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Edward Pullis Obituary
Before Edward Pullis started a family, he was devoted to his tropical fish. "Yellow and red and blue," his wife, Melissa, said. "He loved his big fish tank."
But once the children came along — two sons and a daughter — Mr. Pullis, 34, a consulting broker for Aon Corporation, shifted his focus. "He played with the kids," Mrs. Pullis said. "He liked to take them out to dinner, to the movies. He just loved to spend time with them."
The Pullises, who met in the Brooklyn of their youth, first moved to Staten Island. Then, in 2000, they bought a center-hall Colonial in New Jersey, in Hazlet, near Middletown. "I knew it was a nice town," Mrs. Pullis said. "Good schools for the kids, room enough for everybody. This was it."
Together, husband and wife designed a dream kitchen. Mr. Pullis gutted the old one and installed the new one.
In December, three months after the World Trade Center fell, Melissa Pullis received a letter. Her husband's black leather wallet had been recovered, in good condition. But all that was inside it was his car registration.
"No driver's license, no ID, no money," she said. "His wallet was full of stuff and somebody ransacked it. I don't understand why."
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We miss you every single day. It's not fair that you were taken from us. We love you.
Brian Kortland
September 11, 2021
Ed and I attended Bishop Ford back in the 80´s. I remember Eddie as a quiet, kind and caring person, always ready to share his gentle smile. I was a mere few blocks away, and had come up from the subway at the towers a mere few minutes before all our lives were changed. As I read his history it is surprising our paths did not cross in the years after HS, working at AIG, living in Old Bridge, so close to Hazlet. I wish I would have gotten to see him, but my prayers have long been with the Pullis family, and see that he has left a fine legacy. We should always remember.
S.J. Friscia III
January 5, 2020
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With Honor & Respect.
Melissa Pullis
September 11, 2019
We miss you and love you so much. Anthony read the names again and you would be so proud. Eddie is a NAVY sailor and MariaFrances is in college.. I know youre proud of your children. I dont know what else to say but that theres a void in our family thats can never be filled. Until we see each other again. We love you. ❤
Kindred Family
July 12, 2019
We send our deep sympathy to your family. Always may God give the needed support. Ed is still missed by others and will not be forgotten.
September 18, 2018
I love you and miss you so much.
Biscotta
maria pullis
February 3, 2017
i love and miss you so much
9/11/16
Melissa Pullis
September 15, 2016
I love and miss you so much. I know you're watching the kids to keep them safe. They miss you terribly and it's so sad but they get through everyday. I'm so incredibly proud of them. Till we meet again, I love you.
maria pullis
September 4, 2014
i miss you so much!i think about you every single day and i will continue it till the day i die. i love you sooo much and i just want you here :(
-Princess
December 28, 2013
Can't believe it's been thirteen Christmas'. We miss you so much.
MP
September 1, 2013
No amount of time can't ever erase this pain.
??MP
February 6, 2013
I Love You
Melissa Pullis
January 2, 2013
Eddie I still can't believe your not here. We all miss you so much. I feel like this is a nightmare and I just can't get up. It's terrible I hate what happened to you, to us!!
I Love You Ed.
Biscotta
Melissa Pullis
January 2, 2013
Eddie I still can't believe your not here. We all miss you so much. I feel like this is a nightmare and I just can't get up. It's terrible I hate what happened to you, to us!!
I Love You Ed.
Biscotta
Michael Hernandez
September 11, 2012
Thinking about you Ed. Remembering the fun time in High School and the early days of home computers. I also remember how you introduced me to how your family prepares the tomatoes for the sause together, your grandfather's wine casket and the hanging procutto in the basement. You will not be forgotten and you left a strong legacy.
September 11, 2012
Happy Birthday Melissa! I am remembering your husband today and lifting your family up in prayer.
Melissa Pullis
December 16, 2011
I Love You Forever and Ever!!
Theresa McKenna
September 11, 2011
I prayed for and thought of you all day today. Even though people don't communicate it often, we will always remember your husband and all the other special people that were lost that day. I know its your birthday as well, and so I hope you had all your friends and family with you. I wish you all the happiness in the world. Theresa McKenna
Melissa Pullis
August 22, 2011
Hey Ed, Today is the day 17 years ago I gave birth to our sons Anthony and Eddie. I remember you where so excited that day and couldn't believe you had these two babies. You are missed so much. Not a day goes by that we don't think about you. Anthony is driving now and Eddie will be soon once he passes his test. MariaFrances looks so much like you and smiles all the time just like you. Well today is a special day because you are still here with me because I have Anthony, Eddie and MariaFrances. You will always be our #1. I Love You more then the water in the ocean and more. Till we meet again my love.
Melissa
June 13, 1993 a day I'll never forget. So lucky to have such a man.
March 3, 2011
Our first home.
March 3, 2011
Donna Casale
March 3, 2011
You Are Simply The Best. Forever.
Wish you were here with us.
March 3, 2011
Together with Daddy again 9/18/10
March 3, 2011
Our boys that are just like you. Well mannered, quiet and polite
Melissa Pullis
March 3, 2011
The family
Melissa Pullis
March 3, 2011
Our Goldie Girl together with her daddy again 9/18/10
March 3, 2011
Wonderful weekend with our kids. We miss you so much.
March 3, 2011
Guiliani the best mayor 9/11 memorial 2010
March 3, 2011
Christmas 2010
March 3, 2011
College of Staten Island Alumni 9/11 Memorial. Love you Ed and miss you more everyday. Life is not the same without you.
Melissa Pullis
March 2, 2011
September 13, 2010
Always in my heart and never forgotten. I love you and miss you so much. We have you as our special Angel to watch over us all the time.
September 11, 2010
Remembering you today Ed. Rest in peace.
Jennifer Sanchez
September 11, 2010
In remembrance of a fine gentleman, Edward Pullis. You are missed dearly. I'm sure your spirit is with us everyday and you are able to see how grown your children have become and what fine young men they have and will always be! And your beautiful daughter Maria with a kind, gentle and thoughtful heart just like you Ed.
Fontana & Polizzi Family
September 11, 2010
Love and miss you Eddie!!!!!
The Fontana and Polizzi Family
Fontana Family
September 11, 2010
Eddie,
There is not a day that goes by where we think of you!!!!This should have never happened and I cant believe its been 9 years! You were a great person and we will never forget we just saw you a month before all this happened and we had alot of laughs and good memories where we will never ever forget!!!..WE love you eddie always loved but never ever forgotten!!!
Melissa-you are doing a great job with the kids and I know Eddie is so proud of you!! we love you!!!
Paul,Cathy, Tina and Paula and Zia
Jennifer Ramallo
September 18, 2009
So sorry I missed the posting on the anniversary date. I posted on facebook instead. Ed your picture is shown on TV year after year. Year and year it still hurts. It makes me my throat swell and tears roll down my eyes. Its so sad that every year I have to see your face on TV knowing you are not around. The last time I remembered the good old days was July 4th, 2009 when I rode the SI ferry. We used to wait at the very front and run like hell to the train.
Joe Altobello
September 11, 2009
I never knew you but have met your wife and two sons. You would be verry proud of them as I am.
Melissa Pullis
September 8, 2009
Dear Ed, I miss you more everyday. Our children always talk about how great their dad is. You shouldn't have been taken from us so soon there is so much that you are missing. I can't ask why anymore only God knows why. I know that you are watching over us all the time, you always were an angel and now you really are. The boys are so big now you would be so proud of them and Maria is just like you always smiling and happy. Thank you for giving me such wonderful children to raise. I just wish you could be here to raise them with me. They will never forget you and Goldie either.I love you always and more.
Melissa
Jennifer Ramallo
September 11, 2008
Today I reflect on the 176 white roses with the names of our fallen colleagues. It's the seventh aniversary of your passing. You will never be forgotten.
Anthony Pullis
November 23, 2007
Hi. I miss you very much, daddy. I remember when we use to make macaroni and cheese when mommy went to work and I remember we used to play crash bandicutt on playstation 1. And I remember when you used to call me spike because of my hair. I remember those memories. I miss you very much. Your my favorite daddy!!!
James Dudich
September 22, 2007
Dear Ed,
I can't believe it has been already 6 years. I know you are around because I feel it. I still remember everything we did together and I am glad I met you at Bishop Ford. I remember all the parties we had DJ'ed and those were great. Infinity Sounds was the best thing we did. Sometimes now I think about starting it up again, but making mixed CD's and selling them on the internet. This idea is still in the works. I miss hanging out with you, we always had fun. You will always be in my memory and you will be forever missed.
Your Best Friend,
Jim Dudich
Anna Bocchino
September 11, 2007
To my brother Eddie,
Even though 6 years have passed by, it only seems like hours have gone by since this terrible tragedy. We all miss you soooo much that words can't describe. We know that you are always with us in spirit. We feel your presence all around us all the time. You know you have a beautiful little niece that was almost born on your birthday. She came into this world on 7/15, just a week before her uncle's birthday. I know you are here because you will protect her and keep her warm. We miss you Eddie, and we will never, ever forget.
MELISSA
September 11, 2007
DEAR EDDIE, I MISS YOU SO MUCH. THERE IS NOT A DAY THAT GOES BY THAT WE DON'T THINK ABOUT YOU. THE KIDS ARE GETTING SO BIG NOW.THEY ARE TEENAGERS NOW. THEY LOOK SO MUCH LIKE YOU. MY BIRTHDAY WILL NEVER BE THE SAME WITHOUT YOU. HOW CAN I CELEBRATE IT WHEN IT'S THE DAY I LOST THE LOVE OF MY LIFE. I KNOW YOU WOULD SAY YOU HAVE TOO. BELIEVE ME I TRY FOR THE KIDS. THE KIDS ARE DOING GREAT. I AM DOING A GREAT JOB WITH THEM. IT'S HARD AT TIMES BUT IT'S NOTHING I CAN'T HANDLE. I LOVE YOU AND WILL MISS YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER. LOVE, BISCOTTA, THE KIDS AND GOLDIE
Jennifer Ramallo
September 11, 2007
God chose you and all others that perished on 9/11 to be his angels and bring peace to this earth. We all welcome you with open arms.
kristine
April 23, 2007
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Laura Milo
April 17, 2007
Melissa,
I left a message in your guest book shortly after seeing Eddie's sister, Josephine, at a store in Morganville (about two years ago). I went to St. Mary's with Eddie. He was always a sweet person. Knowing how he passed away keeps my life in perspective. I just wanted to let you know that he will always be in my prayers. I hope you and your children are doing okay.
Laura Milo
P Tabbernor
February 5, 2007
In memory....
Maria Ragonese
September 13, 2006
Melissa, thanks for signing Laura's guest book on this anniversary. Please know whenever we remember Laura, we remember your husband, Ed. I had the pleasure of meeting him a few times as I used to visit Laura at her office fequently. My heart goes out to you as I know you have young children. It is still hard to belive and always will be. Have no fear, we will always keep their memories alive. Love, Maria (Laura's best friend and Sister in Law)
Jennifer Ramallo
September 11, 2006
Today marks another aniversary of Edward's passing. Again, he will alway's be remembered. Sincere Regard's....Jennifer
Jennifer Ramallo
August 11, 2006
The anniversary of September 11th is fast approaching. The memories of our friendship will remain in my heart forever. You will never be fogotten. Rest in peace, your friend Jennifer.
Theresa McKenna
July 14, 2006
Hi Melissa,
You and your family are still in our hearts. We continue to pray for your peace and happiness. We will never forget.
Love Theresa
Melissa
April 23, 2006
Dear Eddie and Daddy, We love you more than words can say.
Love and miss you always,
Your family
Melissa Pullis
March 5, 2006
DEAR EDDIE, I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH. THERE IS NOT A DAY THAT GOES BY THAT I DON'T THINK ABOUT YOU. I WILL NEVER FORGET YOU AND NEITHER WILL THE KIDS.
LOVE YOU FOREVER,
MELISSA (A.K.A) BISCOTTA
Melissa Pullis
August 23, 2005
Eddie, I love you forever. Our children will always know who their daddy is and never forget you. We miss you more than words can say. Watch over us.
Love your wife,
Melissa Pullis
Anthony Camiolo
February 11, 2005
I met Eddie in high school. We were close friends for a long time. Although we grew apart I will never forget the good times we had. I miss you Eddie. Love your friend, NINO
Jennifer Ramallo
November 22, 2004
Years have past and I want you to know Melissa that I still think of Eddie everyday. I wish he was here to see that I have two beautiful children. Ed was always waiting for the day. I know he is with us in spirit because I can never forget his face and never forget his smile.
Melissa Pullis
October 20, 2004
Dear Eddie,
I miss you so much I can't believe you are not here. Life is not the same without you it will never be. I will always love you and never forget you. Everyday I look at the kids eyes I see yours. They are so beautiful and so full of your love of life. You know that I will give them all the love they need to make them happy forever even though you are not here in body but you are here in spirit always. You always said I was a strong person. I will not let down. I love you forever and ever and the kids will always know you are right by their side everywhere they go in life. You showed what a good and genuine person is and they will grow up just like you always dreamed.
Love you always,
Melissa
Edgardo Diaz
April 23, 2004
what can i say about such a great person?...... no word can express my sadness, everytime that I pass by the site my heart aches because its still hard to belive that hes gone. I knew him for a short time but its incredible how in that short time he was able to affect me the way he did.He had such a good heart when he would look at his kids he had such a beutiful smile that he express while hugging and kissing his children. The first day I met him he was so friendly with me , you can tell alot by a person on the first contact and i can definetly say he was a Great Man an absolutly perfect father and husband...I will look up to him forever. he truly was ... A Great Person to all!
Thanks Eddie I'll miss you
Laura D'Antonio-Milo
March 20, 2004
Dear Melissa and Children,
I met Josephine at a store yesterday...I haven't seen her in many years. She told me about Eddie. How sad I am to hear this. Eddie and I went to SMMJ together. He was such a sweet, unassuming boy, and I'm sure he grew into a wonderful person. I will think about him everyday from this point on. God Bless your children.
Laura D'Antonio-Milo
Laura D'Antonio-Milo
March 19, 2004
Dear Melissa and children,
I met Eddie's sister, Josephine, at a store yesterday. I haven't seen her in many years. When she told me about Eddie, I was deeply saddened. Eddie and I went to SMMJ school together. He was such a nice boy back then, and I'm sure he grew to be a wonderful person. He will be in my thoughts from this day forward. God bless your family.
Jennifer Ramallo
September 11, 2003
Mellisa, its been two years now and I still think of Ed everyday. I remember when I first met you and Eddie 10 years ago. The most memorable time for me was when we had our snow adventure in the poconos. I can remember waking you up very early in the morning on your wedding day! He was a great gentleman. I will miss him always. Thinking of you in RIO. Luv Jen. I will be home soon.
Paula Fontana
September 11, 2003
I just wanted 2 say to our family that Eddie is and always will be in our thoughts,prayers & especially our hearts. I know we never really spent that much time together but we all do miss him & love him.We all have to keep in contact. God bless Eddie, the family and everyone else, Especially USA! We love you guys and remember we are always here for you no matter what!! Love you all always!!!
The Fontana & Polizzi Family
Gregg Marchese
September 11, 2003
I still think of Ed often. He quickly became my bus buddy and someone who I quickly found out I had a lot in common with. The buses haven't been the same since! From our roots in Brooklyn, move to SI, fish tanks, to our cars and countless stories.. Someday I wish to follow in his footsteps. He is truly a good man who was able to accomplish many things that I admired. Miss ya neighbor :-)
Theresa McKenna
September 11, 2003
Dear Melissa,
I wanted you to know that we are still remembering. My community group from my church still prays for you. I think of you all the time and we hope that you and your children are doing OK. We love you.
Theresa McKenna
adriana iacono paravizzini
September 4, 2003
I knew only two people who perished in the World Trade Center. They were two people that I haven't thought of in over 15 years and now I think of them constantly. Eddie being one of them. I went to grammar school with him and his sisters. It's been two years and I feel I need to write this. The Pullis family is in our thoughts and in our prayers always.
Robert, Nancy, Dustin and Laura Sutton
September 9, 2002
In memory of Edward F. Pullis
We did not know Edward, but my husband is the brother of Cam Sutton who works for Aon. I came across this on the internet and wanted to express our deepest sympathy. I have thought of all the lives lost that day and especially of the ones from my brother-in-laws office and it still hurts deeply. Our deepest deepest sympathy to the family.
Nancy Sutton
Thomas Pullis
September 9, 2002
My name is Chris and I may or may not be a second or third cousin. i was just going through names when i saw my own last name. My whole family is originaly from Greenpoint brooklyn. I was unaware of any pullis' that past that day. Your family is in my family's prayers. I would like to know if we were related and let my children know that there are more pullises out there. E-mail me at [email protected]
Be strong for your family and god bless
Marilyn Tiburcio
August 24, 2002
Dear Melissa, yes, I do understand the pain when you look at your children. I lost my husband to cancer 2 years ago, I greatly understand your pain. I worked with Eddie at Ebsco and he was such a great person. I know he was a great husband and father. He will be missed by all. May God bless you and your children. May you find the strenght and comfort to go on.
Elizabeth Ruiz
August 13, 2002
I would like to say that I knew Eddie when we use to work at Ebasco seven years ago. I could only say that he was a great guy. Very nice and caring. Ever since he got another job I lost contact but I always remember him. We are going to miss him.
Melissa, the only thing I could say is to be strong and may God bless your kids.
Stacy Scherf
August 8, 2002
I had been temping for the Special Risk team for more than a month and was there that day. Ed was really a great person. I enjoyed working with him. I remember seeing him that morning...but after the first plane hit, I never saw him again.
I have spent the last year trying to get over the guilt of surviving when Ed, Laura, Len & Anna all had children to support and I lived a selfish existence in NYC with no children - not even a spouse. I am so sorry.
God bless you Ed...And love & prayers to his family. I hope the pain is a little less each month - knowing he is in a better place and you will see him again.
June 25, 2002
Eddie:
You, my friend, are what they call "good people".
I do not even know where to begin. You and I were a team and now that team no longer exists. The work days are long and I think of you often and the experiences and stories we have shared. I miss you my friend. I will always keep you, Melissa and the kids in my prayers.
Tarah Jarvis
May 30, 2002
What a nice tribute. My 3-year-old son and I chose Mr. Pullis' name at random to do a quilt square for the United in Memory Quilt project. It was nice to have a more personal touch by seeing what nice things were said about him and learning a little bit more about him as a person.
Theresa McKenna
May 28, 2002
Hello Melissa,
I want you to know that I still think of Edward Pullis all the time. He will always symbolize for me, all the good in people. I hope you and the children know that people still care and we are REMEMBERING.
Love Theresa McKenna
Angie Campbell
May 9, 2002
May God Bless you and watch over the family and friends that you left behind. Rest in peace forever more.
March 26, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL MAN...EDWARD F.PULLIS AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN..FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..STAY CLOSE..PRAY...AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK FOREVER..MAY JESUS AND HIS SAINTS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
sara molnar
March 22, 2002
Dear Melissa and children,
I learned of Edward's death by watching the CBS special just a few days ago. Although I didn't know him, my maiden name is Pullis also. My family has never known others with this same name and so we wonder whether there is a connection. We are originally Ohio and Indiana people, but now Michigan. My son lives in NYC and works just blocks from the WTC. We have visited the city and the site recently and are in awe of the resourcefulness of the city's residents. We wish all the very best.
Should you wish to explore our Pullis connection, please feel free to email me.
Francine Galassa
March 14, 2002
To The Pullis Family,
Our thoughts and prayers have been and will continue to be with you.
Francine Galassa
Beers Street PTO
Melissa Fiorica
March 12, 2002
To the Pullis Family
No loss can be greater than that of a Husband, Father, Son, Brother, Loved One, Friend. I worked with Eddie at Ebasco on the 92nd floor in 2 WTC years ago. It was like yesterday, my husband & I were dancing at his wedding. I worked for Morgan Stanley on the 68th floor in 2 WTC but didn't go into the office that day. I hadn't seen Eddie in a while & didn't know he still worked there too. Melissa I hope you find the courage to get through each day & I know you will tell your children what a wonderful person their father was. I know Eddie will be missed by so many but I also know he is at peace in Heaven.
Elizabeth Lanigan
January 9, 2002
I knew Eddie for just under two years as a colleague in the insurance industry. He was one of the nicest people I've worked with and we all miss him very much. Prayers are with you Melissa, and with your kids...
Carrie Olson
January 7, 2002
We recently missed your annual friendly reminder to renew our insurance policy. We are very sad to hear of your lose and hope that the joy of knowing you are in heaven eases the pain for those you left behind. May God Bless You and Your Family.
Teresa Jahn
December 16, 2001
May the life and love of Edward live on through his children. We are deeply sorry for your loss of Edward. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Melissa Pullis
December 10, 2001
My husband is a wonderful person. He is a great father and husband. I miss him so much I can't explain the pain I feel when I look at my children. I know they miss their father very much. I will never ever forget my one and only true love.
Mrs. Melissa Pullis 12/10/01
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