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Robert Lane Obituary
Robert T. Lane was a man whose size might have been intimidating were it not for his magnetic smile. Name a sport, and this towering firefighter played it, but his favorite hobby was cooking.
"He'd go to restaurants and try to duplicate their food back at the firehouse," said his mother, Janet Lane.
Mr. Lane started work at Engine Company 55 three years ago this month. That was fitting, because November was the month his parents married and the month he and his sister were born.
This November, on their anniversary, the Lanes dined at Trattoria Romana, a restaurant near their Staten Island home. They ordered shrimp fra diavolo over linguine ‹ their son's favorite dish. They paid the check with a gift certificate he had given them.
Mr. Lane would have turned 29 on Nov. 29, and until last week his family planned to take a cake, lighted with candles, to the site of the World Trade Center on that day. But they learned last week that their son's body might have been among a group retrieved from the rubble, something that will still take weeks to confirm. So now they will have their cake at home, his mother said, "and hope he isn't down under there anymore."
Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on November 24, 2001.
ROBERT T. LANE, 28, of New York, was a firefighter and self-taught mechanic who hoped to take a souped-up 1983 Pontiac Grand Prix through its paces at a New Jersey race track in the spring. "It's a piece of junk as far as I'm concerned," said his mother, Janet Lane, "but he loved that car." Her son is among the firefighters missing at the World Trade Center site. Lane had always aspired to be a fireman. He was sworn in to the New York department in 1998, just days before his 26th birthday. Before that he had had a variety of jobs, from school bus driver to chef to bartender. "He did every odd job you could think of," his mother said. "He would just take these jobs and knew it wasn't going to be forever, because he was getting into the fire department and that was it."
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Rob Lane
September 10, 2019
Hello , my name is Robert Dean Lane, I found Roberts name as I searched for my friends and family while stationed with the Army in Germany after 9/11. Im sending my love and prayers to all his family and friends that suffered his loss. I am here, my heart is open to yo all.
Ellen Konrad
September 8, 2019
I completed a 9/11 memorial stair climb on 9/7/2019 in Green Bay, WI. When I checked in I received a badge bearing the name of Robert T. Lane to carry with me. I dedicated my climb in his name and thought of him throughout the 110 flights of stairs I climbed. I am 50 and honestly didn't think I would be able to complete all 110 flights. When I thought I may have to quit I thought of Robert's sacrifice and told myself that I can do this for him. When I reached the bell at about 3/4 through the climb I proudly said, "Robert Lane, Engine 55, thank you for your service!" I can proudly say we finished the climb and at the end I held up the badge and said thank you Robert for getting me through this. I will never forget this climb and I will never forget 9/11!! I work for Pierce Manufacturing and will keep his badge in hanging in my office so I will always remember how important it is to keep fire trucks in service. I am so sorry for your loss.
Marc Bruni
June 22, 2019
Hi Bobby. Hows things up top? My kids growing up fast. Today was Alexas 8th grade graduation and Rob finishing up junior year. Whenever I see him wearing a Bobby Lane t-shirt it brings a tear. Although he never met you, he holds a special place in his heart for you. We speak of you often. He has a bright smile like yours and the wit to match. Love ya brother, see ya at the big one!!
Alex Lai
June 21, 2019
I can imagine Robert doing everything he could to reach the WTC infernos and save lives before the towers crumbled. Sending warm regards and prayers to the Lane family whose lives truly changed after 9-11.
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Marc Bruni
September 10, 2017
Hey brother, whassss up? 2 days away from another anniversary. I miss you and wish you were here. Kids doing good, and I told you a few years back Robert and Kimberly, watch, you'll see. They look out for each other a bit. Alexa is my angel and you are theirs. I'm a lyfr I realize. Never gonna change. I'm running through life like a sprinter in a race, I just want to get to the end my friend. Then my pain will be gone. Love you Bobby, keep looking out brother.
Tyler Retel
September 9, 2017
It was an honor to climb 110 stories today in honor of Robert T. Lane, you will never be forgotten. Thank you for the service you provided on September 11th. My prayers go out to your family as we approach this anniversary.
Cathy Morone
September 11, 2016
Janet,
Thinking of you and your family in this sad sad anniversary. Cathy Morone
Wendy Lane
September 11, 2015
Robert whilst I never knew you , today I know you whilst we are not direct family sharing the last name means we will sbe linked togethe by ancestry .
I know that as lanes we are very big hearts and I am sure you went doing something that filled your heart with joy helping those. That couldn't help themselves
Engine 55 you will now be forever in my heart this day more even from the little far away place called Wellington New Zealand .
Marc Bruni
December 13, 2014
Hey my brother. I know your up there and I wish I could say all is well but it isn't. Many years after 9-11 I still agonized over your death and never came to terms with it. I ran away from the pain and buried my emotions inside a big white lie. I wish I could be stronger but after so many years of losing my self, I no longer know where to begin. I miss you. Things should have been different for us. Your a true hero Bobby, I'm becoming a zero. I.ve failed my family, children and myself. Shine some of that smile down this way, I could use it.
Love ya brother........
Marc Bruni
Robin Osborne
May 9, 2014
Made a visit to memorial and was drawn to your name You really are a hero and honoured your chosen life ambition to serve the people of Manhattan. You are not gone you still live on in the dreams of those you left behind.
S J. Friscia III
April 27, 2014
In Memory
With Honor & Respect.
Marc Bruni
February 13, 2014
Hey my brother. I miss all the things about you that made you who you were. Bobby, give me the strength to get through this. Little Robert is not so little. He,s 12 now and a fine young man. His sister, well she can be a handful, like me. But a real angel. Debs doing good. Still hurts my man. I truly loved you like only a brother could. Keep my babies safe, your their angel.
richard norberg
September 13, 2013
I never met you, Robert, but I knew your parents well. I went to school with your mom and dad, and your grandfather was my track coach at Curtis. Dickie and Janet, if you see this, email me. Lee and I would like to hear from you. Your son was and is a shining example of all that is good.
Bobby Sevret
September 12, 2013
I played football with Rob in College. Also was a pledge brother. I can remember him crashing on my couch when he couldnt make it back to SI some nights. He was a great man with an envied demeanor and national hero. Our hearts go out to all his family and friends- never forgotten!
"Fire Brigade" pic @ Universal Studios w/ Ryan & Lori
September 9, 2013
Amy
May 18, 2013
I ran in the Hero Rush today for Mr. Lane it was an aamazing honor to do so and I am proud of all his accomplishments he made.
elizabeth Angelone
September 13, 2012
I wish I had known this distant cousin of mine and that he could have lived to fulfill his destiny.
God bless all our fallen hero's!!
Brad Lane
September 12, 2012
Respect. From one Lane to another.
Christian Vega
September 11, 2012
Love Hope Peace Robert T Lane
Christian Vega
September 11, 2012
Hey bobby I heard of you from my teacher she is Ms lane I think she maried your cousin. I heard that u were 10 feet away from the exit when the building collapsed on you . And you were the flames of the cherry julibee and you were dancing . You were a great person I wish I was able to meet you
September 10, 2012
Hey my brother,how you doin? Were a day away from the 11th and as usual, your always on my mind. Time has helped a little with the anger and pain I go through, but I wear a mask to hide my true feelings. You are a great man, Bobby. Somedays I wonder if anyone could fill your shoes. I miss you. My son is becoming a fine and compassionate person. His smile is as bright as yours was, thanks for looking down on him. He really is my strength, along with his sister Alexa. Without them I'd be lost. Anyway, my brother, I love you and miss you just as much now as before. Keep lookin out!
Zac Couto
September 8, 2012
Bobby, Even though I have never met you I have heard so much about you from my wife Melanie who is your cousin. I just want to say Thank You for being so brave a doing what you did for FDNY. I will never get the chance to meet you but I will always think about you. Thank you
Dana Burke
September 12, 2011
Miss you, Bobby! Your friends will never forget you.
Aimee Lane
September 11, 2011
I never met you Bobby, but i found your name in the list of victims and thought it was amazing that i shared a connection of a last name with you! Who knows, we could even be somehow related. I just wanted to stop by and thank you for your dedication to help those in need. Youre a true hero, and i respect that you took measures to protect others lives instead of your own. Thank you so much, the words cant even describe.
Steven Wilson
September 11, 2011
My sister Barbarba just passed this memorial tribute to Bobby along and I am honored to add my name. I think all Americans think of those who lost their lives that awful day as military heroes - rightfully so. To have a cousin among them brings sadness but also strength knowing there is a connection to the greatest love and sacrifice one can give.
Melanie Kanter
September 11, 2011
Bobby, today would have been the 10 year anniversary of your passing. You were a great person through and through. A smile that could run a mile. You were so carasmatic and a wonderful person, you knew how to light up a room with a joke. We love you and miss you. From Aunt Annie and Mel
Barbara and Steven Wilson (Margaret (Peggy) Wilson's children
Barbara Wilson
September 11, 2011
I never met you Bobby but I found out about you through my cousin Marie Christiansen who lives in Arizona. Your grandmother was my mother, Margaret Mary OConnor's, cousin. I speak to Patsy, your grandmother's sister and hope to viist her soon.
Marc Bruni
September 11, 2011
Hey Bobby. Miss you as much as ever. Having a shot and a beer at 12 tomorrow, I know you'll be there. Your namesake, my son, Robert, is growing up to be a fine young boy. He is 9 now and knows all about you. Kimberly is in his fourth grade class,aint that funny. If he ends up 20 years from now marrying her dont kick my a&^. LOL Any way I really miss you as I'm starting to cry. Life's been tough w/o you. Keep shining down on us as I know you always do. Love you my brother!!
Cheri Vaniglia-Elliott
September 10, 2011
Robert,
You will never be forgotten- nor will your heroism and sacrifice. Thank you for being a hero and thank you for being a part of my life. I will always remember growing up with you. We will love you always.
Love,
me
September 9, 2011
10 Years. My God where did the time go?
The only thing that hasn't passed is the anger of having you taken from us so tragically. My only consolation is you are with your FDNY brothers and gave your life amongst the men and job you loved so dearly. The pain lingers on. You are forever missed. Forever loved <3
laurie sarcone
September 1, 2011
my dear Robert it me your friend Laurie ,i worked with you during our school bus driving excursion we had a ball everyday for two years we went out had great times always i miss that and you ,since you were one of my BFFs i still have a hand made birthday card you made me at work and will cherish it always <3 and i still till this day hear your voice "while we sat in boring classes LOL "im only gonna drive a bus till i get called for the fire dept everyday you talked about how you wanted to help people and save lives and you did ,my dear friend rob i will always and forever miss ,love and thank you , Laurie
Adam Burnham
September 11, 2010
Dear Robert and Family,
I am humbled to share that i climed 110 stairs in you and your families name today. I would like to offer all my thanks and support for you and your families sacrifice. You are a true hero to us all. It is in meare moments in life we see the meaning. I am glad today was one of them. I thank you again for it all. God bless you and know you are in my prayers tonight.
Adam Burnham,
firefighter
Jim Fish
September 10, 2010
Robert, I never met you, but you have been with me since 9-11. You are on my remembrance bracelet and have been with me on the job every day since. I thank you for what you did and you are still on every run with me.
LINDA REALE
October 26, 2009
DEAR ROBERT,EIGHT YEARS HAVE PASSED SICE YOU WERE TAKEN FROM US,I PASS YOUR RESTING PLACE EVERY DAY WHEN I COME HOME FROM WORKAND AS I DRIVE BY I SAY I LOVE YOU.I HAVE NOT BEEN THE SAME ROBERT , THE LIGHT WITHIN MY HEART HAS BEEN DIMED. I THINK ABOUT WHAT YOUR LIFE MIGHT HAVE BEEN LIKE IF THIS HORRIBLE CATASTROHEDID'NY HAPPEN,MARRAIGE ,CHILDREN, FAMILY AND FRIENDS SHARING WITH YOU. ONE DAY I WILL SE YOU AGAIN AND I KNOW YOU WILL BE STANDING THERE WITH A SMILE AND A HUG SAYING ,'HEY MA I'M GLAD TO SEE YOU, SAY A PRAYER FOR US ALL ROBERT THIS WORLD IS NOT THE SAME SINCE YOU WERE TAKEN AWAY ,LOVE ALWAYS MA FROM DUBOIS AVE
Jim Fish
September 24, 2009
Robert,
You don't know me. I am sorry for that. I am a firefighter in Dublin, Ohio. I am so thankful for you and all of your brothers bravery. I will never forget that day. Immediately after the attacks, I started reading about you and all your brothers. I now PROUDLY were a remembrance bracelet with your name and engine company on it. You now get to ride with me every 3rd day on the rescue. You and I have so much in common according to what I have read. I never take this bracelet off. You are with me when I am at work, playing softball, football, cycling... It doesn't matter what I am doing. I will never forget you and your brothers. You are truly "THE BRAVEST". God Bless you, your family and anyone who's life you ever touched.
Jim Fish
Rescue 92
Washington Township Fire
Dublin, Ohio
September 11, 2009
Robert you are truly a hero, and are missed so much. Santo always talks about the great memories from Hunter Mountain. I wish I had gotten to know you better. Hope you are resting in peace.
Lisa
Richard Norberg
September 11, 2009
I didn't know you, Robert, but I knew your dad, Richard. We went to high school together. We called him " Dickie ". When he graduated Curtis High School with me, he worked for Con Ed. He used to stop by and say " Hi! " to my parents when he was in the neighborhood of Clove Road. He married Janet Luthman, and became a proud father. I'm so sad for their loss, and yet I'm so proud of your heroism. Although I never met you, I feel that I know you.
Michael Lynn
September 11, 2009
September 11, 2009
WTC- Ground Zero
Vesey-Liberty-Church-West Sts
New York, NY 10083
Dear Mr. Robert Lane,
You are a true hero to me because you helped the citizens near the twin towers get to safety. I want to thank you for risking you life to save other people, you were a real hero on September 11, 2009.
My words cannot express how thankful we all are for you saving all of those lives needing saved that day. On September 11, 2009 many people died, but you risked your life to save as many as you could. As a fireman we thank you as you chose to serve and protect the citizens of 911.
Our country will always remember your services that day. Even though you didn’t know what would happen that day, you will never be forgotten from engine 55. Every Patriot day, we will remember you and you other hero’s on September 11, 2001.
Again thank you.
Sincerely, Michael Lynn
Michl Santino
September 11, 2009
Hey Bobby,
There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about you, especially cause your pic is right in front of me! lol Your always in my heart.
October 6, 2008
Stephanie
October 6, 2008
THANK YOU!
An American
September 12, 2008
In loving memory. Thank you for your sacrifice which allowed others life.
Kim Koppelman
September 11, 2008
Rob,
I just completed a mile run tonight Sept. 11, 2008 in honor of the 343 Firemen that perished that awful day. Each one of us carried a yellow ribbon with a name of one of the firemen. I carried your name. I just wanted to say Thank You for your service and what you did that day. You are definitely a hero and I know you are being rewarded in Heaven now. Kim
Jena
September 11, 2008
Rob,
I just heard your name at the memorial I cant believe how long it has been since we have all seen you. I just want you to know you will never be forgotten, and every once in a while I still sing a song in your honor at Danny Boys! keep a watch on us all and we will see you again one day!
Doug Abraham
November 29, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Michael iezzi
November 29, 2007
Robert,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
carmela siracusa
October 25, 2007
Rob,
you are one of the truest most thoughtful people that i have ever met. i am so happy that i had the chance to know you! always think of you!!!
Michael Bacchio
September 12, 2007
Miss you buddy....My birthdays are not the same without you??????
Michl
September 11, 2007
Everyday that goes by I still think of you. Missing you always!
Cheri Vaniglia-Elliott
September 10, 2007
Rob,
Thinking of you as the 6th anniversary approaches. You will always be in my heart, thoughts and prayers. May we meet again in a better place. Love you and miss you always,
Cheri Vaniglia-Elliott
Anthony Abramson
September 9, 2007
Hi Robert my name is Anthony Abramson. I am a friend of Danny Rosetti. I am sorry for what happen to you and every one else on that day. I have a picture of you on my myspace page to remember you and everyone else. I do want to thank you for doing your job. You will live in our hearts forever. and when it is my time and I see you in Heaven I would like to shake your hand. I will NEVER take my page down. It helps me remember Danny and
from talking to some friends and family of yours, and reading your page too I feel like I know you too.
I hope all is well with your loved ones and see you someday. TO BE CONTINUED.
Michael Bacchio
August 21, 2007
I miss you buddy.....
vito and eileen minucci
March 17, 2007
god bless you,
santino
February 16, 2007
Hi Rob -
Was just listening to a song that reminds me of 9/11 and of course you popped into my head. Your holiday is coming up...we will all have a drink for you.
P Tabbernor
December 2, 2006
In memory....
Michael Iezzi
November 29, 2006
Rob,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
A loved one lives forever in the hearts of those who cared.
A loved one lives forever in the memories that were shared.
Kristine
November 7, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Tania Torres
September 28, 2006
Tanks for saving peoples lives.
Richard & Brigitte O'Brien
September 11, 2006
Our thoughts are with you and your family on this, the fifth anniversary of September 11, 2001
Jennifer Hyatt
September 11, 2006
Thinking of you today and always...
Lori Kennedy
July 22, 2006
Rob,
It's been a while since I have been on this site. Ry and I have been working on another site for you. We're putting as much as we can together. We'll never forget, but we don't want anyone else to either. Perhaps it's my way of feeling close to you again. I guess it lessens the hurt a little when you are doing something. Maybe that's silly, but somehow it brings you closer. We miss you so much. It's hard to imagine you never met the girls... 2 and 3 years old now! They'll grow up knowing all about you - they see your pictures all over the house. Ryan even sometimes wears that ugly shirt of yours I hated so much. I sort of like it now. In 4 years your bracelet left my wrist twice for 10 minutes... tests at the hospital - they wouldn't allow it. Other than that - it's my way of keeping you with us always. Well, enough blathering from me. I was working on your other site when I came across Legacy again. Wanted to say that we love you.
Michael Bacchio
March 4, 2006
Hey rob......I think about every daY.....i Miss you so much ..you were like a brother to me ....
November 29, 2005
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ROB!
Michael Iezzi
November 29, 2005
Robert,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Michl Santino
October 31, 2005
Hey Rob,
Just wanted to wish My favorite Marlboro Man a Happy Halloween! Miss you a lot!
James Johnson
September 11, 2005
God Bless You...
Keith Williams
February 1, 2005
My name is Keith Williams from West Virginia. I am on the East Bank Volunteer Fire Department. I wear Robert's memorial bracelet and have for the last couple of years. I wear it every day in memory of him.
Michl Santino
December 1, 2004
Dear Bobby
I just wanted to say I think of you all the time, your always on my mind. I miss you!
Michael Iezzi
November 29, 2004
Robert,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Barbara Friedman
September 12, 2004
I didn't know you personally but I know Sue. I think of you and what you must have gone through - something that I wouldn't be nearly brave enough to do. And to your Mom - I hope his memory helps you through each day.
Stephanie Mulham
September 11, 2004
Bobby,
Missing you today and always...in our hearts forever.
September 11, 2004
Rob, I miss you so much and wish you were still here.
September 11, 2004
Rob,
Another anniversary in heaven. Those that were able to know & love you have truly been blessed by you soul.
We didn't know each other as well as some knew you, but I'm sure you are well aware that I think of you often.
Keep shining down on us... We all miss you!
August 25, 2004
Hey, thinking about you again..like always. I have not forgotten.
April 19, 2004
Bobby Lane
We just all miss you so much.
December 29, 2003
"Who can say for certain - Maybe you're still here - I feel you all around me - Your memories so clear - Deep in the stillness - I can hear you speak - You're still an inspiration - Can it be - That you are mine - Forever love - And you are watching over me from up above - Fly me up to where you are - Beyond the distant star - I wish upon tonight - To see you SMILE - If only for awhile to know you're there - A breath away's not far - To where you are" - Song by Josh Groban
Rob, I can't go a day without listening to this song and thinking of you - Thank you for everything.
MERRY CHRISTMAS & HAPPY HANUKAH
Love you........
Michael Iezzi
November 29, 2003
Rob,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
November 27, 2003
Happy Thanksgiving and Happy Birthday Rob!
November 20, 2003
Dear Rob,
There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you! It's funny that something happened recently that made me think of you more than ever! Did I just do that? Oh wait can we do that again? I know your laughing right now, I was that day! I pass you by almost every night. I wish things could be different right now, and you were here. I know ,I wont dwell on the last of your minutes here, but i will remember the years you were! It is still so hard knowing I wont see you for a while, but I know your still around me and oneday I'll see you again! I miss you! Oh and if I dont get a chance to write to you soon, Have a Happy 31st Birthday in Heaven! And no more shots please!
Karen Smith
September 14, 2003
I just received my bracelet with your name on it and will wear it proudly! I am forever greatful to your family for giving this world a hero and angel. I hope I do you proud by wearing your name. I am looking forward to the day when I go to heaven and see your smiling face.
With much love,
Karen
September 12, 2003
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY IN HEAVEN ANGEL. KEEP SMILING DOWN ON US. HUGS & KISSES
Samantha Camacho
September 11, 2003
rob,
i miss u more and more everyday.. i miss seein ur big simle and shiny bald head..dont 4get to eat your wheaties..i keep you with me all the time..ill see you when i get there..i love you more than life..rip
<3
s AmAnTHA
September 11, 2003
2 years - I still can't believe it - I went to your grave the other day, I haven't been there in awhile was always scared for some reason or another (btw u and me), but when i was there i felt like i can handle anything and it is because of you, you give me the strength for anything that comes my way. Thank you for everything - Love you and miss you all the time.
Judi Gage Lundh
September 11, 2003
I am Dick Gage's oldest daughter and a teacher in NH. Every year on this day- I make a small presentation to my classes, I will never forget- I pray for all of us
Judi Gage Lundh
Stephanie Mulham
September 11, 2003
I can't believe it's been two years since you've left us, but everyday feels like it happened just yesterday for me.
I miss you terribly but I find that when I feel the worst I think of you, and somehow it's all better.
Thank you for being that strength for me when I feel that all strength is lost.
Thanks for watching over me -- because I know that you are (and thanks for letting me know in the most subtle ways!!!).
Love you and miss you....
Stephanie
September 11, 2003
Bobby,
I worked and partied with you for about two years at Best Patio. God bless you and your family. I'll never forget you. I hope that's true for everyone who met you.
God bless you,
Bomba
September 8, 2003
It's been awhile since I last wrote, and I am sorry I haven't been around. Just to let you know I am still here, thinking of you and missing you EVERDAY. ---- Rob, just one question before I go, did I do the right thing???
Douglas Sahlberg
June 17, 2003
Robert,
I had the honor to work with your brothers (NYFD) on that tragic day. I am a K-9 officer trained in recovery out of Savannah Georgia. We were deployed on that horrible day and arrived on the morning of Sept 12. While working on the pile with some of your brothers we located a piece of fire equipment with your name on it. For the two weeks our team worked there we found several hundred items. For some reason unknown to me I felt a bond with you. To this day (6-17-2003) I don't know why. I had a wrist band with your name placed on it. I have worn it every day since that day. I was born and raised in Ridgewood N.J. and had visited the towers many times. My family and I visited your house (fire House)several months after 911. We spoke to several men from engine 55, they were very kind to us. We could see the pain they were feeling in their faces. I am so sorry for you and your family. You and your brothers that were lost that day are truely hero's. I can't imagine the pain your family must feel, but I am sure you must have been a wonderful person. With the most respect to you and your family, Doug Sahlberg and Family
Donnia
April 25, 2003
Robert,
You don't know me but i was given a 9-11 bracelet with your name on it as a gift. You are a hero! Thanks you for making this world a better place. You and your family will forever be in my thoughts and prayers.
Santino Family
April 8, 2003
Dear Rob,
Just wanted you to know, we miss you alot! Since the day you left all of us, nothing has been the same. OH and thanx for showing up in the weirdest places. You always put a smile on our faces. We love you and wish you were here right now.
January 22, 2003
Rob,
It's getting harder & harder each day. Just when I am feeling good and going on little things just remind me of what is missing and you are the only one I can talk to about it, and i know you are listening because when i am at the point i can't go on, you somehow make yourself present and I want to thank you for that, and I also want you to know I will be fine.. Miss & love you lots....
Michl Santino
January 17, 2003
Dear Rob,
Since you've been gone so many things have changed. I think of what u might be doing or where u might be on this day. I see your picture everyday, knowing that your not here! I miss you, especially your smile and laugh! You always brightened any room you entered. I hope to see you again one day! I miss you everyday and twice on Sundays!
Carol O'Connor
January 13, 2003
Hi Dick and Janet and Family. I just wanted to let you know I've been thinking about you and hoping you are doing well. I was hoping to see you to tell you in person at Steve's wake. I still cannot believe he is gone. Hope to pass by and stop to say hello soon.
Carol
Catalina Amatrudo
January 11, 2003
Dear Rob,
Not a day goes by that you are not in our hearts and in our thoughts. Every night I go to work I wear your prayer card on my ID badge and know that you will be with me during my shift, guiding me through any obstacle that comes my way. Although I would rather you were still here in person I know you are in spirit. Whenever Kenny and I feel we really need you, a mysterious nickle appears or one of your amazing family members. Being with them reminds us so much of you, especially Jay. He has you down pat. He makes us laugh and brightens our day the way you did. We love him so much for that. We also have the great blessing to have inherited a new set of parents thanks to you, and believe me I see where it all came from. And I don't have the words to say how beautiful KimBob is. She looks so much like her uncle. She bears the same hysterical and innocent smile (without the reeses). In our hearts and home we have a shrine dedicated to your memory and we thank God everyday that you are a part of our lives. Each story of you is so similar because with everyone you were the same, that's what I admire and miss the most about you. You were a hero to me in life and the same after. It's been so hard getting through the year and the holidays. Now that I'm losing the words and my composure,it's time to end this note. But not without saying from the bottom of my heart and Kenny's too, We love you.
Santino Family
December 23, 2002
We miss you so much everyday and twice on Sundays! Just want to wish you a Merry Xmas!
Janet Lane
November 30, 2002
Dear Robert, Yesterday would have been your 30th birthday. We had Thanksgiving dinner at Sue And Glenns. I can't begin to tell you how much you were missed. We can only thank you for the wonderful memories and the love that you gave us. Each day without you seems to be harder. We will be celebrating your birthday just the way you would have and somehow I know you will be there with us. Please keep your watchful big brother eye on Jason. He really misses you. Dad says hello too and he loves and misses you. I Love You Mommy .
November 29, 2002
Miss you........still.
Nicole
November 28, 2002
Wishing you a very Happy Birthday! You are missed by many & loved by everyone. Keep watching over us....
Irene
November 27, 2002
Hey Rob:
Just wanted to wish you a very Happy Birthday. This year you would have been 30 and don't think we are going to let that go by without doing it up; your mother would never let that happen. As we all gather together on Saturday, never let it be said that the alcohol/shots will be flowing and the memories will be shared.
Love,
Irene
P.S. Happy Turkey Day!!!!
Gina
November 26, 2002
just wanted to say Happy Birthday, and Happy Thanksgiving!
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