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Doris Eng Obituary
Long after her friends had left the nest and set up homes of their own, Doris Eng was still sharing an apartment in Flushing, Queens, with her mother, Sui-Kam Eng. Doris, club manager for Windows on the World on the 107th floor of 1 World Trade Center, was single-minded in her devotion to her mother, a garment worker whose husband died last year. "Everything she did was for my mom," her younger brother, Jerry, 27, said in a telephone interview as his mother sobbed in the background. "She cared about other people more than herself."
Doris was also devoted to her work. A graduate of New York University, she had worked in some of the city's finest establishments — Le Cirque, the Mayfair Hotel and the Warwick Hotel — but her job at Windows was, he said, a dream come true. She worked from 6 a.m. until 5 p.m., and sometimes came in on the weekends.
A network administrator for the City Council, Jerry was on his way to work last Tuesday when he saw the first plane hit. He tried to make his way into the building to rescue his sister but was rebuffed by the police. "That's the hardest part," he said. "I witnessed everything happen."
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September 13, 2022
I always knew I had some semblance of connection to the disaster when I first learned of a family friend who passed in it. Surprised it took nearly 20 years to learn your name. Once I did I knew I had to research everything I possibly could and I am so glad I did. Reading tributes, obituaries, and all these comments, Doris sounds like such an amazing, selfless soul. Something the world desperately needs and was unfortunately taken by unspeakable evil. I hope wherever you are now is beautiful.
Sorry you couldn't make it to Vermont to see us. Maybe we'll finally get to meet up in another lifetime.
Cindy Roe
September 11, 2021
Remembering Doris on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
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September 10, 2021
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September 22, 2018
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Paul Hunt
September 22, 2018
Dear family of Doris:
My brother Mark never met her but he has created a tribute to your daughter and sister. But he is a painter. He found her photo haunting and painted it that way. He has made hundreds of paintings in his life but I always found the one he painted of Doris to be his best. It hangs in my entryway and visitors always comment on it.
I just wanted you to know that her image continues to touch people these many years and many miles distant from when and where she graced the Earth.
Very truly,
Paul
James Lehman
April 22, 2013
To the family and friends of Doris,
I attended school with Doris in NYU's Hotel & Restaurant program. Along with her friend Jenny, the three of us were responsible for preparing a meal in our Science of Food class. Our efforts to make New Orleans-style food went much better through her contributions than mine, as I had little actual food experience to draw upon. Doris had good humor throughout our task, from everything starting from our food search in the supermarket to service. She was a good teammate for me to have for the task at hand.
To Doris:
I've always felt saddened that one of my classmates was in the unfortunate situation that you found herself in on 9/11, but know that you are not forgotten. I visited the Memorial yesterday, and sought out your panel, to honor the life that you had lead.
God bless you, Doris.
March 30, 2012
i have know doris from my area in flushing she was the very nice person too talk to i will always miss her she has a great heart
Lily Y
September 11, 2011
Doris… I was working today at the memorial site and I saw your name etched on the North Pool. You are missed!!! The little time that we have known each other, you made such a huge impact. I will always remember your kindness, sincerity, smile and sense of humor. Thank you for letting me have the opportunity to be a friend. God Bless You!!!
Becky Canterbury
September 10, 2011
Honoring Doris Suk-Yuen Eng on my facebook page today 9/11/11
Alisa Hurt
September 9, 2011
I worked with Doris in my first job in NYC and remember her kindness, sweet smile and soul and her sense of fun. One of my fondest memories is being out with Doris one night after a long day at the Mayfair. What a special person that even though I wish I had gotten to know her even better is still remembered and still such a loss for her family, friends and anyone that even knew her briefly. Ten years later and I just want to say to her family and close friends may your loss get easier with each year that goes by. God Bless......She will never be forgotten........
Michael Plowman
September 6, 2011
You are greatly missed.
Michael Plowman
KK
September 4, 2011
We were there with you
remember?
look at us and smile
we remember!
September 4, 2011
Best laugh, sweetest dimple, beautiful spirit...
Blessed I was to have you as a manager and know you as a friend.
Kristina
January 29, 2011
never met you doris. my heart goes to you and your family. r i p
Susan Anderson
September 11, 2010
I will never forget how sweet and loving Doris was to me...we connected about both losing our fathers and her sense of strength and hope truly inspired me. What an amazing spirit!
Kristina Leath-Malin
January 7, 2010
You made me laugh, smile and almost like country music. I was lucky enough to have you as a boss at the US Open and Windows on the World. I was even luckier to have you as a friend.
I miss you my friend.
Kristina
Doug Abraham
July 14, 2009
Death, be not proud
Death, be not proud, though some have called thee
Mighty and dreadful, for thou art not so;
For those whom thou think'st thou dost overthrow
Die not, poor Death, nor yet canst thou kill me.
From rest and sleep, which but thy pictures be,
Much pleasure; then from thee much more must flow,
And soonest our best men with thee do go,
Rest of their bones, and soul's delivery.
Thou art slave to fate, chance, kings, and desperate men,
And dost with poison, war, and sickness dwell,
And poppy or charms can make us sleep as well
And better than thy stroke; why swell'st thou then?
One short sleep past, we wake eternally
And death shall be no more; Death, thou shalt die.
By John Donne
The Poetry Foundation
Tiana
September 16, 2008
Rest in Peace, Doris. I am sure God welcomed your beautiful soul with open arms. I'm sure you are watching over your family and especially your heartbroken mother, and I hope they know that one day you will all be together again. God bless!
Kristine
November 2, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
October 2, 2006
In memory....
Debby Lau
March 9, 2005
Doris, you are an amazing woman. You told me once to live each day like it was your last. Working is just a part of your life, don't let it be your whole life. There is always room to have fun and enjoy life. I remember your stories from Europe. How you ate a burger and didn't realize that it was horse meat. How you chased down a guy who stole your purse and got it back. You said you had so much fun and it was very beautiful over there. You told me I should go there one day. And I did. For the past three years, I always took a side trip to Paris. Each year I visited the Notre-Dame to light a candle for you. Everytime when I'm in the cathedral, I think about you being in it years ago: where you walked, what you touched, what you heard, what you saw, what you smelt. Hoping that I'm experiencing the same thing you did. You are an amazing woman and cousin. I miss you very much.
Ann Keane
September 11, 2004
Hi Doris,
Just checking in to say hello. I think of you often and take you with me everywhere I go. My Aunt bought me a mercy band with your name on it and I never take it off. I figure you can live vicariously through me. Today was a little difficult for me...especially when they read your name and I saw your photo. Robin and I sang Happy Birthday to you last month. I hope you were laughing! Watch out for us we folk down here on earth. You are very loved and truely missed! "Love is higher than a mountain, Love is thicker than water." for my Bee Gees buddy! Love ya and miss you more, Ann Marie
Mary M.
September 11, 2003
I heard a story today on the radio about Doris. She seemed like a remarkable woman. I searched the internet to find anything about her - and came to this site. From everything I have read - she truly was. God bless her and give her family peace on this 2nd anniversary.
Susan Anderson
September 11, 2003
I was fortunate enough to work with Doris at Windows and she is always in my thoughts. We did not work closely together and did not become best friends but she touched my life greatly in the short time I knew her. You see, when Doris' father died about a year before the attack, we found a connection. My father died when I was 12 and I could see the pain she was going through. We had deep, spiritual conversations and I discovered the enormity of Doris' heart. She was determined to be at her mother's side to give her strength for as long as it would take. I was so inspired by her deep faith and unwavering resolve. I felt stronger after talking to Doris. She had such a wonderful way of making everyone around her feel accepted and loved. I wish I had spent more time with Doris and I will forever miss her loving smile.
J Ng
September 11, 2003
We'll NEVER forget.
God bless.
Monica Carraretto
July 16, 2003
Almost two years later I still think of her. I used to see Doris almost every day at Windows. I saw her last the day before. As I left the restaurant, she said "I'll see you tomorrow". I will always miss her.
Norene Sullivan
October 18, 2002
I felt compelled to come and write and wonder why it's taken me so long. I've read many articles about Doris and although I didn't know her, I am connected to her. You see, my brother, Thomas G Sullivan, was with Doris when this happened. He was at a weekly breakfast meeting with Ric Harvey, Patrick Dickinson, Bob Twomey, Bobby Sutcliffe and Mike Pascuma. In one article I read, Doris said she couldn't wait for them to come in to tell them she finally got tickets to see the Producers, a show I know my brother enjoyed. Tommy loved Windows on the World - he loved the people and as well as the place. It makes it slighlty easier to know that he was with people he liked and cared about - and I know that Doris probably felt the same way.
My heartfelt condolences to Doris family - especially her mother and brother - I walk a mile in your shoes and hope there will be better days again.
Peace, Norene Sullivan
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September 11, 2002
May you rest in peace.
Allen Franklin
September 11, 2002
As my wife's maiden name is Eng, I was curious if any Engs were lost on 9/11. As I read some of the other tributes to Doris, I can see what a tragic loss this is. My sympathies to Doris's family and friends...
Terri Hall
September 11, 2002
To the Family of Doris Eng,
Today is the one year anniversary of that terrible day in September. This morning I read Doris's name and rang the Freedom Bell in honor of her. I came to this website to get to know more about her. Doris seemed to have touched many lives through her work and her devotion to family. After all, that is what it is all about anyway.
I want you to know that my husband, who has been in the US Navy for 19 years, will be leaving in a few weeks for a six month deployment to fight this war on terrorism. My children and I will miss him while he is gone but we know exactly why he needs to go.
We will think of Doris and all the other souls that were silenced. God Bless America.
Julie Chan
September 11, 2002
I love Doris like a younger sister. Remembering her incredible spirit, vitality, kindness, love, and strength is my constant beacon to becoming a better person. One year later, the loss is still equally as profound.
Alyce Conrad
September 8, 2002
Doris lit up a room when she entered. She was just one of those sunny, beautiful people who could do that. Her teachers, friends, and others who knew her at New York University, where she earned her Bachelor's degree in Food & Hotel Management in 1996, were proud of her accomplishments -- she'd done so well for herself! We were devastated when we learned she perished on 9/11, at work at her dream job at Windows on the World. Our heartfelt sympathies to her family. We won't forget Doris.
Alyce Conrad, Department Administrator, Nutrition & Food Studies, NYU
Mary
August 2, 2002
I remember reading the story in the paper and wondering how her family would cope with the loss. My heart goes out to you. God bless you! I have passed by the empty hole many times traveling along the West side but I have never stopped to visit the site. Each time I pass, I feel such sorrow in my soul. I cannot imagine what the families must feel like. You are in my prayers.
Julie H
May 29, 2002
I was friends with Doris in junior high school and am saddened to know that she is no longer with us.
My condolences go out to her family and friends.
Angie Campbell
April 25, 2002
I am so sorry that so many wonderful people were taken away from their family and friends on 9/11/01. May you rest in peace forever and ever.
Rick Kelly
March 10, 2002
Doris
You were one cool lady to work for/with. You never took your job too seriously to not treat me like a person, but at the same time never showed disrespect for our employer, Windows. I know there were dreams beyond the restaurant world that you held and I'm absolutely sure you would have reached them if it were not for these animals. But for the grace of God, it could of been any of us, instead you, and Jan and Christine, and the other loyal Windows employees died for only doing your jobs. There is no honor or bravery in committing suicide and killing innocent people - the bravest thing is to live your life with honor and respect for not only yourself, but those around you.
We Love you Doris
You made an impression on all of us.
Rick Kelly
Former Bartender W.O.W.
Jenny Chan Lim
January 15, 2002
Dear All - I wish I've found this site sooner. I am so touched by all the wonderful things you've all have written...Doris was my best friend in college. I still remember the first day we met and quickly became best of friends. It was the summer of 1993 at NYU. We were taking a prep course before our freshman year started. I was shy and nervous about college and making new friends. I recall Doris saying hi to me first while we were in the ladies room primping ourselves. Basically, you can say we were inseparable at "hello". We soon learn that we were majoring in the same degree - Hotel & Restaurant Management and we made sure we would take the same classes throughout our four years at NYU. It was never a dull moment with Doris. When we finally finished college, we headed our separate ways. I, into the hotel industry while Doris into the restaurant business. We soon found ourselves very busy with our careers and our personal lives that we found little time to "hang". We would always have an excuse. We did see each other a few times and corresponded during the holidays, but it was not same. That will forever be my biggest regret - not having spent enough time with my best friend from college while she was still with us. The last time I saw Doris was on June 17, 2000; the day of my wedding reception. I will forever treasure those last moments with her and the pictures of us together - happy. And, that's the way I will always remember her.
Doris - I want you to know that you have touched my life, and the lives of many. I love you and miss you. You will always be close to my heart. Your friend forever, Jenny
Anonymous
January 15, 2002
DEAR GOD BLESS DORIS SUK-YUEN ENG AND MAY SHE REST IN PEACE WITH GOD
AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HER MOTHER
AND THE REST OF HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS ..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND MAY
WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..AMEN
This is Doris at Windows on the World
Ann Keane
January 13, 2002
I worked with Doris at the Mayfair Hotel on 65th street in NYC. Since then we have kept in touch and remained friends. I am so touched by everything that you have all written for Doris. She was a very special person. I think everyone who knew Doris would agree with me. Doris travelled to my wedding in Massachusetts and my baby shower. She has been to my home for barbeques and I have gone to see her at Windows on the World. There is a group of us from the Mayfair who have remained close and we are all feeling this loss. I wish I had something to say to all of you reading this that would help you to understand how much we all loved Doris. She was always a kind and thoughtful person. She had a great laugh and a beautiful smile. Doris was always ready to help anyone. She was a great friend and a boss who we all respected. She was one of the people who on that day was calling fire command to receive instructions so that she could lead her co-workers and patrons to safety. I watched from my window in horror as her building collapsed. My husband, a NYPD detective, was there that day. I kept hoping that he would find her, that anyone would find her. Her brother was also there that morning. He worked close by. Doris was buried on Saturday, January 12th, 2002. Her remains were found. There is some closure now for us all but she will never be forgotten. My heart goes out to all of you who lost someone, especially, Mrs. Eng, Jerry, and Danny.
james davis
January 7, 2002
doris,although we never met i was saddened by your loss,i read the story about you and how dedicated you were to family and you work,i truly believe the world lost someone very unique,you were caring,respectfull,decent,a beautifull person,i truly believe that we have lost someone special,you are a jewel in heaven.
Teresa Jahn
January 3, 2002
We are deeply sorry for your loss of Doris. May her kindness, her life and love continue living in those who love her. Our hearts cry with you in your loss of Doris.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Domini Graham Hunt
December 26, 2001
My deepest condolences to the Eng family. I first learned of Doris Suk-Yuen Eng when I purchased a mercy bracelet in her name. Since that day, I have sought to learn more about about the woman whose memory I carry with me everyday. The tributes about her devotion to her mother, brother, friends and colleagues, and her highly developed work ethic are traits I gladly share with those who ask me about Doris. I sincerely hope the Eng family knows how proud we all are not only of Doris's accomplishments in life, but of her ultimate sacrifice, as well. Doris, as well as all the other victims, died to preserve our liberties and way of life. My bracelet reminds me everyday of my reciprocal obligation never to disparage her memory and what she gave up for me and others by compromising my beliefs and freedom. She is a hero to me and to all Americans. Although I never knew her, I am very proud to carry and share her memory wherever I go.
Cynthia
December 11, 2001
I never met Doris, but have seen her picture all over the city on the MISSING posters. I have been really haunted and deeply upset by her story. I read in a recent magazine article that she lived in a one-bedroom apartment with her mom, and gave her mom the bedroom while she slept on the couch so her mom would be comfortable. She was obviously a caring, hard-working, beautiful person, and it tears me up that her life was taken from her so suddenly - like all the victims on September 11th. My heart and prayers go out to the Eng family, and to Doris' friends. Even people like me who never met Doris have been deeply touched by her. God Bless.
Johnny Eng
December 5, 2001
To The Doris Eng Family:
I came across Doris' picture at the Lexington Armory on 26th Street in September. From the same last name I knew our ancestors most likely came from the same province. Later as I read about her I understood exactly what her brother Jerry was saying about Doris. Subsequently I read how Doris acted bravely and tried to save the guests in Windows on the World on that fateful morning. I have never met Doris before, but I was touched so much in my heart. Even to this day when I think about the people who were lost, Doris' name would always be in my mind. To the Doris Family, please accept my deepest condolence. Your daughter Suk-Yuen is a heroine in our heart. God Bless.
KK Lester
November 6, 2001
I am sorry.
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