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Gary Lee Obituary
Bayonets. Eagles. Baseball cards. Hess trucks. Vinyl records. Matchbooks. Coins. Stamps. Old record players.
These were some of the things Gary H. Lee collected. Just about anything might meet his criteria and turn into a full- blown collection.
Mr. Lee, 62, and known variously as Uncle Dude, Big Gary or Pop Pop, lived with his wife, Eileen, in Lindenhurst, on Long Island, where the attic was very full. There is all this World War II gear up there — helmets, uniforms, bayonets. He had something like 150 bayonets and swords, 40,000 baseball cards, dozens of statues and pictures of eagles, every birthday and anniversary card he ever received. "He was collecting his whole life," said Gary A. Lee, his son. "And he never sold anything."
Mr. Lee, a senior vice president at Cantor Fitzgerald, did not collect cars, but he always wanted a Studebaker. About 15 years ago, he bought a 1948 model that he lovingly restored and took to car shows, winning several first- and second-place trophies.
His wife and son are trying to sort through his myriad collections. Some of the bayonets are being donated to a new World War II museum that the town of Babylon is opening in Lindenhurst. As for the baseball cards, the eagles and the Hess trucks, his son is going to continue those collections. "I think he would want me to," he said.
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Richard Volz
September 11, 2019
We worked and supported each other at RCA Global Communications and FTCC.
You and your family are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Luke Goodland
May 9, 2019
Still Always in our memories GLee.
Barry Goldberg
September 9, 2016
I never had a chance to Mr Lee but I feel like I have met him through his son. His son in one of the most ethical, bright and hardworking men that I have ever met. To have such a fine son says a lot about a man.
September 11, 2015
I had the pleasure of working with Gary. He was in NY and I was in Toronto. We talked several times a day regarding the traders communication systems between the Toronto Stock Exchange and the New York stock Exchange. Sending condolences to his family and fiends.
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S J. Friscia III
May 4, 2014
In Memory
With Honor & Respect.
Kennedy Behling
September 11, 2012
Went to the 9/11 memorial last May, I saw mr. Lee's name and thought I would search. My condolences goes out to all of his family! I will remember and pray for you.
September 11, 2012
sending my condolences today and always. may Mr Lee's light shine on forever...
September 11, 2012
Dear Aunt Eileen and Gary, Just wanted to say that you are in the families prayers always and to reaffirm that we shall ALL see him agian in heaven... Thank the LORD!
Ed Matthews
September 13, 2011
Eileen & Gary "A":
Hard to believe it's 10 years...I often think about Gary and can't count the number of times his name was brought up in conversation. We spent many years working together, first at RCA and then FTC and I should add he was a great co-worker and friend for all those years. I hope you both (and your family Gary) are doing well and wish you the best in the years ahead.
Aloha,
Ed Matthews
anthony intagliata
September 1, 2011
Its been to long. We need to get together. I miss you all.
August 5, 2011
I worked with Gary at French Telegraph and Cable(FTC) on John street back in the early 80's. When I transferred to the NJ office, I lost touch with the crew in the city. After all these years I still remember Gary was always ready to share his joke of the day. You couldn't walk by his office without being called in to hear his latest joke. He was a bright spot in my day and was the "go to" guy when technical problems arose. It was my pleasure to have known him.
Regards to his family- Lorrie Bell
cynthia
September 8, 2010
Thinking of you, Eileen.
Carl and Anna Enriquez
September 11, 2007
The Enriquez Family remembers Gary on this sad day. He is in our prayers. May each day bring another happy memory of a man that touched so many peoples lives.
Doug Abraham
August 26, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
P Tabbernor
December 5, 2006
In remembrance....
Kristine
November 10, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
roseann hundertmark
September 11, 2004
gary (and lee family)-
I just wanted you to know that most people, myself included, think of you as a very strong, solid, stand-up guy. It is truly an honour to work with you. Even though I never knew your father, it is without doubt that you bear his name with great pride. Knowing you, is to know the spirit of another great man...your dad.
I pray for peace and love to hold you and your family in its grace. God bless you always....
always remembering-
roseann
CANDACE SEALS
May 2, 2004
TO THE LEE FAMILY, YOU HAVE MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY IN THE LOST OF YOUR HUSBAND AND FATHER, I SHARE THE PAIN AND ALL I CAN SAY TO YOU IS HOLD ON TO THE MOMENTS THAT HE MADE YOU LAUGH, OR IT WILL CONSUME YOU UP. LOVE WILL KEEP YOU GOING AND CAN EVEN MAKE YOU MORE EAGER TO BE THE BEST YOU CAN TO MAKE HIM PROUD TO HAVE MARRIED A SPECIAL PERSON AS YOU, AND OH WHAT A JOY TO SHARE THAT BOND IN HAVING A CHILD AND FOR HIM TO BE AS JOYOUS, MAY GOD CONTINUE TO KEEP YOU ALL IN HIS CARE. GOD BLESS YOU SINCERLY YOURS CANDACE SEALS
Barbara Ugalde
September 11, 2003
I will always remember Grandpa Lee from football and Sunday dinners....We love you and miss you
Barbara Ugalde
Ivon Gonzalez
October 31, 2002
In honor of Mr. Lee I am planting a tree in commemoration of his life. May God bless his family and frieds.
Tim Reeber
July 7, 2002
In name of Gary Lee I pledge a day of deliberate acts of kindness and compassion in his honor. The people of Tacoma and Pierce County, Washington honor the vicitms of September 11, 2001 with rememberance, hope, and action.
May God Bless Mr. Lee's family.
Louie Ciarelli
May 7, 2002
I had the honor of knowing, and
working with Gary prior to his days
at Cantor. (FTCC) I will never
forget his sense of humor but most
of all, his dedication to his job
and his co-workers.
Rest in Peace.
Angie Campbell
May 3, 2002
May God Bless you and watch over the family and friends that you left behind on 9/11/01. Rest in peace..........
Anonymous
February 20, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL MAN GARY H.LEE AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY GOD GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Ted Hines
January 24, 2002
I worked with Gerry in a vendor role and had hit off pretty well with him. What Iiked most about Gerry was that he belended honesty, humor and good management skills so ensure the job was done the way he wanted it done.
I will miss him and I am grateful for the time I spent working with Gary.
Teresa Jahn
December 25, 2001
I am glad you are going to continue in some of your dad's collecting. We are very sorry for your loss of Gary. May his life and love live on through all who love him. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Jennifer Rose
October 28, 2001
I always liked seeing and speaking to Gary. He treated everyone iwth respect.
May he rest in Peace.
The Dude
Barbara Lee
October 19, 2001
To our Brother, You will always be in your hearts. For as time goes by we will always remember you.
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