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Christopher Gray Obituary
Just for a moment, Christopher Stewart Gray lived his greatest dream. He became a professional football player ‹ a strong-armed quarterback no less ‹ for the Miami Dolphins, the team he rooted and raved for while growing up in New Jersey. His big moment came in 1992, when the team offered him, a former University of West Virginia quarterback, a free agent contract.
The moment lasted only a month, but Mr. Gray, 32, took the lessons he learned all the way to Wall Street, where he became a foreign exchange broker for Cantor Fitzgerald. Work hard, he believed, and anything is possible.
"Chris was a goal setter," said his father, Jim Gray, recalling how his son declared that he would one day play for the Dolphins while watching them in the Orange Bowl when he was six. "He wanted a shot and he got it. When it was over, he wanted to have a good job and he got it. And he even found a beautiful young woman to be his wife."
Mr. Gray and his fiancée were to be married in May. His father says he grows weak just thinking of the family his son might have had. But he manages to fight back the tears, remembering all the goals his son did reach. "He truly lived his life. We were lucky we had him for 32 years."
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Jennifer Costa
February 4, 2025
Happy Birthday in heaven my friend !!!
Anabelle Gray
September 6, 2024
Hi Jessica, Janet Gray, Chris's mom, would be happy to help you with the project. Let me know and I can put you in touch with her. That said, there are a number of articles written about Chris Gray, one in the Asbury Park Press last year, about his WVU scholarship fund. And a number of WVU articles all searchable. You will learn he was a true legend, not just as a quarterback, but also as a warm, funny and charismatic son, friend, colleague in any community he touched. Best of luck on your son's project.
Jessica
September 5, 2024
My 7th grader son is doing a project on the 9/11 victims. And he has to pick out a name starting with his First letter of his last name and find an individual to write about.
As I was reading your name popped up and seeing that you were playing as a QB might catch interest for his project.
So he will have the honors to write a paragraph about you.
Sending condolences to the family. As this month is such a hard month for you.
Prayers sent.
Anabelle
September 11, 2023
It doesn't get easier each 9/11 anniversary. Charlotte, your niece, told me last night that she wishes that she met you. She's 9 now. Thomas, your 13 year-old nephew, looks up articles and videos of you playing football. He aspires to be like you and throw the football like you. Thomas put together an iPad montage which includes lots of photos of you and then switches to him, where it sounds like the voiceover is telling him to just be himself. With that, I know you are watching over them. Tim, Jay and Nonnie miss you every day. We know you are with Poppie in Heaven. Tim and I were just dating when I met you but am happy for the times we shared and am honored to be your sister-in-law. xoxo
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Michael Bousanti
December 23, 2022
I only knew Chris from a far. In 1987 I was on the opposite side of the football field when we played him. I went to Howell High School and I was a sophomore I was 2nd string QB behind Derek Dee. It was a night game and I remember the ROCKET ARM he had. I remember that he was tall and I said to myself that kid is definitely going pro. I didn´t play in that game so I got to watch him play up close. Today is December 23 2022 and my brother and I were talking about QB´s while we were watching the Jet game. I was watching Trevor Lawrence for the Jags play QB and he´s 6´6" and has a rocket arm and I started telling my brother that I remember this QB his name is Chris Grey and he played for Manalapan High School and Chris I thought kinda resembles Trevor Lawrence. I was describing to my brother that Chris had a rocket arm and I specifically remember Chris dropping back (5 step dropback) and he was throwing bombs. There was no arc in the football when Chris threw it. It was a tight spiral on a line. Looked like the ball was being shot out of him like a cannon. I never forgot him. I also worked in NYC. I was a floor trader on the floor of the NYSE. I was there on 9/11/01. I never knew Chris worked for Cantor. I googled him today and found out today that he´s no longer with us. I want to say I´m so sorry to his family. Chris and I never knew each other we played against each other and today I found out that we both worked in the equities business. 11 Wall Street is where I was. To his family...I will never ever forget Chris and how good he was at playing football and QB.
Anabelle Gray
September 12, 2017
Thinking of you today, every day and praying for the Gray family who miss you so much xoxo
Jennifer Costa
September 11, 2017
Always in my heart ! ❤❤
Jennifer Costa
September 11, 2015
Thinking of you today my friend!!!! ❤
Mountaineer Field
September 11, 2014
Montani Semper Liberi
Bob Haughie
September 11, 2014
Chris-
We miss you with all our hearts..
September 11, 2014
As always, thinking of you and missing you.
Jennifer (Preizer) Costa
September 8, 2014
You are always on my mind and forever in my heart! Miss you my friend!!
Bob Haughie
September 12, 2013
Chris-
We miss you and think about you all the time..
Anabelle Gray
September 11, 2013
Your family misses you desperately every day. I am saddened that my son Thomas Christopher Gray will never get to know his Uncle Chris. Your WVU #16 jersey hangs in his room and we tell him you were a great quarterback and wonderful person. You would've been an awesome uncle. Prayers to Nonnie, Poppie, Jay and Tim and to you in heaven.
Scott Unger
February 4, 2012
Happy Birthday, Chris. I think about you every day.
September 9, 2011
......once a Mountaineer, always a Mountaineer
I hear her voice, in the mornin hours she calls to me
The radio reminds me of my home far a-way
And drivin down the road I get a feeling
That I should have been home yesterday, yesterday
Country roads, take me home
To the place, I be-long
West Virginia, mountain momma
Take me home, country roads
Linda Zumbrun
September 9, 2011
To our cousins, the Gray family. We are thinking of you, especially this weekend. Our love to you all.
Michele Heusel
September 2, 2011
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
September 11, 2010
Thinking of you today and always!
Jennifer Costa
September 9, 2010
Chris - I think of you often and all I can do is hold onto the memories. When I think of you I smile (I know that is what you would have wanted.) Thanks for the happy memories my friend. Miss you!
Alyssa Dolman
September 12, 2009
It's hard to not cry now when September 11th rolls around. But its also hard to not think of Chris and smile remembering his incredible personality, and sense of humor.
It was an honor to know you Chris.
richard blunt jr
September 11, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
james gray
September 11, 2009
Chris
I think about you everyday. I love you and miss you!
J
September 11, 2009
I climbed up these hills till I came to the spot where I stand.
I cleared these fields and I pulled up the stumps with my hands.
No more a wanderer, no more a refugee
A mountaineer is always free.
I carried them up on my shoulders to where they could see.
The whole world before them just so they would know what it means
No more a wanderer, no more a refugee
A mountaineer is always free
No kings and no landlords to treat us like beggars and thieves
There's no one but God here to fear or to look down on me
No more a wanderer, no more a refugee
A mountaineer is always free
Jennifer Preizer-Costa
September 11, 2009
THINKING OF YOU TODAY AND ALWAYS MY FRIEND!
LOVE, JENNIFER
Melody Cox
September 11, 2008
My family and I are currently foster puppy parents to a TSA puppy. At age one this dog will go into training to search for explosives in mass transit areas. His name is Ggray and he was named for Christopher. All of the TSA puppies are named after 9-11 victims. I just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss but how proud I am to help care for an animal that will help protect this nation and who carries the name of your loved one. Please contact me if you wish to get more information or photos of Ggray.
Mike Bohn
September 11, 2008
What a loss. Very sorry.....
J Gray
September 11, 2008
Chris
I think about you EVERYDAY! I miss you brother!
Love you
J
Alyssa Dolman
September 11, 2008
Definitely an unforgettable personality. You will always be in our hearts, and memories. I am sure we all have a story that brings a smile to our face and a little bitter sweet laughter.
Robert Haughie
September 11, 2008
Chris-
Still thinking about the good times we had with you and your brother Jay in Manalapan.
September 11, 2008
We miss you and think of you often. Remembering and praying for both you and your family today and always.
September 10, 2008
dude
We all sure miss those days of drinking and shooting pool at Tailgater's Pub....life was so much simpler then....
Let's Go Mountaineers.....
--Your Brooke County beer drinking buddies
Jennifer Costa (Preizer)
May 1, 2008
Chris,
To my very "first" boyfriend whom I miss terribly ... so many years have gone by, yet it seems like yesterday you were riding your "really cool bike" to my house to say a quick "hello." Those days I will cherish always! As I celebrate my birthday February 4 (same as yours), I remember your parents taking us to Ground Round for dinner and ice cream in Yankee cup holders! So many years went by, Chris, with so many changes for both of us, and yet in my high school year book you wrote, "I will always love you." I have read that a million times since that day, and I want to tell you that you will forever have a special place in my heart! I can only hope that my two daughters are lucky enough to have their lives touched by a person that they will remember forever!
All my love,
Jennifer
adam vatter
September 11, 2007
Hello to the Gray family. I am happy to find this on the web so that I might send this note. I would like to say hi to both Jay and Tim Gray, and that I am thinking of you guys on this day. I have a son Mason and a daughter Marissa that will know the impact of this day and that it is personal to me, their father. Toast in the highest regards to the Gray family from the Vatters boys that lived in the cul da sec down the block.
You are not forgotten in my mind. My outfit, the Blake School, has a girder from the WTC because a student named Aamoth persished at WTC and another MN perished on the flight that crashed in PA. You guys are not forgotten to me. I smacked the girder today and said what's up Chris.
Hi Tim, Hi Jay, and to Mrs. and Mr. Gray.
Adam Vatter
Information Services
The Blake School
Hopkins, MN
J Gray
September 10, 2007
Chris
I think about you everyday. Life just is not fun with you not in it. I really miss you!
Love
J
Kristine
November 2, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
October 25, 2006
In remembrance....
Scott Unger
September 26, 2006
Chris:
I think about you every day. The world is just not the same without you. I miss you.
Love,
Unger
Karen Kofod
September 13, 2006
Heartfelt wishes to the Gray Family:
We grew up with you in Manalapan and have many fond memories of Chris and your whole family. You are such wonderful people, and we miss you and are thinking of you often.
With love, the Kofod Family
September 12, 2006
We think of you often. Wish you were stil here with everyone!
ROBERT HAUGHIE
September 12, 2006
Chris will always live on in our hearts.
J Gray
September 10, 2006
I think about you EVERYDAY!
Dermot Crawford
April 17, 2006
I miss you so much buddy.
Because of where I work now there isnt a day goes by where you dont pop into my head and it always leaves me with a smile on my face.
Dermot
Balad-Iraq
Dermot Crawford
April 17, 2006
I miss you so much buddy. In look forward to the day when we will be shuckin corn in heaven together.
September 10, 2005
We miss you and think of you often.
Christine Ross
September 3, 2004
To the Gray Family:
Even as time passes on and we approach the 3rd anniversary of that awful day, words can not express how sorry I am. I recently began working at One World Financial Center and I think about September 11 every day. My mother, Carol Ross, was always very fond of Jim and his family and she was heartbroken when she heard about Chris. We both offer our heartfelt prayers.
Christine Ross
Michelle
August 26, 2004
I went to high school with Chris and was deeply saddened to learn he was one of the victims on 9/11. My heartfelt condolences to his family and friends. I have a clear picture of Chris in school -- a big smile on his face as he towered over everyone in the hallway wearing his red Braves shirt. He did not deserve this and my heart breaks for him.
Debbie DeCru
April 26, 2004
We miss you very much. You are a very special person. I will see you in heaven.
Robert Haughie
September 11, 2003
I met Chris when i was just a kid.Me and his brother Jay grew up together.Some memories of Chris are when me Chris,Rob and Mark would cut lawns for his brother Jay.Jay would always yell to Chris look we got 35 more lawns to cut so gun- ho and get cutting Chris.Of course Chris would just laugh and go on to the next lawn and blow it out.Chris made work so much fun and a laugh to be with as he would listen to the Outfield and Run Dmc on his walkman as he mowed the next lawn without putting the blades down..His Porsche red VW that everyone in Manalapan seemed to get a turn at driving it was such a eye catcher.Mostly beacuse it always broke down in the Grays driveway or at Texaco..Nights at OST..On behalf of myself my wife and the Haughie family we all pray for you and miss you with all of our hearts..Your brother Jay and Timmy couldnt ask for a better brother to have..Thinking of you always Chris...
ann cordier
September 11, 2003
i found out recently that Chris was among the people in the twin towers, i remember when him and Keith went to Penn. St.to football collage, I really dont have anywords , but i really feel for u ,, my depeast sympthy. Ann
Nancy Kelly
September 11, 2003
It's been two years since our greatest fear became reality and you did not return home. We think about you and your family often, most notably, the Christmases spent together, your family and ours, that were forever changed when Michael died and once again when we lost you. We get by on the memories of all of the laughs we had, the video tape of you and Tim singing and dancing for our kids on Christmas the year before and the deep friendship and love shared by our families over the years. Our lives are forever changed with your absence. Our hearts go out to Kelly, your beautiful fiance who we still see from time to time. Getting on with her life will be difficult- you are a tough act to follow. On behalf of the Kelly family we love you, we miss you and we hope and pray for Jay, Tim and your parents- that they take one day at a time and are able to heal knowing you touched so many lives and made the most of the 32 years you were with us.
God Bless.
With Love,
Nancy, Michael, Patrick and Katie
Steve Bierer
September 11, 2003
To the Gray family,
I spend today remembering Chris. I was a student manager at WVU during the time that Chris played. He was such a pleasure to be around. I can remember him hosting the team's Gong Show, making even Coach Nehlen fall on the floor laughing. I know that he is missed by anyone who ever met him.
Linnette Montalvo
September 11, 2003
CHRIS,
I WANT TO TELL YOU THAT I MISS YOU VERY MUCH, YOU WERE SUCH A NICE GUY. I REMEMBER WHEN YOU AND KELLY HELPED ME WITH TOBY'S BIRTHDAY PARTY AT THE "OUTBACK" WE HAD A GREAT TIME. THANK YOU.
MY CHILDREN AND I REMEMBER YOU ALWAYS AS THE TALL GUY WITH THE BIGGGGGGG SMILE. AND I WANT TO TELL YOU THAT YOU HAVE A GREAT BROTHER, WHO KEEPS YOU ALIVE.
WE LOVE YOU CRHIS.
Murphy Tinsley
September 11, 2003
Chris,
I finally met your family at the golf tournament a about a year ago. They were so proud of you and love you so much.
You touched so many lives, in so many ways, and you continue to inspire us.
God bless you, Chris.
Murph
September 10, 2003
Thinking of you.
Roger Flick
July 20, 2003
I only new Chris through my nephew Jed. They played college football together. He was deeply saddened by the loss of his friend, (as we all were). Having someone in my family directly effected by this tragedy made it even more "personal".
As a tribute to Chris, I rode in America's 9-11 ride in August of 2002 from Shanksville Pa. to the Pentagon, then on to New York city
with a note on the windshield of my bike: "In Memory of Chris Gray"
I plan to do this again this year and every year that I am able. We must never forget any of the souls that were lost that day. Chris, his fiance, and his family remain in my prayers.
Scott Unger
February 4, 2003
I miss you.
Craig Avena
October 8, 2002
To the Gray family:
I am so sorry about your loss. I wish you the best of everything for the future. I went to high school with Chris at Manalapan until I moved in 1985. I followed Chris' playing at WVU and even saw him in on several occasions in Morgantown and New Orleans for some Mountaineer games after he finished at WVU. When we spoke, it was always like we were back in Manalapan and never had moved away. I will always remember him. Everyone will miss him greatly and remember him for the great person that he was.
September 11, 2001 - We Will Always Remember
Amy (Lazar) O'Donnell
October 2, 2002
My heart breaks again and again, every time I think back to September 11, all of the loss, for everyone, seems so senseless.
To the Gray family;
I think of Chris often, remembering the way he brightened up every room, the way he made people feel comfortable… It is only when I think of Chris, do I smile. I have such fond memories of Chris from High School. I will always picture Chris with that huge smile of his, as I picture him now, smiling at us all, form Heaven.
Noreen & Denny Parise
September 14, 2002
Chris, We will always remmber you and your family. Noreen & Denny Parise
Gary Sprengel
September 13, 2002
Chris and I both lived in Weehawken and I know several people who went to WVU. Peripheral connections, I know, but it just brings the senseless loss even closer to home. I am so very sorry to his family and friends for your huge loss. My prayers are with you.
gene mahon
September 13, 2002
To the Gray family and Chris's fiance. I met Chris in the market years ago when he first started. His self depricating sense of humor was second to none. We worked out in the WTC together and talked sports. We also spoke about each others relationships and how excited we both were move forward in our lives. Chris had geat energy that was contagious and always fun. I wish there was something i could say or do that would change your terrible loss. Although i never have the oppurtunity to meet Chris's family, it was quite evident that he came from fine stock and you should be proud that you raised such a gentleman...as proud as i am to have called Chris my friend. May your days brighten as time passes and your sorrow turn to joy as you remember your son and brother for what a fine man he was! Godspeed, Gene Mahon
Barbara Jo Tiberi
September 12, 2002
To the Gray Family & Kelly,
I graduated with Chris from Manalapan High School and have nothing but good memories of him. We were not good friends, but knew of one another. I used to hang out with Jay, and he always had GREAT things to say about his brother. He will be truley missed and always in my heart.
Tracy Cosgrove-Fields
September 12, 2002
I just wanted to express my sincerest sympathy to the family of Chris Gray. Chris and I graduated from Manalapan High School the same year and although we didn't share the same friends, I remember him well. Every time I picture him in my mind he has a smile on his face. I'm so sorry for your loss and please know there are people praying for you.
Monica Gibson
September 11, 2002
On the one year anniversary of 9/11 I wish to send my thoughts and prayers to the Gray family as well as his fiance Kelly. We all mourn the loss of a wonderful human being and all of us who knew Chris will always think of him with special thoughts. Chris, you will always be in our hearts and you will never be forgotten. God Bless you and God Bless America!!!!!
Sean Gould
September 11, 2002
Chris -
It seems so long ago, and in a place so far removed from where we are now, even though we only knew each other because we frequented the Sports Page at the same time. We would run into each other there and it almost became comical. When I tell friends stories about Morgantown, there is at least one that starts 'I knew this guy at this bar...' and ended with 'and he was the quarterback'. I still remember leading 'first down' chants in the stands, watching you play.
I always wanted to thank you for just being a good guy - something that I will always remember you by. Your family and friends can be nothing less than proud of you - making us all better for having spent time with you. Quick to smile, quick to laugh.
I think you might still owe me a beer 'cause I beat you at that stupid pinball game. Where ever you are - keep that beer ready for me when I get there, but in the meantime, keep an eye out and send us a smile in the times we need it the most.
Let's Roll, Moutaineers!!
I miss you buddy.
Sean Gould WVU '92
Scott Cosco
September 11, 2002
Chris, I remember fondly the highlights and memories you gave so many us those fall Saturdays at Mountaineer Field.
If there is one thing West Virginians are it's close-knit. When you become a Mountaineer you are one forever.
As our Governor said today at our September 11th ceremony at the state capitol, Christopher Stewart Grey will never be forgotten.
Mountaineers Are Always Free
Godspeed my friend.
Vicki
September 11, 2002
While I did not know Chris personally, I was a student at West Virginia University when he played Quarterback. I have fond memories of watching him play. I just wanted to tell the Gray family that Mountaineers everywhere continue to pray for you. Chris will always remain in the hearts of Mountaineer fans. God bless
Jessica
September 11, 2002
I did not know Chris, but I went to high school with Tim, and consider Jay a friend. Such phenomenal people - I can only imagine how special their brother must have been. My thoughts and best wishes are with the entire Gray family, as well as Chris's fiancee.
Aimee Hays
September 10, 2002
When I was a freshman at WVU (91-92), Chris was one of our quarterbacks. I saw his picture in the programs and on TV and I had a huge crush on him. One day at the 7-11 on University Ave across from Towers Dorm, I saw Chris in person. I turned into a giggley mess. There was this awesome gorgeous blond Mountaineer quarterback in the same store as me. I managed a "Hi." That was the one and only time I ever saw him in person. The WV state motto is "Mountaineers are always free." Now he is. My thoughts are with your family.
Kim Bubnowski-Richards
September 10, 2002
Dear Gray Family,
I knew Chris when I lived in Manalapan. He was in my home econonmics class. I just wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. He was a great person. Not a day goes by that I don't think of him. Thanks to him I have great memories and photos of the times we shared in class together. He will be greatly missed.
Jay Gray
September 5, 2002
Chris,
It was just about a year ago when I talked to you last. I never thought it would be the last time we would talk again. I want you to know that I think about you everyday. My life is terrible without you.
I miss so much
Love
J
Tiffany Moore
August 29, 2002
What to say when words don't seem sufficient? I can only say that I was so very lucky to have known Chris, however many years ago. Everyone who knew Chris was lucky. He was such a positive presence in the lives of all who knew him. When I think of your parents, Kelly and your brothers, Chris, it simply breaks my heart.
I think of you and your family often, and remember the good times we shared.
Glenn Wilder
August 29, 2002
Chris
To say that you are missed is certainly an understatement. You have made a lasting impression on everyone who was lucky enough to know (or even meet) you. My prayers are with you and your family, always. There are so many memories that bring a smile to my face when I think about them:
Judy Ricciardo
August 20, 2002
I will always remember and miss Chris very much. It was always a pleasure working with him at MW Marshall.
Claudine Scozzari
August 15, 2002
Chris,
Happy Thursday! You didn't know me personally, but we knew of each other. Although, we did have a business class together in high school. You were assigned to sit in the front of the class, and I sat in the back. And, the teacher used to greet us with "Happy Monday", "Happy Tuesday", or whatever day it was. In the past year, there haven't been too many mornings that have been "Happy" for many people; but, we have all gone on.
I chose to write in your book entry because you are one of the few people that was affected that I can identify with because of our backgrounds. I knew so many people that were lost or were affected by the day. The day of your memorial service reminded me of Solidarity Day. My immediate family and I didn't go, but you and your family were in our thoughts. My family and I spent the day together at my parents' home remembering all those affected. Our area was devastated by the loss of the day.
Not much has changed in the past year; and yet, so much has changed. You and everyone else affected on that day are in my thoughts. And, my prayers go out to your fiancee, your family, and your friends. You are all true heroes.
Claudine
Tim Gray
August 5, 2002
It was a year ago today when we said our last goodbye. I only wish we had a chance to live out our dreams together. I miss you brother -- you'll always be with me.
Miles Montgomery
July 22, 2002
I miss you man. You are the best.
Scott Unger
June 30, 2002
Dear Chris -
I miss you terribly. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you. You were always a wonderful, caring person and friend.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire wonderful family.
Love,
Unger
John
June 7, 2002
To have died in vain is not a shame. To have lived in vain is tragic. Chris Gray did not live in vain. Just look what everyone has had to say about him. Yes, he died far too early, but his legacy as a man and friend obviously tells me he did not live in vain. As a fellow Mountaineer, although a good bit older (WVU '64), I salute Chris and say that those who knew him personally, are far better off than if they had never met him. God be with the Gray family.
Kelly Gangwer
May 18, 2002
Chris,
Today is the day that we would have been surrounded by our family and friends. A day to start to plan for our future and the family that we were so anxious to have. Today would have been our wedding day.....
I miss and love you every minute of every day. I am not me without you. Love , Kelly
marilyn
May 10, 2002
Dear Chris
You don't know me , but I recently met your parents, unfortunately, because we both lost our sons, I want you to know that if you were anything like your parents , they did a great job, because your parents are terrific, and they miss you with all their hearts. I just wanted you to know that my son Brian is with you, I hope you meet him, you both came from good familes,and know you would like each other.
May god bless you and your parents
LOve Brians Mom
Deborah
May 7, 2002
Dear Chris,
Your father was so very proud of you and admired all of your personal and athletic achievements; I can hear it in his voice. Fortunately, you lived fully and with no regrets.
God bless you and all who lost their lives on September 11.
Deborah
Kristen Vreeland
April 30, 2002
I used to work out at the Fitness Center located at 5 Worlde Trade. I remember seeing him run on the treadmill almost every night. My prayers go out to his family and fiance.
Russ Kohlmann
April 28, 2002
I didn't know Chris at all. I barely knew his father who was so active in the Manalapan community that Chris grew up in. His Dad seemed to be a happy, dynamic person, and apparently his son didn't fall too far from his Dad's tree. I can only relate to a father losing his son, who added so much joy and pride to his life. I see a very different Jim Gray now, one deeply affected by his terrible loss. I can only imagine what dreams will now never be realized: being a happy father in law, a proud grandparent, and a loving Dad. Chris obviously made his father proud. I'm pretty sure Chris was proud of his father too. I hope Jim will know that Chris is still proud of him and that Jim will always be proud of Chris. God bless you both.
Cara Winland
April 2, 2002
I don't remember much of Chris but I do remember how great of a person he was. Some may not know that Chris taught tee-ball and junior softball, but he did and I was one of the kids he taught. I am now 14 years old and being a teen and dealing with all this is pretty hard. I can remember going to everyone of the WVU football games since I was probably 2. Chris was a great ball player and a great person. To all of you who are suffering from this I am praying for you as I am Chris! I love you all!
Anthony Mormile
March 11, 2002
I have terrific memories of Chris Gray. I had fun playing recreation football and high school basketball with him. He always made everyone laugh. He did a hilarious impression of me playing basketball that still cracks me up. I remember feeling proud when I watched him on TV playing QB for WVU. My heart goes out to the entire Gray family and everyone who was special to him.
Timothy Wall
March 11, 2002
Chris,
I just found this site,I just wanted to say ,since grade school you were the BEST Quaterback I ever played with. God Bless you
Tim
Anne Weiss
March 11, 2002
HeyJayGray
Though I didn't know your brother Chris, I can see the wonderful sense of humor you share. Thinking of you. Annie and Ripper
Jason Burris
February 6, 2002
My condolences to Kelly and the Gray family. I lived with Chris during my last year at WVU while he was student teaching. I remember most how much his family and friends meant to him and how he made everyone around him feel better. I can't begin to imagine your pain and only hope that you can take some solace in the impact that Chris had on so many lives.
James Shook
February 5, 2002
I had the good fortune to play ball with Chris at WV. and will remember him as great guy.
Chris, Kelly, and the Gray Family remain on our minds and in our prayers. Jim and Sandy
Fran Hartley
February 4, 2002
Dear Gray Family, We do not know each other. I am Rex Hartley's mother. Rex loved Chris, and still misses him. His talk now is of the fun they had. I wanted to let you know that my heart aches for your loss of such a wonderful son. May God bless all of you. Sincerely, Fran
Christopher Driscoll
February 4, 2002
Chris,
While your life on this earth was only 32 years you can be very proud of making the most of it. Your accomplishments speak for themselves. And it is so vividly clear how much of an impact you had on so many lives.
I have many memories of us playing ball year-round together. At summer recreation, basketball, the '69 Traveling team for soccer....and, of course, playing center with you as QB for the Oilers....with Coach Viola at the helm. Of all the times we had one in particular stands out. It was a team pizza party at the Yorktowne Deli - we were probably about 12 years old. You were really "on" that day and you held court for the better part of the party - keeping everyone laughing with improvisational jokes, jabs and humor. Even at such a young age you had the ability to put a smile on many peoples' faces. That was a gift you shared with so many people. I can not think of a more noble trait.
Thanks for the good times. Thanks for the laughs. Thanks for the memories.
Christopher Driscoll
January 28, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL ATHLETE..TOO YOUNG TO DIE.
MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK.MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY ST.CHRISTOPHER
GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN.AMEN
Robert Anderson
January 21, 2002
I enjoyed having Chris as a student in a class I taught at WVU. I didn't know him all that well, but have heard it said on a local talk show that he was very popular with his teammates, and was quite a wisecracker. The coach was known to ask after a team meeting, jokingly, "Anyone have anything to say? Except you, Gray!"
I know the WTC area, and worked about two blocks from it for several years. I can't imagine the pain and loss his family feels. I can only hope our comments are of some help.
Todd Spiegel
January 18, 2002
I feel the need to express some closure and that is my motive for writing here. I grew up in Manalapan , NJ with the Gray family (more so on the soccer field)My deepest symphathies go out for the whole Gray family. Be Well
PeAcE
David & Donna Green
January 17, 2002
Our hearts go out to the Gray Family. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
David & Donna Green
VIVIAN & BOB OWEN
January 8, 2002
SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. JUST DISCOVERED THIS SITE AND WANTED TO EXPRESS OUR SINCERE CONDOLENCES TO ALL OF THE MEMBERS OF THE GRAY FAMILY. AS FORMER NEIGHBORS WE REMEMBER CHRIS AND HIS MANY ACCOMPLISHMENTS AND BOB BEING FROM WEST VIRGINIA DID FOLLOW CHRIS THROUGH HIS COLLEGE YEARS. AGAIN SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.
A Fellow Mountaineer
January 5, 2002
Thanks for the smiles, the memories, and the example you set.
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