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Brian Bilcher Obituary
Captain America. That's what Tina Bilcher called her husband, Brian, a firefighter at Squad Company 1 in Brooklyn.
Firefighter Bilcher, 37, was a lot like the patriotic comic book superhero: calm, reasonable, good-looking and quick to the rescue of anyone who needed help.
Car stuck on the side of the road? There was Firefighter Bilcher. Feeling sick? Like a flash, Firefighter Bilcher was at your bedside. The man liked his adrenaline rushes, said his wife. "He once jumped off a lighthouse into the ocean," said Mrs. Bilcher. He even got her to jump with him.
She says now that she did it for love -- "I wanted to impress him."
A strapping 6 feet, 240 pounds, Firefighter Bilcher was working part-time as a bouncer at Coaches Cafe in Staten Island six years ago when Tina, two weeks shy of 21, showed up. He refused to let her in. He told her to come back in two weeks. She did. They talked. They were married June 4, 2000, in Staten Island. The wedding pictures show the twin towers in the background.
Grant James Bilcher was born Aug. 29. The couple named him Grant because he was a grant from God. "Brian always wanted a boy," his wife said.
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David
February 10, 2025
I may not have met Mr. Bilcher, but I am a longtime fan of first responders and I am so sorry that he is not with us anymore. However, I am proud that he came to as many rescues as he could when he was still living.
Thank you, Mr. Bilcher!
Judith Cherbonneau
June 5, 2023
Happy Angel Birthday, Brian. May God continue to bless your loved ones.
Ashley Martin
June 4, 2023
Hi there. I didn't know Brian, but I'm going to ground Zero tomorrow (for the first time) I'm from the west coast, I wanted to pay my respects. I was reading names, when Brian's name popped up. Then I realized as I read his life story, his anniversary to his wife was June 4th-- today is June 4th! Quite the coincidence. Wishing much care and well wishes to Tina and Grant.
Judith Cherbonneau
September 2, 2021
God bless you, Brian and your family. You will never be forgotten, no matter how many years go by.
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Cindy Roe
September 1, 2021
Remembering Brian on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
Bee
September 15, 2020
I read this and think you must have been a stand up guy to turn away the pretty lady trying to get into the bar. That is a great love story, I am so sorry it was cut short. Thank you for your service!
Del Newberry
November 17, 2017
Thanks for your service as a first responder. Praying today for your many friends and family. With love from Texas,
Judy Cherbonneau
September 12, 2015
Thinking of you on this 14th Anniversary and am grateful to know you are resting in peace, in Heaven. My continued deepest condolences to your family and friends.
September 11, 2015
Never Forget! Thoughts are with your family and friends.
Judy Cherbonneau
December 3, 2014
Rest in peace, Brian and may God continue to comfort your family.
Robert Fox
December 1, 2014
I just watched U2's Superbowl halftime performance, and your name jumped out at me on the screen. Thank you Brian Bilcher, and God Bless your family
Red Knights NC-6 Memorial 343 Ride, Wilmington NC
September 16, 2013
Red Knights 343 Annual Memorial Ride, Wilmington NC
Pam Palmer
September 16, 2013
Yesterday 9/15/13 I rode my Harley for you, and proudly wore your dog tag. Red Knight NC-6 343 Memorial Ride, Wilmington NC. Over 400 bikes in memory of the 343. My God Bless your family.
Barbara Boam
April 16, 2013
I walked a mile for you (mile #192) on 3/19/13 as a dedication to your life.
Judy Cherbonneau
January 27, 2013
God bless you, Brian and may he continue to care for your family and other loved ones. Rest in peace, Brian.
never forget 911 fallen hero 's
Barbie Dunn
January 26, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
January 26, 2013
Thank you for all your service. May God bless your family always.
Ringing the bell at the finish for FF Bilcher
Jennie Miller
September 12, 2012
I completed the 9-11 Memorial Stair Climb in Richmond, VA on Sunday 9-9-12. I was honored to be able to wear a badge with FF Bilcher on it. We will never forget!
Joe Abbate
September 12, 2012
On this eleventh anniversary of 9/11 I just wanted to leave a note to say you are well remembered.. I barely got to know you before you were taken away, but I knew how good a man you were and such a proud new father.
Special prayers for Tina and your son.. God Bless you
Judy Cherbonneau
September 7, 2012
A hero is someone who puts the safety of others ahead of their own. Thank God for heroes like you, Brian and all those who saved thousands of strangers eleven years ago. Rest in peace with God.
January 24, 2012
To The Bilcher Family,
Simply put, Firefighter Bilcher and his fellow firefighters who died on 9/11 were all "courageous heros." I did have the privilege of meeting a few before the tragedy struck. When God brings them all back to life with the hope of never dying again our tears of grief with be turned into tears of joy. May God bring you the comfort that you need.
Sincerely,
Mr. Terry of NC
Terri Jackson
September 17, 2011
Tomorrow I'm riding in the 343 memorial ride, which is a local motorcycle ride that I participate in to honor the 343 fire fighters that lost their lives on 9/11. I received my dog tag with the name Brian Bilcher on it and I wanted to be able to put the name with a face. I truly feel now I know Brian and what a wonderful person he was. So tomorrow, it will be Brian and I on my motorcycle and I hope he will enjoy the ride. God bless the family of this wonderful hero.
Linda Colandrea
September 11, 2011
RIP Brian.
The start of the 9-11 stair climb 2011
Brittani Weber
September 11, 2011
Today I did the 9-11 stair climb in COLORADO, and upon arrival I recieved a sticker to wear on my shirt with BRIAN BILCHER on it, along with his picture! I was honoring all the heros of 9-11, but I felt like i was climbing for BRIAN! Thank you for being so BRAVE and god bless your family and friends!
Greg Moore
September 11, 2011
10 years gone by my friend, still hurts but I still love telling stories about you and Lake Powell.
I miss you my friend, I miss you.
I thank God for all the good times we shared - I just wish we could share some more.
Anthony Rocco
September 11, 2011
I met Brian when we both worked at J.C.Penny. We worked on the same crew together,,i remember how funny he was and a great guy.Lost touch with him after we left the job,but think about him every day,,R.I.P. my old friend
Kerri Spotts
September 9, 2011
Well Cuz it's been 10 years...your memory is stronger than ever! We continually talk about you and reflect on ALL our good times.
You are missed deeply..but you live on in your son...you would be so proud.
Thanks for years of laughter and memories...Kerri
Me and My son Keegan,
renee lombard
July 4, 2011
You are just like part of the family to me, you are greatly missed. i remember when you came home to digby ns. to stay at kingslees cottage and we played a game in the dark called man hunt.. all of us kids would dress up in black clothes and run around hiding in the field and u had eyes like a hawk u would find us soo easy lol.. one of my best memories of you. Our family loves u and misses you soo much xoxo, always in our hearts
February 5, 2011
never met you brian. love to have met all your buddies from your fire house. r i p brian and your buddies
Gregory Moore
September 12, 2010
Nine years gone by - nine years too many. Your love of life continues to be an inspiration to me and so many you touched.
I still feel you around me - watching, laughing, smiling. Thank you brother for continuing to be a part of my life.
Heidi
September 11, 2010
Brian,
We never met. I don't know your family or friends. But, your memory lives on with me as I remember you and your sacrifice every day. For the past nine years I have worn a silver bracelet with your name it to remind me that there are heroes in America and you are one of them.
God bless you and your family.
Heidi Lange
Bobbie Hurley
September 7, 2010
Your light will shine forever.
Bobbie Hurley (Sollazzi)
Judy Cherbonneau
September 6, 2010
Brian,
You were and always will be one of America's heroes. You will forever be in my thoughts and prayers as well as your beloved family.
Judy
September 29, 2009
Brian : I always admired the way you used to work out in your back yard & since mine was next door to yours i would always try to make small talk. I always thought you were a cool neighbor, I just wish i would have tried to get to know you better. I had no idea i was living next to a "TRUE AMERICAN HERO " Miss seeing you in the back yard buddy! God bless you and your family especially your little boy...Alex Staten Island ,NY
Kelly
September 11, 2009
Brian, I will always have a place in my heart for you. Till we meet again, love always Kelly
September 11, 2009
I love you and miss you. Cousin Darcy
Heidi
September 11, 2009
We never met. We never knew each other, but I have worn a silver bracelet with your name on it everyday for the past eight years. God Bless you and your family. Thank you for being our hero.
Travis Hayden
April 2, 2009
Dear FF Bilcher and his family,
For the past few years the city of Denver and all the surrounding fire departments climb 110 flights of stairs in memory of the fallen brothers. Each participant is given a picture to honor as we climb. I still carry that picture with me with pride. I finally have a chance to make it out to New York. I was trying to find a way to meet the family and pay tribute. It will be the second week of April 2009.
Doug Abraham
December 31, 2008
Happy belated Birthday & Happy New Years!!!
Kelly
November 28, 2008
Brian, like all the other entries... you are truly missed. You are thought about often. We had 4 years together that I can hold in my heart. I remember all the special times we shared that no one can ever take away from me. I loved you with all my heart & soul. I pray for you and your family - one day we'll all see you again!
Cheryl Witkowski
September 12, 2008
7 years -- feels like just yesterday at times....you are truly missed and I think of you every day as my Path train pulls into the site; everything comes rushing back to that horrific day. Please watch over all of us.
Joe Rossi
September 12, 2008
Hey, Brian....can't belive its been 7 years already. I miss the days at Coach's bouncing, hanging out, and the BBQ's, or the diner after a night at the bar. I still think of you and all that were lost that day. You are a true hero....before and after that horrible day! See you soon.
Andy Edmonds
September 11, 2008
Dude,
You are missed everyday by a lot people. I must say my memories of our time togther are some of my best. I really miss ya buddy. I can only hope that all the Bilchers are doing okay.
I am sure you are keeping an eye out for all of us. and I hope we meet again someday in a better place.
Andy
Bobbie Hurley (Sollazzi)
September 11, 2008
Hi Brian...7 years! So hard to beleive. It's like it was yesterday for so many of us. I pray you are in a better place and being the hero you always were in heaven too. Please take care of my cousin Susan, she is a handful. You will never be forgotten and we will all be together again one day.
Love Bobbie
Jena
September 11, 2008
Just thinking of you on your 7th anniversary in heaven, you are missed and never will be forgotten!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you are in my thoughts and prayers always ! keep a watch on us all down here Brian!
Judy Cherbonneau
September 10, 2008
Tomorrow will be the 7th Anniversary since you left to live in Heaven, Brian. You are in a better place as you so well deserve to be. Your loved ones, family, friends and those of us who never had a chance to meet you will all be reunited one day. I am confident you are making preparations for us all and will make our trip to Heaven a blessed event. I sent your Mom and Dad another card, this year as I always do on this sad day. Your folks and you are never far from my thoughts.
Love
Judy Cherbonneau
NH
August 6, 2008
Thinking of you... always.
Christopher Krachie
June 13, 2008
As years go by that you have left us you are not forgotten you are always in my thoughts and prayers and for those people you save on that terrible day you will always be in there hearts too. You are still a great person even though you are not here. MISS YOU LOTZ
larry mann
May 28, 2008
you are always in my thoughts and prayers miss you every day. we worked together for years and i miss those times.
Bobbie Hurley
September 13, 2007
Sorry this is 2 days late. I have a hard time as do so many others, coping with what happened 6 years ago. It still seems like yesterday.
I, as always, printed up your name and Squad and hung it on my door along with the Amercian flag in your honor. It is still so hard to beleive you are not with us anymore Brian. I think about you and your family alot and I hope they are doing okay. God only takes the best. Until we meet again, God Bless You and I know you are watching over all of us.
Love,
Bobbie
Erin Kafel
September 12, 2007
For the first time in 6 years I missed the reading of your name today. It really upset me. But then I looked down at my wrist, and read your name myself. Your name hasn't left my wrist in almost 6 years- not even when I have to get formally dressed. My son, (now almost 6 like your own son) recently asked me why my bracelet can't come off. So I explained to him that it could if I wanted it to, but the name I wear on my wrist belongs to a hero- much like his own FDNY firefighter daddy and I won't let it come off. I told him all about you, and how you were a hero long before September 11th. I told him about how you used to call his daddy "PROBY" to bust his chops way back when- and although my son didn't fully understand what I was saying to him- it made me happy to be able remember you with a smile instead of a tear. Today was a rough one- it always is. It always will be. I look at your face in the picture posted on this site- so gentle- so proud... and in my mind I can imagine this picture uncropped- and can tell by the look on your face that your son was in your arms when it was taken. It comforts me to know that the child that bears your name will carry on your Super Hero legacy- Captain America hasn't died- he's just passed the torch. God Bless You, Brian.
Elise Crapser
August 29, 2007
I drive the Garden State Parkway every day to work. I see a pickup truck each day with your name across the back window and decided to finally look you up today. God Bless you and your family.
Andy
August 25, 2007
I miss ya buddy. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you and your family. I saw a 69 GTO yesterday. It looked just like the one you owned once.
Andy
Edie
February 20, 2007
Its been all this time B..I couldn't come to terms with this..we were so totally like brother and sister. Real Estate partners/Acting school together if it wasn't one thing it was another..From party to party with all the boys from Wave street to just hangin at my house we were always on the go. You just always found it funny when you yelled hey "babbbbeee" and I would run and Jump on ya. There wasn't a time place or party that we didn't go to together..These were our early stages of hanging out and creating havoc..I still remember us at the real estate office just goofing on everyone in that place as if they were all going to be Donald Trump or something..WOW ..did we even know trump? God how I miss you there isn't a day that doesn't go by that I don't think about you..I'll love ya forever my bro..Luv Ya Little E
Kristine
October 24, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Cheryl
September 12, 2006
It has been 5 years now since that horrible day. I still can't believe that you are gone. Grant looks just like you. I remember all the times you let me into Wave Street for free even when it was crowded. I remember how much fun we all had at your and Tina's wedding and how much wine we consummed at our table. You are missed beyond words. God Bless you and watch over us all.
Heinrich Funkenberg
September 12, 2006
I'm a Paramedic from Germany. I pray for you and your family.
I#ll never forget this day.
Bobbie Hurley
September 12, 2006
I thought of you yesterday, alot. I listened to all the names read and when I heard yours, I cried. Brian, you did not deserve what happened to you. No one did. You were an exceptional human being with so much love to give. But you will forever be in our hearts and always be remembered as our hero. I hope Tina and Grant are okay, well, I know they are because you are watching over them. God Bless You Brian.
Bobbie
BOB
September 11, 2006
GOD BLESS YOU
E M
September 11, 2006
Always on our mind
Julie McDonald
September 11, 2006
Even though I never knew you, you are the name on my 9/11 bracelet. After reading some of the tributes to you over the weekend, I thought about how much you would have enjoyed the Colts/Giants game last night. I hope your wife, son, and family find peace in knowing that there are many people who may have never met you, but are thinking of you today.
Rosie Burrell
September 11, 2006
Brian,
I am a music major at the University of the Pacific in California, and we are doing a September 11 memorial concert to honor the lost and the living. We are singing Mozart's Requiem, and our professor told us to pick a hero and sing for him. I am singing today for you, Brian. My heart goes out to you and your family, they must be so proud to have known you. We are all with you today
Always, Rosie Burrell
P Tabbernor
August 24, 2006
In memory....
James Johnson
September 11, 2005
God Bless You...
Erin Kafel
April 25, 2005
Dear Brian,
I wear your name upon my wrist. It's been there for years. It has become a conversation piece, sort of like a beautiful arrangement of flowers on your dining room table. I never intended it to be that way- it was supposed to be just for me. But I have since realized that every time my "conversation piece" strikes up a conversation, I get to talk about what a wonderful man you really were. The warm weather now upon us only reminds me of the warmth that you showed us all. You were my honorary big brother, and yet a friend even more so. I'm so grateful that you were my friend, and I know that I share that honor with many, many people. My memory is long, and is so happy that you are a part of it. I know that you are watching over us all in heaven as you did here on earth. Our very own Captain America. God bless you, as well as your wife and son and family. You are in our daily thoughts and prayers. Your smile and humor will be with us always. God Bless You!!
JUDY HOLMAN
February 15, 2005
DEAR BRIAN, YOU ARE GONE FROMUS BUT YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
DOT AND WILBUR'S DAUGHTER,JUDY
Kyle Bilcher
March 9, 2004
Brian, I miss you so much. I think about you every day. You are my hero.
~N~
September 12, 2003
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY IN HEAVEN ANGEL. I KNOW YOU'RE SMILIN DOWN ON EVERYONE WHO LOVES & MISSES YOU. I READ THE ARTICLE ABOUT THE QUILT TINA HAD MADE FOR GRANT. THAT IS A BEAUTIFUL BOY YOU GOT THERE. HE'S GONNA BE PROUD TO SAY HE HAS A DADDY LIKE YOU. GIVE US ALL THE STRENGTH TO MOVE ON... HUGS & KISSES
Christopher Krachie
September 11, 2003
I met Brian through my uncle and after that we will always have fun when he came around. He always called me a cagaroach and i thought it was funny so i let him call me it. I will never forget him he was a great man and i pay tribute to all of those involved
September 11, 2003
God bless. Imet Brian several ties as a bouncer/fireman through my friend Jimmy Andruzzi. He drove me to Pitt. Pa. to see Jimmy's brother play football for he Packer's at thwt time. I'll never forget... NEVER!!! God bless you Tina, I also met you that morning befor taking off for the game. I just want to let you know that he has not been forgotten and NEVER will.
Bob Lombardo
A.K.A Bomba
Dina Lianis
February 3, 2003
Brian
i had the pleasure of meeting your
wife Tina and your son Grant on a family vacation. Please know that I was truly saddened to hear of your loss. May you always watch over those that were dear to you, and coninue to touch the lives of those around you. May God bless you and your family. Thank you for being a Hero everyday of your life.
November 28, 2002
Happy Thanksgiving Brian... Thoughts and prayers are with you & your family this holiday season. Continue to watch over us & be the angel that you are. You are forever our hero.
Patricia Quinn
October 15, 2002
Dear Brian: You will never know or maybe you do -- by looking down from heaven -- how I felt about our friendship -- and how much I miss it now that you are gone. I want for the longest time to see your family, wife, and son and see how they are doing and if they need everything. To everyone reading this -- I met Brian when I was 19 years old trying in the worse way to get into Wave Street and Brian who was one year old than me -- checking i.d. to get into the club. For a girl at that age, it was very stressful thinking how to get into a club every week -- but if it wasn't for me being so young at that time -- I never would of met a great friend as Brian was. I will always remember calling him every year for his birthday and him still not believing I would remember. To his wife Tina, and son, Grant, may you always have the beautiful memories that you have of Brian and sharing with Grant how fortunate he is to say that Brian is his father and letting him see what a great, helpful, caring, fun, great achiever and hardworker that his father was.
Cheryl Augustyne
September 14, 2002
I was at Angel's Circle on Sept 11th, 2002 for a memorial service for our friend's and loved ones. At about 9:30pm, a super loud noise turned everyone's heads. Up rode about 200 Harley Davidsons followed by 25-30 Corvettes. It was a touching tribute in a manly type of way, and it brought a smile to my lips and a tear to my eye at the same time. By the end of the night, I found out they were there for a FF named Brian Bilcher. I thought to myself, he must of have been a cool guy.
September 12, 2002
Thoughts & prayers for your family, Tina & your son... We are all blessed to have you as our hero.
Judy Cherbonneau
September 8, 2002
Dear Brian,
FDNY Captain Fred Ill's sister sent me this verse she saw on a card that had an angel on it. I think it is beautiful and wanted to share it with you and your family.
"Perhaps...
they are not the stars
but rather openings in heaven
where the love of our lost ones
shines down to let us know
they are with us."
I truly believe in the wonders of the heavens and I love to look at the stars and think about the heroes who sacrificed their lives so others could live on September 11, 2001.
I know you are resting, in peace, with God and I want you to know your family will not be forgotten.
Love Judy
JACQUELINE JONES
September 3, 2002
BRIAN,YOU ARE A MAN A VERY BRAVE MAN IT TAKES ALOT TO GIVE YOUR LIFE TO RESCUE OTHERS.THE PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD ARE LUCKY TO HAVE PEOPLE LIKE YOU.GOD BLESS YOU.
J C
August 11, 2002
Dear Brian,
The sky is brilliant and blue, much like it was on September 11. There never will be a clear autumn day, with the sky radiating in deep blue, that I will not think of you and the other innocent souls who perished on September 11.
God Bless your family and may your spirit live within those who knew and loved you so much.
Rest In Peace, Brian!
John Gleason
June 11, 2002
I will always remember Brian for he is forever edged in our hearts
JOHN&BONNIE Gleason
Louisa Maisto
March 30, 2002
I was Brian's Massage Therapist. I met him when I first began working in a tanning Salon many years ago. When I opened my own practice, he became my steady client. Usually calling me when he was hurting from some crazy stunt, or working out too hard. Brian was a kind soul, but very big,,so I would cringe when he made an appointment, knowing I would be exhausted afterwards. He seemed like a free spirit until the love of his life Tina appeared. He brought her for a massage, and I could see the the way she adored him too. I was deeply sorry to hear of his loss, and send my deepest sympathy to Tina and her son. If you read this Tina, there is always a spot in my appointment book for you.
Love Louisa
Debbie
March 28, 2002
I ordered a 911 Bracelet and I received one with Brian's name on it. Even though I never knew Brian, I will proudly wear this bracelet in honoring not only Brian, but all the hero's of that tragic day in history. I want to express my sincere sympathy to Brian's family and friends.
Kathleen
March 17, 2002
I first met Brian over 17 years ago while he was working as a bouncer here on Staten Island. We became and remained friends until I moved to Florida a few years later. We lost touch for a while but then ran into each other again in a Florida bar (of all places). I was about to move back to S.I. so he gave me his number and told me to get in touch with him once I was back. After getting settled, I called and he invited me to go to LBI with him and a few of his friends. That's when I met Tina. We immediately hit it off and have been great friends ever since.
Brian and Tina were made for each other. He was her rock and she was his angel. And together they produced the most adorable baby. I miss Brian terribly and think about him often. I know he is with Tina and Grant each and every day, watching over them and protecting them.
I hope God takes good care of you, Brian, and eases the pain and suffering that your family and friends have been forced to endure. You will always be in my heart and the hearts of everyone whose lives you touched. You are deeply missed!
Judy Cherbonneau
February 24, 2002
To The Bilcher Family,
"The days have been long, and what happened so wrong.
What I pray for...for you to go on and savor the sunset and the new day's dawn.
Brian showed us what makes a man a firefighter, there is nothing greater, no star that is brighter.
Look beyond today and I hope you will smile, as you walk along this most difficult mile."
The days have been long, the nights have been longer, but I hope you are stronger.
Peace and love I send you this day...I know it is surely God's way"
This is a small portion of a poem I wrote in honor of the FDNY's bravest and their families. I hope the words bring you some peace and hope!
Barbara Lang
February 20, 2002
Dear Irene and Miles: I had the great pleasure to meet you today and to share in your grief and your joy in the memory of your son..You are wonderful people...the world crys out why when we see so many great Heroes like your son lost in such a spiteful act...Our prayers are with you always...Sincerely, Barbara
Paul T. Devine
February 11, 2002
May God bless you and keep you Brian. We know the world will never forget people like you. You are a hero in every sense of the word.I am the grandson of a deceased Boston firefighter.
Andria
January 17, 2002
Brian was a damn fine man.
Teresa Jahn
January 8, 2002
We are deeply sorry for our nation's loss of Brian. We thank him for dedicating his life to help save, rescue and care for others as a firefighter. Such a profession comes with a brave, warm and caring heart. May Brian's courage, zest for life and love (along with his sense of adventure at lighthouses) continue living in those who love him and in those who have been touched by his life. May warm memories of times shared with Brian lighten the sorrow in your hearts. Our hearts cry deeply with you in America's loss of a hero.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Bobbie Sollazzi
December 29, 2001
Brian's wife Tina was my Step-Daughter for 12 years and I remember when they met. Tina and Brian were meant to be from day 1. Brian was loving, caring and always there to help no matter what. Tina was the same way and still is. I never met two people more suited for one another. There is a feeling inside of me that tells me I am so happy to have known Brian, and another part that says I wish I had known him better. He was the type of man everyone wanted to have in their life. Brian will always be with us, but I know in my heart he is with Tina and Grant every minute of everyday doing what he did best. Watching over those he loved most. May God be with Tina, grant and all of Brian's family and friends.
GLORIA WIESNER
December 20, 2001
FOR BRIAN,
YOU ARE IN THE HEARTS OF SO MANY PEOPLE,OUR FAMILY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU.OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO TO YOUR FAMILY.MAY THE WORLD FOREVER KNOW, WHAT A BEAUTIFUL PERSON YOU WERE.YOU WILL BE FOREVER MISSED.BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN.
Cheryl Hafner
December 16, 2001
May you always somehow know,the many lives you have touched.For it is Heroes such as You, that make us a shadow in your ray of courage. Know that the Ray will forever shine like an eternal flame in all the hearts of mankind.......God Bless you.
lynn Garcia
December 14, 2001
To our Family Hero,
Words will ever express the profound grief and sadness that we all have knowing we will never be able to see you again... in this life . May God shine his love upon you.Our prayers and thoughts wil be with you always Thank you for the terrific memories of a great person. OUR SPECIAL HERO!!
IRENE
December 7, 2001
GOD BLESS YOU BRIAN BILCHER AND MAY
YOU REST IN PEACE.GOD BLESS YOUR
FAMILY AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA
AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01
Kathleen Battersby
December 5, 2001
Everyone who died in the events of September 11th are in my prayers daily. I wear the Tribute bracelet with Brian Bilcher's name on it everyday.Wearing this bracelet gives me courage and reminds me how lucky I am to be here on this earth. Brian, you are a hero and I will always remember you.
Barbara Harrenstein
November 28, 2001
Brian, thank you. You are a hero, and a true Christian to offer your life in order to save others. I'm sure God has blessed you and that you sit in Heaven with The Lord.
I pray everyday for those you left behind. May God bless them and grant them peace.
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