Keith Eugene Coleman

Keith Eugene Coleman

Keith Coleman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 28, 2001.
Three Brothers
They were as close as three brothers could be, born in 1966, 1967 and 1970. Now there is just one. "Until Sept. 11, I have never known a day without my brothers," Todd D. Coleman, the oldest, said of Keith and Scott. "I miss them terribly."

As boys, they wrestled in their Westport, Conn., home, had bunk beds and stole pizza off one another's plates. They went to college, to careers in finance and to satisfying romances. They dreamed of raising their children in one big family with three smart, affable uncles at the top, said their mother, Jean N. Coleman.

When Keith's equities division at Cantor Fitzgerald became wildly successful, he drafted Scott to work for him. It was there, in the 104th floor offices at 1 World Trade Center, that Todd, 35, Keith, 34, and Scott, 31, were together for a last time this July.

At a memorial service on Oct. 20, Todd told Keith's wife, Elodie, and Scott's fiancée, Jessica Nardone, that he understood why men of grace and dignity loved them so. "I will try to live my life in a manner that will be worthy of their respect and admiration," he said. "Their memory reminds me that the world can be a wonderful place."

Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on October 27, 2001.


Keith Coleman, 34, local kids' playmate

Six years ago, Keith Coleman and his wife, Elodie, sat down in their home in the Kensington section of London and etched out their life's goals.

Among other things, Mr. Coleman wanted to move back to the United States and start a family with Elodie, his college sweetheart, whom he met in an economics class during their junior year at Bucknell University.

Mr. Coleman was well on his way to achieving many of those dreams. Two years ago, his wife gave birth to their first son, Vaughn McGuire, named after baseball slugger Mark McGwire. He cried as he cradled the newborn boy because he was so thrilled and proud to be a father. His daughter, Neva Rae, was born five months ago.

And last year, the Connecticut native was transferred to Cantor Fitzgerald's offices in the World Trade Center, where he was promoted to the position of senior vice president and partner. He also brought his younger brother, Scott Coleman, 30, into the company.

On Sept. 11, both brothers were in Tower One when a hijacked plane rammed into the building. Mr. Coleman was 34.

"He was loyal and supportive," said Elodie Coleman. "He always put family first. He made every situation better."

Jean Coleman said her sons were very close. "They adored working for one another," she said.

She said her son Keith had become very competitive in life. But he was especially competitive with his two brothers about who could take care of the family best.

"All of them wanted to be the one who took better care of the other one," she said.

The neighborhood kids in Warren Township, Somerset County, where the couple moved in March 2000, loved to spend time with Mr. Coleman. They frequently would knock on the door and ask, "Can Keith come out and play?" He never said no.

There were times when adults would drop by the house for an appointment, but could not find Mr. Coleman because he was outside tossing a football with the neighborhood kids.

Each night, before he went to bed, he would kiss the silver cross he wore around his neck five times -- once for each member of his family and again for the entire family.

"He was a very hard worker who knew how to enjoy life," said Ann Marie Seyffart, his sister-in-law.

In addition to his wife and two children, Mr. Coleman is survived by his parents, Neil and Jean Coleman of Westport, Conn.; brother Todd Coleman of San Francisco; and nephews James and Paul Seyffart Jr. of South Plainfield.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to the Keith Coleman Family Memorial Trust, c/o Ann Marie Seyffart, 121 Elizabethtown Court, South Plainfield, N.J. 07080.

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September 4, 2021

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Del Newberry

February 2, 2021

Thinking of your family today. We will never forget.

Doug Lee

September 9, 2012

I remember Keith in the weight room at L'ville. He was a warrior focused on winning. He was always working to get stronger.

June 12, 2012

wish you were here to make it all better.

March 4, 2012

may your strength and love continue to guide us through each and every day. Thinking of you

Lynn Boomer

September 13, 2011

On Sunday, I along with 150 other singers from mid-Michigan performed Mozart's Requiem as part of the Rolling Requiem project. I was fortunate to have Keith's name in my program in my music folder. As I held Keith's name in my hands while I sang the last words and music written by Mozart, I was overwhelmed with emotion. It was a transformative moment. I will always remember where I was on Sept 11, 2001. And now I will remember where I was on Sept 11, 2011, thinking of Keith, holding both he and his family in our thoughts. Some sang for the meaning. Some sang for the sheer beauty. All sang in remembrance.

Irene Bergmann

September 11, 2011

Thinking of all of you today as I do often, and praying for your continued healing.

Anne D.

September 11, 2011

I picked Keith's flag from our city's field of flags (one for each person who died in the 9-11 attacks). I am so sorry for your losses -- Scott and Keith. I will always remember.

ben coen

September 11, 2011

Still miss the Sarge. My thoughts are with your family today.

Bryan Vandergriff

September 6, 2011

My heart goes out to the families who lost loved ones in the attacks, and the families of the brave heroes who lost their lives trying to save the lives of others. God bless them all.

Elodie

October 14, 2010

There is no one I admire more...I miss everything about you...you are my dream...my beautiful, forever love...

paule

March 28, 2010

im doing a project on our family in spanish class. i need to get pictures of everyone closest to me. so i am using you,james,my mom,my dad,aunt elodie,vaughn,neva,mimi,pa,and gg.i was thinking of you and i needed a picture to use for my project so im going to use the picture of you on this page. I love you so much, and miss you terribly. not a day goes by that you dont cross my mind, weather it be something that brings a memory to mind, or seeing thirtythree somewhere. your son is amazingly smart, and your daughter is such a handful. ahahah. aunt elodie is an amazing person, i love her sooo much. she always knows how to cheer everyone up, and her shoe closet... haha it has expanded. lol. iloveyou uncle keith<3

Kelley, John, Patrick and Jack

September 11, 2009

Always in our thoughts and prayers Keith. We love you and miss you!!

September 11, 2009

8 yrs and the hurt still remains.

September 11, 2009

Still sad.

Doug Abraham

August 16, 2009

Happy Birthday!!!

Kristal L. Rosebrook

October 27, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Paule Seyffart

November 20, 2007

Uncle Kieth,
Hey uncle kieth ! i miss you so much. i wish you were here, aunt elodie bought a new house in rumson a little while back, i'm sure you know, but it looks exactly like what you wanted. It has really good heated pool, a tenis court, and a really big house, all on about an acre of land. vaughny and neva learned how to ride a bike over the summer. NO TRAINING WHEELS. On September 11th this year, they both wrote "i love you and i miss you daddy" it was the sweetest thing i had ever seen. It really hurts to see them without you. you're the greatest person i have ever known in my life. They're growing fast. I spend alot of my summers and school breaks with them, and neva is growing to look more like you every day. I am now 5'8'', the biggest kid in my grade, im not fat, just tall. I strive for all success cause you are my insperation. i write alot of pappers about you and all your amazing traits that made you who you are. ALSO, im the lead scorer on my soccer team, you probably already know. but maybe sometime, you could give me a sign that your whatching my games ?? it would be very nice to know when your whatching me because you have a lot of people to whatch for. i love you so much. and by the way, i wrote a poem for you, if you didnt hear my prayer yet, i'll write it here for you :


The Pain Thats More Than Pain
By: Paul Seyffart, Age 13
To: Uncle Kieth

It hurts to know your not coming back,
It hurts when i have to face that fact.
It hurts to see your children without you,
It hurts to know they have to pull through too.
It hurts to think of that day,
It hurts so much, but i cant turn away.
Sometimes i think of the laughs we shared, you laughed along and really cared.
It hurts too much to know you're gone, but it puts a smile on my face to know you're somewhere happy smiling right back at me.
This is the pain thast so insane, this is the pain thats more than pain. <333

i love you so much.

Love,
Your nephew. Paule : )

Doug Abraham

August 15, 2007

Happy Birthday!!!

Kristine

October 30, 2006

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

P Tabbernor

September 12, 2006

In memory....

peter nickolas

July 16, 2005

Dear Elodie,

I am not sure if you remember me, or my family, but we used to be driven to grade school together. I am not sure how I arrived at this memorial page, but I am extremely sorry for your great loss.

ben coen

September 12, 2004

i was friends with keith when he and i were living in london at the same time. if i am ever having a bad day, i try to put things in perspective by comparing my situation with what happened to him. his memory has been a great source of inspiration to me over the past three years and i will never forget the life of happiness and promise that was brought to a tragic end.

Ann Marie Ferrante

September 10, 2004

Dearest Keith,

Since you left us, life has been difficult. Elodie is doing a great job, Vaughn and Neva are thriving, she is a wonderful mother. When things are difficult, I ask myself, 'what would Keith want me to do'. I do as you would, I stand bye my sister and care for her and your children. The cousins are more like brothers and sisters, they are so close, it does my heart good to see them enjoying each other. The boys miss you so. James has a hard time verbalizing anything, but when he does he speaks in admiration of who you are and how much he loved to be with you. He misses you desperatly. Paul 'E' is another story, he wrote a tribute to you and read it today at his school assembly. He cried as he stood at the podium, took a deep breath and

made sure he got finished with dignity. Pretty impressive for a 10 year old, we told him that you would be and are so very proud of him. He misses his buddy.

We all miss you Keith more than words can describe. Please know that Paul, the boys and I will always take care of and help my sister and your children. We will always be here for them.

Kelley Ferrante

September 4, 2004

Keith, I can't believe another anniversary is upon us. Not a day goes by that you aren't in my thoughts. God how we need you here. Please help guide and protect your loved ones. We all miss you and love you so much. You would be so proud of the children. They are so beautiful, with such different personalities. I'm sure you would get a kick at how much fun all the cousins have together. They really have a great relationship. Praying you are at peace with Scott. Love, Kelley

Deirdre O'Mara

May 19, 2004

Dearest Keith,

Your memory inspires me everyday. I hug my children, love my husband, and cherish my entire family when I think of suffering endured daily by Elodie and family. I am awed by Elodie's ability to raise the children with such love and grace and above her courage to face the ordinary day with out you. I honestly believe you have left some of your amazing vitality and zest for Elodie to draw on. You are missed but the beautiful faces of Vaugh and Neva are sweet reminders of you. They are being raised in the arms of every one in the family. I can only hope that all who have been touched by this tragedy have been able to have such flowers grow from the darkest ashes.

I know that you would tell Elodie she is a wonderful mother on this Mother's Day. God bless all.

Carolyn Levinson Miller

June 10, 2003

Keith and I sang together in the Staples High School choir. He was great guy. Always kind and helpful. My heart grieves for all of your family. May you find peace in the memories of wonderful father, husband, son, and brother.

Ann Marie Ferrante

February 13, 2003

Paul and I often have the pleasure of having your children for a couple of days. They love playing with their big cousins, James and Paul "E". We build miles of Brio train tracks for Vaughn, he loves to play with trains, he is an absolutley wonderful child. And your daughter Neva is amazing. She is as beautiful as ever. She often walks around my house pretending to talk on her play phone. What a riot! She likes to look at all my photo frames. She pointed right to your picture the other day and announced "my Daddy".



I know there is no place you'd rather be than with my sister and your children and that is probably the thought that haunts me the most.

Kim Reidman McClain

November 21, 2002

Dear Jean,

You helped Steve and me find a house in Westport when we moved there from California in the early 80's. At that time I believe you were PTA President at Staples and so involved with the lives of your sons. We had an infant, Zack. I never forgot how you and Neil would take turns staying home on Friday and Saturday nights to be near the phone in case any of your boys needed help. You impressed upon me the need for presence and vigilence while our children were growing up, no matter how grown-up they appeared to be.You were the rmost caring of parents. I cannot imagine how you have endured your loss. I think of you and your family often, and I send you love and wishes for peace. Bless you.



Kim

Kamilla & Peter Konstantyner

September 19, 2002

Dear Elodie



It goes without saying that we cannot let Sept 11 go by without thinking of Keith, you and your 2 children. Even though we did not get in touch often after he left London we spoke on phone once in a while, last time only a few weeks before the tragedy. I know that many of my colleagues here in Denmark knew Keith and are also thinking of him.



Kamilla and I wish you and your children all the best in the future.

Crista Stark

September 12, 2002

Dear Elodie,



You may not remember me, but I remember you as my sorority "Great Grand Big" at Bucknell. You seemed so full of life, sweet, and were always nice to everyone.



I have thought of you, Keith and your families countless times over the course of the past year. I won't forget seeing Keith's face on CNN one evening last September.



I am so sorry that you have been forced to experience life without your husband and the father of your children. It is hard enough to lose a loved one without the added horror of this national tragedy. Your grief must be an unspeakable and constant burden.



I know that anniversaries like yesterday can be even more difficult than everyday life. Please know that I am thinking of you and wishing you whatever peace you can find.



Take care,



Crista Stark (Miceli)

Remi Rosenberg

September 12, 2002

Dear Elodie,



I only met Keith once or twice but I know from my sister and her husband Matt what a wonderful and cool guy he was. I know that this past year must have been unbelievably tough for you and I want to commend you for making it through to this time. I speak from the experience of losing my father exactly a month before September 11th that time does heal all wounds, no matter how great. You have beautiful children that are a piece of Keith, through whom he can still live. I think I am speaking for myself also when I say I hope that we can be re-united with our loved ones some day.

Bruce Silverstein

September 11, 2002

Dear Elodie,

It was in 1993 that I met Keith. He and I were the same year at Staples but we never really interacted. Throu a friend, Keith had heard that I worked on Wall Street and asked that I help him interview at my company. After talking with Keith I was pleased to do what I could to help him get a job. Soon after, he was hired by my company BCMG. For helping him, Keith wanted to take me to dinner and had sent me numerous emails over the years renewing the offer. Unfortunately, there never seemed the right time to get together, so Keith and I never met again. A few months after 911, I found one of those emails saved on my computer. He talked about Cantor and how well he was doing. At that time I was considering a job with Cantor but decided to start a new chapter in my life and open an art gallery. Needless to say, I am so sorry for your loss. Through Keith, and my other friends at Cantor, I feel the loss of 911 greatly. And as I saw those building fall from the corner of Greenwich and 10th street, I thought of Keith and knew that it could also have been me. I wished I had that dinner.

Bruce Silverstein

Amanda

September 11, 2002

At school we were making hope chains and i picked your name to wirte on a sheet, i hope heaven is good.

Lizzette Romero

September 11, 2002

Keith was terrific in many ways. I heard about his childhood pranks and his life in general from his older brother Todd. I met him for the first time at Todd's wedding and his and Scott's toast was so genuine, I could tell they had a great life together. I know Todd will miss him very much and I will keep his family in my prayers. God Bless.

Darian Gambelli

September 11, 2002

Dear Elodie, not a day goes by that I do not think about you and Vaughn. I say a prayer that today is a better day. I remember Keith playing with Vaughn out front and how happy they both were - he was a great dad and you are a great mother! He is so lucky to have you. All our love to you and your family - Darian, Mike, Reilly and Harrison Gambelli.

Tom & Isabelle Neville

September 10, 2002

Dear Elodie,



We are both sorry to hear about Keith.



Though we have lived in NYC for the last two years, we only found out this summer (while in London) that he died at the WTC.



From our years on Courtnell St, we remember Keith as a charming, gracious and cool young man. We are sad that he should be a victim of this madness and about your loss.



Our best wishes and prayers for you, your children and your families.





Isabelle Bédard & Tom Neville

Cathy Lusk - Stalcup

September 9, 2002

Elodie - It has almost been a year since I watched the most horrific sight imaginable. As I sat at home with my two children I could not believe my eyes. My home town was under attack. After watching and hoping that this terriable tragedy was not actually happening I ran to the phone to call P & L Grossman. When L. told me that Kieth had not been heard from my heart sank and I prayed for you both.



I know that I have not spoken with you since I left NY shortly before your wedding - but I have always remembered your kindness. Over the past year I have thought of you and of Kieth numerous times and I hope you have felt the prays that I have sent to you and your children. You are a treasure. I think of you often and hope that with time your heart will heal.

Deborah Bono

September 9, 2002

Elodie, You and the children are in our thoughts and prayers. We know that Keith's spirit and zest for living and true sense of friendship are all things that will live on in your children. Love, Deborah & Girome

Sharon Robinson

September 5, 2002

For Jean and Neil. You are often in our thoughts and prayers.

Sharon and Peter.

Rene Harzula

September 5, 2002

I just wanted to take a moment to mention all the times the Coleman and Ferrante families have been on my mind this past year. I know Ann Marie Ferrante-Seyffart from a professional standpoint and we have become good friends. Never knowing our lives would intertwine in such a horrible fashion. My son after graduating college decided 4 years ago to go into the Army and become and Army Ranger. Last thing I wanted, but he did. He went through Airassault, Airbourne and Ranger Training and needless to say spent 3 months in Afganistan and Pakistan. Ann Marie was very supportive of Willy during Operation Andaconda. As Staff Sgt. he had pictures of both Keith and Scott in his ruck sack at all times, before each mission into the caves he would take a moment and explain to his troops once again to always remember THIS is why we are going into these caves. What happened to this country was totally unacceptable. Alas, he is home now and safe. He received a Bronze Star with Valor for his quest but this can never ease the pain that these families have gone through. My heart and prayers go out to the Ferrante's, Coleman's and everyone that has ever been touched by this horrible deed. I am so sorry for this.

Much Love to All,

Rene Harzula

Ann Marie Ferrante-Seyffart

September 4, 2002

Dearest Keith,
It's me "your favorite sister in law" HA HA!!
Please know that Paul and I will take care of my sister and your children, always. We miss you!
There is so much I was looking forward to sharing with you, holidays, raising our children together and tons of fun "in-law" moments. You were the best Uncle to James and Paul, they miss you so much. I want you to know that I truly feel that they will be better people because of your influence in their young lives. And I thank you for that. You are forever in my thoughts. I wish I could make this all go away and I wish we could have you and Scott here with us.

Jayne Wieboldt

July 31, 2002

Elodie,

If knowing that the thoughts and prayers of old acquaintances are with you and your family helps to lighten your pain in any way, then I am glad to have sent this note. The words written about Keith and your extended family were lovely. I, myself, escaped from the Twin Towers that day, and I sincerely wish that others, such as your husband, Keith, would have been as lucky so that you would not have to endure such a tragedy. Once again, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

- Jayne Wieboldt

Bucknell '88 (Pi Beta Phi)

Jenna Hicks (Thorpe)

July 22, 2002

Elodie,

We haven't been in touch since college, but you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jenna Hicks (Thorpe)

Angie Campbell

April 23, 2002

I did not know you or anyone else who lost their life that day. It just hurts so bad to see all of the faces and to know that for everyone face that many people are hurting. I do not understand this hate that took so many people away. May God Bless you and the ones that you left behind on 9/11/01. Rest in peace......

Annemarie Gleason

April 17, 2002

It is so true that this event has touched everyone's lives. Although I did not know you, I was a 3rd cousin and it is funny how you resemble my grandparents so much. I pray for your family often and hope that they find peace after this loss.

melissa urban-mc elroy

March 26, 2002

Elodie,

there isn't a day that goes by that my heart doesn't weep for you and your family, i've known you since high school and can't imagine the sorrow you must feel. My prayers are with you and your children, God Bless you all

Daniela Fabris

March 19, 2002

Elodie... My thoughts have been with you and the children since the terrible event...

I often think of all the moments i had spent with Keith in the office and on the softball pitch... I always felt very close to both him and Chris ( ingrassia )

I know i am not around, but if there is anything i can do... please let me know....

Take care, and give the children a big hug from me...

Dani

Peggy Weigand

March 13, 2002

It's been 6 months. I think of you and your beautiful Elodie, Vaughn and Neva. I miss your smiling face and warm conversations. I'll see you in another place, someday, but until then I will try to take care of your parents, brother Todd and family, and your lovely wife and children. Love, Aunt Peggy

R. Crowley

January 15, 2002

Elodie,I think of you and your children often and weep when I dare to contemplate your loss.



Keith was kind. I laugh when I recall his continuing encouragement to beef up when pregnant and I smile thinking of his unique rocking of babies. He swore that slow swaying with baby draped over the fully extended forearm would always stop their fuss, but who could possibly hold such a position for more than five minutes. No doubt Keith did with your kids. I suppose he was wonderful with your children.



All words seem trite. I pray that your hurt will lessen in time and that your family envelops you in love and support during dark days ahead.

Teresa Jahn

January 6, 2002

We are extremely sorry for your great loss of Keith and Scott. May your hearts find some peace and comfort in the golden memories of times shared with Keith and Scott. Our hearts cry with you.

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

Kate Dudonis

January 4, 2002

To one of the best looking men, (that had the wonderful personality to match) I have ever had the pleasure of knowing, I miss you. I miss coming up to the desk and the way you and Joe always looked when you saw me coming. Thanks for being such a good sport every time I moved your desk around the floor, you guys were always fun to deal with. And one of the best things I can say about you is this: I know you made alot of money up there, your desk was so successful, but you never acted like it. You were always the truest form of a "nice guy" and I and all of us in communications always appreciated that. Watch over your family and take care of yourself, buddy. I will be seeing you again, someday...

December 31, 2001

DEAR GOD BLESS KEITH EUGENE COLEMAN

AND MAY HE REST IN PEACE..GOD BLESS

HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS

AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET

9/11/01

Christy Baker Grant

December 12, 2001

I knew Keith and Elodie while working in London. We always had nice chats about our our common love for the Jersey Shore. Elodie -- I have thought about you a lot since September and my heart goes out to you and your childen.

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