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Mark Carney Obituary
Richard Carney was haunted by a dream. In it he was walking through empty hospital corridors searching for someone. The "bizarre dream" woke him from his sleep three times in August.
The following month, his younger brother, Mark Carney, 41, died in the World Trade Center attacks.
Just as odd, said Richard Carney, was that the two had talked about terrorist attacks in June after a suicide bomber struck a Tel Aviv discotheque.
"We were talking about terrorism and we were concerned about security. We were talking about how easy it would be for a truck to blow up on a street while people were eating lunch," Richard Carney said. "We had a premonition that something was going to happen."
Mr. Carney was a recruiter for the Association of Independent Recruiters on the 79th floor of Tower One. He grew up in Woodbridge, graduated from St. Thomas Aquinas High School of Edison and received a bachelor's degree in history from St. Peter's University in Jersey City before moving to Rahway six years ago.
On Sept. 11, Mr. Carney managed to call his brother, who also works in New York.
"He said he was not afraid," said Richard Carney. "I told him to meet me at 40 Wall Street where I work . . . He said, 'I have to go now.' "
That was the last conversation the brothers had.
A devout Catholic, Mr. Carney regularly attended St. Thomas the Apostle Byzantine Catholic Church in Rahway, sitting in the same pew every week and carrying his Bible.
"He was a really quiet guy," said his sister-in-law Patricia Carney. "He was the kind of person who never had a bad word to say about anyone."
A memorial liturgy will be held at 10:30 a.m. Saturday at St. Thomas the Apostle Byzantine Catholic Church on St. George Avenue in Rahway. Donations can be made to the American Red Cross.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Cindy Roe
September 3, 2021
Remembering Mark on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
Del Newberry
November 7, 2019
Each day I read one of these memorials and I am reminded that these were people going about their normal days until the abnormal hit. I can find something in common with each one of these precious human beings, and today I see that Mark Stephen grew up in Woodbridge. I graduated from Woodbridge High School in 1973! I pause today to reflect on Mark, and to pray for his friends and family as they continue to remember him. We will never forget. Much love from Texas.
Jim F
September 11, 2019
RIP
Mr. Carney.
I saw your flower at the memorial two years ago, and it brought me to tears. I took this photo and would love for you to have it.<br /><br />This is a low res JPEG of the image, and I would gladly give you a high res version if you would like
Matthew Kelly
September 13, 2018
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John Carney
June 30, 2018
We visited the Memorial Garden on 06/29/18. It was the first place we went to on our trip the New York. It is a lovely memorial to those who lost their lives that day.
But then we spotted your name it it brought us a little closer to everyone who died.
God rest your soul.
September 15, 2016
I am doing my whole report on 9.11 on you, Mark. I will be thinking about you and all your sacrifices for others the whole time I am writing this very special paper for you.
September 11, 2013
Rest in Peace. Thinking of all Rahway Residents who perished this day 12 years ago.
from a rahway police dispatcher who worked that day.
meethu chander
September 9, 2011
today at school, I wore a name tag with your name on it, those who perished will not be forgotten...
Doug Abraham
July 2, 2008
Death, be not proud
Death, be not proud, though some have called thee
Mighty and dreadful, for thou art not so;
For those whom thou think'st thou dost overthrow
Die not, poor Death, nor yet canst thou kill me.
From rest and sleep, which but thy pictures be,
Much pleasure; then from thee much more must flow,
And soonest our best men with thee do go,
Rest of their bones, and soul's delivery.
Thou art slave to fate, chance, kings, and desperate men,
And dost with poison, war, and sickness dwell,
And poppy or charms can make us sleep as well
And better than thy stroke; why swell'st thou then?
One short sleep past, we wake eternally
And death shall be no more; Death, thou shalt die.
By John Donne
The Poetry Foundation
Mike Carney
October 4, 2007
Mark, this is my first time in New York since 9/11. In the past I have tried to celebrate my wedding day on Sept. 11 - my wife and I have been married 8 years now and have two kids - Kieran and Michaela. Moving forward, I will say a prayer for you every morning of Sept. 11th to let you know that Carneys' around the world think about you.
Kristine
October 27, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
September 6, 2006
In memory....
Ken Robison
September 11, 2002
Mark, both you and your brother chose to become Americans. You loved living here, and you were loved by so many. We mourn your loss knowing a renewed resolve to work for peace as a remembrance of your wonderful life.
Angie Campbell
April 22, 2002
Rest in his loving peace now and forever more. May God Bless the family and friends that are left behind.
Diane Carney Lochala
March 16, 2002
I never knew you, but I will make a quilt block in your honor for the Memorial quilt project. All I have read leads me to believe you were greatly loved and admired.
Our ancestors may not have a connection in this world, but I send this blessing to comfort your family:
~ A Celtic Prayer~
I arise today through the strength of heaven, light of sun,
Radiance of moon, Splendor of fire, Speed of lightning,
Swiftness of wind, Depth of sea, Stability of earth,
Firmness of rock.
Excerpt from "St. Patrick's Breastplate"
Blessings,
DCL
Julio Quinones
February 27, 2002
Today is 2/26/02 a sad moment in my life because i may lose my job soon. Then i call you to help me in my new job search and i find you lost something even greater. Your life. It helped me to put things in perspective. I am truly saddened to hear you are no longer with us, of all the recruiters who always called me you were always so friendly and professional. You will be missed.
irwin baron
January 9, 2002
I miss you a lot. You were a good friend and a fine human being. I hope they have the TV Land channel up there. God bless you.
Teresa Jahn
January 6, 2002
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Enrique Vasquez
January 5, 2002
God bless your soul Mark and may you rest in peace. You will surely be missed.
Anna Wei
December 31, 2001
You have, and will be surely missed in this world. Your selflessness has inspired us all make this world a better place. May God Bless You, and All of Us.
December 18, 2001
MAY GOD BLESS YOU MARK STEPHEN
CARNEY AND MAY YOU REST IN PEACE.
GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS.
GOD BLESS AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER
FORGET 9/11/01
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