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For all of Jay Magazine's achievements as a chef and then as catering sales manager of Windows on the World, his happiest moments were spent with his 13-year-old daughter, Melissa, and 10-year-old son, Andrew.
His wife, Susan, is convinced that her husband's desire to hold his children close sprang from the early loss of his parents.
Mr. Magazine, 48, was involved in every aspect of his children's lives, she said. Last spring, he watched Melissa ‹ playing with her school's team in the Junior Knicks program ‹ sink a layup in front of 19,000 people during halftime at a Knicks-Celtics game at Madison Square Garden. Mr. Magazine loved to cook with Andrew. Their specialty was hot salsa, a recipe that Andrew is now teaching his mother.
The couple would have celebrated their 19th wedding anniversary on Oct. 17.
"This year," Mrs. Magazine said, "Andrew, Melissa and I shared gifts, dined with my brother and Jay's sister, toasted a wonderful family life, and spent the evening looking at photos and celebrating our 19 years of happy marriage."
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Mark A.J. Rea. Jr. C.E.C.
September 11, 2024
Since our mutual days at CIA , I recall how time since we left our student days molded us as Chefs. Times, experiences, career moves, and most important , family not only changed us , but grew us . Funny how now I find that we are all more alike that different. Jay was that type of chef, and reflecting over time, I find so am I .
I still remember each year my fellow classmate, chef, and family man Jay Robert Magazine, May the sweet memories of him be in the hearts of you his family today as well. Mark A.J. Rea. Jr. C.E.C.
Mark A.J. Rea, Jr.
September 11, 2023
Time keeps moving forward, but that it has been 22 years since we lost Jay, and so many others, the feelings and memories are but as yesterday. I was not able to post last 9/11/22 because I had been hospitalized myself, so I didn’t want to miss today. To Jay’s family, my thoughts are with you and hope you are all well. Gratefully, Jay left a timeless remembrance for all whose lives he touched. God Bless you today, & Always.
Mark A.J. Rea, Jr. C.E.C.
September 11, 2021
I struggle to think that it has actually been two decades since Jay's passing. The memories of our days at the Culinary Institute of America are playing through my mind today, and I fondly recall our fun times learning the craft which made Jay & I food service professionals. Our experiences molded us into culinary professionals, and my friend JAY ROBERT MAGAZINE was the quintessential professional chef & manager. Rest in Peace Chef, WE WILL NOT FORGET , my continual best wishes to Jay's Family. ( From the CIA class of '75 )
Mark A.J. Rea Jr.
September 11, 2020
To the family of my friend and CIA classmate Jay Robert Magazine, I again join with you all in remembering Jay on this day some 19 years later. Time goes so quickly & still the sadness lingers. As a fellow chef , we shared similar passions & interests, and a desire to provide our dining customers with excellent food, service, and a satisfying experience. Jay ALWAYS did that, and though retired now I shared that passion with him. To you his family, I send my continued prayers for you, and as I have before , stand along with you on this our day of memorial for Jay . May God continue to provide you his comfort & blessings that you may know that you are loved. Mark A.J. Rea, Jr. C.E.C. Retired
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Gary Hathaway
September 11, 2020
Another year flew by my old friend. Thinking of you and the many great times we had.
Harold Magazine
September 16, 2019
I don't really now much about Jay but It is likely that we are related. I am trying to research about him and his parents after learning about this site. My family are all from NY and I grew up in Long Island.
B Davis
September 13, 2019
To the family of Mr Magazine, you may be surprised to learn that Howard Stern spent quite a bit of time this week talking about his memories of him on his show on Sirius radio. It was in a segment remembering 911. He had many nice things to say about Mr Magazine and he remembers him very fondly.
Mark A.J. Rea, Jr.
September 11, 2019
I can't fathom it has been 18 years, the time so long, the sadness so deep, the hurt without question. I am Thankful that I know Jay Personally as a fellow chef and graduate of CIA. I have not forgotten, nor will I stop remembering until my own time comes. Jay was a good friend & a talented colleague, and I sincerely miss him. God Bless his memory & his family. Mark A.J. Rea, Jr. Executive Chef, C.E.C. (retired).
Tired in Florida..mid 70s
Gary Hathaway
September 11, 2019
Thinking of you this day Jay. Miss having you in our lives but still cherish the times we had.
Gary Hathaway
September 11, 2018
Seems like so long ago since we last spoke...thinking of you, Jay and family. Love and respect.
Mark A.J. Rea, Jr.
September 10, 2018
Dear Magazine Family; I just wanted to let you all know that this year as each since that day, I send you all my sincere prayers in remembrance of your Husband & Father. Each year & each time I think of my friend & classmate from our days at CIA, I reflect on our shared careers in Culinary Arts knowing that Jay was a GREAT CHEF, and valued friend. Even as time goes on, may this year find you all well & ever comforted in your memories. God Bless you all.
Sincerely,
Mark A.J. Rea, Jr.
Executive Chef
CIA Class of 1975
September 17, 2017
My friend from age 15; lost contact shortly after he finished culinary school.
Always kind, charming, a loyal friend and had the most exceptional sense of humor of anyone I've ever known.
From an early age, he knew he'd become a chef, following his father's path.
So sorry his family has had to endure his absence.
Donna Weintraub
High Falls, NY
Charles Feiner
September 11, 2017
Always thinking of Jay. A great guy, friend, father....
S. Michele
September 11, 2017
Your work was done on this earth. Everyone who knew you felt like they had a true friend. You and your beautiful family are
thought of today with respect, kindness and a huge heart. Just like you treated people.
Rest in Peace
Mark A.J. Rea, Jr.
September 10, 2017
On the eve of the 16th Year since your passing, I wanted to say you are still thought of and missed. May our great GOD bless your family. Our profession as chefs will certainly never be the same without you. Your Friend, Fellow Chef, and CIA classmate.... Mark A.J. Rea, jr. CIA '75
October 12, 2016
God bless my friend Jay from Delhi College. Heaven is a better place today blessed with your kindness and laughter. Thank you my friend for the memories and good times shared.
Brian Johnson
Pam Fleming
September 11, 2016
Sadly, I never met you, Jay, but I am high school Friends with Susan, and I think of you often, in quiet moments, and especially on this day. Blessings to all those who left us, with you, in the event that changed all of us forever...
September 11, 2016
Jay,
I think of you often. I was cleaning out a case of my AT&T, business cards. One fell out and went under a secretary of my grandmother's, I said "Oh,I'll pick it up later" and when I did, it was yours. I sent you up a prayer. I now carry that business card in my wallet. You were such a professional in your work in Window's of the World. It was an absolute pleasure working with you Jay.
Ed ODonnell - AT&T
gary hathaway
September 11, 2016
Think of you often but today more so. Entering into retirement soon, I get sad thinking of another phase of my life which you won't be active in. Miss you.
Much love and respect.
Chef Mark A.J. Rea, Jr. C.E.C.
Mark A.J. Rea, Jr.
September 10, 2016
It's hard to believe it has been so long, We STILL miss you Jay. God Bless your family and may God's love rest upon them still. Rest in peace friend.
S Michele
September 12, 2015
In loving memory. Peace to your lovely wife and children.
Charles Feiner
September 11, 2015
Jay, your memory is a blessing!
Arelis Abatte
September 11, 2015
I had the pleasure of knowing this beautiful funny and loving friend thru our industry. Gone way too soon. His memory lingers in my heart and thoughts forever. Rest in peace my friend. You are sorely missed and will never be forgotten. Your memory lives on thru friends and your loving family.
September 11, 2015
Solemn thoughts today. Heartfelt sympathy to Jay's family, friends, and all whom he touched.
Pam Fleming
September 11, 2015
I never had the chance to meet Jay, but I am remembering him today, and sending so much Love to your Family, Susan.
Mark A.J. Rea, Jr.
September 11, 2015
Remembering you today Jay, and our years at school at CIA, you are always missed we will not forget. To Jays family, may God bless you with loving memories & comfort for all time.
From Mark A.J. Rea, Jr.
CIA Class of '75
Jay's classmate & fellow Chef
David Goodenough
September 10, 2015
Jay and I were school mates from California Ave School through Lawrence Road Junior High School through Uniondale High Scool. I just recently found out that the world lost this wonderful man in 2001. So sad, such a waste, such a loss. I hope to see him again in God's new world. Sleep well, Jay!
Harry Hill
September 10, 2015
Thinking of you Jay, Condolences to your family. Never Forgotten
Denise Curran
September 12, 2014
I was a client of Jay's at WOW. Yesterday morning, I told my son about the people I knew who we lost on 9.11. My son, born in 2003, just started middle school and they now talk about it in school. I told him about Jay and the magical place he worked. I told him about the incredible client meetings we created together. I will continue to tell him stories each year. I will never forget.
S. Michele
September 11, 2014
God Bless you Susan and kids. Your Husband, Dad would be so proud of the people you are today.
Mondell Sealy
September 11, 2014
As a past president of the Greater New York Chapter of Meeting Professionals International, I can say that Jay was an active and avid chapter member. His dedication and support of the organization will always be remembered.
My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Mark Rea Jr.
September 11, 2014
As I echo the feelings of Jay's other friends, I too want to remember Jay to you all. I salute his life as a colleague and chef, as I continue on in the hospitality industry. May you his family take solace in the knowledge that Jay is still in our hearts too. May peace be your companion and memories be your riches as we remember Jay this day. God bless you his family.
Gary Hathaway
September 11, 2014
Another year has passed and memories of long ago still linger my friend. You left too early but you remain with us forever. Here is to you and to your family. Much respect. Gary
S J. Friscia III
June 11, 2014
In Memory
With Honor & Respect.
Mark Rea
September 11, 2013
Dear Susan, Melissa & Andrew; On this day again I come to remember your Husband, your father, and my good friend. The years do not change my memories of him, and I am blessed to have had a friend and classmate such as Jay. I pray this year find you all well, and on this mutual day of remembrance, celebrate the life Jay, and remember the wonderful way he touched so many lives. Some people in their lifetimes never even approach the degree of service to others as Jay has done, and this demonstrates to others how a life should be lived. God Bless you all.
With Warmest Regards,
Mark A.J. Rea, Jr.
Executive Chef
CIA Class of 1975
Scott Friedenthal
September 11, 2013
Remembering you and the great time we had at our wedding at Windows. Our thoughts are with you and your family today.
GARY HATHAWAY
September 11, 2013
Thinking of you and your family throughout the years and remembering the good and bad times. It was my pleasure to know you my friend.
S. Michele
September 10, 2013
Thinking of your family today as I do every single day.
Mark Rea
September 10, 2012
Dear Susan, Melissa & Andrew; Yet another year has passed, and my thoughts & prayers are with you all as in the past. I spoke only this evening to a friend about Jay, and His caring, kind gift of Hospitality. That gift was appreciated by many who knew Jay from the times when we were at CIA learning those lessons on serving others, right to the time he was called to render his service in heaven.
I remembered tonight that his love of our profession was one of his greatest joys, and he fulfilled his calling so very well. I often use Jay's example to teach and inform others of the true meaning of of Hospitality. In this respect, He still lives on as a timeless teacher, in the craft we both loved.
I offer you all my prayers & thoughts on this day, and always. May God bless you all.
Mark A.J. Rea, Jr.
Executive Chef
CIA Class of 1975
& Jay's Classmate
John Martinez
September 11, 2011
Many thoughts today of Jay and his family. Sincerest regards.
Tania Bissell
September 11, 2011
I am lighting this candle in memory of Jay Magazine. Although I never technically met him, I lived in the same apartment building on Riverside Drive at the time, and saw him, his wife, and son in the elevator many times. My thoughts and prayers are with his family on this 10th anniversary.
Denise Curran
September 11, 2011
Dear Susan, Melissa and Andrew:
On this day every year, I remember your dad and father, Jay. In 2001, I worked in a meeting planning dept. for a firm in midtown. Jay was my venue contact at Windows on the World, one of the most beautiful places on earth. Over the years, my company held many meetings there and I met with Jay a few times to go over contracts and such. He had the worlds best view each and every day he went to work. I wanted you all to know he made an impact on the lives of so many people. I remember him fondly and will never forget.
Your family is in my prayers.
Stephen Culbertson
September 11, 2011
Dear Susan and Family,
My name is AIC Stephen Culbertson. I am in the US Air Force currently stationed in San Antonio, TX. Today during our remembrance ceremony I was given a card with your husband/father's name on it. I wanted to take it upon myself to let you know that I am praying for you on this day, as well, as the days to come. God Bless
Richard Balentine
September 11, 2011
Dear Mrs. Magazine and family,
My name is Richard Balentine form Charlotte, NC. Today at my church, Covenant Presbyterian, all present at our services had the name of one or the victims of the 9/11 tragedy. I was fortunate to draw Jay Robert Magazine. I sing in the choir and we presented "Hear My Prayer" by Mendelssohn. The words are so representative of what your husband, you and your family experienced through your tragedy. My prayers are with you and our fellow American’s that we lost on that fateful day as well as their families.
“Hear my prayer, O God, incline Thine ear!
Thyself from my petition do not hide.
Hear my prayer, O God, incline Thine ear!
Thyself from my petition do not hide, Thyself from my petition do not hide!
Take heed to me!
Hear how in prayer I mourn to Thee, hear how in prayer I mourn to Thee, hear how in prayer I mourn to Thee!
Take heed to me, take heed to me!
Without Thee all is dark, I have no guide, I have no guide, no guide, without Thee all is dark, I have no guide, I have no guide.
Hear my prayer, O God, incline Thine ear!
Thyself from my petition do not hide, Thyself from my petition do not hide!
Hear my prayer, O God, incline Thine ear!
The enemy shouteth, The godless come fast!
Iniquity, hatred, up on me they cast!
The wicked oppress me, Ah where shall I fly?
Perplexed and bewildered, O God, hear my cry, O God hear my cry!
O God hear my cry, perplexed and bewildered, O God hear my cry!
O God, O God, hear my cry!
The enemy shouteth, the godless come fast, perplexed and bewildered, O God, hear my cry!
O God, hear my cry!
O God hear my cry, perplexed and bewildered, O God, hear my cry.
O God, hear my cry, O God hear my cry, O God, hear my cry!
O God hear my cry!
My heart is sorely pained, within my breast, my soul with deathly terror is oppressed, trembling and fearfulness up on me fall, with horror overwhelmed, Lord, hear me call, Lord, hear me call!
With horror over whelmed, Lord, hear me call!
O for the wings, for the wings of a dove!
Far away, far away would I rove!
O for the wings, for the wings of a dove!
Far away, far away, far away, far away would I rove!
In the wilderness build me a nest, and remains there forever at rest.
In the wilderness build me, build me a nest; and remain there forever at rest, In the wilderness build me a nest, And remains there forever at rest, and remains there forever at reast, and remain there forever at rest.
God Bless you and your family.
Richard Balentine
Pam Fleming
September 11, 2011
Dear Susan, Melissa and Andrew,
Being a friend of yours' (Susan's) from back in Elementary School, (and not seeing you for decades) I was stunned to hear the news about Jay, who sadly, I never met. I lit a candle today, 10 years later, to remember, to uplift the Love, and share the pain of losing the wonderful Man who was so close to you...Blessings to Jay, and to all of you, and everyone affected by this overwhelming act of violence. We have to counteract this loss by living our lives even better.
Much Love to you, -Pam Fleming
Chef, Your Influence Lives on
Mark Rea
September 11, 2011
Dear Susan & Children;
On this 10th remembrance Day I find myself in deep reflection. I have over the years remembered Jay to my many colleagues in our industry, and have told them about Your father and husband, and my classmate and friend. His story often gives me an open door to remind other chefs how important life is, even in our industry.
As Jay's legacy lives on in my own life,I also let it shine forth to the others in my life to encourage them and exhort them to strive for a higher calling than just work. I want you all to know how much Jay's life meant to me, and how it continues to be a nugget of gold I try to share with others. May you all on this day know for certain than Jay's passion and influence live on, and how they both still affect the industry he chose to serve. May the love of God dwell with you all richly, now as well as every day to come.
Sincerely,
Mark A.J. Rea, Jr.
Executive Chef
CIA Class of 1975
& Jay's Classmate
james ward
February 7, 2011
Jay was a close friend in college. he was our leader, in motivation, in mischief, in taking a leap. big hearted man, that had no prejuicies, and really was concerned about the people around him. although i lost touch i his influence, as always thought of him as one of my best friends. He loved the Kinks. I remember he saw them 3 nights in a row in 3 different venues and somehow talked or snuck his way in each time FREE. I remember when he showed me how fast you could cook with a wok. He loved cooking. so he did get to live his dream and rose to the top, the very top. In the short time we were togehter i could tell you a lot of interesting stories. Full of life. See you on the other side jay.
Gary Hathaway
January 21, 2011
I went to college with Jay and kept in touch for many years. I miss him and think of him often. He was a great man with a wonderful heart. God bless.
Ani Gold
September 11, 2010
Dear Susan, Melissa, and Andrew,
I thought about Mr. Magazine immediately after the tragedy and every year thereafter. I am reluctant to write much because I only know you all from the few occasions which I babysat Melissa and Andrew after college in Manhattan.
I will say that not only were you all such a beautiful, kind, loving and close family, but the kids wonderfully well-behaved and fun to babysit!!!! I also remember Mr. Magazine would always drive me home after so I wouldn't have to take the subway or a cab. He would talk to me as an adult and ask me about my job rather than just treat me as some nameless faceless person who watched his kids.
I appreciate the opportunity to have known Jay and your family and wish you all the best. There are so many people he has touched in his life like me who remember him but do not have the words to express to you.
With fondest regards,
Ani (Ehrlich) Gold
Mark Rea
September 11, 2010
Dear Susan & Children;
Again another year has passed, but the memories remain as strong as ever. I often tell others of Jay and the great chef and manager he was. I recount to them his unique personality and kindness, and tell of his true concern for others, and his great abilities as a chef.
On this 9th anniversary, my thoughts are again with you all, as they have been in the past. I pray you are all well, and that you are prospering. I pray too that Jay's love for you all is your poignant keepsake of a great man, and servant of others. May those memories be an ever vigilant cloak of love that wraps around you all, but especially on this very day. May God richly bless each one of you.
Mark A.J. Rea, Jr.
Executive Chef
CIA Class of '75
& Jay's classmate
Ira Sessler
June 10, 2010
Jay was among the few people I knew who perished on 911. I was an owner of the cigar kiosk between 1 and 2 WTC and from the Spring of 1996 until the Summer of 1999 we were priviledged to provide cigars to "The Greatest Bar on Earth" and to the catering department for WOTW. Jay always kept us in mind when booking parties. During the holidays there was barely a night we were not on the 107th floor providing cigars to eager partygoers. Jay was generous and thoughtful and his loss was deeply felt. I live near the 911 Memorial at Eagle Rock Reservation in West Orange, NJ. Jay's name is on a plaque and I often visit there and run my hand across his name and recall the many times we met in his office to conduct business or just to chat while we were delivering cigars to the bar. I wish his family peace knowing that the enduring spirit of all good people never ever goes away.
Elisabeth Alves
April 23, 2010
I had the pleasure of working with Jay at WOTW. He was such an amazing, sweet, positive person. The two things that i will never forget about him, is sweet smile and his love for his children, which is all he ever talked about. I will never forget him or the amazing people that were with him that day. God bless
Mark A.J. Rea, Jr.
September 11, 2009
Dear Susuan & Chilldren;
I return on this eighth anniversary of Jay's passing in rememberance of your husband and father. Each year seems to go by so very quickly, but the memories never diminish. I recounted Jay's life in rememberance today on a local program. I wanted others to know how special Jay was and how much he is missed. I pray my note finds you all doing well, and I pray too, that you are encouraged in the thought that Jay meant so much to so many of us. May God bless all of you.
Mark A.J. Rea, Jr.
Executive Chef
CIA Class of 1975
Miguel Jaraique
December 19, 2008
Just saying hello to you guys. Guess both kids have grown to be wonderful human beings like their mom and dad.
Patrick will be entering college soon and my older boy Brandon is at Pace university. We are all doing fine. If you guys ever need anything , we are still at 150 West 96th street.
You guys are always in my prayers and will continue to be for the rest of my life.
If you want to see Patrick , click on this link. He has become a wonderful soccer and baseball player.
youtube.com/?v=r2u7vgg05gA
www.fiveborosports.com/ssp/news?news_id=720
Have a wonderful and safe, healthy 2009.
Miguel. Valerie and the boys.
Chuck Feiner
October 5, 2008
Dear Susan & Family,
I was shocked and saddened to learn of Jay's passing. From 1973-until 1989, as you recall I would always contact Jay whenever I was in the city. He was a good friend! From Delhi to Los Angeles, to helping me find a place to live in Long Island, Jay was always there. When I brought students into the city in the late 70's we know we could crash at Jay's apt. From his spice racks to his take out place, it was always fun. I remember going to the pool hall and attending Jay's 30th birthday party. Just last week I found the kippa from your wedding, October 17, 82, Im assuming you have one, if not I would love to give it to you. I remember the wedding well. Im assuming you have moved. I have tried to try to contact Jay and you in the 90's at your old phone # 222-3244 and just assumed that you moved and one day we would reconnect. I was shocked last year to learn of Jay's death from the Howard Stern show. Your children i am sure are very proud of their dad. He was and always will be in my memory.
Be well,
Chuck Feiner
Heidi Neufeld
September 11, 2008
Just thinking about you on this solomn day. Next year two kids in college.....look for me October 4,5 in the breast cancer walk. Heidi
Mark A.J. Rea, Jr. Executive Chef
Mark A.J. Rea, Jr.
September 11, 2008
Dear Susan and children:
I wanted to come here again on this particular day to remember Jay and all of you. My prayer is that you will be comforted today and each day, in the memory of Jay and his love for you, his committment to others, and his excellence and professionalism to the profession we both shared.
This day, and Jay's friendship as a colleague is with me always. May God be with you all.
In Rememberance,
Mark A.J. Rea, Jr.
Executive Chef
CIA class of '75
Miguel Jaraqiue
March 21, 2008
Dear Susan, Andrew and Melissa,
My memory of Jay until this day and forever was when Andrew finally got a hit in our last game while Andrew was on my team. He was the happiest man in the world. That smile stays with me forever.
Andrew, he was so proud of you, he ran up to me and hugged me and thanked me, little did of you know what that meant to me. In the short time that I knew him I felt a bond with him.
Valerie, Patrick and Brandon and I all send our regards to you all and I pray that you are all fine. God bless you all.
Miguel A. Jaraique
Elise Crapser
September 11, 2007
Howard Stern spoke about you on his show today and shared his memories about you when you were together at camp working in the kitchen. I had to come on here and put the name with the face. God Bless you and your family.
Victor Milin
August 22, 2007
I am so so sorry for your loss. He was such a kind devoted man.
I lived in the same building on 18 for 10 years until '04 and would see Jay walking Tilly, taking the kids to soccer, coming back from a run. He always seemed exhausted but happy and was always warm and friendly. Occasionally we'd be on the same train heading back uptown after work and one time we had a bit of an adventure together around the holidays..totally fun and charming really. I saw Jay leaving the polling place around the corner on that morning as I was arriving and though in a hurry, he took time to acknowledge me and say hello in that busy crowded place. Please feel free to contact me any time.
All my best
Victor
P Tabbernor
December 17, 2006
In remembrance....
Kristine
November 14, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Mark A.J. Rea, Jr.
September 12, 2006
Dear Susan and Children;
I have just found this site, and really wanted to leave a message for you, as well as pay tribute to Jay. Jay and I were classmates at CIA and shared classes together. He was a great guy and a good friend.I had not seen him since school, as we all went our separate ways, and followed our careers. I am so very sorry for your loss, I am proud to have known your husband and father I enjoyed his company. May you find solace in the knowledge of the special kind of man he was, and how he has touched so many lives with his own. May you find comfort and blessing in these days, and the years to come.
Jay;
I am saddened that you have gone from among us. You dedicated yourself to a life of service to others, in meeting their most basic need, the need for sustenance. You served your customers, the public, and your fine family with honorable service and excellence. I had not seen you since our days at CIA, but you have honored your family, and our profession with that excellence, service, and dedication. I am proud to have been your colleague and schoolmate, in such a calling of humble nobility. I laud your service, your excellence, and your sacrifice.
Well done Chef,...... Well done.
John Martinez
September 11, 2006
On this 5th anniversary of that terrible day, my thoughts and prayers are with the family. Jay, I reflect on our childhood times together. May you rest in peace.
John Martinez
November 14, 2004
Dear Susan and children,
I am shocked and dismayed to hear of Jay's tragic passing, and also ashamed that I lost touch with him for many years. I have never had the opportunity to meet with you. You see, I lived across the street from Jay from years 1959-1969, until I went to California. As a close friend and neighbor, we played together and had many outings and memorable experiences. He was a very bright kid, and I learned much from him. He was a true inspiration to me, and helped mold my character to what I am today. Now I will always regret not getting together in recent years and reminiscing over childhood times, but I will especially cherish those years of growing up together. My best regards to you and your children, and also to Michelle.
September 14, 2003
Im so sorry for your loss...may god be with you...
Midge Holland
September 11, 2003
Susan, I am sorry I did not find this site sooner to express my condolences on the loss of your husband. I remember laughing with you about his city boy's love of the wilderness and his passion for your vacation home. I wish a lifetime of happy memories for you and your children as well as the strength to build on the good life what you and your husband started.
Regards,
Midge Holland
Formerly Consultant for American Management Systems,at HRA
Bruce Incontro
September 11, 2003
I think of you every day. I believe I will never have a more loving and loyal relationship with a friend again. I recently read to my mother, wife, son and daughter what you wrote to me in our high school yearbook. Although your wish for us to become old men together will not be fullfilled you will always be in my life and in my heart. Because of you I have become a better son, husband, brother,and father. You always made me feel like I was the best person on earth, and that was your way. It always made me feel uncomfortable because I knew it was you who in fact was that person. I love you and miss you. May God bless you and keep you, Susan, Melissa and Andrew always in the palm of his hand.
Michael Leone
October 11, 2002
As a friend from Uniondale High School, I will always remember a friday night or two that we would sneak Ripple bottles up to his room. Clearly his taste for fine wines improved over the years. My deepest sympathy to Susan and the children. I will always remember Jay with a smile. God Bless you Jay.
Annie Lorenzetti
September 14, 2002
Dear Susan,
It is with great sadness that I send you this note. I just learned of Jay's passing as I heard the names of the many victims lost. I always enjoyed working for you and Jay at West Side Express and Jay Robert Caterers and I would think of him often when I would make some items that he taught me to make(Thai Beef Salad & Risi Bisi to name a few). He was a very special man who will be missed by many. I wish you and your family comfort and healing. You have my deepest sympathy.
Annie Lorenzetti (Leiman)
Mary Inga
September 12, 2002
Dear Susan,
I had the pleasure of working with Jay at Mad.61 back in 92. He was my manager. He gave me my first break in the Hotel/Restaurant Industry. I owe him a lot for that.
After he left Mad.61 we had lost contact.
It was with great shock to hear of Jay as I was listening to Howard Stern on the 1st Anniversary of 9/11. I almost jumped out of my skin as he said Jay's name. I could not believe it.
Jay was a wonderful person. He will be sadly missed. He will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
May God Bless you and your family.
Pam Richards
September 11, 2002
Dear Sue, Melissa and Andrew - I have been thinking of you a great deal these last few days. The three of you and your Dad remain in my prayers.
Jim Oldham
September 11, 2002
Dear Susan, Andrew and Melissa-
First I want to say how sorry I am for your loss. I know Jay is missed by many.
I met Jay first in September of 1998 to plan a Christmas party for a NYC office of a start-up company that I ran. We were going to have just 20 people attend that year. Jay treated me like I was a king...as if I was going to have a party for a couple thousand people not 20. It was an awesome party and Jay spent much time with us prior to and during the event to ensure our complete satisfaction (His trademark!). The next year, 1999, the company grew and again Jay accommodated us in first class for about 110 people that year. Always kind, considerate and more than personable...he really cared. The next year, 2000, due to cost cutting, et al I was unable to have the Christmas party at WOW even though Jay tried to accommodate me...but he was nothing but understanding when I ultimately couldn't do it.
From the first time I met him I have taken my dates to dinner at WOW and Jay has always given us an incredible bottle of wine or even picked up my dinner. We have traded cigars on a few occations as well. There are few people that I think of more highly than I do when I picture how he was as a person and how he treated others. I really did not know him very well but I feel like I did...
I must tell you that it was today that I found out that he was killed 9/11/01. He was one of the first people I check on to see if he was on "missing lists" last year but did not find his name and was greatly relieved. Today I saw his name on CNN and I have felt a great loss with you.
God Bless.
Jim Oldham
Karen Pontius
September 11, 2002
I met Jay through Meeting Professionals International. Several years ago, I attended and annual conference in Vancouver and, of course, attended the New York Chapter Reception. At that time, I didn't know many people in the chapter.
I arrived alone, and when I dropped my business card into the bowl, I saw that WOW logo and Jay's name on the card. I knew immediately that there would be someone to laugh with. I miss that sense of humor, andI still have that card in my rolodex.
Kim Todd
September 10, 2002
I am a meeting planner and met Jay at a trade show. He was a delightful, warm, friendly person. I shared an experience I had dining in Windows on the World and how much I had enjoyed it. I just remember how very sincere he was. I have saved his business card in my permanent file.
Angie Clement
September 7, 2002
I was watching c-span last night and I saw the wonderful Speech that Susan gave. I would like to Thank her for all that she is doing to help others. May God Bless your family!!! Jay, may you rest in peace. I am sure that you where watching your wife the other night and are very proud of her.
mary lou guglielmo-scimone
May 26, 2002
I remember Jay from Uniondale High School. We graduated the same year.
I still remember that he was a redhead with an Afro and that he was always smiling and had a good sense of humor.
My deepest sympathy and prayers are with you and have been since the tragedy. My God hold you in the palm of his hand.
Jeany Heller
May 14, 2002
I would just like to sincerely convey my condolences to the Magazine family. I did not know Jay personally, but from all i've heard and read about him he sounds like a truly amazing guy, and a wonderful husband and father.
Peace be with you.
Peter Goldberg
March 13, 2002
Dear Magazine Family,
I can not tell you how much the loss of Jay and WOTW meant to me. My wife and I were married there on November 9, 1996. Adele saw WOTW as renovations were under way in February of the same year. Jay was there handling all the details of the wedding and his memory to me is as personal as the one of the wedding itself. He made sure each step was perfect and gave both of us a night we will never forget. We saw Jay each year on our anniversary as we went back for dinner at WOTW. He bought us dinner the first year and champagne another and another and always left us feeling warm. As we sat in the WOTW memorial service I remember hoping his family was well and may this note be another reminder of how truly special he was.
Gerrie Mims
March 12, 2002
To the Family and Friends of Jay Magazine I echo all the tributes that appear on these pages and add my sorrow and deep sense of loss of a beautiful soul and wonderful friend. We are all the better for having know him.
Emily Loft-Wagshal
March 12, 2002
Jay helped my husband, Steven, and I plan our recent wedding at Windows on the World on March 24, 2001. Jay was always incredibly professional, friendly and warm. Steven and I ( as well as my family) felt that we were in great hands with Jay and that we would have a terrific wedding - we were right. Jay helped to make our night truly memorable and helped eased the stress of planning a wedding. As we approach our first anniversary, we will remember our lovely evening, the friendship we made with Jay, his dedication to his profession and his wonderful demeanor. We wish you our deepest condolences and hope that your fond memories of Jay will help you through this most difficult time. Our thoughts are with you.
Adele Friedman
March 11, 2002
Dear Magazine Family,
It is with tears running down my cheeks that I write this to you. My husband and I were married at Windows on the World, 11/9/96. Jay made sure that our wedding ran perfectly. It was through his professionalism,humor and grace, that we became friends. Every anniversary there after, Jay would sit down with us and toast my husband Peter and myself at the bar before we went inside for dinner. This November, we toasted alone at home... We were at the beautiful memorial at the church. It was there I wished I had him join us for at least one picture. I will leave you now with this line, Jay would always say to me, "I have never seen anything like it. You didn't walk down the aisle, you floated." It still makes me smile.
Yours Truly,
Adele Friedman
Franklin James
March 11, 2002
I had the honor of working with Jay for the past two years. When Jay would come to the bar (with a client)for lunch, he would ask for me and leave a great tip...although it was customary for managers not to leave extra because it automatically came out of the house account, it did not matter to Jay, he left extra.
He was always very positive. He made Windows lots of money by booking fabulous parties. I truly enjoyed working with him and truly miss him.
On this day, the sixth month anniversary, it still seems unreal.
God Bless your spirit and the Magazine family.
A.J. Cervantes
March 11, 2002
Dear Melissa and Andrew:
In July last summer, my daughter Ashley, who lives with her mother in Los Angeles, came to visit me. Ashley was 10 at the time. Your father and I were working on an event that we were planning for the latter part of September for members of the financial community. I got to know your Dad during that time. I took Ashley to lunch at Windows and your Dad came over to sit with us...most importantly he talked to Ashley...asked her about California and how much she liked New York -- what else she was going to see while she was here, things like that. It has only been in the last several months that I found out about your Dad and I had thought that I wanted to find a way to communicate to both of you because your Dad and I talked about how much he loved his kids -- and watching him with Ashley -- and seening what a genuninely nice man he was -- was a real testamonial to him. I am so glad I found this way to let you know -- as I'm sure so many have -- what a great guy your Dad was. Given your ages and your proximity to Ashley, it was particularly important to me to let you know my terrific experience with your Dad and my daughter. You have a great legacy. Be strong and be positive -- you know that's what your Dad would want.
God bless both of you, your Mom and all of your family...
A.J. (and Ashley) Cervantes
Deb Johnson
March 11, 2002
Sue, Melissa and Andrew:
Six months later and with every reminder of 9/11, we are still thinking about each of you and we will continue our prayers for the next six months plus to come.
Deb, Gabby & Bergen
Jenna Holst
March 11, 2002
I met Jay when he was just starting as a chef at WPA in Soho when I was running a cookware store in the area. Although I lost touch with him in recent years, I remember his friendly smile and joyous laughter. He was kind and honest man who truly celebrated life. I am so sorry for his family's loss.
Frank Stapleton
March 11, 2002
Dear Magazine Family,
I knew Jay through Meeting Professionals International. He was a great guy. He was a genuinely "kind and gentle" man who really cared about people.
God Bless You.
Frank and Kathie Stapleton
Maury,Laurie,Lisa&Charles Harris
March 10, 2002
Dear Magazine Family,
We just now ran across this webside that allows us to communicate our condolences.
We had the pleasure of working with Jay on preparing for Charles' Bar Mitzvah celebration at Windows on the World in October of 1999. Jay represented the "hospitality industry" in the true sense of the word "hospitable". He was the ultimate professional,running a business,while making us feel welcome, and even more connected to the very special environment in which he worked. He was able to seamlessly balance our needs and interests with the goals and needs of his company, maintaining the highest standards all the way. He took genuine delight in our love of tbe World Trade Center and Windows and was very much interested in contributing to our family's enjoyment and subsequent fond memories of an important lifetime celebration.
In working with our family, Jay frequently and so very fondly mentioned his family, too. Judging from his kind and caring professional demeanor, we know that he must have been the best husband and father for whom any famiy would desire and cherish. We mourn for you and are so saddened by this tragedy.
For it's people that give life and meaning to an environment. Yet it is our memories of Jay, and all those who perished on 9/11 that infuse us with determination to go on, to grow, to achieve, to committ.
We'll never forget Jay, or your terrible loss. But as his memory lives in our hearts,we know that the spirit of your beloved Jay will live on both in the actions of others as well as a reminder that the perpetrators of the horrible human tragedy on September 11 could not destroy the enduring values and qualities of wonderful people like Jay.
May God be with you always.
Sincerly,
Maury, Laurie, Lisa & Charles Harris
February 27, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL MAN JAY ROBERT MAGAZINE AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS WIFE..CHILDREN...FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY GOD GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
peg dougherty
January 31, 2002
I had the priviledge of working with Jay for many years as a independent meeting planner needing Jay and WOW. Many laughs and great reviews were always standard. My sincerest sympathy to Jay's family and loved ones. He died a hero and will never be forgotten by his colleagues.
Mortgage Choices
January 30, 2002
Our thoughts and prayer are with Mrs. Magazine and her family.
Amie Fiedler
January 20, 2002
Jay helped me organize two separate events at W.O.W. a few years ago. I appreciated his professionalism and quick wit on the phone. After meeting him in person, I realized what a strong sense of pride he had for his job and city.
My heart goes out to his family and the rest of the victims of September 11. God Bless!
Philip Purpura
January 15, 2002
We were close friends in our high school days at Uniondale. I'll always remember your peaceful way of looking at life. I am grateful I shared a little piece of my life with you Jay. May God bless you and your family.
Christopher Perna
January 13, 2002
I had the opportunity to work with Jay, just once, at W.O.W. I found him to be an incredibly professional and entertating guy to be around. And though I only met him once, something about him stayed with me, something I don't think a person can forget.
For MR. Magazine and for people like him, we must remember and continue to shape our lives in their image...then maybe this world will be a more loving and caring place to live.
Craig Flannagan
January 4, 2002
I worked with you on a professional level, through my role as marketing manager at IBM Canada. You helped me organize two separate dinner events at Windows on the World.
I was shocked to find your name here, you will be missed.
Craig.
Steven Celli
December 31, 2001
Went to Uniondale High School with you in the class of '71. Remember you well from those high school days, and I pray that those that loved you will find peace in the aftermath of this tragedy.
We WILL NOT forget those that died, nor will we forget the evil individuals that caused their deaths!
Teresa Jahn
December 23, 2001
We are deeply sorry for your loss of Jay. May his life and love continue living through all who love him. May you always feel his love surrounding you with a warmth that penetrates into your hearts. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Judith Siegel
December 6, 2001
I met Jay and his family while they were looking for homes in Sullivan County. Jay's love and pride in his family were obvious. I always enjoyed talking to Jay-he had a very positive energy and a warm, friendly personality. I want to express my deepest condolences to Susan Melissa and Andrew.
Judy Siegel
lorinda klein
November 7, 2001
I remember Jay and his sister from Camp Poyntelle-Rayhill/Lewis Village from probably 1965 or 66. I believe that my brother Warren shared a bunk with him. I remember him as being a lanky redhead.
I was shocked, saddened and horrified that this happened to him and to his family.
I send my condolences to you and your children and to Michele whom I have not seen in many years but who I still remember.
Sincerely,
Lorinda Klein
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