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When you are born 11 months apart, sibling rivalry can take on a whole new meaning. Alejandro Castano made an art out of torturing and teasing his sister Claudia Sanchez. "Look at my bike, it's better than yours," he would tell her each summer while they were growing up in Englewood, N.J. And when tensions between the two got really heated, Mr. Castano would pull out his favorite taunt: "You're not really my sister. You're adopted."
For Ms. Sanchez, there was no refuge, even her Barbie dolls became victims. Those moments are cherished now. "It was just the two of us. Alej loved to play games, to make jokes," Ms. Sanchez said of her brother, who as a delivery man for Empire Distribution in Carlstadt, N.J., dropped off office supplies to the World Trade Center every day. "That was just his way of saying, 'I love you.' "
Only his mother could quiet the joking. "He was always telling us, `You can't cook,' " Ms. Sanchez said. "But as soon he got a plate of my mother's pork chops, rice and beans and plantains, it was a different story. He was a little kid in paradise."
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Cynthia Roe
September 4, 2021
Remembering Alejandro on the anniversary of 9/11...
Del Newberry
January 30, 2020
Praying today for the Alejandro's friends and family. We will never forget this horrible day. Much love from Texas.
July 13, 2012
To The Family,
It's been near 11 years since the tragedy of 9/11, however, I still would like to offer my sincere condolences in the loss of your loved one. How we long for the day when God will put an end to all wickedness.
Sincerely,
Mr. Terry of NC
Sandra Pascal
September 12, 2011
Our mothers are friends and have been for many years. I cant say that I remember you, however I just wanted to let your family know that yesterday on the 10th anniversary of 9/11, I thought about you and your family and sent all my love and prayers. May you rest in eternal peace, and your legacy of being a great man and amazing sense of humor live on forever!
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September 10, 2009
I am SSgt Gomez, with the California Air National Guard. We are doing a Memorial run at Lackland Air Force Base on 11 Sep 2009. I am running in memory of Alejandro Castano. God Bless..
Doug Abraham
July 10, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Ilse Henao
September 11, 2007
Alex (Veneno) your nick name;
I will always remember you,I have so many wonderful memories.
our famous parties, Aguadiente, joe Arroyo, la fritanga our trip to VB , racing cars playing spin the bottle , the corvette, angie's nails , the speeding ticket over the limit 69, little "E " , big "I" , Daddy , and Juan the late rounds in our car, NYC , and best of all having a good time!!!
My memories of you are treasures and I will always carry them until I die.
They are stored in my memory bank and in my heart.
I also want you to know that I love your mom and sister and they will always be part of me and my family .
Alex I miss you!!!!
Ilse (La Negra)
Kristine
October 27, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
September 7, 2006
In remembrance....
*The Beautiful Country That You Will Always Have In Your Blood
Anthony Orozco
July 28, 2005
I will always remember you alex because of the way you used to make me and my family laugh on our trip tO Wildwood,NJ 9 days before your death. Steven your son and i are best friends which go every were together and we have been through some hard times too. well i love you and i will always. I LOVE YOU ALL!!!
Sandra Guevara
September 17, 2003
I just want to let alex family know that even though it has been two years of his departure, he still in my mind, i hope you have been able to go foward with your lives, he was a great person. We will miss him dearly.. love sandra
Karen Gonzalez
September 11, 2003
I remember Alex from way back, I grew up in Bergenfield. I had the pleasure of his sense of humor, and his friendship. Although most of us went our separate ways, he was never forgotten. To see his picture among the many others breaks my heart! He is a hero, like the others who gave their lives. I am so very glad that I had the opportunity to know him, even if it was for a brief time.
I also had the pleasure of meeting his sister and his mom. May God Bless You! My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Laura Carrasco
September 13, 2002
To the Castanos: My name is Laura Carrasco and I am participating in my schools rememberance in the tragedy of 9/11. I just wanted to let you know that I am wearing your sons name on my wrist band and you are in our prayers.
Diane Eisenman
September 13, 2002
On Sunday, September 8th, All Saints Church in Pasadena, CA gave each attendee an identification wristband to wear for four days in honor of individuals who died on Sept. 11th, 2001. My wristband was for Alejandro, and during the next few days I prayed for him, for love and peace to be his legacy. On the 11th, we had a morning vigil at church, and I lit a candle for him and prayed that he be in a place of joy - and humor! It was very special to share this time with Alejandro, and I know he is so very blessed. To his family I send love and appreciation for being able to share a personal moment of my life with him. I feel him smiling down on us with such love! May you, his family, receive many blessings from his sacrifice.
Diane
Brett Thomas
September 11, 2002
Although I never met Alejandro, I had the privalage today (9-11-02) of being chosen to read his name over the radio and ring San Diego's "Freedom Bell" as a tribute to his life. The ceremony was held today at San Diego's Qualcomm Stadium and broadcast live on Star 100.7. For all of those who knew Alejandro, I want to let you know, that there are people all around the country who are praying specificaly for you. Alejandro brought the trajedy of 9-11 down to a personal level for me today for the first time, as I learned more about his life. Alejandro may no longer be with us, but he will never be forgotten.
Ashley Contreras
September 9, 2002
May God bless you Alejandro Castano and your family and friends may you rest in peace.
Carlos Sotomayor
August 15, 2002
Siceramente alex fue una persona que trajo mucha alegria a Jet Aviation cuando trabajo por unos meses con nosotros, su forma de hablar y sus comentarios chistosos siempre tuvieron influencia en la linea de servicio. Fue una persona que trabajo y se dedico a lo que hacia y fue una tristeza cuando dejo Jet Aviation in Teterboro. Me acabe de enterar que tambien fue victima de esta desgracia hoy, y sinceramente mi corazon se lleno de mucha tristeza por su ida y por el sufrimiento de su familia. Que en paz descanses y mis mas sincero pesame de lo mas profundo de mi corazon para toda su familia.
Carlos Sotomayor Jet Aviation
Sandra DiLello-Alcivar
June 6, 2002
Alex, so many memories of such a crazy nut you always were.... you are dearly missed from all your friends and family.... GOD bless!!! Love your friend Sandra
Angie Campbell
April 22, 2002
May God bless you and the family and friends that you leave behind. Rest in peace.......
Beatriz & Tony Restrepo
March 11, 2002
My deepest Sympathy to his family. I knew him for his sence of humor and sometimes practal Jokes.It is hard to make sence that he is no longer with us but his spirit will be with us. I remember that we use to see eachother at my aunts house he would hang out with my brother Tony Englwood NJ I am sure that where ever he is he is in peace ( Mi sentido Pesame a toda la Familia )
Brenda Lopez
March 11, 2002
I never had the pleasure of meeting Alejandro and his family, but i did have the pleasure of speaking to him on the phone. I worked for Lowestfare.com and his mother called tomake arrangements for someone to come to New York and because the person was coming from far she also made arrangements forAlejandro to fly. I remember him yelling at his mother about the times and days and i asked to talk to him, and joking told him to be nice to his mother, cuase mothers are always right. He laughed with me and he told me if I ever come to New York to stop by, I am really sorry for your lost and I have no words that can possibly bring him back. Just cherish the time you did have with him, and just remember he is now an angel that will be looking upon you. Thanks Alejandro for that day of laughter. Brenda
Sandra Guevara
March 11, 2002
Dear Alejandro's family, i want to share this feeling of sorrow with you in the loss alejandro, i will always remember him as a great person and caring person. I will never forget the summer of 86. We miss you alejandro. God bless your family and keep you next to him.
Michael Giarratano
March 2, 2002
For my old friend Alex,,as children and teenagers growing up as friends and neighbors,we shared many exciting , unique experiences..Many of those i have treasured in my memory of the good times in the old neighborhood:the laughter,the drama,the over-the-top wild senses of humor that we much enjoyed,espec`ly in the year/summer of 1983.That`s part of me,and I will never forget.Will forever be missing you my old friend..You will always be with us,,in our hearts and thoughts..Mike g./////
Teresa Jahn
January 6, 2002
We are very sorry for your loss of Alejandro. May the warm memories of times shared lighten the sorrow in your hearts. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
December 18, 2001
DEAR GOD IN HEAVEN BLESS ALEJANDRO
CASTANO AND MAY HE REST IN PEACE.
GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS.
GOD BLESS AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER
FORGET 9/11/01...
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