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Stephen Driscoll Obituary
When his parents' Bronx neighborhood began to change for the worse, Stephen Patrick Driscoll decided to help them realize their dream of owning a house near a lake. "He was so anxious to get them moved out of their neighborhood," said Gail Silke, Mr. Driscoll's sister, who helped manage the renovations at their parents' new home in Carmel, N.Y. "His goal was to put them somewhere they always wanted to be."
For months, Mr. Driscoll wrangled with contractors and fussed over details to make sure the house, which sits beside Lake Carmel, was perfect. Every night after he left his job with the New York City Police Department's Emergency Services unit, Mr. Driscoll, 38, stopped by his parent's apartment and picked up a box of their belongings. He also secretly restored his 1987 Chevrolet Celebrity so his father would have something to drive once he moved to the suburbs.
On Oct. 13, Mr. Driscoll's parents finally moved into their three-bedroom ranch-style house. That night, Patrick J. Driscoll, Stephen's father, wrote a note for his son and taped it to the front door. It read "Stephen, we finally made it. Love, Mom and Dad."
"I just wanted to let him know that we were here," the elder Mr. Driscoll said. The next morning, the masking tape was still on the door. The note had disappeared.
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Rob Henebry
September 9, 2021
Hey fellow Decatur Avenue kid. We had a blast in those days. No concerns just hanging out getting through the summers. Always on my mind Stephen. Hero remembered.
Cindy Roe
September 8, 2021
Remembering Stephen on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
Nicholas Cordovano
January 23, 2021
Well, Steve... It's been a while, but I think about things and often wonder how your family is doing. I see your son is following in your footsteps.
Why wouldn't he? Big shoes to fill though, but if he is anything like yourself then he's also trying to make the world a better place for us all and exceeding at that!
It still feels like it was yesterday. I am glad I ran across the opportunity to thank you.
You have had a positive impact on my life and throughout my travels if ever I hear anyone talking about what a selfless person is I get to bring you in on the conversation... "Yeah, I knew a 'hero' once... He had the heart of a giant."
Chris Turner
September 11, 2017
It is the 16 anniversary of 9/11 and I just heard Stephens name.I went to St.Agnes H.S. with Stephen and we were friends. I am so sorry for your loss ,he was a great guy. he was a crazy Bronx kid! I was actually a NYC fireman on 9/11 and very fortunate that day. I pray for the friends I lost that day and their families. And Stephen will never be forgotten.
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September 12, 2015
We remember.
Rachel Perez
September 11, 2015
Today 9/11/15 we did a clinb at our Chase Towers for those who lost their lives.. we got names and did our climb. 36 flights and I was only able to climg 20. :( I am so sorry I tried. I said I am sure you would have done the same for someone else. I picked out your name just walking by and Im glad I did. I would climb for any of you but I also said you would have done it for someone else/ I got back to my cubicle after the climb and decided to look you up. You were NYPD, WOW! Prayers and love going out to your family in NY. wish I could someday visit Ground Zero. I am glad I was given your name. Thank you for your Bravery in in saving lives. RIP.
September 11, 2015
You are so missed my friend.
Dan O' Driscoll
November 22, 2013
Remember the brave
Robert Henebry
September 10, 2012
Stephen, always in our hearts and minds everyday.
david FELIX
September 10, 2011
Dear Steve: Remembering you as a young cop in midtown South, very eager to learn and do the job. Well its been 10 years and i'm quite sure that as a citizen of heaven you're doing just fine. And if you had one thing to tell us mortals, it would be this: Find out just what took place at the cross. Because had it not been for that day, you would not have met jesus on September 11th 2001. Well hopeto see you someday. May God bless your family here on Earth.
Robert Henebry
September 9, 2011
Stephen always remembering you and your family. We had fun as kids. Rest in peace.
Robert Henebry
December 12, 2010
Remembering at this time of year.
Michael Skopetos
September 16, 2010
Type your name; Stephen, and look what I found! You'd think I would be faster than that.Nine years plus and still recall how my daughter Angie loved looking at the lights on the ESU truck you and SGT Coughlin drove around on Halloweens giving out candy. If there are rooms in heaven, you are certainly in a penthouse suite.God Bless now and forever to you and yours, from me and mine, from Decatur to Briggs. Little did we know we had a genuine hero in our midst.
Robert Henebry
September 9, 2010
Stephen just thinking of you when we were young and innocent.
Alyssa Tierney
August 17, 2010
Now that I look back on what happened almost 9 years ago, I realize how brave you were. I don't know if I would have had the courage to risk my life to save another person that I didn't even know. You really are a hero in my eyes. I really miss going to your house every 4th of July to celebrate the holiday as well as your birthday. I miss you and always keep you in my thoughts. You were a great uncle and a great person.
Love,
Your Niece Alyssa
Christine
December 1, 2009
Just a note to say that I am thinking of Steven and his family. We too are a NYPD family. Sending our warm thoughts and wishes your way.
Sereya Stevens
September 17, 2009
Stephen my whole school did a memorial in rememberance of the 9/11 victims and I was assigned to you. RIP
Robert Henebry
September 11, 2009
Steve your not forgotten.
Doug Abraham
July 4, 2009
Happy Independence Day & Happy Birthday!!!
patrick driscoll
October 18, 2008
I remember a time maybe like 10 years a go you come to our house in the bronx to pick me,David,Shaneene to take us out and when we got to the car i was giving you a hard time putting the seat belt on and i was fighting with you to put it on.Now that am older i just wanted to say sorry ....and thank you for taking us out. gone but in a better place...........love patrick your nephew
Safely Home
Michael Iezzi
July 5, 2008
Stephen,
Happy Birthday...
Doug Abraham
July 4, 2008
Happy Birthday & Happy Independence Day!!!
Zack Taylor
March 19, 2008
Steve,
Thought about you alot on Monday. Happy St. Patrick's Day, Hero.
Rest well.
Michael Zimmerman
February 9, 2008
Steve,
It has been a number of years since we have seen each other, however I know our memories will never go away. You were instrumental in developing my career. I am now very proud to say I work in a job you would be very proud of. I always think of you and Ann. I thank you for our friendship, and I want to offer our house to Barry and Ann if they come to the West Coast.
Take care Bro...Love you forever!
Mike Zimmerman
stephanie driscoll
December 10, 2007
Dearest Stephen and family, my name is Stephanie, wife of Mike who just signed your book. I was at home the day you lost your son, I'm an off duty nurse and when I saw the planes hit the tower, I immediately thought of the Police and firemen who would be putting their lives at risk to save others. I always knew we would go to the place you and so many lost your lives....it hit me like a wall as we got off the tube, very early as we wanted to be alone...I saw your name just as surely as I knew it would be there. Now I know you and a little of your family. We live by water too, my husband Mike Driscoll has a heart of gold and puts others first also..it must be a namesake family trait. Later on our trip he helped an elderly disabled man lost on the subway, even though we then missed our train and then almost missed the taxi to the airport...I thought of you then too. I hope your mum and dad have peace now and the new home was all they and you hoped. God Bless to you all, we are thousands of miles away but closer in so many ways....
ps. My husband is rubbish at removing masking tape too.
Michael and Stephanie Driscoll
December 10, 2007
We went to New York for the first time this weekend to go and pay our respects at Ground Zero- my wife saw your name, it stood out. She knew there was going to be a Driscoll there. We felt such a strong link, After traveling 3500 miles we knew a namesake friend would be there.. God Bless and you will never be forgotten here in the UK. When we think about this tragedy or hear about about it over the pond we will always be able to remember the face and a name now of someone who wanted to make a difference.
Robert Henebry
September 10, 2007
You are remembered. Your life was dedicated to doing good. Let us never forget.
Michael Iezzi
July 9, 2007
Stephen,
Happy Belated Birthday in Heaven. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Doug Abraham
July 4, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
kay kirby
January 24, 2007
i didnt know steve but i knew ann as a child and it sounds as if ann met a wonderful kind loving person and may he rest in peace.i am sure his love surrounds ann and barry every day.
Kristine
November 2, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
September 28, 2006
In remembrance....
joani (driscoll) dockery
September 12, 2006
i heard your name on the radio yesterday and thought that we might be related. Thank you for your servant's heart. i'm praying for your family.
because of JESUS, Who chooses to weep with us--
Linda G
September 11, 2006
I did not know Stephen but after September 11 there was an article in the paper and if you made a donation to one of the charities, you were sent a copper braclet with the name of one of the heros of that day on it. I made a donation and received a braclet in the mail some time later and it has Stephen Driscoll on it. I don't wear it all the time but I do wear it every September 11. I know that Stephen's family and friends remember him but there is also someone out here who didn't know him at all but thinks of him one day a year.
September 11, 2006
Today is the fifth anniversary of the tragic day that will ever change all of our lives as Americans. I do not know the Driscoll family, but I feel so much sadness over your loss and so much gratitude for the bravery of men and women who gave their lives in service of their fellow Americans on 9/11. I pray today for Stephen's parents, his wife, Anne, and in particular his son Barry. May God bless you all.
Katherine Leclerc
September 9, 2006
DEAR LORD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON STEPHEN PATRICK DRISCOLL AND MAY HE
REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND
FRIENDS...GOD BLESS POLICE OFFICERS
AND ALL THE GOOD WORK THEY DO..GOD
BLESS AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01...AMEN Steve i will never for get how much you ment to my dad every night from that day i prayed that you would be found and when my dad told me they found you dead i just prayed for you and your family that they would get thru this and i stilll pray for that every day and steve you may have laft this earth but you will NEVER leave the hearts of the Leclerc Family
- Katherine
Michael Iezzi
July 4, 2006
Stephen,
Happy birthday in Heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Steve Hennessey
February 13, 2006
Dear Driscoll Family, I was looking through the site and came across steve's pic. I met him by way of my cousin Mike Best when they were in the Seabees and I was in the USAF while we were stationed in Okinawa back in 1983/84, I know Mike and Steve kept in touch for a long time after they both got out of the military, in fact, I learned through Mike about what had happened to Steve. We all had a lot of fun and a lot of laughs back in the day and I will always remember Steve as a great friend. He was one of NY's finest and a brave man. I wish I had the chance to meet up with him again over the years and meet his wife and son that I heard so much about. Mike kept me up to date on how he was doing and talked about him often. Take care ol' friend. The memories will live on forever. Peace
Steve
James Johnson
September 11, 2005
God Bless You...
Robert Henebry
September 6, 2005
Steve:
Just dropping by, thinking of you.
donna
August 13, 2005
I also lost my brother Simon Dedvukaj on Sept. 11. I came across Stephens guest book and couldnt help but to read all the family entries, it just made me cry that there are so many people feeling just the way my family and i do. Stephen seemed like a very good man. May he rest in peace and may God give you strength.
Michael Iezzi
July 5, 2005
Stephen,
Happy belated birthday in Heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Robert Henebry
July 1, 2005
Hey Driscoll! You know we grew up together and I remember you always!
Yep, I'm here in Japan, teaching English to Japanese students. Who would believe a kid from the Bronx would be doing that? Pretty good, eh? Happy Birthday Driscoll, you are probably hanging out on some cloud looking down and seeing what a mess we have down here! Hey Driscoll thanks for being YOU! Your sis sent an e-mail wishing everyone a happy 4th and they will be hanging low, I disagree, they are hanging high, with pride of what you accomplished in life. Hey Driscoll, you were loved so much and still are, not bad for a kid from the Bronx. Hey Driscoll, keep smiling upon us...we need it! Happy Birthday.....Oh by the way you are a year behind me! Hey Driscoll you know how much time flies. It has been 25 years since I joined the USAF and 5 years since I retired. I can't believe that so much has changed down here. And I would like to tell you that this is the first thing I have written in a long time! Wow, you must be special kiddo! Take care, and God Bless.
Rob/Tokyo, Japan 7/2/2005.
March 15, 2005
We think of you often, missing your laughter and smile. Barry is such an inspiration to us all. Playing his pipes and always smiling. He misses you more than anyone will ever know. Watch over him always.
March 10, 2005
We still miss you....
Mike Zimmerman
February 11, 2005
Steve,Ann & Barry,
I have not forgotten the ultimate sacrifice that Steve made to go to NYPD. I do believe that he totally dedicated himself 100%. I do know that his family came FIRST! I miss him and his smile. Ann and Barry, his picture is still up as family at Mc Carty and Sons. Rest in peace BRO! My thoughts are with you Ann and Barry. Heaven is a great place to be now that he is there.
Kathy Flaherty
September 9, 2004
To The Driscoll Family -- Thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers-- I am Christopher's Mom -- we think of you and wanted you to know that Christopher is now a lieutenant commander in the Navy-- he is at sea at the present time aboard the USS Carl Vinson-- July 4th and September 11 will always bring you to mind -- God Bles you all -- you have truly touched our lives with your faith and courage -- God Bless you, too, Stephen ------
Michael Iezzi
July 6, 2004
Stephen,
Happy belated birthday in Heaven.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
May 25, 2004
You are still missed more than words can express and we think of you so often. Your beautiful wife and amazing son carry on with difficulty but with such dignity and grace that you would be so proud!!!I truly wish it would all be a bad dream and you would show up at our door again....
Robert Henebry
May 6, 2004
Stephen:
Just felt like coming by and seeing you again.
Robert
James Hennessy
January 27, 2004
Stephen,
As the new year unfolds, I wanted you to know that meeting your mother, Letitia, and your sister, Gail, was an honor for me. They miss you beyond measure and their pride in you is boundless. Upon spending time with them, I've no doubt you are tremendously proud of them, too, along with your entire family.
I also wanted you to know that I continue to wear the 911 bracelet with your name on it most days, and always when I take a motorcycle trip.
Thank you for your sacrifice and the example you set. I know there's a special place in God's kingdom for you, your fellow police officers and firefighters, and our service men and women who have made the ultimate sacrifice. As John said, "Greater love hath no man than this: that he should lay down his life for his friends."
My family and I love you and will never, ever forget.
Jim Hennessy
San Diego, CA
Gail Silke
December 31, 2003
Dear Brother;
Another Christmas and New Years in Heaven. A day doesn't go by when we don't think about and miss you. You are bigger than life. Again we spent Christmas with you at the Cemetery. Sorry the singing wasn't that good. But we will always be there with you.
Mom & Dad and everyone send their love.
Happy New Years in Heaven to you and all your buddies that went with you on 9-11.
I am sure that you and the people that lost their lives during the war even up to yesterday have all met. Have a terrific time together and please continue to watch out for us.
We miss you all.
Love your sister, Gail
Santos Kendra
September 11, 2003
Last year Temple University had a memorial service in remembrance of the people that fell victims to the September 11 tragedies. Each student had chosen a name from a bag to help keep that persons memory alive. On to my desk I have the original paper that I chose with Stephen Patrick Driscoll's name. I taped to a shelf and every time I sit to do work I think of him and your family. I wanted to contact thefamily last year but I felt as thought I should leave the family this day to morn. This year I wanted to let you know that you are always in my prayers and I wish peace and love.
Sue Palmer
September 11, 2003
Gail,
Thinking of you and your family today and always.
God Bless America and God Bless Stephen.
Love, Sue & Steve Palmer
Jim David
September 11, 2003
To the Driscoll Family:
I had the pleaure of meeting and knowing Steve, He was a great Cop and family man, God Bless you and your family and Barry always remember your Father was a true Hero and will be missed
Jim David Phila. PD SWAT Ret.
Nancy O'Shaughnessy
September 11, 2003
To the Driscoll family,
I would like you to know that Stephen will never be forgotten for his bravery on Sept. 11th. My sincere thoughts and prayers are with you today and forever. May God Bless Stephen on his anniversary in heaven. May God Bless his family and friends. I will be at St. James Church, in Carmel, NY. I hope that his family will get through this difficult day.
Catherine Hanks
September 11, 2003
Stephen-
I have never met you, but I have had the great pleasure of knowing your son and wife. Barry has got to be one of the kindest guys I know. I met him at Hunter Mountain in 2002 (Piping Festival)...Since then, I've been to Carmel many times and each time there have always been trips to see him. He is a great kid to be around! Ann too, is such a wonderful person...You two should be very proud of Barry. He has turned into a fine young man. Even though I never had the pleasure of meeting you Stephen, I know that you were an amazing guy. It is the 2nd anniversary today...I wish you were still here so I could meet you, but you will always have a place in my heart... Ann and Barry-I am so sorry for the loss...You two are truly remarkable people and are so very strong...Take care and I will see you soon!
Robert Henebry
July 20, 2003
Stephen was my best friend growing up on Decateur Avenue in the Bronx. I remember Steve as being funny and as kids we enjoyed life! I remember his mom Lida and his two sisters Gail and Sheila. I know his Dad worked hard and he was always nice. I lost contact with Steve after I moved from Decateur Ave and we went our separate ways until Steve joined the Navy and I the Air Force and we exchanged some letters. My last contact with Steve is when I was in England and he was in Japan and he told me he was going to be a cop in NY. He also asked me if I was going to be a lifer in the Air Force, I said yes! Now I'm retired and I never forgot about Steven and I will always remember him as a funny, skinny, best friend from that Bronx neighborhood. God bless his family and all emergency workers in NY. Driscoll family feel free to contact me. God Bless.
Robert Henebry
Tokyo, Japan
Master Sergeant, USAF Retired
July 4, 2003
As soon as I woke this morning and before my feet touched the floor I thought of the Driscoll family.
Born on the Fourth of July:
Happy 40th Birthday Stephen!
gail and mickey driscoll
July 4, 2003
Dear Brother;
Happy Birthday to you, Happy 40th Birthday to you, Happy Birthday, dear Stephen, Happy Birthday to you.
Dear Brother;
You are 40 years old today. Wow. We will be with you as you are always with us. We miss you but are still going to celebrate your birthday, as a memory which no one can ever take from us.
We will sing, dance and laugh like the old days. Everyone will be here, Sullivan's, Donahue's, and Mitchell's clans and plenty of friends, but most of all your parents, siblings, nieces and nephews and in-laws and your #1 son.
We know you are "living it up at the Hotel California".
Happy Birthday, Brother,
Love Gail, Sheila, Jeannie, Mickey & Michael
Paul Jones
March 12, 2003
Dear Mrs. Driscoll,
I still remember exactly where I was the morning of 9/11.. Standing there in dis-belief, wondering if what I had just heard from co-workers was really true, and praying they were wrong. You can always trust in this one thing we all should know by now,,, Stephen may be gone now, but he's in the hands of god, and in a much better place than we are just waiting for you and your loved ones.. I'm a Deputy Sheriff in the county in which I live and I wear a bracelet bearing Stephen's name on a regular basis.. It makes me feel close to him also even though I never had the honor of meeting him.. I just wanted you to know on behalf of my family and everyone in the San Bernardino County Sheriff's Department that we feel we have also lost a brother.. Our love and prayers are with you.
Paul & Kerri Jones
Gail Silke
December 23, 2002
Hey Brother;
Happy 2nd Year in Heaven. We love and miss you.
Your sister.
Ann Driscoll
November 26, 2002
Stephen,
You may be gone, but only from sight. You are still in my heart. I see you in places we've been and things that we've done. I feel your hand in mine when things are tough or I am just too sad to believe it all. You were my pillar of strength. Perfect? Never. But good and kind and loving, always. I miss you til it hurts but I know you would want me to be strong. I will be, again, someday, but first I must let the wound heal. It is deep and it is painful. The laughter will return after the tears. The memories we made together will play forever in my mind. That will keep me strong and give me smiles. You were the best part of me; a part that will be hard to replace. I may never be able to fully accomplish such a task but I know that the hollowness inside will soon give way to brighter moments. I will laugh and cry with Barry when we thing of you. I am the luckiest person in the world to have found such a friend and to have had the honor of being your wife for so long. I will always miss your smile, your touch, your smell and your sense of humor. Yes, I will love you for the rest of my life. Be happy, my sweetheart for you are in paradise. Do not look down on me and be sad for I have to adjust. I will cry, I will laugh, and I will just sit quietly thinking but do not worry, I am strong. Make a leaf wave when there is no breeze. Play our song on the radio just at the right time. Kiss my cheek when I go to bed at night and stand in the rays of the sun on the beach with me. Always remember, you are my best friend and I will always love you, with all of my heart.
Your loving wife Ann
Laura Legault
October 8, 2002
Today, our class prayed for Stephen. We prayed, that through the intercession of Our Blessed Mother, Stephen is granted eternal rest, and for the comfort of his family.
Sincerely,
Mrs. Legault's Fourth Grade Class
St. Simon the Apostle School
michael zimmerman
September 29, 2002
To family and friends of Steve,
It took me a long time to bring myself to write this. I struggled at whether I deserved to share my feelings of a man whom was/is a very good friend in every sense of the word.I had only seen my friend one time since he moved back to N.Y. with Ann and Barry. Steve stayed with me one night, and myself and Charlie Rasmussen spent some time together. Steve started his stay at my mothers house and brought her flowers. This has touched my mother to this day! He said this is for you Mamasan. I truly will miss all the memories of Steve and our days helping people and police in the tow trucks,they were great. I want everone to know the world is missing two great friends (Steve and Charlie) that certainly were role models for me and my family.I'm starting to believe that "only the good die young".
I can't wait to see you guys in heaven, I know that Steve continues to make people laugh up there. My deepest sympathy goes out to Ann and Barry. Love you forever Bro!
Mikedoe
Justin Festa
September 12, 2002
Family and Friends of Mr. Driscoll,
I am in 11th grade at Bloomfield High School. As a memorial for September 11, 2002 every student recieved a bracelet with a victims name on it. I recieved a bracelet with Mr. Driscoll 's name on it and decided to come here and express my condolences to everyone who knew him. I myself can vividly remeber what it was like sitting in school not knowing if my father was at the World Trade Center or not (thankfully he wasn't scheduled to go until the next day)and I remember it was the worst feeling in the world. I can not fully understand what you are going through but I can only express my deepest sympathies and tell you that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Sincerely yours,
Justin Festa
Jessica
September 11, 2002
At bible club our leader got all the names of the people who died on September 11th. She typed them up and cut each one by hand and taped it to a kiss. I got Stephen Patrick Driscoll for my kiss and I have been praying for him and his family every day. Today marks the first year. I will continue to keep praying for him. I have longed to see his picture and to know more about him, and I finally have. Jessica-age 14
Dan D'Allara
September 11, 2002
To a fine Bronx family it took a tragedy to meet....one year ago tonight.
God bless all.
Robin O'Connell
September 11, 2002
Today, 9/11/02, I remember and I pray.
O Sarayli
September 10, 2002
I only met Steve twice. He was my brother Frank's first partner in Midtown South. So, when my brother had his bachelor party in 1997, Steve and I drove down and back to Atlantic City. He had me laughing the whole way through lots of traffic. He was a great, funny and nice guy and everyone who met him there still remembers him vividly and fondly. I wish I knew him better, but I feel priviliged to have gotten to spend some great times with him.
Helen Craig
September 9, 2002
To the Driscoll Family, from the Craig family from the Bronx.
I remember growing up with Stephen and his family on Decatur Avenue. Steve and I were the same age and in the same class together all through Our Lady of Refuge. My family and I were horrified and sickened, and terribly saddened to hear of your loss. My mother cried for days, Lita, she took it so close to heart and she could not imagine how you, as his mother, must feel. We know that Stephen is in heaven, but say a prayer every now and then for him and all his family, Gail, Sheila, Jeannie, Mickey, Michael, Lita, and Patrick,and to all those who have joined the family since. I see you have grown into quite a clan! My favorite memory of Stephen was when were about eight years old and I was walking home at lunchtime. Some kid was picking on me and trying to pull up the skirt on those godawful uniforms they made us wear in Refuge, I think they were still green plaid back then. Anyway, I never even knew Stephen was anywhere near until I heard him yelling and I saw the big kid take off running. He walked with me the rest of the way home (which was really quite brave because at eight years old, if anyone saw you walking together, you would be teased mercilessly until you grew up and got married). I never forgot that. Thanks, Stephen. And although you may lose touch with the great friends you had as a kid when you grow older, you can never lose the memories of growing up together and helping to shape each other as individuals. Thanks to all of you and may God bless you all!!
With Love from Helen, Patrick, Bernadette, Rita, Eddie, and my Mom and Dad, The Craig Family.
Pam Ward
September 5, 2002
I am a stitcher that is volunteering my time to sew squares for the Memorial Flag. I just received Stephen's square to be stitched. He, among many other angels that I have stitched, will always be a part of my life. Before I start, I research the person to see where they were in their life at the time of this attack. Like Stephen, my husband is a police sergeant working here in Connecticut. He worked for four years in District 33 with Ray Suarez, he partner and another officer taken that day. I am so proud to be stitching his square and I hope that if the family reads this, they will one day see my square in honor of their son.
Pam Ward
Gail Silke
September 4, 2002
Dear Brother - your 1st anniversary in heaven is coming. You left us on September 11, 2001 with your comrades and other people who were killed by the terrorist attack on our country.
This is for all:
A million times we've needed you,
A million times we've cried.
If love alone could've saved you,
You never would have died.
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we love you still.
In our hearts you hold a place,
No one else will ever fill.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
But you didn't go alone.
Part of us went with you,
The day God took you home.
Love & miss you Stephen,
Mom, Dad, Gail & Billy & Kids, Sheila & Kids, Jeannie & Joe & Kids, Mickey & John & Kids, Michael & Keri and baby
Jeannie Pagliuca
August 31, 2002
Dearest Stephen, This is so hard. I have your picture in my living room and see you everyday. I remember the first time I saw you. Your mom was pushing you in the baby carriage going down Decatur Ave. It was the summer time and I was sitting on the stoop with one of my sister's and some friends.Your mom stopped to say, you look so hot, here's some money to go buy ice cream so you can cool off. (Your mom, always thinking about others just like you). That was the start of our two families becoming life long friends. We were always there for each other. I remember those silly piggy back rides, playing ghost and those terrible french fires that I made that Gail still tells me about. I remember rushing home from school so I could take you and your sisters downstairs to play. Then later Michael was born and you finally had a brother. It was so much fun growing up together, and even more special is the bond our families still hold for each other after all these years. You and your family have always had a special place in my heart and always will. I know you always knew that. This is just so hard. You are such a good person and loved so much. I try to take comfort in knowing that you are in a much better place with God now. I know Nanny and Pop are with you too, and your Uncle Barry.
I love and miss you Stephen.
Love, Big Jean
Rebecca Avellaneda
August 21, 2002
Steve,
I just want to say thank you for being such a good friend to my dad, Freddy Avellaneda. You were the greatest thing that could of happened to him. He thought the world of you. My dad had the time of his life when he went to visit you and your family a couple of year's ago. It was all he could talk about. It was great to see all the pictures of you and your family. My dad looks at those pictures all the time. My dad was so happy to meet your parents and spend time with them. I want you to know that my dad carries your picture in his wallet and looks at it every day. I will always remember you wanting a sign that said "Mi Casa Su Casa" to hang in your house and the things you and may dad used to call each other. God bless you and your family. You will never be forgotten by my dad and our family.
James Hennessy
August 20, 2002
Stephen, since receiving my 911 bracelet with your name on it, you've been "my cop." Since then, I've learned much about you and have even had the honor of talking with your parents about you.
Now, almost a year later, I want to thank you not only for your sacrifice, but for being an example for my family and I to admire.
We think about you often with thanks, with admiration, and with our deepest respect.
You're our hero -- "our" cop.
Al Matousek
July 13, 2002
As you soar amongst the angels, those below shall never forget.
kerry murphy
July 5, 2002
Steve, we want to wish you a Happy Birthday in heaven. Today ALL the fireworks were for you. We miss you terribly.Although the earth is a better place because of you, you would be far more helpful if you were still here with us. You have left a wonderful legacy and we will try to take care of Ann and Barry and your family as you tried to take care of so many. May GOd Bless You !!! We will never forget you!!!!!
5/7/00 NY Shields Police memorial breakfast<br> PO Stephen P. Driscoll, PO Dan Kaplan,Pianist Katya Grineva, Det. William McCormack
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July 3, 2002
theresa mccarthy
July 1, 2002
I grew up with stephen on decatur ave in the bx. I met up with him again when he called my office to see our dr. for his ear that he had perforated training for the job doing diving exercises. After that he came in for allergy injections. He was so appreciative that he constantly brought bakery cookies for the girls. One of the nurses called him the cookie man. I enjoyed seeing him on those visits always with that smile on his face. i miss seeing him and talking to him even for a minute or two. I know how much he loved being a police officer and that day he was doing the job he was made for, but I wish he was still here because stephen was one of a kind. We will always miss you stephen.
Shamra Figueroa
June 21, 2002
God Bless You
Tara Marie
June 20, 2002
May 11, 2002
This morning the NY Shields had its 12th annual Memorial Breakfast. We honored the families of the police officers who made the Ultimate Sacrifice on 9/11/01. It is the first breakfast we had without P.O. Stephen Driscoll.
Steve and I were on the Board of Shields for years. Steve's personal mission was to help care for the families of officers killed in the Line of Duty. When I last saw him and Sgt. John Coughlin, they had responded with their ESU team to a shooting that my partner and I had driven into on East Gun Hill Road in the 52 Precinct in the Bronx. After everything was under control, Steve and I talked about the Shields and what we felt was important. "Tara, we have to get back to taking care of the parents. That's the most important thing."
Sgt. Coughlin announced, "Well done lads...and lass. ESU handshakes all around." Sgt. Coughlin shook my hand and told my partner and I that we had done a great job and remained calm in great danger. His compliment meant the world to us. We looked up to him a great deal and his praise was worth gold.
We had to take our prisoner to the station house and ESU had to move on to their next job. I was sorry that our conversation was cut short. I'm even sorrier now, it was the last time I would see Steve and Sgt. Coughlin.
Today as we escorted Stephen's family up to the podium for the presentation of the Medal of Valor, I couldn't help but think, "Steve, this is not how it's supposed to be. You're supposed to be here with us. We're not supposed to be escorting your family."
As the helicopters did their fly by at the end of the ceremony, something Stephen had always organized, he was smiling down on us. God bless you Steve. We miss you so much. We love you! Tara
Alyssa Tierney
June 12, 2002
Uncle Stephen........you were the best. I remember riding around my block on your motor-cycle.......I had a blast! And even though I was scared, I knew that it was o.k. because you were there. I had so many memories with you. Everyone misses you, but we know that everything happens for a reason. I'm sitting here with lauren and her friend and we were just talking about how cool you are. Its really not the same without you. Everyone has you in their prayers. Everyone should also pray for the dumb people who set all of this up because obviously, they are the ones who need it the most because they must be out of their mind to want to take innocent people away from their loved ones. I'm looking foward to seeing you again ( in heaven). I miss you and you are always in my heart.
Love,
Alyssa & Lauren
Letitia & Patrick Driscoll
May 22, 2002
OUR SON - Stephen Patrick Driscoll
Born on the 4th day of July, 1963
Born into everlasting life on the 11th day of September, 2001
Found & brought home on the 8th day of November, 2001
Laid to rest on the 14th day of November, 2001
World Trade Center
This thank you comes from our hearts. Thank you for your prayers and kind words. We were given these words of comfort and in turn would like to pass them onto you, our family and friends:
Feel no guilt in laughter
They know how much you care
Feel no sorrow in a smile
That they're not here to share
You cannot grieve forever
They would not want you to
They'd hope that you would carry on
The way you always do
So talk about the good times
And the ways you showed you cared
The days you spent together
All the happiness you shared
Let memories surround you
A word someone may say
Will suddenly recapture
A time, an hour, a day
That brings them back as clearly
As though they were still here
And fills you with the feelings
That they are always near
For if you keep those moments
You will never be apart
And they will live forever
Locked safe within you heart.
Love Letitia & Patrick Driscoll
DET JOSE LOPEZ
May 7, 2002
I MISS YOU PAL, OUR PRAYERS TO YOUR FAMILY STEVE, I CANT THINK OF WORDS TO DESCRIBE HIM. YOU JUST HAD TO MEET HIM TO UNDERSTAND. WHEN YOU WALK AWAY FROM THIS MAN YOU FELT LIKE YOU LEFT WITH SOMTHING ALL THE TIME IAM GLAD I HAD THE HONER TO MEET HIM AND WORK WITH HIM THANK YOU STEVE.
John Patrick Driscoll
May 3, 2002
My son, Sean Patrick Driscoll U.S.A.F.
Will NEVER FORGET why we defend out dreams.
Angie Campbell
April 25, 2002
**********God Bless You**********
Kim Nelson
April 15, 2002
Dear Stephen,
What a treasure you were to those who were fortunate to know you and to love you. Thank you for blessing so many people and for making the ultimate sacrifice in service to your fellow man.
I pray God's blessings and healing for your wife, son, and all of the members of your family and circle of friends.
I didn't know you, but I am touched by these tributes to the life you led here on earth. I am blessed to work with a terrific cousin of yours.
Chuck Taylor
March 31, 2002
Steven is my friend and I have at some point missed him everyday since he has been gone. I know my friend was doing what he was supposed to do and he was dam good at it, he saved countless numbers. My heart and mind will always be with him.
Tom Warren
March 27, 2002
I miss you Steve, Seems we have similar careers starting in Midtown South then I followed you into the Bronx. You were made for greatness and proved it to us all you are the true sense of the word HERO. Last I spoke to you you wanted to set up a little golf with Barry. Barry let me know I keep my promises Steve you are one of the great ones
ellen cunningham
March 21, 2002
I have read all the entries in this book and althoughi did not know you personally,i am very proud of you.the tributes speak for themselves,you are loved beyond life.your family is a loving and proud family and i am proud of you too.wish i had gotten to know you.
Chrissy McDonnell
March 20, 2002
Steve- you were like an uncle to me and I knew you better than I do some of my real uncles. Now people call you a hero but I knew you were one along time ago. You would help anyone who needed it no matter their race, religion, or beliefs. You nevertook for granted that you have a great son who loves you dearly. When we went on vacation to North Carolina you would sleep late and when you woke up Ann would make you a big breakfast. Late at night I think of you. Until the day they found you I told myself "it just isn't real they will find him and he will come home." but my gut feeling was wrong. I dont want to face the facts and tell myself your gone and tell myself that it was real. The other night I remeber how I was never afraid when you were around. Then I realized that now you will always be watching me so i have nothing to fear. I know if anything were to happen to my dad instead of you you would have acted as my replacment dad. I thank you for everything you have ever done for me. I hope you have a good rest and I hope that heaven has good breakfast! I Love you more than you will ever know!!
Jay Broderick
March 19, 2002
Steve, Your missed dearly by your friends from Boston PD and the Silver Shield.
Aunt Barbara
March 16, 2002
Stephen,
You were a young boy when I came into your family. Me and Uncle Des used to babysit for you and your brothers and sisters all the time. While you did your homework you would put your baby brother Michael in your school bag and kept him beside you. As you got older you would come to the job where Uncle Des and I worked to visit us. We spent a lot of time with you as you were growing up and you were always so special to me and Uncle Des. I remember all the trips you took with us to Connecticut to my mom's house and as always you did so many things to help her like shoveling snow. Everyone who met you, loved you. I loved all the times you came to visit us and especially when you stayed overnight. You would hate how I made a big deal about taking care of you. I enjoyed it so much. I miss you very much and not a day goes by that I don't think about you. What a wonderful son, brother, father, husband, nephew, cousin, and friend you were. Always doing something to help others, and putting their needs before your own. I am so proud to have known you, loved you, and been your aunt. I feel cheated of all the time we could have spent with you, but now you are in Heaven smiling down at us and seeing how hard it is to get through some days. You were and always will be MY FAVORITE.
I Love You
lynn mcdonnell
March 15, 2002
There are hundreds of stories about Steve Driscoll. He was just one of those can do guys. I had the pleasure along with my family of spending many times together.We had a great vacation in North Carolina.I will always remember you walking on the beach with Ann holding hands like two teenagers. I will always remember the look you had when Barry caught his first wave surfing. Not a day goes by that we don't think of you. My kids miss you greatly. I want you to know that even though Ann and Barry's hearts were broken they can draw strength fron how much you really loved them, Watch over them & rest in peace. Love lynn
Ramon J Rivera
March 13, 2002
To the Family of Stephen Patrick Driscoll.all your Brothers and sisters at the Railroad will miss you; our hearts go out to entire Driscoll family. Your Railroad family will miss you and will never forget you.always remember you.
I was fortunate to have met you once. I have worked with your father and he always talked about you as a proud father would. Gob Bless you in Heaven.
Conductor
Ray Rivera
Courtney Helly
March 13, 2002
Its so hard to put into words just how i feel.. Its been six months and yet it feels like yesterday that i found out you were among the missing..as the weeks went on from 9/11, i never gave up hope that you would come home, I truly believed that you were alright and that you were just doing your job which u did so well..but now im starting to come to the realization that now you are in heaven with the angels..Steve, i remember BBQ's and the stories my father told me about the Golf trips to Myrtle Beach, I remember the fun times like the Ocean in Rhode Island, you were one of my Uncle Tim's best friends, you were like an extra Uncle to me and i will never forget your great smile. You gave your life to save so manys others. Losing you has changed me, youve inspired me to help others as much as i can. You're a hero and an angel i believe. I know you are up there looking out for all of us. Anne and Barry, never forget the great memories. Steve was one of the best people i have ever met and we will never forget him. My prayers are with the families and friends of all those lost in the WTC attacks. Steve each day i think of you, i will always remember. Rest in peace dear friend. ~Courtney
Robin O'Connell
March 13, 2002
I have just received an American Heros bracelet with the name of Stephen P. Driscoll NYPD on it. May God bless and comfort your family and friends. I will wear this braclet with great honor for you and all our innocent brothers and sisters that were lost 9/11. Thank you for your courage and commitment. You are all True American Heros.
Judy Humphreys-Magee
March 13, 2002
I can remember Stephen from when I was a Conductor on Metro North many years ago. I moved to Florida in 1985. It troubles me that a person I knew and respected was lost in September 11th. Stephen your family can be proud that you became the son that you did and that you took pride in everything you did. I will miss you and send love and sympathy to your family. We both entered the same profession after the railroad and I know what that EMS profession means to a person.
Sincerely,
Judy Humphreys-Magee
(sister of George Humphreys)
Marilyn
March 12, 2002
To the Driscoll Family: Its hard to find the words to express my heartfelt sympathy. I'm so sorry for your loss. You were lucky to have such a wonderful man in your life, if only for a short time. His love and dedication to his family and his career are a true inspiration. I have ordered a memorial bracelet with Stephen's name on it and will wear it with great pride!
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