Aleksandr Valeryerich Ivantsov

Aleksandr Valeryerich Ivantsov

Aleksandr Ivantsov Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 27, 2001.
'He Was My Everything'
In 2000, Anna Ivantsov became a wife. In 2001, she became a widow. She was 20 years old. Fifteen months later, she spoke about her husband, Aleksandr Ivantsov:

"Aleksandr is Russian from a little place in Siberia called Abakan. He helped bring the Internet to Abakan. He found a job in New York through the Internet and worked at Cantor Fitzgerald as a computer programmer. His e-mail address was his nickname in Russian, Dobriy, which means a very nice person.

"For 23 years old, he was very mature. Before I came to New York, every day he would call me and tell me how he was getting ready for me. He was spending all his money calling me!

"We were all alone in the whole world here. There were two of us. Nothing else was needed.

"We loved dancing. We would take the ferry to Staten Island and go to dance clubs. If I get tired of dancing, he would take me in his arms. We were on our own; we could go anywhere and be independent. It was his character. He liked to be independent.

"I had this hope. I saw friends who were crying and I said: `It's only been three days. Let's wait. Miracles do happen.' And they were looking at me like, `Well.' Even in December 2001 I had hope. I even had a tiny little hope in October 2002.

"All I need to say is: He was my everything. That is very important to me to say."

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September 15, 2023

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June 10, 2021

Vladislav Ivantsov posted to the memorial.

September 7, 2011

Denise Forbes posted to the memorial.

September 15, 2023

Aleksandr, we remember you with love. Never forgotten. Rest in peace.

Vladislav Ivantsov

June 10, 2021

He was my uncle. I had never known him because I was born only after 9 months since the tragedy in May 2002. However, I would give everything to talk to him at least for a minute...

Denise Forbes

September 7, 2011

You are still remembered.

P Tabbernor

November 15, 2006

In memory....

Kristine

November 6, 2006

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

Sibby W

September 16, 2006

We will remember Aleksandr, even if we were not blessed to know him in life. You are in our thoughts and prayers, and we will not forget.

Denise Forbes

September 11, 2004

It is a testimony to the spirit of this young man that, on the third anniversary, so many strangers continue to respond to him and his brief story. Thank you, Aleksandr Valeryerich Ivantsov, for that story. Rest in peace.

Michael Iezzi

May 25, 2004

My deepest sympathy to Anna on the loss of her husband Aleksandr. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Aleksandr, may God hold you in the palm of His hand.

Tony Black

September 11, 2003

My deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Mr. Ivantsov. May God bless and keep you in His love.

Jim Spizarny

September 14, 2002

To the family of Aleksandr Ivantsov - A candle has been lit at Our Lady of Peace Church. May the Lord our God grant them eternal life and peace. My prayers are with Aleksandr and your family during this time.

cody

September 9, 2002

My name is Cody and I am a sophomore at St. Pius X High School. As a community with other catholic high schools we are wearing wrist bands with names of the victims of 9/11. Aleksandar Valeryerich Ivantsoc is in my prayers and his name is on my wrist band. Peace be with all friends and family of Aleksandr

Angie Campbell

May 2, 2002

Rest in peace.

February 4, 2002

OH DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL YOUNG MAN ALEKSANDR VALERYERICH IVANTSOV AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01.AMEN

Teresa Jahn

December 28, 2001

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

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