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David Winton Obituary
For many people, investment banking is just a job where you can make good money. For David Winton, banking was a practically a calling.
As an undergraduate at Fordham University's business school, Mr. Winton was the chief executive of the student-run federal credit union. He recruited his roommate Gregory Moundas to be president, and, volunteering 30 hours a week, the two of them turned around a troubled institution and doubled its assets in two years, Mr. Moundas said. Even as Mr. Winton rose to vice president at Keefe, Bruyette & Woods, where he was a research analyst, he made frequent trips back to Fordham to be on the student bank's supervisory committee.
Mr. Winton, 29, inherited some of his head for finance from his mother, a retired bank officer. But Mr. Moundas said a lot of his friend's ardor for banking grew out of a protective love for his family.
"His father died when he was in high school and he wanted to provide for his mom and his sister," Mr. Moundas said. "He never really talked about it, but that was one of the things that really motivated him."
On weekends, Mr. Winton frequently made the two-hour trip from Brooklyn Heights to his mother's house near Hartford, usually taking along his fiancée (they were to be married Nov. 17).
"After we lost his father, he said, 'I'll never leave you, Mom,' " Joan Winton said. "He never did."
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Frank Bravin
September 11, 2015
I always think of you this day. Always will.
September 13, 2014
Rest in peace
Mary Feder
September 11, 2014
Rest in peace, Dave.
TH
September 11, 2014
Today on the 13th anniversary of 9/11 we remember you David. To David's family members: Help be David's messenger by distributing all his positives, thru you, to everyone around you. We will never forget.
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1999 Whistler B.C. David and his friend visited on way to Seattle, we had the pleasure of their company for a few hours Lifes Little Imprints...
Lisa C
September 13, 2012
Mary Feder
September 13, 2011
Dear David,
On the tenth anniversary of 9/11 I remember you and how easy it was to work with you. You were a great research analyst - so calm, cool and collected. I know you had plans for the rest of your life. You should have had a long life to enjoy everything ahead of you. I hope you are at peace. You were a great man.
Please watch over the rest of us.
Jeffrey Haines
September 11, 2011
Dear Mrs. Winton,
I am thinking about you today and want you to know as someone who knew David from childhood in the neighborhood, every year I gather my family in front of the tv to hear his name recited during the memorials.
Our church and town are having a "March For Peace" tonight and my 10 year old daughter has made a sign she will be carrying in honor and remembrance of your son, David. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Sara now and always.
The Haines Family
Doug Koesel
September 2, 2011
Our church has a memorial in it of all the victims of 9/11. We were asked to take six names and pray for one of the names each day, as well as their surviving family members. I got David's name. He is not forgotten.
September 11, 2009
Mrs. Winton and Sara, We are all thinking of you today. Tom, Maria, Mary, Amanda and Thomas daCunha
Cathy Schmidt
September 11, 2008
Today I remember Dave Winton not only because of the 7th anniversary of 9/11, but because of a kindness he showed me in 1992. We graduated WHS in the same year, but were not friends because we were in different social circles. We ran into each other briefly in NYC while we were both going to college there. He was so friendly with me, and stopped to ask how things were going and chat a bit. He could have just ignored me (since we never spoke in high school), but it really meant a lot that he took the time to say hello. He was a very kind-hearted person, and well-liked by many at our school. Eternal peace be yours always.
Nancy and Chris Reilly
April 28, 2008
Dear Mrs. Winton,
Our son Bryan was fortunate to meet you tonight at the Scholarship Donors and Recipients Reception. Bryan was so moved by meeting you tonight, he was deeply touched by your son's accomplishments. It was much more than just a monetary award, there was a spirit and meaning to this scholarship that will stay with Bryan forever. Your son sounds so much like our Bryan, very special.
With Our Warmest Regards,
Nancy and Chris Reilly
Peter McGowan
January 27, 2008
I'm not sure what triggered my thinking of Dave this morning. I'm realizing more and more that you have very little control over when a thought of someone who has passed enters your mind. It is a very difficult part of losing someone.
I knew David mostly through our mutual friend Peter Kuper, though David and I both graudated Fordham. He was a good man.
Our little group gets together a few times a year, usually skiing or golfing. Rarely does a gathering pass where we don't remember him with a funny story, or raise a glass in his honor.
My wife Melissa and I remain deeply sorry for the loss Dave's fiance Amy, his friends, and his family have suffered.
Jill Martindale
September 11, 2007
Dear Mrs. Winton and Sara,
On this the 6th anniversary, I want you to know how often I think of you both. I know that 6 years later, the pain isn't any less. Take some comfort in knowing we care, and we will never forget David and his wonderful smile and gentle way about him.
Much Love,
Jill (Socha) Martindale, and family
P Tabbernor
April 20, 2007
In remembrance....
Tricia Lyon
October 9, 2006
Dear Joan and Sarah,
I have been thinking of David so much lately and I never knew of this site, I apologize for not writing sooner. I remember David from when we were kids and we saw each other at family parties, then I was lucky enough to see him at Uncle Jim's birthday party in June of 2001, I met lovely Amy and they were a couple so in love. I am glad I got that chance to talk with him. I think of you often, you are always in my prayers.
Tricia Lyon (Flanagan)
Maria daCunha
May 1, 2006
It's amazing how someone I never knew still managed to touch my family's life in so many ways.
Maria daCunha
May 1, 2006
I was thinking about David and his family today and wish I had the chance to know him.
Jill Martindale (Socha)
September 15, 2005
Dear Mrs. Winton and Sara,
Even though 4 years have passed, we still never forget. We continue to keep you close to our hearts and in our prayers forever and always.
Love,
Jill, Chris and Charlie Martindale
August 13, 2005
I came across a 9/11 article and thought of David. I knew David through mutual friends and fondly remember sharing meals and social gatherings with him. He was always a a great deal of fun, a perfect gentleman, and incredibly witty. Best wishes to his family and Amy.
Andrea Marais
January 12, 2005
I am deeply sorry for your loss. I am writing a story about the David H. Winton Memorial Scholarship for one of Fordham's publications, and the more information I gather about David, the more I come to know what a profound loss was endured on September 11th. From ALL accounts, David was a wonderful man — intelligent, kind, funny, thoughtful, successful. I hope your fond memories of him serve to comfort you in your times of sorrow. My deepest condolences.
Angel Roberts
September 12, 2004
I am sorry for your loss, a very tragic loss, God Bless you and yours.
may that day be forever stamped in our minds.. and we never forget what and who we loss.
Kami Knapp
September 11, 2004
God Bless
Carolyn Cocola
September 11, 2004
Dear Joan and Sarah,
Even though I live in Florida now, I still often think of you and the other families that I spoke with after 9-11-01. Your compassion and strength inspired me to get through a time when I needed to be strong for others. I hope you will notify me of future benefits in honor of David so that I can express to you how much you and David have touched my life. Hope all is well.
God Bless,
Carolyn Cocola
Sussanne Murteza
September 11, 2004
Joan, Sara, and Amy,
Today I sat in front of the television, and cried. A vivid memory of a horrific tragedy to our country, and a continuous suffering for the families of the loved one's lost on 9/11.
I hold close in my heart many prayers for you. I share your loss. Though I did not know David, I feel close as my family lives in the area. This just hits so close to home, and pains my heart. I was shattered the moment this tragedy was aired, and again through the years I am still reminded of the pain felt by you, that we will never understand. I can not imagine walking the journey of life without my loved one's with me. I send my condolences to your family forever you will remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Sussanne (Gineo) Murteza
former Rocky Hill resident.
Rafael ELIPE
September 11, 2004
I remember and will not forget
Maggie Nolan-Thibault
September 17, 2003
Dear Joan and Sara; It was on honor to place a rose in the footsteps of Ground Zero in memory of David. My thoughts and prayers are with you. It is clear by these tributes that David was well loved. Take care of yourselves in honor of him.
Love, Maggie (United Way of CT)
Frank Bravin
September 11, 2003
Remembering you on this day brother.
Chris Rodgers
September 11, 2003
Some things I remember about Dave:
My wife and I remarking to each other, as we watched Dave and Amy dance at Brendan and Erin's wedding, how they seemed to make each other laugh so much, and how that meant good things for them as a couple.
Telling funny Fordham stories with Brendan, Erin, Ben, Kourtney, Brian, Michela, Dave and Amy at Rory Dolan's after a game at Coffey Field.
Dave and Greg at Homecoming and dinner at Full Moon, a few years out, laughing so hard at each other's jokes that tears ran down their faces.
I'm simply glad I met Dave and people like him at Fordham when I came to the Bronx more than a decade ago. Though he came to the Bronx himself already an extraordinary and authentic person, I will always see him as an example of the best our university has to offer. My wife and I are thinking of him and his mother, his sister, Brendan and Greg today, two years later. God bless.
Jill (Socha) Martindale
September 11, 2003
My thoughts continue to be with Mrs. Winton, Sara and all of David's closest friends and relatives. We will never forget, and today especially, we have heavy hearts.
Marianne Horan
June 24, 2003
Just thinking about you and Sarah, Joan. I have such fond memories of all of you and our days in Connecticut. You and David are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Marianne
Dave Sellars
April 2, 2003
Still thinking of you and remembering drunken antics in London, competing for grades Fordham, laughing at stupid jokes, and generally just being a great friend.
Still thinking of the loss of your Mom and sister, and hope that time will help heal all these wounds for everyone who misses you.
Lisa Realmo
February 6, 2003
I am deeply sorry for the pain you are suffering , everytime i think of that terrible i start to cry .I am sorry for all the children that are missing a parent.. take care and lots of love from me..
Dominika Trocha
November 10, 2002
We will not forget. In remembrance of those lost on September 11, 2001.
Jennifer Sheehan - Lombardo
September 16, 2002
I was heart broken and when I heard the terrible news. David and I were in the Finance Program together at Chase. He was a wonderful person with a great sence of humor. I will never forget the times we shared. I will keep him and his family in my prayers...
Jennifer
chelsea clairmont
September 14, 2002
Im very sorry for his family and all the loved ones.i cried reading this page. i love u amercia!!
God Bless America!! :)
Jonathan Blessing
September 12, 2002
Please know I remember you.
Joel Whitney, FCO 94
September 12, 2002
My sincerest condolences to the Wintons.
I remember Dave from Fordham. One of the most likeable, unassuming classmates I can recall among my acquaintances there.
I am so sorry to hear about your loss.
Jamie Sweeney
September 11, 2002
Dear Sara and Mrs. Winton,
I just found this site and thought this would be an acceptable way to send my condolences. Whenever I think of this awful tragedy, David is the first person that enters my mind. Athough we were not close friends in high school, he was a friend in the classroom and someone I respected tremendously. When my sister Kara told me the news, I was numb. I sincerely wish you both all the best and I just wanted you to know that David has been and will continue to be in my prayers.
-Jamie
chris semrod
September 11, 2002
I miss you dearly my friend....my thoughts go out to your family and Amy.
TOM JOHNSON
September 11, 2002
TODAY I SANG MOZART'S REQUIEM AND WAS HANDED A BUTTON TO WEAR IN MEMORIUM, THE NAME ON THE BUTTON WAS DAVID HAROLD WINTON. I NEVER MET HIM OR HIS FAMILY, ONLY HAVE I READ HIS OBITUARY AND IT FEELS LIKE I HAVE A CONNECTION, I TO WAS A BANKER FOR 13 YEARS... OUT GOING, LOYAL AND TRUE....GOD SPEED DAVID WINTON
John Dekker
September 11, 2002
Dear Joan and Sarah,
You are in my thoughts today.
Frank Bravin
September 11, 2002
Remembering you today brother.
Kyle Labore
September 9, 2002
I went to Wethersfield High School, class of '91, with David. Though we were not "friends" we had a few encounters and I remember him as being a very quiet, friendly and outgoing person with a unique sense of humor. I wish the best for his family and I hope that they have found peace in the past year.
God Bless David and all other victims of the Sept. 11 tragedy...your memories shall live within us forever more.
Melanie Kennedy (Williams)
September 8, 2002
Dave and I went to middle school and high school together. I was very fortunate to have the opportunity to know Dave very well, because of our last names we were always next to each other. I was so excited to see Dave during our 10 yr. reunion year before last- his warm smile was still the same and he still made me laugh with all of his jokes and kind spirit. Little did I know when I danced with him during the reunion, it would be my last time sharing the same fun like we used to have in high school. My heart goes out to his family and friends. May God continue to give you the courage and strength to endure through the pain. Life is precious and Dave is truly missed by those who knew him from Wethersfield.
matt levesque
August 15, 2002
although we haven't seen each other in 25 years you will be missed
your cousin
matt
Philippe CHEVE
July 16, 2002
condolences to his family and all the other innocent victims.
Barrie=John Murphy
July 10, 2002
I remmember David from Fordham even though I was only there for a year. He was in my theology class.
I didn't know him personally, but my condolences to his family and all the other innocent victims.
Frank Bravin
May 31, 2002
I had not seen Dave since our Fordham days. My vivid recollection of my friend is a proper and professional young gentleman. Obviously of a fine family with solid upbringing and it was apparent that Dave was driven to be a success by just speaking with him, if even only for a moment. Sadly, what's left is the terrible and tragic feeling of being cheated, surely we all hold this for him. I have prayed for Dave since the day of evil, and I will continue to pray for his family, for the grace to cope.
To Dave: In you and I, my brother - Alpha Kappa Psi. I will remember you.
Frank Bravin
May 31, 2002
I had not seen Dave since our Fordham days. My vivid recollection of my friend is a proper and professional young gentleman. Obviously of a fine family with solid upbringing and it was apparent that Dave was driven to be a success by just speaking with him, if even only for a moment. Sadly, what's left is the terrible and tragic feeling of being cheated, surely we all hold this for him. I have prayed for Dave since the day of evil, and I will continue to pray for his family, for the grace to cope.
To Dave: In you and I, my brother - Alpha Kappa Psi. I will remember you.
May 24, 2002
MAY THE BEAUTIFUL SOUL OF DAVID H.WINTON AND THE SOULS OF ALL THE FAITHFULLY DEPARTED THROUGH THE MERCY OF GOD REST IN PEACE...MAY JESUS ..AND DAVIDS DAD GREET HIM AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN..GOD BLESS HIS LOVING FAMILY..FIANCEE ..MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA..AMEN
Carolyn Cocola
May 15, 2002
Joan, Sarah and all those who loved David.. my deepest sympathy goes out to you. The website tribute is very special, I can see that David was very loved. From my conversations with Joan he will live on forever! God Bless, Carolyn Cocola
christine barton
May 2, 2002
To David's family,
My daughter Jeanmarie Wallenodrf worked for KBW also I am here to say how sorry i am for your loss I do not know what else to say but that I only wish everyday for all of this to be a nightmare again I am really very sorry about david .
Sis Piro
March 10, 2002
Dear Joan, Sara and Amy,
I could never express the sorrow I feel at the loss of David. I know that Heaven's a brighter and happier place because Dave's there. He and Peter are always in my prayers as are you all.
Love,
Sis
James Piro, Jr.
March 10, 2002
Sara & Joan,
Here we are 6 months from 9/11/01 and it simply seems unreal to me that this event has taken place. What's worse, people who we never knew existed, took someone so special from us. David, will always be in my prayers, as will you both.
Much Love
Barbara Winton
January 30, 2002
Hello again from the Montgomery Winton's. Whenever I think of my four sons (three of whom are in the military) and our nephew (who is currently flying over Afghanistan), I think of David. Thank you for your kind response to my note. I have his picture close at hand. Barbara
Michelle Tacey
December 31, 2001
To Mrs. Winton and Sara:
You are always in my head. My condolences go out to you.
Mark Boyle
December 20, 2001
David and I were in Indian Guides together when we were 5. The world has lost a wonderful person.
December 10, 2001
MAY GOD BLESS YOU DAVID H.WINTON AND
MAY YOU REST IN PEACE..GOD BLESS
YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS
AMERICA FOREVER AND MAY WE NEVER
FORGET 9/11/01
Teresa Jahn
December 2, 2001
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Christine Huhn
November 27, 2001
My late husband David Graifman was Dave's colleague. We all met up for drinks and dinner this past summer. Dave happily told his wedding plans then glowingly introduced us to his fiancee Michelle. My heart grieves for her and the Winton family.
Cathy Morrone
October 31, 2001
My condolences and heartfelt sympathy to your family.
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