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Raymond Walz
March 28, 2025
Happy Birthday little brother. If my math is correct you would be 61 years old today. Hopefully I got that right. . Anyway here we are again marking another birthday without being able to call you myself and say it over the phone or in person. I have to use my PC to tell you Happy Birthday. Miss you every day more than you could ever imagine. Sometimes you need to make that brotherly contact that friends just can't fill. 9/11 seems so long ago but then sometimes I can still remember clearly everything that happened that day like it was yesterday. When you had a brother who was taken from you so cruelly you long to rewind to the day before just to hear your voice. In case you didn't see we got Blue a little brother, Magnus. Loki said it was time to give Blue sibling. Not sure how happy she is about it sometime. I hope you can see him from where you are. You would have loved all of them I'm sure. He's a stunner, a true Dalmation. Happy Birthday again. Miss you and love you everyday. Your big brother Raymond.
Raymond Walz
September 11, 2024
Hi Litte Brother. Can´t even begin to grasp that you are gone 23 years ago today. You would be 60 years old. Another 9/11 is upon us and we see less in the news about it. Use to see it front page every year now we see coverage instead of last nights presidential debates. I know mommy daddy and Loki are with you. Karen and I sold the family home this year. Bittersweet. So many memories boxed into that house. Memories I fondly recall, some good and some not so good. We miss you Jeff every year. Please tell mommy and daddy I´m doing good although sometimes it´s a challenge. I miss my Loki so much. You can watch out for each other now. He´s a loyal and loving boy. Love you very much Jeff. Bradley is your legacy and will always carry your name through life. Miss you and think of you everyday. Love always your big brother Raymond
Raymond Walz
June 18, 2023
Happy Fathers Day little brother. We miss and love you every day. Every time I see a fire truck pass by I think of you. I hope that whatever you do today you spend time with daddy, mommy and Loki. . We all miss you very much, love always your big brother Raymond ❤
Raymond Walz
March 29, 2023
Happy 59th Birthday little brother. Missing you everyday. Not a day goes by that I don’t think of you. Next year is the biggie, 60 . Hey take care of my Loki till I get to see you all. My heart broke even more when he passed away two weeks ago. I’m sure you will love him up there as much I love him down here. Happy Birthday Jeff . Love you ❤
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Raymond Walz
June 19, 2022
Hey little brother, I wanted to wish you a Happy Father's Day. Missing you everyday Jeff. Whatever Father's Day is like where you are right now I hope it's a fun one. Love you always, your big brother Raymond
Raymond Walz
March 29, 2022
Happy 58th Birthday little brother. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you. Just these past two days "lady bugs" made their way into my day. One was on the pear tree in front of the St Augustine Fire Station Number 1, the other while I was doing my morning walk along Jax Beach. When I see them I know its you sending me "signs". Honestly not sure why you picked lady bugs to send your messages. Hahahaha. No matter, as long as they keep coming to me I will always cherish them and know you are not far away. Now that mommy has joined you I'm sure she peppered you with questions as to what happened that day. I know for 20 years she wondered, now she has her answers. I hope she made you that Duncan Hines chocolate birthday cake we always loved. Nothing says Happy Birthday other than a boxed cake, hahahahaha. Hey she always admitted she wasn't great baker. Fond childhood memories that I know we would never change. How lucky we were to grow up with loving parents in a beautiful home surrounded by memories. Happy Birthday little brother. Look out for Brisky, she came your way over the weekend. I'm sure she is driving Twiz insane. LOL.
Kindred Family
September 21, 2021
Our continued heartfelt condolences we send to your family for such a precious loss. Jeff touched the lives of others and is not forgotten but remembered with love. Finally may these violent acts end.
Raymond Walz
March 29, 2021
Another birthday is upon us Jeff. Happy 57th birthday little brother. We think about you everyday and not a day goes by that we don't miss hearing your voice or listening to your stories. And when we see a firetruck go by we all know you are close by. Just today I had to pull to the side to let a Jacksonville Fire Department tower ladder pass by. I know you are always close by. Hope they are serving you a great slice of birthday cake today. Love and miss you, Raymond.
Raymond Walz
March 29, 2020
Happy Birthday Jeff. Another year has passed us by. Another year we are reminded that you are not here. We all miss you and know that you are always near by. Please guide us through all the insanity we are presently going through and keep us all safe and healthy. Be sure to loop daddy in on this too! We sure could use that extra guiding hand. I hope when you are looking down on us today you are doing it while enjoying a big slice of birthday cake . Actually if I remember correctly you were a fan of chocolate pudding pie. . We miss you and think about you every day. Love always your Big Brother
March 30, 2019
We all miss you! Thinking of you today and everyday.
Raymond Walz
March 29, 2019
Happy Birthday little brother. Here is another one upon us. Remember how we never made big deal out of birthdays. As we got older they just didn't seem to have the same excitement as they did when we were younger. Like those backyard birthday parties with the neighborhood kids. Mommies Duncan Hines cake, LOL. Then everybody in the pool. Well here is another birthday upon us. I know you look over all of us everyday. Continue to watch over us and guide us through this journey we call life. I for one know you are always with me. We miss you more than you imagine. We think about you everyday, there is never a day that goes by that we don't recall a fond or funny memory. Have a Happy Birthday today Jeff. Make sure you have an extra big slice of cake. Chocolate Cream Pie. We miss you and love you very much with every passing day. Love always your big brother, Raymond.
November 22, 2018
xoxoxo! Miss you so much.... Happy Thanksgiving
Raymond Walz
September 11, 2018
Well here we are 17 years later. How did we get here? All I hear is "hard to believe it's 17 years". That phase " times flies" is truly an understatement. Sadly 17 years have passed. Not a day goes by that we don't think about you. You are in each of our hearts and soles always, everyday. You travel with us whether we are walking down the side walk, shopping in the grocery store or taking a long distance drive. When I see a firetruck pass by I know that is a sign that you are near by, no matter where we are. Continue to guide us and protect us which I am sure you already do. We miss you everyday!!!! And we love you everyday!!! Love always, your big brother Raymond.
Raymond Walz
June 17, 2018
Happy Father's Day Jeff. Miss you tons. Love Raymond.
Loki and Blue send you Happy Birthday wishes
Raymond Walz
March 29, 2018
Happy 54th Birthday little brother. Hope you are enjoying a beer or a piece of chocolate cream pie, hahaha. I wish I could enjoy a tall one with you. We miss you everyday and not a day goes by that we don't think about you. Please continue to guide us with a strong hand. I'm sure you are always with us, walking side by side. We love you and miss you. I attached a picture of Loki and Blue. I know you would love them. Happy Birthday Jeff from your big brother, Raymond.
November 23, 2017
Happy Thanksgiving little brother. Knowing this was one of your most favorite holidays make sure you get a big plate of food. LOL. Watch over and guide us all Jeff. We miss you everyday. Love you always, Raymond
March 28, 2017
Hey Jeff,
Happy 53rd B-Day. Treat yourself to a big piece of chocolate cake. I know I am one day early since your B-Day is actually the 29th. What the heck. Sending you lots of birthday wishes, miss you and think of you everyday. Keep your hand on our shoulder and be sure to guide us down the right path. Love you always, your big brother Raymond.
Danny
Karl Danielson
March 10, 2017
I'm so touched by this, I lived on S.I. years ago and was friends with Jeff's brother Ray...he spoke of his brother often, such good good people. When I saw Ray's tribute it brought tears to my eyes and then memories of years gone by. God bless Jeffrey Walz.
Danny Karl Danielson
Raymond Walz
March 29, 2016
Hey Little Brother,
Happy 52nd Birthday. Hope you are having a big slice of cake. Have two slices, LOL. You deserve it. Miss you so much. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you. Wish you were here to "bounce" things off. Anyway have a Happy Birthday Jeff. Hopefully you are up there celebrating with others. Love and miss you, your BIG brother, Raymond.
Raymond Walz
November 25, 2015
Hey Jeff,
Happy Thanksgiving. I hope you are having a huge turkey with all the stuffing and sides that you loved so much. Save room for the dessert. I know this was one of your favorite holidays. We would eat ourselves sick and then pass out on the couch watching bad movies. Hopefully you all have a big spread planned. Sending you lots of love on another Thanksgiving with out you. Miss you more and more with each passing day. Love always your big brother, Raymond.
Kelsey Haschke
October 11, 2015
My name is Kelsey Haschke. My boyfriend, Christopher Coulter, is currently going through our local college's Fire Academy. His instructor has assigned him to do a PowerPoint over a fallen firefighter. We were going through the internet trying to find someone then we came across Mr. Walz's story. We were touched by his bravery and we knew immediately that it was him that this project was going to be over. We hope that this project will bring awareness to his sacrifice for his country. God bless the family and friends of this fallen hero.
Chris Hill
September 19, 2015
Today I walked in your memory in the Sioux Falls Firefighter Association Step Up for Heroes walk climbing 110 flights of stairs. Your service and sacrifice along with your companions have not been forgotten!
March 29, 2015
Happy Birthday Jeff. 51 today. Hope you are having one huge piece of cake today. Have 2 slices. Sending you a huge bday greeting. Took Loki and Blue for their morning walk and told them to stop, look up to the sunny sky and say Happy Birthday. Love you and miss you more each passing day. Love from your big brother, Raymond
Raymond Walz
November 25, 2014
Hey Little Brother,
Another Thanksgiving is approaching. Hard to believe we are about to put another one in the history books. I just wanted to wish you a Happy Thanksgiving Jeff. Make sure you go back for 2nds. I know you always loved this holiday. We will always have a place at our tables for you. Be sure to keep that firm hand on our shoulders, especially, daddy, mommy, Bradley and the rest of our family as you guide us through the days ahead. I know that when I see that fire truck pass by you are always within reach. Happy Thanksgiving again little brother. Miss you every day and more. Your big brother, Raymond.
November 9, 2014
It's a Sunday during football season and as I read up in my room I can hear the familiar echos of yelling at the plays of the game that are irritating your son. Brings back memories of YOU yelling at the TV ( as if someone will answer you back ) I learned a long time ago not to interfere ??. With that said, days like today make me miss you more and saddens me that you aren't here to share these times with Bradley .
We miss you so very much and please guide me through this very confusing time.
We love you very much! Enjoy the games with the guys and a few cold beers. xoxoxo
Jeffrey Walz
Bobby Jones
April 15, 2014
Karen Ciaccio
March 28, 2014
Hey Jeff, Cannot believe tomorrow is going to be your 50th Birthday. I cannot begin to even tell you how much I miss you!! How much we all miss you!! Have a few pieces of cake with the boys, and a beer and stinky cigar too..Love you and miss you big brother...Karen
Raymond Walz
March 28, 2014
Happy 50th Jeff. Hope there is a big party for you there. You deserve a really big piece of cake. While you are at it have two slices. Miss You. Happy Birthday litte brother
March 6, 2014
Hey Jeff,
Really missing you. Wish I had you to call sometimes. Could really use that calming way you had about you. I talk to you when I'm in the Jeep but that is not the same. Really miss you. Love your big brother,
Raymond
September 16, 2013
Hey Jeff,
It's been a crazy few days. Another 9/11 has come and gone. Sadly this year seemed to have less attention paid to it than previous years. Time can be cruel. I noticed fewer families at the WTC Memorial Park on 9/11. That sadden me. Angel Circle was comforting as always. Wendy did her memorial on 9/10. I always worry where that memorial site will be in the next 20, 30 years. Your service was nice Jeff. Just close family, friends and a few of your firefighter "brothers". Tommy and Todd shared some funny stories with us. Bradley laughed at those old stories. Rest in peace little brother. It was a long road back but you made it. As mommie said, "You did it your way, on your terms" :). As always keep a strong hand on all of us. Guide Bradley as he is maturing into a fine young man. Guide the rest of the family and make sure we stay the course. Hope things are good where you are. Know we love you and miss everyday and that you are never far from our thoughts. Twelve years is a long time. Sometimes it's hard to believe where we are today and where we came from. We all say that sometimes it's like yesterday and other times the years seem longer than they are. For now never "good bye" but more like "so long".
Your loving brother who misses that brother bond more and more,
Raymond
July 22, 2013
Hey Little Brother,
Bringing you home soon to the place you were born and raised. Now you can have that long overdue rest and the peace you so deserve. Everytime I see a firetruck I know you are near by. Watch over us all and guide us. Even though we can't see you we always know that you are not far behind. Love and miss you everyday. Your big brother,
Ray
Alexander Benckemdorff
July 6, 2013
Bless his heart.
He rocked on that awful day.
I know the loss must have been dreadful for his family,friends and colleagues, but he rocked on that awful day.
R E S P E C T x forever.
I am glad that you can now have some closure, now that he has been positively and conclusively identified.
from Alex in Denmark
Bill Tengelsen
July 6, 2013
Jeff was my college buddy, we met at College of Staten Island, then transferrd to Pratt in Brooklyn, where we car pooled. He was great guy, we talked and shared so much in that time. The time before ether of us were married and kids and everthing else. We talked about sports, neighbors, family, dreams, girls, and God. Jeff was one of those guys that I know God brings into your life for a season and also for a reason. We helped each other in our studies and deal will the problems of day. The problems being mostly about classes and the cars we were driving. He had a Chrysler Cordoba that needed a certain way to get it started if I remember right. He was a Mets fan and I was a Yankees fan, we had alot of fun busting each others chops. Everytime I need to update my resume, and my college degree is sitting there, I always think of Jeff and how he helped me to get it.
Since 911, and all the years since, I have asked God to make sense of it, of why I get to live my life with all the blessings, and Jeff's was cut short. I can only say that God reassures us through these things to place our trust in Him. God bless Jeff's memory in all that knew and loved him.
Elyse
June 21, 2013
We miss you and love you Jeff.
Maggie
April 26, 2013
Hi, my name is Maggie. I'm a student in Maryland, and I am doing a research project on Jeffrey to honor all that he did on September 11. Reading these entires have really touched my heart, especially seeing that I'm so close in age to his son. My heart goes out to everyone affected by his death, and I will do everything I can to respect him, and honor his life. If you have any information you would like to give me to help me remember him, please reach out to me. I would really appreciate it. :) My prayers go out to you all, and I hope no one will ever forget his heroic actions.
March 29, 2013
Hey little brother,
Happy Birthday Jeff. So many years have past and so much has happened that I wish you were here to give some brotherly advise. You didn't say much but when you did it was always good advise. I hope they have a HUGE cake up there for you today with lots of candles. Get out and play some golf, bike ride or just take it slow. Give us a sign today that you are enjoying this day. I do believe in those signs, weird I know. Anyway Happy Birthday Jeff. Miss you everyday, think about you everyday and wish you were here everyday. Love always your Big Brother,
Ray
January 10, 2013
Hey Jeff,
It's been a while since I wrote you. I hope you see these. Not going to get to winded here. Just wanted to say hi and let you know that I think of you everyday. Have you seen Loki? What do you think? He is great. When I'm down it's amazing how he brings me up. I wish you could meet him. You would love him. I want to take him to the firehouse and have his picture taken by the truck. That would mean alot to me. Brad has gotten so big Jeff. Keep your arm around him and guide him. Miss you and wish I could see you. So many years have passed and yet it seems like no time has passed at all. Everytime I pull over to let a firetruck pass I think that is you saying everything is ok. I like thinking that is you going by me. Keep an eye on mom and dad. Don't forget to give mom a "sign" and place a hand on dad's shoulder. He still feels us.
I promise to write soon. Love you, Raymond
December 25, 2012
WE love you! Merry Christmas!!!
Rani and Bradley
December 25, 2012
Merry Christmas my sweet love! I hope your holidays in the heavens above are sweet, warm and happy! I suppose I should not be writing this to you --- but I need some help down here---If you are truly watching over us, then I need you to watch a little bit harder!!! Bradley is growing up so fast....and the teen years, I may not survive --- Our boy is a great and wonderful human being -- but not when it comes to me....come visit him in his dreams and have a long talk with him.....These are the hardest years yet! The holidays for me get harder and I am still trying to figure out how to move on!!! Believe me I try but could use some help in this department too....
We love and miss you each day and more during the seasons that were your favorite!!!! xoxoxox
October 14, 2012
Happy 17th Anniversary my sweet angel!
"My heart will always belong to you" .... Miss you every second of everyday!!! xoxoxo
Karen Ciaccio
September 10, 2012
Dear Jeff,
Today is 11 years since I last saw your face and heard your voice. I was 4 months pregnant with Lindsey and Matthew was 2 1/2; Bradley was 3. We met at the Crayola factory that day. I wasn't feeling great that day, a little cranky as usual, but I said to myself let's go...and I'm glad we did.
Rani called that morning and said that you were leaving the firehouse shortly and riding your bike home. I always thought you were nuts doing that! So we got ourselves ready and left for the Crayola Factory.
I remember what you wore that day and the tuna melt you had for lunch..yuck! I can still see you walking around with your backpack on following Bradley. We spoke of Susan's upcoming wedding and how it was going to be nice to have some adult time and not chasing the boys. Who would have thought that would have been out last time together and words spoken to each other.
Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I cannot believe that 11 years have gone by. Bradley is growing up to be a good young man..Rani has done an amazing job with him. You must be so proud of them both.
I wish you were here to help out with everything going on with Mom and Dad, but I know you're there in spirit.
I miss you more and more every day and it both angers and upsets me that the kids never got to know their Uncle...
Love you and miss you....your little sister, Karen xoxo
March 29, 2012
Happy Birthday little brother. Went to Angel Circle today and spent a few minutes. I need to replace that jar of Skippy Peanut Butter. LOL. It looks a little weathered. Saw a tower ladder from Richmondtown today. Another sign from you telling us everything will be ok and you are never far away.
I hope they have a BIG cake up there for you. Who can forget how much you liked your cake :) Make sure you save the biggest piece for yourself. :) Sending you birthday wishes. Since mommy can't go on this site I'm sending birthday wishes from both mommy and daddy. How we wish we could do them in person or over the phone. Lots of love and thoughts from your big brother on your birthday.
Raymond
March 29, 2012
Happy Birthday my sweet angel!!!! We miss you and love you!!! Bradley and I will celebrate tonight and help you make a wish as we blow out the candle.....
Celebrate hard with all the guys up in heaven!
Sending hugs, kisses and love from us to you!
XOXO
March 13, 2012
Hi Jeff,
It has been sometime since I wrote you something. Crazy how time steals our lives.
There is something I want to share. It truly reinforces the belief that you are always around us although we might not always feel it. Here is proof. This past Friday I was coming out of the subway on to Broadway in Soho. Right in front of me was Ladder 9 and in bold letters your name. What were the chances of your firehouse being in that exact spot at the moment I come up from the subway station. I do realize that is your area. Of course I walked over to the truck and introduced myself to the guys. Wow, were they young. So much time has passed since you rode in that truck that I forget that a whole new group is in your place. They were great, very friendly, told me the next time I'm in town drive over to them and say hi. They told me there is always free parking LOL. I have to remember that next time I'm downtown and can't find a place to park the Jeep. Anyway I thought you would get a charge out of that. Thanks for letting me know you are there.
As always keep a hand on us and guide us through our daily paces. Brad is doing good, growing tall. Matthew, Lindsey and Julia are growing so much everyday. Mom is strong. Dad is struggling more each day. So hard to know what is going on in his world now. Maybe he is better off.
I know someone has a birthday come up. How do you like our crazy puppy, Loki. He turned "one" yesterday. Dad calls him the firedog. You should see him smile when he sees Loki. Makes my heart feel good.
Ok. Will write soon. Thanks for letting me know you are around.
Raymond
Karen Ciaccio
March 11, 2012
Hey Jeff,
So much has been going on and I know I have been bothering you alot for a little help. We could really use you right about now with everything going on with Dad. Mom seems to be good..has her moments every now and then but she hasn't seen Dad in awhile and hasn't seen how much he has gone downhill from this new medication. We have a meeting on Wednesday with the doctors and staff. After the meeting I will take her upstairs to see Dad. Again, I may need alittle assistance :). Just give her alittle reinforcement if you can. Anyway on a happier note..Lindsey truly believes that her "Uncle Jeff" her speical angel helped her yesterday with that winning shot! She was so proud of herself. So amazing how much Bradley and my kids have grown...so much they have missed out on by not having you around in their daily lives...life does really stink at times, but I know life does go on and I make the best of each and every day. I really miss you...more than I can put in words...take care and watch over us...xoxoxo Karen
October 14, 2011
Happy 16th Anniversary!!! This day will always belong to us!!!
XOXOX
R
September 11, 2011
Jeff,
The tenth anniversary of 9/11 is here and it still so vivid in my mind! Bradley read your name tonight at the memorial service at the Kensico Dam where the Westchester Memorial stands....You would have been so proud of him as he stood among so many people and read names - including yours! So grown up, so composed and yet sad!
We miss you each day that goes by!!!
In our hearts forever! xoxoxoxo Rani
Karen Ciaccio
June 21, 2011
Dear Jeff,
82 days until the 10th anniversary....seems like yesterday to me. Doesn't seem like 82 days since our family totally changed....Bradley is so right...a huge piece of our lives is missing....
Love always, your little sister,
Karen
Bradley Walz
June 19, 2011
Dear Daddy,
I am writing to you on the 9th fathers gone by without you. It has been very hard for me without you in my life, but, unfortunetely I have to live life without you. I feel like I am missing a huge piece of my life without you. I love you so so so much.
Love always,
your son Bradley
March 29, 2011
Jeff,
Happy Birthday....Bradley and I were talking this morning as I drove him to school-we were saying today is daddy's b-day and at that moment Karen texted me on my cell phone....Hmmmm! Another year has gone by and we still miss you and more if that is possible...Bradley is growing into a great young man and his Bar Mitzvah is only a week+ away! You would be so proud of how hard he is studying....I am "proud" !!! This week is modified baseball tryouts for the school team and I think so far he has a great chance of making it ( can you send some angel wings and attach them to the balls he is hitting) Not that he needs them, but all the help is appreciated--He wants this so badly .....Brad has worked hard at this sport and has remained a faithful METS fan throughout the ups and downs.....Ha Ha! Well my love, I hope you enjoyed your day and celebrated with the boys!!! I heart you always!!!!! xoxo We miss you --- xoxoxo Rani and Bradley
Love you Daddy!!!
March 29, 2011
Jeff,
Happy Birthday....Bradley and I were talking this morning as I drove him to school-we were saying today is daddy's b-day and at that moment Karen texted me on my cell phone....Hmmmm! Another year has gone by and we still miss you and more if that is possible...Bradley is growing into a great young man and his Bar Mitzvah is only a week+ away! You would be so proud of how hard he is studying....I am "proud" !!! This week is modified baseball tryouts for the school team and I think so far he has a great chance of making it ( maybe you could sends some wings down for the balls when he is hitting) .....Brad has worked hard at this sport and has remained a faithful METS fan throughout the ups and downs.....Ha Ha! Well my love, I hope you enjoyed your day and celebrated with the boys!!! I heart you always!!!!! xoxo We miss you --- xoxoxo Rani and Bradley
Love you Daddy!!!
March 29, 2011
Hey Jeff,
Happy Birthday little brother. I believe it is number 47, :). You know something I miss. I miss buying those "Happy Birthday Brother" cards. So instead I wish you a Happy Birthday through this site. Please keep a steady hand on all of us as we navigate another day. I know that you are always the wind at my back. Love always your big brother,
Raymond
Staten Island NY
c w
January 15, 2011
I'm a stranger, stumbled upon this legacy to a stranger, and your words to this beloved hero have caused me to pause, to cry, to think deeply about you all and your loss.
Though you suffer and grieve, you are a lovely family. I hope that time will heal your hearts and mend your sorrows. My heartfelt condolences to you all, but especially to his wife and child who depended upon this brave man to accompany and guide them through life. May all of you find the strength and wisdom you need to cope with your loss yet remain loving and giving of your thoughts and hearts. God bless you all.
Karen Ciaccio
January 3, 2011
Dear Jeff,
Well its been awhile...alot has been going on. Could really use your help right now. It is still unreal to me what has happened to Daddy, but then again he was never the same after you died. Mommy aged too quickly..I think with everything going on with Daddy didn't help matters. It's hard going to see Daddy because I know he will never be coming home again...he's in his new home..I feel like I deserted him..I know we did the right thing, because my fear was that he was going to hurt Mommy, or worse. It is such a horrible disease. Jeff, I wish at times he had cancer...at least maybe we could understand more of what is going on with him..with this disease it is the unknown...a friend of mine, her grandfather had it, and she referred to this disease as the "long good-bye"..so true...he is physically healthy, but mentally he's dying little by little. I miss you more than you know, and my kids have missed out on so many memories with you. Stay by my side...miss u and love u!!!
Your little sister, Karen
Karen
September 10, 2010
September 10th, 2010...9 years ago on September 9th was the last day I spent with you, the last day I heard your voice and saw your face...9 years ago tomorrow our whole world was destroyed..putting back the pieces is impossible because one piece is always missing. We get through each and every day, one step at a time...but not a day goes by that I don't think about you and what our lives may be today...today is more difficult for me because I know what tomorrow's outcome is...
June 19, 2010
Wishing you a special Father's Day in heaven....You would be so proud of Bradley --- He has been rocking the baseball field and made the regional travel team this summer....I can't believe this is the 9th Father's Day without you here...We miss you very much and although our life is filled in so many ways, your absence keeps an empty space in our lives......We love you.....Hey do you think you can put some angel wings on the balls for the final championship game on Monday night....ha ha!
In my heart forever--xoxoxoxR
May 31, 2010
Thinking of you today as the holiday weekend ends and the week begins...Bradley turned 12 last weekend, but you know that!!! Time goes by so quickly and yet, it has stood still for 9 years....We love you and miss you each and everyday!!!
In my heart forever---xoxoxo R
Karen Ciaccio
May 10, 2010
Dear Jeff,
Today is Monday, May 10th. On Saturday, May 8th, we celebrated Lindey's First Holy Communion. She looked like a princess! We missed you so much that day...when Lindsey was introduced I told the DJ to make sure that her middle name was said...it was very important to me. Her cake said God Bless Lindsey Jeffie. She is very proud of her middle name, and she tells people where she got her middle name from when she is asked. They were saying heavy rain in the morning, and you know what..it didn't rain until they got into church and stopped when they came out. I don't know if you heard me on Friday, but I begged you just to get them into the church and out of the church. Thanks! The day certainly was not the same without you; no day is the same without you! Love you big brother, and miss you each and every day!!! Talk to you soon...XOXO Karen
Raymond Walz
March 29, 2010
Happy Birthday Jeff. Another year goes by and while some things change many things remain the same. I swung by the circle yesterday and put some follows on your picture. Weather was to nasty for balloons. Happy B-Day again little brother and where ever you are keep a guiding hand over all of us. Love Raymond.
December 25, 2009
Merry Christmas big brother...can't believe another Christmas is here, another year without you!!! We're getting together at my house this year. A tradition I have kept going since Phil and I have been married. Rani and Bradley are such an important and wonderful part of our lives...you did a great job bringing Rani and Bradley into our lives...
Merry Christmas Jeff...and if you're able to, can you send me a sign today?
Love you and miss you more than you know!!!
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
Your little sister Karen
December 24, 2009
Hey Jeff.......
Another holiday season is here, how fast the years are going!!!! Bradley will soon be 12 and is turning into such a great young man....getting so big!!!! So today we went to bring christmas flowers to you and who had to go to the bathroom as soon as we arrive, yes, your son!!!!! Well, what were we going to do???? Yes, you are right, I do hope you enjoyed the picture he left for you in the snow...ha ha... ( let's just say that was his gift to you ) LOL
We miss you and love you ..... Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!!!
xoxoxo Rani
December 24, 2009
Hey Little Brother,
Here we are again, another Christmas approaching fast. How the years fly by. I want to wish you a Merry Christmas Jeff. Please continue to guide us and look over us.
Love your BIG Brother,
Raymond
September 11, 2009
Hey Jeff,
Just wanted to drop you a note and say hi. Hard to believe it's eight years. Seems so much has changed yet so much remains the same. Wish you were here to chat. I know you look down on all of us each day and guide us through each event. I guess I'm a little selfish, I want you hear. Went to the "Circle" and Postcards tonight. It always helps to see so many new friends that have become old friends over these past eight years.
Guide us and keep a strong arm around mommy and daddy. They both need your touch in different ways. Bradley, wow what can I say. GREAT kid. He would make you proud. Matthew, Lindsey and Julia. I wish you could share the uncle job with me. You would love these guys as much as I do. Can't get enough of them all.
Oh well, blah, blah, blah. Miss you little brother. I will write again soon. It's been to long since I last wrote. It's almost midnight and I want to make sure this posts 9/11. Love you Jeff. Till I see you myself protect us and always show us the right path.
Love
Your BIG Brother
Raymond
Rani Walz
September 10, 2009
Jeff,
I can't believe it will be 8 years tomorrow since I kissed you good-bye....I can still remember the morning of the 11th as if it was yesterday!!! It will always remain a vivid memory....You kissed Bradley on his forehead as he slept on our floor next to our bed....
Bradley has grown so much and just started the 6th grade---how proud you would be!!! Brad is a good child and son and your smile would be so big if you could see him!! Can you see him? I often wonder!!!!
As for me, I still miss you each and everyday, but try to hold on to your love and feel blessed for having it!!! And not dwell on the loss of it.....
I miss you and will always love you today, tomorrow and forever......A piece of my heart will always have your name on it...
XOXOXOXO
Karen Ciaccio
September 9, 2009
Hi Jeff,
Eight years ago today was the last time I saw you and spoke to you. We went to the Crayola Factory with Bradley and Matthew; I was pregnant with Julia. She turned 4 yesterday; Raymond's birthday. Time is just going tooo fast!! Wish you were here to see the kids grow up. I miss you and your nephew and nieces will never know what an awesome Uncle they do not have in the lives...they missed out on so much with you. Life is so unfair. Love you and miss you more and more every day...
Your sister,
Karen
September 5, 2009
Hey Jeff....it's almost 8 years since I last saw you...September 9th, Crayola Factory...feels like yesterday. Mommy is doing ok, and Dad, well he has his days. It's going to be a long and possibly painful road with him, but we'll manage. Kids are doing well, getting ready to go back to school. Matthew's in 5th, Lindsey in 2nd and Julia is in Pre-K4. They keep me busy. Saw Bradley and Rani last week; he's getting so big. I see more of you in him, as he's getting older. They're doing ok....Anyway, just wanted to drop a line to you...love you and miss you more everyday!!!!
Karen
Susan Crescenzo
May 28, 2009
Hi Jeffrey- Happy Belated Birthday! I was wondering how old you were!! You are catching up to me. I had a dream about you last night- along with my Mom and Dad - hopefully they are taking care of you up there.
I miss you cousin!!! Love- Susan
March 29, 2009
Dear Jeff
Happy 45th Birthday in heaven.....Bradley and I miss you so much.....Sending you hugs and kisses and our hearts...
XOXOXO
Karen Ciaccio
March 29, 2009
Dear Jeff,
Happy 45th Birthday in heaven. We miss you more and more every day!!
All our love,
Karen, Phil, Matt, Lindsey Jeffie and Julia
Doug Abraham
March 29, 2009
Happy Birthday!!!
Bradley Walz
January 15, 2009
Hi Daddy,
I went skiing the other day and really liked it. I miss you and love you bye, I haven't been great to mommy sorry,bye
Rani Walz
January 15, 2009
Dear Jeff,
Happy New Year! Well the holidays came and went, and I can honestly say this year wasn't one of the best...I do my thing so Bradley has all the memories he needs to look back one day and share them with his kids...
This was a rough year, but I want to thank you for somehow guiding me to the realization that something was wrong...I have to believe you were my angel.....It was a hard and rocky road, but I am okay now and going forward I will be fine...It was a hard and scary situation to go alone, I could have physically used you here to hold my hand! I know in your way you were by my side, but sometimes it isn't enough and I live life scared---I do my thing and smile and Bradley sees me as happy and we run and do....but honestly, life just isn't what I need it to be...But, no worries, you know I always figure it out...I am smiling now, as I write to you, your face is looking at me with a big special smile and somehow it feels like you are right here with me. I love you!
Hey your son went skiing (yes, finally) and he loves it....now he thinks he is a bigshot...
My love, be well and be happy and I hope whatever it is that you did on your New Years, I hope it was a peaceful one....
Poo xoxoxo
Raymond Walz
December 26, 2008
Hey Little Brother. Another Christmas came and went. Somehow we got through another one. The absense of your smile and wit certainly were missing again. Bradley is turning into some kid. Amazing how far he has come. Rani deserves the bulk of that credit. Seeing him is seeing you. You almost feel a connection when you hug him that you are there too right between us.
I wish you were there sometimes for daddy. Not sure how to handle this situation. Mommy has alot to shoulder. Amazing she only asks to go to Atlantic City. She is a cheap date. LOL. I'll get her down there soon. I fear what could come down the road as his condition changes. We all know that it won't get better. For now it seems level. Not sure what tomorrow will bring. Karen and I will do this together. She is certainly busy with her own tribe. I know she gets pulled in twenty different directions. We sure could use you here. Give us all the strength to deal with this. I don't need anything. I know you are there when I'm in the Jeep, walking through Gateway Park, watching the Giants maybe win another Superbowl.
Enough blah blah blah. Miss you and wish you a Merry Christmas in the place you are now. Send me a sign soon to start 2009. I will know you sent it, trust me.
Task force Evergreen Fire/Rescue climbing
Bryce Lipson
September 13, 2008
My name is Bryce Lipson,I live in Colorado. I am a firefighter with Evergreen Fire/Rescue.
On Thursday September 11, 2008, myself and 342 other firefighters from around Colorado climbed 110 flights of stairs to honor and commerate the 7th anniversary of the attacks of 9/11.
Beffore our asscent each firefighter was given a picture of one of our brothers to carry with us.
I had the privaledge of receaving Jeffs picture.
Durring our asscent, I could not help but feel that Jeff, and the rest of our brothers were right beside us the entire time.
I did not know Jeff personally, but from what I have read,Jeff was a great son and brother. Jeff also was a great husband, and a great father.
Rest in peace Jeff
June 15, 2008
Jeff,
"Happy Father's Day" Here we are again another year and it still is so hard waking up with Bradley and not being able to shower you without love....Time passes and some things get easier, but some remain just as hard. Your son is graduating elem. school this Friday and the tears have already begun to flow, it is a bittersweet moment for me. Bradley is off to middle school next year and is becoming more independent by the day and you would be so proud of the person he is and all of his accomplishments.
I wish you could be there to see him graduate and see how many friends he has surrounding him on a daily basis. He is such a great kid---but as I write all of this, in my soul I know you see him and know who he is.
Your son misses you so much and I wish I knew a way to make it okay for him...so if you have any ideas, feel free to send them my way....
My love for now I will leave you with hugs and kisses for your day and make sure you tune in on Friday as he gets his moving up diploma...
I love you now and forever....
Poo
Doug Abraham
March 29, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
Karen Ciaccio
March 29, 2008
Jeff,
Happy 44th Birthday. I can't believe it has been 7 years since I have called you on the phone to wish you a Happy Birthday. Not a day goes by that you are not in my thoughts; or see something that my kids do that reminds me of our childhood. You would really get a kick out of Lindsey and Julia (especially my little drama queen, Lindsey. Julia is my little bulldog). My kids miss out on so many different things not having you in their lives. I tell them about you, and they know you by a picture. Take care big brother and watch over us. If you get a moment, maybe you can send me a sign......love you and miss you more each and every day!
Your little sister,
Karen
Eileen Dowd-McPartlan
February 3, 2008
I think of Jeff often. He just pops into my head at any given moment. I met Jeff when we both worked at Sears in Staten Island. I then became his first girlfriend . We dated for approx. 2 years. He was shy , kind hearted and just so sweet. I will always be thankful that I had the chance to love someone like that. I did go to his funeral and saw his little boy. I saw Jeff in him . Rani , I can only imagine what it is like to have the one you love most in the world, taken from you in such a tragic way. I am sorry that you did not have more time together. Jeff is ,and always will be ,part of my past. I believe he played a big part in who I am today. I will remember you always Jeff and will continue to pray for you and your family.
Love, Eileen
Raymond Walz
December 24, 2007
Hard to believe we are now in our 7th Christmas without you. I guess there is something to that saying "time flies by". Trust me it doesn't get easier. I suppose we just learn to adjust. I'm not going to rattle on. You know that a day does not go by that we don't think of you. I'll see something or someone that will remind me of you. I'll be driving in the Jeep and feel like I'm not alone in there. I can walk through the mall and see someone that makes me pause and look thinking it's you. I guess we all have those momments. I try to control them best I can. As we gather again for another Christmas at Karen's you know you are always there with us. Each Christmas Bradley gets bigger. Each Christmas I realize how much of a void there is at her house without you. One thing we have always been able to control though is insuring the kids have a good time. Their excitement makes it bearable. Keep guiding us, protecting us, giving us those signs that we know you are not far away. Merry Christmas little brother.
Karen Ciaccio
December 13, 2007
Dear Jeff,
On Monday, Matthew brought home a list of projects due before the Christmas break. One of the projects was to make a Christmas card and make an ornament for our 9/11 heroes. His teacher is going to give the cards and ornaments to the firefighter/policeman parents is Matthew's class. When I asked Matthew which ornament he wants to make first, he said the firefighter in memory of his Uncle Jeff...The girls are doing well...getting bigger each and every day..especially Julia. We went to Rani's on Saturday for Hannukah..Bradley is starting to really mature and look more like you every time we see him..he's a good boy. I just wanted to drop a line and let you know what's going on. I miss you soooooo much...expecially around Christmas. Send me a sign to let me know you're "O.K." and watch over us. Sleep with the angels. We love you and miss you!!!!
Bradley walz
November 1, 2007
Dear Daddy,
I miss you so much. I wish you could be here with me. Life is not the same without you. If you could come back I would get you, but that isn't going to happen. I am sorry that you can't come back. I wish I could talk to you more. I have met the METS and have done all these great things with "Tuesdays' Children" but I'd rather have you. I wish you could be back here and have meet all my great friends. I miss you
If I was the richest man on earth and you just died, if I could have you back I would trade all that money for you.
I love you, your son Brad---I need you so much. Daddy, one bully, bullied me for not having a dad, if I was ruler of the world I would rather you alive I need you so much! Love Bradley
Rani Walz
November 1, 2007
Dear Jeff--
Not a day goes by that you are not a thought in my mind or I see you in some way through Bradley. You would be so proud of your son...He has gotten over so many hurdles and keeps going...Bradley plays baseball and travel ball and I swear you would be smiling from ear to ear if you could sit and watch him play (most of the time--sometimes he goes into Bradley World--and where he is your guess is as good as anyone's) I have tried to make a good life for him/us, but to be honest, life is hard. I keep up a good appearance and although we have begun to go forward, I still feel like time has not past. Yesterday was Halloween and that is always a special time for me, since that is the weekend, we met and so I try to have the festivities. Bradley does well in school; although he has some focus issues, and we are working hard to correct them...Your son is a good boy, even when he is pushing me to my breaking point. Brad has such a big and caring heart and loves big...I know you are here somewhere with us, I just wish you were here heart and soul....We would have been married 12 years---and I suppose in my heart we were, but in my head I know that will never come to fruition. My two regrets are that I missed your call that morning of 9/11 and that our time ran out to give Brad a little brother or sister. I know I cannot harp on what is not it only makes it harder and I do get my girlie fill from your two fantastic and beautiful nieces...but one of our own would have sweeten the pot. I try my best to see your parents as often as time will allow and we are all so close and love them all so much and are blessed to have them, so thank you for coming from such a fantastic family.
Remember always, my love for you will never fade and my heart will always be full with you in it. Rest and watch over us, but more importantly come see Bradley, he needs you.
I love you, Rani
Kathleen McCauley Owen
September 11, 2007
I worked with Jeffrey's brother Raymond years ago and am a SI native myself. I still think of the Walz family every year. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all.
Karen Ciaccio
September 9, 2007
Six years ago today, Phil, Matthew and I (4 months pregnant with Lindsey) met you, Rani and Bradley at the Crayola Factory...It seemd like yesterday! I can still see Bradley running down the hallway and you ten steps behind him saying "Come here Bradley" in a mild toned voice. I can still recall whst you are for lunch that day...a tuna melt. We spoke about many things that day...Scott and Susan's wedding was the following Sunday...about how I was feeling...if we had any names picked for the baby...who knew that would be the last conversation that we had with each other. Six years had gone by so fast, yet so slow. I miss you so much!! Yesterday was Julia's 2nd birthday, and Raymond's 49th. Next year your big brother will be turning the Big 50...the year's have gone by so fast, yet so slow. Lindsey has her first big day at kindergarten tomorrow. I just can't believe that the last time we saw each other, Lindsey wasn't even born yet. I miss you more and more each day - the ache is forever in my heart. We love you and miss your smiling face!! P.S. Say "hi" to Phil's dad for us and give him a great big hug!! Sleep with the Angels.
Love your little sister, Karen
Karen Ciaccio
June 11, 2007
Dear Jeff,
Sunday is Father's Day; another one without you...We're doing O.K. Matthew's communion went well. Raymond watched Lindsey and Julia in the morning..thank goodness for no dirty diapers and there was plenty of Tylenol on hand (Ha, Ha..Sorry Raymond). Anyway, Matthew's school just did a collection of supplies for the troops, and each child wrote a letter; the school will be sending over the items and letters soon. Rani and Bradley (he wants to be called Brad) are doing well. Brad drives her crazy (I know you probably have a hand in that), but what kid doesn't like to push their parent's button. You would be very proud of Rani, she is doing a great job. Thank you for bringing Rani, Brad and Rani's family into our lives...they mean alot to us. I miss you, and think of you all the time!! Happy Father's Day in Heaven!! I'll be looking for those ladybugs. Love you and miss you.........Your sister Karen
P Tabbernor
April 14, 2007
In remembrance....
Karen Ciaccio
January 4, 2007
Dear Jeff,
Today is January 4th, 2007. Another year to begin without you. I've been thinking about alot of things lately. Matthew's communion is coming up in May, Daddy's 75th B-day in March, my 40th in August, Phil's 40th in September, Mommy & Daddy's 50th Wedding Anniversary in October....so many events coming up...so many without your smiling face. This was not how our lives were supposed to be. Anyway, I miss you more today, than yesterday....the pain doesn't get easier...I've just learned to adjust. Bradley is getting big, and Rani is doing such a great job with him. I know you are with us; I believe in the little signs I get from time to time. We miss you big brother...keep watch over us...
Love you and miss you...your little sister, Karen
September 28, 2006
thank you so much for becoming our hero but not only for the ones that know about it but for the ones you saved and i know that if you were here yor family will be very proud of you and even though your not here they are proud thank you so much and we miss you
brenda guardado
September 14, 2006
Thank you for everything you did and because of you alot of people survived. Thank you and god bless you we'll miss you.
Carol Bergman
September 11, 2006
I proudly wear my copper bracelet with the name, Jeffrey P. Walz, FDNY Ladder 9. The good Lord must have needed him in heaven. My prayers for the firefighters that were taken from us on 9-11-2001. Know that none of the people that died on that day are forgotten. Our hearts & prayers go out to the families of those brave men & women.
Brandi Oaks
February 14, 2006
I proudly wear a bracelet which reads "Lt. Jeffrey P. Walz, 09-11-01 FDNY Ladder 9". This bracelet is a daily reminder to me, and everyone who sees it, what a sacrafice you made that fateful day for people you didn't even know. I thank you for that. Bless you, your family and this great country.
raymond walz
September 13, 2005
Hard to believe it's 4 years since I last saw you or heard your voice. It doesn't get easier it gets harder. Time doesn't heal. It just moves ahead slowly. Everyday is like walking through a thick fog in a dense forest. I still try to make sense in my head what happened that day. How I wish we spoke Sept 10th. If I knew that was my last time to talk to you I would have kept you on the phone for hours. Someone said they were a shell of the man they once were after that day. That sums it up completely. I'm a shell of the man I once was. Your wondeful little boy is turning into a fine young man. You would be so proud of him. Keep a guiding hand on his shoulder as he makes his journey through these coming years. Guide all of us Jeff with the wisdom you had while you were here with us. Give me the strength to deal with lifes issues because sometimes I wonder how I will do it. There are wonderful children brought into this world by a sister who misses you dearly. Mom and Dad have begun to show the strain of these years. Give them strength Jeff. I know we ask alot of you. Guide all of us from mommy and daddy to Rani, Bradley, Karen Matthew, Lindsey and now Julia. Keep us safe. I know that people say you are always with us in spirit and our hearts. I guess I'm just a little selfish. I want you here. Love you always Jeff. Your big brother, Raymond.
anne stepanick
September 10, 2004
Thinking of you and your family.
(My sister and Rani's sister were roommates at Brockport).
Jeffrey Ryan Patrick Walz
February 20, 2004
My name is Jeffrey Ryan Patrick Walz. I grew up in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada. I am 27. I currently live in Tokyo, Japan. I feel very sorry for your loss. God bless Jeffrey Patrick Walz and his family.
Virginia sSchwab-Reames
September 12, 2003
Jeff
It has been many years, too many. We Went to Tottenville together.
You were always mild mannered, had a good sense of humor.
I lost a cousin John Bergin, a good friend Adele Sessa and of course several of our classmates.
My sister Denise wrote a poem to you and all those fallen. It has been collected with other letters to be displayed at the fireman's memorial, police memorial, Pensylvania's tribute museum and the federal news internet messages to all federal employees. She put her heart into every word she wrote to all of you.
I am sure we will meet again. You won't be forgotten.
your friend,
Laura Evans
September 11, 2003
Today in school we all wore a star with a name of someone who died on september 11th, I was curious about the person whos name I was wearing, now that I have found out what a great hero and wonderful person this man is my heart goes out for you, I am honored to wear his name today, I cant help but cry for his little boy who will hunger for the father he once had. My prayers are with you.
Anne Stepanick
September 11, 2003
With the greatest appreciation, we pay tribute to you.
Know that you and your entire family are in the thoughts and prayers of many people--
today and always.
Karen Ciaccio
August 27, 2003
To my brother Jeff,
I will never forget the last day we spent together; Sunday, September 9th, 2001. We met at the Crayola Factory. It was such a beautiful day. Matthew was a little over two, and I was pregnant with Lindsey. At first, I was going to tell Rani that I really wasn't up for the trip, and I was really cranky. What else is new? But, I said to myself "How often do Phil, I , you, Rani and the kids see one another?", so we went. I am so glad I did. Who knew what was going to happen on Tuesday? If I knew that would have been the last time I was going to see you, I would have hugged you so hard, I would have never let go. I was so proud of you being a fireman; you were great at your job! As a daddy, you were awesome; every little boy like Bradley should ever be so lucky as to even meet someone like you - let alone have a daddy like you. Rani is doing a excellent job with your son; she would make you very proud. Mommy and I bring Matthew and Lindsey down to Angels Circle alot. Matthew says "Hi, Uncle Jeff", and gives your picture a kiss. Lindsey's middle name is "Jeffie"; and she will explain this for the rest of her life. Boy, would you get a kick out of her! I miss you so much....part of my heart is numb. Matthew & Lindsey get me through each day. But the memories I have with you get me through each day also. We were very fortunate of the family we had, and of the family we have now. You gave us two very precious gifts before you departed from us - Rani & Bradley - we are so very fortunate. One day we will meet again, but for now watch over us, send us signs, but most of all....WE LOVE YOU & MISS YOU!!!!!
Your little sister, Karen
Michael & Rosann Fornito
December 23, 2002
To The Walz Family: It has taken me this long to realize who Jeffrey was. Always saw his face and knew I had met him before.Today, I saw your sister in the newspaper and realized who you were. A few years ago, we all met up in Lake George, your family, your sister with her then one son, and your parents. We all stayed at the same hotel and when we found out that we all came from SI we use to sit outside and talk. Your sister I still see sometimes in the park and your parents were such lovely people. We had a nice summer that year and we have gone back ever since. To your family, I am so sorry for your loss including your son who was so young at the time. We are going back this July, to Lake George and will have fonder memories now to cherish.May you be resting in peace. Merry Christmas!
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