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William Dimmling Obituary
When William Dimmling was 18, his father, a butcher who had emigrated from Germany, died suddenly, thrusting the teenager into adulthood. As the new head of the household, he sold the business, taught his mother to drive, and became a role model for his brother, Rudy.
While a seriousness fell over Mr. Dimmling and deepened his work ethic, his father's death did not make him unduly sober. Quite the opposite. It taught him to seize each day joyfully, because the future could only be planned, not presumed.
He brought that approach to obstacles at work and at home. He would let loose that smile, clap his arm around you and say, "We'll get through this!"
Mr. Dimmling could persuade executives around the world to cooperate on joint financial reporting systems, like the one he finished that last weekend for Marsh Inc. He and his wife, Leslie, had one son, Gregory, but even though infertility treatments and then adoption snafus intervened, Mr. Dimmling, a doting dad if ever there was one, never doubted that their family would grow. And indeed they got through it, triumphantly bringing Nicholas to their Garden City, N.Y., home from Russia six years ago.
Mr. Dimmling, 47, was determined, but sometimes had a hard time letting go. Perfection was critical, no matter how small the task. Did you know there was a right way to tie the knot on newspaper-recycling bundles?
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Daniel Avrin
September 12, 2023
Rest in Peace Mr. Dimmling. May your memory be a blessing.
Rachel DeLaRosa
September 11, 2023
I remember Bill. I worked with him at Ogden Corporation @2Penn Plaza NYC. A very kind, professional gentleman. I remember I had roses delivered that were impressive. Bill saidwhoever bought you those roses, marry him. I did and we have 2 beautiful boys who are now young adults. Rest Bill. I’ll remember you today.
Susan Klein Firestone
September 11, 2023
William and I were classmates from P.S. 115 through high school. He was always kind, had a great smile and someone who I remember with great fondness.
James Leighton
September 9, 2021
Thinking of you Bill on this 20 year anniversary. You are missed and will always be remembered .
Our fondest of memories. James and Chuck
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Cindy Roe
September 7, 2021
Remembering William on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
September 12, 2017
Bill will always be with us. A great man. An honest guy who deserved so much more. james and chuck
September 11, 2017
You will always be remembered in our hearts.
September 11, 2017
You'll always be remembered in our hearts.
September 11, 2016
I was watching the ceremony this morning and for the first time heard his name. My tears became even harder. I don't know if we are related, but it made today even harder. There is no way I can understand your grief, but I have an even heavier heart today. May God Bless you and your family.
Sincerely,
John Dimling
Daniel Avrin
September 11, 2015
I work for TSA at Denver International Airport and my daily job is to make sure another 9/11 never happens. On this Day of Remembrance/Service 2015, I am wearing a laminated card with the name William John Dimmling on it to commemorate and remember all the victims of this unspeakable act through the remembrance of the life of this one individual. My condolences go out to Mr. Dimmling's family, friends and colleagues. We will never forget.
September 11, 2014
You are remembered, today and always. May God bless your family with peace
Ashlee L
September 29, 2011
When 9/11 happened I was so young, I can't remember it because I was only three.My teachers tell us about the day 9/11 happened.Everytime I hear about it a get really sad.This year was the 10th anniversary of 9/11 and our school wanted to do something for everyone who got hurt, died during the 9/11. Our school decided to have a balloon release, so everybody in the school got either a red, white, or blue balloon and we all let them go at the same time! I am really glad we did that. We also did one more thing my science class went out side in front of the school and planted a iris. Before we planted them we learned about 9/11 and wrote down someones name on a peace of paper that died during 9/11 and wrapped the paper around the seed and planted it.After that we had a moment of silence. I just thought William J. Dimmling would have liked it if people did something for the rememberence of 9/11.
Rudy
September 17, 2011
As a kid I always looked up to you. You were my hero when I was younger and I wanted to be so much like my big brother. I remember the nights we laid in bed talking about the events of the day. I remember when you got your driver’s license and I was the first one you took for a ride. When dad died so young, you filled his shoes and became the man of the house which included teaching me right from wrong. I remember all the good times we had together as we got older – golfing, family BBQs, being vendors at Shea Stadium, sharing stories of coaching our kids, watching Giant football games, and fishing trips. There’s so much I can say and write about, but it will fill up too many pages. So I’ll leave it with I love you and miss you and someday we will be together again.
John Fougner
September 12, 2011
Mr Bill- How lucky I was to come across your path! Others here have described you so well. You were many things but I always admired how nuch you cared- about everything!
From your work at Andersen to listening to me on various station platforms throughout the years! Your caring meant much to me. Thank you.
David Jacobson
September 11, 2011
I can see William in my mind spinning athletically around a pick set for him at the top of the key by Larry Garshofsky. Will caught my entire team off guard and I haven't enjoyed losing a basketball game as much ever since. We were in different classes in the SPE program at JHS 172 Queens. We were not close- we were acquaintances with mutual friends yet I remember him vividly, even for having known him such a short period of time. His spirit shined with a joyful enthusiasm. He was kind and accepting when others were not. William did not merely smile... he glowed- and had a look in his eyes that made everyone feel like he was always genuinely glad to see them. The gracious, loving words and remembrances on these pages confirm that there is less light in the world without him.
James Leighton
September 11, 2011
Bill. Thinking about you today and remembering that you were a truely decent and fair person of great integrity and a loving father and husband. People who met Bill were lucky people
Love James Chuck and the boys.
Nancy Beeck
September 11, 2011
On this, the 10th anniversary of the attack, I am still thinking of Bill and his family. He was a wonderful person to work with and truly had one of the best life/work perspectives of anyone I've ever met. My thoughts and prayers are as always with his family.
Brian Tracey
September 11, 2011
Bill was my one of my best friends and I miss him a great deal. I think about him often and like to remember him for his sense of humor, his love of family and his warm heart.
On that tragic day, when I heard about the plane hitting the WTC, all I could think of was Bill. He loved the towers and often spoke of the fabulous view from his office. That was Bill. He loved life and looked for the good in all things.
That day, when we visited his family, we could only hope that his persistence would bring him home to all of us but that was not to be. He and I often talked about being able to spend more time together when we got older and retired. Unfortunately that will never happen in life but I always have the sense that he is with me (and us) and looking over us.
Bill was a great friend, a loving husband and father and the type of person that was admired by all. He was taken from us way too early but I prefer to believe that God had another more important plan for Bill - and that we will meet in the future and spend that time together - in a much better place.
On this the 10th anniversary of Bill's death, I will think of all the good times we had together. I will also continue to pray for his family and friends who miss him dearly.
May God Bless Bill
Bob Busse
May 2, 2011
Bill was my first cousin but in many ways he was much more. He was like a big brother. He was someone I admired and looked up to as a kid and as a grown man. If there is one thing that I will never forget it was the laughter. When we got together we would have so much fun and laugh so hard we would be in tears. When you were with Bill or Billy as I called him, you knew you were in the company of a special person. I have many memories of Bill as a kid and as a man who loved his family and cared about everyone he met. His picture is hanging over my dresser. I think of him every day.
I miss you Billy.
mary bachowski
May 1, 2011
Dear Leslie, Greg and Nick,
I remember the day the Twin Towers were attacked like it was yesterday. I had the horrific task to tell both Leslie and our neighbor and friend, Sally, what had just happened. Sally lost her brother and Leslie, her husband and best friend. Bill was a great family man and enjoyed being a Dad to his sons as much as any father I have ever met.He is thought of often and his memory always envokes a smile because Bill was always smiling. His death was a terrible loss for us all. God Bless you,Bill.
Mary Bachowski and Family
june fay
May 1, 2011
What a wonderful testimonial to a much loved and respected man.His memory will live on through his family, friends and those who loved him. God Bless you All.. We Will Never Forget....
Linda Inzucchi
May 1, 2011
I still hold the picture in my mind of Bill and Rudy at my son's Communion party, looking out over the golf course. He looked so happy and pleased to be in the company of family. Bill was indeed something special. When his father died, he really did take the lead in guiding his mom through that rough time, and he never stopped looking after her. He was her anchor and a great comfort to his whole family. He continues to be missed by all of us. Leslie, you are an inspiration. He would be very, very proud of you and the boys.
Karen Presdorf
May 1, 2011
I met Bill and Leslie at a special time in our lives--we were both adopting children in Russia. It was an intense time and I enjoyed meeting and spending time with Bill and Leslie. We have stayed in touch through the years and I know the loss has been great for the family. I admire Leslie for what a great job she has done with her sons and carrying on in Bills absence--he would be—and is proud.
July 18, 2010
Bill was my brother-in-law, but, more like a brother to me. He was a straight, moral and self-motivated guy. Even though his dad had died, Bill obtained straight A's at Queens college and quickly rose up the corporate accounting ranks. I used to love hearing him tell stories of his international travels. But, Bill was not all work. He was a great family man and an avid sports player. I felt very comfortable with Bill taking care of my sister. The loss of him my life will forever leave a viod in my soul. Stuart Barnum
Mark Bowler
December 26, 2009
It's been over eight years now but I still think of and speak of Bill often.I worked at State Street,and Bill was my client.We tried to get things going in Dublin when the IFSC just started.Work still brings me to Dublin once in a while.Bill continues to be remembered fondly there.But more than a client Bill was a genuine friend. I will never forget him and that horrible day.I wish his family well.
December 11, 2009
Leslie,
Sorry for your loss and the unfortunate way to have met your acquaintance at the Fox News Hannity show to "Stop the Terrorists' Trial From Coming To NYC".
Warmest personal regards,
E. Betsy Parks
sister of Robert Emmett Parks Jr.
1WTC/105/CantorFitzgerald
Doug Abraham
June 3, 2009
Happy Biray!!!
Kristine
October 30, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
September 26, 2006
In memory....
Lisa Lattanzi
September 11, 2006
Today I remember a man I never knew. At the one year anniversary of 9/11 our church made crosses to be placed all around as a tribute to those whom lost there life. The tribute was kept up for one month. Everyone begain to wonder where we would place all the crosses we had made... We decided to give them to anyone who wanted one. All the crosses were given out; I was lucky enough to pick Mr. William J. Dimmling. I had just had a son named William. We proudly have the cross in out back yard to remind us of the horrible day that changed america and this man I never knew. Today I have thought about him and I really wanted you to know he is thought about often in our heart.
Wayne Hamburger
August 9, 2006
I just learned recently that Willie (that's how I knew him) had died in the terrible 9/11 attack on WTC. Willie and I went to school together at PS 115, JHS 172 and Van Buren High. We were friends and rivals. We played ball together - softball, football, basketball - and spent many an after-school afternoon competing on 267th Street or 79th Avenue in Queens. We even shared girl friends in junior high! I will always remember his competitive spirit. My prayers and feelings of compassion go out to his widow and children. What a terrible loss.
Bob McDade
November 5, 2002
When I moved to Queens from Brooklyn in 1966, "Willy" was one of the first new friends that I meet. Even back then he was able to welcome people into his life and always made them feel wanted. He was a big part of my life growing up and through adulthood. I miss him very much. I had the privilage and honor of being able to call him my friend for over 35 years. It wasn't long enough. God bless Willy.
Elizabeth Hennessy
October 31, 2002
I worked with Bill at AIG for 5 years and came to know him as a friend as well as a boss. He was very hard-working and expected the best from everyone who worked for him and was also was truly understanding of home and family life. Even if we did not have a lot of contact over some of the past few years, I always knew I could call or write and pick-up where we left off ...I will miss him.
Louis Serrapica
October 29, 2002
Bill was a wonderful friend who always seemed to be on the giving end of what ever he did. Gregory and my son Anthony, are avid baseball players, that seemed to bring Bill and myself together. Bill and Leslie were such fun to go out with. They were such a great couple. May God Bless you my friend, and you are always in my prayers...Lou.
Linda Nugent
October 17, 2002
Bill was my cousin and I mourn his loss daily. He was giving and loving,gentle and strong and I wish I had taken the time to know that more! He was always available for the family and I hope I will always keep that as a lesson from him. He is always with me and will be forever missed.
Orla Horn
October 14, 2002
Bill was my boss in AIG for 5 years. He was a wonderful man - full of energy, vision, commitment and resourcefulness. He was also an extremely kind and caring man - who loved his family more than anything else in the world. He had a happy disposition and always managed to overcome adversity. I'm sure all of these good traits will continue to be felt by his family and friends in the years to come as they'll always know that Bill made a difference...Our world is a better place because of him. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family. May he Rest In Peace.
Sharon Toutant
September 16, 2002
Each member of my church will be praying for one of the victims of 9/11 and their loved ones. I received the name of William Dimmling. When I found his profile and first met his eyes - the enormity of the loss his family feels became completely personal. This tender valued soul will be in my prayers as will his wife and child. My prayers and love will hopefully be some comfort to them.
Joseph Rizzo
September 16, 2002
I worked with Bill at Ogden. He was a solid and cheerful guy, despite the hectic environment. I don't have many fond memories of those times, except those of Bill. I will remember and try emulate his professionalism and demeanor in my own career.
Michele Russo
September 13, 2002
I worked at AIG when Bill was there. I was a secretary and he was "A BOSS". Not mine, but one that I dealt with everyday. At the time, I was very young, with an attitude and perspective of a young person. Too young to understand what real life was all about. Too young to recongnize and appreciate people like Bill. But as an adult, before this terrible ordeal, I grew up and realized that there were a lot of good people that I've come across in my life during that time and yes, one of them was Bill. When I found out he was one that perished, My heart sunk. What a good man. He is one of sevearl that I knew who perished, but I knew him the least, and the strange thing is I dreamt of him sooooo vividly recently. We were at work, a different place than AIG and when I saw him I ran up and said, "Mr. Dimmling, you are okay!" I remember feeling so surprised and happy that he remembered me and then I saw his big smile, and felt him grab me and give me a big hug and say, "yes I am okay". And that was it. I truly believe that dream, wasn't a dream. That he was yet again, kind enough to do good for someone like me who needed a message. The message that confirmed that everyone who was lost, IS OKAY. I Wish the Best for the Dimmling family and send my most heart felt condlences to you all.
Michael Yakim
September 12, 2002
Although I did not know Mr. Dimmling,our lives crossed on 11 Sept. 2002. At work we were asked to wear the name of someone who perished on 9/11. After recieving my name, I got on the computer and tried to find out more about this man. At 8:46 we took a moment for prayer/reflection, Mr. Dimmling and his family were and will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Diane Esposito
September 10, 2002
I went to H.S. with Bill and have such fond memories of him. He sat behind me in Math class and had a special greeting for me each day. He always had a broad smile.
My prayers for him and his loved ones. May peace find all of you.
Sharon Gelzer-Adler
August 3, 2002
I did not know Bill personally but am a former coworker of Leslie's and my heart and prayers are with her and her family.
Angie Campbell
April 25, 2002
May God Bless you and the family and friends that you left behind on 9/11/01. Rest in his loving peace forever more.
Nancy Beeck
March 8, 2002
I had the pleasure of working with Bill - his energy and enthusiasm was boundless. He will be missed. My deepest sympathies to his family.
January 11, 2002
MAY THE LORD BLESS WILLIAM J.DIMMLING AND MAY HE REST IN PEACE
WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS
HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS
AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..AMEN
Teresa Jahn
January 4, 2002
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Jason Rauch
December 30, 2001
I went to Junior High School & High School with Bill. I find it easy to remember him back in those good old days. My heart felt thoughts and sympathy go out to his family. Bill touched many lives and will never be forgotten.
leslie miller
November 2, 2001
I just want you to know that, all over the country, people care. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Thomas Etter
October 20, 2001
I worked with Bill at Ogden. He was a wonderful man and friend. My deepest sympathies to his family and friends. I will remember him in my prayers.
Charlene Frank
October 18, 2001
My heartfelt sympathies to the family of this kind man, my former colleague/client at Ogden. My heart is with you.
Charlene Frank
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