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Thomas DeAngelis Obituary
Five years ago, when Thomas P. DeAngelis was promoted to battalion chief in the New York City Fire Department, his wife, Patty, told him: "You've been running into burning buildings for 22 years. But you're a battalion chief now, so you won't have to do that anymore."
In her heart, she knew better. Tommy DeAngelis would never send a firefighter into a building he had not personally entered and checked out. Around the East 51st Street firehouse in Manhattan, he was known as "Chuckles" because of his sunny good humor and his lust for life: sports, cooking, sailing, carpentry, writing. But when the alarm sounded, he would suddenly become all business.
Sometimes he would kick around the idea of retiring in a year or two — he was 51 — maybe to take up writing children's books. But, again, Mrs. DeAngelis knew better. "He loved being a firefighter way too much to ever quit early," she said.
On Monday, Sept. 10, she had lunch with him at their home in Westbury, on Long Island, before he headed into Manhattan to pull a 24-hour shift. "See you Tuesday night," she said as he left, giving him a kiss. "Be careful."
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Donna Jones
September 11, 2024
Today I did the Colorado Stair Climb Memorial at Red Rocks and Battalion Chief Thomas DeAngelis was the man I took with me. We will never forget! God bless
Heather (Haslinger) Schubert
September 11, 2024
Every year I think of your father and your family, Nicole. I stumbled across this page today and wanted to reach out with love and support and in remembrance.
John whalen
September 11, 2024
Tommy grew up around the corner from us my dad was fdny 27 years hope he was a influence on tom Rip ty Tommy. John whalen
Peter Cross
September 10, 2024
23 years have passed & Thomas & his family are still in our thoughts when we think about that day in New York. We send our prayers & wishes to you all.
God bless from Peter & Marie in the UK.
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Kim Mann
September 17, 2023
Today I had the honor of running the Tunnel to Towers 5K in Myrtle Beach, SC in honor of B.C. Thomas DeAngelis. I wore a badge with his name and photo. Proud to play a small part in keeping alive his memory. Never Forget.
Peter Cross
September 10, 2023
Another year passes & we still keep thinking about that day now 22 years ago. We send our thoughts, prayers & wishes to the DeAngelis family & friends. God bless from Marie & Peter in the UK.
Ronnie DeAngelis
September 11, 2022
We will never forget. God Bless!
Ronald Manoni
September 11, 2022
You had a quick smile, and you and your family will always be remembered and in my thoughts and prayers. R.I.P. brother Stanner.
Peter Cross
September 10, 2022
Even though you were Battalion Chief your courage and passion for being a firefighter still shone through on that fateful day 21 years ago. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of your family & friends. God Bless from Marie and Perer Cross, Sheffield UK.
Jose Morales
September 16, 2021
Thank you for your heroic actions on that day. Thank you and your family for the sacrifice you all made. You are remembered, We will never forget.
September 11, 2021
You are remembered. Your life and service, celebrated. Thank you answering the call. Rest in peace
Eve DeAngelis, Connecticut
September 11, 2021
We will never forget Tommy. God bless.
Carole DeAngelis Miller
September 11, 2021
20 years and still remembering. We will never forget our brother Chief DeAngelis or our other brothers and sisters who gave the ultimate sacrifice. May you all Rest In Peace.
Ronnie DeAngelis
September 11, 2021
God Bless you Thomas.
Jack and Jill Mooney
September 11, 2021
20 years but still in our thoughts and prayers.
Peter Cross
September 11, 2021
Thoughts & Prayers to all of the DeAngelis family as the 20th anniversary of 9/11 is upon us.
God Bless.
Marie & Peter Cross
Sheffield UK
Cindy Roe
September 6, 2021
Remembering Thomas on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....
Ronnie DeAngelis
September 11, 2020
'Lest We Forget...God Bless you and your family.
Jack and Jill Mooney
September 11, 2020
Always in our hearts.
Carole DeAngelis Miller
September 10, 2020
Another year goes by and as promised another entry to show we have not forgotten. Although we did not know the Chief personally, he was a brother to this family of firefighters. How ironic that we would share the same last name. DeAngelis; meaning of the angels, a messenger or an angelic person. I consider the chief to be an angel watching over this firefighter family and that is a comforting feeling. Again, our deepest sympathies to the family of Chief Thomas DeAngelis.
Carole DeAngelis Miller and the DeAngelis Family of Bensalem, PA
Warren Dennison
January 27, 2020
I found an old photograph from our High School graduation from Molloy in June 1968. It shows Tom and I walking off the stage after receiving our diplomas. We were in alphabetical order by last name and we were walking in line. The picture was taken with an old Instamatic camera and the face details are not real clear. I scanned the picture as a PDF and unfortunately this site cannot save pictures in this format.
It was in the pre-moustache days for both of us.
I remember we both used to go to the school library at lunch time to read the Hot Rod magazines.
Carole DeAngelis Miller
September 11, 2019
The DeAngelis Family of Bensalem once again offer our sincere condolences. I write yearly on the hopes of bringing some kind of comfort to your family. This family will never forget the ultimate sacrifice that was paid by BC Thomas DeAngelis and the many others that perished that day. As always, I keep your family in prayer.
Carole DeAngelis Miller, former FF/EMT
Ronnie DeAngelis
September 11, 2019
We will never forget. God Bless.
Peter Cross
September 10, 2019
On the eve of the 18th anniversary of 9/11 we once again think about all your family & send our thoughts & prayers to you all from the UK.
Peter & Marie Cross
Sheffield UK
Ronnie DeAngelis
September 12, 2018
God Bless you. We will never forget.
Peter & Marie Cross
September 11, 2018
Thoughts and Prayers with you and your family once again when we come to September the 11th and remember all those lost on that fateful day. God Bless.
September 11, 2017
Dear family of Thomas P. Deangelis, i am a student from rsk highschool and i just wanted to remember this day and give an appreciation to your amazing brave husband for helping us o that day, and i am super grateful for a man like him and im extremely sorry for you lose.
Carole DeAngelis Miller
September 11, 2017
In keeping with my promise, I said and meant we would never forget. I'm adding my yearly message to honor BC Thomas DeAngelis. Chief you were taken to soon but I'm hoping you are keeping an eye on your brothers and sisters here on earth, that are still serving as First Responders.
Patty and family, we pray that God has wrapped you in his loving arms and will protect and keep you all safe, always. The DeAngelis Family of Bensalem, Pennsylvania that includes; Firefighter's, Paramedics and Emergency Medical Technicians will always keep you in our hearts and prayers.
Peter & Marie Cross
September 11, 2017
Another year passes and once again our thoughts and prayers are with you and you family. God Bless.
Brian Brazil
September 12, 2016
Was honored to donate blood, 9-11-16 in his memory in Tulare, Ca.
Amanda Fusco
September 11, 2016
I did not know Thomas or his family, but I think of them every year on 9/11. My father's name is also Thomas DeAngelis and was in NYC on that day. I found out early that day that he was safe, but came to learn that a man with his name was not as lucky. I can't imagine the loss that your family feels. God bless you all. You will always be in my prayers.
Peter & Marie Cross
September 11, 2016
Once again we are remembering the memories fifteen years on from that fateful day. All the best to you and your family. God Bless.
Brian Hoffman
September 13, 2015
I am humbled and honored to have climbed for Chief DeAngelis today at the Kansas City Memorial Stair Climb.
Kathleen Kwee
September 11, 2015
Dear Nicole and Mrs DeAngelis, Thinking of you today. I am so moved by the number of people from across the country that have never met you, but have written beautiful messages to remember your Dad and husband. Praying for you today and always.
Ronnie DeAngelis
September 11, 2015
God Bless you and your family.
Jack and Jill Mooney
September 11, 2015
Always in our hearts.
Carole DeAngelis
September 10, 2015
Patty DeAngelis and Family,
As another year passes, it's still not easier than the year before and yet we never forget. Our wishes never change as we pray for peace and comfort for your family. I vow to continue sending a yearly message to let you know how much we appreciate the ultimate sacrifice that Thomas and many others made on September 11th and that we realize the impact this had on your family. We, the DeAngelis Family of Bensalem, consisting of Firefighters, Paramedics and EMT's will never forget and we pray daily for those who continue to serve and protect.
Peter & Marie Cross
September 10, 2015
Once again at this time of year we Honor the memories of 9/11 and all the many people involved. All the best to all your family from across the pond. God Bless.
Bryce Cochran
May 11, 2015
I have the honor of doing a 9/11 power point over this hero, thank you for your service Mr.Thomas, i hope one day we meet, i have learned so much about you.
Peter
September 11, 2014
Another year goes and it's hard to believe it's now 13 years since that fateful day. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. God Bless. Peter & Marie Cross Sheffield UK.
Pamela Gross
September 11, 2014
Mrs.DeAngelis,
My name is Pam gross I am a New Yorker but I have lived in Sarasota Florida for many years.
My daughter and I took a trip to Aspen five years ago, arriving just prior to the anniversary of 9/11. The fire department created such an extraordinarily beautiful tribute, that to this day I am reminded how we can lose people and yet have them right here with us.
In the Tribute, they had a Fireman's boot displayed for each firemen who was killed on 9/11. Inside the boot, they placed beautiful red roses with a name in a photograph of the firemen; I was fortunate enough to pick up your husband's rose and his picture.
When I returned home, I had them laminated so that I would never forget. I keep this piece in a trunk in my bedroom together with all my children's photographs.
I pulled him out today and sat him in the living room while I was watching the history channel; for the last three hours have been sharing human stories of how people pull together to help each other during this crisis.
Both my son and my son-in-law are law enforcement officers and I feel that there has always been a tie between fireman, paramedics and law-enforcement. I guess what I'm trying to say, awkwardly, is that I am thinking about you and I will always have your husbands photograph and rose in my trunk. I pray that you and yours are living your best lives.
Thank you for your husband's service.
Pam gross
Carole DeAngelis Miller
September 11, 2014
Another year and still we will never forget. From the DeAngelis family of Firefighters and EMT's in Pennsylvania, we will never forget the ultimate sacrifice that was made by Thomas and many others. Thomas, we have never met but someday we will. Until then, rest easy Chief, we have it from here.
Ronnie DeAngelis
September 9, 2014
God Bless you Thomas DeAngelis
thomas deangelis morrette
September 7, 2014
This is a double coincidence. The previous message is exactly what happened to me when I visited the memorial. I walked over to the pool and while looking into the water I placed my hand down, later looking down, and my hand was on Thomas name. My mothers maiden name was diangelis. I have always been proud of it. There is something very spiritual happening here. May he rest in peace.
Maria De Angelis
April 8, 2014
My name is Maria De Angelis.. I'm Italian and last week, for the first time in my life I visited NY.
I decided to visit the world trade center.. and have a look on the place where the twin towers were.. and the first name that I read on that fountain was Thomas.. we have the same surname.. and in some kind of way I had some strange feeling.. like if I was belonging to that moment..
Brian Chambers
September 12, 2013
I was honored to represent Chief DeAngelis in the 9/11 memorial stairclimb in Nashville, TN. Rest easy, Chief. God Bless.
Peter Cross
September 10, 2013
On the eve of the 12th anniversary of 9/11 once again our thoughts are with you and your family. All the best and God Bless. Peter & Marie Cross Sheffield UK.
Toni Micik
May 13, 2013
Dear DeAngelis family,
This past weekend I visited the memorial. I was overwhelmed with name after name. I couldn't help but stop to think that behind every name was a history and a family. I took several pictures to remember, and today as I looked through them I came across Thomas' name. I wanted somehow to put a face to a name so I looked up his name to see if I could find anything. I was glad that I was able to get to know just a little about him. You must have been very proud. I want you to know that you were in my thoughts and prayers today. We will never forget the sacrifice he made.
Shannon Perry
March 14, 2013
We owe so much to you for all you've given up to serve the people around you. I never knew him but I feel like I saw his smiling face as I grew up around town. I feel like they don't make people like him anymore. I can only hope to raise my son in the shadow of the street sign that bares his name, and use his life as a model on what we should all strive for.
I'm so sorry for your family's loss. I hope time has eased the pain even if only a little bit.
Warren Dennison
September 11, 2012
Tommy and I went to High School together at Molloy. Our graduation pictures were on the same page of the 1968 yearbook. I remember telling Tommy I was going to Florida for college. He said "cool". Tommy was a quiet guy in high school but he sure achieved a lot becoming a battalion chief. I've since met other NYFD personnel in Florida and when I mention his name one fellow shook my hand and said Tommy trained him. Tommy left a quiet legacy which is perfect for the kind of guy he was.
Peter Cross
September 11, 2012
11 years on and the 9/11 memories grow stronger. You and your family are always in our thoughts. God Bless.
Marie & Peter Cross
Sheffield (UK)
Carole DeAngelis Miller
September 10, 2012
To the Family of Thomas P. DeAngelis
We have never forgotten nor will we ever forget the ultimate sacrifice your loved one made on 9-11. We continue to pray for your family and all of brothers and sisters who have gone before us and for those still in service.
The DeAngelis Family of Bensalem, Pennsylvania
Ronnie DeAngelis
September 30, 2011
God Bless you.
Brody
September 29, 2011
Many my age have no idea what that tragic day had been like. It seems like we lost everything. . .but hope and pride. You give us that each and every day as we look back at the sadness and sorrow that struck our nation ten years ago. So in honor of you, I will plant a flower to show that you give us strength and passion. You were truly a hero to many. You will never be forgotten. And throughout each and every one of us, you rest a place in our hearts. Thank you for your courage.
jordan stone
September 27, 2011
Hey,my name is jordan,and im from armuchee georgia i just would like to say im sorry for what 9/11 has calls. i bet it was an emotional day but just hearing about it is really emotional for me. that day i dont know what the people were thinking about going through the twin towers it had killed and hurt alot of people physical and mentally. but in memory of 9/11 i am planting a flower for you. i know there is a reason why it happen, but we will never know the reason. i pray that whoever had died that had died that day i hope they were right with God and made it to heaven.
GOD BLESS YOU AND I WILL NEVER FORGET THIS DAY!
THANK YOU.
Denise Leary
September 12, 2011
Shortly after the 9/11 tragedy I found a website that allowed the opportunity to make a donation that would benefit the victims' families and in return they would send you a memorial bracelet. I recieved the bracelet of Battalion Cheif Thomas P. DeAngelis. I wear the bracelet every year the week of 9/11 in remembrace of an obviously very courageous and wonderful man. May he rest in peace.
September 11, 2011
On this the 10th anniversary of 9/11, I write on behalf of my family, the DeAngelis Family of Bensalem, Pennsylvania. Our heartfelt sympathy to the family of: Thomas P. DeAngelis. We pray that your memories bring you peace and comfort.
Our family has established into the third generation of fire fighters and is so proud to do so. As we pray daily for the safety of each other, we pray for all our other brother and sisters who serve and those who left us on 9/11.
With our deepest gratitude to Thomas P. DeAngelis who made the ultimate sacrifice so others may live,
Joseph M. DeAngelis Sr. retired FF, his children; Joseph M. DeAngelis Jr., retired USCG, FF and Instructor, Ronald P. DeAngelis, FF, Carole DeAngelis Miller, FF/EMT and their children; Alexander Joseph DeAngelis, FF, Gentilina Marie Miller, FF/EMT, and Robert Joseph Miller, FF/EMT.
Peter Cross
September 9, 2011
As we approach the 10th anniversary of 9/11 the memories and thoughts grow even stronger. You and your family are always in ours. God Bless.
Peter & Marie Cross, Sheffield UK
jennifer mcbride
September 6, 2011
your family are always in my prayers!
Jennifer McBride
September 6, 2011
Your family are always in my prayers!
Patricia DeAngelis
September 6, 2011
Ten years ago I felt compelled to write to the wife of Thomas P DeAngelis, Patty DeAngelis, when I came across his name in the sad long list of deceased victims of 9/11/01. I wrote to Patty to express my deepest sympathy for her loss. I married a wonderful man 21 years ago and his name is Thomas DeAngelis. Ironically, my name is Patty. I received a lovely letter in return along with beautiful angel memorial pins made on Thomas Deangelis' behalf. Every year on the anniversary of 9/11/01, I take out the pins and the letter from Patty to share with my husband and children who are now 19 and 16. It has been our way of remembering and having a small connection to one of the many heroes, we never knew but will always hold a special place in our hearts. Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with entire family of Thomas P DeAngelis as we approach the the 10th anniversary of 9/11.
Kathleen Kwee
September 3, 2011
Nicole, I am thinking of you and your Mom. You and your family are always in my prayers.
Linda Marrara
August 9, 2011
I remember Tommy , I met Tommy while working out at the "BALLY'S TOTAL FITNESS" gym which was located in Westbury.
Tom was always a very caring and kind man! I and other Bally's members were so upset when we learned he was among the missing and then found dead people killed in the 9/11 tragedy!!! I will always remember Tom!!!
Patricia DeAngelis
August 8, 2011
Patricia DeAngelis
August 8, 2011
Jill Mooney
August 8, 2011
You are always in our thoughts, our prayers and our hearts. Thank you for helping me to believe!
Kristine Koziak
July 14, 2011
Just thinking of you and your family. God Bless!
Christine DeAngelis-Caputo
June 6, 2011
My Dad is missed dearly, it is nice to know people still think of him. My children and myself thank you (his grandchildren are young and and are just understanding). Thank you for your support.
Peter & Marie Cross
September 12, 2010
Thinking about all of your family and friends, and all the people who lost loved ones on that terrible day 9 years ago. People will always think and care about this and most importantly will never forget.
God Bless.
Jennifer Mendolia-Oborski
September 12, 2009
It has been eight years and I still think of you and your family any time the Towers or 9/11 is mentioned. I hope all is well with Nicole and I think of you Patty and hope your are doing well.
Sherry Dority
September 11, 2009
Please accept my heartfelt condolences on this most memorial of days. One of the most precious God gives us is our memories. Thomas is not gone, he is just not here. You will be reunited.
Donna Hughes
September 11, 2009
Thank you for your service and sacrifice. God bless and keep your family. We have not and never will forget.
the Paganacci Family
September 11, 2009
A painful day for all in the Brotherhood. We keep you and the families of all we lost in our hearts, and take solace in the words of condolences and thanks from those we serve. May God Bless You.
Linda Lankford
September 11, 2009
We have not forgotten. God bless your family and thank you for what you did.
Thomas & Jan Kubla
September 11, 2009
Finding the right thing to say is always hard, especially today. Please know that we think about and pray for all who gave their lives to protect and save others all year long. I hope you can find some peace, today, and always, knowing that others care. And we will never forget.
Ronnie DeAngelis
September 11, 2009
God bless you. America shall never forget.
Peter & Marie Cross
September 8, 2009
Once again at this time of year the memories flood back and everyone has their own personal thoughts to think of.We would like to say that you and your family are in our thoughts this week. I will not be near a pc on Friday so that's why the message is a little early.
God Bless.
Doug Abraham
April 23, 2009
A Reminiscence
YES, thou art gone! and never more
Thy sunny smile shall gladden me;
But I may pass the old church door,
And pace the floor that covers thee.
May stand upon the cold, damp stone,
And think that, frozen, lies below
The lightest heart that I have known,
The kindest I shall ever know.
Yet, though I cannot see thee more,
'Tis still a comfort to have seen;
And though thy transient life is o'er,
'Tis sweet to think that thou hast been;
To think a soul so near divine,
Within a form so angel fair,
United to a heart like thine,
Has gladdened once our humble sphere.
By Anne Bronte
The Poetry Foundation
Richard Koziak
November 12, 2008
Many men and women are alive today because of Chief DeAngelis' acts during that horriffic day
WE WILL NEVER FORGET
Kristine Koziak
October 30, 2008
My father worked with Chief DeAngelis and only has the kindest words to say. Tom DeAngelis is forever in our thoughts and prayers. WE WILL NEVER FORGET!
Ronnie DeAngelis
September 12, 2008
'Lest We Forget
Peter & Marie Cross
September 11, 2008
To The DeAngelis Family,
Another year goes by and we all can take time to reflect on what happened seven years ago and to remember all the loved ones that were lost that day.
God Bless
Lena Runk
September 11, 2008
Im sorry for your loss.
Warren Dennison
September 11, 2008
I remember Tom from High School, at Molloy. We were in the same homeroom. We used to talk about cars. I remember telling Tom I was going to college in Florida and he said he was staying in the city. When I got the letter from Molloy about the lost alumni and I saw Tom's name and class of '68 the memories came back. My dad retired from NYPD in Manhattan and I remember the strong tie of NYC kids joining the NYPD and FD . Tom was a New York guy, the best.
Peter & Marie Cross
September 11, 2007
To The DeAngelis Family,
Once again at this time of year you are in our thoughts.
God Bless.
Carl Nocera
September 11, 2007
Tom, You look down from your picture on top of my desk everyday. I hope I have made a difference here at work as each day since 9/11 I have tried to carry on what you have always done. Protecting our fellow Americans. Thanks for joining me each day and reminding me why I'm here. God bless to your family and fellow brother firemen.
Ronnie DeAngelis
July 6, 2007
'Lest We Forget
Kristine
October 24, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
September 21, 2006
In remembrance....
Evelyn B
September 18, 2006
Thank you for your bravery and sacrifice. You will always be a hero not only to your family but also to those of us who did not know you personally but are touched at the courage you had in the face of such danger. We will never forget. God Bless!
Peter Cross
September 11, 2006
My wife and I would like to say that you are in our thoughts at this time.We were on vacation 5 years ago and when walking to the British Consulate to contact home we walked past the Battalion 8 Station.Your husbands name has been one that has stuck in our memory ever since.It is hard to imagine how the mind of a Fire Fighter works knowing the dangers they are entering.They are completely focused about helping others and it is that one element of bravery that cannot be honoured enough.I hope you do not mind us leaving this message as complete strangers but we feel very strongly about this time of year as we were in New York at the time.We have both lost a parent in the last 4 years and know that time is a good healer but you never forget your loved ones.God Bless to you and your family.
Peter & Marie Cross
Lillianne (Daddio) Eyer, daughter of Joseph Daddio
September 11, 2006
To the Family of Thomas
You are in my prayers and think about you often. I am very proud to say that Tommy was my cousin. He has made the world a better place to live because he cared about people and like to help them in anyway. I remember the day that Maria e-mailed me and told me that Tommy was still missing. I can't express how sorry I felt and still feel for the family. Always remember he will be in the hearts of all Americans forever. My children and grandchildren will all know about Tommy our Hero!!!
James Johnson
September 11, 2005
God Bless You...
Dad and Dana
Christine DeAngelis Caputo
October 19, 2003
Dad-
Just writing you name makes me cry, and its 2 years later. I miss you all the time. You were the one that I could talk to about nothing, or about something that I couldn't share with anyone else. I know that you are with us all the time, but it still hurts so much.
I miss you not being able to enjoy your grandchildren. I know you were able to enjoy the first 2 1/2 years of Dana's life, those years made you so proud. Dana still has memories of you (she definitely has you memory) -- she thinks that if she swings high enough on her swing she can bring you home (I only wish).
And the one you knew was coming but never got the chance to hold - our monster, Thomas, your namesake -- what a handful; everyday when he does something that I have to correct (which is often) I actually laugh because I know you watching thinking its hysterical- so I can't even get mad.
You were so easy going and never let anything bother you, you always saw the best in everyone. You taught by example, and thats the best way to learn. I try to live by your example as best I can.
I never knew how lucky I was until I lost you!
Being a parent myself I now know what joy their is in being a parent and hope I made you proud. You were an excellent role model!
You are in my thoughts and prays.
I love you Daddy!
Christine
P.S. Both of you grandcildren have your expressions, and it makes me so happy to see you in them! Hey, I'm finally proud to say I have that DeAngleis nose - who thought that day would come! i love you!!
Joseph Lomnicky
September 11, 2003
Patti
I am forever wearing the firemen's guardian angel pin you gave me in December 2001 after the NYSE Tree lighting ceremony. Carrying your boy on my shoulders on the NYSE Trading Floor as he waited to have his face painted was a great spiritual lift for me.
I want you to know that we, as Americans, share and grieve with you as the second anniversary of the countless personal sacrifices unfolds today. God bless you and your family!
Joseph M. DeAngelis
September 11, 2003
On this solemn anniversary, My family wishes to say that we are deply sorry for your loss and proud of the sacrafice your husband made in the preformance of his duties.
As a family of firefighters also, we know the feelings you had each day as Thomas left for his calling...we wish you and your family God's love and peace in these days...
Joseph M.DeAngelis Jr, USCG (ret),serviceman, firefighter,instructor and EMT, and Brandin, Joseph M. DeAngelis Sr, firefighter,fire police, PresGRAFA and Bernice, Fire Chief Bristol,Pa. Ronald DeAngelis and Rita, AJ De Angelis, firefighter, Carole DeAngelis Miller, EMT and firefighter, Robert Miller Sr., Police Sargent, EMT, Robert Miller Jr., FireFighter, Gina DeAngelis, firefighter and Patches, our Dalmation, firedog
Jennifer Mendolia-Oborski
July 3, 2003
To my friends Patty and Nicole,
It was my first apartment...the first time living on my own. I was welcomed with a bouquet of flowers and Spencers loud bark. I felt so comfortable and secure because I knew I had you all downstairs if I needed anything. To this day, I have never loved any place besides my parents home, as much as I loved that little apartment. There are so many little things that I remember about Tom. How he liked to sit out on your deck to smoke an occasional cigar in the summertime, or how he made it a point to shovel a walkway from my door to my car when it snowed. I miss you and Nicole very much and think about you more than you will ever know. I wonder about the young lady Nicole has grown into or if she remembers my ferret which I actually still have. I remember your Irish soda bread which you baked and always saved some for me, or the homemade pretzals that Nicole used to bring me when she made them. I can't say this enough...Thank you again for being the wonderful people you are. My love, thoughts and prayers will be with your family forever.
Hugs and kisses
Jennifer
Patricia DeAngelis
February 2, 2003
It was the comfort of Silence,
knowing words were unnecessary.
It was the comfort of Silence,
knowing we would grow old
together
It was the comfort of Silence,
knowing there was you to care.
It was the comfort of Silence,
knowing explanations weren't
needed.
It was the comfort of our Home,
knowing Love would always be
there.
It was the comfort of you,
knowing you'd be my friend
forever.
You live on in my heart everyday.
I miss you so very much.
Patty
Pam Mudge
December 18, 2002
Memories live on... One day at work I noticed a mercy band my collegue was wearing. I immediately went to the web to purchase one myself. Living in Portland, Or I felt so distant from what happened so I really didn't know who to chose. However some of my favorite memories were living around the corner from a firestation. After school my friends would hang out at the station helping with duties like washing the trucks and folding the flags. So I decided that FDNY would be the most fitting. Randomly I was given the name "Thomas Deangelis." After reading more about him its seems so appropriate. Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Thomas or his family I continue to feel connected to him simply by acknowledging his memory. My prayers are with you.
Christine Canlon
September 20, 2002
Dear Mrs.DeAngelis,I wanted to let you know that I now wear your husband's ID bracelet. It was given to me by a friend. She said, she would only give it to me if I promised to wear it, and I do. His name caught my eye and reading about him and you has now captured my heart. I hope that you are doing all right.I know the pain and sorrow are still there, I work in a funeral home and we buried many of his brothers. I had to deal with the families and their grief. Nothing touched me and my family like that day. We still feel the sorrow a year later.
It is by no means as great as yours, but I hope you draw strength from knowing there are people that care and think of you.
My name is Christine, just Chris is good though. I hope you get this message at a time when maybe you need to that some one cares. God Bless..Chris
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