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Wing Ching Obituary
He was the Cool Man.
Outwardly, he always seemed so phlegmatic. He did not talk much. He did not reveal his emotions. If anything, when you spoke to him, he would send you a stern look. But inside, Eddie Wing Wai Ching was the exact opposite — all warmth. So his family nicknamed him Cool Man.
Since Mr. Ching, 29, was the youngest of four, his relatives also liked to call him Ah- B, Chinese for baby. In truth, though, he was mature beyond his years. He had clear-cut goals of owning a home, establishing a successful career and raising a family. He had already bought a home in New Jersey when he was 27, and his intention was to propose marriage to his girlfriend by the end of the year.
As a client support administrator for UmeVoice, one of his clients was Cantor Fitzgerald, and he was at its office on Sept. 11.
To keep in shape, he liked to play basketball every week. His motto, on and off the court, was the old standard "Action speaks louder than words." As his half-sister, Patricia Liu, put it: "You would ask him a favor and he wouldn't answer you. But then he'd go ahead and do just what you asked him."
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Kaden Scarbeary
September 12, 2023
To a man I've never met and will never forget
Edward Lee
July 17, 2023
I just found out about this website. I wanted to give my condolences to Eddie. Eddie was my co-worker at Credit Suisse. He was working for UmeVoice and he would come to our site to help us out. I always anticipated Eddie coming to the office not just as a co-worker but a friend. We joked around alot and plan to hangout after work. I was the captain of the company's basketball team and invited Eddie to join the team. We needed help! lol. I am going to miss Eddie and Nick. Eddie is always a sunshine when coming to work and it's been a pleasure to be part of his life. I will see Eddie in heaven and we can play basketball again.
Cindy Roe
September 4, 2021
Remembering Wing on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
Del Newberry
November 6, 2020
Special thoughts go out to Wing's family today. We will never forget. Much love from Texas
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Lou Cicenia
October 11, 2016
To my old and dear friend. Thanks for being by my side as we grew up together. The gang misses you. Our memories will never be lost and you will always live eternally in our hearts.
Lou
Elsie Cintron-Rosado
September 18, 2009
To the Ching family: I had the honor of reading Wing's name this year, know that I feel your pain. My heart goes out to his family and girlfriend, he was too young, my daughter also was too young.....They say only the good die young.... I wish it wouldn't have been so. I know you miss him like I miss my daughter.....My prayers are with the family.
mother of
Maria Isabel Ramirez
WTC
09/30/75-09/11/01
We will never forget!
Nunca Olvidaramos!
Doug Abraham
January 18, 2009
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Patsy Jo Reed Sircy
October 27, 2006
Very sorry about your loss! Sincere sympathy, Pat - R.N. in TN
Kristine
October 24, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
September 9, 2006
In remembrance....
Oliver Payumo
September 11, 2003
Eddie is a true and dear friend. I will always keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Thomas Chan
September 11, 2003
Eddie was a brave young man with a heart of gold. He and that day will NOT be forgotten. Peace, Wing-Man.
lenny vega
September 11, 2003
On that tragic day your life was lost. But your spirit lives in the hearts of your family and friends. rest in peace
J N
September 11, 2003
We'll NEVER forget.
Daphne
September 8, 2002
To my brother Eddie: How we wish things were different. There are no words to express our sorrow. You are in our thoughts everyday. We love you and miss you!!
August 14, 2002
Eddie was a wonderful, honorable, precious soul. His divine presence still soars through all time, weaving a beautiful tapestry and singing a magic tune. May we ever remember and be grateful for our time with this very special, dear friend.
Angie Campbell
April 23, 2002
May God Bless you and may you rest in peace.
Teresa Jahn
January 6, 2002
We are very sorry for your loss of Wing. May his life and love live on in you. May the sorrow in your hearts be lightened by moments shared with Wing. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Anonymous
December 23, 2001
MAY GOD BLESS WING WAI CHING..MAY HE
REST IN PEACE.GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY
AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND
MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01
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