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Joseph Mistrulli Obituary
As a union carpenter, Joseph D. Mistrulli was good at putting things together, and he made a career of putting together some of the best-known places in New York City: the Russian Tea Room, Madame Tussaud, Niketown, Windows on the World. But his life's work was not a building at all. It was his family. "He worked all the time, not for himself, for us," said his son, Joseph Jr. "I can't tell you the last time he did something for himself." The elder Mistrulli, 47, was adding a second floor to the ranch house in Wantagh, N.Y., that he shared with his wife, Philomena, and their three children. He had finished the children's bedrooms but, typically, left his and his wife's for last.
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Frank Zalewski
September 11, 2023
Seems like yesterday the Saturday before that Tuesday we were working at NBC /General Electric at 30 Rock in the executive offices doing punchlist I was working for an architectural woodworking company he was working for the ceiling and wall contractor we´re both rushing to try to get out of the place Joe as he was rushing around like a madman trying to get out of there to get home . We both met in the bathroom and I asked Joe what are you going to work next week and he said the trade center windows of the world so cool I said I was going to be going to 9 W. 57th St. That day I was a coffee boy I came to the floor and the electrician said to me as he was looking out the window, a plane just hit the trade center we stood in or not believing what we saw before our eyes it was like watching a big big television set. From 57th St. downtown we had a clear view of the trade center I said I´m glad I´m not in that building and then realizing that Joe said that he would be working there. I remember he asked me G E at how to layout and attach the nule post for his second floor staircase at home I said I would install it for him, he said no that he wanted to do it that he needed some tips to do it right . That´s my last memory of Joe hard worker talked about his family all the time . Frank Zalewski Local 45
Angela Mistrulli
September 9, 2023
You will never be forgotten ❤
Angela Mistrulli
September 5, 2022
Dad,
I can't believe it's almost 21 years that you have been gone. There are so many times that I wish I had you to talk to. You were taken way to soon and I don't think there will ever be justice for your murder. I pray for the strength to keep fighting for what is right. I hope your at ease and until we meet again one day I'll forever be your little girl.
The Kindred Family
December 11, 2018
Our continued heartfelt thoughts of deep sympathy we send to your family. Nothing will ever remove the deep pain of losing someone loved. May God continue to give the support and comfort needed with each new day. Joe touched the lives of many others and will always be lovingly remembered.
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Angela Mistrulli
September 10, 2018
Daddy,
My heart breaks more and more each year nothing will ever mend this pain. I love you and miss you
September 11, 2016
To the Mistrulli's,
I went to grade school with Joseph. So sorry to hear about Mr. Mistrulli as I knew him. He was always on our school trips as a chaprone and was kind and gentle man. I can't imagine the pain you all must feel. They say time heals all wounds and I hope that you all find peace and happiness in the days and years to come. God bless Joe and his family.
September 2, 2016
We saw your name at the memorial today. We stopped since it had part of our name in yours "Strull". Made us think how it could have happened to any of us. RIP
Maryann Mistrulli Rosser
January 17, 2015
I was thinking of you all day today Daddy. I miss you so much. Your grandkids signed up for the baseball season and you would have made the best coach.
s j. Friscia III
January 6, 2015
In Memory
With Honor & Respect.
Danny Hammer
September 11, 2012
An old friend from P.S. 251 remembers. You were always smiling.
Maryann Mistrulli-Rosser
September 11, 2012
Daddy
It has been 11 years and still the hurt of losing you is fresh in my heart. Your grand kids will be presenting your flag of remembrance and your story to their school today. They want to make sure nobody ever forgets that you were our hero. I love you daddy.
Angela Mistrulli
September 10, 2012
Daddy,
No matter how many years pass is does not hurt any less than the first moment we lost you. You were an amazing person and i am so blessed to have been your child. I know your always nearby in everything around me. I love you
Elizabeth Mandelino
September 12, 2011
Dear Philomena and Children,I am so sad about Joe's passing.I pray all of you find peace in knowing all the years spent with a great Dad and husband have left such beautiful memories to share. Love Aunt Betty
Donna Martin
September 11, 2011
To Joe's Family,
My name is Donna Clavelli Martin, I am from upstate NY and vistied the WTc sight Jan 2001. I purchased a 9/11 braclet and was lucky enough to get Joe's name. When I returned to FL I tried to research his name and could not find anything. I prayed that he was a "regular Joe" as I come from blue collar workers and married a blue collar worker. If you are ever in need of anything please contact me at [email protected]. You and your family remain forever in my thoughts and prayers.
Donna
DADDY
angela mistrulli
September 10, 2011
maryann rosser
September 9, 2011
I miss you daddy. Im all grown up now and you would be so proud of me. I teach your grandkids all about you. They are so proud of their papa joe in heaven. I love you forever and ever.
m pino
March 29, 2011
You are always in our thoughts and will remain forever in our hearts
Angela Mistrulli
September 16, 2010
Daddy,
The boys have gotten so big and everyday that passes I think of how much you would have loved to hold your grand babies and how they would have been the light of your life. You were taken from us way to soon and I we are left with is your memory. You are in my thoughts every second of everyday and you will NEVER be lost in time you will always be our hero. I love you daddy and I hope you are at peace where you are. xoxox
Joseph
September 12, 2009
Dear Papa Joe
I miss you I wish you were here to see me grow up. And do fun things with me. I wanted you to teach me to build like you. I am getting smarter and smarter each day just like you. I love you and miss you Papa Joe and I will make you proud. Love your grandson Joseph(named after you)
Gianna Rosser
September 12, 2009
I love you Papa Joe. Im sorry god took you, I wanted you here with me. I think about you all the time even when I go to sleep. If I could give you a big kiss I would. Thanks for being my hero. From your only granddaughter...Gigi
Angela Mistrulli
July 12, 2008
This is my dad's grandson that he never met but is so closely linked with.
Me and My Dad
Maryann Mistrulli-Rosser
December 2, 2007
Daddy and Me
Felicia Baptista
April 12, 2007
I was never blessed enough to know Joseph. I was given a candle with his name on it during a remembrance ceremony and researched this kind man on the internet. It seems that he was left quite a legacy of his handiwork in New York City. More importantly, he left a loving family. I am sorry for your loss. I wish you peace and keep you in my prayers.
P Tabbernor
January 4, 2007
In memory....
Kristine
November 17, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Steven Kolodny
July 18, 2006
I worked with Joe at RED'S many, many years ago and he was truly a one of a kind guy. My heart goes out to Phyllis and the family.
Marie Bulahan
August 24, 2004
Ihave known Marie,Joey's cousin for years, and this is a beautiful site, I am proud to be an American too, when this happened I was with my daughter and we watched it all that day on the news,I am glad that I wasn't alone,I don't know what I would of done, we cried and cried for the people in there and their families that were left behind,we love you all.
Tracey Clifford
September 11, 2003
Dear Phyllis,
Thinking of you, Angela, Marianne, and Joe today. You have all been in my prayers often. Hope you have found some level of peace.
God Bless! Tracey
Karen and Al
Karen (Lulek) Luglio
September 11, 2003
Dear Phyllis and family:
As Joey's first cousin, I can't begin to tell you how sad I feel for his loss. Even though I have not seen you or him since Fran's funeral, I think of Joey often and have so many fond memories of our childhood together. He was always my favorite of the Mistrulli boy cousins. Our families took summer vacation together every year. I still can't believe this has happened to him. I wish you only the best. Reading these notes makes me realize that Joey touched so many others hearts as well. Also, I am so happy to hear I have some second cousins who loved their father and appreciated him. I hope someday I could meet them.
Love, Karen, Al, Robert and Andrew
Diane Davi
June 13, 2003
To The Mistrulli's,
I think of the great loss on that very day - all across the eastern states and my hear breaks. In my thoughts and my prayers often. Truly never forgotten.
Diane
Joseph Raffa
October 6, 2002
I was best friends with Micheal Mistrulli, Joseph's brother & knew Joseph and his family well. I was shocked to hear that Joseph was one of the victims. I currently work at the WTC site and have been there since Sep. 12th 2001 & I'm constantly confronted with the memory of the devastation. Forever in our prayers Joe Raffa, wife Carol & children
Lauren Knight
September 12, 2002
At my school, we had many discussions about the events that happened one year ago. As part of remembering those that were lost, we all were offered the chance to wear a pin that displayed the name of one victim of the tradgedy that took place on 9/11. Over the course of the day, I was haunted by Mr. Mistrulli's name and I wanted to find out more about him. I am glad that I was able to learn about him and his life and I would like to try to extend some comfort to his family. He will be remembered.
Diane Maniscalco
September 11, 2002
I knew Joey from Ralph Avn where we hung out at the pizza place or in the park. Joey was always so happy and funny. I see now that he had a wonderful & happy life. God bless you and your family. I see Joey playing in Heaven. You and your family are in my prayers..
Donna Bryan
September 10, 2002
Dear Mrs. Mistrulli,
Oh my, I have wondered about you every single day since I last saw you during the Christmas holidays of 2001. I'm one of the community affairs officers from the family center at Pier 94. Do you remember me? I have not forgotten you; I met many people at the pier, but none w/the fiesty spirit of my friend, Mrs. Mistrulli! I pray often & when I do, I never fail to ask God to speak peace into your heart. I never had the pleasure of meeting your Joseph, but from our conversations together, I know you two had a lifetime many couples would envy. If it serves as any measure of comfort, I just wanted you to know that although the rest of the world seems to be about business as usual, I have never let a day go by w/out thinking about you, hopeful that you are having a good day, just trying to be supportive in spirit, I suppose. You are a grand lady & I'm grateful for the opportunity to let you know that. I wish you well.
Sincerely,
(Police Officer) Donna Bryan
Angie Campbell
May 7, 2002
May God bless you and keep you always.
Jackie
March 14, 2002
I just received my Mercy Band with Joe's name. I will wear it in rememberance of Joe and all the others we lost on that terrible day. My prayers go out to his family and friends, and my heart breaks for all those who are no longer with us.
Bonnie Fimiano
March 11, 2002
My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Mistrulli family.I grew up with Michael in Brooklyn and we all hung out together at 251 Park.
I was shocked to hear that Joseph was among the victims. I pray for him and his family. The gates of heaven are open. My deepest sympathy to your wife and children.
March 9, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL MAN...JOSEPH D.MISTRULLI AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN...FAMILY AND FRIENDS..STAY CLOSE AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK...MAY JESUS AND ST.JOSEPH THE CARPENTERS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
March 9, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL MAN...JOSEPH D.MISTRULLI AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN...FAMILY AND FRIENDS..STAY CLOSE AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK...MAY JESUS THE CARPENTER AND ST.JOSEPH GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Teresa Jahn
December 20, 2001
I have never had the privilege to be in New York. I do know when I get the chance to make it to New York I will visit the Russian Tea Room, Madame Tussaud or Niketown in honor of Joseph. He sounds like he was a very giving man. We are deeply sorry for your loss of Joseph. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Dan Hammer
December 20, 2001
I remember Joe from PS 251 in Brooklyn. He was a good guy. Always running around.
My thoughts are with his family at this time.
Danny
donna kile
December 2, 2001
the catholic church in arcola, st. john's, had a list of victims of sept. 11, 2001. cards with names and a brief bio were on the alter. the whole church filed to the front and picked a card. we are to pray in particular for this particular person and for all victims. my prayers are with joe and his family.
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