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Robert Baierwalter Obituary
Robert J. Baierwalter thought outside of the box. In high school, he and some friends hoisted a drum set, piece by piece, up to his bedroom so his mother would not know (at least not for a few hours). Decades later, as an account underwriter for FM Global, he liked creating insurance deals his co-workers thought impossible. And when other fathers sped to work early, he stayed home until 8:45 a.m., when Veronica, 14; Richard, 11; and Raymond, 6, left for school.
"He watched their grades like a hawk," said his wife, Laura. "It's a very difficult job, I'm finding out now. He used to ask Veronica every three days, `What's your math average?' and he was always on the phone with the teachers."
She and his friends remember how Mr. Baierwalter, 44, was always late. "Now that I look back, I see he never rushed for anything," said Debbie Falls, a neighbor. "He enjoyed life. He took his time. He didn't have much time here."
Mr. Baierwalter, who lived in Albertson, N.Y., worked in Norwalk, Conn., but was at the World Trade Center on Sept. 11 for a meeting at 8:30 a.m. "It was probably the first time in his life he was on time," Ms. Falls said.
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Janet
September 11, 2024
Remembering Bob on this 23rd anniversary of September 11. He was a ray of positivity and sunshine at FM Global in Greenwich and Norwalk.
Frank Krawiecki
September 5, 2021
As we approach the 20th Anniversary of 911, Bob and his family will always be in our hearts and prayers. I was very lucky to have know Bob as a coworker and car pool buddy for many years. I’m still in shock and saddened to know that Bob who was never on time for anything, was on time that faithful day. May he continued to rest in eternal peace and happiness. May God Bless.
Peggy Baierwalter
September 1, 2021
Miss you Bob every day.can’t eat my moms macaroni salad without thinking of you. You always had that crazy laugh that would light up a roomLaura has done an excellent job your kids have grown to be intelligent lovely peoplesure you are very proud.love you little Cuz! ❤❤❤
Cindy Roe
August 31, 2021
Remembering Robert on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....
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Barbara Zimmerman
September 11, 2019
What can you say about Bob other than he was a good husband, father and enjoyed people. He will always be missed by everyone who came into his life. We will all meet one day in Heaven so he just has to wait for our day to come and join him in his journey.
Rob Kosier
September 10, 2019
Tomorrow it will be 18 Years since you left. I didn't know you but you still Ride with me every ride I make. Best Wishes to your family..
Del Newberry
June 16, 2015
My thoughts and prayers go out to Bob's many friends and his family today, as I pause to offer a word of encouragement to you. My you continue to be comforted by knowing that there are many across this world who are praying for you, and we try to honor the memonry of great guys like this by spreading humor and love through the world. Love from Texas
Kevin Brannan
September 12, 2014
I fondly remember "Big Bob" from my days at Swim Clean working for his brother Joe. Bob would help out on our busiest days, taking the toughest jobs. Great guy, always missed.
September 12, 2012
Robert - I was thinking of you last night as we watched the History Channel about 9/11 and am hoping your family is doing well.
Linda Willmott
September 11, 2012
Still think of you and your wonderful smile my fun coworker.
Barbara Boam
May 23, 2012
Barbara Boam & Kim Rogers walked a mile for you (mile #116) on 5/22/12 as a dedication to your life.
peggy
October 23, 2011
Bob was my cousin...little brother...spent many hours listening to his many jokes...Bob cared about his family all of us..I still to this day miss him whenever I drive past swimclean...one of his many business ventures...his children are his legacy and the fine people they are is a tribute to him and Lauras love....
Kymberli Colbourne
September 11, 2011
We hold you in our hearts.
Robin Piller
September 11, 2011
A few years ago, I was surprised and saddened to learn that Bob was amongst those who died in the 9/11/2001 attacks on the WTC. I worked with him in the mid-late 1980s as his secretary in the Underwriting Dept. of Arkwright Boston, a commercial insurance company, in Greenwich, CT.
He was so full of life and just a great all around person with a wonderful sense of humor. He was very much a family man who was well liked and respected by everyone at work. Just being in his presence always affected you because he was so positive and happy all of the time -- always such a pleasure to be around.
My prayers go out to his family, as well as to all of those who lost someone on 9/11. You will be remembered -- today and always. God bless America.
Tommy Rico
September 11, 2011
Roberts wife is my cousin. I havent spoken to her in many years, but on this day I want to say to her, I miss you, I love you, and I am so sorry for your loss. I didnt know Robert, but I think of him on every Sept. 11.
Steven & Kathy Perez
September 10, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Barbara Zimmerman
September 10, 2011
It was two weeks before 9/11 that my husband Bob and I attended a wedding for my nephew. We had a great time with Bob and Laura. It wasn't his time to die. His family needed him. God bless my niece Laura and her children. We love you.
Rob Kosier
September 9, 2011
Tomorrow I'm riding in a 9/11 Memorial Bike Ride. Each Rider is representing someone from that day. Robert is the name that I am representing. I've read his story and very proud to represent someone that loved his family so much. I wish his family well wishes on this day.
Steve Byrne
September 7, 2011
I often think of Bob and how great of a person he was. The last time we played golf he was playing amazingly well and I remember how he would talk about music - how great the intro was to a Start me up was for example. While we mostly discussed work the last time called he just wanted to know how my kids were doing..at that was it. Great man. Hope Laura and the kids are doing well.
Laurie Fisher Watrous
September 7, 2011
It is hard to believe that it has been 10 years since that horrible event. I can still hear Bob referring to me as "LF". Bob comes to mind more often than you might realize... he was smart but he also saw the unique or bizarre in everything. Whenever I need to look at something in a new light, I stop to think, what would Bob say?
Laura and family, I hope you are all well. Know that I think of Bob and you often. Bob, you have not been forgotten.
My thoughts and prayers are still with you.
Richard Schoonover
September 5, 2011
I worked with Bob at the Arkwright Mutual in the late 80's. I roomed with him when we traveled on business trips and I will never forget his "alarm clock" of Pink Floyd music. He was a friend as well as my underwriter. I am so sorry for his sacrifice as well as my not staying in touch after I left Arkwright. May God bless Bob's family and may they never forget their father.
Mary Gabriel
May 3, 2011
Dear Laura and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know until recent years of Bobs passing. I was an Underwriting Assistant and worked with Bob at Arkwright from 1987 to 1990. Bob created a pleasurable working environment with his positive attitude and kind spirit. He was very intelligent and generously shared his wealth of knowledge with others. I will always remember Bob for the true genuine person that he was. I send my deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Joe Dinan
December 31, 2009
I worked with Bob at Arkwright from 1984 to 1993. Mostly over the phone. I was in Waltham MA and he was in Connecticut. He was always a pleasure to work with and fun to be with at social events.
Dave Hoops
May 29, 2009
Hi Robert, I remember you from years ago at Saint Aidan's School. You were a good kid and as years went by you grew into great husband and father. You will never be forgotten by your old classmates. Peace to you and your family.
PAMELA TAYLOR
April 8, 2009
Time passes but thoughts and memories of Bob continue to this day.
Bob was a friend first, then co-worker.
I remember his lust for life and love of music. I choose to honor him not only on 9/11 but especially on his birthday coming up in May.
I want his kids to know that Bob was an awesome and cool person who won many people over with his great personality and beautiful eyes.
Doug Abraham
February 28, 2008
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Kristine
October 13, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vane. We will always remember.
TIM BAIERWALTER
August 27, 2006
IT'S BEEN ALMOST FIVE YEARS SINCE THE TRAGEDY.WE ALL LOVE YOU,MISS YOU,AND THINK ABOUT YOU ESPECIALLY OUR YOUNGIN' DAYS MAN DID WE HAVE FUN.SEE YA UP THERE SOMEDAY.
P Tabbernor
August 21, 2006
In memory....
Maria Falconer
September 11, 2003
Laura,
You and your family are in our nation's thoughts daily. I hope that you find strength and courage with every day that passes.
Billy
September 16, 2002
Laura,
You and your family are in my prayers.
-Billy
Kevin C
September 16, 2002
I'm a friend of Robert's niece. As a friend, I wanted to pay my respects and let you know that even people who didn't know him, miss him; the words from his friends, family, and co-workers, describe him as a wonderful, caring person - not surprising. You're all in our thoughts. God bless-
steve byrne
September 12, 2002
I read Bob Danielson's entry describing Bob' lenghty conversations...many times , especially on a Fri aftn it was me on the other end of the line . The last time conversation we had was about our kids. He was foremost a friend and a pleasure to know. I'll always remember his enthusiasm, spirit, and his love music ..I'll miss you always. Steve
Kathleen Sayre
September 12, 2002
To Laura and Family,
Please know that you, your kids, as well as Bob, are in our thoughts and prayers. We will never forget you, your family or him. Love, kgs
Angie & Tony Clement
August 22, 2002
We did not know you but we will never for get you or what happened to you!!! May God Bless you and watch over those that you left behind. Rest in his loving peace forever more..........
Dick Farley
May 9, 2002
Bob and I worked together for over 20 years. During that time, we became more than just co-workers. Bob was a good friend to everyone that knew him. He was highly respected for his sense of fair play, his honesty, and his willingness to help whenever asked.
Bob will be surely missed. His like will not be seen again.
Monica Hayes
May 8, 2002
While I worked with Bob for 15 years, he was my friend before being my co-worker. He was the smartest person I ever met and he was always willing to patiently impart his knowledge. He made me laugh more often than I can remember. He'll always be "cosmic" Bob!
Angie Campbell
April 22, 2002
I did not know anyone who passed away on 9/11/01, but I have hurt for all of the families that have had one of their members taken away from them. May God Bless you and the family and friends that you left behind. Rest in peace.
Bob Danielson
March 16, 2002
Bob was my next door neighbor at FM Globals Norwalk office and as such, I got to know and love his whit, intellect and above all, his laugh. Bob was always late to arrive in the office and late to leave. Frequently I would first notice he was in when I heard him pacing his office as he gave someone of the other end of the phone a lengthy and detailed account of the insurance industry, trends and how policies and underwriting worked. Of all the years I knew him, I never saw him seated and on the phone at the same time. Walking and talking went together for Bob. We miss him in Norwalk, and always will. There is a void that can never be filled, but I will remember forever the years that we knew each other and the many discussions we had. My deepest symphonies to his family.
kathi curioli
March 12, 2002
Laura: God Bless you and your family, bob will always be with you, and he would want you to go on and enjoy life because you know as well as I know we will all meet again.
Love Kathi
Barbara Hall
March 7, 2002
Today, tomorrow and always, we will NEVER forget you. The Baierwalter cousins in New Jersey pray for you every day. We love you all!
Teresa Jahn
January 9, 2002
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Paulette Griffin
January 1, 2002
As a native New Yorker & American, I am deeply affected by this horrific tragedy. Although, I didn't know Bob personally, it is apparent by his picture and other entries, that he truly loved his family and lived a happy life. I hope that in time, those close to him can cherish their special moments as the healing continues. May Bob rest in peace.
rachel purcell
December 7, 2001
My thoughts and prayers are with your family, especially through this holiday season. God Bless
IRENE STAPINSKI
December 4, 2001
GOD BLESS ROBERT J. BAIERWALTER AND
MAY HE REST IN PEACE.GOD BLESS HIS
FAMILY AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA
AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01
Maria Tornatore
November 19, 2001
I was so saddened upon hearing of Bob's passing. He was my son's t-ball coach and although I didn't know him too well, I saw what a devoted family man he was. My prayers are with his family.
Linda Willmott
October 17, 2001
I worked with Bob for 10 years. He had the "sunniest" disposition of any one I have ever met. He will be truly missed by all of his family and friends.
Kim Yearsley
October 17, 2001
To the Baierwalter Family,
Our thoughts & prayers are with you.
With love from the many friends of Rich Baierwalter at Atlantic Mutual.
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