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Candace
January 5, 2025
My cousin Carl Molinaro´s name is next to Thomas at the memorial. We see thier names together everytime we go. Today I thought "I need To know Thomas" and here I am. God bless his family. We will never forget.
David Hetzel
September 18, 2023
Remembering all the past loved ones in eternity.
Tom Strite
September 17, 2023
Yesterday, my wife Dianne, my daughter Amanda, and I participated in the 9/11 Memorial Stair Climb at M&T Bank Stadium. I was fortunate enough to climb in your memory. Every morning, I will wake up, look at this badge, and will think of you, your wife, and daughter. Never forget!
David Hetzel
April 22, 2023
I still remember that day as if it were yesterday.
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A.L
October 26, 2019
Terribly sorry for your loss of life that horrid day in 2001, but thanks for your service with the FDNY.
Bill Hetzel
September 11, 2018
To the family of Thomas Hetzel
When my wife and I learned that we were going to go to NYC in 2017, we knew we had to visit Thomas firehouse. We were able to talk to a couple of firefighters there. We learned that one of their grandmothers and Thomas grandmother were best friends in Germany. My wife made a quilt square for the memorial quilt in his memory. We continue to be saddened by the loss of Thomas and his friends but are buoyed by the reports of their heroism and character. We still pray for your family and for your safety and care. May God richly bless you all.
Bill and Maggie Hetzel
Carrollton, Tx.
David Tate
December 26, 2017
Although I never met Thomas, but heard kind things about him, I'd just like to state this. Thomas Hetzel seemed like one of the greatest and one of the most likable people you could ever meet and also one of the finest firefighters of the FDNY. He gave his lives for others in need and was (and still is) a symbol of courage and heroism. He may not be with us anymore, however we can all agree that Thomas touched so many lives and made the people he saved feel better about what happens in a fire. Thomas really knew his stuff and loved his job as a firefighter. He was a good father and overall superb role model for people who knew him closely or as just your average friendly neighbor. Rest In Peace, Thomas!
Jill
September 23, 2017
I'm So so sorry It took so many years to write this. I worked in the Emergency Room.in Franklin Square and had seen you not long before that evil day took you and so many others. I ran into your sister one day I was working in a Dr.s office and the name HETZEL was next to come in.I know you don't need me to say this , but she misses you terribly and spoke so highly of her brother. We went to grammar school together,you area hero and a friend .i took my then 1 1/2 year old daughter to your mass I stood outside with many of your brothers on the front line..it was the most BEAUTIFUL MASS I have ever been too. I also lost a few other friends and like you they were always with a smile yours just brightened so much more maybe because I worked the graveyard shift and you and the volunteers would come in at 3 am like it was mid afternoon doing what you love, helping people. You are one of a kind I'm sure god took you and asked how can one person be so happy, kind and nice and with a smile that goes on for miles. May god Bless you,your family and your daughter.
Randall Schmidt
March 13, 2017
To the family of Thomas Hetzel.
I am sorry for your loss. I am a firefighter in Raleigh Nc and have been running our local Tunnel to Towers run. I will be running the Tunnel to Towers run in Ny this year and will be running in honor of Mr Hetzel.
Wish I could do more but feel this is a way I can pay tribute.
Prayers to the family and the FDNY.
David Hetzel
February 19, 2017
FDNY must have been proud of you. God Bless You.
February 19, 2017
I do not know if we were related in any way, but we share the same last Name. I will pray for you.
Dee Myers
September 12, 2016
Thomas,
I think of you today on this fifteenth anniversary. I watch the programs dedicated to all of those affected by this tragedy and I continue to pray that we can learn new lessons from this great sacrifice of our loved ones. Your beautiful photo with your daughter is still on my desk. Somehow we still connect and I know that you are praying for all of us until we make that final connection where you are. Thank you.
Sr. Dee Myers,BVM
John
September 11, 2016
Another year has passed since that sad day, and I still miss you like a brother would. It's always funny how a memory from our friendship will pop into my head at the weirdest times! Too many good times to remember. Miss you brother.
Joseph Randazzo
September 11, 2016
Dear Thomas, my wife and I are complete strangers to you. You were 1 of the 23 names listed at Maple Grove Cemetary's 9/11 memorial. We honored you and the others in prayer and in ceremony. You are a true American hero and from this day forward will remember you and your family in prayer, Rest in peace our dear brother - Love Joe & Marika Randazzo
Tracy De Angelis Dodd
September 11, 2016
Remembering the Hetzel Family as we honor Tommy on the 15th Anniversary of such a tragic day.
All my love,
Tracy
Polly Weatherspoon
September 11, 2016
As a family we honor Thomas on Sept 11 2016 by creating home made cards to send to sick children admitted to children's hospitals. Our youngest Mitchel honored Tommy.
We will never forget the sacrifice and service he provided.
September 10, 2016
Tommy, remembering you on this the 15th anniversary. Son, husband, father, friend and teammate, you are missed by many but forgotten by none.
Harry
Rose
September 10, 2016
Even though I didn't know you very well, I did talk to you at the FS firehouse where we both volunteered. You will always be missed. Hope you are resting easy. So glad I got to meet you.
September 11, 2015
Always in our hearts.
John
September 11, 2015
Miss you Tom...
Lenny Coyne
September 11, 2015
My dear friend! We miss you ... and we NEVER forget! You are always in our hearts!
Kirsten Konefal
September 11, 2015
Remembering you as a friend and neighbor this morning and all days. Remembering you rushing around in your Jetta and giving as a volunteer firefighter in Franklin Square. Remembering your lederhosen and your warm smile. Always a smile. Your family and friends honor you and your daughter is spectacular. Your brother - every year at reidlebauers - amazes me with his loyalty to her and you. You would be so proud. Tom - wishing for peace today in your honor and thanking you for your service and sacrifice. Much Love to the Hetzel family.
Barbara sullivan-young
September 11, 2015
Never forgotten
Tracy De Angelis Dodd
September 11, 2015
Thinking of you and your family today and always. xoxoxo
September 10, 2015
Thinking of you, smiling at the memories of when we were all so young and carefree. We had so many good times. So many nights spent laughing. You remain in my heart, sweet friend.
September 11, 2014
I went to the memorial site when it opened and your name drew me ..each year I promise to remember you.We did not know each other but I will not forget!! Thomas Hetzel you will not be forgotten by me xo Karen Adler Toronto ,Canada
A Friend
September 11, 2014
Thinking of you and your family.
Tracy De Angelis Dodd
September 11, 2014
Thinking of you and your family
Tracy De Angelis Dodd
September 11, 2014
Danny, thinking of you and your family today. I can't believe 13 years has passed. I hope the memories of Tommy continue to bring you peace and comfort.
Caleb King
September 7, 2014
I was given the privilege to represent Thomas Hetzel in the Oklahoma City stair climb yesterday. 343 of my brothers and sisters all climbed 110 stories in full bunker gear and SCBA in memory of the ultimate sacrifice Thomas and the other firefighters made on 9-11. Thank you for the privilege and honor to represent the Hetzel family. WE WILL NEVER FORGET!
Sr. Dee Myers,BVM
May 16, 2014
As I watched and read of the dedication today, my heart overflowed with memories of a beautiful young boy (in third grade) who grew to do what he dreamed of. Thomas loved life, his family, his work and I am sure he is among us today encouraging us to live and care for others. His photo on my desk in full uniform reminds me that he gave all and we are proud to be part of his dream. Tom's teacher 3rd -8th.
Lisa Gadonniex
May 15, 2014
Remembering you not only today watching the Museum Ceremony but throughout the years. God Bless.
Karl Dowling
September 11, 2013
Thinking of a good friend from St. Thomas.
cheyanne keen
September 10, 2013
im am doing a monolouge for speech and debate and i chose thomas bc i wanted someone who was helping rescue ppl.
Walter & Pat Hetzel
June 15, 2013
To the family of Thomas Hetzel. My Son Walter and his family were just at the Memorial for all our brave people and he was looking for Thomas' name. He was not able to find it but just know that because of having the same name, we all The Hetzel Family remembers Thomas whenever someone mentions 9/11. Hope you are finding some comfort and know that Thomas is in a better place.
David Tate, III
June 14, 2013
Mr. Hetzel,
I am a longtime firebuff and I am wishing you the best of you seeing your firefighter friends who made the Supreme Sacrifice on that infamous day . Take care!
Jennifer Wawrzynski
September 11, 2012
To the family of Thomas J. Hetzel,
I am thinking of Thomas today and throughout the year. Last year I ran in a 9/11 10 yr.memorial 5K run sponsored by Shiloh Middle School in Hampstead MD. I won in the 50-59 category - each winner received a bracelet with one of the 9/11 victims' names. I am wearing Thomas' bracelet today. I read his profile last year and want to say to his family how sorry I am that they have had to endure his absence for these 11 years. He was an incredible man and father, so kind hearted and generous with his time and talents. I feel honored to wear his name and FDNY Ladder 13 number. Please know that his life always will be an inspiration to me and, I'm sure, for so many others. Love to you all.
Michael Miller
September 11, 2012
Remembering you my man on this day and always.. All the fun and laughs we all shared as classmates truly doesn't seem like all that long ago. I'm sure I speak for most when I say what a true friend you were, and that awesome sense of humor that helped us all in one way or another. Anyone who knew you as a friend or otherwise i'm sure was the better for it. I know I certainly am.. My thoughts and prayers are with your loved ones on this day and always.
DyAnna Pelella
September 10, 2012
Dan, I know it's been forever since we've seen or even spoken to one another but please know that you and your family are still and will always be in my prayers. I'm sure that every day is hard but especially today you are on my heart. Love, Dee
Kerri-Lynn Palermo
September 10, 2012
A kind and compassionate friend to all. You will always be remembered with a smile in our hearts.
MaryRose
September 11, 2011
Dear Tom--Today I joined other firefighters and their families in climbing 110 flights of stairs to commemorate the incredible effort you and others made to help those in the twin towers. It was hard--even with breaks here and there--but I hope it someway honored you today. I will keep your picture that I carried today to remind me of the sacrifice you made 10 years ago. Thank you, Tom.
Dee Myers, BVM
September 11, 2011
Thomas, I still have this wonderful photo of you and Amanda to remind me of your bravery and what a great kid you were. I taught you in grade school at St. Thomas the Apostle and always enjoyed your wonderful smile. You reminded me of my own brother. I have visited your Mom and Dad when in New York. They miss you so. Thank you for being an inspiration to me and so many others. You are in my thoughts, especially today as we remember ten years.. . and I know that you are praying for all of us.
Love, Sr. Dee Myers, BVM
September 11, 2011
Dear Tommy and your loved ones,
You are sorely missed and are in my prayers.
Love,
Miss E
September 11, 2011
Thinking of you and your bravery. Your selfless act saved many.
Andrea Whitehair-Ruffle
September 10, 2011
Dear Tom,
Tomorrow will be 10 years since 9/11. I went to a memorial that was set up for all the fire fighters who lost there lives at 9/11 today in my town of Rochester NY. I choose your name, and the money will be sent to your family. I may not know you, or your family, but I m sad at the loss of you and everyone else on that day. I was 18 when this happend. My husband who was 19 when this happend,( was my boyfriend at the time) went down to go help work in the hosiptals. This effects him each year, due to things he saw while being down there. I just want to thank you for giving your life, so others could live. I will think about you and remember you the rest of my life. If anyone has toms familys address, could you please send it to me. ( facebook me) I would like to send a letter and a picture of the flag with his name on it that I sponsered, and that I will be getting tomorrow. thanks
Richard Oberhaus
September 9, 2011
Tom,
As the 10 anniversary approaches Linda and I miss you greatly. You are a hero in every sense of the word. When Linda and I got married in October 2001 not seeing you and Diana broke our hearts. You will be forever missed. RIP Tom
September 9, 2011
Thinking of you.
Deirdre
September 1, 2011
You will always be the sweet boy from Carey at NCC, (13th grade!). I picture you in the hallway every time I think of you. I can still see you there, smiling and laughing.
God Bless you and your family.
Card I carried on 911 Foundation Ride
Craig Klingler
August 28, 2011
From August 18 – August 21, 2011 I participated in The America’s 911 Foundation Memorial Motorcycle Ride. The goal for this tenth year since the attack was to have 2997 participants, one to honor each of the heroes and victims of that tragic day. On the 18th, when I checked in for the ride I was handed a card with the person I would be honoring, Thomas Hetzel, 33, Elmont, NY, Firefighter, Ladder 13, NYFD, World Trade Center, Tower 1 Lobby. I didn’t know Thomas, but I do believe I know why he was in Tower 1 that morning. At 33, I also was a Firefighter/EMT/Rescue Diver in Peachtree City, GA. One of the greatest gifts we’ve been given is Free Will. We wake up every day and decide how we’re going to live our lives. Firefighters wake up every day and decide they are going to put others before themselves. I watched a movie last week titled Secondhand Lions and the line “he/she died with their boots on” was used a couple times, meaning they died performing in what they believed in. Thomas died with his boots on. As for the motorcycle ride, I expected very many angry people as we interrupted their day while 2300 motorcycles humbled through their towns and the police completely shut down roads and interstates for our route to Somerset, PA and the site of Flight 93, to the Pentagon and finally to NYC and Ground Zero. What I didn’t expect were the streets lined with American’s waving flags and cheering us on. Even those stopped on highway entrance ramps had gotten out of their cars and were waving. Fire trucks with their ladders extended and displaying the American Flag. Almost every bridge we went under was lined with people and more Fire trucks. Our countries economy is currently in the weeds, but I witness an unbelievable display of patriotism everywhere we went. Ten years is a long time, but we will never forget Thomas, and those that gave their all putting others first.
Kirsten Konefal
August 5, 2011
Tommy, Remembering you in your lederhosen...smiling, dancing and drinking a beer. Your memory lives on and you are missed.
Mr & Mrs. H, Danny and Dorine, Always always thinking of you guys.
Big Hug,
Jill Kiernan
August 5, 2011
Never will be forgotten and always in our hearts
July 29, 2011
Dear Mrs.Hetzel and family. I am so sorry
about the lose of your husband, father, son and brother. I have been thinking about Thomas for 10 years because our name is also Hetzel. When I first heard his name, I got a start, but then I realized that my husband's family didn't have any Thomas in it. My daughter was at the Trade Center the week before it was hit, to this day think if she was there that morning I would not have my daughter today. I will pray for Thomas and your family that God will give you peace and a life that I am sure Thomas would want you and your family to have. May God Bless you all. Pat and Walter Hetzel
Kerri-Lynn Palermo
July 28, 2011
Tommy,
You will always be remembered. You were an amazing person who always had a kind word and a smile. I will never forget a day in the late 90's - I was working at a hospital on the upper east side of Manhattan and there was a fire in my building. I was being evacuted from the sixth floor and while coming down from the 6th floor, I passed you on the stairs we and exchanged a quick hello and you said you would see me outside. After seeing you, I knew wothout a doubt that everything would be ok. After the fire was put out, you came to see me and we talked for a few minutes. I remember replaying that day over and over after 9/11. I knew you since we were in kindegarten together and I have to say you are just one of those people that you could never forget. I was one of the many people who was blessed to know you Tommy. You are a true American Hero , not only to those who were lucky enough to know you and call you friend, but to all!
Phil,Paula,Jillian and Krysten
July 28, 2011
Hollywood as you were known on the softball team, We miss you and will neverforget, thinking about you often. You are a great friend and will alway be close in our hearts. May God keep you and bless until we met again my friend
July 28, 2011
Taken from us way too soon, you will always be remembered. It was a pleasure working beside you.
The members of E274/BN52
July 28, 2011
Miss you old friend
Think about you often miss the boat trips we use to take and how you were always there for us :(
You will be in our hearts forever
Lenny and Terry
james gangone
July 28, 2011
you are missed and in our hearts and you will be remembered forever..
July 12, 2011
Johann,
Volksfest has never been the same without you - including this year's. Was happy to see your parents there, as well as Dorine and your new nephew. We all miss you!
Wilhelm
J T
May 4, 2011
Thinking of you...as always.
April 26, 2011
Missing you, old friend.
Ellen Caravella
October 18, 2010
Thinking of you Thomas Hetzel. I hope that your family is doing well. God Bless them.
Richard Oberhaus
September 11, 2010
RIP Tom you are always in our thoughts.
September 11, 2010
Sweet, sweet Tommy,
The years haven't lessened the pain of our loss; you, your wife and your daughter are in my prayers daily. I think back to the days when you'd "visit" me in the 'poor' seats at the SJU games...every time I walk into my office I see your picture with Amanda and miss your smiling face.
Dorene and Danny,
I think of you daily and wish I could hear how you're both doing; you, your parents, Diana and Amanda are always in my prayers... please contact me through Carey and let me know how it goes...
love & hugs,
Miss E
Lenny Coyne
September 11, 2010
We all miss you dearly! You are our hero!
September 10, 2010
You are among the remarkable men and women who will never be forgotten. Thank you for your dedication and courage!
Rosanne Bodner
September 10, 2010
9 Years later and still thinking
of you.
Rosanne
August 6, 2010
Thinking of you, sweet friend, and missing you. xoxo
713
April 13, 2010
Just wanted you to know that we still think of you and still miss you.
September 11, 2009
Thinking of you!! God bless and may you rest in peace. Thank you!!
anonymous
September 11, 2009
thinking of you
dennis schall
September 10, 2008
Tommy, I will always remember the bier's and singing. I miss you
Horst Ungar
November 3, 2007
God Bless you and your family
Russ & Gina
September 11, 2007
Thinking of you and the family today and saying a prayer
September 11, 2007
Thinking of you all day...well everyday....missing you lots..
September 9, 2007
Thinking of you Tom.
God Bless you and your family.
Nancy Nee
sister of FF George Cain..ladder 7
Theo Patrie
July 26, 2007
Just wanted to say
THANK YOU
July 24, 2007
I was going through an album today. I was in NYC a few weeks after the attacks. I took a picture of the memorial site that was created in penn station. And Thomas' picture came out so clear that I did a search. even though I never knew him, never met him just wanted to let everyone know that I was thinking of him and his family.
Michele
January 19, 2007
Hey Tom,
Just wanted to let you know that I was thinking of you.
Hugs and kisses
P Tabbernor
November 7, 2006
In memory....
Kristine
November 6, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Michele
August 4, 2006
Hey Tom,
Missing you lots and I can safely say that my brother misses you more than anyone knows. We just went to a Fundraiser held in your honor last weekend and what a blast we had. Amanda is just such a beautiful little girl and so good. I'm so glad that she gets to play with Alex.
I think about you daily and was just remembering you giving me a hard time about finding a guy and settling down...well I haven't tied the knot BUT I did meet a fantabulous guy who shares not only the same first name as you but your initials as well!
I just wanted to let you know that I was thinking about you and wanted to say hello and finally tell you about my Tom.
Love you and keep watching over us.
Michele
Pepe
June 3, 2006
The pain of missing you is often to much to hold back. The tears I cry for you are so heavy. I wish you were here in my life to share in the joy of my accomplishments. It seems impossible that I make it through without your support.
I wish you the best always. I love ya!
James Johnson
September 11, 2005
God Bless You...
marylee and paul misarti
July 21, 2004
To The Entire Hetzel Family:
As a neighbor,even as the years go by,we will always be proud of your son. Whenever I turn down our street, and look at the streetsign bearing his name, my son is reminded of a hero taken too soon. My son plays football with Danny on the street with all the other boys, and I am sure Tom is looking down with a big grin. I pray each day for your family, and the unbearable heartache you have endured. God be with you .
Fondly,The Misarti Family
Jimmy Grismer
January 27, 2003
Tommy:
Think of You everyday and miss You greatly !!! This past October 30th a Son was born to Jennifer and I -
We named him Thomas - In honor of You !!!
Jimmy.
An old friend
December 24, 2002
Thinking of you and your family this holiday season.
Philip Rivera FSMFD
October 28, 2002
Hey buddy remember the time with that basement fire, It was you who told me to get out. You see you always thought of other people and I will never forget you. All of our fun times playing softball you were a special friend and a hero and I miss you. Until we meet again your friend Philip
Christina Gurney
October 8, 2002
Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Thomas Montefusco
September 12, 2002
I first met Tom in 1988. I started working at a Deli in Franklin Square and I was from a "rival" town, West Hempstead. The two high schools never liked each other and I never really knew why. After working with people from Franklin Square and meeting Tom through these people, I soon realized that there was no reason behind this rivalry. Tom was a shining example of what a good person we all need to be. He was very proud to be a volunteer fireman in the FSMFD and although we lost contact after me moving upstate, I know that the day he got the call for the FDNY was a very proud day in his life. We used to take weekend trips to the Octoberfest at Hunter Mountain. Those times will always be special to me and never forgotten. My deepest condolences go out to his wife, daughter and his entire family for their loss, Tom will be deeply missed.
Jackie Rubino
September 11, 2002
I went to High School with Tom and we kept in touch for a while after. One thing I wanted to share about Tom when I knew him was that he was was most proud of being a volunteer firefighter in Franklin Square. I know he must have been thrilled to become a NYC firefighter!
He shouldn't have had to die but I'd like to believe he died doing what he loved to do.
God bless Tom and his family. You are missed.
Jackie
Dieter Grell
September 9, 2002
Diane and Amanda
I feel that I need to write about Tom, but I realy don't know what or where to begin. In the 8 or so years we have known each other, at the festivals at the Plattduetsche or where ever we met, Tom always brought the party, room and/or event to the hieght of festivities. He will be missed by all who knew him.
Cathy
July 18, 2002
Tom Hetzel was one of the most Beautiful Guys I knew. He gave so much of himself at work and to Friends! I still miss him so much.
Mike Haub always had such a sweetness to him that I will always remember.
I will Never Forget these two Firefighters they mean so much to me. They are such Special Friends to me.
Michael Iezzi
May 21, 2002
Father we entrust our brother Thomas to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
Kathy Walas
May 9, 2002
Dear Thomas's Family,
I remember the camping trips with Thomas and my cousins when we were growing up. We had the best camping trips young children could ever have. The summer's we spent in Long Island will always be wonderful memories of Thomas and his family. My parents have the pictures from our camping trips. I will get back online and email these pictures so Thomas's daughter will have more beautiful memories of her daddy.
Kathy Walas
Angie Campbell
April 30, 2002
**********GOD BLESS YOU**********
joe pallisco
April 25, 2002
TOM,
I MET YOU ABOUT THREE YEARS AGO & RIGHT OFF THE BAT I KNEW WHAT KIND OF A GREAT GUY YOU WERE EVEN THOUGH I REALLY DIDN'T KNOW YOU LONG YOU WERE A GREAT LEADER & YOU WOULD HAVE MADE A GREAT CHIEF I HAD THE PLEASURE TO BE SANTA FOR YOUR LOVELY DAUGHTER & IT WAS AN HONOR TO DO IT ,I KNOW I SPEAK FOR ALL THE MEN & WOMEN OF THE F.S.M.F.D. THAT YOU WILL SURELY BE MISSED. GOD BLESS YOU.
JOE PALLISCO
FRANKLIN SQUARE & MUNSON FIRE DEPARTMENT ENGINE COMPANY # 3
Kenneth Walker
April 8, 2002
To the Family/Friends of Thomas Hetzel.
I never had the privilege of knowing or meeting this American Hero before 9-11, however today, because of 9-11, I know him a whole lot better. His bravery, courage, and love for his fellow man speaks loudly of who he was. I am proudly wearing his name on a Mercy Band and when I need to remember a Bible verse before I pray, then I can look to this bracelet and recall these words "Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one's life for his friends" Jn 15:13
Thanks Thomas for obeying the words of our Lord and Savior.
My prayers are with the Hetzel family. God Bless you all.
March 24, 2002
Peace to you.
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