John "Jay" Lennon

John "Jay" Lennon

John Lennon Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 21, 2001.
A Perfect Mesh
When your name was John Lennon, you had to go with a nickname. John Lennon's father, also John, went by Jack. John Lennon himself went by Jay. His own son, John III, is sticking with John, though his mother, Patricia, said, "I tell him, watch what you do."

With the other children, Melissa, Katie and Christopher, there's no issue.

Mr. Lennon, 44, was a Port Authority police officer who worked out of Jersey City and served as a court liaison who transported prisoners. He lived with his family in Howell Township, N.J.

Patricia and John met when they were 15, living in nearby neighborhoods of Brooklyn. He went to an all-boys school and she went to an all-girls school. A mutual friend introduced them. She was quiet. He was gregarious. A perfect mesh. Soon after, they became a permanent item. "It was love at first sight," Mrs. Lennon said. "I never had a desire to look at anyone else and neither did he. We saw each other every day." They were married at 23.

"He made a comment to a friend a few years after we met that at 16 he knew I was the girl he was going to marry," Mrs. Lennon said. "When I heard that, I thought he was crazy. But he knew. He knew."

Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on November 20, 2001.


Officer John Lennon, died saving others

John Lennon Sr. recounts the story as a tribute to his son, John "Jay" Lennon of Howell, one of 37 Port Authority police officers lost in the terrorist attack on the World Trade Center.

The elder Lennon said his granddaughter, Katie Lennon, 12, one of Mr. Lennon's four children, was watching a survivor of the tragedy being interviewed on television when the individual said he and many other people owed their lives to an "Officer Lennon" who led them out of the smoke-filled building to safety. Lennon Sr. said the survivor then added that when he turned to thank him, his son was already heading back into the building to attempt to rescue others.

From 1993 until early this year, Mr. Lennon, 44, had been a member of the Port Authority's Emergency Service and Rescue Unit. In 1993, he had the grim role of pulling the dead from the rubble of the World Trade Center following the terrorist bombing there. Mr. Lennon received three excellent police duty citations for his heroics.

"There were 117 miles of corridors in the World Trade Center," his father said. "The emergency services unit knew every inch."

Mr. Lennon could have retired two years ago with 20 years of service, his father said, but enjoyed his career too much to quit. Officer Lennon was in Jersey City, where he was assigned as a court liaison, when he learned of the terrorist attack and joined in the rescue response.

"As a police officer, Jay was very conscientious, very caring," said Sgt. Ed Spinelli of Millstone Township, a former partner on the rescue unit. "This guy never had a complaint against him, and I don't think he ever went sick. He had a perfect record and a lot of commendations for rescues."

Mr. Lennon's father recalled that his son was leery of heights and would ask him to repair roofing problems for him. "One day I open the Daily News and there he is rappelling off the Brooklyn Bridge to grab and save a potential suicide victim," he fondly recalled.

Mr. Lennon was raised in Brooklyn and starred as a basketball player at Nazareth High School. He graduated from St. Francis College there. He and his father teamed up to coach baseball in the Howell Central Little League for 12 years. He also coached baseball and basketball at St. Veronica's School in the township for two years.

In addition to his father and daughter, Mr. Lennon is survived by his mother, Lucille; his wife, Patricia Poole Lennon; another daughter, Melissa, 20; sons John III, 18, and Christopher, 10; a brother, James; a sister, Nancy Lennon Frain; and other relatives.

A memorial Mass will be held at 11:30 a.m. tomorrow at St. Veronica's Roman Catholic Church, 4215 Route 9 North in Howell. A candlelight vigil will be held at 7 p.m. Sunday at the Howell Municipal Complex on Preventorium Road.

A memorial fund has been established for the Lennon children. Donations may be sent to: Peter W. Kenny Esq., P.O. Box 580, Red Bank, N.J. 07701.

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September 11, 2024

Babs Serena posted to the memorial.

March 16, 2023

Donnamarie posted to the memorial.

March 15, 2023

Robert Rhoades posted to the memorial.

Babs Serena

September 11, 2024

Just thinking about Jay & you all today as was on 9/11/01
Love you Jay

Donnamarie

March 16, 2023

Hey Jay,

Happy birthday, Jay, this is just a little note in remembrance of you on your birthday. I know I am a day late but believe you me, you were very much on my mind yesterday. Just to let you know I'm still praying for you, your family and all VOT. God bless you.

Peace, love & thanks
Donna

Robert Rhoades

March 15, 2023

Never Forgotten. One of the Best Families on the block.

Donnamarie

September 12, 2021

Jay, it has been 20 years since our world was thrown into utter chaos, and you and so many like you stepped up to the plate, saving so many people you didn't know. For some of us the 20 years went in the blink of an eye, while others the 20 years was a lifetime of missing you. I am reminded of all the families who had to live without loved ones because of that day, who special moments were bittersweet because you weren't there. Jay, I know you would mostly likely be retired by now, but I don't know how you would like the world today. I just wanted to let you know I am still thinking and praying for you & all the VOT everyday, but especially today the 20th anniversary..sending much love, prayers and pride to all the heroes of 911. Thank you for your sacrifices.

Andy Smith

September 11, 2021

Lennon Family,

My family and I participated in a 9/11 memorial stair climb today in Colorado. It was sponsored by our local Police and Fire Departments. Each participant today wore a badge with the name and picture of a first responder who made the ultimate sacrifice that day, and I choose John Joseph Lennon Jr. I am so very proud to have worn his badge with me this morning as we climbed the steps of our local sports arena. I can't imagine not being here for my children, and I hope that Jay's children that grew up without their father can recognize what an amazing public servant he was. I wanted to reach out to Jay's family and let them know that I have been reading as much as I can about their father/son/husband/brother, and that he has not been forgotten.
Thank you Jay, for running into harms way when others were running away...
Andy

Donnamarie

September 12, 2020

Jay,
Its been 19 years that seem like yesterday...The things happening in this world today would make you cry. I am here to pay tribute to you today, to make sure you, your brethren and all the VOT are not forgotten. Thank you & your family for your sacrifice & unselfishness of that day. I'm sorry I'm so blue today but our world today has let us all down. I only pray this pandemic ends soon and we can get back to a new normal. I am so very sorry to read about the passing of your father, prayers for him as well. Jay, as always, I am praying for you and God bless you, RIP
Prayers, love & peace
Donnamarie

Donnamarie

September 12, 2020

Jay,
Its been 19 years that seem like yesterday...The things happening in this world today would make you cry. I am here to pay tribute to you today, to make sure you, your brethren and all the VOT are not forgotten. Thank you & your family for your sacrifice & unselfishness of that day. I'm sorry I'm so blue today but our world today has let us all down. I only prayer this pandemic ends soon and we can get back to a new normal. Jay, as always, I am praying for you and God bless you, RIP

Jill Stuart

September 11, 2020

I didn't know you Jay, but I knew your father, and I like to think that you are together again....I pause and think of you every 9/11 and your Father is included in that prayer. God bless you and your family and thank you for your service.....

Donnamarie

March 15, 2020

Hey Jay,

Happy birthday, I guess by now you would be retiring or maybe you would still be putting in just a bit more...either way I wish you were still here to do it..I still pray for you and all the VOT. Jay, this is just a note in remembrance of you on your birthday..God bless you.
Peace, love & thanks
Donna

Donnamarie Meiluta

September 15, 2019

Omg! Jay I didnt forget about you this year, you will forever be in my prayers and thoughts...but I kept meaning to sign into your legacy page but others things kept getting in the way...i lost my mom this year and i asked her to find you and to give you a hug for me, so if a strange woman gives you a hug you will know why. As always my respect, honor, thankfulness and prayers...

Deborah Rush

September 14, 2019

Another year but not forgotten.

Tony Krob

September 11, 2019

We, as a country, should never forget the sacrifice of those who gave their lives to help save others on 9/11. I wish you the best and would offer just one verse. Jeremiah 29:11. For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

MITCHELL HOBBS

March 16, 2019

~ Happy Birthday 'Jay' ~

Robert Rhoades

March 15, 2019

Happy Birthday

Donnamarie

March 15, 2019

Happy birthday Jay, another year has gone by, but you are never forgotten nor far from my mind. My wish for you this birthday is that your family is doing well.

Donna Meiluta

September 11, 2018

Jay,
Here it is 17 years later, yes I said 17 years, those years went by in the blink of an eye, yet also were neverending...That's the funny thing about time while you are living it it takes forever, but as you look back it seems like it was gone before you had time to realize it. RIP Jay, my friend, my hero. You and the rest of the VOT are gone, but never forgotten...Peace

Donnamarie

March 16, 2018

Raising a glass in Ireland...Slainte'...Jay on your 61st birthday...RIP...VOT...091101

Mitchell Hobbs

March 16, 2018

Happy birthday Jay~

Robert Rhoades

March 15, 2018

Happy Birthday In Heaven Jay. Until we meet again, Never forgotton.

missions~with god

February 16, 2018

Brass knuckles to you John for your service to New York~

My run also served another hero! :)

David Juliot

September 9, 2017

Today, I ran a 5K race in Kronenwetter, WI; The "Run For The Fallen"... I randomly selected John "Jay" Lennon's "badge" and wore it during the race and the remainder of the day. I was pleased to discover in this obituary that he was a hero that I am thankful to have honored. RIP Officer Lennon.

Robert Rhoades

March 16, 2017

Another birthday in Paradise Heaven for this perfect example of a man. Rest in peace Jay.

may you have wings on your first flight in heaven

MITCHELL HOBBS

March 16, 2017

happy birthday "j'

Donnamarie

March 15, 2017

Hello Jay,

Stopping by to wish you a happy 60th birthday...You have changed my life in so many ways without ever meeting you...your generosity and unselfishness should be a lesson to us all. I am sending prayers to you and your family today. Happy Birthday Jay... RIP

With gratitude and love,
Donnamarie

November 18, 2016

may christ be always in your quarter horse bets

donnamarie meiluta

March 15, 2016

Happy Birthday Jay...

Donnamarie

September 11, 2014

Hello Jay,

I still don't know what to say to you. Your sacrifice and unselfishness has made a big impact on my life. Not just because of 911 but in smaller ways in my life. I now know we are all connected in way we cannot fathom, and we should always help our neighbor no matter what is in it for ourselves. Jay that is the lesson you taught me, and for that I thank you.

Jay, you are always in my heart and one day it will be my pleasure to meet you, but until then I will carry on your legacy.

With honor and respect

Robert Rhoades

September 11, 2014

Rest in Peace you Great Role Model and Hero. Thanks for showing me how to throw a spiral football. You will never be forgotton.God Bless and Eternity.Robert Rhoades formally 1276 East 31st Brooklyn N.Y. U.S A.

Holly Noyes

July 9, 2014

Hi

I just visited New York and New Jersey. With a heavy heart I visted Eagle Rock, Liberty State Park and the WTC memorial.

I saw John's name amongst the thousands at Liberty State park and recognised it as most people did I imagine. I thought of what a nuisance it must have been to him to have such a famous name. But it imprinted him in my mind. At the second memorial I seeked him out and found his age and his home town. At WTC in NYC I searched and searched reading every name till I found John's where I found his job, his nickname and his colleagues. And now on Google I find his heroism and his kind eyes. I wish I could look up every name and every story but I am very glad that I looked up John's.

What a wonderful, loved and heroic gentleman. I am so sorry for your loss.

Holly Noyes, 29, London

S j. Friscia III

May 6, 2014

In Memory
With Honor & Respect.

March 17, 2014

Donnamarie Meiluta

March 17, 2014

Jay,
I know I am late, but I was thinking about you on Saturday, just wanted to stop by and say "Happy Birthday"
Love & Respect
Donnamarie

Donnamarie

September 11, 2013

Jay,

Another year has gone by, but the tragedy of this day has not lessened. As the years go by, I am reminded of all the good and bad times where you will be missed by your family. My heart goes out to your wife and children, and your parents. I have had the great honor of emailing with your father, he is a wonderful man and thank you for letting me get to know him. Jay, I am extremely proud of you and of all the souls who gave without a second thought.
With love, honor and respect
Donnamarie

Chris Benigno

August 5, 2013

Jay,
I just signed up to run the Tunnel to the Towers race in your honor next month. I'm trying to get John to run it with me. It'll be the 1st race we run together since '98, I'm sure you were there to see that one and I know you'll be watching us run this one. Not many days go by where I don't think about what you did, and I never miss a chance to tell your story and let people know that "my coach was a hero".

April 27, 2013

Hey Uncle Jay,
I have been thinking about you a lot. I love and miss you so much!
Lots of love,
L

Mike Harris

October 13, 2012

Today, 10-13-2012, the 9-11 Memorial Stair Climb was held in Charlotte, NC. I climbed the 110 flights of the Duke Energy Building in honor of John 'Jay' Lennon. I am a Captain with the Charlotte-Mecklenburg Police Dept. We were given a name of a hero that died on 9-11 and it was with honor that I carried his name every flight in memory of him. God speed. Mike Harris

September 11, 2012

Hello Jay,

Today is 09/11/12, it is so hard to believe that 11 years have past, when it seems like only yesterday. I know that time escapes us when we are not paying attention. I just want to say your memory never escapes me, I think about you and say a prayer or two for you almost daily. Jay, you may be gone but will never be forgotten.
In Memory with Love and Respect
Donnamarie

Donnamarie Meiluta

September 11, 2012

Hello Jay,

Today is 09/11/12- as hard is it is to believe 11 years have past, but you and all VOT are in our hearts and prayers as if it were only yesterday. I must say I think of you and your family a great deal. On this day, I say an extra prayer not only for the VOT, but also for their survivors.
Thank you for your sacrifice
With much Love and Respect
Donnamarie

Halinka Burke

September 10, 2012

God bless you Jay.

Donnamarie

March 15, 2012

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Jay,
Although there is no cake or candles here today, just love from a friend who wants to say Happy Birthday, and hoping somehow you can see and know that we have not forgotten you.
That we still remember, even though you've departed. And if you see us here below and wonder why we care
It's just because we want to show hat a part of you is still here. You live within each memory's heart and so you will remain.

Sunday September 11, 2011

Debbie Rush

September 11, 2011

Patti and family, special thoughts and prayers for you. I think of you often. While visiting with my kids in Virginia Beach, we turned on the TV today and the camera zoomed in on an officer and his small son at the memorial....the name in front of them bright and clear: John Joseph Lennon Jr. I started to cry and my son took a picture of the screen for me. I will try and post it. God bless you and surround you with his love and comfort. Miss you but I have that angel to look at everyday to remind me of you!

September 11, 2011

RIP Mr John "Jay" Lennon

from
Miss A Lennon (UK)

Kara Lennon

September 11, 2011

Please except my condolensces. My name is Kara Lennon, and although we are not related my dad was also a police officer and died at the age of 44. As I watched the ceremonies on NBC today, the cameras were scanning the new memorial site and the wall of names, and I saw John Joseph Lennon Jr., and I instantly felt sad for your family and sat at my computer to find out more about "Jay" and his life. I will forever pray for your families healing and from one Lennon to another and the daughter of a fallen police officer, I can imagine the pain you feel. May we all heal in time. Rest in peace, JOHN "JAY" Lennon. God bless You
Sincerely
Kara Lynne Lennon
Whippany, NJ
[email protected]

Donnamarie

September 11, 2011

Time is passing, but there will be no forgetting September the 11th 2001. We will remember every one who died with honor. We will remember every family that lives with grief. We will remember the fire and ash, the last phone calls, and the funerals. On this tenth anniversary of your death, I am still so deeply humbled by your bravery and sacrifice. You are never far from my thoughts and prayers. Even though I have never met you personally I feel as though you are a part of my family. An family member who deserves the love and respect just because of who you are. Love, honor and prayers forever

Jeanne Governale

September 10, 2011

To the Lennon Family...On this 10th Anniversary of Jay's passing know that we think of you and pray for all of you often. There isn't a day that we don't think about that tragic day. I remember soon after the attacks I received an email with a picture of the wreckage of the WTC below and the smoke forming an image of the arms of Jesus and Him scooping those souls up with him to Heaven. It gives me peace knowing in my heart that all those first responders and innocent people that lost their lives that day are in Heaven. I remember how sad our family was when hearing of Jay's loss especially my parents Sally and Russell Governale. They watched him grow up as a boy along with Jimmy and Nancy....as parents they were so saddened to know of the heartbreak Lucille and Jack were going through as well as for his wife and children.
My Mother's favorite hymn in Church was "Let there be Peace on Earth". When I hear it I think of Jay and all those who sacrificed their lives that day for the sake of others and who continue to sacrifice their lives everyday for our Country.

God Bless you all...

Jeanne Governale-Hunt and the entire
Governale Family

Donnamarie

September 20, 2010

Jay--

These loving wishes I convey no matter where you are
Hoping you look tonight upon the same bright star as I
Stars are the gifts above which we both can share
As silver paths transport wishes from here to there
I wish you sweet dreams as I view the stars tonight
Each one sent with love and hope
As the moon shone bright tonight
The stars glisten with love and hope shining through
Count upon my thoughts as I will always be thinking of you.

September 6, 2010

"If tears could build a stairway,
And memories a lane,
I'd walk right up to Heaven
And bring you home again."

Donnamarie

March 15, 2010

Death leaves a heartache
no one can heal;
Love leaves a memory no
one can steal

Happy Birthday, Jay

December 7, 2009

In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit.

Thank you

Donnamarie Meiluta

December 7, 2009

Hey Jay,

Just thinking about you during this holiday season and wanted to say, Thank you.

Donnamarie

December 5, 2009

Uncle Jay,
I love you and you will always be my hero xoxoxoxoxoxo

December 5, 2009

Uncle Jay,
I love you and you will always be my hero xoxoxoxoxoxo

Isaac Davis

September 21, 2009

I am doing a project on you at school it seemed fit to sign your book. I will do my best to portray you as best I can and I hope I do you justice.

in my prayers,
Isaac Davis

Donnamarie Meiluta

September 10, 2009

Hello Jay,

Once again it is September, and as always, you are in the forefront of my mind.

Another year has gone by, but within that year I have become friend with your father.

I just want to say that you are in my thoughts and prayer always, and again thank you.

God Bless you, Jay.

In my prayers
Donnamarie

Donnamarie Meiluta

March 16, 2009

Hello John,

Just wanted to wish you a happy birthday, I know it was yesterday, but I didn't forget you. Just want to say Happy Birthday, and thank you

Donnamarie Meiluta

September 11, 2008

John, once again I am here to let you know how proud I am of you and to let your family know that I appreciate the sacrifice they have made for us all.

Today, maybe the 7th anniversary of your death, but to me it is as if it was just yesterday or last week.

God bless you John, you are in my thoughts and prayers daily.

Donnamarie

Cathy

September 11, 2008

Jay Lennon was a few years ahead of me at OLHC and I remember he had the greatest smile. He worked at Schmelk's on Avenue M. I remember on 9/11 hearing he was lost and thinking of the joy and kindness in his sparkling Irish eyes.

Gayl Johnson

September 11, 2007

Jay, I knew you only through your dad, whom I worked with. He always bragged about you. May you find confort in Gods arms. I pray for you and your family & will never forget your courage.

Donnamarie Meiluta

September 11, 2007

John
Just wanted to say thanks again, and to let you know that you are always on my mind. I will never forget you and everyone else who died today six years. My prayers are with you always.
Thank you John!

Donnamarie Meiluta

March 15, 2007

John,
Just wanted to pop in and say "Happy Birthday"

P Tabbernor

December 6, 2006

In memory....

Kristine

November 2, 2006

As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

Glenn Grimstad

September 8, 2006

John,, I knew your father at work for a short time, and from him I can understand the person you are.... You will be missed...

DEBBIE RUSH

September 11, 2005

Patty and family....not a day goes by that I do not think of you and keep you in my prayers. I have a picture of John's name from ground zero and keep it next to the porcelin angel doll you gave me one Christmas. On this anniversary I am still thinking of you and hope you are doing well living on with good memories of the wonderful life you had. God Bless...Debbie

jimmy dresch

September 11, 2004

hello mr and mrs lennon and patty and your great family---its 3 years--no one will forget and you all are always in my thoughts and in my prayers. I can still see Jay beating me to the hoop--he was and is a real winner---God Bless him and you all Jimmy Dresch

Leigh Casey

September 11, 2003

I'm so sorry for your loss. Mr. Lennon's name was mentioned in our 9/11 service. In our Language Arts class today, we were asked to describe what makes a hero. I think Mr. Lennon is a perfect example of one.

Matt Worman

June 13, 2003

My deepest sorrows go out to all of you. I was once a student at St. Veronica's in Howell in classes with Melissa. I too lost friends on that day and have still been doing what I can to cope, but this family lost not only a friend but a Hero - and a father; the best hero's there are. Mr. Lennon holds a special place in all of us, and will not be forgotten.

Ann Monteleone

March 9, 2003

I didn't know of Jay's passing until my mother told me, when discussing of a close friends husbands life was lost in the WTC. Jay was the big brother to all of us kids growing up on E. 31st St. in Brooklyn. Like Danny S. said Jay was always invovled in sports playing whiffle ball with the younger kids, tossing the football or playing basketball with his brother Jimmy, Sal & Danny. He & Jimmy were great teenagers to look up to for the bunch of us who were 7yrs - plus years younger. I always remember my sister Diane hanging out with them, they would hang out & listen to the stereo on the stoop all the time; those are my fondest memories of Jay. My thoughts & prayers are with his parents, Jimmy, Nancy, Peggy & his children. I read recently a note to editor in "Instyle" mag (03/03 issue) & saw Melissa Lennons name - reguarding her father Jay - your dad was a hero & believe me he will never be forgotten & will always be honored in many peoples eyes with or without a tv tribute. America knows what he did for those people he saved and I am very proud of him also. God Bless ~

Jimmy Dresch

January 20, 2003

not a day goes by that I don't think of Jay - even though we lost touch after college- he was always a great friend and we went through alot together growing up-he always gave you everything he had- it's true that your real friends are the ones that you grew up with- I'm proud to say I knew him- God bless you Jay- and may He watch over your great family.

Jimmy Dresch

"A Good Man"

Chaplain Greg Carpenter

January 10, 2003

"The life given us by nature is short, but the memory of a life well spent is eternal." – Cicero

God has blessed us with the gift of memory. Although, I have never met John Lennon, reading his name on the ornament hanging from the Christmas tree located at the PAPD Command Center and then by chance (providence?)meeting his family at the Police Memorial in D.C. five months later, has firmly planted the loss of his loved ones on my heart. My prayers go out to all who grieve his absence.

Nancy MacLachlan

December 18, 2002

I knew Jay as a teenager in Brooklyn. I lived across the street from Our Lady Help of Christians and Jay was a permanent fixture on the basketball court.My brother Kevin and Jay's brother Jimmy were good friends. He was always a nice guy and I was so saddened to here of his death. My deepest sympathies to his lovely mother and father and his wife and children, his sister and brother.

Donnamarie Meiluta

September 19, 2002

I purchased a bracelet, I received the name John J. Lennon, I curious about him, put his name in as a search on google and came across this site, I just wanted to let his family know that he will never be forgotten because every person I come in contact with see his name on my wrist and will be asked to say a prayer for him and his family.

Debi Hodge

September 13, 2002

On September 11, 2002, I went to Mass to pay tribute to my fellow fallen Americans. As we entered the church, each person was given a ribbon, with the name of one of the brave heroes taken from this earth too soon. On my ribbon was printed, John J. Lennon. At the end of mass, all of the congregation read the name that they had received. Afterwards, I wanted to find out more about this person, who I was suddenly connected to, even through NY and TX are so far away. I went online to the NY Times. I feel so honored to have this police officers ribbon. NY has always been one of my favorite places, and I just wanted to let Mr. Lennon's family know that he is not forgotten, and they are in my prayers. I have a NYPD t-shirt that I bought after the tragedy, but now it has taken on a whole new meaning for me, I will always think of Mr. Lennon and his heroism, when I wear that shirt.

Dan Silecchia

September 11, 2002

What can I say, when I first heard from my Mom that Jay died in the attack I was shocked. Then when I was in a bookstore looking at books about 9/11 my hear sank as I read his story. I was a neighbor of the Lennon's and a close friend to Jimmy, his brother. I recall many times playing wiffleball with Jay and others on the streets of Brooklyn. I have lost touch with many I knew in Brooklyn, but this event brought me back home. I will pray that God will strengthen the Lennon's through this loss.

Colin Lennon

September 11, 2002

My prayers and thoughts are with our family as we gather our memories of those that are now with God. Although I have never met my cousin, my heart is moved for those that are left to remember. To my Uncle John and all of his family, my prayers are with you.

Angie Campbell

May 3, 2002

**********GOD BLESS YOU**********

February 21, 2002

DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS YOUNG MAN JOHN (JAY) LENNON AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY JESUS AND ST.JOHN GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN..AMEN

Diane Monteleone

December 28, 2001

I too remember when Patty met Jay...I lived across the street and grew up with Jay's light hearted teasing til I was about 17! I knew they would get married! They dated forever! I ran into Jay at the WTC about 1987...I had just moved to NJ and my parents moved to Arizona years before (1979) When I walked past him standing at his post, I did a doubletake! I said "Jay?" He said "Diane?" Well, we just laughed! After all those years! We caught up with each other's lives. Growing up across the street from the Lennons, our families were'nt close, but we went to the same church, grammar schools, onto girls/boys high schools. I learned about the tragedy of Jay while reading the paper one Sunday during the World Series...Mayor Guiliani brought a few of the survivors spouses to the NY/AZ game here at the BankOne Ballpark....Patty Lennon was quoted. I was shocked! Told my mother, and we both cried! We are saddened to discover that Jay was lost in this horrific terrorist activity!

Our hearts go out to the entire family!

Diane & Mary Monteleone

Phoenix, Arizona

Teresa Jahn

December 25, 2001

What a wonderful love story. We are deeply sorry for your loss of Jay. We than him for dedicating his life to protect others as a police officer. Such a dedication comes with a brave, warm, and caring heart filled with love for his fellow man. Our hearts cry with you in your loss of Jay.

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

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