Gerry when he received his awards in June of 2000.
I am sure that this is an extremely hard time for you and your family, however, do not forget that God is always with us and gives us the strength to get through times when bad things happen to good people.
I did not know Gerry but to remember him and never forget what he was trying to do in the line of duty at the World Trade Center, I will keep his picture as the wallpaper on my computer, because he is the Bravest of All.
May God bless you and your family!
Tom, Carolyn and Daniel Nevin
Gloria and Leon Schadt
October 16, 2001
Dear Marie and family:
Our prayers are with you today and forever. May God Bless you and your family.
Gloria & Leon Schadt
Washingtonville, NY
Sue & Mike Falsetta
October 14, 2001
Dearest Marie, Daniel, & Andrew,
Marie, you & I shared many stories while we were "Team Moms" during our "Daniel's" 1999-2000 baseball season. I remember talking to you about Gerry's very special "Decoration" and how excited you & your boys, and others, were for him. May God Bless You and fill your hearts with his love and herosim, as his angelic wings embrace you all throughout your lives.
If there is anything I can do to help you, please do not hesitate to call me.
Rachel, Gene, Andrea & Christopher Ambroziak
October 13, 2001
Dear Maria, Andrew & Daniel
We want you to know you have been in our thoughts and prayers since we heard of Gerry's heroism. Our memories of Gerry is that he always gave to others and I will never forget him delivering eggs to our mailbox or the times we saw him working in the yard. We know he was an extra ordinary man and we are honored to have known him.
We sincerely love all of you and will always keep you in our prayers.
Rachel, Gene, Andrea & Christopher
Ambroziak
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