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John Salerno Obituary
"Now that I look back, he wasn't cocky, he was just very sure of himself," Danielle Salerno said of her husband, John S. Salerno Jr., a broker at Cantor Fitzgerald. Back in high school, he was the last person she would have said she wanted to date. He was not shy. Once at a New Year's Eve party, she walked past and he pinched her. When she gave him a how-dare-you look, he said, "You liked that, didn't you?"
They both laughed.
Danielle married Pepe (a childhood nickname, inspired by his superabundance of pep). He was loyal and funny; he was generous; and he knew what he wanted. He wanted a family. Ms. Salerno held off for five years while they were living abroad in London and Tokyo. Now their first child is due in March. "Every night, he'd kiss my belly," Ms. Salerno said.
A few weekends ago, the Salernos, who lived in Westfield, N.J., were in the Hamptons. Someone who knew them well observed that Mr. Salerno, who recently turned 31, was such a wise guy sometimes, it was a miracle that he had not gotten his tail kicked. And, Ms. Salerno recalled, "His best friend, Thomas, said that was because, by the end of the night, the guys who wanted to beat him up were buying him shots."
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M Salerno
September 12, 2024
Remembered.
Doug Baum
September 11, 2024
I regret not finding this page sooner. Pepe was my very first friend (we were neighbors in Albertson) - I remember Dina first introducing us. We got into some trouble back then together, but man did we have fun. Such aawful loss.
Skye salerno
December 8, 2023
Salerno forever. Dont know if we were ever related im 16 nearly 17 but i visited the 9/11 memorial for you x
Madeline Salerno
September 11, 2022
21 yrs. I just cannot believe it is now over 2 decades.
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Jason
September 10, 2022
I played PYA football at the same time as Pepe. I remember one time they had us doing these drills where it was one vs one, one ball carrier and one tackler. Pepe was up against a ball carrier who was easily twice his size. Everyone stopped and paid attention. The runner headed right at Pepe, who simply dropped to the ground, taking out the other guy´s ankles. The runner went flying and all the guys went nuts. Memorable illustration of how to be tough yet clever. Taught me that there´s always a way to solve the problem, even if it´s unexpected.
Will Doyle
September 12, 2021
I heard know of Pepe from his friend Pete F. I pass on many positive thoughts and prayers for your fanily.
Madeline Salerno
September 11, 2021
20 Years
JOAN SCHMIDT
September 12, 2019
You were a wonderful man. I didn't know you, but you lived on my mom's street in Westfield, I wrote an article about you last year, but lost your sister's address. I live in CA. www.mtnviewsnews.com "Remembering John "Pepe" Salerno, Seventeen Years Later". Sept. 15, 2018 Issue.
Madeline Salerno
September 12, 2019
2019 already :-(
Don
September 11, 2019
Danielle, Jack,
I'm your old neighbor from Westfield. I drove John's brother, father and mother into the city early morning on 9-12-2001. We had a block party the Saturday prior. John and I promised to hang out more as we finished the keg while smoking cigars. He told me he wanted to be a cop when he was young. I hope to meet up one day and tell you my journeys after that day....from Westfield, NJ, to the Pentagon two months later, and then, to Afghanistan at Forward Operating Base Salerno in 2008. These journeys were the effects of that tragic day. I hope and wish you are well.
The Lucas Family
May 23, 2019
We send our continued heartfelt thoughts of deep sympathy to your family. Today and always may God and loving memories bring you comfort. John (Pepe) touched the lives of others and is sadly missed.
Medon Michaelides
September 11, 2018
I'll never forget you Pep. You always made me laugh and smile, just like countless others. Thoughts and prayers with you and your family, especially today.
Stuart Piller
September 11, 2018
17 years on.
I didn't know Pepe well.
I lived in Singapore and he was in Tokyo.
He came down for a few days on business and we played some golf and went out to dinner. In total I probably spent no kore than a few hours of my life with him. I am 48 now and to this day I still remember him every year. He was such an amazing personality. Those few hours I spent with him I don't think I stopped laughing. What a guy. What a loss.
Madeline Salerno
September 11, 2018
Never Forget.
W D
September 11, 2016
The earth is the only thing that stays. Eventually we will all be at peace together. Thinking about Pepe and Pete.
Madeline Salerno
September 10, 2016
15th year ... :-(
Rob Arnone
September 11, 2015
Thinking of you today Pepe. We had fun playing Attack together at Nassau, you were a good little lefty and I will never forget you.
Madeline Salerno
September 11, 2015
14 years ....
September 12, 2014
RIP Pepe. Thoughts and prayers for your parents, Danielle & Jack
Tara Kennedy Rossi
September 11, 2014
Thinking of pepe today!!!
Jennifer Coffey
September 11, 2014
Still can't believe you're gone. You were such a fun childhood friend.
Madeline Salerno
September 11, 2014
13 years ....
Melissa Wilson
September 11, 2014
13 years on... The memories of the fun times we shared still make me giggle and bring a huge smile to my face... So much love to Danielle & Jack today.. Love you xx
September 12, 2013
You and your family are in my thoughts & prayers. I can't believe it's been 12 years. You lived on Carleton Rd in Westfield-my mom's street with your beautiful young wife awaiting the birth of your first child. In one horrific moment, so many innocent lives taken and so may devastated family members left behind.
Madeline Salerno
September 11, 2013
In my thoughts ....
Fiona Gemmell
September 11, 2013
I went to school with Pepe and often think of him. I watch the memorial every year to hear his name and say a prayer. My thoughts are with the family.
will doyle
September 11, 2012
Peace
Will Doyle
September 11, 2012
Was a roommate of Pete Ferrero...I heard a lot about Pepe....thinkin about Pepe and Pete today.
Madeline Salerno
September 11, 2012
In my thoughts ....
Terry Niedzialek
September 7, 2012
Sending you a birthday prayer that God has swept you away into heaven, now you are shining in heaven
Nancy Woods
September 6, 2012
"Happy birthday Pepe" wish you were here, you are deeply missed by all. Keep watching over all who love you, Hug and kisses to you, until we meet again. Always, Nancy & Tommy
Madeline Salerno
September 12, 2011
Hope the Salerno Family had peace yesterday...
Mary Ellen Moreno
September 11, 2011
I went to church today in Los Angeles, CA. In remembrance of the tenth anniversary of 9-11, wrist bands with the names of those who perished on 9-11 were given out after mass. The name on my bracelet is John Salvatore Salerno, Jr. I went online to see if I could discover more about this man and his family. Your tribute to him is beautiful. I pray for you and your family. My brother is an FBI agent in New York and worked at ground zero in the aftermath. A quirk of fate kept my brother alive. He was late to work on that day, having to drop off his daughters at preschool. When he got to his office, his partner had run the few blocks to the World Trade Center and entered the building to help. His partner never came out. If my brother had been to work on time that day, he would have died alongside his partner. I can't imagine how our life would have changed forever if things had been different. I'm so sorry for your loss and now wear the bracelet with John's name with great honor. May your family continue to heal. God Bless.
Joan Allegrini
September 9, 2011
When John died, it was so sad. I had long ago moved away, but my Mom, Julie Allegrini and Sabina Ekstrand, across from mom lived on Carleton Rd. (Sabina, in her mid 90's is still there.Mom stayed 50 years.) They both were heartbroken because John's wife was expecting a baby.
I'm glad to learn Jack is well.
Terry Niedzialek
August 19, 2011
I want to extend my deepest sympathy to all the Salerno family!!And my heartfelt sorrow over for your devastading loss. My prayers and prayes always go out to Pepe and his family. God bless you.
I was 13 years old when John (Pepe)was born; I lived down the street from him in Albertson, NY. I was their mother's helper for Pepe and his sister Dina. Pepe's parents we so great! I am greatfull for all the trust and freedom Joann and John gave me to help take care of Pepe and Dina, take them places some time and have so much fun. All those years, since Pepe came home from the hospital, and only joyful memories--(they) Pepe was such a great kid!! I just adored them both!! The three of us were buddies till we all moved 10 years later. One time we drove to Port Jefferson dock, Pepe was about 8 and Dina 11. Pepe would always sit in the back of the car and Dina in the front, and Pepe was always up in between the two bucket seats--talking. So full of life and love, just exploding with it!! And I am sure he continued to be a great and extraordinary person!! So much FUN times, such a special part of my life and Willow Place, Albertson! John (Pepe)was such a magnificent gift to this earth. He remains forever crystal clear in my mind and close in my heart and in my prayers.
Terry Niedzialek
Love and Light, Terry Niedzialek
Lisa Ronell
July 25, 2011
10 years later and I still think of you, miss you and hope you are at peace. Best to the friends and family left with the empty space once filled by your presence. XO~
CARLA AND MICHAEL BLAKE
July 22, 2011
MY HUSBAND AND I WOULD TO EXPRESS OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO ALL OF THE SALERNO FAMILY. MY HUSBAND AND I GREW UP WITH PEPE'S DAD ON WILLOW PLACE IN ALBERTSON AND THEN LATER ON WITH PEPE'S MOM JOANN WHEN THEY WERE NEWLY MARRIED AND THEN WITH PEPE AND DINA WHEN THEY WERE FIRST BORN.PEPE WAS SUCH A BEAUTIFUL LITTLE BOY AND HAD SUCH A GREAT PERSONALITY THAT EVERY ONE LOVED HIM ON THE BLOCK. DINA AND PEPE WERE SO CUTE TOGETHER ...THEY WERE SUCH SPECIAL CHILDREN THAT ALTHOUGH I HAVE NOT SEEN THEM SINCE THE WERE SO YOUNG I KNOW THAT PEPE MUST HAVE GROWN UP TO BE A GREAT HUSBAND.SON,BROTHER AND FRIEND,LIKE EVEYONE ON THIS SITE REMEMBERS HIM TO. MY HUSBAND AND I JUST WANTED TO SAY HOW SORRY WE WERE TO HEAR OF PEPE'S PASSING AND OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU . MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL!LOVE,CARLA AND MICHAEL BLAKE
July 22, 2011
JoAnn, I think of you all often and my thoughts and prayers are with you..we just read the article in on Pepe in the newsday...i can still remember the day he was born...I am happy to know you have found some joy in his son Jack...with sincerest regards and love, Joanne Esposito Paradine
Thomas Dejana
July 22, 2011
Pep you will always be in my heart. From the day we met all those years ago on Carlton Ave until this very moment. You live on in all those memories that are so dear to me.
Don
September 11, 2010
John, Danielle, Jack,
From the days we shoveled our elderly neighbor's snow, to the block party on Carleton Rd, and to the tragic days of 9-11 and after, I am reminded of the impact you had on me and many others... and it was especially magnified when I ended up serving in Afghanistan on Forward Operating Base SALERNO near the Pakistani border. Even though it was named for another, to me it was named after you John, and I was proud to be there serving our nation and for you. God Bless you, Danielle, Jack, your mom, dad and siblings.
David Sandino
September 11, 2010
Pepe.... 9 years have gone by and you are still so sorely missed...
Madeline Salerno
September 11, 2010
Still in my thoughts on this 9th Anniversary.
Sharon Melsky Kealoha
September 11, 2009
I knew Pepe from junior high and high school even though we weren't close, I remember he was a pretty good guy. He indeed had a lot of spunk and character. My heart goes out to his family and friends
Madeline Salerno
September 2, 2009
Still in my thoughts
May 15, 2009
i've never had an older brother , until i met pepe , not a day goes by that i don't remember you
tara kennedy-rossi
September 11, 2008
7 years ago today and still thinking of pepe! we hadn't seen eachother in many years,but grew up together. think of his family all the time. he will always be remembered!
Madeline Salerno
September 5, 2008
...still in my thoughts...7yrs. already & still feels like yesterday
Jim Thomas
March 22, 2008
My son Ben Thomas played for John on his 6th grade lacrosse team. In 7th grade they all put a 'JS' on their helmet. That year they dedicated their season to John. They went undefeated. My wife passed in '03 and Ben wares initials on the back of each spike. One DT, for his mom and JS on the other for John. My son Ben has morned two people in his life, one is his mother and one is John.
St. Johns is after Ben to play lax there. If he picks St. Johns he will have come full circle. Ben will never forget his mom or his coach & friend John.
Madeline Salerno
January 14, 2008
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Fiona Gemmell
September 11, 2007
I knew Pepe from Junior High and High School. I wasn't far from WTC that day. I will never forget that when I turned on the TV in my office, his was the first picture I saw. Even though we weren't close, I remember alot of fun times at school. He is in my thoughts and prayers as each anniversary passes. May God Bless your family.
kristine
May 4, 2007
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
March 1, 2007
In remembrance....
Madeline Salerno
February 1, 2007
still in my thoughts
Madeline Salerno
September 28, 2006
Wrote 2 yrs.ago and just wanted to let the family know that I said I wouldnt forget and 5 years later its still just as vivid as it was then. Still in my daily thoughts, I for one will not, and can not ever forget.
Victoria DeSantis
September 8, 2006
As the Anniversary of Sept. 11th approaches I can't stop thinking about you... God bless Danielle, Jack and the rest of your family
JOHN SALERNO
September 11, 2005
John we wherent related and i didnt know you But some of us still remember and think of all the innocent that where murdered on that day i lost my cousin kenny PAPD 1653 and will never forget may God Bless you JOHN W SALERNO JR.
Pamela Parrett
September 11, 2004
Today as I watched the telecast of the World Trade Center Memorial, it was hard to believe it has been three years already. As the cameras scanned the attendants, I seemed to be especially aware of the small children, around 2-1/2 or 3 years old, and could imagine in 12 years, September 11, 2016 hearing the the voices of
children who never had the opportunity to know their fathers in life, reciting the names of the lost and hearing Jack say "and my dad, John Pepe Salerno".
So much more will have changed by then, it will no longer be Ground Zero, but a new configuration of buildings. The thing that will not change is that as life goes on, as long as there are family members alive you will always be remembered.
My love and prayers to Danielle and Jack, Joann and Skip, Mike, Dina, Jamie, Morgan and Brielle.
Madeline Salerno
March 28, 2003
While recently going through some papers I came across John's name and couldnt help but wonder if we were related and just haven't seen each other, you know how family gets spread out and goes on...well, anyway, just wanted to let you know that people dont forget and we always remember what happened and remembering is what eventually heals us
Aliza Schoen
October 21, 2002
Dear Danielle,
Although this comes a bit late, a friend of mine just sent it to me. I'm not sure if you remember me, but I did spend many summers hanging out with Pepe at LaMotta's and Finns and all the local places! I can't express how sorry I am for your loss. It's been said a million times, and a million more wouldn't be enough to emphasize what an incredible person Pepe was. He will always be in our hearts, and no one can take away the memories that will be there forever. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mark Capper
September 13, 2002
We will never forget
Victoria Larson
September 12, 2002
Dear Danielle and baby Jack:
Yesterday, on the morning of September 11, the Mozart Requiem was performed around the world in all 24 time zones beginning at exactly 8:46am local time. Every musician involved - singers and instumentalists - was given a badge with the name of one person lost on 9/11..."One voice for one lost". Here in Missoula I had the privilege and honor of wearing your husband's name. You were on my heart all yesterday...I will pray for you and your family for the rest of my life. May God keep you tightly wrapped in his arms.
Nora Maguire White
September 12, 2002
Danielle:
I have thought about you and Pepe and the baby nearly every day since last year. Pepe and I spent so much time together in middle school and the early high school years. When I think of Pep, what I see is that half snicker, half smile that he almost always had on his face. I can hear that sinister laugh of his that forced a smile even when I was most upset. I have a shoebox full of silly, childhood, about nothing notes that were faithfully passed back & forth in middle school classes-no wonder our grades started falling. I remember so many nights of hanging out wherever we could conjure up mischief.
I know Pepe is up there watching with that smile all those who knew him remember. And I've been wanting you to know that the thoughts and prayers of my family are with you and Jack. When I look at my boys (3 & 1), especially my oldest, I see Pepe's face in his complexion and perhaps that's why I think of him so often. I pray that one day I can see you and Jack and give you the hug that I send in my prayers every day.
God Bless,
Nora Maguire White
I wrote this poem about Pepe today on the anniversary of September 11th and shared it with all of my high school students.
Peppered Dove
That twinkling half smile, that resounding guffaw, Pepe, you were always comin' back for more. The dancing in your eyes, the fire in your heart, a peppered dove seems like the place to start.
A free spirit, a competitive flame,
life will never be the same;
yet we know with every glance, you'll be checkin' out that boy every chance.
A peppered dove, a kid at heart, with your soul you'll give that boy your heart; a twinkle in his eye there's sure to be, a peppered dove, a child with intensity.
Left beneath the steel and shrouds? No way, you are dancing on the clouds; reminding us the way to live, keep a laugh in your heart and always give.
Now you sit up high and grin, waiting for our lives to again begin, to learn all there is to know; like a peppered dove, to be pure and grow.
What have we learned now that you've gone away? To thank the Lord for every day; by sharing with the ones we love, the lessons learned from a peppered dove.
Mitch Krauss
September 11, 2002
Dear Danielle and all of the Salerno and Pasanni family members,
Many of you don't know me as I haven't lived in NY for quite a while. I grew up in PW, and went to high school, played lacrosse, (I was a bench warmer), and needless to say infringed upon few laws now and again with Pep and the rest of the PW clan; Peter, Thomas, Tony, Nicky, Keith, Frank, Dino, etc. etc..
To say I'm sorry just isn't enough to express the sadness I feel for our loss of Pepe in this world on this first aniversary of September 11th. Not a day goes by that I don't think of him. Pepe made a lasting impression on all of us that will not be forgotten, ever. As you know it was Pepe's "Pep" that we all loved among many other great qualities about him. In the past, from time to time, I'd think of him at work and sometimes, not being able to contain myself, will laugh out loud in memory of some particularly crazy moment in time. One of my colleagues will undoubtedly ask "What the hell are you laughing about" and I say the same thing every time, "it would just take too long..... ya had to be there to get it". (Yes, they all think I'm nuts). But since Sept 11th, I have been taking the time to tell these folks about this great guy I grew up with named Pepe......and they always want to know more. The point here is that being a Vermonter these days, Pepe's life has touched many people he never even met in these ways. And because of this, the compassion and condolences of all of the people I have come to know here go out to all of you. There are so many people pulling for you. Don't hesitate to lean on us.
In his honor, I've kept the prayer card from the funeral service at my office and say a little prayer for him and all of you everyday. Additionally, after visiting Ground Zero the day after the funeral, I placed another at Washington Sq. where the candlelight vigils were being held.
Danielle, I am so deeply sorry for your loss of a great husband and great friend to all of us. I just found out the Christening of the baby is being performed today at 5PM. I've asked my brother to be present at the service on my behalf.
With all my heart,
Mitch Krauss
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John Russo
September 11, 2002
My deepest sympathy to the Salerno family and friends.
Love Johnny Russo
(Rosalie's brother)
Mike Newirth
September 11, 2002
I was deeply saddened to learn of Pepe Salerno's death in the 9/11/01 attack. I knew him in Port Washington in the 1980s and remember him as a person of great spirit and good humor. I hope Danielle and their child have only good fortune in the future.
Scott Schaffer
September 11, 2002
Pepe, I have known you since 1st grade at Guggenheim Elementary School in Port Washington. Although we were not close friends growing up, I always knew you. You were a tough, yet sweet guy, just as you were described in the Times. May your soul rest in peace.
Scott Schaeffer(PD Schrieber- Class of 1988)
Barbara Richardson
September 11, 2002
This morning at a memorial for 9/11 victims in Santa Fe, each person was given a heart sticker with the name of one of the people who lost his or her life on this day one year ago. I wore the name of John Salvatore Salerno, Jr., over my heart and will keep his name in my heart and thoughts. I join the world in expressing my sadness and good wishes to his family. We all honor you today.
Leslie Zellner-Heelan
September 11, 2002
I am so sorry for your loss-I knew Pepe well when he was a young boy. My son Erik Zellner grew up with Pepe when we lived in Port Wash. LI, NY. Pepe was a fun loving child. He played with Erik quite often-I can still see the two of them running down the street to play ball together after school.Erik called me from his home in Santa Cruz CA, and told me that John was a victim of this tragedy- our hearts and prayers go out to you at this time.
Michele Pinto
September 11, 2002
I can't even believe that is has been one year since we lost you. You have been in our hearts and our thoughts everyday and that is where you will stay forever. Pepe, your son is beautiful and he reminds me so much of you when you were little. On behalf of Uncle Mike and Aunt Dot they can't even begin to express the loss and sorrow they feel everyday. We all love you Pepe and I know that you are in heaven smiling down on all of us with your beautiful smile. You will never be forgotten.
Love you forever your cousin, Michele
Suzanne Delio
September 10, 2002
It has been a year since your great loss and tomorrow as I have each day, my thoughts and prayers will be with Pepe's entire family. I never had the privledge to meet Pepe, but he was my distant cousins. My Grandmother Raphaela (Fanny) and Pepe's Grandpa Tom are brother and sister. I spent many summers with Aunt Mae and Uncle Tommy in Lake Mary and have heard of all Pepe's accomplishments and have seen so many pictures of Dina, Pepe and Michael over the years. His smile was contagious even merely by looking at his picture. Tomorrow on his first anniversary in Heaven I will remember you all and of course little Jack. With love and sincere condolences, Suzi
"A small boy looked at a star and began to weep. And the star said,'Boy, why are you weeping?' And the boy said,'You are so far away. I will never be able to touch you.' And the star answered,'Boy, if I were not already in your heart, you would not be able to see me.'
Maria Imperiale
September 8, 2002
I knew Pepe from Schreiber High School. Don't ask me how we met, but we did. He was always sweet and greeted me with kindness as well as Danielle. You couldn't ask for a happier couple. The loss of a loved one is unbearable. But there is more to Pepe than just body. His spirit and soul lives within all of his friends and family, and especially within his son. There is an Italian saying "When someone dies, another is born". Pepe's joy of life and love of family will go on through his son. My thoughts are with you Danielle always, and with your family.
April 20, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL MAN...JOHN S.SALERNO JR.AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS LOVING FAMILY AND MANY MANY FRIENDS...STAY CLOSE..PRAY..AND NEVER LET ANYONE FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK...MAY JESUS AND ST.JOHN GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
NINA & ROGER MARIS
April 10, 2002
PEPE WAS A WONDERFUL PERSON WITH A WARM AND BIG HEART WHO HAD A BEAUTIFUL BIG SMILE THAT WOULD LIGHT UP THE ROOM. HE WAS KIND AND LOVING AND FULL OF FUN. PEPE YOU WILL ALWAYS BE LOVED AND REMEMBERED AND YOU'RE IN MY PRAYS ALWAYS. GOD BLESS YOUR SON, JACK AND GUIDE HIM IN HIS FUTURE YEARS. LOVE, NINA & ROGER
PAM & JERRY CIARAVINO
March 31, 2002
THERE ARE NO WORDS TO EXPRESS HOW DEEPLY SADDENED WE ARE IN THE LOSS OF "PEPE". WE WATCHED HIM GROW FROM A BABY DYNAMO, (HENCE THE NAME PEPE) INTO A TRULY EXTRAORDINARY YOUNG MAN. HE HAS TOUCHED THE LIVES OF MANY PEOPLE AND HE WILL NEVER, EVER BE FORGOTTEN! WE KNOW HE WILL ALWAYS WATCH OVER HIS SON, JACK.
LOVE, PAM AND JERRY
Joann Cohn
March 17, 2002
Pepe was a wonderful son always smiling and caring. He was a devoted son, brother, uncle and husband and now a father to a beautiful son, born on March 1. We all miss and love him very much and his legacy will live on through, Jack. Pepe we will always love you. Love your family
Darrin Sanchez
March 11, 2002
Danille,
I played lacrosse with Pepe at St. John's. I was extremely saddened to hear that Pepe perished in the September 11 attack. I am not sure if I had ever met you, but if you attended any game, I am sure that I had. He was a very special individual to me. I had played along side him as an attackman on the Team. We was an outstanding lacrosse player. He graduated a year before me, but he helped me to become a better player in the 2 years together. We had many good times together. My nickname was Lupe.
I attended the Memorial Service at St. John's University and have placed a memorial to Pepe in my office. I had a special picture made up of the memorial service literature and a picture from our time together at St. John's.
I am extremely sorry for your loss. I wish you the best of luck with your new baby. I know Pepe is watching from above and will guide you through these tough times.
Darrin "Lupe" Sanchez
[email protected]
Lysette De Sousa
March 1, 2002
Danielle,
You may not rememeber me, we went to high school together. I was Lysette Rivera at the time. I just want to let you know that you have been in my prayers since I found out. I was deeply saddened when I found out. You and little Pepe will always remain in my prayers. Good luck!
Kathy Salerno Hornreich
March 1, 2002
I also lost people dear to me in the WTC but, unfortunately, I did not know you. When I saw your name, I wondered if perhaps we could have been related. I wish your wife the best and hope your child will never know the sadness she feels from her loss of you because of the love she will shower him with for both of you. God bless her and your child.
Mary Doellgast
February 23, 2002
I did not know you, but I do know you were taken much much too soon.
May God bless you in heaven. And may God bless your family with the peace only He can give.
Francine Romeo
February 20, 2002
My sister, Michele, who already signed in has told you what a great person Pepe is. I want to tell you the one thing about Pepe that everyone who knew him would know, he always had a big smile on his face and when you saw that smile it always made you feel good. Our family has suffered deeply and we will miss Pepe. We will never forget you Pepe, we will cherish every one of our memories with you, we will love you forever, but most of all I will never forget your smile.
Love ya cuz'n,
Francine
Michele Pinto
February 20, 2002
I knew Pepe since he was a baby and the nickname "Pepe" fit him perfectly. I am Pepe's cousin and there is so much about him that I rememeber. Pepe was the greatest person you ever wanted to meet. He was always respectful, kind and loving. Pepe's loss is a great tradegy to his family and all who were blessed to have met him. He will forever remain in my thoughts, prayers and my heart.
Kevin McGarrey
February 6, 2002
The tribute commentary was exactly on point. I only met Pepe a few times; he was a friend of a friend. I was one of the guys who wanted to kick Pepe's tail the first time I met him. However, I was also the guy buying him shots a the end of the night. I was introduced to Pepe as "McGar"; he knew darned well what my name was but insisted on calling me "McCracken" for comedy's sake. I looked forward to coming to New York to attend various sporting events where he would be in attendance; I always knew it would be a blast. He'll be sorely missed at the annual St. John's v.s. Villanova game.
Ian West
January 20, 2002
I got to know Jon when he first came to London back in the late nineties. We kind of started in the sameline of buisness at the same time. I'll never forget the weekend we spent golfing at St Andrews and Carnoustie it was just awesome.
Danielle, I'm not too sure you remember we and my wife Julie, I hope you do though. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
I'm really still left speachless by what happened. Jon was a great friend of mine and we shared some great times. I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better Danielle, but there isn't . When the times right please get in touch. I think about you and Jon each day. My prayers are with you. He was one of the good guys.
Ian
Robbie Ciaravino
January 6, 2002
All of the things being said of Pepe are so true. Being a second cousin,I and my 2 brothers spent lots of time with him and his family while growing up in New York. We remember him as being lots of fun and full of energy. We are all truly sadened by this tragedy and think of him daily.
Love Always, Robbie
Teresa Jahn
December 13, 2001
We are very sorry for your loss of Pepe. We wish you the best of luck with your new baby. May Pepe's zest for life live on through your new baby. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Gary Pedersen
December 11, 2001
I never really knew "Pepe" that well, but being from my hometown, I was saddened to hear of his loss.
My condolences to all friends and family.
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