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Jonathan Ryan Obituary
Colin Jonathan Ryan was born on Oct. 2, 2001. He will never know his father, Jonathan S. Ryan, who died at the World Trade Center on Sept. 11, 2001.
Mr. Ryan, 32, who worked at Euro Brokers and lived in Bayville, on Long Island, wanted a name for his boy that had his initials, J.S.R. ‹ like Jake Spencer Ryan or some such. In his absence, his wife, Maria, chose Colin.
"Our daughter, Autumn, just started calling her unborn brother Baby Colin," she said. "It seemed to fit."
There are many things Mrs. Ryan is going to tell her son about his father.
"I want him to know how many people his dad touched," said Mrs. Ryan, 31. "Daddy played lacrosse at college. Daddy was a bond broker. Daddy just went to work as usual, trying to make a living for his family. He was excited that you were coming. He knew you were a boy, but he wasn't sure if he wanted to know. This is how he found out: The doctor wrote down your sex and put it in a sealed envelope. A week later we went out for dinner for our fourth wedding anniversary. He needed two martinis before he could open it.
"When he did he screamed, `It's a boy!' "
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Philip Emanuel
September 11, 2024
Jon - You will never be forgotten.
Nick Korniloff
August 15, 2024
JR - you were a friend long before I moved to NHP/ Herricks through mutual friends. It took years for me to go to the memorial and acknowledge your unintentional sacrifice for your country. Your peer group is older now and we are a divided country . I treasure our youth together and the togetherness and fun we all had together. I loved our days playing football together and the friendships we all experienced. Peace be with you and good bless your family , daughter and wife . Their husband and dad is a class act ! Smart , funny and full of life ! Class of 86
Kenneth A. Blanco
May 13, 2024
I read Jonathan´s name today at the 911 memorial at Dulles International Airport - I did not know Jonathan, but I read his name out load so that others would hear me and know that we will always remember those that perished that day.
Eileen Ortenzi
September 12, 2023
I will never forget!
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Phil Emanuel
September 11, 2023
Jon,
Today marks 22 years since that fateful day. You will always be remembered.
Phil
mike tambling
September 12, 2022
hey Jr ..nice song here reminds me of the past ..miss you and trust the family are doing ok. always in my thoughts ..Mike and Charlie Tambling
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CNucYbI9x6M
Phil Emanuel
September 11, 2022
Jon - It has been 21 years since that terrible day and you have not been, and will never be forgotten.
michael tambling
September 12, 2021
Hi Jr. 20 years. Thinking of you and hope your family are doing ok.never ever forgotten. Ever. Best Mike and Charlie Tambling. U.K.
Eileen Ortenzi
September 12, 2021
Remembering you always. Know that many students over the years have heard me tell your story as I teach them about that horrific day. Rest easy, my friend.
Suzie Gioia
September 12, 2021
Always thinking of you on Sept. 11th. Prayers to your family on this 20 year anniversary. You will never be forgotten.
Love, Anthony and Suzie Gioia
Phil Emanuel
September 11, 2021
Jon,
Remembered you this AM as I watched the ceremonies from the memorial and other locations for those killed in the attacks 20 years ago. I had gone up to Ground Zero this summer and spent some time at the panel with your name inscribed. Know that you will never be forgotten.
Phil
Philip Emanuel
September 11, 2020
Jon,
You will never be forgotten.
Phil
Kindred Family
December 15, 2019
Our sincere condolences we send to your family. Each day may God give the help needed.
jon touched the lives of many others and is still very sadly missed. May the time come when these violent acts that have caused so much heartache are ended.
Alex
October 13, 2019
Well, I am just saddened by your loss of life on Sept. 11th. Always watch over us, your son, daughter and wife.
Philip Emanuel
September 11, 2019
Jon,
You will never be forgotten.
Phil
Steve Roeder
September 11, 2019
Thinking of you today JR
One of my first friends in the world of business at Chase Manhattan 1211 6th Ave back in 1991
What a great guy lost touch than saw you in August of 2001 in Penn Station
Life was good hope you are watching your children grow
Eileen Ortenzi
September 11, 2019
Thinking of you today, as I often do. I hope there is Lacrosse in Heaven, plenty of libations and a ton of laughter! Praying for your family!
MIKE TAMBLING
September 11, 2019
2019.. Hi Jr. Been so many years and always a weird day in the city for me .Thinking of you mate and I'm lost for words which is unusual ! No words are really needed ,just that I think of you and your family on this day and it makes me very very sad indeed . Look over them all please and ensure all is ok. best wishes .Mike Tambling.
October 17, 2018
Jon,
Unfortunately I was without connectivity on the 11th this year but I wanted to drop a note as you were not forgotten.
Phil
Debbie Crain
September 11, 2018
Maria, I purchased a bracelet shortly after 9/11/01. It had Jonathan S. Ryan on it. I prayed to find out who he was. I purchased the magazine that had the 9/11 babies on it and was so blessed and surprised to see your family in the magazine. I wore the bracelet for a long time, and wear it now on 9/11. Today was no exception. You still and always in my prayers.
High School Football Game
Anthony & Suzie Gioia
September 12, 2017
Jon,
We will never forget you! On Sept. 11th we always think of you and your smiling face in all the years we went to school together. Prayers to your family.
Love, Suzie and Anthony Gioia
Phil Emanuel
September 11, 2017
Jon,
You are not forgotten.
R,
Phil
Robert Burczyk
December 3, 2016
I was your Mailman Bob in Baville NY when you lived on Finn Place.. I used to say to your Daughter Autumn.. You where born in the Fall.. She would say, How did you know ? We never really spoke much, But the last time I saw you, you were so handsome..I Delivered the Mail and you were raking the leaves..As I was driving away you waved .. A sad wave I will never forget.. Then that Day when the Driveway was full of Friends cars listening to the Radios..
Phil Emanuel
September 11, 2016
JR,
Where has 15 years gone? Memories of you are frozen in time. You will always be that fun-loving high school friend who would give the shirt off his back for anyone in need. And while our paths crossed just one more time after high school, on the lacrosse field, I would always consider you a friend knowing that when our paths crossed again, we would pick up the conversation as if we had last spoke just the day before. I continue to keep you and your family in my prayers and pray that you continue to watch out for us from above.
Maria Carrozza
September 11, 2015
Jon was a great man who loved his family dearly. He came to me for a haircut every 2-3 weeks for years at a salon close to his home. He always came in after work, exhausted from working all day and the commute. Yet always had a smile and couldn't wait to get home to his family. God bless his beautiful wife, Maria and his children. Jon- you are on my mind and in my heart especially on 9/11.
Phil Emanuel
September 11, 2015
JR,
You will always be remembered.
Mike Tambling
September 12, 2014
Hey jon. I left a message on the ebi site as well. I miss you mate and worked hard at the Bgc charity day yesterday ending up getting all emotional in the evening while walking alone along the southbank in london. I hope you are looking down from somewhere over us all. Miss u and will never forget working with such a great guy whom I didn't appreciate enuf at the time .if your family ever need a hand with anything in the uk then just ask away .love mike and charlie t(13)
Phil Emanuel
September 11, 2014
JR,
We will never forget!
September 11, 2014
RIP
October 14, 2013
RIP
Phil Emanuel
September 11, 2013
JR,
You and your family are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Laurie Scibelli Portaro
September 10, 2012
Can't believe it has been 11 years. I knew Jon since Denton ave. Both my brothers were friends with Jon and his brother. I just sat and read all 7 pages and cried. It's so amazing how people said what a great Guy Jon was.. He truly was and always had a smile on his face. I just wanted to say how I feel for his kids and that they won't have Jon around as they grow up. I just recently lost my Dad and right before he passed he had asked my Mom if it was Ok for him to go so he could be with his dad. Ya see my dad's father passed in WW2 when my dad was only a few months old, my grandma said that my grandfather may of never Know that he was even born before he died. My father for 67 years couldn't wait until the day he could finally meet his Dad. I know that my grandfather was there to meet him. It's abond ya have with ya Dad even though ya really truly never got to meet. Colin just remember your dad will always be with you, You 2 Autumn. MY best to all of you tomorrow and all the days and years to come.
mike tambling
September 11, 2011
hey jr.. sending u and your family my love and wishes ..ill never forget you mate ......my sons 10 now jr..hes told all about you..we both will always remember you.. you were a great colleague and i miss you very much indeed.
mike tambling ..eurobrokers london
Suzie & Anthony Gioia
September 11, 2011
Jon, On this 10 year anniversary of 9/11 we would like to remember you and your smiling face from High School. We just were looking at the football team picture and your smiling face this week. Our prayers are with you and your family today and forever.
Lynn Frenkel
September 11, 2011
I remember your smiling face, holding a lacrosse stick, walking down the hallways between classes. Sending your family my best wishes.
Phil Emanuel
September 11, 2011
JR,
Can't believe it has been ten years, or twenty-six when we last played lax at Herricks. Your family is in my prayers today and always.
dan mallory
September 10, 2010
JR, we been through a ton together. Days and nights in Kismet, Queens, Stony Brook. always in my thoughts and prayers bro. ...Dano
Susan Mark
September 11, 2009
Jon,
I am deeply saddened by your loss. I am grateful, blessed and fortunate to have known you at Herricks Highschool. I remember a kind, warm, sweet, intelligent and of course very athletic man. I am also blessed to have been able to see you a few years with Maria before you were married and before you passed. I wish you peace for all eternity, know that you are greatly missed by all who knew you.
Laurie Ryan
September 11, 2009
On September 11, 2009...I see your face and your image is unchanged. I still think of you and wish you were here.
The smile on your face comforts me and is a reminder of love and the happiness that you shared with your family and friends. Thank you.
Love, Laurie
Christine Franzoni-Mueller
June 11, 2009
Dear JR,
I am saddened to find out that your life ended on 9/11. I have fond memories of you from Stony Brook. I am terribly sorry for your wife and 2 children, that you will not be able to help raise. I am sure they will remember what a very kind, intelligent and giving person you were, I certainly will. Rest in peace....
Autumn Ryan
December 22, 2008
dear dad
This is Autumn. I miss You a lot. Mom had another baby. Her name is Ella. Now she is 13 months old.
Tori Dias
December 22, 2008
Dear Jonathon,
Your Daughter Autumn is SOOOOOO nice!!!!! Colin is really unique in his own way!!
Colin Benjamin
November 19, 2008
On vacation to New York, I felt compelled to visit Ground Zero to pay my respects.
On leaving I spotted the commemoretive wrist bands of those who lost their lives.
On random selection I received the band of JR. Today after reading this guest book I find I share the same name as his son.
I wear this with pride.
My thoughts are with you.
Alexa Giordano
July 1, 2008
Dear Mr. Ryan,
Your daughter, Autumn, is one of my very close friends. Colin is also on of my friends and is also my brother's friends. I am sorry you never really got to know them. I know Autumn really misses you.
Paige Geller
July 1, 2008
Dear Mr. Ryan,
I am sorry that you never met your son, Colin. He is very fun and nice. Colin looks just like you. My brother's name is Colin too and they play together a lot. Autumn is one of my best friends.I am so glad they are my neighbors. Ms. Maria is a really nice and pretty lady.
kristine
May 1, 2007
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
February 27, 2007
In memory....
Karen Corio
August 20, 2005
As another Anniversary year gets closer my heart fills with that heavy weight of loosing you. But I do get to see you in your son Collin, & your daughter, Autumn continues to show your energy for life, while your wife, Maria, my daughter can not be anymore of a loving, caring and nuturing woman you loved. We love you Jon! and look up to you still, as our brightest star in heaven!!!!
Love Mima
Michael DiCarlis
October 22, 2004
I went to college with J.R. at Stony Brook. When I found out he was umongst the missing an empty feeling grew in my heart. We were friends bonded by him playing lacrosse and me playing football. In honor of J.R. I attended the field dedication ceremony and saw how much this young man touched many lives. When ever I visit StonyBrook a thought that J.R. is with us always goes though my mind. J.R. you are a ture hero and WILL Never be Forgotten. God bless.
Judy C
September 30, 2002
Jonathon, Your new baby son will meet you, someday, and you will become close friends and buddies. Though sharing lives together will not occur on this earthly planet, you will definitely share many warm experiences and adventures over billions of years together in Eternity. This separation is only temporary.
I lost my dad when I was younger, and often felt he missed out on great moments in my life. Yet, I know we will share even GREATER moments together in our Eternal Lives! So will you and your Family!
Sharon Hayes
September 12, 2002
On the one year anniversary of Sept 11th, the school that i go to in Danbury CT gave every person a sticker with the name of someone who had lost there life on sept 11th. Jonathan Ryan was my sticker. And all day I walked around proub to be wearing the sticker! I can't tell you enough how much it meant to me! I needed to do the reserech and find out more about Jonathan. Thank you! and the best of wishes to his friends, family and loved ones! He is up there watching down on us with all the others that lost there life on that horrible day!
Jerry Lambe
September 12, 2002
It was really by accident that myself and Nick first meet JR back in 1990. The old Irish connection (50s Ireland; father opted to stay, his friends left) had brought us to NY in search of a summer job during college. So we arrived for the first time and fate took us to the beach - Fire Island; two young adventurers, in awe of everything U.S. of A., awaiting the unexpected.
JR was our peer. He had reached the pinnacle of his college hiatus. Achieving that all powerful position of bartender; he was the welcoming face, a friendly voice, Mr Popular and a wizard of obscure cocktails. We all immediately became friends and shared a summer, full of so much life and discovery, it was like my own Huckleberry Finn. We worked, played and talked; and managed to make it through to Labour Day and beyond. We both returned the following year.
On this anniversary, I can but offer my deepest sympathies to his wife and beautiful children. The JR I remember was an embodiment of America with all of his endearing qualities. From across the pond I will always remember him as my Mr. America.
I hope to see you again JR. We can catch up on some tennis or you can teach me that girls game - lacrosse.
Goodnight and God Bless.
Jerry Lambe. London, England
Lynnie Morley
September 12, 2002
What stays in my mind the most, from the first time I met Jon, was how happy he was to talk about his daughter. His memorial was done so well, I still tear up at a Sinatra song.Maria & the Ryan family are in my prayers.
Wayne Thorsen
September 11, 2002
Jon,
I am grateful for the chance I had to work with you.
You are missed.
Wayne
Nadine Araoz
June 21, 2002
I grew up across Hillside Ave. from Jon and went to Denton, Herricks Middle and the high school with him. Although the last time I had seen him was about 10 years ago, I always remember him as a lively, intelligent, caring individual. My heart goes out to his wife and children. You are in my prayers.
Kristin Beary
May 2, 2002
Thank you, Jon for the lessons you have taught me, and all who care for you. Your wife, children and family will be in my prayers always.
robert serratore
May 1, 2002
I had the pleasure and gift to meet JR back in 1988 over the years we enjoyed many a happy occassion, when I think of JR, I think of how he lived. I See his gift in Colin's smile, in Autum's beauty, and in Maria's strenght. To all the Ryan's thank you for your gift of love, and friendship.
RSerratore
Jill Pall
April 22, 2002
Maria-
It was a pleasure meeting you (and baby Colin) this past weekend.
I know Autumn was playing in the rain, but please let her know her daddy will forever be in our hearts.
Stay strong...
-Jill
April 16, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL YOUNG MAN..JONATHAN S.RYAN AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS LOVING FAMILY..NEW SON AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK...MAY JESUS AND HIS SAINTS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Ralph Strocchia
March 24, 2002
My deepest sympathy for a good man and great family.
EBI Memorial Website
March 19, 2002
For a more in-depth memorial tribute for Jon and his EBI colleagues lost on 9/11, please also visit:
http://wtc.technologyshoppe.com/
Thank you.
Phyllis Rosenberg
March 17, 2002
I remember John as a pre-adolescent boy who was friends with my son. I remember his loving mother and involved father. I had heard that he had grown up to be a wonderful man and I truly was devastated to hear of his loss through my son Andrew who was his friend in his boyhood at Herricks High School . May his children be a comfort to the family, and all manage to survive this terrible loss.
Sincerely,
Phyllis Rosenberg
Eileen Ortenzi
March 4, 2002
I went to college with J.R. and will always remember his kind spirit. He will always be in my prayers.
aris papageorge
January 24, 2002
We miss you Jon. and think about you and your family often. aris
Teresa Jahn
December 14, 2001
We are very sorry Jonathan missed the birth of Colin and will not be there to see Colin and Autumn grow up. May their hearts always be filled with their father's love. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
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