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Jacqueline Young, known as Jakki, hated noise. She hated it so much that she moved to Staten Island, even though she had no relatives there, for some quiet. Raised in South Carolina, Ms. Young, 37, who worked for Marsh & McLennan, the consulting firm, often talked about moving out of the city altogether and searched for jobs in other states.
"She wanted to be where life was at a slower pace, where it was not so hectic all the time," said her mother, LaBertha McKenly-Williams.
Ms. Young's brother, James McKenly, accompanied her to a job interview in Virginia last year, and when the hotel they were staying in proved too noisy, she insisted they move to another one.
It was about 20 miles away, he said.
Despite her need for quiet, Ms. Young, who was unmarried, often took her nieces and nephews on excursions and loved to dance.
In July, she danced at the wedding of another brother in Brooklyn. "She was so happy for him," Mr. McKenly said.
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Ann Oree
October 29, 2023
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
September 11, 2023
Jakki you are never forgotten. You are remembered and your life celebrated. May those hurting from your absence find peace and comfort in the memories of times shared. Rest in peace
Laura Matusz
September 9, 2022
Jakki ~ as I sit here so many years after you´re gone I can still remember our almost daily laughs ~ one´s that brought us to tears ~ I miss them and you ~ I remember when you told me you were leaving our Firm to head to M&M in the WTC I was devastated, so utterly sad as our friendship was going to be a bit more distant, our daily talks would slow to a crawl but that wouldn´t change how I felt about you and the amazing friendship we shared ~ ~ I relive that fateful day in my head all the time ~ you my angel were taken away from me, from your family and loved ones WAY too soon ~ I hold you forever in my heart and prayers and cherish all we shared! I will see you again and share our next hug and laughter ! Miss you madly to my Jaaaakkkii as I would call you, lots of love and peace angel
ALLEENE PERRY
September 12, 2019
I want her family and friends to she was a shining star in our concert outings. You are missed. Rest in peace!
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Peggy Childers
September 11, 2019
To the family and friends of Jacqueline Young:
Please know that Jakki will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not allow those we lost on 9/11 be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you.
Diane
June 21, 2019
Dear Gina, the rest of the Young family and friends,
Jacqueline's presence has certainly been missed. May your family draw comfort knowing that Jakki is resting peacefully. Looking forward to the day when you are reunited together in a peaceful new world. " Let not your hearts be troubled."
The Kindred Family
October 20, 2018
We send our deep sympathy to your family. Nothing will ever remove the pain of losing someone dearly cared for so may God give you the daily help needed to cope with such a sad loss. Jakki will always be missed and remembered.
Jacqueline Young
September 11, 2018
I did not know you - in fact I'm Canadian - however, we share the same birth year (1964) and the same name, so your death touched me. I visited Ground Zero in 2017 and I searched for and found your name and said a special prayer.
November 20, 2015
Jakki,
We worked together at Josephthal & Co.
120 Broadway. You and I were very close
Today is November 20, 2015 and I was thinking
about you. We lost track of each other.
I had no idea you were gone. I was looking you up so I could send you a Christmas Card.
I can not believe you are gone, We use to have so much fun together during our lunch our.
You thought me so much about Registration while we were at Josephthal & Co. You will call me at home just to chat many times.
God Bless you. I can not believe I just
found out. Feeling very sad. I will always remember you. Until we meet again.
Delia Gonzalez
Cuz with little Marquise
Regina Young
September 11, 2015
Hey Sweetie. I can't believe it's been 14 years already since you left us. And I just noticed the comment I left just 6 short weeks after it happened. I miss you now just as much as I did then. Not a day goes by when I don't think of you. I moved cross country because NYC just wasn't the same without you. I haven't watched much television today because I still can't bear to see all the tributes to you and all the others lost. I love you, Cuz, and always will. I hope you're smiling down on me from heaven as I'm typing this.
Debbie Brennan
June 17, 2014
Me and fiancé visited the 9/11 memorial in March 2014
It was your birthday when we visited, thought family and friends may appreciate the white rose against your name xxx rip
ALLEENE PERRY
March 23, 2014
A Day don't go by I don't think of you!
Nadine
February 21, 2014
Jakki, I did not know you but I know your father who is a lovely man. It was only this morning, for the first time, your father told me about you and I was so saddened! And now, as I walk past the WTC every day to work, I will think about you and keep you in my prayers. May God bless you and your family. You may be gone but never forgotten. I know you're in a better place.
Gretchen
September 11, 2012
We worked for the same company (me in ATL, her in NYC) but spoke several times a week. Finally got to meet in person one year at a company function in NYC. She was as nice in person as in the phone. A real joy to work with. Will always remember. Rest in peace Jakki.
Gail Richardson
September 10, 2011
Sending love and hugs to Jakki's family - such a tragic waste of a beautiful young girl with everything to live for - my heart goes out to you all x
Amy McDonald-Waldron
September 9, 2011
I'm participating in the Remember Me event on Facebook. Since 9/11, I've never stopped thinking about everyone that lost their life that day. Thinking of you, Jakki. Love to your family and friends.
SHERRY BLEVINS
September 9, 2011
I am honoring precious Jakki on 9/11...I am in the Facebook Remember Me.....My prayers are with you today and always...Jakki will never be forgotten....Love, hugs, and prayers...
I WILL BE REMEMBERING JAKKI ON SEPTEMBER 11 AND ALL OTHER DAYS...WITH LOVE ALWAYS TO HER PRECIOUS FAMILY....ANOTHER ANGEL GONE TOO SOON
SHERRY BLEVINS
September 8, 2011
Rebecca Walters
September 2, 2011
I have just started a memorial page on Facebook called Remember Me. Each member, receives the name of someone who died on 9/11. I have just given a member Jakki's name. Your loved one is not forgotten and prayed for.
Debra Antley
September 10, 2010
Jakki I remember the elementary, middle school and high school those were the awesome times of our life its sad that your life ended so quickly truly I was sadden when I recieve the news will always remember the good times
P Tabbernor
April 24, 2007
In remembrance....
Lynn
December 20, 2004
For the dear family of Jakki: I know everyone misses Jakki so much. Keep her memories deep in your heart. God holds out such beautiful promises to comfort you.
Brittini Williams
November 10, 2004
I miss you Jakki. I remember making noise after you told me to stop. I love you Jakki. You will always be in my heart.
Anne Clare
September 11, 2004
May the warm memories
of your dear one . . .
soothe you in this diffcult time,
and help you be at peace.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless!
Diane Lydon
September 17, 2003
We never met, but we spoke on the phone at McKinsey & Co. on several occassions before you left for another job. I was deeply saddened to find you were working in the WTC on that fateful day. May you rest in peace.
Valencia aka Bo_Smiles
September 10, 2003
Jakki/Lyric:
Thinking of you today the eve of the tragic event that unfolded in our Nation 2 years ago tomorrow. Your presence is missed greatly on the Temptation fans websites. To Jakki's family may God Bless you and be with you at your time of need.
Marva Morris
May 29, 2003
To All That Loved her;
I will continue to pray for your loss. I have worked with Marsh McClennen and did not realize how many were lost from that company. I may have talked to Jakki in the past, I don't know...so my heart goes out to you all. Marva Morris.
Lindsey
September 20, 2002
I feel so sorry for the loss you have had.You know she is happy in heaven,I'm sure,but you have to remember she is still in your heart.
Ronna/Marva
September 19, 2002
Just reading all of the wonderful words of encouragement and the memories that folks shared about Jakki and I wanted to pass on a link for you all to come and post at our JAKKI MEMORIAL BOARD set up by one of our board members, Alleene. Here's the link http://www.quicktopic.com/16/H/xWgE7AH4sa7
We also have a TRIBUTE site in memory of Jakki if anyone would like to check it out here's the link for that http://www.angelfire.com/ny5/jakkiyoung/
Jakki aka (LYRIC) was one of our "board members" for The Temptations. She was a BIG FAN of the group and a BIG part of our TEMPTS community. We miss her dearly and will never forget her.... REST in PEACE JAKKI
Steve Farber
September 16, 2002
To Jakki's Family:
For Sept. 11, 2002 my company sponsored the purchase and wearing of memorial pins, each of which came with the name of a 9/11 victim. I randomly selected Jakki and proudly continue to wear her pin every day. I also went to the web to find out whatever I could about her. Interestingly, I found that Jakki grew up in Beaufort, S.C. near Hilton Head, where my family and I visit every year or two. In addition, Jakki was an accountant and so am I and further she worked for Marsh & McClennan, my company's insurance broker. So, it seems that we had a small connection even before I drew her name. It truly is a small world and no doubt it will be an emptier one without Jakki. I hope in some small way this message helps you all through this tremendously difficult time. May you be blessed with fond memories of Jakki and no more saddness, pain or heartache for the rest of your lives.
Thomas Cascaddan
September 12, 2002
Last evening, 9-11-02, myself, wife, family, & friends went to a local church to participate in a candle light vigil. At the church were 3048 small white crosses staked outside in the ground, representing all those lost on 9-11-01. All of us there at the church were asked to remove one or more crosses from the ground until none were left. We then held the crosses along with candles above our heads and observed a moment of silence in remembrance. One of the crosses my wife pulled from the ground had the name of, Jacqueline (Jakki) Young, on it. Although, we didn't know Jacqueline personally, we feel a special connection to her now. Our thoughts & prayers go out to her family. If anyone who reads this knows Jakki's family & thinks they may like this cross, please contact me via email. GOD BLESS
Diana Pinzon
September 11, 2002
Jakki,
I just wanted to let you know that I will always remember your name. I am a junior in high school and everyone at my school is wearing a wrist band with all the names. I have your name, and I will be wearing it for 2 weeks. Even though I don't know you, I feel like I have a connection to you. I read your profile and you like peace and quiet...so do I. I feel like I am getting close to you, even though you are looking down on me. I just want to be sure to let you know you will always be remembered, and for you to look down and don't forget to let all the ones that love you, know your up there watching out for them, making sure they are ok. Jakki, we will NEVER forget your name.
With all my love,
Diana
September 11, 2002
We Remember Them
In the rising of the sun
and in its going down
We Remember Them
In the blowing of the wind
and in the chill of winter
We Remember Them
In the opening of buds
and in the warmth of summer
We Remember Them
When we are weary,
and in need of strength
We Remember Them
When we are lost,
and sick of heart
We Remember Them
When we have joys
we yearn to share
We Remember Them
So long as we live,
they too shall live,
for they are now a part of us,
As We Remember Them
Franklin Duncan
September 10, 2002
Was fortunate to have met polite,low keyed and mannerly Jakki while working for Mckinsey and Company Jakki receives flowers on the job daily my last words to her were "girl what's up you lost a few pounds go easy on those vegetables" Jakki remarked does it show" I said sure," I said I liked the you better the way you were before", she smiled and said "everyone keep saying the same thing".About a month or two prior to the wtc desaster Jakki left mckinsey to further her goals and joined Marsh & mcLennan we never spoke again,Jakki you are surly missed it was a pleasure to have known you owing to the fact that I am all the way from the carribbean,Jamaica yet many citizen of this great country was not being previleged to the golden opertunity of meeting you it's a blessing may you find comfort and peace where ever you are as I know you will with that polite,low keyed and mannerly spirit of yours
Best wishes
Yours truly
Franklin..
Patrick Briggs
September 9, 2002
Jakki,
I did not know you but I know a little more about you now. Our church (All Saints in Pasadena) passed out your rememberance band to me this Sunday.
It puts a human face on this tragedy to see your picture and read a small part of what was your life. I wonder what you think of things down here from where you are now.
I am glad to carry your name around on my wrist for the next three days. I will be reminded over and over that September 11th wasn't just a "9/11" label, but something human in which many other lives like your own were taken.
I pray we find a better way down here. If you're watching, give the ones you knew and a few more of us, a little nudge in the right direction.
May God watch over and work through the lives of those you knew in such a way that this world does become a better place after September 11th.
With Love,
Patrick
May 28, 2002
MAY THE YOUNG SOUL OF JACQUELINE
JAKKI YOUNG AND THE SOULS OF ALL THE FAITHFULLY DEPARTED THROUGH THE MERCY OF GOD REST IN PEACE AMEN.
Carmen Diaz
March 26, 2002
Jakki, I can't believe you're gone. You were such a breath of fresh air and such a kind, beautiful person. My sadness cannot be expressed. I wish blessings and consolation upon your family and friends. I leave those of us left here with this verse:
"Do not stand and tmy grave and weep;
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond's glint on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there, I did not die."
I don't know who wrote this, but I will forever be reminded of you because of it whenever I experience nature's quiet beauty that I now know you loved so much. You are missed, and we will NEVER forget you. Until we meet again,
Love,
Carmen
McKinsey colleague and friend
IRENE
December 7, 2001
GOD BLESS JACQUELINE JAKKI YOUNG
AND MAY SHE REST IN PEACE.GOD BLESS
HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS
AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01
Teresa Jahn
December 2, 2001
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Regina Young
October 24, 2001
Dear Jakki,
This is your "sister" Gina. It's been a little over six weeks since you left us, and I'm trying to accept the fact that you're lost to us forever. I miss you like crazy. Everyday, something; be it a spoken word, a song, a picture, reminds me of you. I see your face in front of me all the time. I still can't believe that you're really gone. I don't understand why you were taken from us, but I just hope that wherever you are, it's a "quiet" place, just like it is down south, with fresh air, green grass, and a garden, with all the pretty flowers that you loved, and the Temptations music playing in the background. I guess I don't need to say how much you meant to me; you knew already. It hurts so much to lose you, but I'm thankful that I had you in my life. Thank you, "sis", for all the joy you brought me. I'm a better person because of you.
Go with god, honey.
I Love You
Gina
Alleene Perry
October 24, 2001
Jakki, We had plans to meet and save our memorabilia of the Temptations this October, even though our plans were changed for us we will meet someday. Until then, I will always remember you.
Cynthia
October 20, 2001
Dear Jakki,
I will always remember the day I met you in person.You were so sweet and wonderful.I will miss your posts on the boards so much.
You gave me such a love for singing and enjoying beautiful written songs of the Temptations.May God bless you.
Cynthia.
Louise Quidort
October 20, 2001
Dear Jacqueline,
I never had the pleasure of meeting you but I read about you in the NY Times and feel a connection to you because I too hate noise. I am so saddened to learn of your death and know you were a gentle soul here on the earth and will be missed greatly by your loved ones.
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