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Barbara Chucknick
July 1, 2025
Hi my love!
Just thinking about you like I always do, but, today is different. I'm back to thinking of all the things that we did together as a family with our son. All the places we went that made him so happy. Even after almost 24 years I still cry. My heart breaks for Steven knowing all the things he has missed in life because you weren't here.He is so very much like you. He' s loving giving and caring. I told him sometimes when he hugs me..I can heart your heart beat. He smiles. You would be so proud of the man he has become. I don't know where all these years have gone. It seems that time is just passing as if it was a calender in the wind and the days pass quickly and the nights go even quicker..we love you Angel and forever will.
Your wife always and forever
My heart to only yours
Your wife Barbara
Barbara Chucknick
March 8, 2025
Hi my Angel..I know I'm not on here talking to you as much as I use to. It's not because I forgot about you, it's just that life never slows down or gives us time to ourselves...Steven and I still love you and miss you so very much. Life would have been so different if you were still here...we talk about that so very often. I'm so happy we have the videos of you and Steven when he was little. Those videos are our most precious possession, because it keeps you in our lives. We still buy the father and son Christmas ornaments every year. You are and always will be a part of everything we do.. we love you and miss you so very much.
My heart to only yours forever
You wife Barbara
Carmen Puerta
February 7, 2025
Al azahar me detuve delante de su nombre en el Memorial.Es escalofriante lo que se siente. Lamento tanto su fallecimiento y el de tantos otros.
Barbara Chucknick
September 11, 2024
My Love..today is 23 years..I dont know where the time has gone but I still wish I could turn the clock back and have you here with us. Your birthday was Sunday and we still get so sad. This wasn't a very good year for our family, but, nothing compares to the day you were taken from us. We miss you so very much and will hold you in our hearts forever
My heart to only yours forever
You wife Barbara
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Fanny Montalvo
September 8, 2024
Steve, Dave, Beverly, Barry, Jose and Sal- We have all- except you- grown older. The time that has stood still for you is measurable but the grief from the loss of a treasured person is immeasurable. Today, on yet another anniversary of you being taken from us- there is still no limit to the grief felt for it or the memories the mind and heart hold fondly onto. You will be missed and thought of ALWAYS.
Frank Kuyl
July 20, 2024
I am someone in Holland and exactly knew where I was when I heard that a small plane hit the north WTC tower.....when I got home I really saw what happened ....an terrible day for the free world....dear Barbara Chucknick ...I am a totally stranger but after reading your postings so mny years and the pain of the lost of your dear husband I only can mke a deep bow and my hat off . RESPECT .... Frank Amsterdam
Cheryl Wilhelm
September 11, 2023
Hi Barbara,
It’s now been 22 years and I’m sure the pain is still as fresh as it was on that day. I know the heaviness in my heart is.
But you, my friend, are such a remarkable woman and a shining light. Your love for your husband transcends the heavens and Earth.
I continue to pray for you and your son.
Much love,
Cheryl
Bob M
September 11, 2023
22 years Gone but not forgotten! RIP brother!
Del Newberry
September 11, 2023
We will never forget. Love to the family from Texas.
Barbara Chucknick
September 10, 2023
My Love...tomorrow will be 22 years since God took you home. Yet..everyday i feel you near me even though i cant see you. Sometimes when im sad I can almost feel as if your arms are around me. Its been a difficult few years lately but nothing compares to the day I lost you. That day will be imbedded in my mind till the end of time. Steven was 12 when we lost you. He will be 35 this year and is the man that you were. He has gotten me through some tough times and when he holds me when im sad it reminds me of you. When you held me i could always here your heart beat. Steven once held me and I looked at him and said to him...I can hear your fathers heart! Steven is himself yet he is you...so loving and caring..he is everything you were..He is the part of you they couldn't take from me and everyday I am blessed and proud to call him my son. I dont know what the next year will bring but I know you are watching over us and guiding us. I look up at the stars at night and wonder if your looking back at us...when we met I said I would love you forever...I've kept my promise!
My heart to only yours forever ❤
You wife always
Barbara
Fanny Montalvo
September 9, 2023
Fanny Montalvo
September 9, 2023
Fanny Montalvo
September 9, 2023
9/11- Twenty-two years might as well be 22 minutes- time has stopped, Steve Chucknick, David Vera, Barry Young, Beverly Curry, Sal Fiumefreddo, and Jose Marrero- There have been very few in my life who can compare to you all.
The world and its people have changed so much in these 22 years. Yet, you set the bar for excellence in humanity, trustworthiness and kindness. I am forever grateful to you all for the successes I achieved in business because of having you as clients- and forever carry a grateful and heavy heart at the loss of you all as revered friends.
You are, each minute - missed.
"One final thought comes clear to me
For what must live in infamy
Absolutely – We’ll Remember
The Eleventh – Of September"
- Roger J. Robicheau ©2002
Barbara Chucknick
September 8, 2023
9/8/23
My Angel...i didnt forget...Happy Birthday my love Steven and I still miss you so very much. We talk about you always and I talk to you everyday. Our live would have been so much happier if you were still here. My heart remains broken and i still love you more than ever!! Sleep well my angel
My heart to only yours foever
You wife Barbara ❤
Del Newberry
September 29, 2021
We will never forget. Much love to Steven's family, With love from Texas
Barbara Chucknick
September 14, 2021
My Love
Today as you probably saw was such a sad day. The day after the 9/11 20th Anniversary we lost George. Im hoping and praying he is right there with you. He was so much more than a brother in law to me...He was a brother. When we lost you he watched over Steven to make sure he was always ok...My sister Anne seems so lost without him because no one can believe hes really gone...if he is with you in heaven please tell him that Steven will now watch over his aunt as we all will. Please tell George we will forever love him and we miss him so very much. And to you my Angel..i will forever be in love with you
My heart to only yours forever your wife Barbara
September 11, 2021
I am so glad you remember me! Maybe someday we could arrange for you and I and the boys snd their families to meet there. It is not the same for me either without my mom . But .. maybe just maybe .. your husband snd my mom are up there hoping we make new memories .
Barbara Chucknick
September 11, 2021
Hello Cheryl...thank you so much for remembering...and you were right...i still sit down at the water. Its quiet and i look at Manhattan and talk to my husband wishing he was still here...please take care and thank you again!!!
Barbara Chucknick
September 11, 2021
Nancy...of course i remember you...it was like one big family there and we looked so forward to the time spent there..if you remember, we were there on 9/9/2001..steves birthday was the day before on September 8th so we came down there to celebrate...i miss all of you...Steven and i were down there a couple times after we lost Steve but it wasnt the same without him...thank you so much for remembering us. Im not sure if you will ever see this post but if you do pls know that i miss all of you!!
September 11, 2021
On this day for the last twenty years , I have thought of you , your husband , and Steven. I remember seeing the three of you most every Friday night at Lucky Leo’s when my parents and I would take my son and you and Steve would take Steven . Those were the days my friend .. what I wouldn’t give to go back to them . My heart goes out to you . Maybe you don’t remember me but that is ok . You have someone who sends out hugs to you . I can picture your husband walking around the arcade with his jeans and his cap . The boys are grown now and it’s hard to believe that was over twenty years ago . If you ever come back to the shore please let me know .. it would be lovely to see you .
Nancy Corsaro
Barbara Chucknick
September 10, 2021
My Angel, My Forever Love
I dont know where 20 years have gone. It seems almost impossible because it seems like it all happened just a couple of years ago. I haven't moved on and i dont even want to. I said it so many times before that Steven and i will forever hold you in our hearts..because you are our heart. I sat by the water today looking over to Manhattan. I will always wonder how different our lives may have been if you were still here with us. I closed my eyes and imagined. And, for just that moment i found a bit of peace. But then the reality set back in and my heart felt like it was ripped to pieces all over again. I dont know how i made it through these years without you. Maybe i didnt. I dont even know anymore. I talk to you all the time because i always feel you around me. Are you really beside me..do you constantly watch over us even when we sleep...i will love you forever and hold you safe in my heart. Sleep peacefully my Angel..i miss you so much
My heart to only yours forever
Your wife Barbara
Cheryl Wilhelm
September 10, 2021
Hi Barbara, it’s Cheryl from Phoenix just stopping in to say hi and see how you are doing. It’s hard to believe 20 years have passed. I think of you and your son often and pray that some peace has been received. I know the heartache will always be with you but hope his memory will keep you strong as he is your angel now and always looking out for you. As you sit by the river I hope you feel him with you. Take care my friend. The country still mourns his passing, with you.
Cheryl W in Phoenix
Barbara Chucknicj
September 8, 2021
My Beloved..today is September 8th 2021...today..is your birthday and i would never forget it..20 years ago today we celebrated you as we always did..i didnt know that it would be the last. The last birthday i would share with you..the last candles i would see you make a wish on and blow out..20 years later my heart remains broken and lost..i love you so much and forever will..i wish so much you were still here with us..we miss you more than ever..happy birthday my angel..my heart to only yours forever
Love your wife Barbara
Fanny Montalvo
September 6, 2021
In honor of those lost on 9/11 and to those who were my clients, my dear friends- whose kindness paid tribute to my life’s successes- Steven Chucknick and David Vera- both who I last spoke to that very morning, at 8:46am and was told of their needing to evacuate their South Tower because of a ‘fire’ in the next building - who together with Barry Young and Jose Marrero of Eurobrokers, Beverly Curry of Cantor Fitzgerald, whose laughter I had shared just two months before at a summer celebration at Windows on The World, and Sal Fiumifreddo of IPC Information Systems, whose own son and mine were born just a month apart— ‘NO DAY SHALL ERASE YOU FROM THE MEMORY OF TIME’.
Days, months, minutes and 20 years since- every memory of your voices, laughter and goodness lives eternally. In these 20 years, my days have begun and will continue with prayers for your peaceful rest and God’s comfort and blessings to your loved ones. You are spoken of, thought of, always, always missed and I will never forget.
Cindy Roe
September 4, 2021
Remembering Steven on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....
Barbara Chucknick
July 13, 2021
So here we are..approaching 20 years..How can that be. It doesnt seem real. I still feel as if im in a nightmare and will wake up and see you still here by my side. My love i have never moved on. My heart still and always will belong to only you. I still go through each day remembering all the things we did together. Nothing has been the same without you. The days just fly without any change. The world now is worse than it has ever been. So many people must have forgotten what we all went through on 9/11 or they just dont care anymore. Sadly there is so much hatred in this world yet Steven and i live our lives as you did...caring ..giving..and loving. You would be so proud of Steven. He has become the man that you were.20 years are almost gone but you have been in our thoughts every single day. My heart still remains broken because i miss you so much...i love you my Angel..and i remain in love with you and forever will
My heart to only yours forever
You wife Barbara
Del Newberry
November 22, 2020
Barabara, much love to you from Texas. We will never forget. We pray for you to be blessed this Thanksgiving.
Barbara Chucknick
September 11, 2020
My Beloved Husband
Another year has passed..another day..another minute ..another second..another everything...where has time gone...19 years without you yet 19 years still with you. You are gently sleeping deep inside my heart where i protect you so no one can ever hurt you again. I saw feathers and pennies on the ground all week..were they from you? I can always feel you all around me. I think of you every day. Steven is exactly like you. We've been through a lot this year but he stood strong like you always did and when i cried he would hug me and give me that caring reassuring smile that you always did and said..Mom it will be alright...sounding just like you when you said Hon it will be alright. 19 years and my heart remains broken. I miss your smile and your hugs. I cherish everything you ever gave me...every card..every note..every joy..How did this happen. How did i fall in love with an earthly angel who stole my heart so many years ago...when we got married I said i would love you forever...My love...i meant it...you are the only man i will ever be in love with..sleep my Angel..i will keep you safe❤
My heart to only yours forever
Your wife always
Barbara
FANNY MONTALVO
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Let us not forget to pay tribute and remembrance to those, who this week, 19 years ago, lost their lives simply by being at work; by simply- being. To those wonderful people at Eurobrokers, Cantor-Fitzgerald, and IPC Information systems- lost to us on 9-11-2001, today and always, you are those tiny bells of stars whose laughter will always be remembered. I look up to an illuminated sky and think of you always.
My dear friends- Steve, Dave, Barry, Jose, Beverly, and Sal:
"If I summon up those memories that have left with me an enduring savor, if I draw up the balance sheet, of the hours in my life that have truly counted, surely I find only those that no wealth could have procured me" -From 'The Wind, Sand, and Stars"
No matter the seconds, minutes, days, months or years that have passed, this day will always seem like just a moment ago. No matter the seconds, minutes, days, months or years that will come and pass- you will never- not for a moment, be forgotten by all of us who knew you, and whose lives you touched and enriched. Rest in peace and know, my friends, you will forever be remembered. Our laughs, your kindness, and all of what made you those amazing human beings will live always in my heart.
Barbara Chucknick
September 5, 2020
My love..I cant believe another year has passed 9/8 is your birthday..ill spend it quietly like i always do because i know that the day i lost you comes right behind..my heart hasnt healed..its still broken and always will be..during these days I feel you all around me..in my thoughts..my dreams..every moment of the day...i still miss you like crazy and my heart aches to hold you...I love you my Angel and i miss you
My heart to only yours forever
Your wife...Barbara
Mairead Harbinson
August 11, 2020
Barbara. I've never met u nor did I ever meet ur angel. I'm from Belfast Northern Ireland. I've been to New York many times and always visit the 9/11 memorial. The 1st few times I was there I took fotos and on looking back in memories 3 yrs in a row I stood at ur husbands name. Not intentional just coincidence. I read up on his story and he sounds like an amazin man. I talk to him often and think about u and his son. I hope u don't mind but id love to visit him each time I visit new York. He was cruelly taken away from u at the age I am now. I'll keep u in my prayers. God bless x
The Kindred Family
December 27, 2019
Our heartfelt condolences we send to your family. There are no words that can remove the pain of loss however please know that others still care deeply. With each passing day may God give the strength and help needed to cope and may your many loving memories be of some comfort. Steven is still so sadly missed and is remembered with fondness.
Barbara Chucknick
December 11, 2019
Katherine..i dont know if you will ever see this but i want you to know that it was such a pleasure meeting you..im sure your Dad and Uncle are watching over you and must be so proud of the woman you have become..i hope we meet again someday..please know i will always remember you and i hold you in my prayers!
Katherine Chandhok
November 22, 2019
Steven, I never met you, but I met your wife. She's one of the sweetest people I have ever met. It was a true pleasure to have met her and I know it would have been a pleasure to have met you as well. Your family has not forgotten you and they live on through you. I find peace knowing that there are other 9/11 families such as myself who have been able to carry our loved ones with us and it's a true blessing to meet others who understand what we went through on such a deep level. I hope you found my dad and uncle in heaven
Barbara Chucknick
September 11, 2019
My Love...its now 18 years..i cant believe how fast the years are going..your on my mind and in my prayers every single day of my life..but on the anniversary of 9/11 everything comes to a halt. I guess it will always feel unreal. As the years pass my love for you continues to grow..you were ...are...and always will be my forever love..sleep in peace my angel.
My heart to only yours forever
You wife Barbara chucknick
Bob Maranzano
September 11, 2019
Another year ! Gone & never forgotten Steve! RIP
Fanny Montalvo
September 8, 2019
September 11th is fast approaching. For me, it's another year of acknowledging and missing those 6 client/friends of mine- Steve Chucknick, Dave Vera, Barry Young, Jose Marerro, Sal Fiumefreddo, and beautiful Beverly Curry who perished on 9/11- those who had a generous heart and hand in my business' success. Because of them, I have received goodness. In their honor, I live each day by their example- by paying goodness forward- because you get good when you do good! You are all so missed.
Barbara Chucknick
September 6, 2019
My Angel...as we approach the 18th anniversary i have to stop and ask myself where the years have gone... nothing seems real...nothing has been the same since you were taken from us.. Steven was 12...he is now 30...how??? How did this happen..he and i were talking about you today...i told Steven how proud you would be of the man he has become...He is just like you were...He is caring. loving..and compassionate..having Steven is like having you here. Thats how alike the two of you are...my heart remains broken. You live in my heart..safe..and always wiil...i love you my Angel.
My heart to only yrs forever
Your wife always.. Barbara
Anthony Cambria
September 13, 2018
Peace be with you and your family steven
Barbara
September 12, 2018
My love..my angel.. 17 years...my heart remains broken...steven and I miss you so much....I am so blessed to have our son...He is so much like you..i know you watching over us so i know you are proud of him...we will forever love you!!!
My heart to only yours forever
You wife Barbara
bobby m
September 11, 2018
Another year ! Gone but NEVER forgotten! RIP Steve!
Barbara Chucknick
September 11, 2017
My Love
Another anniversary has come and gone...and yes...my heart remains broken still because I miss you so very much. .I promised you when we got married that I would love you forever...i kept my promise because I hold you safe in my heart..and I forever will...nothing will ever change..you are my first thought every morning and in my prays at night...i love you with all my heart...i pray I see you in my dreams tonight..
My heart to only yours forever
Your wife
Barbara
Anthony Cambria
September 11, 2017
But if this ever changing world in which we live in
Makes you give in and cry,
16 years now since that horrible tragic unimaginable day,
Steven was an amazing man,with an unconditionally
Loving family. Though not all that well,i am still blessed to have known you. My heart goes out to barbara and steven jr.on this anniversary of 911,
Never forget
bobby m
September 11, 2017
Its that time again! You wouldn't believe how the world has changed in 16 years! I will always remember good times of days gone by! We will meet again one day !
Barbara Chucknick
September 8, 2017
HAPPY BIRTHDAY in heaven my Angel...my heart misses you so very much and my love for you will never change...you are my forever love...always
My heart to yours forever
Your wife Barbara
Barbara Chucknick
September 7, 2017
My Angel...another year has passed...nothing has changed especially my love for you.. every night I look up at the stars and wonder if you looking back at me...can you see the tears in my eyes...can you still see the love in my heart that belongs to you...time will never change how much I miss you...how much I wish you were here...i was happiest by your side...and I always felt so safe in yr arms...i still remember what your heart sounded like...ill love you forever
My heart to only yours forever
Your wife...Barbara
Always Remembered. Always Honored.
Fanny Montalvo
September 6, 2017
Dear Steve,
In Honor of you, always.
A 9/11/17 Tribute To You, My friend, Steve
Fanny Montalvo
September 6, 2017
Bob Maranzano
September 11, 2016
15 years. Wow . RIP Steve! I will always remember you & good times we had!
Barbara Chucknick
September 10, 2016
My Angel,
I cant believe 15 years have past. My heart remains broken and always will. I miss you so very much. You would be so proud of the man Steven has become. He is so much like you. He has your smile and your gentle caring heart. I look at him...and I see you. Our lives have never been the same since you were taken from us but we stay strong because we know you are with us everyday. A broken heart can never heal. Ill love you always
My heart to only yours forever
Your wife Barbara
Dear Steve,
Fanny Montalvo
September 6, 2016
As The 15th Anniversary of that September 11th Day approaches,still the memory, regard and reverence of Steve, Dave, Barry, Jose, Sal & Beverly lives with me and those who will always feel the same- today and always.
Words In Honor of My Friends.
Always,
Fanny
November 29, 2015
So sorry for your lost it is difficult to lose a love one. There is satisfying answers to life's questions Proverbs 2:1:5
Theresa Miller
September 12, 2015
All the heartfelt messages show how much you are still loved and missed. Time does not always heal enough.... I wish there was a magic way to make all the hurt go away.
I will never forget....
From Bobbie's cousin, Theresa
Barbara Chucknick
September 11, 2015
My beloved husband
Its morning...its 9/11. I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes remember our last kiss goodbye that morning. Time has healed nothing. I feel you all around me each and everyday of my life. I cry for myself because you not hear with me and my heart remain broken for our son because he didn't deserve to lose you. He was so young and loved you so very much. Every photo I have of the two of you he's hugging you with such a happy smile on his face. He knew he had a father who adored him . I would always stare into your eyes because I knew I would always be safe with you I loved and still love you so very much. You were my hero from the first day I met you. You hold my heart forever...i miss you my angel so very much
My heart to only you'd forever
Your wife.Barbara
Bob Maranzano
September 11, 2015
Another year has passed. You are gone but will never be forgotten!
Rest peacefully, Brother-in-law !
Afterglow
Fanny Montalvo
September 10, 2015
Afterglow
'I'd like the memory of me to be a happy one,
I'd like to leave an afterglow of smiles when life is done.
I'd like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways,
Of happy times and laughing times and bright and sunny days.
I'd like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun
Of happy memories that I leave when life is done.'
Steve, dear friend- the 'afterglow' of your friendship remains still to this day.
Diana Maranzano
August 14, 2015
Uncle Steve,
It's been many years since you've been taken from us. I think of you so often and wonder of what could've been had you come home that day. I think of how similar you and I might be. Perhaps I would know my Aunt Susan, Aunt Barbara and your son. Maybe one day I won't have to wonder anymore. Your mother misses you deeply, and so does your sister Catherine. I hope you're looking out for us.
Barbara Chucknick
May 8, 2015
My Love,
Again I havent been here to speak to you in quite a while. Its not because Ive forgotten you. You are on my mind every single day and I still wish with all my heart that you were here with me and Steven. This year is passing so very quickly. Winter came and went and again I never got to enjoy it. I feel like im on a roller coaster. Not just with the ups and downs in my life but the days pass in the blink of an eye. I miss you. I will always miss you. You are and forever will be my husband. Im my eyes there is no one but you. I cant believe that you will be gone 14 years. My life stopped the day you were taken from us. And now that I am trying to go forward a bit I cant seem to. Im still trapped in time. I know that I am in 2015...but my heart remains with you in 2001. I love you my Angel. Please watch over us especially our son!!
My heart to only yours forever
You wife Barbara
barbara chucknick
November 26, 2014
My Love
The time is passing as if I was sitting in front of a calendar and the wind just kept blowing the pages over. Its thanksgiving again. I am still so sad that you are not here with us. I miss you more than anything. Steven and I have been blessed to have so many new and genuine people enter our life. They are honest and caring. Was it you who sent them to us. They are all like you. Angels on earth. I feel safe again because of them. And Steven has learned to laugh again. But, no one will ever hold my heart like you do. I am your wife forever. Can you believe that our son is now 26. He is incredible and so much like you. I know how much he still wishes you were hear. And so do I. I remember that as I cooked our Thanksgiving meal you were always outside putting up our Christmas lights so that we could light them on thanksgiving night. I miss that so much but again not as much as I miss you. I love you my Angel and forever will
My heart to only yours forever
Your Wife Barbara
Nigel
November 13, 2014
This was year 18! My little girl a young woman, My 18 year anniversary just before yours. The weather always comes close to being the same Nor easter as the day we married. Happy days thinking of you my friend but it doesn't get any easer, I still have a hard time believing your not with us. You come up in conversation all the time and at the weirdest of times. I raise my glass too you, happy anniversary my friend, I miss you, we all miss you!
Barbara Chucknick
September 19, 2014
My Beloved,
Its already more than a week since the 13th anniversary and for some reason the tears are still flowing from time to time. Whoever said that time heals all wounds was so very mistaken. There is not one day that goes by that you are not in my thoughts. I so often wonder if you walk beside me everyday. How else could I have made it this long without you. The days are getting a bit cooler now and they are saying we are going to have a cold snowy winter. You know how much I love the cold and the snow so if it is to be that way, Ill take it that it is a gift from you. I love you my Angel
My heart to only yours forever.
Your wife Barbara
Fanny Montalvo
September 17, 2014
Dearest Barbara,
Thank you for that. I made a promise to Steve, Dave, Barry, Jose, Beverly and Sal- that just as they never forgot to make my day a pleasant one, enhance my business by working with me as their recruiter, and enrich my life with their friendship for over 20 years- I would never forget them, and never miss an opportunity to let those I know and will never meet what amazing human beings they were. No matter the years that have gone by- friends should never be forgotten.
Barbara Chucknick
September 15, 2014
My Angel,
I can remember when I would come here to talk to you especially on the anniversary that there would be so many tributes...It seems now as the years go by these tributes have dwindled...I know they didnt forget you. I guess its because everyone has moved on...well, except for me and yes..Fanny....I promise I will talk to you more on here like I use to, because I cant help but feel that as I write to you, that you are near me reading over my shoulder. Somehow I think you know my thoughts before I even put them on here. I tried to move on a bit this year but it didn't happen. I am so totally in love with you and if that means being trapped in time.....then so be it... I love you my Angel and always will
My heart to only yours forever
Your wife Barbara
Barbara Chucknick
September 11, 2014
My Love,
Another anniversary is coming to a close. I don't have very much to say because over the years I have said it all. And 13 years later it all still remains the same. I love you. I just got back from the water where I can see over to Manhattan. I stood there silently looking at the tribute lights. For just an instance as I stared across the water I could in my minds eye see the twin towers standing tall once again. If only... The day was so very hard to get through without tears. I tried as hard as I could, but the tears took over as I stared out the window most of the day. My mind remembered the days leading up to 9/11. It was a summer of fun and laughter. A summer that will never see your beautiful smile in it again. So many times when I feel things going wrong or im afraid I feel you beside me helping me get through. My mind all of a sudden goes from anxious to calm. It has to be you because only you were ever able to make me feel that everything will be alright. I miss your hugs and your kisses so very bad that when I stop to think about you never being in my life again I can feel my heart breaking into little pieces. But as Steven has said many times. Mom...Dad would want you to be happy. So I pretend and probably will keep pretending for the rest of my life. I miss you so very very much and I will love you forever
My heart to yours forever
You wife Barbara
September 11, 2014
Thank you for remembering my Steve. I remember his days at DLJ and so many of the names of the people he worked with. I know you chose not to include your name but please know that my son Steven and I are so grateful for your tribute to Steve and for remembering him..Thank you
Barbara Chucknick
September 11, 2014
Barbara I feel your pain every time I read one of your tributes to Steve. Steve and I worked together at DLJ. He was a wonderful person and always a joy to be around. Know that Steve is remembered always by everyone he touched. RIP Steve you are truly missed by all, especially your family.
September 10, 2014
My Sweet Husband,
Here we are again. Another Anniversary..Another lonely year without you. Its late but I cant sleep..not that I ever can. Im sitting here watching the clock just like I do every year since you were taken from us. I don't know why I do this to myself. I sit here and I cry remembering our last night together and as I watch the clock I'm reminded that in a few short hours you would be gone from my life. I would never hold you or kiss you again. I would never see your beautiful smile or the warmth that you always had in your eyes. Had I known 13 years ago that as I look at this clock it would only be hours before I would never see you again...I would have never let you go.
If only.....Tomorrow you will be my only thought from the moment I wake up until I fall asleep again. I miss you so much and it feels like I am trapped in time. I can't go back and save you and I cant go on without you. So my heart remains in 2001 and forever will. I love you my Angel
My heart to only yours forever
Your wife Barbara
September 10, 2014
Hi Barbara,
I worked with Steve in my first job at Dean Witter. I called Euro Brokers and asked about him. Also called Petrocelli Electric about the two electricians we worked so closely with (Steve and Joe). They were such good guys and it breaks my heart that they are all gone. My last memory of Steve was meeting him on the train platform in Newark. We hugged each other and then he couldn't wait to take out his wallet and show me a picture of his son. His face lit up and he was so happy and I was so happy for him. I know there isn't much anyone can do to ease your pain but I hope you get some comfort in knowing that there are people out there that still think of Steve every year and struggle with the senseless of it all. Take care, even thought we have never met, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Annie
NEVER FORGOTTEN TO ALL WHO KNEW HIM
Fanny Montalvo
September 10, 2014
Steve,
No matter the seconds, minutes, days, months or years that have passed, this day will always seem like just a moment ago. No matter the seconds, minutes, days, months or years that will come and pass- you will never be forgotten by all of us who knew you, and whose life you touched. Rest in peace my friend, and know, you will forever be remembered.
- Fanny
September 8, 2014
My Angel,
Today I had to get through another birthday without you. You should be here celebrating but your not. Thirteen years ago today I would have never guessed that it was to be your last Birthday here with us. I don't know where the time is going, but it is going so fast. I still have the candle that we lit on your Birthday in 2001. It was such an amazing fun day. And then just 3 short days later you were taken from us. 72 hours...and I lost the only man I have and will ever love. My heart will forever hold you close and safe. No one will ever hurt you again. I miss you more than ever and I love you more than you could ever imagine....Sleep peacefully my sweet Angel.
and Happy Birthday in heaven
My heart to only yours forever
Your Wife Barbara
Barbara Chucknick
August 3, 2014
My Sweet Angel,
Where is the time going...we are now in August and Sept is right around the corner again. 13 years...where have they gone. I still think of you so many times throughout the day and when I go to sleep at night I hold you name in my prayers....I love you my angel and always will
My Heart to only yours forever
Your wife Barbara
Barbara Chucknick
May 26, 2014
My Beloved,
Today I held you in my thoughts throughout the day. You gave your all for our country when you were in the navy...And in the end you gave your all for the people you worked with while our country was at war. Because of you so many of your companies employees are still here. As a Thank you to you...I hope today they remembered you. I love you so much
My heart to only yours forever
Your Wife Barbara
Barbara Chucknick
May 25, 2014
My Sweet Angel,
Tomorrow is memorial day...Yet for me everyday seems like memorial day. My heart is still broken after almost 13 years and I still feel like i'm just existing. I have been trying to move on and trying to have fun but its just a simple distraction that I need to move on from. Im stuck in time. Its the most horrible feeling anyone could ever have. Its now 2014...but...you hold my heart in 2001. So what life do I have? Its painful and lonely. I want so very bad to see you and yet I know that will never happen. Not in this life time on earth. I want so bad to dream about you and thats not even happening any more. Are you doubting my love for you? If not then where are you? This is a pain that I cant take much longer. I go through the day smiling. No one knows that I am living with a heart so broken that it will never heal. So where do I go and what do I do with my life now?.. The promise I made to you of "I will love you forever" will remain with me all the rest of my days. You are my one and only love!!!
My heart to yours forever
Your Wife Barbara
Barbara Chucknick
May 11, 2014
Hi My Angel,
Tomorrow is mothers day and again I want to thank you for giving me the most precious gift in my life.. Our Son Steven. I still tell people over and over that Steven is the part of you that they couldn't take from me. I know you know how much I miss you. Its almost 13 years and I still cry because I still can't let you go. I go on everyday with my life but, everyday I realize that since you were taken from me that I don't have a life and probably never will. I have been blessed with some very good friends in my life. Sometimes I wonder if you brought them to me, because its odd how our paths crossed. I am blessed, but I still miss you more that ever and I will love you forever
My heart to only yours
Your wife Barbara
Barbara Chucknick
March 25, 2014
My Angel,
Well as you probably can see, my life is at a crossroad again and I don't know which way to go. It seems nothing keeps my interest for very long and I then feel like its time to move on. I havent felt a sense of normalcy since you were here. Whats wrong with me?. I do I find that I can just walk away from people and things and never look back?. With you! Life was very very different. I was never able to walk away from you because I loved you so very much. Now....nothing seems to ever matter anymore. I still after all these years miss you like crazy and I am more in love with you now than I have ever been. I love you my angel. Sleep in peace.
My heart to only yours forever
You wife Barbara
Barbara Chucknick
February 14, 2014
MY Love,
Sorry I havent been on to speak to you but I guess you know whats going on. Steven was in the hospital and thank God he is ok. I know that you were there with us. It was as if I could feel your hand on my back. It was scary and my heart broke for him. But like I said. Thank God he is ok. I love you so much. Today is Valentines day, but I treat it as any other day because your not here with me. Just please always remember how much I love you and always will
My heart to only yours forever
Your Wife Barbara
Barbara Chucknick
December 25, 2013
My Beloved,
Another Christmas has passed. Thought of you so very much. Its just not the same without you and now I know it never will be. i am so thankful for our Son who tried so very hard to make it a happy one. It seems though that every time I would glance over and see your photo my eyes would fill with tears. I miss you what else can I ever say. I will forever miss you because I love you with all my heart and I always will.
My heart to only yours forever
You wife Barbara
Barbara Chucknick
December 15, 2013
Hi My Angel,
Well the end of the year is approaching quicker than I would like. I cant believe Christmas is so close. Another one without you. I cant believe that this is the 13th Christmas Steven and i had to have without you. Well Sweetheart, i'm sure you can see that the house is decorated and the lights are outside but that about it. Steven doesn't want anything for Christmas. No one seems to want anything. Ive decided to donate the money instead to the St. Judes Children hospital and to the animal hospital. We don't need anything else. The one gift I do want for Christmas would be you....and sadly that will never happen. Ie been thinking of you so much lately. It seems you are always on my mind and when something happens I wonder if you are the one watching over us. We have been getting a lot of snow so far but its always gone in a day or so. Is that you sending it to me and telling me that you are ok??? I hope it is. I love you my Angel and again this Christmas will not be the same without you. I miss cuddling into your arms at night and looking at the fire and the tree. But I will see you in my dreams. I love you so very much!!
My heart to only yours forever you Wife Barbara!!!
November 27, 2013
My Beloved Husband,
Tomorrow is Thanksgiving and while I hate not having you here I will give thanks that I did have you in my life and you will forever be in my heart. I thought of you today and Steven found me crying. He asked me what was wrong so I had to tell him. I miss you so much. I told him how when things were wrong in my life that you would hug me and put your chin on top of my heard. And as I cried and layed my right ear on your chest I could heart your heart beat. I still remember how it felt and now when I go through something I want so much to be in your arms and hear your heart beat once again. Now when something is wrong there is no where to run so sometimes I just run. I run away from the problem without trying to solve it and that seems to cause greater problems because it seems I hurt people who I care about. I just dont want to deal with anyting anymore. I want to feel your arms around me and your sweet voice telling me everything will be ok. I love you so much my Angel and always will.
Happy thanksgiving my Love!!
My heart to only yours forever
You wife Barbara
Nigel
October 30, 2013
Hi Steve, Wendi and I just had our 17th anniversary and I was sitting by the fire pit at 12:30 am. Everyone had left and i looked up at the huge bright moon and thought of you. I knew you and Barbara's anniversary is right around the corner. Our moment in October, our little meet and drink to celebrate our family, friendship and good fortune was very special. you are in my thoughts all the time, I some times catch myself seeing you mingling in a crowd of people, I'm sure your keeping a watchful eye on friends and family. I miss you, take care my Friend.
Nigel
Barbara Chucknick
October 24, 2013
Hi My Angel,
Sitting here thinking about you and how happy I was 26 years ago. Today is the day after our Wedding Anniversary and yes I'm still crying on and off. It hurts so very bad. And now...the holidays are coming again. Time is passing so quickly yet so slowly. Im so busy..yet so alone. Its very hard living without you. My wish for the last twelve years has always been to just hold you one more time. To feel your arms around me and to know once again how it feels not to be afraid. Maybe thats why I love the nighttime so much. I can close my eyes and dream that I am holding you. Yes my Angel...I can still hear your hear beat and I still know the smell of the cologne you wore and how soft your hair was. I can still remember the beautiful smile you had and the loving look in your eyes. Right now as I remember I feel like my heart is being ripped out. Its broken and it will never heal no matter how long I wait. I tried so hard this year to let go and to move on but I can't. So as it is with every year that passes I know what year it is, but my heart remains with you in 2001..I love you my Angel
My heart to only yours forever
Your wife Barbara
Barbara Chucknick
October 23, 2013
My Love,
Today was our 26th anniversary and I missed you so much. It was hard to get through the day because the weather was just as it was the day we said I Do. So as I do every year, I will tell you once again. I would marry you all over again. Being with you were the best days of my life. And now..being without you is the rest of my life and the worst of my life. In my eyes I am still married to you and I will forever remain your wife. I suppose this is the way its suppose to be. How could I possibly every love or even want anyone as much as I love and still want you. You are in my heart forever because you are my heart. So many times I still cry because no matter how many people are around me I still feel all alone. John Denver once wrote...Its by far the hardest thing I've ever done...to be so in love with you and so alone. Thats me now. I go through life kind of existing but not living. I feel the day that you died was the day the light in my eyes died and I don't know what to do anymore. You are and always will be my forever love. Sometimes at night when the sky is clear..I stare up at the stars wondering if you are looking back at me. Are you near me when I cry. Can you see how broken my heart is and always will be. Can you see me crying right now. I miss you so very very much. I love you my Angel and forever will.Happy Anniversary sweetheart and thank you for all you ever gave me especially our son
My heart to only yours forever
You wife Barbara
Barbara Chucknick
September 17, 2013
My Love,
Tonight I just want to say I love you!!!!
My heart to only yours forever
You wife Barbara
Barbara Chucknick
September 14, 2013
Hi My Sweetheart,
The 12th anniversary is over and as usual it takes me some time to recover from it all again. I can't seem to help myself. I watched all the documentaries over and over and over. I guess I'm still looking for an answer. I figure if I look long enough I'll see something I missed. But like every year...nothing. So now the rest of the year will be hard. October would have been our 26th Anniversary. And then Steven and I get to spend yet another thanksgiving and Christmas without you.Its funny....all the Christmases I spent with you I remember as if they were yesterday. Yet the Christmases since we lost you...I can't remember a single one. I can't remember where I was or what I did. I think Steven feels the same way. He was so sad on the 11th this year. He practically slept the whole day away. And, I let him. I guess that is the way he deals with it. Fact is the day broke our hearts all over again and now it takes the rest of the year to try to cope again. Not much of a life anymore. It seems that it is just passing by so quickly and i'm letting it happen. I prayed that I would see you in my dreams, but it didn't happen. To be honest sweetheart. I don't know what I want anymore. I don't even know who I am anymore. I'm here...in the place that you left me...and I don't know what to do. I don't know how to function...I don't know how to smile anymore. I miss you so very very much. I love you my Angel
My heart to only yours forever
Your wife Barbara
Barbara Chucknick
September 11, 2013
My sweet Angel,
Another anniversary is coming to an end and I feel exhausted. To hear the names of all the people who were killed on this day 12 years ago is heartbreaking. And, as I heard your name my heart jumped as though I was right back in 2001. I sat staring at the tv with tears that just wouldn't stop. I felt numb. My body stayed in a frozen state until the names were finished. Watching the memorials pool flowing it just reminds me of all the tears from all the families over the past 12 years. Its almost midnight and the tears are still flowing. I went to the water to see if I could see the twin lights, but again they weren't visible because its such a warm cloudy night. I had to stare for quite a while until I could barely see them. And so once again its over. Our nation came together once again today and tomorrow it will be back to usual. This is the way it will be until my life is over and I am with you once again. Steven was so sad today so he slept most of the day away. We spoke about you and tried to think how different our lives would be if you were still here. You left a hole in our family which will never be filled. Steven knows that he would not just have a great father if you were here, but also an amazing friend. He loves you so much and I can see the hurt in his eyes. So my Angel sleep peacefully until we can be with you once again. We love you. You are in our hearts forever
Our hearts to only yours forever
You Wife Barbara and your Son Steven....God Bless you my Angel
bob maranzano
September 11, 2013
Another year has passed but you will never be forgotten! Many memories of past times ensure that!
Bobby
Barbara Chucknick
September 10, 2013
My Husband, My Love, My Best Friend,
Here we are again. This is the night 12 years ago that will be held in my heart forever. This was to be our last night. This was to be our last everything and it still hurts as if it all is just happening. In 9 hours it would be all over and I would have lost you forever. I thought I could handle this year a bit differently. I thought I would be stronger. Yet my heart is breaking all over again and you are all I can think about. This night 12 years ago would be the last time that I held you. It would be the last time we laughed together and the last time I would see you kiss our son goodnight. And this night would be followed by a morning so different than other mornings. The alarm didnt go off but you woke up anyway. So this would be the morning of the last kiss that I would get from you. I never thought it would be a kiss that would have to last me a lifetime. Oh how I wish everything was different. But no matter how much I wish it will never change. I believe in miracles and prayed that I would be worthy of one that day but I guess God had different plans for you. You were meant to be a hero to others. And..you were. I'll be down at the water most of the day tomorrow looking at manhattan and praying for you. I will always love you so much and will forever cherish every moment God gave us together. I don't mean to make you sad if you are watching over us. What did you expect...I always told you I would love you forever. I always keep my promises. Sleep peacefully my love...
My heart to only yours forever
Your wife Barbara
Barbara Chucknick
September 8, 2013
My Beloved,
Today was really hard. Slept late. I guess I just wanted the day to pass but as it would be, it went very very slow. After I got up I did nothing. I decided to go down to the water and found myself staring over to Manhattan. I said a rosary for you and seemed to fall asleep again. When i came home I figured I would watch some television....and so there it was 9/11. I watched the towers falling over and over and over. Steven came in and hugged me. He asked me why I do it every year. All I could say was that I was looking for an answer. A clue anything that could tell me what happened to you. Maybe I missed something the last time i saw it...Maybe this time my eyes would see something else. But as usual I saw nothing. Its the same thing year after year. It kills me to see the plane hit your tower but it kills me more to see that it hit the opposite side of where your office was. I can always remember looking out the windows of your office and it was as though I could touch tower 1. Where did you go after I spoke to you. Why didn't you leave..What happened to you. I want an answer so bad. Not that it would change anything but it would let my mind rest. I remember a dream I had a few years ago. I was in your building and saw the whole attack happen. I was safe and found myself outside but you didn't get out. All of a sudden the nightmare replayed itself. I was back in the building but I knew what was going to happen. I could now save you. I remember grabbing you and running and when we got outside you said nothing to me. We stood there for a moment and then you looked at me and smiled and as I cried you left and went back inside the building....and I lost you anyway. These are the things that haunt me. It seems that the ending never changes. The only thing I promise will never change is mine and Steven's love for you. I miss you so much,. Happy Birthday my Angel. You live in our hearts forever
My heart to only yours forever
You wife Barbara
Barbara Chucknick
September 8, 2013
My Sweet Husband,
Today is Sept 8th. Happy Birthday Sweetheart. Steven and I miss you so very much and wish you were here to celebrate. You deserve to be here because you gave so much to so many others. You gave unconditional love to those you cared about and even to those you just met. Its no wonder why so many people loved you and thank God keep your memory alive. I'm not looking forward to the next few days. All the memories are rushing back and as usual I cant seem to focus on anything but these days. All the memories. All the beautiful moments and a future that was taken from us in the blink of an eye. I wish people would understand that nothing is more important that this very day and the people you love. Because like us. We kissed goodbye, and smiled as if we had forever together and then in one short moment, one breath, one tear you were gone. Gone but never forgotten. Gone as if you disappeared in a breeze that escaped the both of us. The hardest part of the days ahead is that I find myself counting hours. Saying to myself that as of this moment I only have 76 hours left till my last kiss and my last goodbye. I will forever wish that when we spoke on the phone that you would have left the building. But no not you. Anyone who is alive because of you remembers that beautiful smile that you were able to keep even though you probably knew the angels were near. You are my hero. You were from the first day I met you and will always be my hero until we are in each others arms again. We love you Sweetheart. Happy Birthday and please remember that you have
our love forever and you are in our hearts forever
You wife Barbara and your son Steven....
Barbara Chucknick
September 7, 2013
Hi My Angel,
Its late again and all I can think of is you. Today I did nothing. I had a lot of things to do but absolutely did nothing at all. Well i shouldn't say that. I did a lot of thinking again, mostly of you. Today the weather was amazing but way to much like Sept 11 2001. I didn't want to leave the house but decided to go for a little walk. The sky was amazing because the clouds that were out reminded me of Angel hair that use to be used at Christmas time when i was little. As I looked at the wispy clouds I smiled because most of them were shaped like Angels and doves. You always knew how much I loved Angels so I smiled because it was as if you were telling me "I am with you always". I love that thought. Sometimes when its so quiet I feel like I can hear you whispering. I wish I knew for sure. Do you look over my shoulder as I write to you. Are you reading every word??...Then if you are please know that I love you more than I could ever love anyone in this world. You are and always will be my forever love. And I miss you so very very much. I'll be at the waters edge these next few days looking over to Mahattan. I always close my eyes and believe that when I open them the Twin Towers will be there. I miss you...I miss you more than anyone could ever know. I miss being in your arms. I miss listening to the beat of your heart. And oh how I miss that beautiful smile and the love and sincerity in your beautiful eyes. I am nothing without you. I am completely lost without you and I feel it will be this way for the rest of my life. I love you my Angel
My heart to only yours forever
Your Wife Barbara
Barbara Chucknick
September 6, 2013
My Beloved,
Here we go again. Another year..another Birthday. Your Birthday and we wish so much that you were here with us.I have been reflecting so much this week and remembering all the beautiful moments you brought to my life. I have so many photos of you on the desk in our room and each one has a memory, and each one brings a smile and a tear. I look at the statue i have near your photo of a man and a woman embracing and its titled "Promise". And its inscribed with "Hold dear the promise of love". I am holding dearly to that promise. I always told you I would love you forever. I hope that you can see that I am keeping my promise. You are so within my heart that you have become my heart. My life is all about you and our son. When you were taken from us a piece of me died with you. But I am so blessed to have Steven. I can't believe that our little boy is not a little boy anymore but an incredible man who will be 25 this year. Sometimes when we are talking I will just stop and I don't know whether to smile or cry. Steven will always look at me and say "What Mom". and through the tears I smile and say "You look just like your Father. And he smiles. He has that wonderful smile that you had and that look in his eyes that shows he is a man of honor and compassion. He is caring and loving and giving and never looks for anything in return. He is you!!!!. I have been so blessed in my life. My first blessing was finding you and loving you. And our Greatest blessing was having Steven. I will honor your Birthday this weekend as I always do because in my heart you are still here and there are times when I think I can actually hear you. When the 12th anniversary comes next week my heart will break all over again because I wish that I could turn back time and yet I know I can't. I love you so much my Angel. Please be with us!!!
My heart to only yours forever
Your Wife Barbara
Always Remembered
Fanny Montalvo
September 5, 2013
Another school year-underway, holidays- merely round the corner.
Lives- busy, things- happening, and another
September 11th- here-
A day to stop, reflect, remember...
"I am not here, I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow, the diamond glints upon a snow's fall. I am the sun on ripened grain. The gentle autumn rain. When you awaken in a morning's hush, I am that swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight. I am those soft stars that shine at night; those stars that paint your sky with light"...
To those I knew for a quarter of a century's worth- you are more than the yearly pictures and names flashed for mere seconds on a television screen, more than just a name etched upon a granite slate- you are those amazing souls that I, and so many others respectfully regarded, lost as former clients who came to be my dear friends: Steve Chucknick, Dave Vera, Barry Young, Jose Marrero of Eurobrokers, Beverly Curry of Cantor Fitzgerald, and Sal Fiumefreddo of IPC- You are carried and live within many a mind and heart always. You are those shining stars which will forever paint the skies.
I will always be thankful to you for your kindness, your guidance, and above all else, the friendship I grew accustomed to- which every day, without, I am so deeply amiss of.
-Fanny
Barbara Chucknick
September 3, 2013
Hi Sweetheart
Today was a quiet day. Really can't seem to get myself moving. I guess i should be doing something but everything seems like such an effort. The weather has been pretty warm again. I wish that summer were over. I remember how much the heat bothered you when you had to take the train to Manhattan. Yet I still remember the day that we lost you. It was such a clear crisp day. Not too hot because there was hardly no humidity at all. I still remember how the air smelled that day. I often stop some days and feel like I could fall to the ground because the smell in the air is the same. Will I ever be able to move my heart to heart and now or will I forever live in 2001 so that i can bee with you. I don't tell you this to make you feel sad. I would never want that. I tell you what is in my heart so that you will always know how much I love you and always will. You are my Forever love!!!....
My heart to only yours forever
Your wife Barbara
Barbara Chucknick
September 2, 2013
Hi My Angel,
Its late at night and all I can think of is you. And yes I am remembering. Its this time of the year every year that the "What If's" constantly haunt me. The what if you didn't go in that morning or what if the alarm had gone off and you took Steven to work with you like you wanted to. Its September 2nd and already I can't seem to function and I can't seem to focus on anything. I don't even feel like seeing or talking to anyone. I want to just stay still until the 11th passes. You were taken from us 12 years ago. How could the time have passed so quickly. Your Birthday is Sept 8th and for some reason I'm dreading it. I either want to sleep the day away or go somewhere quiet where there arent any people. I don't want to talk. I don't want to listen. I just want quiet. And sadly no one understands. So many people feel that I should be able to go on. Don't they realize? You didn't die...you were murdered. You were forced from this earth and from all that you loved. How can I be expected to Just go on. I don't know what happened to you. I don't know what you went through and so as with every year my whole body is in pain right now. The stress and sadness devours me and won't let up till after the anniversary. My heart is with you my Angel. I will never let you be forgotten and I will always keep you alive. I love you so very much
My heart to only yours forever
Your wife Barbara
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