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Donald Tuzio Obituary
For 15 years, Donald Joseph Tuzio worked for Bear Stearns as a systems programmer. He liked the work and he liked his colleagues. He would go to Yankee games with co-workers and he managed the office softball and soccer teams. "He enjoyed that kind of stuff," said his wife, Rosemary Tuzio. "And he always had to run a party at the end."
Last summer, for the first time in a decade, Mr. Tuzio, who was 51 and lived in Goshen, N.Y., did not manage the softball team. He was leaving the firm. He had escaped layoffs in March, but feared he might not be so fortunate. He took a buyout in June. "He not only liked the extracurricular activities, he really liked his job," Mrs. Tuzio said. "A lot of people did not have that luxury. He thought he was going to retire from there. He just belonged there."
His last day was July 31. Then he took a short vacation to Niagara Falls with his wife and daughter and his sister and her family. He also began to send out his resume, but did not plan to start a serious search until after a job-hunting workshop that was part of his buyout package. It started Sept. 11 at the World Trade Center.
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I donated in your memory today. God bless your family. We will never forget!
Julie Barr
September 11, 2024
I donated blood in your memory today. God bless your family. We will never forget! ❤
Brian Cunningham
July 29, 2020
After all these years, I still wear the softball cap that you gave me. All of the memories that I have of you always bring a smile to me. Working the overnight shift with us, you were always making us laugh, even in times of critical issues.
It's been almost nineteen years since I've last seen you, but you'll always be in my heart as well as in the hearts of every person whose lives you touched.
I know that you're keeping them in stitches in heaven. ♥
Until we meet again...
Lucas Family
February 6, 2020
Still so sadly missed by family and friends. Our sincere condolences to your family for the loss of Don.
Desiree Ellis
September 18, 2019
Don you are forever missed and also thought of and so sad and never forgotten. Im so happy that I worked with you. Your Were amazing friend and amazing husband and amazing dad. God bless you and listen to this until we meet again
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Jennifer Jones
September 11, 2016
You were lost in one of the most tragic ways. My condolences for your family. My city does a 9/11 Memorial blood drive every year. I gave today in memory of you. We receive a sticker with the names of the victims and my sticker had your name on it. My heart goes out to your family and hope that they know you are an angel in heaven looking over them.
Harriet Mullen
September 17, 2011
Dear Don:
You are truly missed. I wait to hear your name being read every year. I miss the smile on your face and the kindness in your heart. You will live on in our hearts always. I pray for you always. Fondly, Harriet Mullen
Michael Heuler
September 11, 2011
Don, I had the honor to work with you both professionally and as your assistant on the Bear Stearns softball team. I was constantly amazed how you got the team's attention, bringing your point across during one of those trying games but still had their respect. you were well loved and revered. I made it a point to include you and your family in my prayers every Sunday at church. We will never forget you. God bless you and your family.
September 11, 2011
Don,
The years have left an emptiness that cannot ever be filled. You are a Wonderful Man and I know that your spirit lives on in Rose and Jeannie. Whenever I smell Pierre Cardin I know you have passed through. God blessed all of us to have known you and someday we will meet again. Be sure to have your sunglasses. Love you forever.
Teresa & Peter
Marv Weisberg
September 10, 2011
Don,
Working with you was never dull. You were a great, funny guy and I'm sure everyone who ever met you misses you.
Mike Wolfson
March 20, 2011
I worked with Don while I was in Bklyn on a couple of projects from Bear. Only met him once in person, but a real nice guy who would help you with just about anything. One of the few good ones, I'll miss him.
Joe Polizzotti
September 11, 2009
I remember buying my Bear Stearns Soccer sweatshirt in your cubicle.. You were such a nice person and good husband and father. A kind soul who didn't deserve the fate that you got. I hope in the end it was without pain and you are at peace. God Bless you Don.. If heaven has a softball team, I'm sure you are selling shirts and arranging parties!
P Tabbernor
April 4, 2007
In memory....
Pat Morrison
September 12, 2006
Rosemary, I saw you on yesterday's tribute and was so saddened to learn of Don's death. We are very sorry to be sending our wishes to you and you daughter 5 years later but I wanted to know I said a prayer for all of you last night.
Joe Stam
September 11, 2006
Don,
Save a spot for me up there. We all miss you very much. It's not the same here without you.
Hey, say hi to Mantle for me.
Love,
Joe
Jhon O'Neill
October 29, 2004
Tribute to Don
When this you see remember me and never cry in pain
For I am even closer now, just on a different plain
It's better to cry a tear of love, than sit alone and greave
For I will always be with you now and never have to leave
The breeze you felt upon your face, was just a simply kiss
The warmth you feel surrounding you, are hugs you tend to miss
When your loney, come talk to me, in early morning glisten
I may not be allowed to speak, but I will always listen
Keep me deep within your heart and you will be amazed
I'll be there to comfort you, if life becomes to crazed
I'll carry you if you should tire and keep you safe and warm
I'll always be there by your side and protect you from all harm
Just the very thought of me, will keep my soul alive
I shall always give you strength, and help you to survive
When you dream about me now, from evenings dusk till dawn
You will know throughout your life, I've never really gone
Michelle Mckenzie
October 6, 2003
I am 2nd daughter of Marian Brook,nee Quaglerie from Devon England. My mum is 2nd cousin of Donald. It was a terrible tragedy, i had been helping my mum trace family members and found Donald's details just days before sept 11th. So we never got to speak or meet him. Forever in our thoughts.
God Bless Michelle and family
anita hadley
September 11, 2002
Don's laughter and smiles fill my memory when I think of him. Such a jovial, fun friend!
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Anita Hadley
Bear Sterns
May 10, 2002
MAY THE SOUL OF DONALD JOSEPH TUZIO AND THE SOULS OF ALL THE FAITHFULLY DEPARTED THROUGH THE MERCY OF GOD REST IN PEACE...AMEN
May 10, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL MAN..DONALD JOSEPH TUZIO AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS LOVING FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY JESUS AND ALL HIS SAINTS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Edwin Guerra
April 4, 2002
I'll always have fond memories of playing for Don on the softball team, the softball parties after the season, working with him and relishing Yankee wins. My prayers to the Tuzio family.
Donna DePola
February 17, 2002
The Tuzio Family, We are having a 35 high school on April 27, 2002 from Fort hamilton High School were Donald Graduated from. We the class of 1967 would the family to know that you are in our thoughts. We would like to dedicate our reunion to him. If a member of your family would like to attend we would love it. Donna M. DePola
Linda Spadafina
February 4, 2002
Dear Rosemary and Jeannie,
I was so shocked and saddened to hear about Don. He was a great guy. If there is anything I can do to help you, please let me know. You and Don are always in my prayers.
Love,
Linda
Jean Ann Frattini
January 23, 2002
Rose and Jeannie - You know my thoughts are with you and I pray for you and Don every day. I think back to the days when you first started dating Don, how my father took to him so quickly and how he just fit into our family. Tell me, who didn't love Don? His wonderful smile and sense of humor won you over the minute you met him. I think of him often and will always be proud to call him my cousin. I'm here for you if you need me. I love you all.
Adrienne and Wesley
January 16, 2002
Mrs Tuzio I share in your loss. Wesley and I used to work with Don at Pershing and Company in the late 1970's. I remember how Don's glowing personality and sense of wit lit up the computer room. I'm just sorry I didn't keep in touch with him. And yes he was a teddy bear who will be sorely missed.
Joan Fleischmann
January 13, 2002
Dear Rosemary and Jean Marie, I think of you often and pray for you. May God bless you and give you the strength to cope with the overwhelming grief. I did not know Donald but I sense he was a loving husband, father, and friend. He will be missed tremendously. Love, Joan Fleischmann
Allison Sangastiano
January 3, 2002
I am glad that I had an opportunity to get to know Don. Don was such a lovable teddy bear. He always had a smile on his face, and everyone that followed him also was smiling. He knew just the right things to say for people to smile and laugh. He is a great guy, and will be missed dearly. To his family, my prayers will always be with you.
Teresa Jahn
December 8, 2001
We are deeply sorry for your loss of Donald.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Andrew Tolosi
December 6, 2001
I wake up every morning expecting Donny to be in my driveway waiting to car pool to work. I think of him every day. We had alot of laughs together. I miss him very much. My heart goes out to him and his family.
Ed Lee
October 17, 2001
A warm, loving friend is sorely missed.
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