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Steve Mercado Obituary
While growing up in the Bronx, Steve Mercado wanted to play for the Yankees. And even though he ended up becoming a firefighter, he did not exactly leave his boyhood dream behind. He played softball with other firefighters. He presided over a stickball league. And he was helping to create a baseball and stickball league for children under 9. "He had his fingers in everything," said his mother, Mary Mercado. "Every time someone calls, I say, 'I didn't know that.' "
But Mr. Mercado, 38, who remained in the Bronx with his wife and two sons, also loved being a firefighter, his mother said. He is now one of 11 firefighters missing from Engine 40, Ladder 35 in Manhattan. His parents, who live in Florida, visited the firehouse recently and were greeted with hugs and kisses from firefighters and strangers alike. "They cry with us," Mrs. Mercado said of the strangers dropping off flowers, food and money at the firehouse. "New York City has been great. They feel the pain." But none more than her son's Fire Department brothers, she said.
"The firemen are the ones that are hurting," Mrs. Mercado said. "They say they have to have hope."
That is why she still spoke of the oldest of her three sons in the present tense. "I'm very proud of him," she said. "He's a great son."
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Douglas Gammell
August 26, 2021
I had the pleasure of coaching his son Skylar in college. Steve would be very proud of the man he has become
Cissie
September 15, 2020
I have just read, again, David Halberstam's "Firehouse". I found it just as moving as I did the first time I read it. I think often of these men and their families, and continue to keep them in my prayers. I will never forget 9/11.
JOSE RODRIGUEZ
March 23, 2019
Always RIP Steve
John Gallagher
March 22, 2019
REST IN PEACE, MY HERO, MY FRIEND, MY BROTHER AND MY COUSIN ..STEVE you will always remain in my HEART till the end of day's... My thoughts and prayer's are with u and my FAMILY... Your loving cousin John...
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Denise Wigington
September 11, 2017
I will always remember and honor you. Thank you hero for making the ultimate sacrifice. God bless you.
September 8, 2016
I think of Steve every year. My heart goes out to his family. Today and for the past 8 years, I know the pain each day of losing a son great as Steve always has been. Today he and my son are hanging in heaven...so peaceful. I always remember that last hug September 2, 2001. He looked like an angel that day at the stick ball tournament. Steve is my age, born in 1963. My heart has compassion and feels his family's loss.
Hugs to the Mercado family!!!!
Gidgette Nieves
Rachelle Dunn
September 2, 2016
I am providing service in memory and honor of Steve for 9/11 National Day of Service and Remembrance. #Fairbankswillneverforget
S J. Friscia III
November 21, 2014
In Memory
With Honor & Respect.
P Nieto
October 1, 2014
We think of you often Steve. WE have NEVER forgotten!! What you and your FDNY brothers is an ultimate demonstration of the job you loved! You didn't think twice of going in to help others. God Bless you, Love the Nieto family
Tommy Mills FF
August 3, 2014
I will be Climbing in the Oklahoma City 9/11 Memorial Stair Climb Sept.6.2014 for Steve Mercado Firefighter, Fire Department New York
Engine 40 I will carry his tag with his name 110 floors and place it on a wall to honor him and the 343 firefighters that gave it all. I was 16 when 9/11 happened . It changed the world and my life . . This is my way of saying thank you to all the men and women that lost there lives that day. I will never forget.
Nick Miokovic
September 11, 2013
To the family of Steve Mercado: I could not let this day pass without acknowledging the sacrifice made by the Men and Women of the New York City Fire Department. Please accept my most heartfelt sympathies for your loss.
KATHY SCHLOTTERBECK
September 12, 2012
WE WILL NEVER FORGET
Helen Burkshire
September 11, 2012
My deepest condolences to the Mercado family. Steve is a hero & his sacrifice will never be forgotten. God Bless.
Helen (Aviles) Burkshire
NTHS Class of 1980
Gidgette Nieves
September 13, 2011
You lit up the world while here. I know you are lighting the heaven. Love Gidgette Nieves
September 12, 2011
THANK YOU FOR YOUR SACRIFICE
KATHY
MERCERBURG PA
Douglas Cann
September 11, 2011
Steve I love and miss you. We had alot of great times as kids playing baseball and just rough housing. The room always lit up whenever you walked in. I know you were comforting people in your last moments because that is just who you were. Miss you cousin and I know one day I will see you again. Love and prayers to your wife and children and Aunt Mary and Uncle Louie. Love you and Miss you, Your Cousin Douglas Cann
gidgette nieves
September 10, 2011
steve i know you are with your father god and love ones at the home we are destined to return. my son charles elias amaro is there with you.
steve what always is remembered when i last saw you at san diego. 2011 stickball. tournament is you approached me,smiled, and you were glowing. that was the same glow i saw in my son charles 11 days before his passing. i know you are with him and i miss seeing you both.
love always and from afar your sister gidgette nieves.
to your wife and boys, your father steve forever is remembered. i truly understand. hugs and kisses gidgette nieves
gidgette nieves
September 10, 2011
steve i know you are with your father god and love ones at the home we are destined to return. my son charles elias amaro is there with you.
steve what always is remembered when i last saw you at san diego. 2011 stickball. tournament is you approached me,smiled, and you were glowing. that was the same glow i saw in my son charles 11 days before his passing. i know you are with him and i miss seeing you both.
love always and from afar your sister gidgette nieves.
to your wife and boys, your father steve forever is remembered. i truly understand. hugs and kisses gidgette nieves
Caroline Hammond
September 9, 2011
With Love & Gratitude
February 10, 2011
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Brenda Walton
July 12, 2009
Steve I will always remember the fun we shared at our 20th High School Reunion. You will never be forgotten.
Brenda (Frazier) Walton
NTHS Class of '80
Deirdre Kennedy
June 30, 2009
To Those I Love & Those Who Love Me
When I am gone, release me, let me go.
I have so many things to see and do.
You mustn't tie yourself to me with tears Be happy that we had so many years.
I gave you my love, you can only guess
How much you gave to me in happiness.
I thank you for the love you each have shown but now it's time I traveled on alone.
So grieve a while for me if grieve you must. Then let your grief be comforted by trust. It's only for a while that we must part. So bless the memories within your heart. I won't be far away, for life goes on.
So if you need me, call me and I will come. Though you can't see me or touch me I'll be near with all of my love around you soft and clear. And then, when you must come this way alone, I'll greet you with a smile and say "Welcome Home"
Gone too soon but in our hearts forever! Continued prayers for the entire Mercado family.
Deirdre L. Kennedy
NTHS - Class of 1980
Imogene Jones
June 30, 2009
You like so many others will never be forgotten for giving your life, so that we may live. May God forever bless your family and hold them in his tender loving hands.
Imogene Jones
NTHS Clas of '79
Linda George
June 30, 2009
Steve, you will NEVER be forgotten by your classmates from Norman Thomas, class of 1980.
jose mandi rodriguez
June 28, 2009
MY NAME IS MANDI RODRIGUEZ I PLAYED STICKBALL WITH STEVE AND WHEN 911 HAPPEN I LOST A GOOD FRIEND AND MY SYMPATHY HAS ALWAYS BEEN SEND TO HIS MOTHER( mary ) and his dad ( lou ) and his wife and kids.as i played with the bronx knigths it was steve team and i played the position behind second base that steve played and it was a honor.this man will be miss. god rest his soul
Angela Martinez
June 17, 2009
Steve so many years later, you are still in our hearts and in our prayers. I pray for Steve's family, his kids. To the kids - your dad IS a hero!! And always remember dad is with you always!
NTHS - class of 80
Oreanna Antongeorgi-Kaelin
November 28, 2008
Steve was my cousin, he is in our prayer
Jonathan Haberkorn
September 13, 2008
To the wife and family of our fallen brother, FF Steve Mercado. My name is Jon Haberkorn and I am a FF with the Cheyenne Fire Rescue in Cheyenne, Wyoming. I participated in the Denver 9-11 Memorial Stair Climb recently, and before we climbed the 110 floors, we were each given a name and picture of a FF that died in the WTC. I was given Steve's picture. I wanted to contact his family to let them know that I will never forget the sacrifice that he made and that you have made. I will keep his picture in a safe place and his picture will climb the 110 floors with me again next year.
Brothers in battle,
FF Haberkorn
September 12, 2008
As I sit here on yet another anniversary of 9/11, I think of the Mercado family. Although it is a distant relation, Steve Mercado is probably the closest person I know of that died in the attacks. I worked with MSgt Tony Mercado, his brother, at Eglin AFB. I remember MSgt Mercado to be an amazing, kind hearted person and I can only imagine the same of his brother. I have often wanted to write to him to say I think of them at this time every year. You and your family are in my prayers. - Maj Michelle Villavaso
Bobby Medina
September 11, 2008
I will never forget you my Stickball Brother. You made our game, our neighborhoods and our world a better place. I have never been able to express my condolences to your family. I just have not found the right words to say. Where do I start? You were so much to us ... your friends ... I can't even imagine the void in their lives without you. I will never forget your rendition of Tiny Bubbles with our friend Danny. You were taken from us much too soon. God Bless you and your family.
Bobby Medina
Don Borgeson
May 15, 2008
I am doing a short Bio on Steve for my Chief. We will never forget!! Sorry for your loss....
Don Borgeson
FF-P, E-10 NFD
juan Corniel
December 30, 2007
I had heard of a fellow Norman Thomas Alumni that had died on 911. I did not know who it was until visiting this website. I knew Steve fairly well while at Norman Thomas. I remember speaking to him often and we were fellow class mates. I remember a lay back down to earth person. He would sometimes come up to me to speak, I was one the the D.Js. at lunch in the Lunch Room. I would always start by playing "Blue Magic" and dared to play "Salsa". Rest in peace from Norman Thomas Alumni and a Federal Police Officer.
Sharon Cannone
September 12, 2007
Steve.
Not a day goes by that you're not in my thoughts and prayers. Miss you and love you, cousin.
Love, Sharon
Polyana Nieto
September 11, 2007
I pray to God that each day brings a little more comfort and happiness into your lives.
Steve was a such a great guy, great father, husband, firefighter, friend, son. He was a character and alot of fun to know. I am glad to have known Jo and Steve, Jo and I coworkers/friends but since changing jobs, lost touch. But we've thought of you often.
My sister survived the WTC, but lost alot of friends and saw alot - its changed her and our family but we're all grateful to still have her. If it wasnt for all the Firefighters, Port Authority Police, EMT, Police Depts and their hard work and sacrifice 1,000s more would have not made it. They will NOT be forgotten and are in our hearts forever.
QUE DIOS LOS PROTEJE Y BENDIGA.
I pray to God it never happens again.
LOVE ALWAYS, Poly and family
Myrna (Mimi) Mateo
September 11, 2007
My prayer's go out to Steve's Family and friends. May he always be remembered as a HERO.
God bless you.
Myrna and Family
Alan Barker
July 28, 2007
I just happened to be scrolling through Google looking for another NTHS Class of 1980 alumn when I came across this page honoring Steve Mercado. Needless to say, I am shocked and saddened to learn almost 6 years later about his heroic depature from this earth. I have fond memories of Steve being the good natured--life of the party guy. I remember sharing many a lunch period in the 6th floor cafeteria laughing to no end listening to Steve. A true "Thomas-Tiger," Steve loved to talk about sports and was a loyal supporter of the various varsity teams over the course of his 4 years at Thomas. May God continue to grant you peace and eternal rest and may God continue to give solace to Steve's family. Steve is and will always be a true "Thomas-Tiger."
P Tabbernor
January 1, 2007
In remembrance....
Kristine
November 17, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Cristian Aguilar
September 28, 2006
taks for savin life.
Matthew Gonzalez
August 31, 2006
I didn't know much about my cousin and that is my fault. I have memories of him making me laugh and trying to teach me how to be a man. I wish I had more. I knew he was a good man, but when I hear my mother (Leyda) talk about her nephew I find that we are a lot alike. My prayers are with the entire family. 5 years is a long time, but will never be forgotten.
Irene Vasquez
August 30, 2006
I remember changing your diapers when Leyda and I babysat you. I will never forget your smiling face. My prayers will always be with your family.
Dawn Aldridge
August 15, 2006
To All the Loved Ones of Steve Mercado,
My name is Dawn Aldridge. I am a nurse who lives in Cincinnati Ohio. Like many others I was deeply touched by the events of 9/11. Because I also have suffered a grevious loss I felt I had a personal understanding of all those who lost loved ones on that day. I wanted so bad to go to New York and help ease the suffering in some way. But, Sept. 11, 2001 was my very 1st day as an RN at Children's Hospital and so I could not go. So I began to read alot about 9/11. I read the book Firehouse. I was so astounded by the heroic lives of these 12 men that I kept reading the book again and again. I came to a point where I wanted to remember the details of their lives. When you lose someone you love, you want the world to pause for a moment and greive with you. You want them to be remebered. You want their lives to be special to others as well as you. I understand this need. I have always respected firefighters. After reading alot of these books my respect has grown very deep. There is no way I could remember all 343 firefighters who lost their lives that day, but I can remember these 12 men. I went to New York in August 2002 and I visited the 40/35 Firehouse. I wanted to help ease their suffering. I needed to offer comfort in some way for their tremendous loss. I asked all my co-workers and some of the Firefighters from my local house to sign a condolense book for them. I also made a memorial poster for them. I also took them some Chili Powder form Syline Chili because that is only in Cincinnati. I was graciously informed that CHILI would never be the same for the 40/35 Firehouse because Steve Mercado made the best chili ever served in that firehouse. Steve seems like the guy you would always want to hang out with because he was the life of the party, and if you had a sports team, Steve was your man. It was painfully obvious to me how greatly his presence is missed there. It gives me great honor to have come across this site so that I can leave a message for his loved ones. I am so sorry for your loss. I want you to know your son will not be forgotten. I am working on a memorial poster for my home for all who know me to see. It was my search for information and pictures of these 12 brave men that led me to this site. I give out the book Firehouse as gifts. I will tell his story as often as anyone will listen. I will not forget. I still can not make chili without instantly remebering Steve. Please accept my deepest condolences. I know the 5 year is coming soon and I know very well how difficult each anniversary will be for you all. May God give you Comfort and Peace in Your Hearts. I will be praying for all of you. Steve, May You Rest In Peace! Sincerely, Dawn Aldridge, RN
Sharon Cannone
September 12, 2005
I am Steve's cousin, Sharon. I have spent the entire day -- not working like I should be doing -- but visiting all the various sites and reading the wonderful tributes to my cousin. Some of the entries have made me laugh, some have made me cry. But more than that, I feel an enormous sense of pride in reading how Stevie touch so many lives, including mine. You're in my heart forever.
stefany robinson
June 6, 2005
i am doing a paper on Mr. Mercado for my school. he was a wonderful human being. thank you for sharing him with us
Rene Rodriguez
September 11, 2003
Mi mas profundo pesame a la fam. Mercado,su hijo siempre sera recordado no solo por ustedes por mundo entero ya que este dia 9/11 estara en los corazon de cada ser humano y yo lo recuerdo conmucho sentimiento...Que Dios Los Bendiga,siempre.
Myrna Mateo
September 11, 2003
To Steve's wife, sons, family and friends:
May god give you all strength on this somber day. God bless you and keep steve in your heart. He is missed. :-(
Love,
Myrna (Mimi)
Gidgette Nieves
September 11, 2003
I have not been able to send my condolesences to Steve's family. I am Bobby Ortiz' daughter, and have had the opportunity of knowing Steve. For the times I have had the opportunity of being around Steve, mainly through stickball events. He's always been a shining star in my eyes, a loving father, and dedicated husband.
I send this to his family:
In the name of Jesus, we praise you and worship you, our Lord God,
My Children, I am your comforter and guide in this life and everlasting,
In this world, death is not knowing me and not following me,
In addition, death is no longer an existence of a being,
However, life is knowing me and following my ways, and, therefore, life is everlasting.
My spirit lives in all who receive me, and your spirit lives forever when your spirit leaves this world.
And the prayer of faith will save the sick,
The Lord has raised Steve up.
There is peace, today in his life, for I have prepared a place for all, a place, a kingdom for all my children,
And from this day, henceforth, blessed are those who mourn, for they will be COMFORTED!!
God Bless from afar
Gidgette Nieves (San Diego, California)
Deb Rivera
September 11, 2003
Steve, I miss seeing you at work. I think of our high school memories and how awesome it was that your firehouse was next to my job. I think of you all the time, my Bronx friend. I rarely go by the firehouse since then. It's too difficult to see your name in bronze instead of you in front of the 'house' wearing your FDNY shorts as we talked and reminisced about the old days....though we both still looked young! I was proud to be your friend and bragged to my co-workers whenever you did inspections in my building. It hurts a lot Steve. I have no one to talk to about the FDNY parties I went to. In fact all those friends died too. I miss you all too much. Be with God, and thank you for being my friend.
God bless your family and your boys. They will only be the best - having your genes.
With sadness,
Deb.
Jacqueline OHARA
September 11, 2003
I only met Steve briefly, but knew & loved his dear wife Jovianna....I had just had eye surgery, and ws not able to express my sympathy personally to Joe & the kids...I think of this often, and wish that I could go back in time, so that they could know how deeply I share their loss, and think of them so often. May god bless!!!!
Clarissa Pena
September 11, 2003
I never had the pleasure of meeting Steve, but my husband Ricardo and my father-in-law Ralph (Daddy)have told me so much about him that I felt like I knew him. Ricky even showed me some pictures from PR a few years back when they were just young guys having a great time on the beach.
To his parents, his brothers Anthony and Louie, his wife Jovi and his two beautiful boys, I never got to meet this man that my husband paints as the most noble and straight arrowed man out there, but I picture him looking down on his family and always making sure that they are all doing the right thing, as he did for Ricky many times.
God Bless you Steve, you and your firefighter brothers will never be forgotten for your ultimate sacrifice.
Susan Hagood
September 10, 2003
Attended a United Way Federal Kick-off Campaign this morning at Eglin Air Force Base on the Panhandle of Florida. After the Base Commanders finished their introductions, they introduced the MSgt Anthony Mercado, of the 96th Communications Squadron, who's brother Steve, a NY City Firefighter, was lost in the World Trade Tower disaster. He was asked to speak and describe how his family members have been helped by the United Way and the Combined Federal Campaign. Needless to say, MSgt Mercado found it very difficult to speak about the loss of his beloved brother, and choked by tears.
Well, being from New York myself, and still not dealing with what happened in NYC, that was all they had to say. The tears just poured, and it wasn't only from me, we were all sobbing. I spoke with Tony afterwards, to let him know that that whole ordeal is still very fresh in my heart and now that we know we have a fellow New Yorker close to us, he'll always be in our thoughts. My husband, too, is a firefighter; my dad was too. It's a family bond unlike anyother.
Julia L Duhaime
September 9, 2003
I didn't even know Steve's name until it was given to me to wear during the "Requium around the World" program I sang in Fall 2002. I just wanted you to know that I will carry his name in my memory - and everytime I think of 9/11 a prayer is said for him. With the 2-year anniversary approaching, I can only hope and pray that you, his family and friends are well. Please know that I will continue to carry some of your pain for/with you. He sounds like he was a great person. God Bless to all. Julia
Keri Nace
November 5, 2002
While I never had a chance to know Steve, he was my brother of sorts. He & I share a common family, that of a firefighter. When I first heard of the attacks, I immediately recited The Fireman's Prayer. I kept that as well as various poems in mind for weeks following the attack. FDNY has long been, in my mind, Americas Best & Bravest. Following 9-11, this has become even more obvious. Those that knew Steve should be (& I'm sure are) very proud to have known such a skilled, caring, compassionate, professional, dedicated individual. Today I received my 9-11 memory band, which has "FF Steve J. Mercado, FDNY Engine 40" inscribed upon it. I plan to NEVER take the band off. Therefore, Steve will run many more calls...you see, firefighters are always with one another...no matter what. It's you go, we go. While I still am here in body, he will be forever here in mind. May St. Florian protect him & all my other brothers & sisters in emergency services. God Bless. Stay Safe.
Wilda Esponda
September 27, 2002
I knew Steve from the neighborhood and because we all used to hang out together. O(orlando)David, Junebug, Bobby, Papo, Lori, Al Mcknight. Playing paddle ball or just hanging out at the end. As the years went by, I saw Steve more often at the kids school. His boys attended Holy Family School in the Bronx with my daughter. The last time I saw Steve just a little before 9/11 he had me in stitches telling me stories (he had such a wicked sense of humor)about our friend Orlando in California. I remember his last words were see you here next week. I never saw him again. Steve know that in our hearts you will forever stay! We shall see eachother again! We miss you! We love you brother! God bless!
Nilda Rodriguez
September 15, 2002
Dear Mary, Lou and family,
Words cannot express the sorrow felt for all of you. May Steve rest in peace and may our good Lord give you comfort.
Fondly,
Nilda, Pete & Michael
Gary Axelbank
September 14, 2002
i didn't know steve very well. but i knew enough about steve to know he was my kind of guy: a bronx boy who loved stickball. that he was a firefighter AND a bronx stickball player makes him forever special to me. that he was the first-ever phone caller on my bronx television program means that steve mercado is an important part of my life for eternity. and i'll never forget when he brought in samples of interesting stickball bats to show something that is an important part of our bronx heritage. steve, i think of you a lot.
Angela Corrado
September 13, 2002
I wear my "In Memory Of Steve Mercado" T-shirt with pride. I went to NTHS with Steve, and he was a lot of fun, always had a smile. Steve's wife & boys - know that Steve is watching over us. May the good memories we have of Steve be forever in our hearts. God Bless you. Steve - I'm sending hugs and kisses.
Carmen A. Sanchez
September 13, 2002
As an alumni graduate of the Class of 1980 at Norman Thomas High School, I was deeply saddened to have lost such a good friend like Steve. He was a wonderful human being and all that he did here on earth, I am sure he is doing it in Heaven. Indeed he was a "HERO" to us all.
May his wife and children, as well as his family find comfort and peace in knowing that he was truly loved and will never be forgotten.
We'll see you again, friend...
Love,
Carmen A. Sanchez.
Pablo (Pablito) Rivera jr.
September 12, 2002
I knew Steve ever since i was born, because just like him i grew up at the ballpark (Castle Hill Little league) my parents Pablo & Rosie would always be there so to me it was home and all the players older then me where my family .Funny thing was half the league was,(orland jr.,bobby jusino,angel (pdkey)rosado) i remember walking past his mothers(Mary) house when i was in tee-ball and she would always throw down a quater so i could by chips or a drink. I never forgot that, or how steve would tell me to stop messing around or he would tell my parents because i was a little bad-a$$. But now i will never forget how my (baseball)older brother became a hero.
*Thanks Steve for never telling my parents how bad i was.
Pablito Rivera JR.
Jim Donohue
September 11, 2002
Sleep in Peace...my dear cousin.
I vow to spend more time with you when we meet again.
David Cottes
September 11, 2002
Steve was my competitor. He played on stickball teams that were a rival of mine. I played stickball against Steve with the Bronx Qoquis and Bronx Raiders.
I remember Steve as the fast guy who always seemed to get that damn crucial hit to win the games against us. A lot of the players looked up to Steve because of his personality and wit. Even when it was his turn to umpire a game you knew his calls would be honest and fair.
I miss him and Stickball Boulevard will never be the same without him. I am honored to have played Stickball against him. May god bless him and his loved ones!
elvin rodriguez
September 11, 2002
rest in peace
Joe Rodriguez
September 11, 2002
I did get to meet Steve a couple of times and that was during the Stickball tournaments in NY and Florida and the one thing that always stood in my memory is when he picked up the microphone and started to sing "Tiny Bubbles", ever since then I've always called him Tiny Bubbles. My heart goes out to his family.
Veronica Frisk
September 10, 2002
I did not know Steve. I never had the opportunity to know any of the firefighters who lost their lives that horrible day. A dear friend of mine, however, did know Steve and the other men from 40-35. I heard the pain and anger in my friend's voice that day. I began to feel that pain with him. As the months slowly passed, my friend was able to talk a little more openly about his friends. I began to feel a deeper connection to all of New York and FDNY. I wear a pin which depicts the WTC and our flag every day. No one will ever forget the tragedy of that day. Steve will always be remembered, even by those who never knew him. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Doug Benford
September 5, 2002
Steve ..... You are truly a shining star where ever you are. I haven't seen you for years ( I used to live upstairs from you in the Bronx) .... I remember you like it was just yesterday ..... You will be missed ..... I continue to Pray that you are in a better place and I also pray that your family continues to be strong .....
Taryn Donohue
August 6, 2002
Steve Mercado was my father's cousin. I knew him but not very well but the times I did see him were very happy times. He would always be happy and he was an excellent father to his sons. On September 11, our prayers all went out to him and still do. Steve Mercado is one of the bravest people I have ever known.
Taryn Donohue
Marilyn Carrion
June 19, 2002
TO THE MERCADO FAMILY:
I KNEW STEVE AND HE WAS A WONDERFUL AND KIND HUMAN-BEING. I WAS JOVY AND STEVE'S WEDDING WITH JANET,MILDRED AND MEL WHO IS MY COUSIN. I SAW STEVE AT LEAST ONCE A WEEK SINCE HE WORKED AT THE FIRE DEPT AROUND THE CORNER FROM MY OFFICE. HE WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED. MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO JOVY AND THE KIDS AND THE REST OF HIS FAMILY.
mel carrion
June 8, 2002
I know steve for quite a number of years now . I could truly saw steve had a twisted sense of humor who was often the life of the party. I'll always rembember one saturday night before I was to get married I received a call from him. He said to me "buddy put your clothes on your bachelor party is tonight". he also added "man you got to get friends".
That was steve for you in a nut shell, he would humor you by offending you.
I will never forget that night nor will I ever forget steve mercado.
God bless you Steve their will always be a place for you in my heart.
Myrna Mateo
June 4, 2002
To The Mercado Family and Friends:
I met steve through my best friends mildred and jeannette. He married their cousin (Jovy). He was such a funny person. I remember one summer day we hung out at my girlfriends (Mildred) BBQ and i was a guest there, and i started helping with the hamburger's and steve came out and said "damn this is how they treat you flipping burger's", and then when mel (Mildred's husband) put more coal in the grill & he came out and said, NOW THAT'S A FIRE!!!! He was sooo funny!!! That was th last time i saw him. Even though i didn't
see him often, he was really a fun person to be with! 9/11/01 will always be the day Steve died a HERO!!!!! He will never be forgotten. Myrna (Mimi)
Michael Iezzi
May 22, 2002
Father we entrust our brother Steve to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
Angie Campbell
May 7, 2002
**********GOD BLESS YOU**********
Emily Mercado
May 6, 2002
I wear my silver bangle braclet proudly with the name of Steve Mercado FDNY. I will pray that your family finds comfort and peace during this difficult time. God bless the FDNY and all the men and women who work everyday to protect all of us.
Debi Henry
April 30, 2002
To Steve Mercado's Family and Friends: I did not know Steve but feel that I do from all I have read from all that have shared. My heart and soul are connected now with a bracelet with his name and life - and the lives of FDNY Engine 40. My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you all as you handle the challenges before you.
Jim Donohue
April 24, 2002
Steve Mercado was and is many things to me, not the least of which is my cousin. I can remember babysitting for Steve and his brothers when they were children. I can remember playing baseball with him in the streets of the South Bronx, and later, at the housing projects in Castle Hill. The hole that's in my heart will never heal. I think of my cousin every day, and more than seven months later, I still cry. What DOES fill my heart, though, is a great sense of pride. What a man that young boy turned out to be! What a wonderful man he was! It's been said that he looked up to me growing up. That may be true, but I make no bones about the fact that I look up to him as a man. He was everything God had in mind. He was a loving husband and son, a wonderful father, a terrific cousin, and a great friend, and there is no doubt in my mind that he now walks Where Giants Walk:
Through the course of time,
There are those who stand alone
Marked forever,
By the courage they have shown
God has given them a special place
For all Eternity
Where Giants Walk is where they'll always be.
God bless you, Steve. I will love you always.
Save a place for me in God's mercy.
Jimmy
Lillian Calderon-Infante
April 23, 2002
To The Mercado Family:
My deepest condolence to you and your family. I graduated with Steve in 1980 from Norman Thomas H.S. I was deeply sadden by his loss. I will remember his entry into my year book in which he said "Remember the Dude Ranch and I'll remember him". I will remember him always and the fun that we all shared those few days together. My prayers are with you all.
Nereida Larrazabal
April 22, 2002
I grew up with Steve, went to JHS 125, Norman Thomas & LaGuardia Community College. He had a weird sense of humor which would definietly bring a smile to your face. Unfotunately I didn't keep in touch as adults but always knew about him through mutual friends. He turned out to be the man I always knew he would be! My condolences to the entire Mercado family.
Josie Casiano
April 22, 2002
Steve and I both went to JHS 125 we then continue our education at Norman Thomas High School. We had many good times there and was one big family. Once we graduated from Norman Thomas, we continue together at Laguardia Community College. I will always treasure that great friendship we share together. My heart goes out to Steve's family.
Brenda James
April 22, 2002
I offer my sincere condolences to the Mercado family. Although I have not seen Steve since our 1980 High School graduation, I was shocked to hear that he lost his life. The "tragic events" of 9/11 has touched everyones life. My prayers are with you.
Brad Linder
April 18, 2002
I first knew Steve when he was employed by TIAA. I knew that Steve had a strong desire to help people. He knew at that time that he'd much rather be a firefighter - - and quit in favor of doing so!
It was a shock to see Steve's picture in the NYTimes. I still cannot believe that this happened, and to him. My heartfelt condolences and prayers to Steve's family.
God, bless Steve as a husband to his wife, a father to his two children, a firefighter to the city that honors him, and a friend to me and countless others. May his kindness and peace be remembered by all who know him.
Jacqui Atkins
April 18, 2002
I last saw Steve at the 20th Year Reunion. We laughed and talked about are crazy days at school. I shall miss him dearly. God bless the Mercado family.
Lisa Chattman
April 17, 2002
I never knew Steve personally, but I went to Norman Thomas High School. I graduated in 1979, so we were very close to the Class of 1980. A lot of Steve's classmates spoke so highly of him and he was at the Reunion in November, 2000. I just had to be a part of this tribute. I had my assistant do a really nice banner that we are going to use in the Parade on April 27th. Hope to see you all there.
And to Steve's family, may God Bless you all and his spririt rest in peace.
Marie Mike
April 16, 2002
To The Family of Steve,
I can only echo the sentaments of the first rider and let you know that I too share your pain. But more than that I share your glory, because the time we shared with the loved ones we no longer see was truly a gift of glory and joy. Steve was a part of the NTHS family, and he will always be remembered. I gladdens my heart to know that where he's at there is no more pain and no sorrow. God Bless keep you, his family.
Jacqueline Pearson
April 15, 2002
To the Mercado Family:
Please know that you have my prayers and condolences. I was taken aback at learning of "our" loss. I say "our" because he was a part of the family of Norman Thomas Graduates. Steve had a very sweet disposition and was always good for a laugh. I, too, unfortunately, lost a relative on 9/11 and grieve with you. Strength can only be obtained in revisiting our memories of good times and the valuable moments we all shared. I applaud Norman Thomas graduates of '80 for their unfailing support in rallying together on behalf of such a fine classmate. He has made us "all" very proud! God bless you and your family!
Melissa Clare
April 15, 2002
To the family of Steve: I had the pleasure of seeing Steve at our 20 year Norman Thomas reunion. He took pictures as we all laughed and reminisced of good times at Norman Thomas. I was devasted to hear the news of him being lost in the 9/11 tragedy. My heart aches with the thought. My blessings to you, the family. May God grant you all the good and special memories of Steve.
Elizabeth Vega
April 15, 2002
To the Mercado Family:
I knew Steven since he was 12 years old . We both attended JHS 125 and together went on to Norman Thomas HS were we again graduated to LaGuardia Community College. We share many happy times along with our classmates. He was someone special and I am also proud to have known him. May God Bless you all!
Brenda Frazier-Walton
April 15, 2002
To The Mercado Family,
My husband and I met up with Steve at the High School Reunion. We had so much fun. We all met for breakfast the following morning and continued sharing high school memories and talking about our families. He will be truly missed. My family and I will continue to keep you in our prayers. May God bless you all.
Deirdre Kennedy
April 15, 2002
To The Mercado Family:
My husband Maurice and I had the pleasure of seeing Steve at the 1980 class reunion two years ago. He was so vibrant and full of life and boy did we have a good time at the reunion! Steve touched so many people in his daily life and we can find solace in knowing that God hears our prayers and lifts all burdens. Just keep trusting in the Lord and he will provide your family with the strength and courage you need. You're in our thoughts and prayers.
Wanda V. Robinson
April 15, 2002
To Mercardo Family
With the reunion just a few years ago Steven and I began to correspond by email about stick ball and handball. He shared sites to rekindle to love we talked about for all who played these games. There is a love we share as an Alumni from Norman Thomas for all from NTHS. This love runs deep for our beloved brother. I will never forget Steven at the reunion who wanted to get pictures of all.
This was Stevens mark on the world his love for friends, family and classmates. We know that God is in control of everything and this world is not Steven's home.
Annette Flores
April 12, 2002
You will always be remembered.
Beverly Lindsay-Johnson
April 12, 2002
To The Mercado Family:
It is with great sorrow and, yet, great pride that I come to you on behalf of the new Central Commercial High School-Norman Thomas High School National Alumni Association.
Steve Mercado is a "Son of Norman Thomas" as well as a "Son of Central Commercial" as Norman Thomas High School came out of the legacy and vision of its predecessor, Central Commercial High School.
On behalf of the CCHS-NTHS National Alumni Associationand its Chapters, it is my honor to send our condolensces to the family of Steve Mercado. We will keep him in our hearts and spirits, as he honored the Ephebic Oath taken by all "Centralites" and "Normanites" at graduation --"With gratitude to my school, with pride in my city, and with devotion to my country, I pledge; as a graduate, to cherish the tradition of (Central Commercial)(Norman Thomas) High School; as a citizen, to work both alone and with many to improve my city; and as an American, to obey my country's laws and to support and defind its constitution".
Steve Mercado was a true "Son Of Norman Thomas".
I hope in the future, we can add to our scholarship/financial aid awards to deserving students at Norman Thomas, a "Steve Mercado Award for Excellence in Civic Service". Please contact us so we can keep in touch with you, as we support the students of Norman Thomas, the alma mater of Steve Mercado (NTHS Class of 1980)
Sincerely,
Beverly Lindsay-Johnson
CCHS 1971
President Ex-Officio
CCHS-NTHS National Alumni Association
Debbie Williams
April 12, 2002
On behalf of the principal and staff of Norman Thomas High School, Steven Mercado's alma mater, I extend our sincere condolences to the Mercado family and friends. We were very saddened to learn of this tragedy which has touched and changed so many lives.
Debbie Williams, Norman Thomas Faculty, New York City
Starr Stockton
April 4, 2002
To the Mercado family,
I feel very honered to wear your son's name on a tribute bracelet for 9/11. I am also a firefighter and take great pride in being able to honor him as one of my fallen brothers. I am deeply saddened by your loss as well as all those at FDNY. Your son and brother is a true hero. God Bless
Starr Stockton
FF/EMT-Paramedic
PJ Jewer
March 31, 2002
I am proud to wear a bracelet bearing FF Steve J.Mercado's name in his memory. What a terrible loss for his family and the FDNY to loose such a good person. Along with the braclet I received a link so I could learn about Steve whose life I honor now. Steve and his family are in my prayers. I will never forget.
Scott Neff
March 15, 2002
Even though I dont know Steve, nor visited his Engine Company, I have just recieved the most precious bracelet I will ever wear.
The bracelet has Steves name on it with his Engine Company in which he ran out of.
I needed to do something and when I saw the opportunity to get this bracelet, I did not hesitate one bit getting it.
I am proud to wear this bracelet at all times to mark the memory of Steve all who risked and lost their lives doing what they do best....protecting in any means necessary.
God Bless Steve and his family.The thoughts and prayers of Steve, his fellow Brothers and all who lost their lives on that day.
God Bless,
Scott Neff EMT/Firefighter
March 7, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL HERO..FIREMAN...STEVE MERCADO AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..STAY CLOSE AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK CITY..MAY JESUS AND ST.STEPHEN GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN..AMEN
Orlando Jusino
February 7, 2002
Dear Steve,
To My Friend and a man I can truly call my brother. My heart has ached since that terrible day. It was least than a week before this incident that I saw you, Jovianna, Tyler and Austin. I still remember saying goodbye to you as if were yesterday and who would have known that it was the last time that we would be together. Steve I've known you since the third grade when you used to draw your awesome Godzilla drawings. We grew up to young men and were always playing baseball together. I still can recall the day you met Jovianna and how proud you were that she was your girlfriend. I remember the day you sign on to be a N.Y.C. Firefigther and how proud you were. Then the day came when you married your childhood sweetheart and had two wonderful children. Tyler and Austin should stand tall and proud to have had such a father as I am proud to say he was my friend. Better yet, in my heart he was my he was brother. You will never be forgotten Steve Mercado.
Orlando Jusino
stephen Mercado
January 24, 2002
My regards to the family of Steve mercado, I also lost a love one at the WTC--They will all be missed
vicky
January 15, 2002
I knew Steve through the Youngbloods.I didn't know him as well as I would have liked, especially after hearing everyone describe the class of man he was. I wish I would have gotten to know him better. He was a great man. To his family, I admire your courage and strength.
Judy C
December 31, 2001
To The Mercado Family,
No greater love does a man have than to sacrfice his life for another. Steven made the ultimate sacrifice on September 11, a day no one will ever forget and rest assured your loved one, Steve, will not be forgotten, either.
Rest In Peace with God and may the words from people all over the world bring your loved ones and friends left behind comfort and may the sun shine through the darkness clouds.
Teresa Jahn
December 21, 2001
We thank Steve for dedicating his life to helping rescue, protect and care for others as a firefighter. Such a dedication comes with courage and a warm and caring heart full of love for his fellow man. May Steve's life and love live on in all the lives he touched through the years. We are deeply sorry for your loss of Steve. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
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