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When Vincent Litto's sister was stricken with multiple sclerosis in 1979, she was no longer able to care for her daughter. So Mr. Litto and his wife, Linda, took the daughter in and raised her as their own. She was one of four girls Mr. Litto doted on.
"Although I was not born his daughter, he treated me as nothing less," said Michele Reitano, 33, as a thousand friends and relatives at a recent memorial service mourned Mr. Litto, 52, a vice president at Cantor Fitzgerald. "I was privileged to be part of his family, his home and to have him as my father."
Michelle's sisters ‹ and that is what they consider themselves ‹ told their stories, too.
Kimberly Litto, 20, spoke of the crowd around their Staten Island dinner table. "I'd ask who was coming for Sunday dinner," she said, "and he'd answer 'You know, just us.' "
"Just us," to Mr. Litto, meant "Grandma, Grandpa, Poppy, Katie, Peter, Vincent, Michele, Joey, Lauren, Julia, Robbie, Stacey, the Tolkins, the Sorrentinos, the Roccobonos, the Laskys, the Palmisanos and Steve."
Catherine Litto Petras recalled the many ways her father taught his girls to "do the right thing," some as simple as "making sure to say hello and goodbye to everyone who came in out house, whether it be the sprinkler guy or our grandfather."
And Kristen Litto, 22, asked mourners to close their eyes and conjure a special moment with her father. "The way you felt at that moment," she said, "is the way our father made us feel every single moment of every single day of our lives."
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Joe staten island
March 13, 2017
Happy Birthday Friend.... Always in my thoughts...
Joe Cap..
March 13, 2015
Hey Vinny, Just sending you Birth Day wishes and letting you know you are never far from my thoughts, especially on your BD. ... your friend Joe Cao
Katie
September 12, 2014
13 years...has it really been 13 years? It feels like yesterday. I love you, I miss you. I will never forget. I promise. RIP Dad
S J. Friscia III
May 15, 2014
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joe caporicci
March 13, 2014
Happy Birthday Friend. Never forget...
joe caporicci
March 13, 2013
Hi Vinny, Another year goes by , does not get easier... Happy Birthday....
your friend Joe Cap
March 13, 2013
Hi Vinny, Another year goes by still never gets easy... Happy Birthday...
your friend Joe Cap
JOE CAP
March 13, 2012
HAPPY BIRTHDAY VINNY... ALWAYS THINKING OF YOU....
william selby
September 18, 2011
The name of your loved one is featured in my video (A Visit to the WTC MEMORIAL). I thought you might want to take a look. It's a peaceful tribute to those who lost their lives that day. Thank you and God Bless...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UKA1VZsU7Jw
al ricciardi
September 11, 2011
I just wanted to say that I think of. Vinny quite often. I was his assistant for 4 or 5 years at. Drexel Durham we had many good times and laughs. I sat between. Vinny and his best friend. George. Laskey. It's good to hear the family is doing well. Al. Rocciardi
joe caporicci
March 14, 2011
vinny,
always find myself thinking about you this time of year... its been 10 years, but it never gets easier..
your friend joe cap
JENN barron
March 14, 2009
WAS THINKING OF YOU YESTERDAY... HAPPY BIRTHDAY... WE MISS YOU .
XOXO
Doug Abraham
March 13, 2009
Happy Birthday!!!
joe caporicci
March 13, 2009
Vinny,
Just found myself thinking about u today, then i realized it was actually your birthday, so i needed to write and say you are always in my thoughts, Its been so long ,but still seems like yesterday when the world changed forever,
Dayngr
September 11, 2008
Vincent,
I'm blessed to be able to honor your memory as a part of the 2996 Project. I think of you often and those whom you were stolen from, and wish you and your family nothing but peace - even though I never had the pleasure of meeting you in person.
God Bless
Katie Petras
September 5, 2008
Somehow I knoow we'll meet again, not sure quite where and I don't know just when. You're in my heart so until then, wanna smile, wanna cry saying goodbye..love you forever
Doug Abraham
March 13, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
jenn barron
September 11, 2007
Dear Uncle Vinny,
Here we are again on this solemn day and all we do is think of you. We all think and talk about you so often , now more than ever. We miss you so very much. People say that time heals a broken heart but I say this is untrue. All of us including the kids find it so hard to forget what has happened to you and that you are not with us. We feel that the only time we feel better is when we are with Aunt Linda and your girls. It is such a great feeling to be around them and talk with them. Amanda and Allie say it all the time. We have told all the kids so many great stories of our times and vacations together . It always puts a smile on their faces to hear all about you and "us". WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU VERY MUCH.
ALL OUR LOVE ALWAYS,
JENN, MIKE, AMANDA, ALLIE, MIKEY, EMILY, JACK AND THOMAS
Janet Lasky
September 11, 2007
This is another Anniversary 6 long years without you and another Anniversary the 4 of us can't share. There isn't a day we dont think of you and talk about you or call out to you fly face. This has been a rough year but we know Marie is finally where she wants to be and I know you greeted her with open arms. I know you are watching over Robby and keeping him strong and safe. God Bless Him. Kimberly and Kristens Engagement has been the most wonderful joy for all. George and I love you and miss you always.
Rachel Cohen
September 10, 2007
To my cousin Vinny:
As the 9/11 anniversary is coming up, I just want to say how much I miss you and love you. You will always be remembered as a wonderful person with such a warming presence. I think about you all the time, I love you cousin Cheesy.
Love,
Rachel
Dennis Litto
August 16, 2007
I was looking up Litto's on the internet , as I am one. Sorry for your loss. Dennis Litto
michael caggiano
May 18, 2007
I never had the pleasure of meeting you but i am close friends with you nephew anthony when ever we get together he always talks very highly of you and expresses how much he misses you and how much you meant to him unknowingly you and my brother richie worked together along with his friends jude and robert my sympathy goes out to you and your family the pain they feel is all to familar may you rest peacefully
Doug Abraham
March 13, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
P Tabbernor
December 11, 2006
In remembrance....
Kristine
November 14, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Denise Paterna
September 12, 2006
Mr. L,
Not a day goes by when I don't think of you and that day. Everyday I must face Ground Zero and relive the day again in my mind. The sadness, horror and images in my mind from that day will NEVER go away. It NEVER gets easier and I will NEVER FORGET. Everyday, I say a prayer for you and your WONDERFUL family. They are truly great people just as you ARE a great person. God bless you.
JENNIFER BARRON
September 11, 2006
DEAR UNCLE VIN,
WE CAN'T BELEIVE THAT FIVE YEARS HAVE PASSED ALREADY. THERE'S NOT A DAY THAT GOES BY THAT WE DON'T THINK OF YOU. WE REALLY MISS YOU VERY MUCH. MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU IN THE PALM OF HIS HANDS.
ALL OUR LOVE ALWAYS,
JENN , MIKE AND KIDS
Mark G.
September 11, 2006
I did not have the privilege of knowing Vincent, but on this unforgettable day, I will honor him. May God bless his family and friends who undoubtedly miss him.
Anthony
September 6, 2006
Almost five years have gone by but you and your family are always in my thoughts and prayers. I was only fortunate enough to know you for a few years but your kindness and compassion were evident from day one.
You'll always be "Uncle Vin"...
D. Girl
August 29, 2006
Litto Family,
I am paying tribute to Vincent Litto this September 11th.
I have chosen to honor one of the 2996 who lost their lives on 9/11 and Vincent was who I will have the priviledge of honoring.
I didn't know him in life but he will be forever remembered by me and his name will be in my prayers along with his family.
Blessings,
D.
JENNIFER BARRON
September 11, 2005
Dear Uncle Vin,
Although 4 years have passed, the feelings are still the same. We miss you so very much. Being with Aunt Linda and the girls always makes us feel closer to you. We will never forget you and how much you mean to us. You are soooo special to All of us! We are so proud to be a part of your "FAMILY".May God Bless You and Keep You.
We love you and Miss you,
Jennifer , Michael and All the Kids
maria christiano
July 1, 2005
Vinny,
After you were first gone, I found it very hard to go to your house knowing that I wouldn't have your smile and hug to greet me. Linda,Katie, Kristen, Kimberly and the rest of your wonderful family, continue to make me feel apart of the family. Katie continues to be my best friend and "twin" sister and her memories of you or feeling that you are still there with us in spirit is what keeps your warmth, kindness and love in my heart.
love Maria
Michael Jessie
December 18, 2002
Vincent Litto.
Seeing his name made me pause as I searched the Fresh Kills landfill for the missing aircraft flight data recorders. I found his office nametag by chance, and took it to an area the FBI had set up for personal effects. Perhaps it was eventually returned to his family. I hope it was, for I realized that many families would not recover anything. It has taken me over a year to bring myself to look up his name, and and to read the touching tributes from his family and friends. Vincent Litto, you were a special person.
Vincent Prestigiacomo
September 11, 2002
The Litto's-
My family misses you very much. We miss all the fun nights we had together. You will be in our minds, hearts and our prayers. We love you
Erin Lane
September 9, 2002
Hello to everyone in the Litto family. You all don't know me, but I'm Stephen and Barbara Lane's daughter. And although I never recieved the gift of knowing my "uncle" Vinny, my parents have told so many great things about him, how very funny, kind hearted, loving and supportive he was. I know its been awhile since our families have talked and that there is a long distance between our homes , but I thought it only proper at this time, the anniversary of the loss of a great many people and one great man, to say that we think of you all with nothing but respect and love. Our ties as a family to New York are very great, and with the collapse of the buildings, it was also our hearts, getting pounded into our feet as we realized how many of our loved ones, those we still have close relationships with and those that have faded, might have been hurt. We just want to tell you that we have faith and hope that out of the ashes of this tradegy, although incomplete in so many ways, your lives will begin again- and that we are here for you, if ever there is a need. You are in our daily prayers and just know that with every nightfall comes the promise of a new day. We send all our best.
On behalf of my parents:
To uncle Vinny- You will be missed. Take care of Pat and Elizabeth, Bob and Docky and keep an eye on Michele.
August 7, 2002
God bless your family and keep you strong.
Robi Kellerman
May 12, 2002
When I first met my husband Peter he was working for Vinny. My memories of Vinny are kind, gentle, sweet and ever so patient. He was so good to my husband and my husband always talked about how much he learned from Vinny. He will be missed forever, I think about you guys all the time. I know they are watching over us. They wre such good souls.
All my love.
Dawn Zak
May 7, 2002
Vincent,
Although I did not know you, my heart goes out to you and your family... I have chosen you to create a quilt square the the United in Memory 9/11 Memorial Quilt as my tribute.
God bless.
Dawn
Veronica (14 years) Privett
April 22, 2002
My thoughts and prayers are with your family Mr. Litto. Although I did not know you I know I will pray for your family every day.
Linda Rhatigan
April 8, 2002
Although I did not know "Uncle Vin" personally, I know his relative, young Joe Ciappa from Brooklyn who is my daughter's friend. I wish to say to the Litto and Ciappa family that I am so sorry for your loss. Vincent Litto apparently was a man who was very loving and well-loved. His passing is truly a tragedy.
Jo Ann Begley
March 19, 2002
Dear Rob,Stacey and all the Litto Family,
Although I was only in Vinnie's company on one occasion, I feel as though I knew him well. His goodness lives on in each and every one of you and in the love you have for one another. I continue to send warm thoughts of comfort and strength your way every day.
Love,
Aunt JoAnn
JOE CAPORICCI
March 14, 2002
VINNY,
I FOUND OUT ABOUT THIS SITE TODAY,
I WAS THINKING ABOUT YOU ALL DAY
YESTERDAY 3/13, AS IT WAS YOUR BIRTHDAY. YOU KNOW THAT I HAVE CALLED YOU EVERY YEAR ON THAT DAY
AND I FELT REAL EMPTY SINCE I COULD NOT DO THIS. THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR
ADVICE ABOUT RAISING GIRLS. I WILL
ALWAYS REMEMBER THE CONVERSATIONS WE
HAD AND HOW YOU ALWAYS TOLD ME , ALWAYS TAKE CARE OF THE GIRLS. I KNOW OUR LAST CONVERSATION ON FRIDAY
9/7, WE HAD DISCUSSED ABOUT PICKING A DATE TO GO OUT. I AM SORRY THAT WE NEVER GOT THAT CHANCE. VINNY YOU ARE
TRULY A SPECIAL MAN AND ARE MISSED
TERRIBLY. I HOPE YOU ARE WITH MY BROTHER LOUIE AND ALL THE OTHER
PEOPLE WE HAVE LOST AND ARE AT PEACE.
YOUR FRIEND JOE CAPORICCI.
JENNIFER BARRON
March 13, 2002
Dear Uncle Vinny,
Today is your birthday and I can't stop thinking of you. I hope in heaven you are celebrating with everyone we have up there. Everyday you are on our minds ,the kids are constantly talking about you.(especially your little Amanda) We can not put into words the void we have and the sadness we feel.We miss you, your hugs, your smile,your love, just you being you. I couldn't let today go by without saying Happy Birthday Uncle Vin. We love you and miss you very much.
All our love,
Jennifer ,Michael and kids
"May the road rise to meet you,
May the wind be always at your back, May the sun shine warm upon your face,The rain fall soft upon your fields, And until we meet again.... May God hold you in the palm of his hands....143
February 24, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL MAN VINCENT LITTO AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS WONDERFUL FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY JESUS AND ST.VINCENT GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Patricia Rausch
February 20, 2002
The last time I saw Vinny was at cousin Tommy's wedding, it was also the last time I saw Louie Cap. We had a great time at the reception. You and Linda walked in and walked right over to me,(like we saw one anothe every day) Linda as always, with a big smile and you lovingly holding her arm. You were such a beautiful couple. It breaks my heart to think of all the pain this has caused your family and friends. I pray for them all every day. Rest in peace, keep Louie company, family is very important not only here on earth but in heaven. Cousin Patty (Laresca) Rausch
Patricia DaRe
February 17, 2002
I only had the pleasure of meeting Vinny and being in his company on a few occasions. The tragedy that cut his life so short and took him from his family is overwhelming. I am still overcome with great sadness, due to this senseless act of violence. Our prayers are with Linda and the girls and we pray that God continues to guide and protect them.
Victoria DaRe
February 13, 2002
Although I did not know Vincent Litto well, I don't think that necessary to knowing the goodness of his character. Some people just have a good heart, and you just know it. That was how it was when I met Vinny. You could just tell.
Roseanne Vece
February 12, 2002
I am so sorry for your great loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you. May God Bless you and watch over you..Roseanne
Ginger McHugh
February 11, 2002
Dear Stacy, Rob and the entire Litto Family,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you. May you find peace and comfort in your wonderful memories.
Love,
Auntie Ginger
Stacy Lane
February 9, 2002
Uncle Vin -
Robby and I miss you so much - we think about you every day, many times a day. We keep finding pictures of you, and we always talk about things - like how a scene of Sex in the City would've made you nuts, or we see something you would have thought was funny, or how you would still be telling us to have a baby. You were such a great, big presence in our lives. Words seem so small and useless to describe what everyone is feeling. We miss you to a depth that can't be reached and love you more than that.
love,
Robby and Stacy
Anne_Michele Hall
January 4, 2002
I didn't have the priviledge of knowing Mr. Litto, although his picture looks familiar to me. As a neighbor, I walk many times past his lovely home on the way to and from the train station. Ever since September, I have noticed -each time I pass his home- a chorus of many, many birds gathering in the trees just in front of his house making the most wonderful melody of music. There is no doubt in my mind that Mr. Litto's presence is there -and that he is watching over his family and his home.
Litto family, I am so sorry for your loss. Please remember that our loved ones never leave us. They stay close within our hearts forever.
Maureen Sargent
January 2, 2002
I didn't know Vincent, but I DO know his cousin, Carole Ciappa, and over the past few years, she has become a dear friend. Carole has cried on my shoulder via e-mail many times since September 11th and this message is for her and Vicent's family. I wish you peace.
Teresa Jahn
December 25, 2001
I did close my eyes in memory of Vincent-I felt a warmth radiate from within me and I cried. Thank you for sharing a part of Vincent's heart with me. I am deeply sorry for your loss of Vincent. May his life and love continue living in those who love him and in those who have been touched by him (including me now) Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Aimee Lubrano
November 27, 2001
My love and prayers go out to Kristen, Kimberly and the rest of their family. We have all suffered so much during these tragic events, and I can only hope and pray that we are someday comforted. God Bless all the victims, families and survivors. All who were lost will forever be in our hearts.
Kristen & Kimberly, I haven't seen you girls in awhile, but my heart goes out to you and your family. God Bless your father.
All my best,
Aimee
Sheila McCarthy
November 27, 2001
Vinny, you are a great friend and deeply missed. I enjoyed working with you and our friendship after I left. I know you are at peace and wish your family the strength to go on. For one day you will all meet again.
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