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Bill Carter
September 11, 2023
Kristen,
Even after all these years, your impact on this world is still felt.
You will always be missed
Marcia Costanzo
September 10, 2023
Marcia Costanzo
September 10, 2023
Marcia Costanzo
September 10, 2023
My sweet great niece Lindsey.
Kristen.would be so proud
She's 25 years old and having a wonderful life.
Luv you Kristen.Know that Lindsey is happy and thriving.
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Marcia Costanzo
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September 10, 2023
Here's Lindsey the past few years.Gosh how I love her.
Her mom would be so proud.Now 25 years old and doing great.
Miss Kristen every day...She was such a loving,beautiful and giving soul.
RIP my sweet angel
Jeannine Murray
September 9, 2023
Kristen was my babysitter. She was a beautiful girl, who I wanted to be like when I grew up.
Cara
July 6, 2023
Happy heavenly birthday, you are forever loved and never forgotten. <3
Cindy Roe
September 12, 2021
Remembering Kristin on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
Bill Carter
September 11, 2021
Kristen It’s been 20 years since you left us but the impact you had on people’s life’s is still strong. I am one of the lucky ones whose life you touched and you made me a better person.
Kristen you will always be loved and missed.
A.L.
December 8, 2019
Happy holidays, my friend..
Bill Carter
September 11, 2019
You are missed and will never be forgotten
Manuel Arroyo
September 11, 2019
never be forgotten.
A.L.
June 13, 2019
In loving memory of Kristen...
Bill Carter
September 11, 2016
Hey Kristen! it has been 15 years today and you will never be forgotten. Your smile use to light up any room you entered. The lives you touched while you were here is unmeasurable
Kristen gave me this mug with her picture on in it 1994. You can't help but smile and remeber the joy that she brought into people's lives
Bill Carter
September 11, 2016
October 14, 2015
Kristen's beautiful daughter......Kristen you must be so proud of her...
Marcia Costanzo
October 14, 2015
Marcia Costanzo
October 14, 2015
Marcia Costanzo
October 14, 2015
Marcia Costanzo
October 14, 2015
Marcia Costanzo
October 14, 2015
September 11, 2014
Never forgotten
A hug to the heavens and back
Josephine S
September 13, 2013
My name is Josephine. I worked with Kristen at New York Life. I just want to say I am sorry for your lost. Kristen was a kind person. I want you to know I was saddened to hear of her passing. I went on Sept 10 2013 to visit the memorial. I too lost a dear friend (Joseph Plumitallo). I payed respects to you Kristen. And prayed for you, your little girl and your family. To give them stength.
marcia costanzo
September 12, 2013
September 12, 2013
Sandra Boller
September 11, 2013
Hi Kristen,
Today makes 12 years that you left this earth. Im sorry you had to leave your family so soon. Its just not fair. And Im sorry we didnt keep in touch after school. I would have loved to have met your daughter. From the pictures, shes very beautiful. But I know youre watching over her. RIP sweet angel.
September 16, 2011
u r always on my mind and on yvettes mind u was one person we could count on i cant believe it been 10 years my u rest in peace
September 12, 2011
Hello Kristen,
I just wanted to let you know each 911 i have thought of you. The last time i seen you was at Nancy's house playing cards and that is the way i remember you such a sweet girl. May you RIP God Bless your daughter & Family. Never 4 Gotten.
Michelle Santiago Rodriguez
Manny Arroyo
September 11, 2011
So very sorry....
Maria Oquendo-Hrdz
September 11, 2011
Hi Kristen,
The last time I saw you was at my son Donovans first birthday and little Lindaey was a baby in diapers now it's been 10 yrs since the day you were taken. I'm sure your looking down at your little girl as is God..RIP Kristen I know my Sis misses you immensely :(
frances hernandez
September 11, 2011
thinkin about how great a friend u were to my sister. u were a great person and always missed.
Josephine Strenta
September 10, 2011
Hi I am sorry for your loss. I knew Kristen when she worked at New York Life. She was such a nich person and had a big heart. She will be missed. I always have her and family in my prayers.
Marcia Costanzo
September 12, 2009
Hi again sweetie, seems my other posting didnt get printed right,so here I am again.
We are all doing well, and Lindsey is great. She started middle school and is a typical tweenager. She is beautiful in every way. All people that meet her love her. She has so many friends,as did you. Your friends are swell,always writing and telling me wonderful things about you,and what a wonderful friend you were. I keep up with them,always posting recent pictures of Lindsey.
Be at peace,my dear niece, and give our love to grandma and pop-pop,Aunt Shelli, Uncle Ruby,Aunt Gladys and all of our other family and friends that are home in eternity.
Marcia Costanzo
September 12, 2009
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Angela Hernandez
September 11, 2009
My dear childhood friend, I still think of you alot. I miss u and love you so...today is so hard me..I cant express the sorrow i feel every time this day comes. Your daughter is gettin big and so beautiful. Your aunt tells me shes so bright..Im sure it comes from you. I still remember our last days together and will cherish them forever. Im so lucky 2 have had a friend like you. YOU CAN NEVER BE REPLACED.
Rosa M. Oquendo
September 8, 2009
I have known you for 15 years and since 2001 I have been thinking about you even nore. I miss you so much with all the laughs and bad times we had. You have been such an understanding and loving friend. You always made me laugh even though I go through bad days. I thank you for that. I will always have you in my thoughts and in my heart till we meet again. I love you so much Kristen and you will be missed a bunch. Your friend that loves you dearly, Rosa
Marcia Costanzo
December 26, 2008
Hi sweetie, its been a while,but here I am. Christmas Day was yesterday and we had a fine time.Of course you being there would have been all the better. Lindsey is swell,and getting to be such a fine young lady. We all love her so much,as you know. We thank God for her every day,and are blessed to have her in our lives. Everyone is okay. When we are together we talk about things we miss about you, and we tell Lindsey so many funny stories.Its time once again for you to put a good word in with God that it doesnt snow for Lindseys birthday.That makes it so hard for her friends to get around,wherever we hold the party. The last two years were super,you did your job(lol). Love you much, miss you so much more Aunt Marcia xxxooo
Angie Hernandez
September 12, 2008
My dearest friend...Its been 7 yrs yet it feels like yesterday. I tried to be strong today but the minute they said your name and showed your pictured I cried. Its not fair. I miss u sooo much.
Mary Costello
September 10, 2008
I am reading names at the ceremony tomorrow, and decided it seemed right to read each persons story whose names I read. I will be honored to say Kristens name for her and her family tomorrow. Peace to you all.
Lindsey on our cruise 8/08
September 5, 2008
Marcia Costanzo
September 4, 2008
Hi Sweetie, well its almost 7 years now, and it's so hard to believe. I can still remember word for word what you said on your last phone call to me,on Monday night,Sept. 10th.
We miss you so,and hope you are watching from above, all the wonderful things going on in Lindsey's life.
Lindsey is quite the young lady,and becoming a teenager a little too early for us.
Sleep well,be at peace and God's speed. Give our love to everyone in your beautiful heaven. Love you always, Aunt Marcia xxxoooo
Marcia Costanzo
January 4, 2008
Hi Kristen,well the holidays are over and now we are back to peace and quiet.It was a fun time,though.Lindsey is getting ready for her 10th birthday.I can't believe it,where does the time go???? She is becoming a beautiful young lady,and is ready for the teen years.I hope not too ready,if you know what I mean.
I love you dearly and miss you every day of my life. Oh,I forgot, did I tell you that Lindsey says her prayers every night,has been for some time now,but now you get an extra special "and God bless mommy". Its so touching to hear every night.
Okay,sweetie, love you,miss you.I will be back again shortly.
Your loving aunt, Marcia xxxoooo
Lindsey's Christmas picture this year
Marcia Costanzo
December 10, 2007
Its almost Christmas time,and the list for Santa is growing. She is going to mail it to Santa.I know you are getting a big kick out of her these days.I will be back soon,Kristen,and tell you all about the holidays.(as if you don't know) Love you Aunt Marcia
HALLOWEEN PARTY AT LINDSEY'S SUMMER CAMP
Marcia Costanzo
November 23, 2007
Hi sweetie,just a short note to tell you we have been thinking about you this week,and to give thanks.We give thanks for Lindsey,and that you gave her life,for without her here,we can only guess how we would handle every day and holidays. Wish you were with us,sharing the holidays,like we used to. We miss you,and love you every day. Your loving aunt Marcia
Me & my mom (Angie & Millie)
September 11, 2007
Angie Hernandez
September 11, 2007
Hello my dearest friend,
I miss you soo much, life hasn't been the same without. You was always a good friend. Ever since our elementary days, you've always been there for me. I still find it hard to go by your block and not cry. I will always cherish the friendship we had.
You're in my prayers, always.
My mom, Millie misses you too & we send our condolences to the family.
Marcia Costanzo
November 17, 2006
Silly me,the photo is Lindsey taken this month.She is the cutest and the greatest little girl.
Mqrcia Costanzo
November 17, 2006
Hi sweetie,just a little note to you.Its been a while. Lindsey started third grade and loves it.She is doing well,as you must know. She looks more like you each day.She has the same smirk,and smile as you have.She has your flat feet,so much so,that its like looking at your feet when you had no shoes on.We all miss you so much,and having Lindsey with us, is the best reminder of who you were and how you loved life. Be at peace my angel. your loving Aunt Marcia xxxooo
Kristine
October 25, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
October 5, 2006
In remembrance....
geri lifshitz
September 13, 2006
hi itsbeen threemonthssincei wrote miss you now u been gone for 5 years its getting a little easier but it is still hard
Jessica Gonzalez
September 11, 2006
Kristen,
I love you I love you I love you..I miss you...Your aunt sent me some slides of Lindsey and she is so beautiful..she looks so much like you it's unbelievable..God bless...she's here to carry on your spirit...I just want you to know I am thinking of you...I know I never showed you enough how much I appreciated your everlasting friendship since we were kids...we were best of friends..I will always remember you...with love..Dizzy Jessica
geri and willie let him rest in peace
geri lifshitz
June 4, 2006
kristen we all miss u i know u saw the stuff i went through with my brother now i lost a good person who i loved and yvette called daddy, please find him and be his friend and give him strength.his name is william arroyo he past on june 1 2006.i miss u . i go see lindsay with rita and we go to marcias house when we can . i will always keep u in my heart. from geri
Jessica Gonzalez
April 28, 2006
Dear Kristen,
It's been 5 years and I am still experiencing the pain of your loss, now more than ever. I've known you since I was in the 4th grade. You came up to me and asked me if I wanted to be your friend when noboby else would. You were there for me for years and my family considered you one of their own. You would call my mom "mom". She still remembers you coming in the house and saying "Hi mom". We used to play school together and I remember my 11th b'day party on Bronxdale. I have a pic of us in our jammies behind the cake. I still have pics of you and Lindsey..That was the last time I saw you. We were best best friends. I'm sorry it took so long to come here..but I hope you know you are always remembered. You will always be a part of my life. On that fateful day we were up all night looking for you, and my heart was broken in two. Kristen head...I love you. I miss driving with you and your dad and bros. I miss coming over to your apartment across the st from ps 105 and driving around listening to beach boys. :( I never told you this..You are my best friend in the whole world..we were like sisters..I love you..Jessica Gonzalez (dizzy jessica)
Harold Williams
December 19, 2005
I just found out today that Kristen is no longer with us. I went to junior high and high school with her. Unfortunately, I did not keep in touch with Kristen, but she was my friend and a wonderful person.
MARCIA COSTANZO
May 12, 2005
MY DEAR KRISTEN, ITS BEEN A WHILE SINCE I LAST WROTE. ALL IS WELL HERE,AND LINDSEY IS FABULOUS. FIRST GRADE IS ALMOST OVER AND SOON SHE WILL BE GOING TO CAMP.SHE STARTED TO RIDE A BIG BIKE WITHOUT TRAINING WHEELS AND IS SO PROUD OF HERSELF. HER DANCE RECITAL IS COMING UP TOO. SHE WILL BE DANCING TO "MATERIAL GIRL",MADONNA'S SONG. WE MIS YOU HERE,AND THAT WILL NEVER CHANGE. KRISTEN, LINDSEY IS YOUR DOUBLE,RIGHT DOWN TO YOUR FLAT,FLAT FEET. ITS FUNNY TO SEE HER WALK AWAY TOO,SHE WALKS JUST LIKE YOU FROM THE BACK,SHE IS DEFINITELY YOUR DOUBLE. SO THAT IN ITSELF TELLS YOU WE CAN NEVER FORGET YOU. YOU ARE WITH US EVERY DAY,IN YOUR DAUGHTER. REST IN PEACE MY DEAR NIECE. LOVINGLY,AUNT MARCIA AND YOUR WHOLE FAMILY TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sherry breeden
December 2, 2004
Kristen
We never met but I wanted you to know that I pray for you and your family my heart breaks and my eyes cry. God bless you Kristen may you rest in peace
marcia costanzo
September 9, 2004
MY DEAR KRISTEN, ANOTHER YEAR HAS PASSED AGAIN,NOW 3 YEARS GONE BY. YOU ARE IN ALL OF OUR THOUGHTS ALL THE TIME,EVERY WAKING HOUR. LINDSEY IS DOING SO WELL,AS YOU KNOW.FROM WHERE YOU ARE I KNOW YOU ARE LOOKING DOWN ON HER AND SEE HER EVERY MOVE. SHE STARTED FIRST GRADE TUESDAY,AND LOVES IT SO MUCH. I WISH YOU WERE HERE TO SEE HER ENJOYMENT,AND PARTAKE IN ALL OF HER ACTIVITIES. WE ARE ALL DOING THE BEST WE CAN,AND SHE IS THRIVING. OF COURSE NOTHING CAN COMPARE WITH HAVING YOU IN HER LIFE,BUT KNOW SHE IS A HAPPY LITTLE GIRL,GROWING BY LEAPS AND BOUNDS. GOD BLESS YOU MY SWEET NIECE,REST IN PEACE AND GIVE HUGS AND KISSES TO GRANDMA,POP-POP,COUSIN NANCY,AUNT SHELI,AND ALL OF OUR AUNTS AND UNCLES THAT ARE WITH YOU IN HEAVEN. WE WILL SEE YOU ALL WHEN GOD CALLS US TO HIS HOME. LOVE YOU AUNT MARCIA XXXXXXXXOOOOOOOO
MARCIA COSTANZO
September 11, 2003
KRISTEN,ITS TWO YEARS SINCE WE LAST SAW YOU AND WE STILL MISS YOU TERRIBLY. LINDSEY STARTED KINDERGARTEN LAST WEEK AND ENJOYS IT ALOT. SHE IS SO BEAUTIFUL AND LOVING,YOU MUST BE SO PROUD!!!!!! I KNOW YOU ARE WATCHING HER EVERY MOVE,AND YOU CAN SEE HOW WONDERFUL A LITTLE GIRL SHE IS. BLESS YOU MY SWEET NIECE AND REST IN PEACE. YOUR LOVING AUNT MARCIA AND UNCLE PETER XXXXXXXXXOOOOOOOOO AND MAY I THANK EVERYONE WHO HAS POSTED A TRIBUTE TO KRISTEN OVER THE PAST TWO YEARS.GOD BLESS YOU ALL
IVONNE VELEZ
September 11, 2003
Two years ago I lost my best friend and my mother two months prior. My life is so empty without them. I pray everyday for them and all the other wonderful people we have lost. God bless everyone and their families.
Janice Thornwell
September 11, 2003
To Kristen's family: I still think about Kristen and Lindsey. I was a co-worker of Kristen's at New York Life Insurance Company. She was a very sweet girl and will be missed.
Yvonne Ramirez
September 13, 2002
Although I have never met your family, I have bonded with your mom and dad over the phone. I must say I can understand and feel their pain and sorrow for I too lost my dear sister and close friend, Linda Mair-Grayling in the WTC tragedy. I just wanted to reach out and offer my prayers of strength and peace to you and your precious daughter, Lindsey, your mom and dad. God bless you all and congratulations Warren on your recent victory. Remember, amidst this tragedy, the miracle of love and friendship has surfaced. We will meet soon. Take care.
Yvonne Ramirez
Jessica Rivera
September 11, 2002
My deepest sympathies.
Cathie Jeffs-Blum
September 11, 2002
Warren is a good friend and I am happy for him in his recent victory yet it is bittersweet.
Lynne Russo-Linale
July 12, 2002
Dearest Kristen,
I know my brother, Wayne Russo, is with you in heaven. Although we never met, I know you are a wonderful person and that you are watching over your heartbroken family. I wish them peace and a healing heart. Please give Wayne a big hug and a kiss for me. We will always remember the sacrifice you and Wayne and all the other heroes made for us....
Angie Campbell
April 25, 2002
May God Bless you and the ones that you left behind on 9/11/01. Rest in his loving peace..........
Susan Fiedel-Butler
March 15, 2002
I felt compelled to write Kristen's family to express my grief over your loss. I feel especially emotional over the death of your loved-one as I also have a daughter that bears the same name and I cannot comprehend loosing her in such a tragic manner. My heart goes out to her family. You are in my prayers. God bless, Susan Butler
Lenore Borelli
March 11, 2002
I am so sorry,I cant stop thinking about you.I want you to know you will be missed deeply.
Marianne Pellegrino
January 21, 2002
Kristen we did not get to know you as well as we would have liked to, but we miss you just the same. We are very sorry for the loss your family had to endure,especially your baby girl. May God be with you and your family. With Sympathy, The Pellegrino Family
January 17, 2002
DEAR LORD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS
BEAUTIFUL YOUNG WOMAN AND MAY HER
SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS
ANGELS.GOD BLESS HER FAMILY AND
FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA AND MAY WE
NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..AMEN
Marcia Costanzo
January 9, 2002
Our hearts are broken and we think of you every day.You were a great mommy,a loving daughter,sister,and niece.You warmed the hearts of all your friends,and to all that knew you. Rest in peace,your loving Aunt and Uncle Marcia and Peter
Teresa Jahn
January 2, 2002
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Gillian Hanley
January 2, 2002
Please know that today, for a moment, that I and others stopped and reflected on your life and mourned you for being taken away too soon. May God give your family and friends strength when they miss you and smiles when they remember your laughter.
Irene Feldman
October 17, 2001
You will live on in our hearts and our memories forever.And most especially through the greatest legacy you left behind-Lindsey.
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