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kevin donnelly
January 28, 2023
I owe all my success to Jack giving me my first shot to start my company. He was the best.
Kevin Donnelly
Jeffrey Peterson
January 18, 2020
I heard years ago that Jack Murray was one of the people from the IBJ Park Avenue office who had been killed during 9/11. I have since been to the Memorial several times, and I look for his name always. I worked with Jack for 13 years, and he was a rock-solid foundation of the NY Branch. God bless his efforts and his personality, and may his family know that so many people were influenced by him. I wish I had known him better.
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Melanie Deal
November 29, 2017
Melanie Deal
November 29, 2017
Rest In Peace, your memory and the others who parrished on 9/11 will live on.
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Brian Norton
September 11, 2015
I recently visited the 9/11 memorial and took a picture with his name in the background. Very sad for the loss of him. Rip
S J. Friscia III
May 17, 2015
In Memory
With Honor & Respect.
Guillermo Culaciati
December 23, 2014
I´m From Argentina. I took this pic of the memorial. Hope you like it.
Rob
September 5, 2011
I knew John and his family from where I worked as an optician in Colts Neck New Jersey. I made his glasses. After 9/11, his son came in and asked for a copy of John's glasses Rx. I looked at him for a moment and asked, why? He told me that John had died in the collapse of the WTC and he needed the glasses Rx copy to help to identify his remains. I think of John frequently, especially on the 9/11 anniversary and I admire his sons strength coming to me that day asking for my help.This brings tears to my eyes remembering a day that should never have been.
John Murray
September 12, 2010
My name is also John Josseph Murray, as wes my father, his father and my son.
Maria Rivera
September 11, 2009
I worked with John Murray for 10 years at Indrustrial Bank of Japan. I learned so much from him, I'm the person I'm today. I pray for John each morning before going to work. His smile and face will forever be in my heart.
Patrick Lubin
September 11, 2007
I worked in the mailroom at IBJ for one year (1997 -1998) before moving on to Market Products. Jack was my boss's boss, so I never really had much contact with him. However, I do remember his infectious laugh. I always think of him on this day. I can see his face like it was yesterday. The way it used to turn that bright shade of red when he laughed. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Murray family and my IBJ/ Mizuho family. We will never forget.
P Tabbernor
January 13, 2007
In remembrance....
Kristine
October 30, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Arlene & Jerry Rainey
September 10, 2006
My special blessings to all of John's family, he and all the others will always hold a special place in my heart and the heart of all Americans who care.
Merry Kenyon
September 10, 2006
I am very impressed by this man. God Bless him. And may he continue to be with John's family.
Merry
Barbara Hollyfield
September 10, 2006
Just wanted to say that your special loved one is remembered and honored still.
Lisa Arthur
September 10, 2006
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above. Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight. Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night. That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through, God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone. As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on. I need you here badly; you're part of my plan. There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight. God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears. But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain. Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er. I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb; but together we can do it by taking one day at a time. It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too... that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain." And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile, knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind; I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free, remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006
Hello. My name is Lisa Arthur and I'm doing an entry to honor John.
Wayne Schletter
February 6, 2004
I met Jack in 2000 when we began working together at Mizuho and had an instant rapport together. Jack and I saw things the same way and shared alot of humor too. He is sorely missed.
Joseph Sacco
September 11, 2003
Jack was more them a boss to me he was a mentor and a friend. Jack truly cared about the people who work for him. He would always ask me about my family , and we would talk about kids and school his sons acting carear. Jack had a great sence of humor,and a even better laugh. Jack could have left Tower two befor the second plane hit, but he went back up to help others. That was Jack at his best, helping others. Pat and John, GOD blessed us all with Jack, may he comfort you both always. Jack you are always in my thoughts.
Joe.
Brian Singh
September 11, 2003
As my boss for eleven years Mr. Murray has impacted my life tremendously. He was practical and always had the answers for your questions and some more. Until this day his words still live on: "To fail to prepare is to prepare to fail." To Mrs. Murray and John Jr. I express my deepest condolences. God bless.
Michael Thompson
September 11, 2003
Mr. Murray was my boss from November 1987 to the time of his untimely death. The presence that he had was incredible. He has taught me to be a better person, to rely on myself for things, to "know the answer before you ask the question!". Since I was not raised by my father, Mr. Murray assumed that role. I will truely miss him. And, I know, he is making deals with the man himself! GOD BLESS YOU.
Jackie Sachau
September 11, 2003
Hi Murrays!
John, I just wanted you to know that I was thinking of you...you and your mom are both in my prayers, especially today! Take care & God Bless, Jackie Sachau
Chris Hill
October 11, 2002
Wanted to take a moment to let Mr. John Joseph Murrays family and friends know that I chose to do a quilt block in his memory for the United In Memory quilt project. The panels are now all completed and I wanted to let you all know that his block is on panel number 58. It was my honor to do this for his family and I was proud to be a part of this project. My deepest sympathy to all who knew and loved him. Sincerely, Chris Hill
Yoshifumi Fukuzawa
September 15, 2002
I just knew that Jack had been in the building. I worked with Jack at the Industrial Bank of Japan from 1983 to 88. His smiles always relieved us when we were in tension. I miss him and his personality. He is always in my memory.
Bill Kaesshaefer
August 9, 2002
I worked with Jack for 17 years at IBJ. His sense of humor was unique. Both you and Pat are in my prayers Jack.
Angie Campbell
May 7, 2002
May God Bless you and watch over the family and friends that you left behind that horrible day last September.
Judy Fodor
April 16, 2002
Dear Pat,
Even though the years have passed by so quickly I have fond memories of Jack during our ski trips when you were both members while living on Staten Island. I can still see his smile with a cigar stuck in his mouth at 9:00 in the morning and that hearty laugh of his. My God Bless both you and John.
I was so relieved to hear that we was recovered from WTC. I know how you feel as as lost my oldest brother Lt. Michael Fodor, FDNY but unfortunately the seven men from Ladder 21 have not been found.
Anonymous
March 13, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS GENTLEMAN..JOHN JOSEPH MURRAY OF COLTS NECK N.J. MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS.GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..STAY CLOSE AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND THE GOOD PEOPLE OF N.J...MAY JESUS ST.JOHN AND ST.JOSEPH AND ST.PATRICK TOO GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Miguel Torrellas, Esq.
March 11, 2002
Jack was my boss from 1984 to 1990 while I went to school at night for my law degree. He taught me many things about being a professional as well as being a good human being. I will always be grateful for the kindness and support he always showed me during those growing up years. He was like a second father to me. God bless him.
Takafumi Gondo
February 4, 2002
Jack san, your smile that always encouraged the people around you, will stay in our heart forever. From the first meeting with you in 1991, you treated me like a old friend. We could have been one of those wall street vendor for IBJ, but you always treated us like a very important business partner. Hitachi will never forget your smile with warmth.
Taka
February 5, 2002
Teresa Jahn
December 18, 2001
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Jeffrey Fox
December 12, 2001
I knew Jack well from his days as the personnel director at IBJ. At the time I was a placement consultant and remember when he took over the position in 1981 while IBJ was headquartered on Wall St. The company then moved uptown to Park Ave. and I continued my relationship with Jack and placed numerous employees with the firm. We would occasionall meet for lunch and got along very well. I remember Jack as being very direct and had a sharp sense of humor.
I was shocked and very saddened when I found Jack's name as one of the missing at WTC.
He touched my life and will not be forgotten.
My condolenscences to his family and friends.
Jeff Fox
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