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Paul Beyer Obituary
Paul Beyer wanted a house. A house with a chimney. In Tottenville, Staten Island, the place where he and his wife were born and raised. So for two years, he laid the foundations for his dream: he got the necessary permits to tear down his mother-in-law's 100-year-old house, he got the blueprints from an architect, and he meticulously planned and designed every room of the two-family house that would one day be a home for him and his wife and their two boys and even his mother-in-law.
Last summer, he began to build. He had completed about 60 percent of the house when he died at the trade center. He was 37, a firefighter, a Scout leader, the father of two teenagers, Michael Paul, 15, and Shawn Patrick, 13, and, for 15 years, the husband of Arlene Beyer.
For about a week, Mrs. Beyer contemplated not finishing the house. "It was heartbreaking," Mrs. Beyer, 40, said. "I couldn't even go there."
Then she decided to go ahead. "We knew we had to finish the dream," she said. Scores of firefighters, all friends and colleagues of her husband's from Engine Company 6, are helping her. In the chimney, one of the firemen will carve a Maltese Cross, the symbol for firefighters.
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Command Master Chief Rad Hoffpauir
September 11, 2023
Danae
September 10, 2021
Thank you for your service.
Roger Ellis
September 2, 2021
It's been almost 20 years Brother. I still miss you every day. This time of year is hard for me, and my Mom even came to speak to me the other morning, and she has been dead for over 2 years. I am not sure what she was saying, but it had some meaning. I miss you, and maybe I will see you soon.
Cindy Roe
September 1, 2021
Remembering Paul on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
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lisa defreitas
May 30, 2020
My family from San Diego sends your family love - We will never ever forget you!
Sophia
September 11, 2019
Though I did not know Mr.Paul Beyer, I would like to say that his story will forever be in my heart.I am very sorry for the loss that Mrs.Beyer and her children had to experience, as well as anyone who had the pleasure of meeting this hero.His sacrifice will never be forgotten.
From,
Sophia Williams,15, a student at south Harrison high school,West Virginia
Del Newberry
October 30, 2017
Stopping to pray for Paul's friends and family today. We will never forget. Much love from Texas.
Adam Morse
September 13, 2014
Just got done climbing 110 flights of stairs in honor of Paul. I didn't know anything about him upon his name being given to me. After researching him I am honored that I did it for him. I am a firefighter and I just completed building a home for me and my family just like Paul was doing. We will never forget you and your comrades Paul!
Jamie Burton
September 9, 2014
I have the special honor of walking for Mr. Paul Beyer this coming Sept. 11th at the 9-11 Red Rocks Climb in Colorado. I cannot imagine the incredible loss his family has experienced. As a mother and wife I will say a prayer for his family and loved ones. I hope and pray that his family and friends are comforted even just a little knowing that Paul will not be forgotten.
Mark Reed
August 12, 2013
To the family of Paul Beyer, my name is Mark Reed with the Manchester Fire Dept. in Manchester Tn. I am participating in the stair climb in Nashville on Sept. 8 hounoring all 343 FDNY Firefighters that lost their lives on that tragic day back in 2001. Mr Beyer and me are the same age and I picked him to hounor because we also have 2 children. God bless Paul's surving Family members and may he rest in peace.
Barbara Boam
February 26, 2013
I walked a mile for you (mile #186) on 2/25/13 as a dedication to your life.
Chrissy Beyer-Klepinger
September 11, 2012
Always in our hearts, on this day especially. Thank you for your ultimate sacrifice and I pray God gives his family peace.
January 23, 2012
To The Family,
I did not have the pleasure of knowing Mr. Paul Beyer but a man brave enough to be a Firefighter who died in an effort to save others is truly a " hero."
In God's new order, when Mr. Beyer is awaken from the sleep of death and with the opportunity of living forever he will then have the privilege of fulfilling his dream of building the house that he desired before the horrific day of 9/11. Please accept my deepest of sympathy in the loss of your loved one.
Sincerely,
Mr. Terry of NC
April 13, 2011
r i p sweetheart
Walter Williams
January 11, 2011
You will never be forgotten! All the men and women who perished trying to save others on that day will live on in our hearts forever!
343 Trees Kinsale Ireland
Jeremiah Aherne
July 20, 2010
In Kinsale Ireland there is a garden where the 343 FDNY Officers and Firefighters are remembered with a tree. The garden is currently being places on facebook called 343 Trees Kinsale Ireland. This is a photo of Pauls tree.
L&BW
Jeremiah
March 25, 2010
Still thinking of you and your sacrifice and wishing the best to your family. Christine Demarais, Burlington, VT
carmel cook
July 12, 2009
will remain a husband, father, son , brother uncle nephew but most of all a true hero sent to save others.
Oscar
April 14, 2008
Thank you for sacrificing your life to save others.You're a true hero.
Doug Abraham
April 9, 2008
God Bless the firefighters who paid the ultimate sacrifice on that awful day!!!
Roger Ellis
September 12, 2007
Six years Bro, and you are still missed, and respected by all that knew you, and even by some that have never met you.
I appreciate you watching my back from your point of view, keep up the good work!
Love ya Brother!
Firefighter, Donahue VFD
Kevin Howell
September 11, 2007
Paul although I have never met you your niece Jennifer speaks highly of you. Im very happy that you are a Great Uncle to our son, I have dedicated a softball team in your honor and we won the championship this year for you. Thanks for being a hero to all of New York.
Roger Ellis
October 26, 2006
To my brother Paul, there is now another memorial in your firehouse. I wish I could have been there for the dedication, but since I attended our class reunion the week before, I could not attend the dedication of your sculpture. I will see it as soon as I can. Arlene and the boys are doing great, and I am glad that I am still involved in their life, as a Godfather and all! Love you brother, stay safe, keep my reservations in Heaven for me! See you when my time comes!
God Bless!
Kristine
October 24, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Evelyn B
September 13, 2006
Paul was and always will be a hero. Thank you so much Paul for your bravery. God Bless!
Bill Howatineck
September 11, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with your wife and children. Your unselfish sacrifice will never be forgotten --- now 5 years from the day. Your service will always be appreciated.
P Tabbernor
August 24, 2006
In memory....
Jim Johnson
September 11, 2005
God Bless You...
Roger Ellis
August 19, 2005
To my brother Paul, it is almost exactly 4 years ago, that I got the most memorable e-mail from you. You told me how you have attended too many FD funeral services, and it made you think of the value of true friends. I will never forget that, nor will I ever forget your life long friendship. I miss you bro, and not a day goes by with out me thinking of you, and wishing I could have one more chance to talk to you again. I keep reminding Arlene that I am still here for her, and Michael, and my God Son Shawn.
I know that every time I don my turn out gear, you are up there, watching over me, and keeping me safe.
I know, that when God transfers me to "The Big House", I will be able to stand by your side again Brother.
I miss you, and love you bro,
Roger Ellis
Speedway Fire/Rescue, Donahue Fire Department
Angie & Tony Clement
September 11, 2003
We will NEVER forget... Rest in peace...
Ileana Adamos
September 8, 2003
"Memory is an abstract painting, It doesn't present things as they are, but rather as they feel"..
I'm a Wildland FF and Paramedic..I carry a very special name engrave on my copper bracelet..It's from "My brother" and Fellow FF Paul Beyer..And i'm proud of what he did..It takes only a special breed of humans to do what we do ..We make the ultimate sacrifice..
SincerelyIleana Adamos
From a USA citizen who hopes to keep the memory of lost ones alive!
Marcia Klazura
January 31, 2003
TO THE FAMILY:
Time has passed, but not the pain!
Paul's life was way to short,
He still had everything to gain.
Fire fighting was his life,
To that job, He was true,
And for that job Paul,
We will NEVER forget YOU
Paul leaves behind a loving wife
And his children of 2,
Who will always Cherish your memory,
In everything they do.
But most of all Paul,We want you to know,
WE WILL NEVER FORGET YOU!
Michael
November 27, 2002
Hey Paul,
I hope that you don't mind me parking in front of your house every night. every now and then I think I see you working on the house. Just throw me a wave once in a while.
Frank Marchesini
October 2, 2002
To the Beyer Family,
I am glad that you made the decision to complete the dream house that you and Paul created. I am sure that it will serve as a constant reminder of what a great person he was.
Ann Marie Beyer
September 12, 2002
Being so far away a year ago when this tragedy happened, I didn't know anyone personally who was killed. But after watching the memorial yesterday and seeing someone with the same last name, I was overwhelmed with grief all over again. From one Beyer to another .... may God bless your family and continue to keep the memories of Paul in the forefront of your mind. My prayers are with your family and friends.
C.J. Woodring
August 29, 2002
Dear Paul,
Today I received my bracelet with your name on it. I liked the name, the one someone had selected to send me. And immediately I wanted to know about the person behind it. Who, exactly, was Paul Beyer?
I learned you are just a year older than my eldest son. I learned you have two sons, whereas I have three. And I know yours still miss you very much, as does your wife.
And I want you to know that as America stands poised to commemorate that infamous day in history, a majority of us left behind will not forget the lesson so many of you paid for with your lives.
You remain forever in our thoughts and prayers.
C.J. Woodring
Eustis, FL/Ft. Wayne, IN
Kathy Campbell
August 25, 2002
I will proudly wear this bracelet that bears Paul's name. Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss.
Sandy Schudel
August 25, 2002
From our family to yours. It's with the greatest of honor's,to wear this bracelet, of one of America's Finest. Our Prayers and thoughts are always with you the family, and Station # 6.
Josh Oliver
August 14, 2002
Iam extremely proud to wear the bracelet of one of our countries finest heroes...our thought and prayers will always be with your family,god bless you all from engine co. 6,Murfreesboro Tn.
Brenda Warner
August 8, 2002
Dear Arlene, Michael, And Shawn,
I received my memorial bracelet today with Paul's name on it. I have read the memorials about him from Engine 6 as well as the New York Times Portrait of Grief and was very touched by them. He was obviously a wonderful person.
My sympathy goes out to all of you in the loss of your husband and father. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Brenda Warner
Kevin Ruby
July 26, 2002
Arlene and children,
As a firefighter in the City of Hazleton Pa., I am very proud and honored to wear your husband and father bracelet, my prayers go out to you all. God Bless
Bennington Brian
July 2, 2002
***May God Bless and Watch over your family***
Michael Iezzi
May 21, 2002
Father we entrust our brother Paul to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
Norman Ellis
April 30, 2002
Arlene;
God Bless you & your family. I retired from FDNY & knew quite a few families that lost loved ones on 9/11. I lived on the same street as Paul & our son was one of Paul's best friends. We lost another one from our street too as you know. I also belonged to a club many years ago with your father.
Remember Paul was doing what he loved and died doing what he was trained to do. He is well remembered. Enjoy the home. And again, God Bless.
Roger Ellis
April 29, 2002
For the Beyer family, and all the families of the brothers we lost on 9-11. There is no greater love, than that of a man who would lay down his life for another.
Paul was one of those kinds of guys, having known him for over 30 years. We all will miss him.
God Bless us all, stay safe!
http://www.speedwayfire.8m.com
Angie Campbell
April 22, 2002
**********GOD BLESS YOU**********
Joyce Moody
March 23, 2002
I am extremely proud to wear this bracelet. He died a true hero and my thoughts and prayers go out to his wife and family.
Janea Peloquin
March 13, 2002
As a Firefighter in Atlanta Georgia, It is an honor to wear Mr. Beyer's 9/11 bracelet. His family will be in our prayers and I thank you so much Mr. Beyer for the ultimate sacrafice. With love from all of us at Douglas County Company 2 Winston Georgia.
Barbara Gillon
March 10, 2002
Clare,
What words can I say to you and your family that will ease your suffering?
I don't pretend to know your pain, but I do share in your sorrow.
I know that you are proud of Paul, for the way he lived and for how he died, giving his life to save others. But that doesn't make it any easier to accept.
I hope knowing that there are so many people praying for him, and for you and the rest of your family, will ease the pain somewhat.
Please know that I am praying for you too.
I hope you can feel God's arms around you right now.
Love, Barbara
ROBYN RUSSELL
March 10, 2002
I AM SO SORRY TO HERE ABOUT YOUR TRAGIC LOSS,IT IS MY GREAT HONOR TO WEAR PAUL BEYER'S BRACELET THAT I RECEIVED FROM ONE OF OUR LOCAL CHURCH'S. PLEASE E-MAIL ME IF YOU RECEIVE THIS MEMORIAL. ROBYN RUSSELL
Judy Cherbonneau
February 24, 2002
To The Beyer Family,
I have enclosed a portion of a poem, one of many I couldn't resist writing, since September 11. I hope you find some comfort from these words sent with love:
"The Days Have Been Long"
"I am sorry for the pain you've endured...I am sending my prayers, that is assured.
God welcomed your beloved Paul before that day was done...He now looks upon you, forgetting you none.
The Days Have Been Long...and what happened so wrong.
What I pray for...for you to go on...and savor the sunset and the new day's dawn.
Paul has shown us what makes a man a firefighter...There is nothing greater, no star that is brighter.
Look beyond today and I hope you will smile...as you walk along this difficult mile!"
God Bless you, the Family of Paul Beyer and Rest In Peace, Firefighter Paul Beyer!
Allison Eberle
February 14, 2002
Arlene, my thoughts are with you and your boys, Michael and Shawn, during this most difficult time. I say a prayer for you every time I pass your house. Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss!
Paul T. Devine
February 11, 2002
From one Paul to another, may God grant you His eternal love and peace.You are a hero and will never be forgotten. God bless your family. As a grandson of a former Boston firefighter, I salute you.
Sheri Schultz
January 17, 2002
Mrs.Beyer
Your husband is a hero in the eyes of me and my children. We know if it wasn't for men like your Paul our world would be a different place. Your children should be proud to have a father like him and I hope that one day when you have grandchildren they will also know what a man their grandfather was. God bless you and your family.
sharon kelly (bergh)
January 17, 2002
Arlene, My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family. God Bless Paul. Sharon
Teresa Jahn
January 8, 2002
We thank Paul very much for devoting his life to save lives, fight fires and care for others as a firefighter. Such a deep dedication comes with a brave, warm and caring heart. May Paul's courage, life and love live on in those who love him and in those who have been touched by his life. May warm memories of yesterday lighten the pain in your hearts. May you always feel the warmth of Paul's love radiate deep into your hearts especially when you close your eyes in the home made of love that he built for all of you. The maltese cross sounds like it will be a perfect carving in the chimney. We are deeply sorry for our nation's loss of Paul. Our hearts cry with you in America's loss of a hero.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Linda Roark
January 2, 2002
I hope you will finish the house and savor all the memories. God bless your family.
IRENE
December 7, 2001
GOD BLESS PAUL BEYER AND MAY HE REST
IN PEACE.GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND
FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA AND MAY WE
NEVER FORGET 9/11/01
Raquel Pidal
December 7, 2001
The students of Ursinus College send their thoughts and prayers to your family during the holiday season and always. God bless you.
Denise Hinson
December 1, 2001
God Bless you Mr Beyer and thank you
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