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Bella Bhukhan Obituary
Bella Bhukhan, 24, danced the part of the youngest with a certain spark. Of the three sisters, she was the most playful, the most stubborn, the bluntest - in a sense, the most western. Raised in a Gujarati family who settled in Union, N.J., after migrating from Zambia, she was the defiant one who returned from a Cancún vacation with a tattoo on her lower back.
Yet she also embraced her Indian heritage. At her eldest sister Vicky's wedding last month, Bella performed a traditional Indian dance wearing a long brown and gold skirt, sleeveless top and jewelry that glittered and clattered.
With her engaging smile, Bella was a people-person. At the Cantor Fitzgerald memorial service, her family was struck by how many employees, especially the foreign-born, remembered how well Bella took care of them in the human resources department. That was the role this youngest sister assumed at home, too: "The three of us were best friends and she was very upset I was moving so far away," said Vicky Tailor. "She always told my in-laws to take care of me and called every other day to see if I was being treated right."
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Sharon Barnard
December 8, 2023
We went to New York last weekend. I was looking through my photos and one of the ground zero fountains I could see Ella’s name. I looked her name up on internet, I just wanted to see her picture. She was beautiful. My heart aches for her family.
Cindy Roe
September 1, 2021
Remembering Bella on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
Del Newberry
November 6, 2017
Very sorry for your family's loss. We will never forget. With love from Texas,
September 13, 2016
Dear family and friends,
sorry for your loss. i'm very sorry this happened to you.Your family and the people you know miss you and again i'm very sorry.
Sincerly, Gabrielle
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Devika Zachariah
September 11, 2014
I remember being glued to the tv and watching the news that night and seeing your fiancé who was looking for you. He held up a picture pleading if anyone saw you or recognized you in any of the hospitals to please contact him. My heart broke at the desperation and sadness he felt and the way he looked as he asked for help. I always remember your name not only on Sept. 11th but always.
September 12, 2013
Bella,
You will never be forgotten!
- Janet Soukup
Vanessa Cedeno
September 11, 2013
I never had the pleasure of meeting you. But from the pictures and wonderful stories your mom tells me, I know you were an angel on this earth. Rest in Paradise and continue to watch over your family.
Barbara Boam
April 16, 2013
I walked a mile for you (mile #188) on 3/14/13 as a dedication to your life
Janet Soukup
September 11, 2012
Bella,
You will never be forgotten!
April King
June 28, 2012
I just wanted to say I am so sorry for your loss in this unimagineable tragedy. I will keep you in my prayers.
Rose Livoti
May 2, 2012
I'll always remember our fun times at Pace with such fondness, especially sitting next to you in class joking. You were such a beautiful person, both inside and out. Rest in peace. ~RLM
diego e vanessa sandrè
October 18, 2010
"you... angel of the towers, all now protect your loved ones.
Diego & Vanessa."
Jesse Sandoval
September 12, 2010
my prayers go out to you and all the victims of 9/11..rest in peace Bella..you will never be forgotten
Jesus Sandoval
September 12, 2010
rest in peace..my prayers go out to you and all the victims of 9/11..you'll never be forgotten
Michelle Dunn Marsh
September 12, 2010
you are in my heart today, and always with me. I will never forget your laughter, your smile, and the energy you gave to your sisters and to me.
parth Joshi
September 11, 2010
you are all ways in are hearts bella. from parth and ruta joshi!
Uday Gosalia
September 9, 2010
I remember you without trying. The way I remember to smile when I see someone I care about. It's effortless. My mind is at peace knowing you retain a tight grip on my heart. My dear friend, your memory continues to inspire me to go full speed ahead towards my goals. Will always remember you with my happiest days in college.
Desirah Galarza
September 8, 2010
Farwell to you RIP Bella Bhukhan
N D
October 5, 2009
If tears could build a stairway and memories were a lane,
We would walk all the way to Heaven, to bring you home again
No farewell words were spoken, no time to say good-bye
You were gone before we knew it, and only God knows why
Our hearts ache in sadness, and secret tears will flow
What is meant to lose you, no one will ever know
God Bless!!
Dylan Fernandes
September 11, 2009
Bella, we shared fun times in Pace. I still remember running into you in Webster Hall excited and happy about working in Cantor. I enjoyed the long pleasant conversations and the fun times. You will always be a good friend. Miss you dearly.
Victoria Merkel Nauta
September 11, 2009
Although Bella and I were not close in high school, my thoughts and prayers have always been with her and her family every year on this day. Thoughts are again with you today. God bless.
Monica Navsaria
August 19, 2009
Hey Bella Ben... When I stayed in your room in June 09, I couldnt believe my hat was still on your bed! I still have your zippy :-) love you, miss you dearly xoxo
Paola Pozzo
August 18, 2009
Bella, we shared so many laughs and craziness walking home and just bugging out. I couldnt believe when I heard that you were there. My thoughts and prayers are with your family as I know that you are an angel smiling down at us. I'll always treasure our talks and our memories.
Stephanie Barrett
August 18, 2009
My thoughts and prayers will be forever with you!!
Avanish Pandya
August 18, 2009
Bella, you'll definitely stay forever in our hearts and you'll always be missed. May you rest in peace..
Mital Patel
August 18, 2009
Will never forget all the memories you left me with. you will forever stay in my heart. Thanks for coming into my life and being the best friend anyone could ever ask for.
Miss you and Love you dearly....till we meet again..
-Mital
tejas topiwala
July 30, 2009
halo & goodluck u s very charming
uday gosalia
March 27, 2009
in my haste...i meant 32nd birthday!!
March 27, 2009
happy birthday xxx
Doug Abraham
March 26, 2009
Happy Birthday!!!
uday gosalia
March 26, 2009
on what would have been your 33rd birthday...i take account of all that we've lost and gained in the past 7+ years...! miss you dear Bella!
Doug Abraham
March 26, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
N D
September 11, 2007
Dear Bella...
May you rest in peace!! Today is the 6th anniversary of that horrible day and I want you to know that you are still in my prayers and I haven't forgotten you.
Denise
September 11, 2007
You will always be in my thoughts. I will never forget our time together and your neverending smile. Miss you B!
uday gosalia
March 26, 2007
March 26th belongs to you. I remember you still. Not just today, but often. Randomly. You were so kind to me. I am so grateful to have met you. Thanks for the ride that night to the party. You dragged your dad out since he didn't want you to go out alone. It was so kind of you. I hope your soul is at peace. I hope you family has found some peace as well. Miss you Skipper!
love,
gilligan
Doug Abraham
March 26, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Kristine
October 24, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Uday Gosalia
September 12, 2006
Dear Bella, I think of you each time I have a slice of pizza and reach for the red pepper. I also laugh when someone tells me that I speak very fast - those were among the first words you said to me when we first met in Sept. 1996. 10 years ago you befriended me and made my life richer. To this day I value our friendship. I miss you Skipper!
love Gilligan
Deborah McDonald
September 12, 2006
We will never forget
God bless all
Jennie Chew
September 11, 2006
We
had plans to see each other a month before they took you from us. How I
wish we got to see each other. I remember the days at Pace when all we
did was make fun of each other and ate lots of pizza with pepper on it.
we had a blast. I will see you up there and I will wear those fairy
pink pajamas you loved so much!!! I miss you and love you always, your
Chewy
Denise -
September 10, 2006
Bella and I went to school together at Pace. She was so full of life and always made everyone around her smile. She will always be remembered, a loving person to all who was around her. I miss you so much Bella. You are God's little angel and will forever be in our hearts!!!
P Tabbernor
August 24, 2006
In memory....
Debbie
September 12, 2005
My heart goes out to the family and friends of Bella. May god help you in your healing. Know that you're still in the thoughts and prayers of many people who may not know you or Bella. Her name caught my eye because that's my daughters' name. God bless your family and may their legacy live strong.
Mayur Patel
March 26, 2005
Happy Birthday Bella, I miss you very much and will so the rest of my life... you are Gods little angel and I know you are well taken care of up there. rest in peace, love forever.
mp
Freddy De Schutter
December 11, 2004
It does heart pain what has happened on 11 September 2001.
Our sympathy is prayed and with you.
Abby Park
June 20, 2004
Bella,
I recently went back to NY and saw your name at the WTC site on a memorial wall. After the tears, I could not help but smile recalling your infectious laugh.
I thoroughly enjoyed working with you, and becoming your friend.
I recall our talks..especially the one where I thought I was trying to make you feel at ease and YOU ended up making ME feel at ease!!
That was soooo like you!
You will forever be in my thoughts and your family will always be in my prayers.
God Bless You
Abby
shirley hooper
April 16, 2004
god blass you
Nicole Ardolino
December 5, 2003
~~~~~~~~~~~~God Bless~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Never forget...
Mikel
September 14, 2003
we will never forgot, god bless you, bella.
Laura Schmidt
September 11, 2003
I knew Bella from my sister who worked with Mital at the bank. My heart, thoughts, and prayers go out to all of Bella's family and friends who miss her.
Stephen
December 29, 2002
Dear Bhukhan Family,
Although I did not know Bella personally, I worked with Vicky for several years and I knew how close Bella was to her family and friends. My deepest sympathy is with Vicky and her family. May the future bring you peace and keep the love in your hearts shining bright.
Danielle Galazzo Farber
September 16, 2002
I knew Bella when we were in Union High School, and I will always remember all the laughs we shared in English class. I remember Bella always having a smile on her face. It comforts me to know that her beautiful smile continues on in the hearts of the friends and family left behind, as that is the first thing many remember about Bella. Bella, you will never be forgotten by those who knew and loved you. To the Bhukhan family, you will remain in my prayers always.
Seema Patel
September 16, 2002
Bella,
We went to Union High together, and shared some good times. I look back at those years and see your smiling face that could make anyone else smile. Thoughts of you and your family will always be with me and my family. God Bless Your Soul.
Shawn Mason
September 13, 2002
bella bhukhan, my prayers go out to you family and the loss. rest in piece.
Ruta Joshi
September 11, 2002
I was fortunate enough to know Bella and call her a friend...we shared some amazing times together. It was a true blessing having her in my life. To her family, mine and my family's thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Sapana Desai
September 11, 2002
Anyone who knew Bela, whether a close friend, family member, an acquaitance, knew her sweet smile. She embraced so many people with her sweet and warm smile. Although I did not know Bela that well I am sincerely sorry and may her soul rest in peace. God bless all her loved ones.
Ana Gascu
September 11, 2002
Bella- just keep on smiling, you are one of the sweetest persons I've ever known. We went to school together in Union, NJ and I haven't seen you since high school graduation but we will meet again sometime. You are missed greatly and my thoughts and payers are always with you and your family. I could never forget you...you are always like a twinkiling star.
Ann Marie Boyle
September 10, 2002
The Bhukhan family is in my prayers today and always. May you find peace...Bella will continue to light the way in your hearts...
Ann Marie Boyle
September 10, 2002
The Bhukhan family is in my prayers today and always. May you find peace...Bella will continue to light the way in your hearts...
Ann Grey
September 10, 2002
From all the tributes, it sounds as if Bella was a truly wonderful young lady, daughter, sister and friend. I want you to know that I cried many, many tears the day America changed forever. Not only for the victims in those buildings and airplanes. I cried also for you, their loved ones. May GOD bless you all and keep you in HIS care and give you peace.
Pam De Conzo
September 10, 2002
Dear Vicky and Family,
Your family and Bella are in my thoughts and prayers today and everyday.
Although I didn't know Bella personally, from what I understand she was a kind and wonderful person. Just like Vicky.
JACQUELINE JONES
September 3, 2002
YOU ARE A VERY PRETTY YOUNG LADY.YOU WILL BE MISSED IN A WAY NO-ONE COULD EXPLAIN YOU'VE NEVER MEET ME BUT I WANT YOU TO KNOW YOU ARE IN MY HEART WITH THE OTHERS WHO DIED IN THE 9/11.
jj
May 28, 2002
I will never forget your sweet friendly smile from the day we met in Pace. Rest in Peace. @)---;---
kerry brady
May 28, 2002
to bella and her family,
bella,you are terribly missed by myself and many.you were such a beautiful person.although i have not seen you since we were in 9th grade together(i moved away to pa)i still remember you as if it was yesterday that i last seen you!i care so very much for you and your family.she was a very happy and friendly person.it saddens me that we lost touch years ago,but i want to let her and her family know that i care for her and her family very much.it is the least i can do.she(and her family) will always be in my prayers.may god watch over her and take care of her and her family....i would also like to thank mr.bhukhan for keeping in touch with me about bella.god bless you!
Myra Yabut-Baez
May 26, 2002
I attended Pace University with all three Bhukhan sisters. I was Bella's oldest sister, Vicky's roommate. To be associated with these sisters, you knew that they were a package deal. It was so great to see that these three sisters really were the best of friends. I always referred to Bella as the "little one." She was always in a good mood and she could always make you laugh. I think about her every day since I ran into Vicky this May 2002. My biggest regret is that it has been 7 years since we have been in touch, since I graduated.
The Bella that I remember from 7 years ago is the sweet girl that had a smile that lit up a room. This is the Bella that I remember and the Bella that I will never forget.
My deepest sympathy to the Bhukhan family. May you know that your daughter and sister made a difference in this world. She will not be forgotten.
Mark Andrews
March 19, 2002
In the recent past I worked with Bella's sister Viveki, across the street from the Trade Center. I remember taking the PATH train to New Jersey with Viveki, Bella and Nisha on many occasions. Whenever I think about those train rides with the sisters, I am reminded of the deep affection and love they shared for each other.
I'll always remember the beautiful dance she performed at Viveki's wedding just weeks prior to September 11th. On September 11th it was as if all the light went out of the world. I'd like to express my deepest sympathy and condolences to Bella's family, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Krupa Bhojani
February 28, 2002
A daily thought, a silent tear
A constant wish that you were here,
Words are few, thoughts are deep,
Memories of you we shall always keep.
Bella i never had the chance to meet you, being a friend of your cousin monica i heard alot about you. i jus want to say you will be greatly missed, you were the light of so many lives and you now are the warmth of many hearts. God Bless x-x-x-x-x-x-x-x-x-x-x-x-
Ann Marie, Jean, Paula & Juliet
February 22, 2002
We worked with Bella's sister Viveki accross the street from Bella in the WTC, some of us were already at work when the first plane hit, it only took us moments to start worrying about Bella & Nisha. We had spent some great times together with Viveki & her sisters. Bella had a way about her that would light up a room, our hope is that her light continues to shine through those she met and through her loved ones. Not a day has gone by since 9/11 that she is not remembered. Our hearts, thoughts, and prayers are with her and her family...Bella will always be a part of our lives that we can never forget...we were blessed to have met her...
Tejas Desai
February 8, 2002
Bella your smile will stay in my head where ever I go , I will never forget you.
Tejas
Santosh Uttam
January 31, 2002
We were very sadly shocked when we first heard of the September 11th events, and even more so when we heard that Bella was in the building at that time. It was just about a month before that that we had first seen Bella and just unimaginable that a person you just saw is no longer in this world. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Bhukhan family. May god bless Bella's soul and rest in peace.
Amit Pranjivan
January 29, 2002
Hi Bella although I only meet you once for a short period of time at the wedding. You were a nice and sweet person. Our thoughts and prayers goes out to you and your family. May your soul rest in peace.
jagdish bhukhan
January 29, 2002
to all those who have sent tributes to my "BELLA"(The BEUTIFUL) our sincere appreciattion for your caring words .its made me bring tears as i read all your gentle words . we surely miss BElla. Jagdish Bhukhan
Monica Topiwala (bula-bhai Fiji)
January 28, 2002
hi bella! although i did not meet u i have heard from my foi that u were a really and caring gal in the family.Without meeting u have heard heard a alot about u and i have only i word to say may u soul rest in peace ok.U dont need to worry about anything we all are here to help ur family..
Farisha Kuber
January 28, 2002
Bella masi,
i haven't met you but my mom always talked about you and your sisters. she wanted to be at the wedding so much.she told me you never left for the train with out giving your mom a kiss. you were a very good girl. i bet she wants me to be like you
Bhavisha Navsaria
January 28, 2002
my beautiful cousin, bella ben was so special to my whole family. she was a unique person, when she came in a room she just smiled and then everyone around her was smiling as well. i will treasure our moments at her sister, vivecki's wedding, where we shared laughter and tears, and the time when you came to London with your best mate Mital - who is like my sister too. we all miss you very much, i wish and pray that you rest in peace.
love you always
bhavisha and family
xxxx
Reena Navsaria
January 23, 2002
My sweetest cousin, who always put a smile on all of our faces.We will never forget the beautiful memories we spent together eg:your sisters wedding and when you came down last year with your best friend Mital. Bella Ben you where an angel, you always were and you will always be..
I hope your soul will rest in peace
Miss you loads
Love always
Reena
Monica Navsaria
January 22, 2002
Bella.. my sweet cousin, may your soul rest in peace. We miss you so much but i hold on to the fun memories we had at Viveki's wedding and when you came to visit us last year with Mital... love u always, Monica xxx
Nina` Topiwala
January 17, 2002
Bella came to visit us last year with her best friend Mital, she was full of life and wherever she went and whoever met she bought a smile to everyone's face. She looked so beautiful at her sister's wedding - An Angel - who will forever be engraved in all of our hearts.
We pray everyday Bella that your soul rests in Peace.
God bless you, your family and your friends who miss you very much.
Mital Patel
January 16, 2002
Bella not only were you my best friend but you were my little sister. I miss you so much and god bless your soul.
until we meet again....your best friend
kristine treglia
January 10, 2002
I did not know Bella, but I did know Monica Goldstein. The two girls were about the same age, worked in Cantor Fitzgerald, and have beautiful smiles. From the dedications I've read, it seems that Bella was very much like Monica, caring, beautiful and loved by all who knew them. May they rest in peace together. We will miss them very much.
Rosemaire Reginald
January 10, 2002
My deeply sorry for your loss of Bella. May Bella's life and love live on in those who love her. May all the sorrow in your hearts be lightened by the golden memories of the beautiful moments in your lives. My hearts cry with you in your loss of Bella. I really miss her she was always so helpful to me. She always talk about her family with me she was so happy about her sister getting wedding when she came back from vacation she told me all about it. Bella until we meet again rest in peace. Rosemarie
Kerrien Rollins
January 9, 2002
I have never forgotten the genuine warmth and sweetness with which Bella offered her friendship on my first day at a new school. I can understand why she made employees' transitions at Cantor Fitzgerald so much easier. My heart goes out to her family at this incredibly difficult time. A truly bright and beautiful light has been snuffed out.
Teresa Jahn
January 8, 2002
We are very sorry for your loss of Bella. May her tradition of Indian dances, life and love live on in you. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Mayur Patel
January 4, 2002
Bella, the most sweetest person in the world, im sorry i couldn't be there to share your pain and fears. We will be reunited in the future.
Eternal love, mp
Debbie
December 30, 2001
She was a very sweet young lady, and had alot to offer. It is a damn shame her flame was blown out way to early before her time as well as all of the innocents in the wtc that day. May god bless them all and give all their families the strength and courage to carry on.
IRENE
December 7, 2001
GOD BLESS BELLA BHUKHAN AND MAY SHE
REST IN PEACE.GOD BLESS HER FAMILY
AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA AND
MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01
Raquel Pidal
December 7, 2001
The students of Ursinus College send their thoughts and prayers to your family during the holiday season and always. God bless you.
Paul Schweidel
November 29, 2001
I miss you . I saw you on the commute to lower manhattan , almost
every day . We were on the " PATH" train . I didn't know your name then . You did't know my name either . BUT YOU WOULD definately RECOGNIZE ME . NOV 29, 2001
Amelia Mohabir
November 7, 2001
I attended Pace University with Bella; although I was just an acquaintance I knew that she was a pleasant and caring person.
My heart goes out to her family and friends, she will live on in our memories.
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