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Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 10, 2001.

Jeffrey James Olsen, 31, of New York City, a firefighter with the New York Fire Department.

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August 13, 2003

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August 13, 2003

Jeff,

I miss you so much but I am glad to see how very much you were loved by your two children, Noah and Tori and your step-son Vincent. It's been so long since I've seen you. It was right before Tori was born and you were speaking of how excited you where to have an adorable step-son and a child on the way. I truly feel for Vincent. He had a wonderful step-father but only for 3 short years. Yet I am sure in the 5 years you knew him you taught him so much. All step-children should be able to say they have a step parent how loves them as much as you loved your step-son. I'm sure through their pain of losing you, they know how much you loved them. May God bless them and keep them from the negativity in this world.

August 9, 2003

Nature vs nurture

A question only simple minds would ask...

Don't they know it takes both to complete such an incredible task?

A soul's journey has been laid out-right from the very start-

but it is up to a parent to help a child find that journey in its heart.

You can hold someone's hand but you can never chain their soul-

so it takes both the divine and a parent to make a person whole.

Jeff Olsen's three children are living examples of how the strength of a parent can overcome any pain-it is evident in their smiles even after all they have endured. Their journeys have been difficult for souls yet so young-but they have learned and they have grown and they will be stronger for it. They have two wonderful role models in Jeff and Denise.

August 9, 2003

Time goes by so quickly. Especially as childen grow. One minute the're babies and the next little people.

You took fatherhood seriously. One of our last conversations was about how important it was to you. I often wonder about the whole nature vs nurture thing.

I hope that the sense of humor, kindness, vivacious and tenacious qualities that were so you passed on through your genes. And I hope that the few years that you were a loving step-father to Vincent, passed those qualities on to him.

Nature or Nurture, the best of you should live on.

We love and miss you.

July 28, 2003

Ones soul moves on and never forgets the lessons it learns.

For it is only a short time we are here physically but the soul continues.

And it is only within the soul they find truth and reason.

To understand this is real power.

Some have yet to even come close...

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July 27, 2003

Dear Jeff - You are missed more than u could ever imagine. Your loved ones carry on but not without pain and suffering in your absence. I know u are watching them and protecting all from harm. Meantime, the memory of you lingers in every soul you touched in every breath they take.

Peace brother.

Eagle Rock, NY

July 4, 2003

Land of the Free-Home of the Brave
Lets not forget freedom is never free
Thank you for being brave
Love you and Miss you

June 27, 2003

Camp Pouch, June 26th 2003. It just felt right. Wouldn't you know it, two big bass. I'm not a big believer in those sort of things, but it felt like you. Happy birthday my brother from another mother. Till we meet again, I'll give em hell.

Mary Olesky

June 25, 2003

Happy Birthday Jeff 06/26/03

Always in our hearts and a part of our lives.

You have taught me much, thank you. :)

Love Mary, Dan, Daniel & David

Roseann Fornito & Family

June 23, 2003

Dear Jeff, I know that your birthday is this month, not sure what the exact date is but I remembered that it was in June near my dads. Just wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday in Heaven.

June 20, 2003

Time passes, and I move on with life, yet the pain lingers. Each day another memory of you comes back to me. Sometimes when I least expect it. I reach out at times, figuring if anyone could reach back, it would be you. Pouch Camp August 2001. How I wish I could go back. To tell you how sorry I am. Who could have ever thought it would be the last. I loved you like a brother. Maybe some day my friend, we will meet again. Until then........I will fish.

May 23, 2003

Some days it catches me by surprise. I'll be going along in life and a song on the radio, or the smell of a spring day, will instantly take me back to a time with you. I have to stop and try to enjoy the memory because it's all I have now. I look around in complete disbelief that you aren't here. You aren't walking on the same streets or breathing the same air, or looking at the same full moon. How can it be possible? My whole body hurts from the feeling of loss. I miss you.

But I know your in a better place. Away from all the evils here. Your free now. And I know that your spirit and the love you had will always be a part of us. The bond of true friendship never dies.

May 8, 2003

The Final Analysis

People are often unreasonable,illogical and self-centered;

Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives;

Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies;

Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you;

Be honest and frank anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous;

Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow;

Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough;

Give the world the best you've got anyway.

You see, in the final analysis, it is all between you and your God,

It was never between you and them anyway...

-Mother Theresa of Calcutta

May 2, 2003

GOD..

GRANT ME THE SERENITY

TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CANNOT

..........CHANGE............

C OURAGE. ......

TO CHANGE THE THINGS I CAN

AND THE ****WISDOM*****

TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE

Denise Olsen

May 1, 2003

Dear Jeff,

Found this poem and thought of you:

Ponds, puddles, and rainy days,

Fishing, boating and lazy days,

Live each day as it's your last,

Live life simple....make it last!

Always Thinking Of You!

Out of sight but NEVER out of mind!

Love Always,

Your Sister-In-Law, Denise

XOXOX

Mary & Dan Olesky

April 19, 2003

Jeff

Forever big in our hearts.

We love you and miss you.

Forever on our minds.

You will always be Daniel and Davids hero.

April 2, 2003

My Dearest Jeff,

I love you and miss you!

My life has changed so much since you are gone.

You will NEVER be forgotten!

"PEACE"

XOX XOX XOX XOX

Marybeth DiFiore

March 30, 2003

To the family of Jeff Olsen: I am a middle school teacher in the Adirondack Mountains. I first read about Jeff in Family Circle. It was an article about his gift of bone marrow. I shared the article with my students. They were touched by Jeff's kindness. We are about to embark on a Web Quest relating to American Heroes of 9-11. Jeff was a perfect introduction to our unit. He has all the character traits that we are looking for in an American Hero. I'm sorry for your loss. I just wanted to let you know that other people around the country remember Jeff.

March 28, 2003

Dear Jeff, I know you are watching

Denise and the kids and know that

we are watching them also. We

all still mourn your passing and you

know the old saying “time heals all”,

the problem with that saying is, the

truth is you can’t heal a heart.

About 3 years ago we were fishing and

you put down your pole to talk to me

and everyone knows what that means.

The things we spoke of, if I knew the

evil that was coming, I would of said

that you should follow the dream that

is in your heart. Well the place your

in now you can follow that dream, and

your dream will fill the heart and

soul of everyone you touch.

March 27, 2003

Remain forever in our hearts

See your relection on our face,

Your spirit will be remembered

Always throughout the years.

Walk with us on our journey

Come see all there is to see,

Never have regrets or woes

You are the reason for our being.

Author: "Unknown"

Denise Olsen

March 25, 2003

Dear Jeff,

And that is where we all begin:

a prince and princess longing for each other, wandering through foreign lands in search of one we lost. It is not an external "fix" we seek, but an internal blessing, and our souls will bend toward the possiblility of union as surely as a flower bends toward sunlight. Wicked fairies and evil queens, monsters and dragons, and dangerous spells will always threaten our approach to heaven. Yet we are drawn to our destiny as if to a magnet, and while monsters can delay us, they have no power to change our destination. The map to our deliverance is held in trust and guarded by angels. We will encounter the darkness of a lonely existence, but find each other again in the light of an intense and compassionate understanding. We find in that place an unending kiss.

-Marianne Williamson

"Enchanted Love"

I love you and miss you!!

Keep us safe...

Dee xoxoxoxoxox

Mary Olesky

March 22, 2003

As of today we are at war. I am not proud that this had to happen but I am glad to see some one is trying to stop this person from ever having to hurt again. Do we let this type of person continue to build an army so that we may ALL some day be at his mercy? Jeff you are a victim of this type of person and in your name and all who are with you take pride that we look to remove him. I just wish we did this back 12 years ago maybe you would be with us today. Personally I think you would want to be on the front line.

In the hopes that your sons and mine never have to be victims of this type of terror or war I take pride in the troops that should (I mean will) finish the job. I believe they carry in their blood the pain that came to us from 9/11 and this will keep their spirits strong. To them I pray that they all come home safe. To you I just wish to see your face again. I know war is a bad thing but I take comfort someone should pay because they took you from Denise, your children and us.

Rest in peace Jeff

Forever young in our hearts.

Love and miss you .

Mary

March 11, 2003

Dear Jeff,

It’s only been a year and a half since you are gone. I can still hear your laughter and I can still see your smile. A moment doesn’t go by without a thought or reminder of you.

I feel like you were just with Neil and I yesterday, hanging out laughing and joking without a care in the world. You were so carefree, life was so carefree,... now since Sept. 11th it has been a year and a half of heartache and sadness. You were taken from us so abruptly and nothing but loneliness has filled our lives since.

We miss you, your entire family misses you! There is a void in our everyday lives that will never and can never be filled. I know that you are watching each and everyone of us and that you see all and are all knowing. I want you to know that you live within all of us, especially Neil– He was so close to you, as close as anyone could ever be. You’ve shared so much together and knew each others most inner thoughts and feelings– No one could ever take away those great memories. It is what keeps Neil going. I see you in him sometimes and I know you are giving him the strength to carry on.

Our lives have completely changed since you’ve been gone, but the thought of you never leaves us. Your Godchild Heather misses you also, and she makes up songs about you and sings them proudly. You are her hero.

Well, its only been 18 months. I can’t believe it when I hear people say that 9-11 was a long time ago and that people have actually forgotten the most tragic day of our lives. I for one will never forget and to me it was only yesterday- Each day passes and the emptiness of a world without you is still there.

“To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die”

I love you and miss you,

your sister-in-law,

Denise XOX

Julie T.

February 28, 2003

Myself and my family had been in New York City over the Presidents weekend. We had the chance to go to ground zero and Engine Co. 10.

While we were there we saw the names of the men who were lost. I had remembered Jeffrey’s name for some reason and when I came back to North Carolina I looked it up on this tribute site. I am sooo glad I remembered Jeffrey’s name because it was wonderful to see just what a wonderful human being he was. Our Hopes and Prayers go out to Jeffrey’s family and I will never forget his name. Peace on earth.

February 27, 2003

Because your loved

Rejoice in the day

Everyone joins you

And will want to say

Strive for the stars

Till the end of the day.

I will always believe

Miracles happened

Proud of who you are

Least not saddened

Always remember...

Never forget...

Told from the beginning

Shall show no regret.

Mary Olesky

February 24, 2003

Hey Jeff,

Your son is now three and I can't believe how much he is JUST LIKE YOU. I feel as if I am looking at you at the age of three. But hey we all know there is only ONE Jeffery James Olsen in this world and will never be another. It breaks my heart to see him and to know you can't and won't. It makes me so sad. He is beautiful and bold. Very sure of himself. You will be proud of him. He is as crazy as you ever were. He is just prefect, your son. I felt you with us for his party and hope you know that. Denise is holding on with all she has and is doing a good job. I know you are proud of her. Your son may never meet you but he carries your spirit with him. Not to mention your crazy ways, its almost scary how much he is just like you.

I miss you Jeff

Love you Jeff

Your sister

Mary

DENISE OLSEN

February 14, 2003

My Dearest Angel Jeff,

I wake up every morning with your name on my lips-an unspoken pain brought about by the same amount of intense love that has not and never will fade.

Some of my days bring joy and others great disappointment-all are reminders of how empty and lonely we feel. All are reminders of how much we all miss you- myself, Vincent, Tori Rose, Noah, our friends and families.

Thank you for all that you were and continue to be to all who knew you. Thank you for teaching me about life and what was truly in your soul. Thank you for giving me strength when I feel I can't handle this cross anymore-or at least, sending such earthly angels into my life to help me carry it. Thank you for loving me and our THREE children and for letting us love you. But most of all-thank you for being a living example before 9/11 of all that was right in our world and for being strong enough to protect that.

And know that at the end of my day-no matter how good or bad it is-I go to bed with your name still burning on my lips.

I love you eternally,

Your wife and Valentine forever...

Happy Valentine's Day in Heaven

Dee

xoxoxoxoxoxxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

January 25, 2003

Dear Jeff,

It's been too long, to many days have passed by without you here. Everytime I see something beautiful in this world, I think how it is not fair that you are not here to see it. My only resolution is that you can live on through your 2 children, Tori & Noah. I saw the letter your nieces and nephews wrote to you in the paper. It was precious, they love and miss you so much. It's so sad that these children have to learn about death and pain at such young ages.

You and your family are in my heart and prayers....

Love you, always.....

GINO PALUMMO

January 21, 2003

Jeff,

Please look down upon us and continue to help us through this rough time in our lives. Dedicate your time to those who need guidance most. Some need more help than others finding their way to deal with this disaster and how they express their sorrow and sympathy toward Dee, Vin, Tori and Bo-Bear, your most precious gifts that you left behind!! Always help me to be there for them through all the good and bad things they may come up against. I truly hope you are at peace!!

Gino P.

January 20, 2003

You knew you'd go out in a "Blaze of Glory" I'm sure even you couldn't imagine the impact on the world that terrible day would have. You are so deeply missed by all those who knew you, the real you. Can you feel all the love that is here for you? Your friendship and love made me who I am today. I often think of the times we shared growing up. Fishing and hanging out on the big rock at the pond talking for hours, party's at the beach and little league, laughing till our sides hurt, breakfast at Mario's, basketball in the freezing cold or drinking warm beers pondering life on the hood of a car listening to Bruce or the Doors, I could go on forever....

You had 31 years of moments and memories and friendships that truly mattered to a lot of people. Not nearly enough time, but every minute treasured. I wish that the last time I saw you when you hugged me goodbye I would've told you that I love you and always will, no matter how much of life stands between us, including death! I hope you realized how important you were to all of us. I can't help but wonder what you would think and say of all that's happened since 9/11.

I hope you've found peace.

God Bless You.

Nancy Coluccio

January 16, 2003

Our Dearest Jeff

Sixteen months gone by and you are still in our thoughts everyday.

We try not to let the anger of what happened to you and what has followed since you're gone get in the way of what needs to be done to make Denise,Vincent,Tori and Noah feel a sense of security.

They all struggle every day in one way or another to get through all the difficult times. You would be so proud.Many days are followed by constant reminders that you are not here and what is still to come without your presence.

All the little things people take for granted everyday such as Vincent playing a great basketball game without his DAD there to share in the moment,or having trouble in school and no DAD to give his advice.Tori going to school I remember that day and you were missed you would have loved to be the one taking her instead of Myself and Sharon but you're not here.When she draws a picture she misses out on drawing one for DADDY and she misses out on the smile you would give her. Noah is young but everytime he sees your picture he says "thats my DADDY" He now uses the word dead and knows what that means you're not here. Denise has the hardest job of all to get up everyday and to try to make a life without the LOVE of her life.She now has to make all decisions by herself no matter how small or large.She has to tend to three children all day without the evening break DADDYS home. Dinner time is the hardest there is no DADDY at the table to ask about anyones day or to make plans for time away together. There is no time away for Denise she has to be there as mother and father.If she does manage to get some free time it is not without guilt.A simple Dr visit is a task as it now entales getting a sitter because there is no HUSBAND to watch the kids. Everything now needs additional planning as to when things get done going to two schools to pick up the kids so food shopping has to wait for a better time. Bedtime is another rough spot there are the insecurities of two little ones who need MOMMY to lay down with them in the same bed DADDY used to sleep in There is no DADDY there to help them get through the darkness of the night or get a sippy cup if they awake durning the night.

These are just afew of the EVERYDAY things that go on in most households and OTHERS take for granted and refuse to believe it is a big deal but what they do not realize they all have someone in their home called DADDY.

Jeff,I thing you understand what I'm trying to say. I'm sorry for you and what youre expectations were and that they were not met.

As vowed before in memory of you we will continue to do whatever necessary to help Denise THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE and the children get through this time. Things will never be the same for any of them but all we can hope for is that over time things will get better and they will have a new normal life whatever that means.You and God will help take them where they need to be.

We love and miss you

Nancy & Dan

January 15, 2003

I think of you everyday.

I miss & love you sooo much.

Denise Olsen

January 15, 2003

Dear Jeff,

Because of you, I love a little more.

Because of you, I take time to give an extra kiss good-bye.

Because of you, I have a new favorite song.

Because of you, there may be dust on the window sill, and I don't care.

Because of you, I live today, before I worry about tomorrow.

Because of you, I don't give up quite as fast.

Because of you, I still believe in rainbows.

Because of you, now I can help or listen more.

Because of you, today, I am me.

-by Eileen Wernsman

As long as I can

I will look at this world for both of us.

As long as I can

I will laugh with the birds,

I will sing with the flowers,

I will pray to the stars, for both of us.

As long as I can,

I will remember how many things on this earth were your joy.

And I will live as well as you would want me to live,

As long as I can.

-By Sascha "For Both of Us"

Thank you for helping me on my journey and for teaching me to live in the moment and for constantly reminding me of how precious our lives are-just by being you.

I love you and miss you

Dee

xoxox

GINO PALUMMO

December 31, 2002

JEFF,

HAPPY NEW YEAR IN HEAVEN IF YOU HAVE ONE UP THERE. I HOPE WE ARE MAKING YOU PROUD OF US DOWN HERE AND WHEN WE MEET AGAIN IT WILL BE LIKE TIME NEVER PASSED!!!!! I AM HERE.

GINO

Mike & Rosean Fornito & Family

December 30, 2002

Dear Jeff, we just want to let you know that as another New Year approaches, both you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Watch over and guide them through another year without your presence. Please be resting in peace.

francine salinari

December 19, 2002

dear jeff and family i can remember as children we would all go to the pond near your house, having no fear playing on the frozen ice, jeff was the one who always brought a laugh no matter who was upset or mad about something.. no matter what it was on your mind hanging out with you made you forget you even had a problem.. well it's been long since we seen eachother last but i never forgot about you and always looked at your house as i would pass going to visit my mom.. miss you and wish i could give you a hug or bring you a laugh as you would do for me, rest in peace i pray for you and your family ,your brothers sisters mom and dad your wife and three boys i have never met.. i often think of all of you god bless you .....truly francine from up the block.. i love you jeff

November 27, 2002

I miss you....

GINO PALUMMO

November 27, 2002

JEFF,

AT THIS TIME OF THE YEAR IT IS EXTREMELY DIFFICULT TO BE AROUND DENISE AND THE KIDS. HOW CAN I BE THANKFUL WHEN THEY HAVE TO BE ALONE WITHOUT YOU FOREVER. I AM VERY MAD RIGHT NOW, THIS PAIN I HAVE WHEN I SEE THEM DOES NOT SUBSIDE. I KNOW THAT YOU ARE WATCHING OVER THEM BECAUSE THEY ARE SO STRONG, EVEN AFTER ALL THEY HAVE BEEN THROUGH. I HAVE BEEN IN THE WOODS THE LAST TWO WEEKENDS AND I TALKED TO YOU ALOT. IT'S AMAZING HOW FAST OUR TIME HERE GOES BY, WE REALLY NEED TO CHERISH EVERY MOMENT. THE WOODS ARE SO PEACEFUL AND SO ALIVE I KNOW THAT IS WHERE YOU HANG OUT.

I KNOW YOU WILL HELP US CONTINUE TO GET STRONGER AND I WILL MAKE SURE TO DO THE BEST I CAN TO BE THERE FOR DEE AND THE KIDS FOR WHATEVER THEY NEED WHENEVER THEY NEED IT. I'LL MAKE SURE TO GIVE THEM A HUGE HUG FOR YOU LIKE I ALWAYS DO. I HOPE YOU CAN FEEL THE HUGS THAT I GIVE THEM FOR YOU!!

SEE YOU SOON

GINO

November 8, 2002

Dear Jeff,

This time of year has so many reminders of you. As the colorful leaves fall from the trees, as the strong winds blow the leaves around, as the squirrels gather nuts for the winter and as the days get shorter and the nights get longer... All of these things I've always taken for granted, but now they are reminders of you and how "fragile" life is.

I miss you and Love you!

October 3, 2002

Oh Jeffrey,

I miss you so much! Your love and laughter will always be with me.

Thanks for all the fun we shared.

Rest in peace my love.

oxox

Dori Van Brocklin

September 12, 2002

This morning my mother wore your name on a heart. She sang in memory of you and for your fallen comrades. I was proud that she took part in the Rolling Requiem but prouder still of you and what you had done a year ago. I will never forget how you sacraficed your life for so many who needed help. For such a gift of life I know you were special and beautiful person. And you truely will be remembered forever more in our family.

May God bless the surving members of your family and confort them in their grief.

Dori Van Brocklin

Roseann Fornito

September 12, 2002

Dear Denise, Vincent, Tori, & Noah, I came across this poem and it fit Jeff perfectly. On this one year anniversary, all of you are in our thoughts and prayers. " I SAW AN ANGEL" I THOUGHT I SAW AN ANGEL ONE DAY, A SMILING FACE TO SHOW ME THE WAY. LEADING ME DOWN THE SMOKE FILLED STAIRWELL, THE ANGELS STORY I WISH TO TELL. STRONG AS TEN MEN HE COULD BE, OF ALL THE PEOPLE WHY STOP TO HELP ME, AS DOWN THE STAIRS HE WENT. WHO KNEW THIS ANGELS FROM HEAVEN WOULD BE SENT. FASTER NOW, WE HAD TO GO, IT SEEMED LIKE TIME WAS OUR GREATEST FOE. AN ENTIRE LIFETIME IT SEEMED WE SPENT, AS DOWN THE STAIRS WE QUICKLY WENT. IT LOOKED LIKE WE FINALLY REACHED THE END, AS THE BUILDINGS STARTED TO BEND. HE LED ME OUT TO A SAFE PLACE, ALL THE WHILE WITH A SMILE ON HIS FACE. A SMILE OF AN ANGEL I WOULD GUESS, IT SEEMED A MILLION MILES WE HAD BEEN. THEN HE TURNED AWAY AND WENT BACK IN I THOUGHT I SAW AN ANGEL ONE DAY, AN ANGEL THAT SHOWED ME THE WAY. written by: Andy Langford, Miss.

Ernie Saccone

September 11, 2002

I am so proud of your selfless courage and your bravery on that terrible day.

It has been a while since we hung out, but I'm so honored to have had your friendship growing up. Knowing you, I'm sure you charged up those steps like no one else because that was you,THE BEST. . .

the best at anything you put your mind to. The times we spent hangin were the best.. .in the woods throwing Anthony Vacaro in the old swing & smashing him up against the tree, or dancing like weirdo freaks at high school parties. . . New Years Eve at the Burrito Bar and more. Whatever it was, as long as you were there, it was great. I'm sure everyone would agree your greatest asset was that you brought out the best in people. No matter how bad a mood you were in,as soon as you spotted Jeff, BAD MOOD OVER.

I just want to say thank you because the memories I have of you make me laugh out loud every day. I will never forget those times. I will never forget you.

Your friend always,

Ernie

Denise Olsen

September 10, 2002

Dearest Jeff,

As Sept 11th draws closer, I find myself feeling frightened. I feel like I am going to experience that same shock and unimaginable pain and fear that I felt as the towers first fell. Except now I will be sure of the outcome-no cushion of hope or prayers for miracles. Life has changed dramatically for us all-it has been a year full of suffering but from that comes growth of the soul. I miss you every minute of the day. I miss your honesty,your laughter,your knowledge,your hands, your hair, the way you smell,your voice-everything. I have seen the best and the worst in everyone-as they have in me-I have accepted what I cannot change.

The day the towers fell a part of me died with you-and there are many days that I would do anything to be with you but the next morning,just like on Sept 12th,much to my amazement, the sun comes up. People wonder where the children and I get our strenth but the truth is we are not left with any other choice. Tori has now had enough of being without you and says she wants you to come back from the angels. She remembers everything you taught her and she is wonderful. Noah,God help him is a lunatic-he has managed to acquire your crazy personality minus the common sense-how scary is that? He even beats himself up and Danny cracks up thinking of you. Vincent writes about you and all he has experienced in the past year and it is incredible how aware he is of all that has transpired. It is also very sad that such a young boy has had to experience so much pain. I try my best and I have learned to be true to myself and the values we both believed in. I try every day to stay focused on the positive and to protect myself from all that is negative.

This journey has been long and hard but we will continue in your honor to live so you may live,to laugh so you may laugh, to hold each other often so you may hold us and to love each other the best we can so you will forever be in our hearts.

I miss you always & I love you more

Hugs and Kisses,

your girl

Dee

Adelaide Rhodes

September 10, 2002

I got Jeffrey Olsen's name at my church last year. I have prayed for him and his family this past year. He has been in my thoughts and prayers more as Sept. 11 draws near.

Janice Payne

September 9, 2002

I did not know you, but have been given your name to keep close to my heart as we come upon the one year anniversary of the tragic day that changed your life. My employer has given each of us, one of your names. My thanks to you for all you did and my prayers go out to your family and friends as they try to heal and move forward.

Janice Payne

July 19, 2002

Dear Jeff,

I LOVE you and MISS you each and every day.

Your Laughter and Love of Life will never be forgotten.

I hope you're catchin' some big fish way up in heaven.

Hugs & Kisses!!

Tamra Wilkes

July 4, 2002

I have started many times writing something down that could make any possible sense. It never does, words seem pointless. I never knew Jeff, but many months have gone by and I am still unable to deal with his death. My husband, children and I, drove to New York in April. This is someplace we had never been but I felt the need to be there. I walked by the station he worked and his name will forever be in my memory. I just want to say that your family is in my thoughts and prayers every day.

[email protected]

Denise Olsen

July 1, 2002

Dear Jeff,

First of all..."HAPPY BIRTHDAY". We all miss you very much and think about you and all that you stand for each and every day.

I can still remember the day that I first met you. You were this goofy little kid standing on a pile of rocks across the street from your mom's house. Neil introduced you as his little brother Jeff who I had already known so much about just by Neil's stories. I could see right away that the two of you had so much more than a brotherly bond; you were the best of friends. The bond between you was so tightly knit and so incredibly strong that nothing could ever break it (NOT EVEN DEATH).

I watched you grow from this goofy little kid with a mischievous smile to the hansome man you had become with a great laugh and great sense of humor. And as the years went by I went from being the one with the ID who bought you and your friends beer at the corner deli to being the one lucky enough to hang out with you, laugh at you and Neil perform Star Trek moments, go fishing with you and listening to you and Neil crack up at one another while working on my house. Sometimes when I sit in my kitchen I can still hear the two of you laughing and falling over in stitches while you worked above me on the second floor of my house.

Your brother Neil admires you so very much and has learned so much from you (even now). Neil's heart glowed when ever he would hear you bragging about him to anyone willing to listen. Neil loved being that person whom you looked up too. And I'm not sure if you knew this, but Neil and I would often discuss how proud he was of you and all you stood for. He is so proud to be your brother.

We miss you so much and not a moment goes by that we aren't thinking of you. You were a very big part of out lives and continue to be. I look into Neil's eyes and I can see how lonely he is without you. For now the sadness engulfs us, but the memories encourage us to carry on. We do know that you are watching over us and will help to guide us through this most difficult time. We hope to instill in your children and in ours your beliefs, your values, your sense of humor, your love of life and your love of fishing. You live on within all of the many lives you have touched.

Neil carries within him both your spirit and your strength. I can only pray that my own children have even half the closeness that you and Neil share.

I love you & miss you!

Love Always,

Your Sister-In-Law, Denise

XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX

The Fornito's

June 28, 2002

Dear Jeffrey, today is my dad's birthday, he is 80 and I am grateful that he is still with us. I wish that you too could have been with us for your birthday. I sure hope they had a big cake for you up in heaven, you sure do have alot of new friends. Happy Birthday.

denise olsen

June 27, 2002

Dear Jeff,

I thought we would grow old together...that is what you told me. I stand alone now with a memory. It was so perfect.... Was it real? It feels surreals. Sometimes I just wait. What is here for me? I want you. I wait for you to come and take me with you-I want to be where you are... I want to hold you again as if there is no one else in the world because there isn't. It was always you and me. Together we could do anything. Now where do I go> By myself-do what we dreamed of? Life has become monotonous...We always thought we would get old together-why can't we? Who wrote the book? I will never step foot in church-I know now what you mean. A bunch of hypocrites-you were right. Our love stretches beyond death-I will find you. I will never let you go. I never did. I never will. Until we meet again. My heart and soul are forever yours. I love you. Happy Birthday

Your Baby

Denise

ann marie frawley

June 27, 2002

Happy Birthday to you !

Happy Birthday to you !

Happy Birthday Dear JEFFREY !!!

Happy Birthday to you !!!!!

Everyone misses and loves you, you are forever in our hearts !!!

Love you, Ann Marie

June 26, 2002

Just wanted to say thank you Jeff, for all that you are. Not only did your laughter & love of life bring out the best in everyone who ever knew you- it brought everyone together.

How lucky am I to have met you back-in-the-day growing up when friendships were pure, countless and easily locked with an infectious smile and a, “Hey what’s up?”

You treated all creatures with respect & dignity. Although we never once discussed it, it’s those qualities that helped get me through the murky-muck of some pretty rough times.

[Who are you calling sentimental? I’m a lady!!]

:P

Thanks to you & the motley bunch you traveled with, I can look back on the old days as being good.

[Not to mention FUN…YEAH YEAH !!]

Far beyond incidental party-banter, the TREE PHENOMENON and your allegory have kept me strong & on my own path ever since. A treasured parting gift gleaned from a quick-witted conversation a very long time ago, it is but a small testament of your remarkable spirit.

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

That morning I prayed from the safe detention of the late bus with the force of my entire being.

Please God, send a miracle to help all those I work with and say “Good morning” to every day. It is with both pride and a heavy heart that I soon learned that you were among those angels He sent to answer that plea.

May God Bless your Family. They will remain forever in my heart and in my prayers. WE WILL NEVER FORGET.

PEACE

Mary Oleksy

June 26, 2002

If tears could build a stiarway

And memories were a lane

We would walk right up to heaven

And bring you back again

No farewell words were spoken

No time to say goodbye

You were gone before we know it

And only God knows why

Our hearts still ache in sadness

And secret tears still flow

What it meant to lose you

No one can ever know

But now we know you want us

To mourn for you no more

To remember the happy times

Life still has much in store

Since you'll never be forgotten

We pledge to you today

A special place within our hearts

Is where you'll always stay

Happy Birthday Jeff

We miss you

We love you much

Mary Dan Daniel and David

MEL MARCONI

June 17, 2002

Dear Jeff:

Hey Mon!!! Well it's Father's Day and I just wanted to write you a messege to tell you "Happy Father's Day". I was looking at my Daughter today and you popped into my mind because I know you are not here for Fathers Day... But if I know you, you are here in spirit looking down at your Wife, Children and Family. Looking at my daughter made me realize how hard it is for your wife,children and family to deal with their first father's day without you, it just makes me much closer to my daughter and appreciate every moment we spend together.

Your brother Neil saw me leaving for work and stopped to say "Thank You" for my first letter to you. He said that your parents were glad to see that I wrote you a letter and wanted to Thank me also. It made me feel better knowing that I put a smile on their face.

Like I said in the last letter, you were a very big part of me growing up into a man. I am looking down at your mass card and I noticed that your Birthday is coming up soon and I just wanted to say "Happy Birthday too".

Well gonna go now, Happy Father's Day and Happy Birthday. See you at the Crossroads.

Love,

Mel and Family

6/16/2002

[email protected]

Denise Olsen

June 17, 2002

To my Dearest Jeff,

It is Father's Day-our first Father's Day without you. How my heart screams in pain...

Of all your accomplishments-I know your proudest moments were when we heard the the first cry of our newborn children-those lives we were given the power to create. I replay our delivery room experiences over and over-I guess probably because they were the most special times in our lives. I laugh and I cry. You know we didn't do much without both emotions in full force. Remember the Star Trek marathon when we were waiting for Tori Rose-I still hate Star Trek-but you had yourself a good laugh at my expense. Then Noah-how could we ever thank Dr. Reilly for stepping aside and letting you deliver your own baby. I can hear your voice and the look on your face as you delivered your son who definitely appeared to have been quite content where he had been. Oh-if only you were here now. Your Tori girl is so determined-I was so scared that she would lose that strength that only you could give her-that fearlessness knowing Daddy would always catch her when she was falling-but to my surprise she is so much stronger. The love and support she has around her is incredible. Vincent-he is having a hard time without you. School is difficult and he often asks to be taken to the cemetery to just spend a minute with you. He wrote a book about you and it breaks my heart to hear his pain and makes me smile to hear how proud he is of you. He keeps saying he is going to be a fireman when he grows up-and that Jimmy M is going to be his captain which you and I know is a great joke. I couldn't take the sleepless nights. Noah-he is your clone-not only in looks but in personality. He is only 2 and he laughs at my corny jokes like you would. His smile melts my heart but as you would say "an angel with a dirty face". I have my work cut out for me. I always worry that Noah will not remember the love that you had or at least that uplifting and strengthening spirit, but today I took them all to the cemetery and he saw your picture and started crying for his Daddy. What do I tell them? We talk of you every day and we include you in every aspect of our lives but I want them to remember your smile, your laughter, that voice and the passion you had for all that you loved. I want them to grow up knowing that you did what you believed in-regardless of what other people thought-without fear and without regret. I want them to know your loyalty-as a husband and a friend-so they may live their lives in the same way. I want them to know that Sept 11th only took your body from us-that your spirit is here-within them especially-in their eyes, their smiles, their dreams. And nobody-can ever take that away from us.

We always said that the greatest gift we could have ever given them was our love and respect for each other-that they will never forget.

I miss you, baby. We all miss you. God entrusted many lives to you and I know he was never let down-thank you-for loving us and for letting us love you-unconditionally....

Happy Father's Day

xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Dee

Jane Wilson

June 13, 2002

I would like to take this opportunity to tell the world about my brother Jeffrey. Jeffrey grew up in Great Kills, beside King-fisher pond on Staten Island. This was a place he loved to fish, but always released his catch, usually with a kiss, only Jeffrey would give. He loved to scan the sky for hawks and loved to view a full moon. He was my parents youngest child of six. My mother often reflects on times when she and Jeffrey would drive home from his pre-school, her nursing school, how they would stop along the way to admire the sunsets. "He had the gift of peace" Jeffrey attended P.S.32, IS 24, he was a graduate of Susan Wagner H.S. While at Susan Wagner Jeffrey saved the life of a fellow student, he performed the Heimlich maneuver, when the student's airway was cleared Jeffrey patted him on the back and said "Alright Buddy?" a statement often made by Jeffrey to those who seemed upset or in need of help. Before becoming a Fire Fighter he worked at St.Vincents Hospital. While their he was known for his genuine gift of laughter and love. Jeffrey graduated from the Fire Academy in 1999, he received a commendation from the South Shore City Councilman Stephen Fiala for aiding in the rescue of a mother and her 5 children in a Brooklyn building. My brothers response to his heroic acts is best described by our brother Neil. Jeffrey shared with him his feelings about being a Firemen after that Brooklyn fire, he stated, "When someone is in the worst time of their life, the most dire straits, and then they look up and see a face and know they are going to be O.K." I love being that face. Jeffrey was a hero to a 15 year old boy he never met for he donated bone marrow, yet another selfless act. Jeffrey made a difference in this world just by being him. I think of all those people who saw his beautiful face with his big green eyes going up as they were going down and out, how that face to many was the last vision they had of that horrible day. It gives me and our family great comfort knowing Jeffrey wanted to be that face. Somebody else's family member was in my brother's presence at their last moment, I am confident he held them in his loving arms before the building collapsed. I say this with great confidence, for I am his sister. Through out our life together even though I was older he was always there to reassure me that my worries would be alright. Jeffrey could be described as Jim Carrey and Jerry Lewis rolled into one, Jeffrey was a magnet for people who were drawn to his sense of humor and love of life. Jeffrey was a true friend to all his buddies. His laughter lives on in their stories of the "Glory Days", shared with Jeff." What's Up Dude" will always ring in their heads or the sound of the Boss playing on the radio. My husband Roger will always shed a tear when putting his kayak in the water, often the tears are from laughter remembering his times shared with his little buddy kayaking or at the "SPOT" fishing. Jeffrey was a very proud man, proud of his family name , his parents, siblings, in-laws and his nieces and nephews, most of all his own family. He leaves behind his wife Denise and his children, Vincent, Tori and Noah. When you hear my brothers name think proud for that is what I am of him. I will make it my duty to let the world know what a real Hero is like for his is my little brother. I signed this guest book once before stating: "The truest form of love is to lay your life down for another but the purest form of love is to cherish each other every day". I thank all of those who have taken the time to enter their heart felt and true memories of my brother it is my honor to thank you for having been a part of an incredible mans life. Jane Wilson

ann marie frawley

June 13, 2002

Dear Jeff,

Well it's been 9 months and I really miss you . I think about you often and every time I see a fire truck or firefighter I think of something special about you. I took my class on a trip to the fire house last week and we brought your picture with us. I felt you there with us in a way. You would have loved it, the guys dressed me in full gear, mask and all ! I know you would have been laughing at me as I almost fell when they put the tank on my back. My students talk and ask about you a lot. I have a section in my room dedicated to my heros. They always look at the picture of you fishing and talk about you. They know so much about what a hero you are and they will always remember that from being in my class. I realized it the other day, when they wanted to name our tadpole after you.Then I heard them talking and it was about you. They are only 5 years old and only know so much about what happened, but in their conversation the towers came up and they spoke about you as if they had known you. It really touched me because I know that when they grow up and are asked about that day they will say their kindergarten teacher always told them about her friend Jeff who helped save thousands that day. I will always keep the hero corner in my room and all my classes will know about Jeff. You will never be forgotten and always live on in the hearts of those who loved you!!

Love, Ann Marie

P.S. I hope you are taking good care of Duff now.

June 11, 2002

"The truest form of love is to lay down your life for another but the purest form of love is to cheerish each other every day. Never leave a moment's doubt that you love with
your whole heart and soul."
Thank you Jeffrey for all your love.

The Fornito Family

June 11, 2002

Dear Jeffrey, on this ninth month anniversary, we wanted you to know that you are still in our thoughts, never to be forgotten. May you be resting in peace.

June 6, 2002

"That man is a success who has lived well, laughed often and loved much; who has gained the respect of intelligent men and the love of children; who has filled his niche and accomplished his task; who leaves the world better than he found it, weather by an improved poppy, a perfect poem or a rescued soul; who never lacked appreciation of earth's beauty or failed to express it; who looked for the best in others and gave the best he had."

Eric Kuehlthau

May 28, 2002

Just wanted first of all to say to the Olsen family how sorry I am for your loss! By what I have read of Jeffery he seemed like a very positive and outgoing person and one that is deeply missed by everyone who knew him. I am a firefighter in Puyallup, WA. I was recently in Las Vegas for an FDNY memorial softball tournament in which six of the families of the fallen brothers where honored, as well as every other person who gave the ultimate sacrafice that day. At one of the events to honor our brothers I saw the bracelets and had to get one. (quick tangent) I had the opprotunity to go back to NY and show my respect back in November 2001 and attened a couple of memorials. Although I did not attend one for Jeffrey, I was able to go to Ten house (along with thousands of other firefighter from around the world) I could only imagine what was going though their minds as thay pulled out of the station and looked up at those incredible buildings on fire. So, when I had the choice to pick a name I wanted someone off of engine 10 who was there for that whole duration. One of the guys I work with also bought one of the other heroes off of engine 10. We thought it was fitting to keep the crew together. Neither one of us will take ours off! It's our constant tribute to some of our countrys hereos! And in the last month that I have worn Jeffreys memory on my wrist, literaly hundreds of people have heard his name and the small amount of information I know about him. I am a very active person and will take Jeffrey with me every where I go, One, to let him live on through one more person, and Two, to forever remind everyone not to forget that day and to know the name of at least one of Americas Heroes.

God Bless America and the Olsen Family

Angie Campbell

May 8, 2002

**********GOD BLESS YOU**********

Noreen/Tom Gallagher

April 30, 2002

You and your family are always in our prayers

Rosann Fornito

April 29, 2002

To the Olsen Family, I wanted you to know from our family to yours, you are in our thoughts and prayers. My son Michael goes to school with Tori and I felt terrible when I found out about her dad. Unfortunately, I never had the pleasure of meeting him since school stareted on 9/10/01. From what I have read, I am sorry we couldn't have met. May God Bless your family and give you strength everyday. Thank you Jeff for your courage and heroism we are so proud of all of the men who gave their lives for others, you are truly the bravest and are all heroes and will be missed greatly. Rest in peace with all your new friends in heaven.

Michael Iezzi

April 19, 2002

Father we entrust our brother Jeffrey to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.

ann marie frawley

April 2, 2002

Dear Jeff,

First and foremost, I MISS YOU ! You and I first met when we were about 12 years old. My friend "Dan the Man" introduced me to the "whacko" up the block. Well, we clicked from day one like we were meant to be friends.

My memories of you are all good. Even when life sucked, we would always find something to laugh about. I'll never forget those countless days and nights hanging out by the pond, the swing and the fort. Well we did a lot of growing up together. I'll never forget my Burger King days when you guys would come by and never leave empty handed.

No matter what it was or where we were things were always cool with you. Yes, you were always the life of the party. You had something about you that people loved. The strange ways you would contort your body or those unforgetable facial expressions.

But there was more to you than just you outrageous sense of humor and personality. You were a true friend, you will always be my friend. You were always there for me. Especially those crazy years from say 14 to 18, you were always there to help me out when life got hard. I smile when I think of you, I think you would want it that way.

As time passed we didn't see each other as often, but when we did it was as if we hung out yesterday. The last time I hung out with you was at Pete's wedding and I'll never forget how impressed I was by how happy you were.

You were so proud of the fact that you were a firefighter(and so was I because I've always loved firemen!!!) You were so happy with your kids and so in love with your wife. I hadn't met Denise , but I'll never forget how you watched her all night and you must have said to me about 20 times "I love her so much, look at her she's so beautiful and she's mine". I'm glad you found that happiness.

Well, I miss you so much, but I am so glad that in your short time here you touched so many lives and experienced so much happiness. I think of you every day and yes I get sad, but I always end those thoughts with a happy Jeffrey thought. Knowing the person I knew,I believe you would want it that way. I believe you would want everyone to share those great memories and go on living life to the fullest, like you did. I love to tell stories about my friend and my hero Jeff, and I hope to one day share them with your kids.

Love you,

Ann Marie

P.S. I know it was you, pete, dan, frankie, jimmy, ron and others who would park on my front lawn while my mom and I were sitting in the living room oblivious to the fact that you were right out the window(but I'll never tell my mom that)

HEEE!!! HEEEE!!! HEEEEEEE!!!

Remember

Frankie Palmenta

March 22, 2002

For Jeffery,
How saddened I feel when the thought of you not being here with us anymore enters my mind. My pain is shared with so many others who have known you as I have known you. My longest and best friend, we have endured 25 years together in this life. So many fond memories are left with me to cherish for the remainder of my days; as this is all that I have left of you. I love you as my brother, as my best friend. All that I can do now is to honor you in the ways that I can - by trying to keep as close to you through your children, wife, and family, and to be there for them as I would for you. The great years we have had together in sharing life's joys and mysteries will forever be etched into my memory. I honor you, and salute you, till the day of my last breath.

-Frankie

Wild child,
Full of grace,
Savior of the,
Human race,
Your cool face......

Dorothy

March 20, 2002

My heart goes out to the whole Olsen family and you, Denise and your children....It is such a terrible tragedy but know that so many mourn with you...nothing can ever be the same but it is nice to read that there are so many who love and support you...take care and GOD BLESS YOU!

March 18, 2002

DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL HERO..JEFFREY JAMES OLSEN AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS.GOD BLESS HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN...FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..STAY CLOSE AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY JESUS AND ST.JAMES GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN

Mary Anderson

March 15, 2002

My heart can only go out to the Olsen family. I wear Jeffrey's name on a 911 bracelet that I bought through Macy's. I have never been more honored than to be able to display he name of such a heoric and brave man. When my son saw it he asked "who that was?", and I could reply "my hero, and a real hero." I wear my bracelet all the time in memory of a man I will never have known in life, but Hope that I could only be so lucky to meet him in heaven one day and personally thank him for all that he did that september day. I pray everyday for the family and want them to know that my heart goes out to them.

Heather Olsen

March 13, 2002

Dear Godfather

I really miss you. How can you be dead? I really love you. The American Flag is my home now for you. I am lonely without you. On foggy nights there is nothing to share with you and I feel like monsters are around me without you.

And my Godfather, I will do anything for you. Friends forever. I got a little wisper in your ear: I love you Godfather. And I love you for all my whole entire life.

And one more thing I got to say, I love you and you will always be in my heart. Goodbye until we meet again. I love you Godfather and always remember you are a daisy in my heart.

I love you Godfather,

Heather Olsen (age 5)

Feb. 11, 2002

P.S.

I got a G.I. Joe so when you come back to life I'll give it to you and you can come over my house and we can play together.

March 13, 2002

"To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded." -Robert Waldo Emerson

I read this and thought of you, as I do often. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You!!! I miss you Tutti!

Love Always, Sheera

Mel Marconi

March 11, 2002

Dear Jeff,

I've known you since I was about 7yrs old. The first time I meet you, you were in your karate uniform with jimmy and frankie and you guys beat up Antony Vaccarro because he was Bothering Me!! You were always known as the coolest funniest person to be near....and If you hung out with Jeff Olsen you were COOL. I followed you all around all the way up till High School, I don't know if you noticed that I was trying to be as cool as you were. One thing I will always remember is that you were always the life of the party and the center of attraction!! Now knowing that you were in those buildings saving lives, not only do I look up to you as a cool and sly guy, I will look up to you as A HERO FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE. ITS FUNNY HOW AFTER THE YEARS THAT WE HAVEN'T SEEN EACH OTHER WE RAN INTO EACH IN THE SUMMER OF 2001,AT THE BAGEL STORE ON GIFFORDS LANE (CLARKE'S) AND YOU WERE TELLING ME HOW MUCH YOU LOVE YOUR JOB AND I WAS TELLING YOU HOW MUCH I LOVE MINE, AND YOU TOLD ME ABOUT YOUR KIDS AND I TOLD YOU ABOUT MY DAUGHTER. IT WAS LIKE WE WERE MENT TO SEE EACH OTHER FOR ONE MORE TIME, BECAUSE WE DID NOT SEE EACH OTHER FOR ALL THOSE YEARS AFTER HIGH SCHOOL.

YOU WILL BE FOREVER MISSED I MY HEART, AND FOR EVER MISSED IN GREAT KILLS.

MY HEART AND PRAYERS GOES OUT TO YOUR MOM, DAD, BROTHERS, SISTERS, YOUR WIFE AND BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN. SEE YA AT THE CROSSROADS.

LOVE AND PRAYERS,

MEL S. MARCONI

P.S. - "HEY MON"!!!

GINO PALUMMO

March 8, 2002

JEFF,

THERE ARE NO WORDS THAT CAN DESCRIBE HOW I FEEL. IT WOULD BE SELFISH OF ME TO TELL YOU. THAT IS NOT WHAT YOU WOULD WANT. WHAT I DO WANT TO SAY IS THAT I PRAY TO YOU ALL THE TIME. I PRAY THAT YOU ARE LOOKING DOWN AND YOU ARE NOT ONLY HELPING US GET THROUGH THIS, BUT THAT YOU ARE PROUD IN THE WAY WE ARE DOING THAT. EVERYTIME I HUG YOUR FAMILY I SQUEEZE THEM FOR YOU.I HOPE YOU FEEL THAT. NOT ONE DAY GOES BY THAT I AM NOT REMINDED OF YOU. YOU HAVE INSTILLED IN YOUR WIFE AND CHILDREN, IN SUCH A SHORT TIME, WHAT USUALLY TAKES MEN FOREVER TO DO. THE STRENGTH AND COURAGE THAT THEY HAVE IS A TRUE REFLECTION OF YOU AND THE WAY THAT YOU LIVED. I CAN WRITE ABOUT YOU AND HOW YOU TOUCHED MY LIFE AND MY CHILDRENS' FOR HOURS. I HERE OUR KIDS TALKING SO PROUD OF YOU, "MY DAD COULD DO THAT" OR "UNCLE JEFF WOULD DO THAT", AND IT MAKES ME SMILE.THEY HOLD YOU SO CLOSE TO THEM AT SUCH YOUNG AGES AND YOU WILL FOREVER BE IN THEIR HEARTS AND MINDS.

JEFF-THANKYOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART FOR THE HONOR AND PRIVLEDGE OF BEING YOUR BROTHER (IN-LAW) UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN TOGETHER WITH OUR HAIR BLOWING IN THE WIND- I LOVE YOU.

SHARON PALUMMO

March 7, 2002

DEARESTJEFF,EVERYDAY I WAKE UP WITH THE HOPES THAT SEPTEMBER 11 WAS JUST A BAD DREAM AND THEN THE MORNINGSUN MAKES REALITY SET IN.I AM CRUSHED WATCHING MY SISTER VINCENT,TORI,AND NOAH DEAL WITH SUCHAN UNBEARABLE AMOUNT OF PAIN.ME AND GENE WILL NEVER LEAVE THEIR SIDE.JEFF WE WERE JIPPED OF THE TIME WE KNEW YOU!!IT FEELS LIKE YESTERDAY THAT I FOLLOWED THAT LIMO YOU GOT FOR DEE TO THE HOUSE JUST SO I COULD TAKE A PICTURE OF THE TWO OF YOU.YOU WANTED TO KILL ME I TOOK ABOUT 30.I AM SO THANKFUL FOR THE LIFE YOU HAVE GIVEN MY SISTER,I AM THANKFUL FOR MY BEAUTIFUL NIECE AND NEPHEWS,THEY WILL FOREVER BE TREATED LIKE MY OWN.YOU HAVE TAUGHT DEE TO BE STRONG SHE HAS AMAZED ME,EVEN ON HER WORST DAYS SHE WILL THINK OF SOMETHING POSITIVE YOU HAVE GIVEN HER AND IT CAN PUSH HER THROUGH THE DAY.I BELIEVE YOU ARE WATCHING OVER US WE MISS YOU DEARLY.YOU ARE AND ALWAYS WILL BE A HERO!P.S. MAKE SURE YOU ALWAYS PROTECT ME FROM FIRE!!(HA,HA)THE GREY GOOSE IS STILL CHILLEN IT WILL STAY IN THE FREEZER IN MEMORY OF YOU.YOU MADE THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE ON SEPT 11 YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!MISSING YOU YOUR SISTER IN LAW SHARON

Jeff and Erica

Erica LaFata Naveja

March 7, 2002

Dear Jeff,
Since the day I met you at only 11 years old, I have loved you as my brother and thought more highly of you than almost anyone else I know. Now at 25 those feelings are still the same. They always will be.
I can' believe you're not here... The world is not the same.
So, where I used to laugh about all these memories I have with you, now I cry.
I'll never foget how mad you were when I starting kissing boys. You though I was to young. You were always protecting me, the way a big brother does. I will never forget how fun you made family parties, nothing was boring when you were around and I certainly will never forget how I cried when I found out you were leaving my family and again when I found out you left this world....
And Jeff, I want to say to you all things I never got to say.

I want to thank you for being there for me as a child and helping me to grow to an adult.

I want to thank you for you and I still being close, after you left my family.

I want to thank you for that contagious laughter, that everyone loves.

And most of all I want you to know that not only were you loved by your real family as their little brother, but also by your extended family as our big brother!

I miss you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love You Always,
Your Little Sister,
Erica

thomas grabowski

March 1, 2002

Jeffery will be missed. My deepest and heartfeft sympathy goes out to the Olsen family and friends. I am truly sorry for your loss.

John & Darcey Steel

February 11, 2002

In January my wife and I came across Jeffery's grave while visiting my great grand parents grave on Staten Island. We wre very touched when we read the poem that was left at the grave.

I was in the fire service for over 17 years and have dealt with the loss of a friend, with that and recent loss in my family we can feel for them. That short visit to the cemetery was one of the most memoriable moments in my life.

My wife and I hope for the Olsen Family to find strength in the future.

John & Darcey Steel

LoriAnn W

January 30, 2002

To the Olson family, God bless.He'll always be with you.Denise he will give you his strength always.You have a wonderful family.May you all comfort each other.

Sandi Johnson

January 7, 2002

I received my Mercy Band with Jeffrey's name as a Christmas present from a friend. It is one of my most treasured presents. I pray daily for his family and friends and am proud to wear it. I look forward to the day I will meet him in eternity.

Judy C

December 31, 2001

To the Olsen Family and Fellow Firefighters!

I have just wiped the unending tears from my eyes after reading the messages you have written about your beloved Jeffrey!

What wonderful and meaningful words your loved ones have left for you!

A quote from Ludwig Von Beethoven:

"This is the mark of a really admirable man: steadfastness in the face of trouble"!

I never met you, Jeffrey, but it is clear you were an admirable and loved man. You made the ultimate sacrifice and gave up your life to save others. No one had any idea how many heroes lived in New York until September 11. Those heroes who perished, I will pray for, forever. Those heroes who wear the turnout coats and look fire in the face, I will also pray for as long as their is breath in my own lungs.

Rest In Peace, Jeffrey.

God Bless the loved ones in the Olsen Family and fellow firefighters who loved you so much!

Mary Olesky

December 29, 2001

To my brother Jeff,

I am so sorry.

I am so sorry you are not here anymore.

I am so sorry you went to work that day.

I am so sorry we will never see you again.

I am so sorry Daniel and David will never fish with Uncle Jeff.

I am so sorry for your life to be taken from you.

I miss you so very much.

I never felt such PAIN as this.

I pray you know the love I have for you and Denise,Vicent,Tori and Noah. I vow to you that love will continue for as long as I am here.

Oh Jeff I miss you so much.

With love, your sister

Mary Olesky

Nancy Coluccio

December 19, 2001

Dear Jeff

Rings and Jewels are not gifts,but apologies for gifts. The only gift is a portion of thyself.

What a wonderful gift you have left us.We see you and feel you in so many ways, within your beautiful children and the strenght you give Denise to go on.

There are no words to express how much we miss you and each day how we wonder about the what ifs and why

you were taken away fom your family when you had such an impact on so many lives.

We always respected you as a great and loving man while you were here.You only proved something we already knew by giving up your life no matter what the cost, what a real hero is.You lived your life the way you believed things should be not the the way others expected.Your appreciation for the simple things of life leaves the mark of the smile they brought to your face.We will always remember the way you were so proud of Denise and believed you were truly solemates,the way you taught Vincent

what makes a man a man,your tender side when it came to handling Tori,your patience with Noah,your ability to turn anything into a fun time,most of all we will remember the respect you showed everyone you that ever crossed your path in life.

Although we were only your in-laws we love you like our own and very proud of you and all you stand for.

We miss and love you.Until we meet again.........

Love,

Nancy & Dan

Denise Olsen

December 18, 2001

My Dearest Jeff,

Your parting has shredded our souls the way a fire ravages a forest. Although at times it seems that there is no chance of feeling whole again, I know that just as the forest will grow from the ashes-We will learn to live again. I carry your strength, as do our children. I know that brave men only marry brave women and you taught me well. The memories of the love we share and your ever-present spirit allow me to still appreciate the warmth of the sunshine and the glow of the moon. Your two goals in life-to make a difference and to find peace of mind-have both been accomplished. I am so proud. The outpouring of support-especially from people that we have never met-is both comforting and overwhelming.

In the short time that you were a firefighter, you earned a tremendous amount of respect. This is reflected in the way your family is being cared for. We have truly become part of another,much larger family.

Thank you-for giving me the best days of my life-and leaving me a legacy of three beautiful children to hold onto. I LOVE YOU....

UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN

DEE XOXOX

Teresa Jahn

December 17, 2001

We are deeply sorry for your loss of Jeffrey. He must have had a very warm and caring heart to have devoted his life to helping others. We appreciate his devotion to others. Our hearts cry with you.

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

Neil Olsen

December 17, 2001

Jeff,

You once gave me a plaque with a poem in honor of being my little brother. I would like for people to think of you when they read these words.

Every cloud that forms,

every snowflake that falls to earth,

every creature it touches,

all are part of the same whole.

Even the act of shivering in a snowstorm

is an expression of oneness

with nature.

When you know who you are;

when your mission is clear and you

burn with the inner fire of

unbreakable will;

no cold can touch your heart;

no deluge can dampen your purpose.

You know that you are alive.

The wolf and the hawk

The crow and the salmon are brothers

The least and the greatest are one

You are the child of the forest and the sky

And the father of forever.

Thank you for being who you are Jeff, you made me who I am.

I Love You Jeff!

Neil

John O'Keefe

December 3, 2001

JEFF,

I CAN'T BELIEVE IT'S COMING UP ON THREE MONTHS NOW SINCE YOU'VE LEFT US.

I KNOW YOU DIDN'T SEE IT IN THE N.Y. POST TWO AND A HALF MONTHS AGO, BUT THE HEADLINE TO ONE OF THE MANY STORIES ABOUT YOU GUYS UP THERE READ, "NOW HEAVEN HAS A HECK OF A FIRE DEPT."

SO SAD, BUT SO TRUE.

THOSE WORDS HIT ME SO HARD THAT I NOW HAVE THEM WRITTEN PERMANENTLY ACROSS MY REAR CAR WINDOW.

YOU WERE WITH US FOR ONLY A YEAR AT ENG-246 & LAD-169, BUT YOU HAVE NO IDEA OF THE IMPACT YOU HAD ON ALL OF US AT EAST 11TH STREET.

I HAVE DEDICATED PARTS OF MY DAY TOURS AND NIGHT TOURS BY PAINTING THE STAIRS LEADING UP TO THE SECOND FLOOR WHICH WILL ALLOW US TO REMEMBER YOU, AS WELL AS OUR OTHER 342 FALLEN BROTHERS - FOREVER.

MIKE REDPATH AND MIKE INGRAM HAVE BOTH DESIGNED W.T.C. MEMORIAL PATCHES, AND I, ALONG WITH COUNTLESS OTHERS, DESIGNED A T-SHIRT TO HONOR YOU.

THE PUBLICITY WE ARE GETTING DOWN HERE, THANKS TO YOU, IS JUST SIMPLY OVERWHELMING.

NO MORE YANKEE HATS, IT'S NOW F.D.N.Y., N.Y.P.D., E.M.S.,P.A.P.D.,

FROM WORLD SERIES DUG-OUTS, TO N.F.L. SIDELINES, FROM ACTORS AND ACTRESSES, TO THE REGULAR RUSSIAN FOLK IN BRIGHTON BEACH, WHO NEVER EVEN ACKNOWLEDGED US THREE MONTHS AGO. EVERYONE THESE DAYS LOOKS LIKE A BUFF.

THE TOY OF THE CHRISTMAS SEASON THIS YEAR IS "BILLY BLAZES". HE'S A REAL TOUGH LOOKING SUPER-FIREFIGHTER WITH A GAZILLION TOOLS. I'M SURE IF THEY MAKE A "BILLY BLAZES" CARTOON, THEY WILL ASK EITHER YOU OR PEPE TO BE HIS VOICE, SO GET READY. "WHERE ON EARTH DID YOU GET THAT 6'6'', 265 LB. VOICE FROM ANYWAY?"

THE ROYAL TREATMENT WE ARE GETTING IS TRULY UNBELIEVABLE, AND QUITE EMBARRASSING IF YOU ASK ME.

WE ARE GETTING CARTE BLANCHE DOWN HERE, BECAUSE WE ARE NOW THE "HEROES OF GROUND ZERO".

BULLSHIT- WE ARE JUST DOING OUR JOB, YOU GUYS ARE THE TRUE HEROES.

THINK OF THIS AS A HANDIE-TALKIE TRANSMISSION-

"FDNY EARTH TO FDNY HEAVEN, GIVE US A 10-12, AND WHEN IT'S OUR TURN, JUST MEET US AT THE GATE. WE'LL BRING THE TOOLS, OR CAN WE JUST WALK THROUGH NOW?"

ANYWAYS, I'M SURE YOU KNOW THIS ALREADY, BUT DENISE AND THE KIDS WILL ALWAYS BE A PART OF OUR FAMILY. WE WERE ALL THERE FOR HER, AND SHE WAS CERTAINLY THERE FOR ALL OF US. I'VE NEVER MET A STRONGER WOMAN THAN YOUR WIFE. SHE IS TRULY AMAZING.

THANK YOU,

YOU WERE SIMPLY "THE BEST".

LOVE ALWAYS,

JOHN O'KEEFE

June

November 29, 2001

I now wear the mercy band that has the name of Jeffrey Olson. It is a honor to wear this. I want to express my sincere sympathy for the loss of Jeffrey while trying to save others. I will continue to pray for him and his family and all the other HEROS' who lost their lives on 9/11

Diane Johnson

November 29, 2001

"Coming with vivid faces.......
Hearts with one purpose alone..."

this excerpt from Yeat's, Easter 1916 says it best for me....a very, very proud and sad aunt.

carol leek

November 27, 2001

My heart and prayers to the family of Jeffrey Olson. I will wear this MERCY B.A.N.D. in rememberance of you all and what you have had to endure. Always know that someone is praying for you daily Me!

God Bless and be with you.

Claire Manion

November 7, 2001

You are a true hero, Jeffery. My heart goes out to the entire family. My prayers are with you always.

Sarah Denham

October 30, 2001

THANK YOU....GOD BLESS

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