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Matthew Vianna Obituary
When Matthew Vianna wore a tie, it was always properly centered, with a tight knot and a tasteful pattern. Even the T- shirts he wore kayaking were crisp and spotless. "Matthew loved to dress up," said Marilynda Vianna, his mother. "The shirt. The tie. The jacket ‹ always polished. Even when he was casual, he looked nice."
On Sept. 11, he dressed with particular care for a sales meeting. "Blue shirt," Mrs. Vianna said. "Blue eyes. I told him, `You look so beautiful.' It was the last time I saw him." Mr. Vianna, 23, from Manhasset, N.Y., learned the importance of details and the pleasures of formality at nearby Chaminade High School. That stood him in good stead at Villanova University, where, his mother said, he found a "real community of friends," and at Cantor Fitzgerald. But he was also perfectly happy rooting for the Giants and the Yankees and making quiet remarks that made his friends howl with laughter. "He always had the perfect, perfect comeback," Mrs. Vianna said.
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Kathleen Keating
September 12, 2023
Well I looked for your name for the 22 year again yesterday 9/11 on the podium and they were late. 1210 or more people were added to the hero list. Anyway I am sure the family is hanging out together up in haven. Said hello to Uncle John & Aunt Jane my parents, and my Aunt joy & uncle Jerome& uncle John & Aunt Celeste . Our cousin Joseph we miss him. Love Kathleen VIANNA Keating
Karen Advocate
September 11, 2023
Marilynda,
I remember this day from our Time Inc days.
Hope all is well with you!
Karen Advocate
Matthew Vianna
April 20, 2023
I did not know Matthew but we do share the same name. Out of the whole memorial I saw my own name throughout it all. `Matthew Vianna´ I was really young; age 5 when it happened and I never really understood. I wish continued peace and love to the rest of his family and friends. We will never forget.
Karen Advocate Connolly
September 11, 2022
Marylynda-to this day, 21 years later, I still remember the day at TIME
Hope all is well with you!
Fondly, Karen Advocate Connolly
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Joe G
September 11, 2018
Sept 11th brings out a lot of emotions for countless people. Each year I think of Matt and the great memories We had growing up in Manhasset. Playing CYO basketball and rooting for St John's. ( even know he and my brother went to Nova later on). He must be loving how they have been playing lately!! I have read some other posts here including one from our close mutual friend Brad and cannot agree more about the great person Matt was. His exceptional character and honesty is something I try to strive to emulate in my life. There is no understanding why someone as good as Matt can be taken away so young. I hope one day we can meet again.
God bless Matt and the Vianna family.
Ed W.
February 27, 2013
We spent 4 years together in the L homeroom and I have thought about you many, many times over the years. Cantor came up in a conversation today and I googled you because I had thought that was where you worked. RIP and God Bless you and your family.
PS- you wouldn't believe what they built on Jericho turnpike for the 'Nade....its ridiculous !
Amanda
January 16, 2013
I did not know you. But today I unknowingly took a picture at the memorial with your name in it. I wanted to know who you were. So young and handsome, you look like you had the world at your finger tips. Never forgotten.
Kathryn St. John
January 5, 2013
I have a white dove with Matthews name on it ....I say a prayer for him and his loved ones ...
Joseph Tukey
September 14, 2011
Hey mat your family misses u so much in new jersey john and Jane vianna me and every one else my grandma talks about u all the time still we have only met a few times when we were little I'm like a third cousin I talk and say prays in your behalf to others u will be missed and I know u have mad so many people stonger throw your life You will allways be in our hearts
September 11, 2011
Sept 11, 2011
Matthew and to all, God Bless and to all of our family on this day. 10 Yrs
Kathleen Keating Vianna
maria fox
September 11, 2011
Hello Matt, I know about you through my husband Brad. He speaks about you all the time. Brad and I just got married, last November. Brad has told me so much about how you both rode bikes together in elementary school and how close you both were. Brad always says how humble of a guy you were and always a good kid. I want you to know that we pray for you and your family all the time especially on this very sad day, September 11th.
We can only find peace knowing that you are in heaven in eternal bliss looking down on us.
God bless you and your family,
Maria Fox
Jane Gregory
September 11, 2011
Matthew and the Vianna family, you are always in my thoughts. Especially today, as i watch the 10 year memorial. God bless you all.
Mary Smith-Caravella
September 11, 2011
I have many fond memories of time spent with the Vianna and Kelly families. Matty-a-lew, you were a great kid. God bless you.
Keith Fischer
September 10, 2011
I went to both Chaminade and Nova with Matty. He was the type of person that made you feel like a good friend even if you only saw each other once in awhile. I can't believe it's been 10 years. I will be running the Nation's Triathlon in DC tomorrow with the name 'Vianna' written boldly on my arm.
Brad Fox
September 10, 2011
Matt,
You are the most courageous, toughest, kindest, easiest person to laugh with and have a good time with of any person I have ever met in my life.
I moved to Manhasset, NY at the end of 3rd grade from Roslyn, NY; and I did not know a soul in my new town. God blessed me by having my family move right around the block from the Vianna family. Being a new kid in the 4th grade is not easy but Matt made it so comfortable for me. We slowly became great friends and began to ride our bikes to school together in the 5th grade everyday. I would ride up the block and meet Matt and we would ride to school. We both loved sports so Matt and I would shoot hoops together, throw the football, watch games, play on the same teams in lacrosse, it was truly a blessing. Neither of us had a brother but I felt like I always did. People who had never met us would ask us if we were brothers when we rode our bikes downtown Manhasset in 7th and 8th grade because we both had black hair and blue eyes. During those years and all through high school Matt and I were best friends and we really were like brothers.
When I moved to Charleston S.C. for College Matt and I did not see each other very often. I then moved to San Diego, California and arrived on December 09, 2001. Two days after I drove across the country the terrorist attack occurred. I was devastated. I was depressed and angry my first 3 months upon arrival. People in California were in shock as well, but no one that I encountered out here was hit square in the heart like I was. I would tell everybody I was from NY just after meeting them. I remember trying to call his cell phone right when I saw what was happening and the disheartening feeling when there was no ring or signal. It still makes me get a lump in my throat. Why Matt? Why him? He was the kindest best person I had ever met. All I could do was cry and I am not a crier until this day came.
Matt's death has strengthened my faith in God. I have no doubt that Matt is smiling down on us from high above in the Kingdom of Heaven. God must have a special plan for all the souls that serve him as Matt did. He was just to good to leave us so soon. That tells me that God wanted him home back to the creator away from all of the snares of this world. I pray to Matt all of the time. I speak to him more now than I ever could have when he was down here in the flesh. We can all talk to Matt whenever we want now. I have never been more convinced of someone being in heaven until the day that Matt went there. Matt you are a true example of what a good man should be. Please shine you're light down and help guide us so that we can see you again for eternity. We Love you Matt.
Amen
M2 Masa
September 8, 2011
I remember Matthew G. Vianna at Time Inc. He along with his sister would show up at mom's work and she would introduce them to the staff. Matthew would sit in mom's chair and parade about the office and the hallways. Ruth would also walk Matthew to greet us, who already knew of him. I met him when he was about 8 years old and just about every year thereafter until he began his career job at the WTC. Marilynda would give me an update on their school and future ambitions. Marilynda always spoke fondly and proud of Matthew and his sister. May God Bless the Vianna Family and let Peace shine in the World. --The Masa Family Sept 2011
Lynn Rice-Armwood
January 5, 2011
I found this guestbook today and learned of Matthew's death on 9/11. I lived with the Vianna's and took care of Matthew when he was 5 and 6 years old. I have never forgotten him or Dennis and Marilynda and my time living in their home. I thought of Matthew many times over the years and always wondered what he grew up and went on to do. As Jane, I hope that in some way I touched his life and helped him grow into the man he became, I know that he helped me to learn about taking care of a child and made me a better parent for my children years latter. I just pulled out the box I have kept for the past 25 years from my time in NY, and in there are the pics of a handsome young Matthew playing and smiling, and shells we collected on the beach at the Hamptons. My prayers go out to his family and friends, rest in peace Matthew you touched many people in your far too short years.
Ruth Hazen
September 17, 2010
I worked with Marilynda for 20 years and still remember the time Matt tooks us downtown for a seminar Marilynda and I were attending. He was a most special young man. I know he is missed by his family and friends. You are always thought of.
Kim Raab
September 11, 2010
With love to you all on this 9th Anniversary.
September 12, 2009
I worked at TIME with Marylinda for years and I clearly remember the photo of Matt that sat in her office. He was a small boy then with a lovely smile--and the apple of his mama's eye.
I am so sorry for your loss. Each year i listen to the reading of his name in the memorial
rhonda goldberg sturtz
September 10, 2009
When I read Matthew's tribute profile in the NY Times, I was quite moved, especially by his mother's words. He was obviously a bright, clever and wonderful young man who made his parents proud. I didn't offer condolences then because I thought it inappropriate coming a stranger. But having never forgotten, I'm offering my sympathies now, a bit late, but nonetheless, sincere.
Paul Pluth
September 8, 2009
I only knew Matt from his obituary in the New York Times, which touched me. I took out today the silver Mercy Band bearing Matt's name that I purchased in 2001 when read that obituary. I will be wearing it this month, remembering him, praying for all who knew and loved him.
Thomas Quast
August 12, 2009
I thought of Matty today when I saw a United States flag with all the names of the 9/11 victims on it. As the 8th anniversary of the attacks approach us, its still very difficult knowing he is not with us. Wish you were with us here on earth.
Kim Raab
September 12, 2008
Still in our prayers and hearts.
Love, The Raabs
Matthew Jamison
September 11, 2008
I went to Chaminade with Matt when I lived in Manhasset. After our first year I moved up to Boston but I remember Matt as a great guy. He had a quiet way about him but when he did open up with a joke or comment on the bus ride home, we'd all be in stitches. He'd always be out at the side of the school when we waited for the bus with his hands in his pockets and a smile on his face. Although I only knew Matt for that one year, I think of him often. My prayers are with Matt and the Vianna family.
Jane Gregory
September 11, 2008
In memory....
Thinking of Matthew and all the Vianna family.
P Tabbernor
April 10, 2007
In memory....
Kim Raab
September 11, 2006
Five years has not erased Matt's memory.
With love to you all,
Kim Raab
Joanne Babaian
September 6, 2006
Dear Blessed Mother, and Good St. Anne,
Please bless the souls of the faithful departed, through the Mercy of God, May the Rest In Peace. Amen
JANE GREGORY
May 19, 2006
I KNOW ITS A WHILE NOW SINCE 9/11. BUT HAVING JUST FOUND OUT THAT MATTHEW WAS TAKEN AWAY SO TRAGICALLY FROM HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS, ALONGWITH SO MANY OTHERS, I FELT I HAD TO WRITE ABOUT THE SHORT TIME I KNEW MATTHEW. I COME FROM NEWPORT, SOUTH WALES. UNITED KINGDOM. I HAD THE HONOUR TO LOOK AFTER MATTHEW WHEN HE WAS AGED 3 TO 5 YEARS. HE WAS A LOVELY, PLEASANT WELL BEHAVED BOY. DEARLY LOVED BY HIS PARENTS, AND FAMILY. HE WAS PART OF MY LIFE FOR TWO SHORT YEARS AND I HAVE NEVER FORGOTTEN HIM OR THE KINDNESS OF DENNIS AND MARILYNDA WHILST I LIVED IN THEIR HOME IN MANHASSET. I HOPE I HELPED IN SOME SMALL WAY TOWARDS SHAPING MATTHEW INTO BECOMING THE LOVELY CARING, HAPPY, YOUNG MAN THAT HIS FAMILY WERE SO PROUD OF. MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO DENNIS, MARILYNDA AND HIS SISTER CHRISTINE(WHO I NEVER GOT TO MEET). GOD BLESS YOU MATT.
Kimberly Lombardo
September 12, 2005
To the Vianna family:
Thinking of you yesterday and always. Matt is always in my prayers and thoughts as are you all.
With love and rememberance,
Kim and Matt Lombardo
Thomas Quast
September 11, 2005
Its difficult to believe that it has been four years. I think of Matty often and reminisce of all the good times we had. I sure do miss his company, his positive nature and his uncanny ability to enjoy life. He is often in my thoughts and, along with his family, is always in my prayers. Thanks for all the great memories.
Kim Lombardo
September 11, 2004
To Dennis, Marylinda, Christine and the entire Vianna family,
Each and every day as I walk from my downtown office to the train I think of Matt and how he brightened your lives. He is always remembered. Matt, continue to shine your love upon your family and friends. You will always be missed and we will never forget. With love, Kim & Matt Lombardo
Kim Lombardo(Raab)
September 11, 2003
Two years later and the pain is still so strong, but knowing you are a guardian angel smiling down gives us all hope. Know your family is always in my prayers. Keep them safe and watch over them; and know that there is not a day that goes by that you are not loved and remembered.
With heartfelt love and prayers;
Kimberly & Matt Lombardo
Steve Conroy
September 3, 2003
Hey Matt. We missed you in the Hamptons this past weekend. No one got a football game going on the beach like you did every year but it was still a good time. We caught a few fluke near the Shinnecock Inlet from Ernie's boat. It's weird to think it's been two years since I spoke to you last.
I don't have a writing job right now so I might not be able to have a piece about you published as I did the last two years, but I'll see what I can do.
We miss you. Take care.
Katie Raab
September 12, 2002
I have this wonderful picture of my brother and Matt grilling at his house in the Hamptons. That is how I will always remember him, smiling and having a good time. I'll never forget swimming in the bay or skiing at Mt.Snow. I hold his family and friends in my prayers and may God bless everyone who lost someone.
With much love,
KJR
Anthony Bovino
September 12, 2002
One year later, and I still think about Matt. Matty's smile and humor made Katherine Hall alive during our freshman year. Living across from him and Sarge and Justin... We were all brothers. Although matt and I did not see each other all the time at Villanova, whenever we ran into each other he was always there with a joke, a story, or an attentive ear. God bless you Matty, and may your family and friends remember you as the good person you are.
John Nguyen
September 12, 2002
We've never really met, but I was your TA for "The Concept of Light" class you took at Villanova in the Fall of 1999 and I was also in the graduating class of 2000. I just want to let you know that you are remembered and May God Bless you and your family.
Regards,
John
Steve Conroy
September 8, 2002
During our ski trip to Loon, N.H. in 1992 Matt wiped out on a run and put a hole in his bottom lip he could just about stick his tongue through. When we found him at the infirmary he didn't whine or complain; he apologized for cutting our day on the mountain short.
That selflessness is something I know remained with him until his last moments. You always said waiting for those trips was like Christmas Eve, Matt. And now, just as back then, they are the best memories I have of growing up. Although you were a year younger you were the one I looked to as a leader during our travels and mischief together. I can't say enough how much I miss you and I promise I will do all that I can for your family and to keep your memory alive.
I can't wait to see you again in the Summit Lodge.
stevie conroy
Kimberly Raab
September 4, 2002
In every picture with Matt from when we were kids-whether it was at Mt. Snow or at your house in the Hamptons, he was always smiling. Still one year later I keep you all in my prayers and my thoughts every single day. God bless you all.
With deepest sympathies and love, Kim
Karen McClintock
August 14, 2002
It seems like just yesterday that we were celebrating your b-day - dancing around and making fun of all the people at bahama mama's. You are really really missed Matty.
Donna Schulz
June 17, 2002
You do not know me, nor I you. But the tragedy of that day brought us all together. I hope that you have heard of the United in Memory quilt that is being made to honor all who tragically lost their lives. I am making the block that commorates the life of Matthew. Please contact me if you would like a personal block made to be kept by the family. I would be honored to make it for you.
Although Matthew can never be brought back, I can see from the other postings that he was a remarkable young man that touched the lives of all who knew him. May your hearts always be full of his memory and his life and not of the pain that took him away.
God Bless each of you.
Sincerely, Donna D. Schulz
Angie Campbell
May 31, 2002
May God bless you and the family and friends that you left behind the morning of 9/11/01. May you rest in peace forever more..........
Thomas Quast
May 28, 2002
I had some the best times and best laughs everytime we were together. I miss him terribly because he was an ideal friend and a special person.
May 16, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL SPECIAL PERSON..MATTHEW GILBERT VIANNA AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS...GOD BLESS HIS LOVING FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY JESUS AND ST.MATTHEW GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Janet Mines Krings
April 13, 2002
I am searching for the mother of a "Matthew" who was lost at the WTC. If you are the mother who had a long conversation with one of the therapy dog handlers at Pier 94 who made a special promise to you, please get in touch with me. The promise has come true.
Patrick Lee
March 26, 2002
Matt was a wonderful person and a great friend, and is deeply missed. Matty's memory lives on in his friends and family, to whom he will never be forgotten.
Vince Root
March 11, 2002
Even after six months it is still hard to believe all that has happened in this short time. Matty will forever be remembered among his family and friends as a light that can not be extinguished by the ugliness that happened on that day.
Diane Hummel
January 28, 2002
I spoke with Matt on the telephone almost every day. When several days would go by without conversing and I phoned him, he would cheerfully ask me how I had been as if months had gone by. It made me smile when I spoke to Matt. He was always very professional and upbeat. He was also quick witted and had a great sense of humor. I miss talking to him and will always remember him. It's amazing how I can still hear the sound of his voice. I hope I always will. God Bless his family.
Sarah Thomas
January 16, 2002
I too am deeply saddened to hear about this. So many people died for no reason. It truly is a sad thing. Something that no matter what happens can never be taken back. I never had the pleasure of meeting Matthew,but I have heard of him. My great aunt(ruth Healy),was best friends w/his grandmother.(Marrie/Marry?)I did however meet his mother at my Aunt Ruth's funeral.I'm sorry for your loss.
Joseph Keating
January 10, 2002
Matthew was part of our family. I am a son-in-law of John C. Vianna of Cliffwood Beach, NJ. When both my mother in law and he learned of Matthews untimely demise, they wept, knowing how much his parents loved him. I believe I met Matthew briefly 6 years ago at a 50th Anniversary. He was a reserved well mannered young man even then. I am certain that God has even greater things for him to do. Fear not Mom and Dad, he is watching over you.
With Love,
Joe Keating
for Jane and John Vianna
Fr. Paul Pluth
December 31, 2001
So young and so full of hope. I wept reading his profile, and your words,and thinking of your loss. In my prayers always.
Teresa Jahn
December 7, 2001
So very young and handsome just seeing his picture here made me cry. I imagine his did look great with the blue shirt and blue eyes. As a mother of a 21 year old son my heart cries so deeply for you. I cannot imagine your pain and I am very sorry for your loss.
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We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
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And when we are left speechless
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May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
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