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Jeanmarie Wallendorf Obituary
"This is the first time in my life that I wasn't worried about her," Christine Barton said of her daughter, Jeanmarie Wallendorf. "Before, I would always worry about who she was with. But since this relationship, I knew she was with someone who could take care of her."
Ms. Wallendorf, 23, whom her family nicknamed Miss Sephora after her love of cosmetics shopping, met her boyfriend when they both worked at a financial company. She left to work in the equity trading department at Keefe Bruyette & Woods because the couple decided it would be better for their relationship, Ms. Barton said. The two were always out, traveling on vacation, going to weddings, hanging out with friends, but Ms. Wallendorf still found time to keep in touch. Once, her mother said, the couple was stuck in the air for hours, a source of great anxiety for Ms. Barton. "She called me from the plane just to tell me she was all right," she said. Ms. Wallendorf was particularly looking forward to the birth of her boyfriend's sister's baby, Ms. Barton said, adding, "I've been waiting for her to give me one, but they wanted to wait, to make sure everything was right."
399 Entries
Hans
September 11, 2024
Jamie , your smile will never be forgotten.
Dora Corby
September 11, 2024
23 years have gone by and every year I still remember and hold your family in my heart. You will never be forgotten.
Melinda
July 10, 2024
I did not know Jeanmarie, but I was traumatized that horrific day as all of the nation was. I was 7 months pregnant and was so traumatized by all the family members paying I lost that child. So that is also a sad day for me. I have great empathy for all of the families affected by that tragedy. And the only reason why I'm posting this is because I was curious as I sit behind a Ford Explorer in Port St Lucie I see the memory of Jean Marie on the back of a car so I looked her up and felt I needed to comment my condolences to her loved ones family and friends.
Christine Barton
September 12, 2023
The news came Suddenly. Unexpectedly. Traumatically Without the chance for goodbyes. Without the hope of a tomorrow that was anticipated to come. it’s devastating. Ripping a hole in the heart of my world and the world of all who knew and loved her.
Over the years I realized so many things, and I may now live in my paranoid world but these Things I already knew but always lose sight of. Things like, nothing is ever guaranteed. Things like, you never know when it will be your last text . . . your last hug . . . your last conversation your last time seeing a loved one. . . your last everything with a person who is so deeply connected to your heart and soul... that you haven’t gotten through a day without their smile or their voice, for years that are counted by decades.
Sometimes it is hard to know if I am more sad or angry Because now the only things I can imagine are the life I used to imagine I would have with you in it. I started imagining that life from the moment you came to be. I imagined my life with you in it, alongside your brothers and sister and your nephews. I imagined life with you. What you would look like now, how many Children you would have and their names, how many times you would have to step in to protect your siblings from someone or something. I imagine you very independent as always and not afraid to speak your mind.
So many things to imagine, but that is all I can do now. Is Imagine.
I just can’t believe you aren’t here with us I can’t believe I will never feel your hugs again. I can’t believe this happened to us.
Jeanmarie .I send my love To Where You Are.
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Kate O
September 12, 2023
Still remembered, sending your family love and strength ❤
September 11, 2023
Never forgotten. Your life is celebrated today. May the joy you brought to others during your years on earth, provide peace and comfort. Rest in peace
Cindy Post
September 11, 2023
Jaime ,you are still missed by family and friends,especially today.
Evie
September 10, 2023
You will never be forgotten
Cara
August 7, 2023
Your beautiful daughter Jeanmarie is never forgotten, I am so sorry for your loss of her and for the way she was taken from you. Thinking of her today, hope she is enjoying her special day. I truly believe she is with you in spirit and watching over you with love. <3
Christine B
August 7, 2023
Happy Birthday my dear sweet Jaime, wish you were here to celebrate your 45th
You are always on my mind.
I love you, Mom
Christine Barton
September 12, 2022
So many years, days and hours pass and in my heart I still wait for this to be a dream,
Why can it not be? I miss you so much.
We all love you! Mom
Dora Corby
September 11, 2022
Jaime you are never forgotten.
Kate
September 12, 2021
Still remembered here in Yorkshire, UK. I picked some flowers from my garden and thought about you.
Christine Barton
September 12, 2021
My Baby Girl, I wish I could have held you hand that day, like I held your hand when you were little. I love you more than anyone could know. Love Mom
Cindy Post
September 11, 2021
Thinking of you today Jamie. Miss you still....
Dora Corby
September 11, 2021
I can’t believe it’s been 20 years. I’ve only met you through your mother after the tragedy of your death. I think of you and your mother often. Picture your lives together had you not been taken. I never forget you or your amazing mother. Christine, I make sure to always remind people of Jamie’s light and in some small way make sure she is never forgotten. If there was one wish it would be that it should not have been a tragedy that introduced me to you and Jamie.
A Kearney
September 11, 2021
Thinking about Jeanmarie today and always. This is always a hard day.
January 1, 2020
merry xmas jaime
The Kindred Family
November 14, 2019
Our heartfelt condolences we continue to send to your family. Always may God give the needed strength to cope. The years have passed but never has the love dimmed for all of those who lost their lives. Jaime is still so sadly missed and will always be remembered with deep love.
george n
September 13, 2019
we still remember Jaimes smile
Cindy Post
September 11, 2019
Missing you today Jamie. Your friend and co-worker in Jupiter
Kate
September 11, 2019
I think about you every September 11th, despite never having met you..over here in the UK. I send your family my love and best wishes and strength to carry on x
Alan K
September 11, 2019
I think about you not only every year, but the days and months in between. So so sad. Horrible people took the life of a beautiful person. Wherever you are, stand tall knowing that we all are thinking of you and wish you were still with us. Much love to my friend, Jeanmarie!
Christine Barton
September 10, 2019
The world has moved on after 18 years and I understand this, but my heart stood still the day we lost you.
I love you Jaime always, Mom
Kristine Overgaard
May 30, 2019
Dear Jaime,
I am currently sitting with my best friend Tricia and we are painting her fridge green... yes I know, we're nuts. Anyways, you cross my mind while we are talking and I started to pull up your photos. we began talking about how beautiful you are and how beautiful your energy is... you can literally Feel it from your photos. Our family misses you to pieces. You cross my mind quite frequently as I become older. I wonder how of lives would be if you were still with us. We miss you dearly. I know you are watching over your mom, and your brothers and sisters. I love you.
❤ Kristine
Kate
December 29, 2018
Merry Christmas Jeanmarie x
george nicklo
December 28, 2018
merry Christmas Jaime . we surely miss you. dad
The Kindred Family
December 2, 2018
Sending our continued heartfelt condolences to your family. There aren't any words that will ever remove the deep pain of losing Jeanmarie (Jaime). With each new day may God give the needed help and support as you try to cope. She will always be missed and lovingly remembered. May the time come when these acts of violence are ended for all time.
dad
September 11, 2018
We will always remember Jaime
Dora Corby
September 11, 2018
It's not possible that 17 years have past. I pray still for peace for your family today and every day. Your mom is one of the most amazing people I have ever met and because of her i make sure you are never forgotten
Christine Barton
September 11, 2018
I love you is all I know .
Sorry if some are using your name, your FAMILY knows what you felt.
Never a day
Love you , MOM
Alan Kearney
September 10, 2018
Already thinking of Jaime less than 12 hours before the tragedy on 09/11/01. I hope her mother is well and had found peace.
George nicklo
August 8, 2018
happy birthday we miss you
dad
August 8, 2018
happy birthday we miss you
George N
November 14, 2017
See Jaimes website I built for her www.jaimeshope.com
Megan Enquist
September 11, 2017
Jaime, I remember so well all the fun times we had when we were kids. You, me, and April were always together!! I know you reside with the angels. Until we meet again. Xoxoxo
Our heroes and will never be forgotten
George
September 11, 2017
Sept 11th a day when over 3000 people lost their lives for our country that day in 2001. These people Jaime included will always be heroes and will never be forgotten.
George Nicklo
August 7, 2017
Happy Birthday Jaime you will never be forgotten
September 14, 2016
I'm so very happy seeing your Mother knows. May your memory always comfort her. You are remembered and your life celebrated! Rest in peace. God bless your family
Christine Barton
September 12, 2016
My Beautiful Jaime,
Yesterday was very hard for me because this is another year you are not here with us and we have so many new and wonderful things going on and maybe I feel quilty somewhat but I know you would love all of this. Seeing your Brother and sister married and your nephew Noah , boy would you love him! And both of your other brothers are doing so well you would be proud. Now our little Mellanie is about to have a baby and I know she would want you rite there with her. In some way you will be I know this, because I feel you everyday with me.
I love you my pumpkin more than anyone can ever comprehend.
Mom
September 12, 2016
You are remembered. May God truly bless your family with peace and comfort - and may your dear Mother know you are okay, in the arms of a loving Lord, safe and at peace. God bless you
Kate
September 12, 2016
I always think of you on 9/11 from here in England. I get older every year and you should have too. Hugs to your family x
Tommy pence
September 12, 2016
have not forgot..9-11-2016
Dora Corby
September 11, 2016
Your beautiful smile is near forgotten and your light still shines through your family. I can't believe it's been 15 years. You will not be forgotten
George Nicklo
September 11, 2016
15 years has passed and we all remember you and know your in heaven watching over us. I remember putting a bumper sticker on my car when Jaime was on the honor roll in school, I was so proud of her, We miss you Jaime.
Alan K
September 10, 2016
Still thinking of this beautiful young lady and this terrible tragedy. 15 years ago but feels like it was just last week.
Christine I hope you are well.
Melissa Sutain
September 5, 2016
Miss u
George Nicklo
September 4, 2016
its been 15 years and it seems like yesterday I taught Jaime how to ride a bike. We are so proud of Jaime she not here but shes in heaven watching over us, we miss you Jaime
George Nicklo
August 27, 2016
We will never forget you Jaime
Kate
July 30, 2016
Still thinking of you here in England lovely girl.
x
Christine Barton
July 29, 2016
You are on my mind so much each day, I ask myself how could that be? Everyday? It is amazing how much I love and miss you.
Christine Barton
June 18, 2016
My baby , my heart, my life.
September 11, 2015
Jaime I remember you well. You were so sweet and kind and friendly. I wish we had known each other longer/better. I think about you often, not just on this day. But on this day I am sure to hope that you are in a better place and that you are comfortable. My condolences go out to her mother Christine. I sincerely wish that this had never happened to you and to this country. My warmest regards, Alan K.
Dora C
September 11, 2015
You are not forgotten. My prayers are with your family and your incredible mom.
Sarah Shah
September 11, 2014
forever remembered <3
September 11, 2014
Your brother ed still taking it hard he only got to know you for a short time but he said it was the best time in life
September 11, 2014
Jaime you will always be remembered and missed.
Alan
September 10, 2014
I also haven't forgotten Jamie. You were such a sweet person. I miss you and think about you often.
Melissa Minarczyk-Naprawa
September 10, 2014
The last time I believe I made an Entry was in 2002 and every year during the reading of the names I always listen for the names of FDNY Michael Keifer, FDNY Robert Wallace and Jeanmarie Wallendorf. I didn't know Jeanmarie, however when I went to write an entry for Robert Wallace FDNY, I was immediately drawn to Jeanmarie's picture and have thought about her and her family often. Especially her little brother. I am thinking of Jeanmarie's family. My love is with all. RIP SWEET ANGEL <3
Melissa Sutain
August 7, 2014
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!I MISS YOU SO MUCH. XOXOXO
breana wentz
April 28, 2014
This is truly a tragedy. I did not know you jean, but I pray you are laughing and happy alongside jesus. All who had the chance to meet u are truly blessed. Mrs Barton, I am in the process of making a celebration movie for the life of one 9/11 victim. I would be honored to celebrate your daughters life with a documentary to present to my classmates. Please contact me if you are comfortable with sharing with me. Thank you
Christine Barton
September 12, 2013
My Daughter , My Friend, My Heart,My Soul. I love you more than the angels sing.
Kate
September 11, 2013
I always think of you Jeanmarie, a girl I never knew on this day. We will never forget.xx
Dora Corby
September 11, 2013
I will never forget you. I continue to pray for your Mother and siblings.
cindy post
September 10, 2013
i still think of you, jamie. you will always be remembered..
Alan Kearney
July 30, 2013
I just randomly thought of Jeanmarie today. It made me smile.
Kendra Singh
September 13, 2012
Thinking of you and your family.
Dora Corby
September 11, 2012
I always hold your family in my heart. You are missed but live on in everyone's memory.
Nicole G
September 11, 2012
Thinking of you and all who were lost on this day eleven years ago. God bless you and your family.
Christine Barton
September 11, 2012
In Memory of my Baby girl
Jeanmarie Wallendorf August 7th 1978 -September 11th 2001
The tragedy of 911 may have taken you from this earth but Never from my heart
I find an old photograph
and see your bright and beautiful smile.
As I feel your presence anew,
I am filled with warmth
and my heart remembers love.
I read an old card
from many years ago
The words written then
still caress my spirit
and bring me peace.
I remember who you used to be
the laughter we shared
and wonder what you have become.
Where are you now,
Where did you go,
When the body is left behind
and the spirit is released to fly?
Perhaps you are the morning bird
singing joyfully at sunrise,
or the dragonfly that dances
so carelessly on the breeze
or the rainbow of colors
that brightens a stormy sky
or the fingers of afternoon mist
delicately reaching over the mountains
or the final few rays of the setting sun
lighting up the skies
edging the clouds with a magical glow.
no matter what form you may have become
I name each one after you.
I miss you Jaime
but I feel your presence,
In whatever form you choose to take,
however you now choose to be.
Your spirit has become for me
a guardian angel on high
guiding, advising, and watching over our family.
it may have been 11 years you were taken away
but it does not change a thing because
Each day that goes by I miss and love you the same,
the only thing that keeps me alive is knowing that
You are with me and then... I am not afraid.
Love,Mom
melissa sutain
September 9, 2012
Miss you..
melissa sutain
September 9, 2012
another year. :( miss you.. i never stop thinking of you!
August 28, 2012
My Baby My love my heart always
William Wallendorf
September 12, 2011
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
jeanette smith
September 11, 2011
A beautiful life, stolen from her loving family. I think of all of you every year and hope my prayers are helping you all get through the worst days, especially this heart-wrenching anniversary. My love and prayers are with you.
melissa sutain
September 11, 2011
after 10 years i miss u more than ever
D
September 11, 2011
Jaime we will never forget you, Your beautiful smile still lightens my heart when I look at your photos
Kate
September 8, 2011
Can't believe it's 10 years ago. Wishing strength to your family and love from me in the UK. We never met, but I always think of you on this awful anniversary. Kate
Christine Barton
September 7, 2011
I will sing to you even when the music stops.
Love,Mom
Alan K
September 5, 2011
Christine, I remember you and Jamie and am saddened with each year that passes. I am so sorry for your loss and so sorry that Jamie didn't get to live her life as she so deserved. She was a beautiful woman and deserved more than the hand she was dealt.
My love to Jeanmarie and her family and friends
Alan K.
Derek
August 7, 2011
Happy Birthday Jamie Marie, you would have been 33 years old, I think of you everyday.
Rest In Peace!
Christine Barton
May 2, 2011
Thinking of you and all victims today as they say Bin laden is dead everyone says it will bring peace to the families i hope it does for them but as for me I do not see how as peace would only come if you were here with us. Love you so much my Baby Girl.
wendy ash
September 28, 2010
i am wendy ash i now own christenes old computer and i would like to give my deepest love and sympathy to your loss and god bless you and god be with you all
Mellanie
September 11, 2010
NO amount of words I can type can explain how much I love you and miss you.
Christine
September 11, 2010
Always loving you and for all victims and their families I am thinking of you all today. Love,mom
K
September 10, 2010
Thinking of you tomorrow, thought of you last week when I was in France and went to Sephora for the first time! It reminded me of some of the posts on here. RIP Jamie. x
Mikaylee Aguilar
September 9, 2010
Sorry for your loss. I'm sure Jamie was loved very much, I've joined her facebook page to support your family.
Derek Booth
June 24, 2010
Jamie, I never met you and I don't know how to say this but I love you because just knowing you were so young, only 23 years old and I even miss you I feel as if I knew you and I truely believe your in a beautiful place and I would do anything to put my arms around you and tell you I'm not leaveing your side, REST IN PEACE JAMIE, YOU ARE FOREVER IN MY HEART!!!
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