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Nitz Nadera
January 31, 2024
February 1, 2024
Jacy, happy birthday in heaven! You would have been 47 now! I always think of you! I miss you so much!!!! Ninang Nitz
Cindy Roe
September 6, 2021
Remembering Jayceryll on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
September 11, 2019
18 years today...still feels like it happened yesterday. We miss you Kuya, so much. Just wish that Lara & Liam could have met you in this lifetime. We know that you are watching them from heaven, just as you are keeping an eye on Jary & Jayde.
Kindred Family
February 22, 2019
We send our continued deep sympathy to your family. May God always give the help needed with each new day. Jayceryll is still sadly missed and will not be forgotten.
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Alistair Santiano
September 11, 2018
JC was my elementary friend from the Philippines. I met him right before he migrated to the US and years later, I was living in NY and we talked on the phone - planning to meet up once again (1997 maybe). Never got to actually meeting up.
Corazon Chavez
September 11, 2016
.We pray for you and your family. I heard about you from my father when it happened. I also met your mother in Geneva and extended our deepest sympathy.
September 11, 2015
Jacy, today is the 14th year when you suddenly disappeared without a trace. You may not be here physically but our memory of you lives forever. In heaven, may you find eternal peace with our Lord, Jesus Christ. We always love you - Ninang Nitz
Aimee Ramcharran
March 25, 2015
Kuya- Happy 24th Year Anniversary in the US! I wish you were here to meet Lara & Liam... You would have adored them and they would have loved you. Miss you so much!!!
Imaan Marshall
October 24, 2014
I was at the memorial a few days ago and snapped a picture and when I got back home to the UK I looked and saw your name and thought I should pay my respects. I will never delete this picture. My thoughts are with you and your family. RIP.
September 11, 2013
Rosanele Romero-Groleau
September 12, 2011
Thinking of you, Jacy. It feels surreal to know you have been gone this long. You are always remembered by your friends in UPIS.
Melissa Kolbeck-Gwathney
September 10, 2011
RIP
elainie karagiannis
September 12, 2010
My prayers are with you and your family. May you rest in peace
Kristina Dressler Kelly
September 11, 2010
My thoughts are with you...miss you!
Caroline Bunner
September 11, 2010
Sadly you were taken to soon from your family and friends. RIP Jacy.
Allysa Nadera
November 11, 2008
i love youuu!! and i miss you everyday and im sure does your family does too!
Allysa Nadera
October 21, 2008
I was with your family a few days ago for your sister's baby shower how they wish you could've been there.. today I would imagine you already being the CEO of a big company as a result of your high ambitions..I often think about you and that night waiting with your family at your house in Carteret praying endlessly for a phone call or any sign at all. tough times to recall but you were a great man and may God Bless You Kuya Jayce
A Resident
September 11, 2007
This day and every day...
Kristine
October 30, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
September 21, 2006
In remembrance....
Wendz/Philippines
wendell bautista
December 9, 2005
condolence to a great man,a man of honor,a man of dignity,a man of courage,a man of God Fearing and a man of all.We're so proud of you.
wendz/philippines
Archie M Custodio
July 23, 2004
It was a day and night of commotion after a shortened and interruped training at Fort Sill, OK on September 11, 2001. In my bunkbed I was reading letters with eagerness and excitement until I read one of the letters from a close friend learning the most heart-wrenching news. I jumped out of the bed like a cork popped from a bottle of wine. I felt the churning all over my body and screaming in my mind as I ran downstairs to the payphone, 'it can't be it can't be it can't be it can't be', with your full face smiling and staring at me.
I am screaming because right away I fully realized that your boundless desire to excel in all aspects of life - with your family, friends, career, adventure - has come to an abrupt end. I was bitter and upset beyond comprehension.
But then right away an image of your full face smiling was now with angel wings.....JUST LIKE THAT...FOR A SPLIT SECOND.....THIS IMAGE ERASES ALL MY DESPAIR AND SORROW....
Mr and Mrs DeChavez, this has been going on in my mind that night tossing and turning in my bed and I have been wanting to share this thought about Jaycee to both of you - it is not to console nor to ease your bereavement but to share what my heart, my soul, my gut tell me about JAYCEE..........
THEY NEEDED ANGELS UP THERE THEY NEEDED ANGELS UP THERE......
Right away with no hesitation Jaycee, to me a you're a perfect human being, you're the perfect choice to be an angel.
I know you're watchin out over your Mom, Dad, Aizza and Amy.
This may sound bold or selfish for me to say but I know in my heart and soul that with this thought of you I no longer feel bitter and upset.
The most memorable moment I have had with you when I was at your house with Aizza and friends discussing about life and progress....and I quoted John Locke, my favorite philosopher, 'through our senses and experiences can we become more knowledgeable', everyone laughed (joking around) but him....for I sensed that you were the only one in that room who got the very gist and gut of what I meant, esp after reading your favorite quote.
Tell me what's heaven like, Jaycee, floating around those clouds flipping your wings with that happy smiling face. Tell me how it is like....
A friend,
Archie
July 2004
Jordan
September 11, 2003
Jacy often recited the following quote and put it on the end of every e-mail that I ever saw him send out. It is still posted on my wall and I look at it almost every day.
Every man believes in certain ideologies and life philosophies, it
should be marked; I stand believing in
"Experience is never limited, and it
is never complete; it is an
immense sensibility, a kind of huge spider-web of the finest silken-
threads suspended in the chamber of consciousness, and catching
every air-borne particle in its tissue."
(Sir Henry James)
-We will never forget you Jacy.
wilbert josef
August 29, 2003
I probably seen you just once but I am one of your sister's (maizza) friend whose serving the armed forces and supporting the 9/11 operation... I'm here risking my life for service for our country as well as for my friend's brother... may you rest in peace!!!
Allysa Nadera
February 3, 2003
Kuya Jayce would of turned 26 on a few days ago. he was my mom's cousin. he was very fun to be with and when i think about him i start to tear remindig myself he's not with us anymore. it's a very strange feeling because sometimes i forget because my family didnt really see him often...so it makes me think that he's probably at his house watching tv or at work. i still can't believe its been more than 2 years since his sudden death. God bless Lola Azon and family forever...i love you all
Rachel Gotangco-Brown
September 12, 2002
We know of Jayceryll through our mother and through tributes by all who knew him especially his family. Our mother prays for him and his family everyday. Even though we did not know JC directly, we would like to pay the following tribute.
It is apparent that the legacy of a person cannot be measured by the fame and fortune that he attains, or the time he has spent on earth, but by the love and respect of those left behind. JC has shown us not just the importance of dreams, but to have the passion, inspiration, and drive to fulfill those dreams in our lifetime.
May your son's legacy be the source of strength that sustain's your spirit to continue. Our family prays for JC and your family, and all the other victims and their families.
May
August 20, 2002
There is not one day that I don't think about JC. I will truly miss him.
Michael Iezzi
April 24, 2002
Father we entrust our brother Jayceryll to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
Glenda Magpantay
April 22, 2002
I've always been optimistic that Kuya Jacy and I together with the rest of the family I've never grown up with would someday meet in person. With Kuya Jacy it can never be a reality anymore....like the last leaf in autumn. So sad a plight.
The vivid recollection I had with Kuya Jacy was on that fine day, still kids then, shared fond moments at the farm. Had he been alive he may not recall it though because that was really long time ago. It used to be one of the rarest occasions back here in the Philippines when we got the opportunity of having good times together and enhanced the bonding we ought to have.
He was not literally close to me as he was in our hearts. Barely did I know Kuya Jacy in terms of memories spent together but how could one ignore the wit and ingenuity, vigor and intensity, charm and passion he had for his family and for all that he cared for.
All of the favorable regards have been told of Kuya Jacy, so amiable and winsome-photographs to keep him alive in our conciousness. And all these elicit and stirred up eagerness on my part, proud to be related to him by blood, to finally meet him right there on top of the world. With Kuya Jacy, it can never be a reality anymore....like a fortune that is lost in eternity..
The inconceivable tragedy made my heart skip a beat. Moreso, when we've gotten the news that Kuya Jcay was one. The world suddenly stopped. This couldn't be! The first question was, "Why Lord?" then, "Why Jacy?" I know it was not proper to contest the will of God.
Nothing was resolved yet. Everything just seemed so incomprehensible to our awareness. There must be a reason. With Kuya Jacy, It simply cuts like the sharpest knife. We could only do so much but one in prayers. Rivers have been cried out until the last drop of tear refused to drain...so devastating and inconsolably hurting. If it may comfort a grieving heart let it be said that Kuya Jacy will always bear his handsomest look..
Yes, Kuya Jacy has gone but he will always be remembered as a caring brother, a best friend, a cousin, an acquaintance and most of all...a loving son.
Joan Vitale
March 28, 2002
It is with deepest sympathies that I leave this message for the friends & family of Jacy DeChavez. I represent all past, present, & future members of Carteret High School's chapter of S.A.D.D. of which Jacy was a dedicated member. Our annual Students Against Destructive Decisions (S.A.D.D.) assembly program was dedicated to Jacy & we were honored to have his Mom & sister in our audience that day. We hold him in high regard. He was an active member of our club & a shining example of the GOOD & HONORABLE in everyone. God Bless his family & God Bless America.
In memory
Chad Olszyk, AKPsi '98
February 27, 2002
I wonder why this happened
To a man as caring as you
I can honestly say I am a better person
Because I had you as a role model
Why did this have to happen?
Wondering.
While wishing you were here.
I remember the first time I met you
You were shy but so professional in your suit.
I also remember the last time I hugged you
I shook your hand and said, “Take Care”
Why did this have to happen?
Wondering.
While wishing you were here.
I can’t thank you enough
For teaching me to treat everyone fair
For teaching me how to speak more eloquently
For teaching me what brotherhood really is
Why did this have to happen?
Wondering.
While wishing you were here.
I am so proud to have met you
And proud to call you my friend and brother
I’ll never forget any minute spent with you
I’ll never regret sharing my smiles with you.
Why did this have to happen?
Wondering.
While wishing you were here.
Your presence was always felt
Whenever you were around us all
The traditions you started with our fraternity
They will live on and your legacy will be known
Why did this have to happen?
Wondering.
While wishing you were here.
I’m going to remember a lot about you
You were always around to lend a hand
You always knew the right thing to say
You sacrificed your personal time for us
Why did this have to happen?
Wondering.
While wishing you were here.
I’m trying to understand why I feel alone
I see others grieve and I know that I am not alone
I look down at my crucifix
And I know that you are not alone
Why did this have to happen?
Wondering.
While wishing you were here.
Jacy, I love you no doubt.
It’s hard for me to come to terms
That I may never get to smile with you again
And I know I’ll miss you tremendously.
Why did this have to happen?
Crying.
While wishing you were here.
Love, Chad Olszyk 10/01
nenita nadera
February 14, 2002
A Glimpse
Jacy would have been 25 years old today,Feb.1, 2002. I remember last year when I went home, I remember
remembering his birthday, I even marked it in our calendar pasted in the refrigerator's door, I thought of sending him something, that was my promise to myself, but the time came and passed and nothing was sent but the thought..I didn't know why the thought was always here in my heart, that should have been the first time I would send him a card but to think about it I didn't know it's a goodbye...A glimpse of a man driven by success, He's an ideal son,a brother,nephew and cousin,
In retrospect, I always turned to the poetry-written in the church, this life he passed was only one of the many stages-I always think he's happy never thirsty and hungry, So light and no burden as we are here on earth. The angels play with him, dancing gracefully, Singing melodious tunes earth can't see, The cool breeze brushes his face under the shining stars, Haven only him could stay not us living mankind, Sure our turn would come, when we are ready, Only God knows when the closing gets near, but sometimes I wonder if a hint is apparent. Many times last year I thought of him, Noticed a lot about how important he was, When my first cousin came, When my brother came, I heard the same, How nice and kind Jacy all they claimed..When the night is quiet and I'd like to concentrate, I look at his picture still in disbelief..I hung a reminder of him--his photo and the towers, To remind us everyday of life so precious, so tender,so delicate, and so fragile..If I could be a poet I would write and write..I would make him an inspiration of my imagination-of life so interesting..so short to take, Meanwhile make its worth while we can, we are the writer of the songs we sing, the lyrics we put in every lines, the life we chose is but the cadence, the rhythm we invent....No matter what happened to our dear Jacy, No one could tell the story, How I wished we could dream and see, A glimpse of a man who just started, Seeing the world he liked and wanted to be..I am sure he had a lot of things to tell us, One Day we will see...
We missed you terribly,
Ninang (Nitz M. Nadera, RN)
Therese Sawon
February 6, 2002
My home group at St. Anne's Church here in Gilbert, Arizona sent away for a MercyBand. We received our wristband with the name of Jayceryll M. de Chavez printed on it. It is our desire to pray for Jayceryll and his family when we meet every Wednesday evening. We hope to learn more about him and his family...please feel free to contact me at my e-mail address. Our thoughts and prayers are with all who loved this young man. God Bless You.
Laura Randazzo
January 9, 2002
Excellent poem and tribute for our fallen, but never forgotten Brother, Jacy deChavez.
Anonymous
January 8, 2002
MAY GOD BLESS JAYCERYLL M.DECHAVEZ
AND MAY YOU REST IN PEACE WITH GOD'
AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY
AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND
MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01...AMEN
+++++
Stephanie Gunther
January 6, 2002
In Memory Of A Fallen Brother....
On a day with a beautiful clear sky,
we are left with lingering thoughts of why.
A nation we all took for granted,
has now become dismantled.
Many lives, young and old,
were taken far too soon,
and by someone so cold.
Heartless cowards, with lost minds,
we are left still trying to find,
a reason for actions unthinkable.
Jacy, a young man with a heart and ambition,
has left us here with a mission.
To not look at his death with a fallen tear,
or look upon our nation everyday with fear,
But for all of us, Jacy's friends and loved ones,
To look at all he has done in his short life,
as something to hold dear in our hearts.
With every passing day,
we must remember to stay,
linked as one, and with a purpose.
To hold the memories of our fallen heroes high,
with pride....I sit here and sigh,
and remember the impact Jayceryll deChavez has had on each one of our lives......
~I wrote this poem in the loving memory of my fallen brother of Alpha Kappa Psi. I know that each and every day Jacy is shining down on us from heaven.
~Stephanie Gunther
Teresa Jahn
January 5, 2002
May Jayceryll's ambition, his life and love continue living in those who love him. We are very sorry for your loss. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Elliot Kathreptis
January 3, 2002
JC was my fraternity brother in Delta Chi. Many of us wish we could do something to alleviate the grief. God has taken one of the kindest souls that I have ever known. God Bless all the victims.
Guida Silva
December 31, 2001
I went to CHS with JC. I did not know him all that well, but that never stopped us from saying hello to eachother when we passed in the hallways. He was one of the nicest people that I ever met. We worked in the same Tower and I never even knew it until September 11th.
God bless JC and his family. I hope that in some way they have found closure. My prayers always!
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