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John D'Allara Obituary
John D'Allara, a member of the New York Police Department's emergency service office in Harlem, was a rescue specialist on the scene at the World Trade Center on Sept. 11. During his 14 years on the job, he pried, cajoled or otherwise extracted a broad array of life forms from danger, dealing with a menagerie of exotic animals. Spider monkeys. Bats. Squirrels. One time, he saved an iguana. But he helped plenty of people, too.
"One time, we had a kid trapped in an elevator, with his head trapped between a beam and the elevator," said Sgt. Lee Hom, who worked with Officer D'Allara for five years in the late 1980's and early 90's. "He kept the kid calm, and we got him out."
A physical education teacher before he joined the Police Department, Officer D'Allara, 47, who lived with his wife and two sons, Johnny, 7, and Nicholas, 3, in Rockland County, intended to go back to teaching. "He loved the Police Department," said his brother, Dan. "But he was counting his paychecks to retirement."
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Katherine Harper
September 11, 2024
I know the reality of losing John for those who loved him is everlasting grief. Even the passage of time will not diminish his loss. I simply hope his memory brings you peace, comfort and pride.
Kate Harper
September 11, 2023
On this day of remembrance of the horrific events of that morning 22 years ago, we will always remember the heroic actions of John D'Allara. God bless his family and all those who loved him. We will never forget his sacrifice and those of all the first responders.
Jean Zucconi Libonati
September 11, 2023
Keeping you and your family in my prayers. The years go by but the sadness never ends.
Gayle Masingale
September 11, 2023
Thoughts today for all that was lost and the bravery I witnessed live on TV from the West Coast . RIP & Semperfi John D’Allara
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Jean Zucconi Libonati
September 12, 2021
They say that time heals all wounds. 20 years. It seems that time has stood still as the world is still feeling the shock, pain and loss. We will never forget. My prayers to you, John, and your family.
Katherine Grant
September 12, 2021
I still have Officer D’Allara’s memory bracelet and picture at my desk, and think of him often- 20 years and the day and his loss hurts my heart as keenly as it did then. I sincerely hope that his family is doing well and all my respect and condolences for all who loved him.
Katherine Harper
September 12, 2021
It is difficult to realize 20 years has passed since the horror of that day. So many lives lost but we can never forget the selfless actions of those like John D'Allara who went into the burning towers to save lives and tragically never came out. My heart goes out to his wife, children, twin brother and all those who loved and miss him every day.
Alyssa Cutler
September 11, 2021
Dearest John,
I can't believe it's been 20 years since you left us that tragic, fateful day. Not a day goes by that you're not loved, missed, & thought about. You may be gone, but are certainly not forgotten. Thank for for your love, selfless dedication, graciousness to all those you touched, either in the field, on the force, or in the classroom. You left a legacy behind for Dan, Carol, Johnny, Nicholas . You will forever be in our hearts May you continue to rest in peace.
Sending all our love, light, & peace to Carol, the boys, your brother & the rest of our family today & always.
All our love,
Alyssa, Josh, Kloé, Cerena, & Elwyn
BUD & KIM MOFFETT
September 11, 2021
John, what can I say that hasn't been said already. You were a bright light in so many people's lives and will NEVER be forgotten. We all miss you and pray for you and your family regularly. It will never make SENSE to me. When you left this world, I had a little over seven month old infant in a highchair watching the TV and the ongoing horror. That seven month old will be turning 21 in a few months, a LIFETIME without you here. Look down and continue to protect us from up above, as this country and world unfortunately are different places since you left us. I know you GOT this... Rest In Peace dear friend, as always we send our LOVE and PRAYERS, BUDDY, KIM and CODY
Gayle Masingale
September 11, 2021
20 years later your sacrifice will never be forgotten .
Your strength is admired by many.
Rest In Peace Officer John D’Allara
Katherine Harper
September 11, 2020
Even though 19 years have passed since you and so many were lost, I'm sure the pain of loss never leaves your family and those who loved you.
Gayle Masingale
September 11, 2020
19 years ago today our world changed, as we knew it. Seems like yesterday.
RIP Officer D’Allara
Prayers to the family you left behind.
Gayle Masingale
Mount Aukum CA
Mother of 2 in blue
Jean Zucconi Libonati
September 11, 2020
It’s hard to believe 19 yrs have passed. We will never forget. Peace be with you and your family.
Jean Zucconi Libonati
September 12, 2019
My thoughts are with you and your family.
BUD MOFFETT
September 12, 2019
Johnny Boy, 18 years has been a lifetime without you. Our son Cody was only 8 months old in a highchair when I watched everything come down. Now, he has graduated high school, has two jobs and sharing an apartment with a room mate. We still miss you and your smile, prayers for your family and soul, we love you, Kim, Cody and Buddy Moffett
Katherine Grant
September 12, 2019
18 years. I will always remember to honor Officer DAllara, and I hope this finds his family doing well.
Kate Harper
September 11, 2019
Will never forget 9/11 and the terrible loss of you on that horrific day. My heart goes out to all who loved you.
K. BLAU
September 11, 2019
JOHN WAS A WONDERFUL PERSON. MY HUSBAND KENNETH B. KNEW JOHN, AND SPOKE TO HIM NUMBEROUS TIMES BEFORE SEPTEMBER 11TH WE MISS HIM SO VERY MUCH, GAB WHO WAS ALSO FRIENDS WITH JOHN WAS DECEASED BEFORE THIS HORRIFIC TRAGEDY. WELL , HOPEFULLY JOHN IS IN HEAVEN AND CAN TALK WITH GABE. WE LOVE YOU JOHN. KENNY AND JUDY BLAU. SEPTEMBER 11, 2019.
Jean Zucconi Libonati
September 15, 2018
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Katherine Grant
September 12, 2018
Still have my bracelet and picture in my office-I will Never Forget
Kate Harper
September 11, 2018
I thought about you many times today and of those who loved you and were left behind.
Gayle Masingale
September 11, 2018
Again today We Will Never Forget
Justice for John
His Twin D'Allara
September 11, 2017
Kate
September 11, 2017
Your memory and courage lives on for all those who remember your sacrifice. God bless your loving family.
Kathy Magliozzi Grant
September 11, 2017
I have had Officer D/Allara's picture at my desk and worn his Memory Bracelet for 16 years and I promise to never forget his bravery.
September 11, 2017
Prayers for your family & remembering your bravery!
Gayle Masingale
Mount Aukum CA
Formerly Livermore CA
Jean Zucconi Libonati
September 11, 2017
Thinking of you and your family. May God bless .
September 10, 2017
Remembrance and prayers.
Kate Harper
September 13, 2016
Dan,
I found this extraordinary documentary and just finished watching it. I can never articulate what you have gone through but am thankful you were there to recover your brother's remains. He was a hero and it was another twin survivor who said it best, "Better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved before." God Bless you.
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x36ib61
Kate Harper
September 13, 2016
Thank you, Dan, for letting me know about the BBC documentary about twins who lost their twin on 9/11. I will find it and look forward to seeing you in it. My best to you and your family.
September 13, 2016
Thinking of you and your family..
Katherine Grant
September 12, 2016
I wore Officer D'Allara's Memory Bracelet as I do every year. It has a place of honor displayed in my home all year long. I will never forget and my continued thanks and best wishes to his family and friends.
Kathy Grant
Kate Harper
September 11, 2016
I think about John and his family every year. God bless his soul and those of his parents. I am a twin too, so I especially feel for his brother.
September 11, 2016
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Dan D'Allara
September 11, 2016
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Dan D'Allara
September 11, 2016
M L
September 11, 2016
Remembering you today John - and saying a prayer for your family and all those whose lives you touched.
September 12, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Katherine Grant
September 11, 2015
Another year gone by. But I will never forget. I have Officer D'Allara's picture on my office wall, and think of him and his family for a moment every day.
Kate Harper
September 11, 2015
I have never forgotten your sacrifice and the loving family you left behind. My heart goes out to all those who loved and miss you, especially your wife, two sons and your twin brother, Danny.
D'A and Hom with Heavy Vest on emotionally disturbed dog job
Dan D'Allara
September 30, 2014
Jo Vigiano Mike Curtin John D'Allara
Dan D'Allara
September 30, 2014
Jean Zucconi Libonati
September 13, 2014
John,
Thinking of you and your family. They say time heals all wounds...not in this case . Still feeling the sadness of that frightful day as if it happened yesterday.
Joyce Reda
September 11, 2014
Wearing your bracelet today, as I do every Sept. 11. My thoughts are with Danny, Carol, Nicholas & John
dan
September 11, 2014
I never met a cookie I didn't like .
Katherine Grant
September 11, 2014
Wearing John's Memory Bracelet today as I have since 2011. It hurts my heart like it was yesterday. My continued prayers for John's family.
September 11, 2014
Thinking of you today, John. With love and thanks, as you are indeed a hero.
With Love, Mariana
September 11, 2014
Prayers for you today and for the living and deceased members of the D'Allara family
September 11, 2014
Thinking about you,your family and the mess in the Middle East , will there ever be an end?
Wearing my bracelet in memory of you today.
God bless America
Gayle
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September 11, 2014
John, I just awoke to what is now your 13th anniversary in heaven. We think of you often and pray that you KNOW it. Again today, I will wear your shirt, and think of you and Danny, all day long. Danny, when you read this, please know I love you and pray for you all the time. I SO wish we lived closer... Until I write again, John please know how many lives you touched. Love you, BUDDY, KIM and CODY MOFFETT
Ernest DECURTIS
September 10, 2014
another year has come and you my friend , will always be thought of in our hearts and through conversation and prayers for your ultimate sacrafice to serve and protect. god blessed us then and now and god bless you and your comrades forever.
August 28, 2014
Happy Belated Birthday to BOTH of you... Love, BUDDY
dan dallara
August 28, 2014
Happy belated birth to you and Mother Theresa
August 27, 2014
Hi John,
I think of you often and I feel so blessed to know we were friends. it is comforting knowing you are watching over us. Miss you always.
Eileen
The D'Allara Family
August 26, 2014
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD (from the boys, but mom says Happy Birthday as well)! We love you and miss you. Thank you for and please continue to watch over us.
Love,
Carol, John, and Nick
BUD MOFFETT
September 13, 2013
John, I am so sorry for being late on posting this, things have been extremely hectic in our home this week. As always, my wife Kim and I watched all the coverage on TV that we could find. We make it a POINT to spend the day together ALL day, EVERY 9/11. It is a way to remember the shock we felt the day it all happened. Again, as always, we wore your shirts and hat that Danny was kind enough to give us, in you honor. It is STILL hard to believe you are gone, though you are NEVER gone from our thoughts and hearts. Peace and love my brother, and a year ago when I got a visit from Danny,(after over 32 years) I got a visit from YOU, as well... Thank you. Love ALWAYS, BUDDY, KIM and CODY
Jean Zucconi Libonati
September 12, 2013
Hey John...just to let you know I'm thinking of you and your family on yet another anniversary. The years are passing very quickly. We will all meet again. Till then..
Katherine Grant
September 11, 2013
I worre my Memory Bracelet today. I have John D'Allara's picture in my office still.
Did some research to find out who this flower belonged to, thought I would leave it here...
Stephen Weppler
September 3, 2013
August 27, 2013
Happy birthday John. I know that you are God and really celebrating. We miss you.
Eileen
August 26, 2013
What? Bedonia? That is where my mom is from! I,m sure your dad and my mom must have talked about it on the corner of Lurting and Allerton. When I get to Bedonia, I will make sure to check it out! Happy Birthday.
August 26, 2013
Today is also Aunt Daisy's birthday
Happy Birthday John
August 25, 2013
John,
Today, August 25, 2013 is dad's 100th birthday. Had you not been taken from us you and the boy's would have come with Angela and I to commemorate this day in his hometown of Bedonia Italy this past week.
The people of Bedonia wecomed us with open arms love and warmth. The mayor and the city council presented us with a plaque in your honor.
Before I left I put together a shadow box showing our family history including a piece of steel cut to the shap of a cross from WTC Tower 1 that now hangs in immigration wing of the Semenonary museum in Bedonia.
At a ceremony at th Bedonia City Hall, in the mayors office we were read the following text in English by the head of the city council:
"Welcome to Bedonia Daniel and Angela !
We are honored and pleased to welcome both of you to our small but lovely town.
It is with great pleasure today that we commemorate your visit in search of your roots, your family history and your brothers memory.
Our community is proud to be part of the emigration of your family to the United States, in search of a better life and greater future. The courage and perseverance shown by your grandparents is to be admired and respected. Having lived the experience of their struggles and hardships, has taught you and your brother sacrifice, generosity, selflessness, and tenacity. The better life that was given to you was then in turn shown to others, in your brother's case with his life.He fought for others that day on September 11, 2001, it came naturally to him to think of others before himself. Simply because that was the way he had been raised. Imbedded in him was the altruisim that had given your grandparents the courage to leave Italy and then got them through the difficult times in America.
We welcome your shadow box that ells your family history. We hope that the time spent here in Bedonia will further tie us and your roots that you will return again and again to spend time in these fabulous towns where history began for you. Thank you for allowing us to share this bitter sweet experience, we have once again learned how important the emigration process and the memories that have remained for the Italian American people of our valley are, how many traditions were taken from here, only to be continued from generation to generation. Not only recipes and folktales, but actual feelings and sentiments that have in one way or another kept you tied to these glorious mountains."
The memories of you mom and dad are never far away.
Happy Birthday,
Still,
Your Twin Brother,
Dan
Dominick Panzarino
June 25, 2013
Sadly I just learned of John's passing today,I knew him from Columbus and He was my coach on The Eastchester Ramblers,John was a nice guy and always could put a smile on your face, R.I.P.
Jean Zucconi Libonati
September 15, 2012
Hey John...remembering you on yet another anniversary. The years are passing quickly and now taking the time to say hi. You will always be remembered and in the hearts of many.
September 14, 2012
I did a music tribute for 9/11 on fb. In honor of you John. Also of course it was for the other NYPD and FDNY people who became heroes that day. This being the first year I knew you left us for a better place, it hit as hard as 11 years ago did. We all know you are with God.
Gayle Masingale
September 12, 2012
We will NEVER forget . . .
Eileen Carlo
September 11, 2012
To the first friend I met when I moved to the bronx. May your courage and honor be a source of strengh for us all. We will never forget your ultimate sacrifice.
September 11, 2012
For 11 years, I have often reflected on John, his exemplary dedication to Protection and Service, and his unfailing courage. His example never ceases to inspire and strengthen my faith that Life is gift by which we can serve a higher purpose. Thank God for the gift of John D'allara's life, and thank you John for your choice to Protect and Serve, and for your friendship, love and incredible courage. God bless.
September 11, 2012
To live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die. ~ Thomas Campbell
God love you, John.
Katherine Grant
September 11, 2012
I am still wearing John D'Allara's memory bracelet, and shared his story with friends today. I really will never forget.
Officer John D'Allara
Amy Mantooth
September 11, 2012
On Sunday, September 09, 2012 it was my privilege and honor to participate in our 9-11 Remembrance Ride in Knoxville, Tennessee. This ride is held every year in honor of all the Firefighters, Police and Rescue teams who lost their lives on that fateful day 11 years ago. Over 1,200 Motorcycles, Police bikes, Fire Engines, Rescue Squads, Corvette Club and Mustang Club ride together to remember our fallen heroes. As this was my first ride I had no idea what to expect. The morning started with the bagpipes playing Amazing Grace, a 21 Gun Salute, the Ringing of the Bell for Fallen Comrades and the singing of our National Anthem. As a participant we each got to pick a Police Officer of Firefighter who lost their life that day and they were our ride along. I was so blessed to pick Officer D'Allara. I drive a Mustang GT called the Flyin Mare and as the 1,200 bikes roared to life, and our Mustangs started up with tears in my eyes I remembered John. I have a feeling he was thrilled to ride in my Mare and I will always keep his Remembrance photo in my Mustang. I wish that Officer D'Allara's family could have seen all the cars pulled off in honor of him and all those we were remembering. It was so touching and my heart was greatly blessed. The photograph I have attached is the 9/11 Memorial which sits at our City/County Building here in Knoxville. This morning we had a Memorial service at this Monument. At 8:45 am and 9:05 am the Church bells all over Knoxville began to toll in remembrance of those planes crashing into the Twin Towers. There was nothing but complete sorrow and silence as those around me reflected on that day. To Officer D'Allara's family, I will cherish you and pray for each of you as you continue this journey called life. And I will look forward to that day when the Lord Jesus will wipe away all tears.
BUD MOFFETT
September 11, 2012
To All My Dear Friends,
As I said I would do EVERY year, I have changed the “Anniversary Year” number, and ask you to RE-read this and send to as many people you know, no matter WHAT their “political views” are… May we NEVER forget…
"ELEVEN YEARS OF TEARS"... OUR 9/11 HEROES
God bless JOHN D'ALLARA, God bless BRIAN McDONNELL, God bless ALL of the N.Y.P.D. and F.D.N.Y. "heroes", as well as all those that "came to help" from ALL over, near and far. All those, who gave their lives on September 11, 2001, so that others may LIVE...
I am lucky enough to know TWO angels, that shine down on me every day of my life, reminding me that SOME people put mercy and kindness before their own lives. In this world there are GIVERS and there are TAKERS, these are two of the "GIVERS". Something in their UPBRINGING, something in their SOUL, something in their HEART, made them DIFFERENT. They were able to see the bigger picture of life, and knew what they had to do in a time of crisis. Like hundreds of other "heroes" that day, they didn't think twice when it was time to show what they were made of... Modest, loving people, with families of their own, KNEW it was up to THEM to save other families loved ones from harm, and in doing so, paid the ULTIMATE price. How can we ever forget what was done to them, AND their families that day? Hundreds of beautiful people trying to help thousands of other "innocent" human beings, all over WHAT?
I am no longer sure of WHAT I believe in, only that there will NEVER be a good enough explanation, to explain ONE SINGLE DEATH! I don't want to hear "there is EVIL in the world...", THAT doesn't take away the tears of the lonely HEARTBROKEN husbands and wives, with only a "void" left in their soul, THAT doesn't take away the tears of the mothers and fathers that lost children, THAT doesn't take away the tears of children that cry every night cause they will never see a parent again, THAT doesn't take away the tears of a brother or a sister losing someone they've perhaps shared a "lifetime of memories" with, THAT doesn't take away the tears of some poor child, that never got to KNOW his or her parent, and only has a picture to cling to, for the rest of their life. No, THERE WILL NEVER BE AN ANSWER GOOD ENOUGH...
I DO wonder what kind of force could let something like this happen, to bring SO many tears to SO many families. If THAT makes me an "agnostic", then "SO BE IT"... If THAT makes me a "bad person", well then, I HAVE NO COMEBACK... but maybe, just MAYBE, I am unable to comprehend and accept ANY kind of justification or explanation for THIS...
So JOHN, BRIAN, and all the other beautiful angels looking down on us from up above, please know we have cried "ELEVEN YEARS OF TEARS" for you ALL, and are thankful to have had you in our lives, if only for a short time.
THERE COULD NEVER HAVE BEEN ENOUGH TIME...
~BUD MOFFETT~
Ernest DeCurtis
September 1, 2012
Happy birthday in heaven john just talked with Danny yesterday . We will be having another reunion with the guys soon.
BUD MOFFETT
March 28, 2012
John, I wish you could have been here... on second thought, you WERE...
Danny,
I wanted you to get "settled in" back at home, before I wrote you this note. Thank you SO much for your thoughtful visit, it was both happy and sad. I was so happy to see you guys again after all these years, but I was sad for days after you left. I've ALWAYS realized the "value" in having friends that you care about, but it really sucks that we spend so much time of our lives WITHOUT them, due to geography. For a few hours life was "safe" in the arms of true friends, friends that really matter... I am so glad for you to have met MY "grown up" world, Kim, and my little man, Cody. Thanks you for all the thoughtful, painful mementos you brought me, trust me, I REALLY will treasure them. I know with exception of Angela, your family has passed on, but please remember as long as I live, "I" and my family will always be YOUR family... I love you guys and wish there were more hours, more days, and more occasions, that we could be together. You are welcome in my world, life, and home, ANYTIME. Give your beautiful wife a kiss from me, and know I will miss you ALL, till we see each other again... I hope you save this note, and read it any time you're down. You are LOVED, BROTHER BUD
Kathleen Geraghty-Kravetsky
March 18, 2012
I went to St. Lucy's Grade School with John in my class. most of the boys in the class just ignored me. towards the end of the year of eighth grade he sat next to me and we would talk. we had an eighth grade dinner dance. the boys on one side the girls on the other. John was the one who danced with me. by then we had become good friends.
I moved out of the bronx in 1973, but went back to see some friends in july of 1975. my one friend and I went to one of the school play grounds where we had hung out. John did not hanng out then. but while we were on the sidewalk outside the play ground John camme walking by.
I live in the state of WA. the next time I spoke to my life long friend who was in our class, I asked her if we had lost someone that day and she said no. then when she called me this past Christmas she had told me she had seen his brother Daniel. Then she mentioned 911. I said why didn't you tell me then. She didn't know.
I am proud to have known such a brave man.
I am deeply sorry for the loss of John to his family.
God rest his soul, and God bless his family.
Courtney Rappa
March 7, 2012
hi john, well as you probably know my dad joined you in heaven a week ago tomorrow, i hope your face was one of the 1st he saw and you got a proper thank you for giving him an extra 10 1/2 yrs of life,that he wouldn't have had without you. my loss will never stop us from thinking about you and your family as we do everyday and always have, as i wrote a few messages ago,your sons are amazing young men from what i see and your wife..just a beautiful person..i don't know what else to write at this point but thank you again for allowing me to have my dad for the last 10 1/2 yrs..my guilt has never left me for your sons losing you at such a young age and never will..we love you!! Nancy & Courtney Rappa
Kate Harper
March 2, 2012
Mrs. D'Allara,
What a beautiful tribute to your husband. I am sure John would be very proud and humbled by your words and I am happy to hear your sons strive to emulate their father.
College Days
John D'Allara
February 28, 2012
February 28, 2012
"They say a man's legacy lies in the life he has led. This is true but it also lays in the lives he has left behind and the hearts he has touched. It is seen in the faces of his family and friends when they speak of him, it is seen in the love in their hearts when they think of him and in the courage to go on without him inspired by the example he has set.
If I reflected on 10 years without John in our lives, looking past the heartache time has not healed, I would want him to know this: John, you had many wonderful attributes including your great sense of humor, dedication to be the best ESU cop could, your kindness and wisdom, the accomplishments you've achieved and your heroism are more than just memories, they have helped shape our lives. Your sons strive to uphold the values you lived by and you would be proud of the young men they've become. The legacy you left behind continues to grow' you will never be forgotten and we shall remember you forever with love.
- Carol, wife
Courtney Rappa
January 27, 2012
just wanted to let you know you're in my thoughts and prayers..you guys have been on my mind alot lately...forever my hero!
Ernest DeCurtis
January 2, 2012
Happy new year
Ernest DeCurtis
January 2, 2012
Happy new year john
January 1, 2012
John, Mom, Dad,
I miss you all more than anyone.
danny
Healing Fields of West Michigan
Amanda Hite
September 13, 2011
Because we were so touched by John's story, we thought you might be touched by this photo of the Healing Fields in West Michigan with a flag for each of the 3,200 victims. Thousands of people visited and read the stories of these heroes and selected flags to sponsor. John will not be forgotten.
Tying the ribbon
Amanda Hite
September 13, 2011
This photo shows my twin daughters tying the ribbon around John's flag to show it had been sponsored. Your story was truly felt by many who read it here in West Michigan.
John's flag in West Michigan
Amanda Hite
September 13, 2011
Here in West Michigan, we held a healing field memorial on September 11, 2011. Though we did not know John, our family sponsored his flag with the funds supporting local emergency services. We now have this American flag with John's name and biography attached to it. We felt called to his flag as my husband is a Grand Rapids Police Officer, and I am a elementary music teacher. Our family will proudly fly the this flag and never forget the sacrifice of John, an American hero. We pray that God will comfort you and please know that his sacrifice touches the lives of people he never met who live far away. We will share his story, and he will forever be remembered by our family.
Gayle Masingale
September 12, 2011
God Bless you and your family on the 10th anniversay of 9/11. Also Bless the Marines and Soldiers, Fire Fighters and Police who are dedicated to protect and to serve.
courtney rappa
September 11, 2011
my angel, my hero..10 yrs later and forever, your son brought me to my knees crying today reading your name..what a beautiful young man. all my love to you and your entire family
Joseph LoBuono
September 11, 2011
Dear John,
On this 10th anniversary, I just wanted you to know that you will never be forgotten and you will always remain in our hearts. Thank you for being the friend and hero you will always be to me and my family.
Love,
The LoBuono Family
Joe (Jojo) Caroline, Michelle, Kimberly, Ashley and Jordyn
Gary Carlo
September 11, 2011
Heroes never die because their spirit inspires others to be better than they think they can be.
Miss you brother
Joyce Reda
September 11, 2011
Can't believe its been 10 years since that horrific day when you and many others were taken from us way to soon. Your act of heroism will never be forgotten, nor will you. You are missed.
September 10, 2011
Memory is the treasury and guardian of all things (Cicero).
In remembrance, ten years on. God bless you, John.
Katherine Grant
September 10, 2011
Ten years. I still wear Officer D'Allara's Memory Bracelet. I have never taken his picture down from my memory board and I never will. My family's sincere thoughts with loved ones today.
Eileen Carlo
September 10, 2011
Dear John,
It has been 10 years but you are not forgotten. Thank you for the many years of friendship. You are deeply missed.
Jean Zucconi Libonati
September 10, 2011
Im memory of you, John, and all those who have sacrificed their lives on Sept. 11, 2001; and for those whose lives were lost during the war against terrorism all over the world. God bless you all and your families and loved ones.
Kate Harper
September 10, 2011
I will be watching tomorrow morning as they read your name at Ground Zero in remembrance and honor for you and the others whose lives were stolen that terrible day. God rest your soul and bring a measure of peace to your twin brother and those who loved you.
Kate Harper
E A DeCurtis
September 9, 2011
This candle is lit in the names of all that perished that terrible day
E A DeCurtis
September 9, 2011
This candle is lit in the names of all that perished that terrible day
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How to support John's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
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Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
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What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
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Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
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Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
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The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
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Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
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How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
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