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Mary "Molly" Herencia
Mary "Molly" Herencia
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Mary Herencia Obituary
Mary Herencia is remembered for her cough, a theatrical, throat-clearing "a-hem!" she used every morning to get her four boys out of bed and on their way to school. The sound, uttered from the living room of their apartment, was all it ever took. The boys knew that malingering in bed beyond that signal, unless you were really, truly sick, would not be wise.
"She was very tough, but she was also gentle, and that captured it for me," said her son Joseph.
Ms. Herencia, 47, known as Molly, raised four boys, including a set of twins, by herself in Manhattan, without a lot of money, and it was not until much later that her children realized that the blunt, firecracker Irish wit that defined her was also sometimes a front for the struggles she had faced.
An insurance broker at Aon for the last 10 years, she had lost none of her edge to middle age. At dinner one night last summer, she eyed Joseph's girlfriend, Sara Walter, over the table. "So," she cracked, "when you getting married?"
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Martha-Jean Ndaizivei Necodemus
September 19, 2024
I am so sorry your boys had to grow up without you. May you continue to rest in peace Molly. Love from South Africa
Matthew Herencia
April 29, 2023
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April 29, 2023
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April 29, 2023
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CAROL Gribensk
January 22, 2020
I know your Flying with Angels !
Ricky Buckley
January 22, 2020
Miss you Molly
The Kindred Family
January 22, 2020
Thinking of your family and sending our deep sympathy. Always may God continue to give the comfort and support needed daily. Molly is still sadly missed and is not forgotten.
Doris Herencia
September 13, 2019
18 years later and still cannot accept the enormity of this tragic day I know that at least you are with family in heaven I now also lost my second brother Chris in May of last year and now he is also there with Julio and mom and dad
Still missing all of you may god bless all of us who are still here to include your boys
Kitty Rivera
September 12, 2019
Remembering the good times with you and Millie especially the laughs!
CAROL BIGLEY
September 11, 2019
Thinking of you today and all the other people who were in the towers ! God Bless America
FELICIA ANN ROQUE
September 16, 2018
Dear Molly, I'm thinking of you, remembering you and hoping that your family is safe, well and enjoying life. I'm not believing that you're just merely resting in peace. I'm believing you are very busy in Heaven with God, all your loved ones who passed & God's Angels. Love always, Felicia
CAROL GRIBENSK
September 12, 2018
I will never forget that day Mollie ! You lived for your son's RIP
Rest in peace...
thomas Herald
September 11, 2018
What a great tribute...bless you.
Thomas Herald
September 11, 2018
I'm Herald...on the list your the first. Bless you, I will remember you.
Kathy
September 11, 2018
Never Forgotten!
sheree grosman
September 11, 2018
Thinking of you today Molly Herencia and remembering the times we shared. I hope that you are resting in peace. I will never forget.
Carol Gribensk
September 12, 2017
Fly with the Angels ! I will always remember you !
Maryann Petti
September 12, 2017
Molly may you continue to Rest In Peace. You will never be forgotten. Such a strong lady with a heart of gold. The world lost the best on September 11, 2001.
September 11, 2017
Molly miss you rest in peace and keep laughing with Millie and now joined by her husband Joe (8/17). Never forgotten.
CAROL BIGLEY
September 12, 2016
I still don't understand why bad things happen, one day we will all understand
FELICIA ANN ROQUE
September 12, 2016
Dear Molly, It's been 15 years and I still don't understand some things about that morning. But I do know that God never took your life, he is not responsible for taking you away from your family. Not only is there good but there is evil and it does a whole lot of damage in this world. God did send angels to bring you up to him in Heaven. I hope your family knows this, especially your 4 sons. Love & Peace, Felicia
Sheree Grosman
September 11, 2016
Thinking of you today as I do every September 11. Later I will watch as they call out the names of the victims. When I hear your name Molly, I will hope with a heavy heart that you are resting in peace.
Rosie Delgado
January 28, 2016
Happy Birthday in Heaven Molly. I know that you and Millie are looking down on us everyday.
Madeleine Herencia
January 27, 2016
That is why you are always close to me.
Madeleine Herencia
G
September 19, 2015
Happy Birthday Molly!! Miss you girl. Till we meet again...
Terry Byrne
September 11, 2015
Molly,
I miss you and pray to God everyday that you are at peace in heaven with the angels of the Lord.
Every 9/11 before I embark into my insane life, I watch, listen and wait to hear your name and see your picture on the TV screen knowing you will be forever young and beautiful in my heart.
When we grew up during the Summers on the Hudson Guild Farm you always took care of me, you taught me how to dance, taught me how to fight and most of all taught me how to earn respect and still keep a smile on my face.
When I was in Florida last year in a well known steakhouse in Tampa, I asked this young waitress her name and she said "my name is Molly". I asked her for a hug, so she did and I began to cry. I explained to Molly why I was so emotional and told her your story. I explained to the young waitress that I hadn't heard your name in such a long time and it quickly brought back memories of you and how touched I felt hearing your name again. Before we left for the night, Molly came up to me a gave me hug and a kiss on the cheek goodbye. It welled me to tears once again. She said she would pray for you and wished us health and happiness until the next time we meet.
I will never forget you Molly, you have etched an eternal scar of truth and love into my heart for a lifetime.
Until we meet again...............................
Love,
Terry
marie gonzalez
September 11, 2015
R.i.p molly
Moms best friend you were and now together
LisaMarie DiGrazia
September 10, 2015
Think about and talk about you all the time. You will be remembered forever.
Kayla Gawel
September 10, 2015
Rest in peace, Molly.
Sheree Grosman
September 10, 2015
Thinking of you as I do every year on this day Molly. I remember the laughs, and your smile and hope that you rest in peace.
liz Keenan
September 10, 2015
RIP My Chelsea friend. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
September 10, 2015
Molly, thinking of you as I do every single year since that tragic day. You are still missed so much my friend. I am sure you are looking down on all you loved and are watching them. Until we meet again my dear friend. Love Always and forever Maureen
Ricky Buckley
September 10, 2015
❤❤❤❤❤❤
Carol Gribensk
September 9, 2015
Thinking of you often !
Taylor
September 5, 2015
I wish I had met you Molly. you sound like an incredible person. you were taken from this world too soon. I hope you are resting in heaven and looking down on your boy and seeing how much he loves and misses you and thinks of you everyday. let him know you miss and love him too. please come visit him in his dreams and tell him everything will be alright. he struggles without you. love you even though I never got the honor of meeting you. Sincerly, Taylor (a very good friend of your baby boy joe)
FELICIA ANN ROQUE
November 14, 2014
Dear Molly It's now over 13 years and it's still unbelievable to me everything that happened. I'm sorry that this year I missed hearing your name being called out at the memorial because I overslept that morning.I know I'm a little late in posting my message but better late than never. I am another one that always cries while watching the memorial service on television. It's a little overwhelming for me at times and I can only imagine what the people the family friends loved ones and colleagues who actually attend the service go through each time they attend the memorial. I just hope everyone who knows you not only remembers you on 9/11 but during the rest of the year. They should go back and remember your life and always share memories with one another. Many times I work in the subway stations right across from the World Trade Center and I just find myself stepping up into the street and just looking up to the sky (bypassing the new towers) just knowing beyond all that I can physically see there is Heaven and that you and so many others are there. I hope your family friends and loved one are safe well and blessed in their lives. I hope they never give up on God. I pray for peace in their lives. Love Felicia Ann Roque
Salvador Lopez
September 29, 2014
We never really spoke to one another but I did know your father Joe. We worked at the Coop Super market together and I can only imagen how your loss has affected your family and friends from Chelsea. May you always rest in peace.
September 12, 2014
Dearest Molly,
Every year I see the Event of 9/11 on TV and I still cry. I cannot still after 13 years comprehend the fact that you are no longer with us. But Now I know that you have company. My brother is up there with you Always in my thoughts God Bless
Doris Herencia
Liz Carroll Legoff
September 12, 2014
Always a smile to everyone,my Mom's favorite Chelsea girl,always in my thoughts and prayers.
September 12, 2014
Life is short, you were taken to soon,think of you often.
Love Carol Gribensk Bigley
September 11, 2014
A former girlfriend. RIP Molly.
Barbie Andrews
September 11, 2014
Remembering you today...
January 23, 2014
Thinking of you tonight !
Carol Gribensk
September 16, 2013
Dear Mollie,
You are always on my mind. Every Sept. 11th I think of you. God Bless all who you have left on this earth. May the lord watch over them and keep them safe.
Always in my thoughts and in my heart
Love
Doris Herencia
Justin and Madison Baking
Alexis Collado
September 15, 2013
Julia Molly and Madison
Alexis Collado
September 15, 2013
September 13, 2013
Another year goes by..We as Americans will never forget..RIP Carol Gribensk
September 13, 2013
Missing you... I will make sure to tell Miliani all about you and Millie.
~Rosie, Salisbury Mills, New York
September 12, 2013
Hey Molly miss you and Millie dearly - Kitty (Millie's best friend)
FELICIA ANN ROQUE
September 11, 2013
Dear Molly, 12 years have gone by,life is so short. I can still go back and remember you when we were children playing in the park in Chelsea. I realize, all our time on this earth, every single moment, every wonderful memory has to be treasured. We have to hold onto love, peace, faith & everything else that God has instilled in us, no matter what goes on around us. I hope and I pray that your family, friends and loved ones not let your passing into the Heavenly realms hinder them from ever living life to the fullest. I pray that they are not so sad anymore but are joyful and that they continue to look forward to what's ahead. Love, Felicia Ann Roque
Alexis Collado
September 11, 2013
I love you and miss you.
Sheree Grosman
September 11, 2013
Thinking of you today Molly. Remembering our fun times at McGraw hill. You always made me laugh, and you lit up every room you entered. Rest in peace.
Paula Stropkay
September 11, 2013
Molly we are thinking of you & your Family today. We miss your smile!
Beulah Jones-Houston
September 11, 2013
Hi Molly!! I miss seeing you when stopping by Millie's desk. Remember when I used to help you & Bob Ferris (Dr. Bob as we called him) get ready for the next Comp Camp seminar? It was a lot of work but it was enjoyable when you have great people to work with. Miss you "Blondie", the office is not the same......
Mark Herencia
October 10, 2012
I wish i could talk to you. I miss you and I'm doing my best to make you proud of me. It hurts so much.
Patricia (Cabelle) Bozza
September 19, 2012
Happy Birthday Up In Heaven Molly. Love Always
Maureen Delaney-Bianchi
September 18, 2012
Dear Molly,
Thinking of you alot lately. I know I am a day early....but Happy Birthday my friend. God Bless xoxo
Love
Maureen
Patricia (Cabelle) Bozza
September 16, 2012
Molly You Are Still Missed So Much, By Many. When I was Younger I Always Looked Up To You, And Had Fun Going To Central Park In The Snow, And Shopping The Department Stores. I Will Always Love & Miss You Very Much. Love Always
Linda Gribensk
September 12, 2012
Rest in peace my mom always remembered you and she past last year. God Bless.
Jack Maloney
September 12, 2012
R.I.P. Molly. So many memories of us all the years at St.Michaels grammar school.Taken from us much too soon.In my prayers.Jack Maloney
Carol Gribensk
September 12, 2012
Can't believe it's been 11 years...Bless you
Rosie Delgado
September 12, 2012
Molly, remembering you always.
Love, Rosie
September 12, 2012
Molly may you and Millie R-I-P never forgotten. Kitty
Christine Scatorchia
September 11, 2012
I miss you so much!!! You were taken from us way too early. I miss hanging out with you, Teresa and Millie. Love you!
Karen McCormack
September 11, 2012
Molly, It is hard to believe that all these years have passed by since you left us. R.I.P. and take care of Millie too.
Maryann Petti
September 11, 2012
It's been 11 years. I still think of you and Millie. You touched so many lives. R.I.P and God Bless your family and friends. You are missed.
FELICIA ANN ROQUE
September 11, 2012
Dear Molly, I'm remembering you and I'll again listen this morning for your name to be called out during the memorial service. I am sending out more prayers for you and especially for your loved ones. I ask that the Lord greatly and richly bless each one of them and that He will relieve any & all of the still lingering grief,sorrow,loss,pain, suffering & sadness. May He replace it with the positive self assurance, comfort and the greatest joy that someday (most definitely) we will see and meet you again. Love always, Felicia Ann Roque
Donna Riviezzo-Caldarola
September 10, 2012
Molly, so hard to believe that you have been gone so long. I vividly remember all your smiles when you came thru HR to see Peggy. You were a bright spot in all of our days.
NATIONAL SEPTEMBER 11 MEMORIAL
FELICIA ANN ROQUE
September 30, 2011
FELICIA ANN ROQUE
September 30, 2011
Dear Molly, Today I went to the National September 11 Memorial. I saw and photographed your bronze inscribed name, it is beautiful. I thought that I would feel sadness while walking through the memorial grounds & around the perimeter of the pool and reading many of the other names but I thank God I felt love,peace,and tranquility there. I know that through this wonderful memorial/tribute you and all the others who lost their earthy lives on that day will never be forgotten. Love Always
NATIONAL SEPTEMBER 11 MEMORIAL
FELICIA ANN ROQUE
September 30, 2011
Patricia Cabelle Bozza
September 21, 2011
Hi Molly,
Happy Belated Birthday Sept.19th up in Heaven. We Love and Miss You Very Much. We Will Never Forget You.
Love Always
Doris Herencia
September 19, 2011
Dear Molly,
On September 11th I finally went to the 911 Memorial with my son. I really needed to see your name engraved in the bronze panel. I still sometimes cannot believe it. I saw your sister and we hugged. I keep in touch with Mark all the time. God Bless you Always.
Love Doris Herencia Now by brother Julio is up there with you.
Lisa Naveira-Savitt
September 17, 2011
Molly, I can't belive that its 10 yrs already. I remember when all the girls loved to push Jay and Joe in the carraige and we all took turns They grew up to be handsome boys, you would be proud. We miss you!!!
Kitty Rivera
September 13, 2011
Molly RIP ~ I'm sure you and Millie are shining down on those you loved. Kitty
Alexis Collado
September 11, 2011
Miss you. Wish you were here.
PHIL BLAIR
September 11, 2011
GOD BLESS!!!!
Caryn Pannone
September 11, 2011
I still think of you so often and miss you a lot. Rest in Peace
Anne Jensen-Corcoran
September 11, 2011
Dear Molly,
I can't believe it's been 10 years since you were taken.
This guest book is a wonderful place to pay our respects to you.
I know it's been many years since I left Chelsea but you and your boys have often entered my mind. I used to enjoy so much babysitting the boys and hoping to one day have some of my own. I actually got three of my own - two of which I named Matthew and Marc.
It saddened me to hear that you were taken that fateful day 10 years ago.
I hope that your boys have survived not too badly scared. I hope they are well and comforted by the fact that their Mom has touched so many lives. But more importantly hasn't, nor ever will, been forgotten. My thoughts are with you and your boys today and every 9/11.
Christine Scatorchia
September 11, 2011
Hi Molly.. I just found your guest book a couple weeks ago and also just found out that Theresa is with you now. I miss you both so very much! I cherish the memories of all the fun times we had together at work. I love and miss you guys so much! I hope you, Theresa and Millie are hanging out together. Love, "Missy"
September 11, 2011
I know there is a better place ,I believe that with my soul,
Carol
Glenn Darien
September 11, 2011
We lived together, the Carrs and the Dariens in 420 west 26th as children in the 60's. God be with you and all of us today and throughout eternity. Gone but never forgotten
Maryann Petti
September 11, 2011
Today marks 10 years since we lost such a wonderful person. Molly I think of you often and will never forget your kindness. The world was a much better place with you in it. May God Bless you and your family.
Hugs
Maryann
irma saenz
September 11, 2011
RIP Molly. I remember us growing up in Chelsea and all the good times we had. Peace be with you and your family.
Patty Tobin
September 11, 2011
May God continue to Bless You Molly,
& your Family....RIP..
Patricia Cabelle Bozza
September 11, 2011
Dear Molly, I can't believe ten years have gone by already. You are Loved & Missed By So Many. May God Bless, and watch over your family.
Love Always
FELICIA ANN ROQUE
September 10, 2011
Dear Molly, I remember back when we were little girls in Chelsea, playing in the park and having fun. I honor you not only on Sept 11th but for all days. My thoughts, prayers and love continue and extend to you & your loved ones, family and friends. I expect our mighty God through his grace and mercy will alleviate all the still lingering pain, sadness and sorrow and replace it with more joy, peace and happiness within and surrounding them. Comfort and compassion is from our Lord. At the end of this month I will be visiting the National September 11 Memorial & Museum so that I can see your bronze inscribed name.
September 9, 2011
Molly, You have always been an inspiration to me. You were not only a close family friend you were like an older sister in a neighborhood way. You were my Moms close friend and my brothers and sisters very close friend . I remember loving that you cared so much for everyone . Our Chelsea days were fun and our summertime at the Hudson guild Farm was the best times of all. Thank you for your strength and courage . God has gained an amazing angel. Love you and know your looking over us Christine
September 9, 2011
September 9, 2011
Miss you Molly
The Armstrong Family
September 9, 2011
Patricia Cabelle Bozza
September 18, 2010
Happy Birthday Up in Heaven Molly, I know you and Theresa are going to Celebrate together today...
Love and Miss You & Theresa.
Love Always Patricia
September 14, 2010
Dear Molly,
I was watching the 911 tribute and realized that this year you will have company to be there with you. Julio Herencia is now in heaven with you.
God Bless you both. Remember we are all looking up in the heavens and know you were the greatest mom. I have been in contact with Mark and he was there for the last days of life, for his dad.
He was a blessing to be part of our family, especially on the last days of Julio's life. Love you both always.
Your sister-in law.
Patricia Bozza
September 12, 2010
Hi Molly,
We love & Miss you very much. You will Never be Forgotten...
Love Always
The Bozza & Cabelle Families
September 11, 2010
I see your eyes everyday and wish you were here to enjoy this spirit,hear this laughter,see these firsts...
So much is lost.
September 11, 2010
Rest In Peace, Molly.
FELICIA ANN ROQUE
September 11, 2010
Dear Molly, I'll be listening again as I do each & every year to hear your name being called out and your photo being shown at the 911 memorial service this morning. My prayers continue for you and especially for all your loved ones, that they may know & experience God's continuous & everlasting comfort & compassion, love, joy, peace and blessings always.
March 14, 2010
Oh, Ms. Molly. There just aren't words to express how I feel about you.
Your son Matthew's contribution to humanity is a clear reflection of the kind of woman you were.
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