Michael T. Carroll

Michael T. Carroll

Michael Carroll Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 13, 2001.
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Over at the Ladder 3 firehouse, none of the coffee cups have handles. It's one of the many legacies of Michael Carroll, 39, who spent 16 years there. The other firefighters are not sure why he started snapping off the handles, but just like his other habits, it could not be stopped. He also cut a hole in the wall between the ladder company's dormitory and a room reserved for the aide who drives the local battalion chief around. Late at night, if the ladder company answered an alarm and the aide stayed in bed, Firefighter Carroll would reach through the hole, open a dresser drawer and slam it, just to let the aide know they had returned.

"He was an incredible teacher for the younger firemen," said Pat Murphy, whose idea of torture was speaking to school groups touring the firehouse — until Firefighter Carroll helped him.

Michael Carroll drove the truck to the fires, coached his son, Brendan, in baseball and doted on his wife, Nancy, and daughter, Olivia. He was "great, great and great," said his friend Gerard Brenkert.

During the blizzard of 1996, he was heading uptown from New York Hospital after his father had surgery there.

"On every other corner, there was a poor soul looking for a cab," said Nancy Amigron, his sister. One by one, Firefighter Carroll picked up the snow-covered New Yorkers and drove them home. "We were so relieved about my father that we would have driven anybody to California," said Mrs. Amigron, who is planning to send some new coffee cups — without handles — to Ladder 3.

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September 8, 2021

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September 4, 2021

Meredith Olson posted to the memorial.

Donna Kane

September 8, 2021

**Thinking of You**

Maryann Busardo

September 7, 2021

A true hero that will never be forgotten. Rest In Peace Michael.

Meredith Olson

September 4, 2021

RIP, Mike Carroll!!!

Cindy Roe

September 3, 2021

Remembering Michael on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....

Val Miller

September 3, 2021

Hi Michael
Thinking of you as always. Sending peace & love to your family. Miss you very much.

Sharron Carman-Sellick

September 3, 2021

Another year passed and still the memories of that dreaded day linger
You are missed Michael, but remembered everyday by your beautiful family and the many special friends you left behind.. The memories of that day are still haunting, but I take comfort in knowing you are in a better place with those that left before and after you! Keep watching over your beautiful family! Keep sending those strong meaningful signs. Please know you are missed by many and we are all grateful for the strong caring person you were. As always, we thank you for the service you gave, as you left behind a beautiful legacy. God Bless you, your family and the many other heroes that perished on 9/11 and after.. Until we meet again my friend, you are forever in our hearts!! ❤❤

Nancy Nix

September 2, 2021

I bet you are so proud of your family- you are missed but never forgotten. I'm sorry this happened to you.
But your kids are amazing! You see that right... Amazing! How strong she is... Amazing! You share in that don't you... Amazing.. This is a difficult time for all of us - we miss you, we honor you and we will never, never forget you.

Del Newberry

November 28, 2019

We will never forget that day when so many heroes slipped into eternity. Praying today for Michael's many friends and family. We thank him for his service and want you to know that he is not forgotten.

Nancy Russell

September 11, 2019

Today I honor your fearless soul. Your courage will never be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers always remain with you and your loving family.

May 14, 2019

You were always so much more to me than a cousin. Happy Birthday. Timbo

Random KCAL news flash showing Michael's name

Donna Kane

September 14, 2018

Michael keeps showing up on the West Coast. Very odd situations. A Friend of mine (here on the West Coast) was fast forwarding a video of people reading off names of the victims at this year's 17th anniversary @ Ground Zero. It was a 33 minute long video. He randomly stopped the video just when Michael's name was being read and his name plate appeared on the screen. And, again, on the same day, another Friend of mine (on the West coast) was watching the 9pm news and spotted Michael's name plate on the news -- she took a snap shot of it and I've attached the pic. I found a feather too this week. I believe when I find a feather (and I find ALOT of feathers) it's Michael's way of letting me know he's watching over me and my Husband Timmy Kane (Michael's 1st counsin). ~Michael; I think about you a lot and introduce you to people all of the time; miss you & love you. Your Cousin by Marriage ~Donna Kane

Maryann Busardo

September 12, 2018

A real hero. Remembering Michael and his family.

Eileen Carroll

September 12, 2018

Love you Michael! Your sister, Ei

Nancy Nix

September 11, 2018

Thinking of you & your family and honoring your ultimate sacrifice. All men are created equal, then a few special ones become a firemen.

May 14, 2018

Happy Birthday. Always remembering you. Timbo

January 30, 2018

Miss you every day! ei

Meredith Olson

September 13, 2016

To the family of Michael T. Carroll. I purchased a flag from a traveling 9/11 memorial exhibition. Each flag has a yellow ribbon with the name, age, city, and location on 9/11. I fly his flag every 9/11; and numerous times during the year! He was flying on the 11th!!! God Bless!!!

Reading Michael's name 9/11/15

Donna Kane

May 15, 2016

Hi Michael. It was your Birthday yesterday. I still feel so proud to be one of the people that got to spend the day with you at the Firehouse on 5/14/01 (your 39th Birthday). That was such a special day for me and Timmy. We went on 2 ride alongs on Ladder 3 with you at the helm. I still have the official uniform shirt that you were wearing that day that you took off and gave to me. I have never washed it. I've attached a pic of me wearing it at last years 9-11 memorial. I got to read your name and several other names at Ground Zero. I love you and miss you everyday. Love always, Donna Kane

SGM ANTHONY J CARROLL (U.S. ARMY - RETIRED)

April 23, 2016

You and your family will always be in my daily thoughts and prayers. Gone but never forgotten....

Sharron Sellick

September 13, 2015

Another year gone by, and still that day is etched in my memory as if it happened yesterday. Just want you to know Mike your thought of everyday. You have touched so many lives with your beautiful soul. You leave behind a beautiful family and many friends that will forever keep your memory alive. Keep that spiritual connection active my friend! We all know you surround friends & family daily...Much love to you and Mr. C...until we all meet again, your forever in our hearts...

Linda Kane

September 11, 2015

I'm thinking a lot about you Mike. And Uncle Bill. Lately. The great childhood memories up in Massa. Crazy fun at the river . Trying to stay up all night to see the sunrise ,sleeping on the " shelf " with all the cousins listing to Led Zeppelin or Elton John. Nothing can take away the great memories. Nothing can take away that feeling of love and oneness we all shared with you. Love will always be. It is everlasting. We are so blessed to have love in our life's every day. I always feel your love Mike. Thanks
I hope all of your family are feeling your love every day too!, I am always wishing happiness for them all. Cousin Linda

Maryann Busardo

September 11, 2015

We think of you often, especially on this solemn day. You will always be a hero to us.

Maryann, John & Jonathan Busardo

June 2, 2015

Thanks for the dream. I still wear the shirt you gave me with pride and I still have your picture in my wallet. Always. Timbo

May 14, 2015

Thinking of you, my beautiful cousin, on your birthday.

Val Miller

September 15, 2014

Dear Mike
Thinking of you today. It is an extra special day because it 's
Matts' B'day!
May today and the days to come bring peace and calm to your family.
Miss and love you much,
Val
Xox

Sharron Sellick

September 12, 2014

Your legacy lives on... RIP my friend. Gone, but never ever forgotten... Until we meet again!

N. Nix

September 11, 2014

To the entire Fox-Carroll Family,
My thoughts surround you today - and those that will follow. It's a fearful thing to love what death can touch. We shall remain grateful for his way, his legacy, his kindness, his humor, his relationships, his love of life, family and friends. My thoughts and Prayers surround you all!

Cathy Baker

September 11, 2014

My workout tonight was to honor the 343 fallen firefighters... Michael was my motivation to make it through my workout...I will never forget his name...God bless all his family

Maryann Busardo

September 11, 2014

Love and prayers are sent you and your family, we will always remember you.


Love, Maryann,John & Jonathan Busardo

Val Miller

May 15, 2014

HI MIKE
Thinking of you on this special day today - 911 Museum is open. Always praying for many peaceful moments for your entire family. Miss you very much and love you .
Always,
VAL

September 11, 2013

September 11, 2013

Thinking of you.....

Nancy Nix

September 11, 2013

May this infamous day, etched in our memories, sensitize us to work for a world of justice and PEACE.

May evil find no place in this world and hatred be banned forever.

Let America and freedom stand strong, as the fallen are remembered for a Blessing.

With Prayers of Love to you and your family.

September 11, 2013

Michael...you are always in out hearts and prayers...with Love..Joanne,Fred,Lisa,Deb,Ron,Chris and Michelle

September 11, 2013

Michael.......always in our hearts and prayers...Joanne,Fred,Deb,Ron,Lisa,Chris and Michelle

Val Miller

September 11, 2013

Dear Mike
I miss you very much. Thinking
of you today and always. I know you and your Dad will
watch over your family and keep them peaceful.
All my Love Always-
Val

Susane Berg

September 11, 2013

For those of us who watched Michael grow up in 1646 First Avenue this is always a day of remembrance, gratitude and deep respect. Michael, our thoughts are always with you and your loving family. God bless.

Maureen Guarcello

September 11, 2013

Michael, I reflected upon your memorial tile today at the University of San Diego. You are not forgotten, rather deeply discovered.
With love and peace.

September 11, 2013

I want to thank all our friends and family who wish us well every single year. I love you all! Eileen

September 11, 2013

Thinking of you and dad today. So happy you are together and thanks to our Sharron we know you are happy. Love you - give dad a big kiss for me! e

Maryann Busardo

September 11, 2013

Dear Carroll Family,

Just remembering Michael and his family on this day. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Love,
Maryann, John & Jonathan Busardo

Tara Carman

September 10, 2013

Mike,
Remembering you this week and every single day of the week. Eileen and I talk for hours about you. Your family and friends miss you horribly. You are the epitome of a hero. I know you wouldnt have it any other way...Bless you Mike. Give Big Billy a kiss for me. xoxoxo

Sharron Sellick

May 15, 2013

I know you and your Dad are together and well..and I know you are both watching over your family...I shared your message...Thank you for trusting I would...:)

May 14, 2013

Hey Michael...
Thanks for the message! We love you! e

March 15, 2013

Today is a bad day. I wish we could be together and talk. I really miss u Mike.

Val Miller

September 14, 2012

Always thinking of you Michael.
I know you send strength
and comfort to your family. Miss you & love you,
Val
XOXO

Mary Carroll-Bower

September 11, 2012

Always in our Memory Michael T. Carroll and your heroic Day. Always prayers for your family at this time.

September 11, 2012

Dear Carroll Family,

Our thoughts and prayers today as we remember Michael and his family on this day 9/11/12.

Love,
Maryann, John & Jonathan Busardo

June 6, 2012

To The Family,
In reading the obituary it didn't surprise me that one of Firefighter Carroll's fine qualities was that of helping others. This is how he died, attempting to help others in trying to save their lives. No matter what others may think, I believe that all FDNY Firefighters are " Heroes." Please accept my deepest thoughts of sympathy in the loss of your loved one.

Sincerely,
Mr. Terry of NC

Simon Moss

September 11, 2011

I am a FF from Colorado and each year we climb 110 stories to remember your sacrifice and those of your brothers 10 years ago. This year I had the honor of carrying your picture with me as I climbed. We will never forget

BRIAN DONOHUE

September 11, 2011

I remeber playing ball and hanging with you in TRI FAITH like it was yesterday.RIP

Susan Mulvey

September 11, 2011

Dear Nancy and the Carroll family,

Remembering Mike, remembering his wonderful laugh. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Eddie & Mike will forever be in our hearts.

Fritz Gaspard

September 11, 2011

The wrong-footed lay-ups with the toe drag of the back foot belied your knowledge of the game and the perfect form on every other skill. The great games of H-O-R-S-E will never leave my consciousness. Oh, how I knew I'd better master your favorite move: the Pete Maravich behind the back off-the-dribble flip, catch with the same hand, reverse lay-up. I still can't spin it on my index finger like you could. As the center on your team, I got an early bird's-eye view of the right way to play the point.

On the baseball diamond, my center-field position provided the ultimate vantage point for your text-book play at short. The glove stayed down on all grounders and no throw was ever rushed.

I was heartened to learn from your FDNY brothers that your propensity for a little mischief was intact at the end. It made the 25 years between '76 and '01 seem
irrelevant to the forging of your personality. I only recently learned that you were lost on that fateful day. My younger brother instantly recognized your photo on a 9/11 site. He was only 9 the last time we saw you; you were 14. When he called me with the news, I scoured the web for info. Upon finding the Sports Illustrated piece, my pervading thought was that A.E. Housman foretold your story with "To an Athlete Dying Young."

Elise Charest

September 11, 2011

Dear Carroll Family,

Michael is in my thoughts today, the 10th Anniversary of 9/11. I think of him often as I remember our childhood and growing up together. He was a kind, gentle, smart, playful, wonderful boy who grew into a great man. He is sorely missed and will be remembered always with the greatest respect.

Sharron Sellick

September 11, 2011

Thinking of you on this special day, and sending love and prayers to you and your family! RIP Michael.. Gone, but never ever forgotten...<3

LindaWayne Spearnak

September 10, 2011

On this anniversary, remembering a fine son, father, brother, uncle, cousin and outstanding FDNY member.

Mary Carroll-Bower

September 9, 2011

Michael will always be remember by the Carroll Clan and his family will always be surrounded in love by us who will never forget his sacrifice. Blessings Nancy, Brendan, Olivia and brother Bill Carroll.
Lady Mary Carroll Bower 9-11-2011

J. Raia

September 9, 2011

Dear Mike and Family,
You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
JoAnne,Fred,Debbi,Ron,Chris,Michelle,Lisa

Maryann Busardo

September 9, 2011

Dear Carroll Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you on this 10th anniversary. We think of Michael often and his kind ways, we hope all your fond memories of Michael brings a little happiness to your lives everyday.

Love Maryann, John & Jonathan Busardo

Dennis Carroll

September 8, 2011

Rest in peace Brother. Your sacrifice and the sacrifice of our other Brothers makes me proud we shared the same name and Profession. We wil never forget.

val miller

August 30, 2011

michael

may you send peace, comfort
& strength to your family and
friends.
miss you and love you,

val
xox

July 20, 2011

We are all with you today Michael. Such a special day. All our love, Ei, Matt & Jon

May 28, 2011

Just thinking of you and Timmy

May 6, 2011

It still doesn't bring you back to us. We miss you more than ever. All our love, e, m & j

May 2, 2011

You are always in our hearts

May 1, 2011

god bless you mike

September 29, 2010

Dear Carroll Family,
We think of Michael often,and we think of how much all of you must miss him. We hope kind words and happy memories help your heavy hearts.

With Love,
Maryann, John & Jonathan Busardo

joanne oellermann

September 27, 2010

michael i never met you, but i wish i could of met you, now your with the angels and your buddies, rest in peace
i will never forget joanne
bogota new jersey

Will Never Forget

September 26, 2010

As the sun sets here on here - that star still shines in heaven! Thinking of you and your sacrafice. Keep lighting the way - so we can find ours. PS Give Franny a kiss for us.

Eileen Carroll-Nix

September 16, 2010

Dear Michael,
We miss you each and every single day and we love you so very much! Watch over us today and always - most especially now. Love, Ei, Matt & The Jonny Boy

September 13, 2010

Dear Nancy,Brendan,Olivia and the Carroll Family: Many happy and funny memories come to thought when we think of Mike. Especially, when he and my son sat, joked and pretended to write a 'Dear Abby' column about the bride.Well, the laughs were from all sides of the room even Deb (the bride) burst with a little giggle here and there. Mike shared his gift of humor with us, and we are especially grateful to you for sharing him with us. May God Bless You and keep you with all your fond memories (like we've had) always!!!
Forever in our hearts..JoAnne,Fred,Lisa,
Debbi,Ron,Chris,Michelle

Brycen

September 12, 2010

FF Carroll, I am a Firefighter in Colorado and we rememebr 9-11 by doing a stairclimb of 110 stories. Each of us gets to climb for one of the 343. Last year (2009) I climbed for you. I wanted to say that I remember your sacrifice and will never forget.

Sara

September 11, 2010

Thinking of you, Ladder 3, and your family today. God Bless!

joanne oellermann

May 25, 2010

happy birthday mike , the carroll family, you in my prayers im so sorry for the loss of your son
joanne oellermann bogota new jersey
if you need to talk call me 201-546-7777

May 24, 2010

Hey Mike, Happy Birthday to you! We love you, Ei, Matt & Jon

Tom Tabaczynski

May 7, 2010

To Mike's Family, I'm thinking of you as his birthday approaches. I know from online research that he would turn 48 on May 14. Thank you for giving me this opportunity to say, "I care."

April 24, 2010

I looked up my son Michael T Carroll who passed away five months ago today. He was 29. I'm so sorry to to hear about your son. My son was also a hero to me... Mike

February 21, 2010

Mike I miss you.
elle

Tom Tabaczynski

January 29, 2010

To Michael Carroll's Family, I recently discovered the online Sports Illustrated article about Mike. I was most interested to read about his accomplishments as a firefighter, athlete, and family man. The article mentions an Irish blessing printed on the cards distributed at his funeral. I have a framed copy of the same blessing on display in my living room. I have the greatest love and respect for firefighters and police officers because they not only risk their lives every day, they are also Good Samaritans when off duty. They are always looking to help someone in need--holding food drives, toy drives, pancake breakfasts (to raise money for scholarships and athletic equipment/uniforms), to name just a few of their charitable efforts. My heartfelt thanks for sharing your grief, your memories--and for giving me this opportunity to say, "I care." Please think of this entry as a hug from me.

October 28, 2009

Mick-
Continue to watch over us...All my love, n,b & o oxoxoxox

September 13, 2009

Michael...You are forever in our hearts and prayers.

JoAnne,Fred,Lisa,Debbi,Ron,Chris and Michelle

joanne oellermann

September 11, 2009

the carroll you may call me or email
at anytime, 201-820-1389 i will never
forget you joanne oellermann

joanne oellermann

September 11, 2009

the carroll family and friends, i didnt no michael, i feel as though i did, your always going to be in my prayers, i think about you everyday,
my prayers and thought will always be with you. joanne oellermann
someone thinking of you
hackensack new jersey

Lenia Coates

September 11, 2009

Dear Carroll family,
I only knew Michael by name...he is my step-mom's cousin (Michael Lopez-Barnes), but he put a name and a face to the senseless tragedy that took place eight years ago today. I've prayed for him and your family since and I will never forget the ultimate sacrifice that he, and his fellow heroes, made on that day. They will never be forgotten.

Maryann Busardo

September 9, 2009

Dear Nancy and the Carroll family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you, especially this time of year.
Michael will be in our hearts forever.

With love,
Maryann, John & Jonathan Busardo

Eileen

May 14, 2009

Dear Michael,
Happy Birthday to my dear brother. I miss hearing your wonderful voice. Please watch over us today and always. Love, Eileen

Doug Abraham

May 14, 2009

Happy Birthday!!!

Sarah

May 14, 2009

Remembering you on your birthday .. I see your wonderful smile .. I hear your laughter .. I remember your compassion .. your spirit is strong .. Love you always cuz'...

Sharron Carman-Sellick

May 10, 2009

Just dropping by to say I still think about you often. Still sending blessings to Nancy, Brendan, Olivia and the entire Carroll family!

Brendan Carroll

February 2, 2009

hey dad, just wanted to let you know ive been missin ya. see aunt elieen johnny and matty signed below..just dropping bye to say hi, think about you every day..wish you were here to help out with the high school stuff. hahaa. love you. send me a dime.

Maryann Busardo

September 11, 2008

Dear Nancy and the Carroll family

Remembering Michael-----Our love and prayers to all of you.

With love,
Maryann, John & Jonathan Busardo

Ron Keller

September 11, 2008

Always in our hearts and never forgotten.. Thanks for all you accomplished in life and all you sacrificed.

L

September 11, 2008

Michael,

I have fond memories of you and I cherish them. I feel lucky and blessed that you touched my life. You and all the Carrolls are in my prayers.

S.L.K. S.

September 10, 2008

Michael~
I had the honour of meeting your wife, Nancy, and both your parents a few years ago. I remember your mother saying to me, "Everyone loved Michael." I can only imagine how much they miss you.
As we come to the 7th anniversary, I am sending your family prayers and thoughts of comfort.

joanne oelermann

June 1, 2008

i did not no michael, but i just needed to say something, it breaks my heart, michael taken so young, my heart goes out to you miachel and your family, i thik of you everyday. someone who cares from hackensack new jersey

Eileen Nix

May 16, 2008

HAPPY BIRTHDAY! WE MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH AND WE LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH!
Ei, Matthew & Jonny xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Doug Abraham

May 14, 2008

Happy Birthday!!!

Debbi, Ron, Lisa, Chris,Mich, JoAnne, Fred

September 11, 2007

Mike.........our Guardian Angel, our hero, and wonderful friend. You are forever in our hearts.

Eileen Nix

September 11, 2007

Dear Michael -
I miss you terribly each and every day. All my love to you...your sister, Eileen

Maryann Busardo

September 10, 2007

Dear Nancy & The Entire Carroll Family,
We think of Michael often and he as well as all of you are always in our thoughts and prayers.
With love,
Maryann, John & Jonathan Busardo

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