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Donald Foreman Obituary
The picnic was intended for Port Authority police officers assigned to the PATH system. Technically, Officer Donald Foreman was assigned to the Holland Tunnel, but he was welcome anyway. Donald Foreman was always welcome.
He had spent 29 years with the Port Authority, working for many of those years as a captain's clerk, which meant he did a lot of the nuts-and-bolts administrative tasks for a superior. According to a plaque on a wall at the Holland Tunnel offices, he served 15 consecutive captains, according to his last, Robert Sbarra. "If he could work for 15 captains without anyone trying to remove him, he must have done his job extremely well."
But Mr. Foreman, 53, had a full life outside, with a large extended family and volunteer duties that included running the youth sports program for his Roman Catholic parish, Immaculate Conception, on Staten Island. He was also a strict vegetarian, but that hardly kept him from that picnic, a hamburger-and-frankfurter feast on the Jersey Shore.
"I do remember giving him French fries," recalled his companion, Cheryl Cooper-Foreman. "He loved French fries."
And Ms. Cooper-Foreman and Captain Sbarra both remember this: Donald Foreman playing basketball with kids young enough to be his grandchildren.
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Ed Harding
September 11, 2024
RIP Donald. I will always remember how kind you were to me as we studied together at Queens College. Gone too soon.
Suzanne Galicki Zakar
September 11, 2023
We Remember Him Today, Sept. 11. 2023. Many Prayers for the family- we KNOW that he is in HEAVEN.
About 60 schoolchildren from Notre Dame sang "Let there be Peace on Earth" in Donald's and other's memory. ( My family members were spared this tragedy- my heart goes out to your family.. For you, the tragedy never ended. )
I wore his photo as a badge of his honor today in a VFW service here in Spring Hill Florida. I am a native New Yorker. We had a business in the Twin Tower area; my little boy went to a Nursery school on 15th and 10th, I watched the towers being built as a child. My first one woman art show was held inTower II, in the 70's. Our heart have always gone out to you even if we did not know Donald. We are all family. He IS HERO TO ALL OF US. God Bless.
Cindy Roe
September 13, 2021
Remembering Donald on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
September 12, 2019
RIP We will never forget...
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Doreen Merkler
September 9, 2010
Remembering you on this day. You are truely a special person and are missed by many who love you.
God Bless You.
Doug Abraham
March 31, 2009
Happy belated Birthday!!!
Doug Abraham
March 31, 2008
Happy belated Birthday!!!
Vivian Prince
September 11, 2007
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Doug Abraham
March 31, 2007
Happy belated Birthday!!!
Kristine
October 25, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
October 8, 2006
In memory....
Evelyn B
September 19, 2006
Thank you for your bravery and courage. You are truly a hero and will never be forgotten.
Kim McNeil
September 8, 2006
I never got a chance to meet Donald but my father Mac spoke in high regard of his partner.I just wanted to take the time to send my sympathy to your family. May god bless your family. Donald is truly a hero.
Pinkie Negri
September 25, 2004
2004!
Never forgotten, always an inspiration!
Norma Perez (Family)
September 11, 2003
Donald
In behalf of my family we are honored to have known you and your family. My mother use to baby sit your daughters and she always had good things to say about you and your family. May you rest in peace and may god bless us all ...Perez Family (stapleton)
Cynthia Lee
September 6, 2003
Hey Daddy Donald,
Another year has gone by and now all I can think about is how we used to sit in front of the TV watching Aliens 1, 2, &3. Aliens part 2 was the best I think, then we would watch star trek. I got to see Cacia, Tia, and Momma Cheryl, they look so good!!! Cacia and I spoke about the video of us girls, when we were prentending to be famous singers and such!!! God, I miss you!!! But, I have those precious memories. Thank you for all your love, kindness, and advice!!! Thank you, Daddy Donald & Momma Cheryl for letting me be apart of your family!!!
love you all always,
Cynthia
Phil Lanzara
September 12, 2002
Dear Don; I know you are looking down on everyone and taking care of your friends and family. I only knew you from the Hoboken Car Wash and I do miss you comming in and talking to me. you are truely missed. You're friend Phil
PS. I hope you got your Lexus.
PINKIE NEGRI
September 10, 2002
Hey there, Donald:
Well, a year has passed and as I feel it, I know that you know that you have been in my thoughts very often.
The pain and the shock are still all too much for so many like me to bear. I hope that your family realizes that there are so many people that miss you and that so many people are hoping that they find some measure of peace as time goes by. It's going to take a very long time for all of us. Your gentle spirit will help to carry us through.
God Bless You, Donald! Smile broadly and rest lightly. Hold on tightly to the Lord's hand and you will be okay.
Love you always,Pinkie
A Grateful American
July 24, 2002
In Memory of Officer Donald A Foreman
I'd like the memory of me to be a happy one.
I'd like to leave an afterglow of smiles when life is done.
I'd like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways, of happy times and laughing times and bright and sunny days.
I'd like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun.
Of happy memories that I leave when life is done.
May God bless you and hold you close...
Lucy Yost
July 22, 2002
Your name is on the braclet that I wear. I wanted to know more about you and see a picture of you. Now I have. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I will remember you, always.
Angie Campbell
April 25, 2002
**********GOD BLESS YOU**********
Cacia Walker
April 5, 2002
At times, I still cannot believe that you are no longer here with us. Every time I come over to visit, I still listen for you to call for Tianna by saying, "Mukamoo, come see Pop-Pop." Things have been so different without you around and at times it is hard for us all to comprehend. Mommy misses you dearly, but she is trying her best to maintain, be happy and accepting of all this. I wanted to say thank you for everything you have done for Tia and me and for helping mom to raise us to be the women we are today. Even though it was hard dealing with some of the things I've done, you were always there to support me. I also wanted to thank you for all the love you gave to Tianna. She misses you! She knows that Pop-Pop is in heaven, but doesn't fully understand why.When she gets old enough we will help her to do so. Lastly, I wanted to let you know that we all love you and will continue to be strong. Wherever you are now, I hope that you're still watching over us and protecting us. Can't wait to see you again. LOVE YOU ALWAYS!!!
Carmen Delgado/Hernandez
April 2, 2002
Donald was a very dear friend and he will truly be miss by my family.He was always there to give you a helping hand without judging you.He was a true hero that Sept.11 not knowing what danger he himself will be in Donald i personaly will never forget the times in the school with my daughters,and my son who play basketball for you in Immaculate.I never realize how in an instant your life was taken from us. To Cheryl,Cacia, Tia my words cannot express how i am feeling to let you know that I am in mourning because now only have his memories that I will always treasure the parties ,the baby shower video of my niece.his 50 th birthday party..I know now you are in a better place.We will miss you . Always in my thoughts and my heart.
With love,
Carmen
Donald and Cheryl Foreman at my cousin's wedding!
Cynthia Rodriguez Lee
March 27, 2002
I will always remember Donald as (Daddy Donald), that was my name for him. He was there for me at the worst and best times of my teenage years. I was best friends with Cacia, his daughter throughout elementary school. He and Cheryl made me feel like I was apart of their family, even taking me with them to family outings and some reunions. Donald was my Hero, and now he is America's!!! My love to Momma Cheryl, Cacia, Tia, and the rest of the Foreman/Cooper Family! Thank you for all the love and support you have given me throughout the years!!!
Love you all, I will keep you all in my prayers!!!
Love,
Cynthia
Pinkie Negri
March 12, 2002
Donald:
I am sad that in 30 years our paths never crossed again even though I drove through the Holland Tunnel everyday and worked 5 blocks from WTC.
But, you were beautiful way back when and I always knew that you would remain a beautiful and spiritual person. When I look out my NJ window and see the blue Tribute of Lights reaching into the heavens, I know that you are in good hands. And, I know that I will see you again. Until then, know that you are loved. You seem to have a beautiful and loving family and lots of friends. Find comfort. Everyone is with you. A late Happy Birthday to you! Love to you always.
Pinkie
Raymond Harris
March 11, 2002
I remember Donald when he first came on to the Port Authority Police Dept. Donald was a very caring person who loves life. When I retired from the Port Authority Police, then got employed by Prudential Insurance Co., I would see Donald at the Holland tunnel working overtime. When I approached Donald I always say to him, "are you ready to retire" Donald would say maybe in two years. The last time I spoke to Donald was back in November, 2001. I am going to miss Donald. May "God" kept him in his everlasting arms.
Aiesha Floyd
March 11, 2002
I was very sad on the morning of 9/11 to here what had happened to my home town but I never thought that someone who I considered to be apart of family would be hurt! When I received the phone call I didn't know what to think. I just prayed that Donald's soul was at ease! He was a very nice man and hope that Cheryl, Cacia and Tia will be able to get through all of this. May God bless you all.
Cherise Cooper-Matos
February 27, 2002
Donald has been a part my sister Cheryl's life and our family for more than half of my life. I can not think of or remember one significant family event or personal event that he was not a part of. We have countless videos of birthday's, holidays, showers and even my wedding that Donald taped and throughout you can hear him talking and joking. When I visit the house, I miss seeing you sitting in your favorite chair watching your movies. Donald, you are truly missed. I hope that you are at peace. What you did on September 11th and the bravery you showed will never be forgotten. There is a special place for you in all of our hearts. Thank you for giving so much happiness to and sharing so much of your life with my sister and my nieces. We will miss you forever more and we love you. Cherise
Ministers Herman & Sheryl Davis
February 26, 2002
Psalm 27:4 "One thing have I desired of the Lord, that will I seek after; that I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life, to behold the beauty of the Lord, and to inquire in his temple".
To Cheryl and the entire Cooper/Foreman family, Truly our hearts are heavy and we feel your pain over the loss of our loved one. Donald will be missed for all the caring and wonderful things he did in our lives. We will treasure every moment and our prayer is that God will heal your pain and set you free. I'm grateful to God that we shared our last Celebration together with friends Donald, Cheryl, Alan, Donna, Dave and Me.
God Bless you,
Love Dave and Sheryl
BILL AND SHIRLEY ( MOM AND DAD) FOREMAN
February 20, 2002
THERE WILL NEVER EVER BE ANOTHER DONALD , WE LOVE YOU AND DEARLY MISS YOU. WE ESPECIALLY MISS AT FAMILY GATHERINGS SITTING IN YOUR FAVORITE CHAIR WATCHING THE GAMES. PART OF OUR CHAIN IS BROKEN THAT COULD NEVER POSSIBLY BE REPLACED. NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT WE DONT SEE YOUR FACE IN OUR THOUGHTS. WE LOVE YOU AND MAY GOD SHELTER YOU AND KEEP YOU IN HIS CARE. LOVE , MOM * DAD.....
Cheryl cooper
February 18, 2002
Our home will always have your memories. The girls and I miss you dearly. I miss you calling me (baby). I feel like our happiness has been taken away from us. I am happy to know that you, your colleagues, and other facilities, that were not able to come home to families are truly the real heroes. May you all rest in peace.
Love you
Cheryl
Linda Richardson
February 14, 2002
I remember Donald as being a 'giving' man. He was always helping people. Whether it was giving up his time to counsel youngsters or giving good advice to those who were in doubt, his generosity was truly genuine and from the heart. I would like to extend my condolences to his loving wife Cheryl (my sister), his parents and to the rest of the Foreman/Cooper family, all of you will always be in my prayers. We miss you D.
Linda Allison
February 11, 2002
We knew Donald as a kind and loving man, he wil truly be missed ny all who knew and loved him, especially his loving Cheryl. He will always be in our hearts with that great big smile.
Love Linda & Andy
Arlene (Tuti) Estrada
February 6, 2002
I knew Donald for about 9 years. He was a very kind and sweet man. He videotaped my baby shower for my first daughter and he also attended my wedding with Cheryl. I have Donald and Cheryl dancing on video. They were having a good time, that's they way I want to remember Donald with that great big smile:) on his face.
Luke DeMattia
January 28, 2002
I knew Donald as a Brother Knight Of Columbus, and as a parishioner Of Immaculate Conception Church. He was a kind and generous man with kids whom he loved to teach to play fair and enjoy sports.
January 19, 2002
DEAR LORD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS
BEAUTIFUL MAN DONALD A.FOREMAN AND
MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD
AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY
AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND
NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET
9/11/01...AMEN
Teresa Jahn
January 1, 2002
We thank Donald for his volunteer work through the years. Such works of giving reflect a heart filled with warmth and caring. May Donald's volunteer work, his life and love continue living in those who love him. Our hearts cry with you in your loss of Donald.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Musser Hall @Ursinus College
December 5, 2001
We just wanted to give our sympathies and let you know that you are not alone during this time of tragedy. May God be with you, and we wish you a Merry Christmas! You will never be forgotten!!
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