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After her father died on Sept. 11, adults kept telling Samantha Walker, 4, that her daddy, Benjamin James Walker, would always be in her heart. "She said, `I don't want Daddy to be in my heart. I want Daddy to be in my house,"' said Laura Walker, her mother.
One night when Samantha was curling up in bed with her mother, she broke into tears. Daddy had promised to teach her to play soccer once she turned 5. Her brothers, Henry, 9, and Christopher, 7, assured her that they would.
But the boys have their moments, too. In November, after Henry scored a 63-yard touchdown in a football game in Rockland County, where they live, Henry came off the field in tears, because Daddy wasn't there to watch him.
Their father, who was 41, worked as an insurance broker for Marsh & McLennan and doubled as a local soccer league coach on weekends. "Ben made pancakes every Saturday morning," Mrs. Walker said. "Now they have to make do with mine, and mine are not as good."
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Chris Barker
December 1, 2020
I worked with Ben before he moved to New York with Laura. Thinking of you all after listening to Meat Loaf on the radio...what a fun night we had!
Alicia Walker
September 11, 2017
God bless you and your family. My last name is walker and I have a great great grandfather named Benjamin James Walker. Remembering 9/11 forever, overwhelmed with tears and sadness.
April 12, 2017
We keep remembering. God bless you all.
October 15, 2016
God bless, again.
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October 15, 2016
God bless..again.
October 9, 2016
I dreamt of you last night, so never gone, somhad to share. God bless.
September 3, 2016
As this dreadful anniversary approaches, again, we remember and mourn. God bless.
March 10, 2016
Remembered again, as is right.
September 11, 2015
Never forgotten
September 10, 2015
Another year gone with you not here. Warm wishes for your family.
February 4, 2015
Still remembered
January 15, 2015
Still remembered. Cliche. They shall not grow old as we who are left grow old. We shall remember them.
Amanda
September 11, 2014
Never forgotten.
April 17, 2014
Ben. Pony Club Camp 1974, Wing Buckinghamshire. What happened? You poor thing and your poor family. Remembered and mourned. Dear friend. H.
Pat duus
September 11, 2011
Our prayers are with you still.
Pat Duus
Rose D
September 11, 2011
Its unbelievable to think that ten years have past. I think of you and your family and wonder how things could have been. Rest in peace my friend.
Tami Bramblett
September 8, 2011
I found this site recently and ws very touched by your then-4-yr-old daughter. I now have a 4 yr old son and well, it hit me in the gut. I hope you dont mind some extra prayers from a stranger. God Bless you all.
Danni Meredith
August 22, 2009
I think of you and the kids often throughout the year but more so as we draw closer to the passing of another year. Love always Danni (Gibson) Meredith
Philip Delafield
November 12, 2008
Ben always called me his unofficial cousin, not that we were related but we saw each other at home and at school (St Edwards).
Very sadly missed by family and friends.
R Del Re
September 11, 2008
My prayers are with you...again...today.
Wendy Walker Tillman
September 11, 2008
I linked to this page through a Proverbs 31 Woman Blog. The readers of the blog were asked to choose someone to pray for on this the 7th anniversary of 9-11. I chose your husband because he shares the same name as my brother, who also makes pancakes for his family every Saturday morning. May God continue to bless and heal your family. I will pray for you all.
The Del Re's
September 11, 2007
Another year past. We will never forget. We pray for you Ben and for you Laura, Christopher, Samatha and Henry...that you somehow will find peace.
P Tabbernor
April 13, 2007
In memory....
Rose Del Re
September 11, 2006
Five years. Seems like just yesterday. I'll never forget, Laura, I'll never forget.
May God watch over you all...and over my friend, Ben.
Rose
Patricia Garcia
September 11, 2003
To Laura and Kids--- My heart and
prayers will always be with you.
May God Bless you all
Patti Gaines
September 10, 2003
May God give you comfort, peace and courage to go on. Your loss will never be forgotton.
sara
September 10, 2003
To the Walkers:
I am a high school student from Connecticut. My journalism teacher lost his father in the September 11th attacks. He gave us this website, telling us that he frequently checks it and finds it reassuring. Everyone in my class was given the name of a victim and their memoir published with the Rockland County September 11th Memorial. Benjamin seems like he was a wonderful dad. I always tell my parents that I wish that they had encouraged me to do a sport at a young age. It seems like Benjamin will live on through the memories your children will have of him. Knowing how to play a sport can be so important especially in high school, even just to assist the huge adjustment from middle school to high school. Benjamin, as a soccer coach, touched the lives of many children who will remember him and thank him as they get older. I would like to send my condolences especially for what may be a difficult time for you and your family, in the coming days. Best wishes to your family, I'm sure Benjamin was a wonderful person.
maggie holland
September 12, 2002
laura~
hi..my name is maggie and i live in houston , tx and i attend st. pius x high school. in rememberance of sep.11 our school handed out wrist bands with names in them of all the people that died on 911. i received the wristband with your husbands name in it. i just wanted to say that i am very sorry about your loss. and to ur kids i know how much it hurts to lose your daddy because i lost mine when i was 5 so hang in there because God has a purpose for everything so keep your head up and shine! your family is in my prayers.
~maggie holland~ age 14 freshman at st pius x high school in houston, tx
salvatore governale
August 8, 2002
just hang in there little girl your daddy is in the arms god now and he is in heaven with all the good people ... i dont know you but your story touched my heart... allways sal g!
Joan and Dan Tenzer
July 9, 2002
Dear Laura,
Words do not come easy at times like this. Loosing someone you love is never easy. I can only hope that with each new sunrise, you find new strength to carry on. You are a pillar of strength for your children and I know that is something they will always remember. Please know that I think of you often and that we are here anytime you need anything. Ben is at peace now and he is watching from above. Watch his love for you and the children shine down on even your darkest days. Ben's spirit continues to live on in Henry, Christopher and Samantha.
Much love and peace to you.
Joan and Dan Tenzer and boys.
Judy Maroff
June 11, 2002
Dear Laura,
As your neighbor & fellow "Cherry Laner" I want to express my deepest sympathy. Ben was great guy. I always enjoyed our chats during the field trips. He always brightened things up & the kids loved him!
Henry, Christopher & Samantha,
Daddy would be SO proud of how strong you are, for yourselves & for mommy! I'm sure it's hard to understand sometimes, but you have to know that Daddy will ALWAYS be with you. He's in your hearts and he's that "angel" who helps you and mommy when you need a little support.
May God Bless You and Always look upon you.
Connie and Mike Younghese
May 25, 2002
Dear Laura,
Keep in mind all the memories you shared with Ben and he will always be with you and your children.
May 21, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL MAN..BENJAMIN JAMES WALKER AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN..FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY JESUS AND HIS SAINTS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Vincent & Lucy Familio
May 2, 2002
Our prayers are with you and your family. Keep the faith and God Bless you.
Walter Farber
March 11, 2002
As a neighbor (Tallman) my heart goes out to you and your family. More I cannot say.
Maggie Madden
March 7, 2002
Dear Laura,
I'm so sorry for your loss. We go back alot of years. I remember when you and Ben started dating. Ben was such a nice person and every time we spoke, he raved about you and the children. May god bless you all and help you get through this.
Love,
Maggie Madden
Your Cousin TLC
March 7, 2002
Henry, Christopher and Samantha
Your dad was a great man.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Lara Cohen
February 7, 2002
Dear Mrs. Walker,
My family lives just a minute from you on Cherry Lane, and my neighbor's daugher Sarah is in your son's, Christopher's, class. We want to deeply express our sympathy to you and your family. Please know that our town will always keep the memory of your husband alive. May God bless you.
Deidri Carney-LoPolito
January 23, 2002
Dear Laura:
Every day that goes buy, one, if not all, finds out that someone they know or have known name is added to the 9/11 disaster. I've known you and Ben while working at GC many years ago, long before the two of you started courting, (very nice memories). I remember his laugh, and your wink of the eye. May God, the love of family and friends continue to keep you strong. Spread your love and remember his laugher will help and guide you to through.
God Bless! Prayers and Love!
Deidri A. Carney-LoPolito
January 23, 2002
Laura Walker
January 11, 2002
To Everyone who has suffered through this terrible ordeal and to everyone who has lost loved ones I would like you to know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers every single one of you xxx
Alexandria Walker
January 10, 2002
Although we were distant cousins, I feel the loss and pray for comfort and peace for your loved ones left behing.
Love ya cous,
Alex
Anna Canfield
January 7, 2002
I only worked with Ben for a few months in the summer of 2001 whilst I was briefly attached to the same team, but what really stood out during the short time I knew him was his willingness to always try and pitch in with a helpful comment on any topic, and his devotion to his family. My deepest sympathies.
Teresa Jahn
December 5, 2001
Such a tradegy. We are so sorry for your loss.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Manny Ribot
October 28, 2001
Laura :
I can't tell you how long I knew "Benny" (as we affectionately called him in the midwest).
I started @ Marsh in NY in 1984 & moved to Detroit in '88. Sometime after that, Ben & I began working closely on "FORD".
Through tough business periods, Ben was always a bright ray of sunshine ! Always optimistic & always talkative ! We always teased him about that.
He spoke about you & the kids & your mom's NY (Brooklyn I think) accent.
Our thoughts & prayers to you & all your family.
Manny
Christine Bell
October 12, 2001
Dear Laura,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and the children.
I am so sorry.
Love,Christine
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