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"I always knew Australia would bring me something special and magical," said Jane Gyulavary. So it did in 1986, when, after traveling there nine times in less than 10 years, she met Peter Gyulavary, a strapping Australian graduate student 11 years her junior, who in an instant convinced her that soul mates do exist.
They married, had a child, Geniveve, now 13, and returned to New York. They settled into a three-story Victorian in Orange County which Mr. Gyulavary, a 44-year-old environmental engineer for Washington Group International, insisted on painting yellow and green, the colors of Australia.
"All week he would work in an office, writing these massive reports," Mrs. Gyulavary said. "And then he would come home and put up a roof, paint the porch or sand a floor. He loved the physical part of life, getting his hands dirty. I'd have to ring a gong to get him to come in for a cocktail and dinner."
For weeks, she has hoped her husband would come home once more. Now she has resigned herself to saying goodbye to "his physical presence" by honoring him with a memorial service, where there will be no coffin, just a photo, draped with his tool belt, hard hat and a picture book of their beloved Australia.
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Madeleine Henley
September 12, 2023
You and my husband were students at Hunter College together. Two transplants; you from Australia and my husband from California. A friend in common told us that you had perished. I want to say that you had been highly thought of in the world of urban planning.
We remember you still.
Mo Raybourne
September 11, 2023
♥ We still miss you Peter.
Your smile is still imprinted in my mind.
Donna Vandiver
September 12, 2021
Amy Crump and I worked with Peter and his team on the Metrolink expansion in St Louis in the 90s. He was living at the MAC, as we recall. He spoke of his wife and daughter and his various projects at the house in NY. He talked about living in Australia, and his family there. We so enjoyed working with him! He was smart and funny and seemed to be entertained by Amy’s impression of his accent. (And, his impression of our Midwest accent.) I stopped off to see him at his office on a trip to NY, and he was just as busy as ever. We think about him every Sept. 11 and again today, when the Post-Dispatch included the names of all the victims of that day in 2001.
Matthew Hoffman
September 11, 2021
I grew up a few houses down from Peter in Warwick. That house was truly beautiful. Everyone who walked by commented on how wonderful the yellow and green looked. May it stand forever as a monument to him.
May he rest in peace.
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Mo Raybourne
September 14, 2016
You are not forgotten and you are still missed!!
Tim Maurier
September 13, 2016
Peter and I had the opportunity to work together on transit projects from the east coast to Orange County.
We collaborated on the pursuit of the Centerline LRT project for OCTA. Peter served as the project manager and was truly the heart and soul of our team.
He along with Steve Gazillo and many other friends led a vibrant transit group for Washington Group International.
It was an honor to work with Peter may God rest his soul.
Mo Raybourne
October 2, 2012
I pray for his family every day when I pass our 9/11 Memorial Plaque here in the Cleveland office of URS.
We still miss you Peter.
September 11, 2012
God bless Peter...
Madeleine
September 12, 2011
Dear Jane,
I met you and Genevieve once, when we happened to bump into each other at the Leif Ericson Day School in Dyker Heights. I am guessing that Genevieve might have been four or five years old and my son was five or six years old.
Our husbands, yours and mine were at Hunter College together for their Masters' degrees. They were classmates.
As you know, we lost so many in Brooklyn on 9/11 and I think that you and Peter had already gone north to Warwick but when my husband told me that Peter had been lost, well, I think that loss hit me particularly hard. Perhaps, because I remembered Genevieve and how close she is in age to our son.
Peter will always be remembered by this family in Brooklyn.
Richard Enty
September 12, 2011
Peter was a terrific person to work with. We weren't personally acquainted, but it was evident that he was a very kind and loving person. I will continue to remember him and pray that his loving family finds peace in knowing that Peter helped changed the world in a very good way and that he will always be with us.
Serena
September 11, 2011
10 years after, it's still emotional and I think of Peter and the fun times we had. My entry in 2007 was incorrect - we worked together and were friends in 1985-86. So glad to know he went on to touch so many people in a positive way.
Mo Raybourne
September 8, 2011
I miss Peter everday when I walk past his picture in our office and I stil keep the picture of him and our other 12 colleagues on my cubicle wall. I never want to forget that smile and the way he made everyone feel special.
I miss his jokes and his company at our after-work get togethers.
Peace be with you always Peter, my friend.
Craig Hebebrand
May 2, 2011
Today we held the ceremonial ground breaking for Cleveland's Innerbelt Bridge. The culmination of more than a decade of work. I will forever be grateful for the time Peter spent mentoring me. Thank you and God Bless
Clayton Young
September 12, 2010
On September 11/2010 there was a motorcycle rally in Kansas City Mo. There were over 5000 motorcycles involved. The flag that flew after 9/11 in New York and one of the New York Fire Department trucks were at this event. Each rider was given a name of one of the 911 victims, I recieved Peter's name. I wanted to let the family know that he was remembered and I was proud to be able to do this, I would like to add that it was a very humbling experience for myself. If the family would like pictures or more information on this please dont hesitate in contacting me. I would like to add that he was represented by one of the nicest motorcycles in this 911 rally.
Olivia Gyulavary
June 14, 2010
Peter Gyulavary was a great archietect, he was aloving father and brother and uncle and godfather. My name is Olivia Gyulavary peter is my unle, my godfather and i love him.
Pia Peña y Lillo
June 8, 2009
I'm schocked! I studied with Peter Urban planning and spent many hour with him cooking, studying and hanging around. I still remember our master piece about Central Park and the book he gave me as a present. I still carry it around the world. I'm sure he is building a better heaven for us all.
Maggi Diaz-Santana
September 12, 2008
Dear Gyulavary family,
I met Peter when he and I worked at TAMS Consultants. I thought that 9/11 had not touched me in any other way than as a New Yorker and a human being, but I was deeply saddened when I came across Peter's name. Although I didn't get to know Peter very well, I have only the fondest memories of him. Always with smile on his face and never a negative thing to say, I will always remember him that way. On this 7th anniversary, I signed the beam that will begin the construction of the memorial and museum in Peter's memory. This is just a small gesture on my part to let you know that my prayers and thoughts are with you, and that Peter will not be forgotten. God bless.
Cathy Conti
September 11, 2008
Today is 9/11 and in Tampa, Florida, Peter was remembered at a simple ceremony where I work. Peter's wife and I are friends and our mothers have been best friends for more than 40 years. I signed this guest book 7 years ago, and want Jane, Gigi, Lillian and Tony to know that Peter is still remembered and honored.
Carolyn Rodriguez
September 10, 2008
As Sept.11 draws near, I once again am reminded of my co-worker (even if only by phone), Peter Gyulavary, whose life was taken away, much too soon, 7 yrs ago.
I read other entries that expressed similar memories as mine... I worked for the same company as Mr. Gyulavary, but in an office in Florida . We spoke many times on the phone, as I was his remote 'support' person for his AT&T Worldnet account.
I will always remember that renegade Australian accent, but more, the delightful sense of humor.
MANY TIMES, when I was frustrated with my inability to solve their problem, Peter would make a joke, bring a smile and tell me not to sweat the small stuff!
Shortly before 9/11, I changed jobs and professions and began a career in emergency management. At work that day, we became totally immersed in the events as they unfolded. The next morning, early, I called the Washington office, where I had worked only several weeks before, to inquire if they knew how everyone in WTC had been...I was told that they believed at the time that Peter didn't make it. I can still feel the sinking feeling in my heart and soul, at hearing those words.
I knew very little about this person before that day, but the short times we interacted, I realized he was a person of special quality. Since then, I have thought many times of his family, and have prayed, and continue to pray for their strength , spirit and happiness.
I'm sure if Peter were alive today, he probably would not remember me, but I continue to remember him and his family, and that is all that matters.
Anneke Gyulavary
September 7, 2007
Peter, if you can see me writing this from your place in heaven, it's me, your niece and i want you to know that i talk to you all the time, i dont remember you when you and daddy were brothers, although, you still are brothers, i dont remember when you were here on earth with daddy.
I talk to you trugh the stars and i want you to know that jane, genevieve, daddy and my sisters miss you a lot. and so do i. i wish you were here peter. When i was just 6 years old i went on my first plane to see jane and genevieve just for you. from australia to los angeles, that's a long way for a scared 6 year old. But now i am a grown up 13 year old and i miss you so much. Whenever i see the brightest star, i think of you. I miss you heaps and i will check on you all the time. I miss you so much, Uncle Peter. xox,
Anneke Gyulavary
Serena
February 20, 2007
I met Peter when he was building my Father's house in Greenwhich, CT in the summer of 1995. Unfortunately we had not kept in touch and it's only now (Feb 2007)that I learned how he perished. I'm so sorry for his family's loss.
Kristine
November 6, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
October 28, 2006
In remembrance....
Craig Hebebrand
September 11, 2003
I met Peter while he was in Cleveland finishing up the Waterfront Line MIS. I was preparing to begin the Cleveland Innerbelt MIS and Peter took time to mentor me and share his knowledge and experience with me. God Bless.
Lenore Hohman
August 1, 2003
I met Peter Gyulavary when he worked on the Waterfront Line project in Cleveland, Ohio for the MK-Centenntial Group. Although I did not work directly with Peter on this project, his office was located in our Procurement area. He would occasionally take a minute to stop by my office to chat. Peter saw on my bulletin board that I collected foreign currency, so on his last day on this project in the Cleveland office, he brought me currency from Australia to add to my collection to remember him. I will never forget. My sincere condolences to his family. May God Bless.
M Erdõs
September 12, 2002
My deepest sympathy to the Gyulavary Family. I wish you peace of mind.
I read somewhere that Peter had Hungarian roots. Allow me to share a beautiful poem by an American Indian (author unknown). Here it is both in English and Hungarian(it was translated three years ago when someone very dear passed away...)
NORTHWEST INDIAN MEMORIAL
ON DEATH (Indian memorial, author unknown)
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there.
I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glint on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the autumn rain.
When you awake in the morning hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of birds circling in flight.
I am the stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there.
I do not sleep.
------
Síromnál ne állj könnyezve,
Én nem ide vagyok
Eltemetve.
Benne fújok ezer szélben,
Csillogok a havon télen,
Érett kalászon a napfény én vagyok,
S õsszel az esõ is belõlem csorog,
Hajnali csendet ha zavarja lépted,
Rebben a madárraj, - kavargását nézzed!
Ott repülök én is, velük, szerte-széjjel,
S a csillagok fénye rejt el minden éjjel.
Hát ne állj a síromnál könnyezve,
Nem vagyok itt -
Nem vagyok eltemetve.
.........
My very best wishes.
ME
Alicia Piascik
September 11, 2002
Dear Gyulavary family:
My family and I wish to extend to you our deepest condolences for the loss of your dad and husband. May God and his angels watch over both of you and we will keep Peter in our prayers.
Sincerely,
Alicia Piascik & family
P.S. Maybe someday I'll see the yellow and green house when driving through Warwick.
Cherrie Weatherford
September 11, 2002
On this anniversary of 9-11, I think of Peter, whom I had only known (by telephone and email) for several months as we worked together on a proposal and presentation. He was always the professional engineer, but did not let that professionalism get in the way of a sincere concern for the welfare of others. And of course, he could not suppress that great sense of humor. I last heard Peter's voice with its cheery Australian accent when we spoke on Friday, Sept. 7, 2001. My heart goes out to you, Jane and Geniveve.
Alissa Waite
September 11, 2002
I worked with Peter on a project for my firm via phone and e-mail. His voice is always in my head with his distinctive accent. He put a face on 9/11 for many of us far away.
julianne cane
September 11, 2002
i don't know peter, but it doesn't stop me from feeling sorry for his family.
i to like peter am an australian, and to his family i would like to give my condolences in your loss.
may he live on in your hearts forever.
Terry Scheckwitz
September 6, 2002
I only met Peter over the telephone. We spoke several times over the summer discussing my possible employment with The Washington Group's New York office. His personality seemed to reveal a dynamic, foward-thinker and someone very easy to get along with. My heart is saddened and my prayers are with you.
Lucille Rushing
July 10, 2002
Although I have never met Mr. Gyulavary, I have met with his wife and she graciously gave me a lovely memory book filled with pictures of her husband, their wedding and their daughter. He will always be missed but more importantly, he will always be remembered. I will cherish his book.
Bonnie Todd
June 26, 2002
I first met Peter several years ago through a mutual friend in the transit business, and we quickly hit it off. Whenever we would attend the same business conferences, we would get together and talk about all kinds of stuff from business to philosophy and world events. Peter frequently spoke of his love for Australia and his daughter. He was so bright and such a character! I will never forget him.
God bless you Peter, your family, and everyone you left behind.
Donna Vandiver
May 27, 2002
We worked with Peter in St. Louis on the MetroLink project when he was with STV. Amy Crump and I enjoyed his visits back to St. Louis, and we will all miss him. Condolences to Jane and Gen.
Angie Campbell
April 30, 2002
May God Bless you and watch over the ones that you left behind on 9/11/01. Rest in peace...........
Elise Allen
April 24, 2002
I also met Peter when he was in Cleveland for MK/WGI. He was a pleasure to work with!
Arlene Jenkins
February 13, 2002
I had the pleasure of working with Peter briefly when MK-Centennial had an office in Cleveland. Peter was full of energy and life, always a "Gentlemen" and considerate of others. May God strengthen you and your family in the days ahead.
Cedra Chambers-Westbrook
February 13, 2002
I met Peter a couple of years ago when he moved to Clevland, Ohio to work on the RTA proposal. Peter's personality and energy is contagious. He was kind and gentle. My prayers are with you and your daughter. May GOD Bless you and keep you may his grace and mercy be with you and give you peace both now and forever more
Cedra Chambers-Westbrook
January 29, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL YOUNG MAN PETER GYULAVARY AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS...STAY CLOSE AND NEVER FORGET..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND THE GOOD PEOPLE OF AUSTRAILA..MAY ST.PETER MEET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Cathy Conti
January 16, 2002
Dear Jane and Gigi,
I don't know what to say...although I only met Peter a few times, our moms have been so close over the last 30 years we feel that we lost a family member too. We love you and wish we could be with you both and Lil and Tony. We think of you every day and pray for you always. Love, Cathy
Ron Wrucke
January 16, 2002
.. what a loss!! Peter worked with me at Stone & Webster for several years - Everyone that worked with Peter, top to bottom and client alike, all found Peter's personality irresistible .. I homebrew, and Peter liked a good beer now and then as well .. he was always going to bring me a beer back from 'down unda' (and it sure wouldn't have been a Fosters!) .. I was so disappointed when he left Stone & Webster; he was missed then; he is missed now .. Cheers, Mate!
Melissa Pearson
January 16, 2002
I received a Mercy Band this week bearing Peter's name and I wanted to learn more about him. I don't really know what to say except that I hope you will find the healing you need and that your lives will grow because of Peter's love, not inspite of him being gone. God bless you, and be assured that there is someone out there praying for you daily, even if she is very far away.
Teresa Jahn
December 30, 2001
May Peter's life and love (along with his toolbelt and love for yellow and green) live on in those who love him. Thank you for sharing your warm love story with us. May you always feel the warmth of his love radiate into your hearts. We are deeply sorry for your loss of Peter. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Barbara Tulko
December 7, 2001
Although it seems as life goes on as "normal"...things will never be the same, nor will I, every American, or people throughout the world ever forget or stop praying for the people who were lost on September 11th.
I made the acquaintance of Peter Gyulavary, his wife and daughter recently, when I worked with them to help them purchase an apartment in Weehawken. Peter was so full of enthusiasm because he had found himself a "handyman special" and I just knew that he intended to make this apartment something really great. Peter and his family intended to be part-time residents of Weehawken, and in fact, the night before he perished, Peter became a "Weehawkenite" by staying at the new place...and I was really looking forward them becoming new neighbors in my community. Although very sadly, that will not come to pass, I am happy to have had the pleasure of knowing and working with Peter Gyulavary...a guy who you could not forget ! To Jane and Geneveve...my heartfelt sympathy.
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