Gary L. Bright

Gary L. Bright

Gary Bright Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 5, 2001.
Not a Lot of Spare Time
Gary Bright was still working flat out, usually seven days a week, sometimes at two jobs. Late last summer, he put together a combination that suited him fine: working evenings as a waiter at Spazzio's restaurant on Columbus Avenue and, during the days, as a temporary insurance analyst at Aon Insurance in the World Trade Center.

He came to New York from Indiana about six years ago with a master's degree in therapy, and in his spare time — of which there was not much — he counseled a child pro bono. But mostly he worked. "He was one of the hardest-working people I have ever met," said Sarah Adams, who worked with him at Spazzio's. "If anybody deserved success, it was him. He was intelligent, he was warm and he gave us all advice."

His mother, Anna Bright, said, "He wanted to get ahead, he was big on that." He had recently bought himself a house in Union City, N.J. — a "kind of a fixer-upper," said Mrs. Bright, who came east from her home in Muncie, Ind., to help with the fixing. "He turned the backyard into a little park, with a fish pond and a fountain," she said. But Mr. Bright was not planning to stay there long. "It was just a beginner house," his mother said.

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January 31, 2025

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September 12, 2023

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Dennis Swindell

January 31, 2025

Happy Birthday Gary! My heart is always filled with the memories of you and knowing your birth had purpose. Love you

Dennis Swindell

September 10, 2024

Dearest Gary, Another year of missing your incredible sweetness. Thinking of you always and loving you forever.

Brandon Cusma

September 12, 2023

Thinking of you Gary. I think of you this time of year,other times as well of course, but more so this time of year .We did not have a lot of time together in NYC 98/99 .You are remembered.You are not forgotten.As I type ,I shake my head with disbelief and sadness thinking about how unfair it all seams.I remember you a good kind person.The world is in desperate need of more like you my friend.Rest easy and watch over us .

Stephen D

September 11, 2023

I remember Gary as I worked with him at ISO for the duration he was there before he moved to AON. He used to sit near my cubicle near the doors of the elevator’s lobby. He was a hard worker and very smart! I looked up to his determination and dedication as he was in the office through all hours at certain times. After 22 years, I send my condolences to his family and think about him even through these years that past.

Dennis Swindell

September 11, 2023

Dearest Gary,

My heart aches every time we come to this day. But most days there is a smile that comes to my face as I think of special memories we shared together. You will remain alive and so loved in my heart forever. Love you

Neil Small

September 11, 2023

Thinking of you, Gary. Especially today.

Chuck Hutchison

September 10, 2023

RIP Gary I will never forget you

Chuck Hitchison

September 10, 2023

Thinking of you tonight before that awful day,RIP my friend

Dennis Swindell

January 31, 2023

My Dear Gary. Today I celebrate the day we were blessed you came into this world. I so wish you were still here. But I see your face, and your smile, and hear your infectious laugh all through the year. HAPPY BIRTHDAY with all my love

Dennis Swindell

September 11, 2022

Gary, you are forever in my heart. I will always love you!

Dennis Swindell

January 31, 2022

Wishing you were here to celebrate another birthday. Always thinking of you. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

Dennis Swindell

September 11, 2021

My dearest Gary,

Today marks the 20th year since the unfathomable terrorist attack that took you away from us. But everyday, your loss marks the pain in my heart, although time has mercifully smoothed the sharp edges. You were "one of a kind" - so mild, so sweet, so caring, so lovable, that whoever you touched was truly blessed by knowing you. So I honor you on this day and through my tears, remember all the wonderful times we shared together. And if God, in his infinite grace and mercy grants me another 20 years, I will always love you and continue to sing your praises.

Cindy Roe

September 2, 2021

Remembering Gary on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...

Dennis Swindell

January 31, 2021

G, you are especially on my mind today, but you are in my heart every day! I miss your kindness and sweetness. So, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! WORDS CANNOT EXPRESS HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU!!!

Jeanette Krupinski

January 13, 2021

You have come to mind a few times over the past weeks. Though our connection was short, it was unforgettable. You were well named, Gary "Bright", more like a beacon to all who had the pleasure to know you, for however brief a time. Much love, Gary

Dennis Swindell

September 11, 2020

Minutes, days, and years go by, and still I think of you. Time will never diminish how much I truly miss you. LOVE YOU FOREVER.

Kentin Gearhart

September 11, 2020

Thinking of you my dear friend ❤

Dennis Swindell

January 31, 2020

I woke up this morning thinking of you. HAPPY BIRTHDAY "Bugga". I love you

Misty Jackson

September 16, 2019

You are missed everyday my Friend much luv to Heaven !!

Alfred Rudolph

September 14, 2019

We Shall Never Forget. Always in thoughts and prayers for you and our Nation.

Lindsey Brown

September 13, 2019

I love when I get these notifications it let's me know after 18 years you are still in peoples thoughts. I worked this year for the 2nd time in 18 years. I never usually do as this is my memorial day. It seems like yesterday in my head as I remember it like yesterday. This has been a rough couple years for us down here but I know you, my Shell and uncle Woody are having a reunion party up there. I love you guys. We miss you and the crew down here give them kisses for me and tell them we love them.

Natalie Burd

September 12, 2019

Every time I get a notification that someone has posted to your guest book it makes me smile. You will never be forgotten my friend.

Susan Parsons

September 11, 2019

Thinking of you today as my heart aches.
You were my first friend when I moved to Muncie in Dec. 1982
I will never forget his smile, his kindness and his determination. He was an amazing guy.

Dennis Swindell

September 11, 2019

Dearest Gary,
Another year and missing you everyday. You are constantly in my thoughts and I will always cherish our time together. LOVE YOU

Kentin Gearhart

September 11, 2019

Thinking of you my dear friend. Sending love to you and your family.

July 18, 2019

Life is short, but you did not leave this world in vain. Peace be with your spirit.

Dennis Swindell

January 31, 2019

I still hear your sweet laughter and feel your warmth. Happy Birthday "bugga" Love you.

KENTIN GEARHART

January 31, 2019

Happy Birthday Gary - Always in my thoughts and truly missed. Love and hugs, Kentin

Carol Turner

September 11, 2018

God bless you Gary. RIP & RIH

Dennis Swindell

September 11, 2018

I will always love you - time will never diminish that.

Jeannine Lake

September 11, 2018

We will never forget. Love and hugs to the entire Bright family. Such a good family.

This pic was sent to me by someone I never met. It represents the beautiful person Gary was and the many lives he touched.

Kentin

September 11, 2018

Kentin Gearhart

September 11, 2018

Always in my thoughts and never forgotten.

Misty Jackson

September 11, 2018

Thinking of u today and missing our Friendship everyday !!MJ!

May 17, 2018

Thinking of you today bud!Thank you.

Del Newberry

May 16, 2018

Praying for Gary's family today. We will never forget. Much love from Texas,

February 1, 2018

Time doesn't erase the pain of losing you, I'm sure it will endure my lifetime. I love you friend.

Brandon C

February 1, 2018

Happy Birthday Gary Gone way to soon ...Way to soon...

Dennis Swindell

January 31, 2018

Days and years go by, but still I think of you. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

Donna Kuehn

September 11, 2017

I just added a photo of Gary at my house the summer we finished our undergrad together from Purdue at Indianapolis . We had such a good summer finishing our degrees.
To Gary's family and friends I'm still so sorry for the loss of Gary. He will be in my heart forever and deeply missed.

Donna Kuehn

September 11, 2017

Dennis Swindell

September 11, 2017

My Dearest Gary,

For 2 weeks leading up to this day, the thoughts of you have flooded my heart and mind. After 16 years I had the strength to finally download a song that meant so much to the both of us and through the tears flowing down my cheeks I reflected on what a beautiful man, and more importantly what a beautiful soul you were. The soul never dies, so I know that wherever you are, you are shining "Bright" and everyone around you sees the beauty you bring. I miss you so much today and always. I love you!

Kentin Gearhart

September 11, 2017

You are truly missed and always in my thoughts and heart.

Robin (Deeds) Todd

June 6, 2017

I took my mom, Ina Deeds, to NYC for her 80th birthday and she wanted to go see your name at the 9/11 memorial because she had such fond memories of you as our neighbor and also when you were her 3rd grade student at Grissom Elementary. You are missed!!

March 9, 2017

I wasn't doing anything important today, cleaning the yard and suddenly remembered us walking to school, laughing because I was walking you off the road not realizing it. I wish I could remember every thing we ever did and said. Growing up next door to you was a blessing and I thank God for the times we had. I miss you my friend.

Jeanette Krupinski

March 4, 2017

Gary, your surname name fit you so well. "Bright" - your smile lit up the room, always at the ready for everyone you met. "Bright" - your outlook on life, which you inspired in anyone you came in contact with. "Bright" - the memory your family and friends have of you. "Bright" - your forever shining star in the night sky watching over the people you love. May you rest in peace, sweet Gary Bright.

Kentin Gearhart

January 31, 2017

Gary today is your birthday and thinking of you on your special day. Sending love to you today and always. Kentin

Dennis Swindell

January 31, 2017

My Dearest Gary. I am thinking about you on your birthday today and all the joy and laughter you brought into my life. I will always love you.

Wanda McKenzie

September 11, 2016

I'm sure you're singing in heaven! Certainly glad you graced Southside Choir and Southernaires with your voice, dedication, smiles and laughter.

Dennis Swindell

September 11, 2016

After 15 years the pain has lessened,but how it still hurts. I never stop thinking of you and I know you are in the balcony rooting for me. Love you forever.

Alfred

September 11, 2016

Once, twice and always thinking about you.

chuck hutchison

September 11, 2016

just thinking of you today

Kentin Gearhart

September 11, 2016

Always in my thoughts..miss you very much

September 10, 2016

I still love and miss you my friend.

Dennis Swindell

January 31, 2016

HAPPY BIRTHDAY my dearest Gary. You are always on my mind. Time can never diminish my love for you.

Michelle McAfee

September 11, 2015

God bless you, Bright family and friends. I did not know Gary but I just donated blood in Gary's name. My heart goes out to All who

Alfred Rudolph

September 11, 2015

Gary, it seems like yesterday and I feel your presence often. I am still at the Pentagon and will always remember touring around DC with you. Miss you my friend.

Donna Kuehn

September 11, 2015

I will always love and miss you Gary...I find some peace with the knowledge of how much you were loved by everyone who was blessed by truely knowing you...

Cyndy McAdams

September 11, 2015

Always will remember our friendship. We had so much fun.
You touched a lot of hearts. We all love you and will never forget.

September 11, 2015

A day to remember a very special friend....you are truly missed..with love, Kentin

Suzette Roberts

September 11, 2015

To the Bright Family...my thoughts and prayers are with all of you today.

Roxa Corn

September 11, 2015

I miss you and I love you.

Natalie Byrd

September 11, 2015

You will never be forgotten Gary.

Brandon C

September 10, 2015

Thinking about you today Gary...Thanks for the ride and the laughs!

September 10, 2015

hey gary, just really been thinking of you today, the day before that awful day we will never forget, rip friend.

Kentin Gearhart

January 31, 2015

Happy Birthday Gary...thinking of you today and everyday....love, Kentin

Dennis Swindell

January 31, 2015

Happy Birthday "Bugga!!" I still miss you so much.

Zena Pereira

September 18, 2014

You are always in my thoughts every time 9/11 comes around. I didnt know you that long but you made a lasting impression on me. I will always remember your positive advice and support you gave about my singing.

Roxa Corn

September 14, 2014

I miss you Gary.

Lesly Conklin- Moody

September 13, 2014

You will be in our hearts forever, prayers to your family . Miss you

chuck hutchison

September 12, 2014

been thinking alot about you gary, you will never be forgotten...rip my friend.

Dennis Cline jr

September 12, 2014

I didn't know you, but alot of my friends did. RIP And prayers go out to your friends and family.

Dimple Blevins

September 11, 2014

Gary i remember the times you were here in our home with Melissa. Such a sweet young man, loved by all.

molly Evans davis

September 11, 2014

Praying for your family.

Wendy Gregory

September 11, 2014

Thinking of you today. Remembering times long since passed but suddenly fresh in my memory. Thoughts and prayers!

Kelli Morgan

September 11, 2014

Gary you were always such fun to be around. Awesome smile and the laughter!! Always thinking of you and your family!!!

Julie Green

September 11, 2014

I don't remember you from childhood, but I do have a photo of you from a family reunion we had. You are a distant cousin of mine. Prayers to Aunt Anna and Uncle Woody.

Kari Musick

September 11, 2014

Gary you were so helpful to me when I first came to be a Rebel. You are loved & missed deeply....soar high in heaven friend??

Sharon Quested

September 11, 2014

We will never ever forget!

Michele Roberts

September 11, 2014

Gary, when I think of you, I always think of walking with you. We walked home together (as far as your street) my freshman year, and then when we both worked in the mall, you would always walk me to my car when we both worked late. I pray you are "walking" in peace right now. You are missed.

Julie Keeley

September 11, 2014

Gary I have never met a more caring loving tender kind man. You could light up a room when you walked in. You may be gone but not forgotten. God sure did get an awesome angel. Fly high my friend fly high. God bless your family <3 <3

Judy Hood

September 11, 2014

We will never forget... Thoughts and prayers are with your family..always.. RIP Gary

Neil Small

September 11, 2014

Gary-You are missed very much. I have great memories of you hanging out while I Dj'd. Also, sharing music (my recorded DJ sets) with you and the U2 Pop Mart concert we went to. You were truly one of the nicest guys and are truly an Angel. Rest In Peace, my friend.

Dennis Swindell

September 11, 2014

Gary, you are always on my mind and I know you are watching over my life. You have directed a great love in my life, and for that i am truly greatful. Thank you "Bugga" for all the precious memories. I will forever love you and never forget you.

Debra Gearhart

September 11, 2014

Gary and Family,
You're in our hearts and prayers. May love and peace surround you all.

Kentin Gearhart

September 11, 2014

Gary-You are truly missed and always in my thoughts. Thinking of you today with a heavy heart. I am sending my love to you to the special place you are now.

Lindsey Brown

September 11, 2014

No Day Shall Erase you From the Memory of Time...Thats the words off the memorium at the 9/11 museum im writing this like you didnt know already but i wanted to type it on here because i don't think there has ever been a more appropriate set of words to desribe the moment life changed. Im working this year on 9/11 its the 1st time in 12 years I always take this day off as a reflection and rememberance and well for sanity reasons to. lol....13 years have gone by and every year on this day feels like that day in 2001. i'm glad this page is here so that everyone that knew you can keep your memory alive. I cant facebook you or email you so I come here every year to speak to you. Hope heaven is paradise and your sippin margaritas on Angel Lane.XOXOXOXOXO.....

Scott Cramer

September 10, 2014

Even though I know that time is only the space between you and me, there is not a day goes by that I do not think of you. The thoughts are no longer painful now, but of that of a warm blanket on a cool summer's eve. Until we meet again my friend.

Rachel Anderson

September 10, 2014

You were a great friend in high school - a kind a gentle soul. Gone but not forgotten my friend!

Roxa Corn

September 22, 2013

I love you Gary.

Paul Wooldridge

September 13, 2013

Gone, but never forgotten.

Linda Templin

September 12, 2013

I didn't know you personally but i know your family. I know you were & still are very loved by them all. Your family lost a very important of the family. RIP

Tina (Burden) Winningham

September 11, 2013

Your light lives in the hearts of those who loved you. Deeply missed and never forgotten by your friends and former classmates at Muncie Southside High School, Class of 1983.

chuck hutchison

September 11, 2013

thinking of you my friend, rip...

September 11, 2013

Gary, I am so sorry you are gone. You and your brother will never be forgotten and often thought of. We dedicated our class reunion to you. Iron Bear

Kari Musick

September 11, 2013

I bet your a leader up there in Heaven. You are missed..

Mike Jones

September 11, 2013

Woody and Mrs Bright,
I think of you folks and Gary often. Although I wasn't acquainted with Gary, I knew he worked in one of the Towers from Woody.
I remember the folks at NVG and the UAW were devastated to learn that one of our owns son was lost in the attack.
I know that everyone of them continue to think of you both and grieve for Gary as the rest of our nation does as well.
Rest in Peace Gary.
Condolences to the family, Woody, and Mrs. Bright.

Kelle Goen

September 11, 2013

Sweetest angel with the most beautiful smile! You will never be forgotten.

Candy Douthitt

September 11, 2013

I remember your sweet smile. You were one of the nicest people I have ever known. You are remembered and missed by so many people. Rest in Peace Gary. XOXO

Julie Keeley

September 11, 2013

you are always in my thoughts and prayers..very sweet man, God Has a very special angel with Him. Love you my dear friend, never forgotten <3

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