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Robert Sliwak Obituary
Ryan, who just turned 8, inherited Daddy's easygoing nature and athletic ability. Of the twins, who are almost 4, Kyle has Daddy's rascally sense of humor and, it must be said, his tendency to approach chores with a certain lack of urgency. And Nicole has his smile and love of song. "Her personality is mine, poor thing," said Susan Sliwak, their mother. Robert Sliwak, who was a bond broker at Cantor Fitzgerald, lives on in his three children. That's what his wife says to help them, and her, get through these days. Ryan understands what has happened, and has become more introverted. Mrs. Sliwak is working with a child psychologist at his school. Kyle has become more clingy; when his mother went from their home in Wantagh, N.Y., to visit the site, he pleaded with her not to go. Nicole was upset at first, but her mother has encouraged her to think of happier times. Last Friday was their father's birthday -- he would have been 43 -- and they went out for pizza to celebrate. The kids all had soda, a special treat, and they raised their glasses and toasted him.
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joey rudolph
September 11, 2017
I am the son of a NYC firefighter that retired well before the fateful day of 9-11-01- and our sadness runs deep- My Dad is gone now but I wanted to tell you, I'm remembering Robert Sliwak today as I have a memorial bracelet with his name on it - just like the Viet Nam POW/MIA bracelets from the 70's, I have framed on my wall. I have Roberts on a 9-11 memorial sculpture I keep on a table near my Dads gear also on display. I cant express my deepest and sincereist condolences any more strongly. I pray for you and honor his memory. be strong
Paul Sleszynski
January 30, 2014
I went to school with Karen, Robert's sister. I remember Robert answering their front door, while I collected my money on my paper route delivering The Long Island Press.
He was very since and polite.
Rest in peace, Robert.
September 11, 2012
Rob "Bobby" Sliwak:
I can't help but thinking of you today my friend. It's been a long time since we all lived on the first floor of Vance Hall at CCSU. We had lots of fun and crazy times...the laughs, parties....cutting up on each other...heading down to "slaters" to eat...then waiting for your inevitable stomach discomfort which was always so predictable. You were always such a genuinely nice person and friend, funny, warm and outgoing; someone who people wanted to be around. There are many people with empty spots in their hearts because you are no longer here. I miss you Bobby. May you Rest in Peace. Glenn "Hummer" Huminski, CCSU Class of 1981
Jackie Lynch McElligott
September 11, 2012
I worked with Rob at JFK...to know him was to love him. Rob was so sincere and kind. A truly exceptional guy....A very special friend..God Bless you Rob and God Bless your family.
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robert fiorello
July 19, 2012
i had the pleasure in working with this great man at ryder intl freight and customs services in jfk airport:) rest in peace for ever robert:) iam very saddened by this tragic news:(:( all my condolences and sympathy to the whole sliwak family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ceil Croteau
September 12, 2011
To Mrs. Sliwak,
You don't know me, but I saw you on t.v. yestserday and of course praying for the families of the victims. As I was listening to each family member my heart broke a little. I just wanted you to know that people probably don't believe you when you tell them about the "dimes", but when you said that my husband and I couldn't believe our ears ( I had to rewind live t.v. to hear it again). My family and I have been receiving "dimes" for years from my mom. I would love to exchange "dime" stories some time. You can look me up on facebook if you'd like.
Please know that our prayers go out to you and your family.Stay strong and God Bless you.
Wendy Young
September 11, 2011
To the Sliwak Family,
I am no one that you have ever met, but today at a 9/11 service in Broomfield, Colorado, I picked up a flag with Robert's name on it.
There are never enough words to say, nor sympathy offered that will change your loss. The feelings you have that no one else will understand, are yours alone. But today, know that on a beautiful Colorado morning, I sent prayers and love your way. Robert will never be forgotten.
Wendy Young
j ms
September 10, 2011
Dear Susan, Ryan, Nikki and Kyle,
You remain in my thoughts and prayers daily. I pray for your continued growth through your loss. Stay strong.
Fred Augur
September 7, 2011
I met Rob my freshman year at CCSU, where we both played football and lived next to each other. He was a couple years older than me and for a short time took on the role of my older brother.
We occasionally wrestled, argued, watched a baseball game together, and then there was him singing to REO Speedwagon. Rob would give me advice, that only an acting older brother could give, especially, "Don't be a baby".
I can still remember a last send off when he left school and noticed it affected me more than anyone else.
We didn't stay close afterwards, but I will never forget Rob and what a special person he was in my life and the time we did share,
Fred Augur
Robin Auld (Vogel)
September 6, 2011
Rob and I worked together many years ago in JFK - Jim , Rob and I were the three little musketeers. We ate together, worked together, watched movies together and most importantly laughed together. Rob was the kindest, most caring person I had the luck to know. Although we lost touch many years ago, I know that if I had reached out to say hello, he would have asked a thousand questions about my life and it would have been as if no time had gone by. I am glad to know he found happiness with his wife and children and health after his diagnosis. There are no words to express my sorrow that his life was cut short and in such a tragic way. I still struggle to understand the events and experiences of that day. I can only hope that his family has remained strong in the knowledge that he is watching over them, keeping them safe now.
Henry Healy
August 20, 2011
There is not a day that has gone by without me think about my cousin. Growing up our families lived in the same town and we always saw each other during the Holidays.I miss not being able to talk sports anytime we would see each other. To someone dear to my heart and always in my thoughts, I have been blessed to have you as my cousin and friend.
patrick mcauliffe
August 19, 2011
class act, true leader,just a great guy
pat mcauliffe
August 18, 2011
not a day goes by that your not in my thoughts one way or another,i miss you more then any words could ever say-i hope and pray that you are at peace-god bless you rob-your forever in my heart-love your cousin and biggest fan -timmy
Brian Marro
July 12, 2011
It is difficult for me to talk about Rob. When I moved to Seaford in 7th grade he reached out to me and we were friends. Played baseball with Rob in school and then softball for many years.I'll never forget the day a fly ball hit him on the head. we laughed for yrs about it for years. *Best moment: The day me and my brother tricked his wife Sue into coming to my wedding thinking it was a BBQ!! Rob met her and they talked the whole wedding. first time Rob went 5hrs without eating other than in his sleep.. After everyone left Rob came into my house and said "I think I'm in love..AND I"M STARVING"! Worst Moment: Getting Rob a job on Wall ST............................. I will always remember my friend "SLI"...
Tom DeBenedetto
September 11, 2009
Rob was my classmate, baseball teammate and friend. He was always kind, funny and a great guy to be around. We shared the Limo and Dinner Table at the Senior Prom and shared many fun moments in and out of Seaford High School. I regret not keeping in touch after I moved to Florida in 1979.
Now, everytime the 9/11 tragedy is mentioned, I immediately think of Rob and say a prayer for him and his family. Rob was a terrific friend and from reading this guest book and I can feel the love that is with him especially today on this 8th 9/11 anniversary. Rob, I miss you and may God Bless you and your family and friends. Tommy Dee
John Radocy
November 13, 2008
I was telling my wife of Rob's friendly demeanor and great sense of humor recently at the Wantagh-Plainedge football game while watching his son Ryan play for Wantagh. I grew up in Seaford and had the Honor of playing footall with Rob. His sense of humor and loyalty to his teammates were some of the building blocks that made Rob the man he was......one of the best. I will forever miss him.
anne kelly
September 11, 2008
rob and the entire sliwak family are always in our thoughts and prayers. memories keep us close....if not always in contact..you are always in our hearts. God bless you all.
Frank Vitucci
June 30, 2008
Rob Was not only my friend --he was like a brother to me. Frank Vitucci.
Stephen Brown
April 5, 2008
A great friend, someone I truly admired.
Gary Mirabito
January 19, 2008
I grew up in Seaford, Bob's hometown, and graduated with his sister Karen. I knew of Bob from the neighborhood, but had the pleasure to get to know him better while playing football together. Aside from his athletic ability, I recall his wonderful sense of humor, enthusiastic spirit, illuminating smile and most of all the way he treated everyone the same.
My heartfelt condolences to Bob's family, relatives and friends and all of the persons he touched in his lifetime.
I now reside in Seaford, and nearly every day I drive by Seaford High School, and think of Bob as I pass by the 9/11 memorial to Bob, and the others honored. I feel blessed to have had the opportunity to have kwown him and shared some wonderful times together.
Doug Abraham
October 26, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
kristine
August 19, 2007
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
March 15, 2007
In remembrance....
Jennie Farrell
September 8, 2006
God Bless you Robert. We remember you in prayer always. May God bless your beautiful family with comfort, hope, and love.
With Love,
jennie Farrell
Sister of James Cartier
South Tower, 105th floor
September 11, 2001
JAMIE SLIWAK
August 30, 2005
UNCLE ROBERT, I MISS AND LOVE YOU VERY MUCH. I THINK ABOUT YOU EVERY DAY. THE KIDDIE'S ARE GREAT, IM SURE YOU KNOW THAT . THEY ARE GETTING SO BIG IT'S MAKING ME FEEL OLD. I MISS YOU VERY MUCH, I WISH YOU WERE HERE. THANK YOU FOR VISITING ME WHEN I SLEEP
Brian Barker
August 26, 2005
I was a college friend of Bob's and played football with him at Central. I just heard from another friend that Bob worked at Cantor Fitzgerald.
If Bob's wife and children read this; I would like you to know that your husband/father was a great teammate, a very good football player and an even better person!
You have my deepest condolences and I wanted to let you know that Bob lives on in the memories of those who he knew him even if haven't seen him for 20 years.
Brian Barker
Karen Colangeli-Steinmann
October 26, 2004
Thinking about you today, A childhood friend HAPPY BIRTHDAY 10/26/04 I pray for you and your family.a smile i will never forget.
Robert Blau
September 22, 2002
I had the pleasure of working with Rob at Cantor in 1997-98. He worked on the "arms" desk with 2 of my good friends- both of whom are thankfully alive today. "Slee", as we used to call him, had a great attitude about life- he never got upset no matter how tense the situation. I'll never forget when he told me how he had battled and triumphed over cancer. Sue, I was at the moving service for Rob on Long Island and I mourned with all of his many family members and friends and other relatives of slain Cantor co-workers...May God bless the Sliwak family- I miss you Slee
scott Davis
September 22, 2002
To the Sliwak Family,
On Sept. 11th 2002, our city held a patriot parade in honor of the victims that fell on Spet. 11th 2001. The patriot parade was for motorcycle riders to take part in. There were more than 5,000 motorcyclists that showed up. I am Active duty Air Force and I participated in the parade representing the military. I just wanted to let you know, i didn't know Robert, but I wore a wristband with his name on it in his honor. I want to give you my deepest sympathy for your loss. I too know what it's like to lose someone very close, i lost my girfriend just this year. It's a tragety to lose someone so close, knowing they are here one second and then gone the next, but i truely believe that they are still around us watching over us. Love is something that just doesn't die away. Again, i'm sorry for your loss and may god be with you always.
Scott
Lisa Sliwak
September 12, 2002
It has been a year since we lost you, and a day hasn't gone by that you weren't in my thoughts and prays. Susan has done a wonderful job in raising your children in your absences. Ryan is growing like a weed and is becoming a fine athlete, he can give you a run for your money anyday of the week. Nicole is becoming more and more beautiful everyday. She still hasn't lost the ability to boss Kyle around at drop of a hat. Then we have Kyle who just mosey's along without a care in the world and always has a smile on his face. Your parents and your brothers and sisters are making it through. It is often that I find that I hear another funny "Robert story" as we often gather for dinners on Sunday. I also wanted to tell you, that I felt like the luckiest person in the world to have you as a brother-in-law, unfortunately it was for only a month, and on the flip side I felt cheated cause I was so short changed in not being able to share and grow with you as my family. I am sorry it took so long to share with you, but I wanted you to know that I will do my best to take care of all the wonderful people that were left behind when you were unfairly taken away from us. Forever in my thoughts and in my prays...... Love Lisa
Claire Marie Gigon
September 11, 2002
As I watched the ceremony today from my office here in Switzerland, my heart goes out to the family of my cousin Robert. Susan, you and your children are in my heart and my prayers go out to you.
- A long distance "Sliwak"
Angie Campbell
May 16, 2002
May God bless you and watch over the family and friends that you left behind on that horrible day last September. May you rest in peace forever more.
May 2, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL MAN..ROBERT SLIWAK AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS WIFE ..CHILDREN...FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY JESUS AND MARY AND ST. JOSEPH GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
May 2, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL MAN..ROBERT SLIWAK AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS WIFE ..CHILDREN...FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY JESUS AND MARY GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
maryann and willie young
April 12, 2002
sue you and your family will always be in our prays. we are related to the napoli family in case you dont know us. But we do think of you and your family and hope that you all are doing as good as expected. sorry for your lost and Robert is is our prays to. We all know he is at peace.
Scott Matheny
January 16, 2002
My wife and I moved to Long Island in 1995 and lived above Rob and Sue in their duplex home. We had nothing, basically. Rob and Sue made it a point to welcome us. They opened up their garage door and said, "Here, take this furniture, use it." When we had our first baby, they let us use their family baby crib. They invited us to many family gatherings. In short, they welcomed us and made the transition to New York easier. In time, we outgrew our first Long Island home. But, we will never forget the kindness both Rob and Sue showed us.
Martin Sliwak
January 3, 2002
God bless and best wishes to the family in these difficult times.
I'm not sure how far back in our family tree we are connected -(we left Poland in 81).
From one Sliwak family to the other - God bless and may the children grow and prosper to honor their father.
Sincerely,
Martin Sliwak, on the West Coast...
Teresa Jahn
December 11, 2001
We are so very sorry for your loss of Robert. We know he will live on in yourself and in the children. It breaks my heart to know they are suffering. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Kevin McNamara
November 13, 2001
He was one of the Good guys. My thoughts and prayers are with Susan and all the Sliwak family.
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